"Just Bang 'Em All" - Older Woman's Advice to Younger Women

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  • Опубліковано 6 бер 2024
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  • @petermartin9494
    @petermartin9494 3 місяці тому +1094

    Women love nothing more than to sabotage other women.

    • @mgtowski395
      @mgtowski395 3 місяці тому +44

      It's working.

    • @SGTSLACKASS
      @SGTSLACKASS 3 місяці тому +1

      Women give horrible advice. No one should ever listen to a women.

    • @Danzkaz
      @Danzkaz 3 місяці тому +54

      This…
      This has been studied using sports teams and they found women on the same team support each other less than men on opposite teams.
      Women are incredibly competitive, just less obviously so.

    • @IvyMay-qn2ys
      @IvyMay-qn2ys 3 місяці тому

      Women is an old Sumerian word meaning cum dump.

    • @moosehead482
      @moosehead482 3 місяці тому +28

      This has its roots in our ancient past. The woman who got the "best" man, the strongest, richest, best looking, had a much higher chance of survival for her and her offspring. We have not progressed very far from that...

  • @Arbognire
    @Arbognire 3 місяці тому +462

    This isn’t actually dating “advice” but, rather, lifetime sabotage from a damaged soul

    • @sikasbkoju3715
      @sikasbkoju3715 3 місяці тому +4

      Dating is nothing but hook up culture.

    • @user-ch6if6tv6j
      @user-ch6if6tv6j 3 місяці тому +2

      Done in every orifice thousands of times.

    • @markaurelius61
      @markaurelius61 3 місяці тому

      True, and it's not just the bodycount of men. Imagine finding out your girl had had sex with other women, or other species of mammal? Sex is strong medicine. It is very bonding. You don't take it for fun or you end up bent out of shape.

    • @thepragmatist
      @thepragmatist 3 місяці тому +1

      Exactly.

    • @johnbuiatti366
      @johnbuiatti366 2 місяці тому

      What a demonic harlot in that video.

  • @latetotheparty184
    @latetotheparty184 3 місяці тому +697

    "Bang everyone but do it quietly."
    Yeah , because it is shameful to do it, and you know it.

    • @reekinronald6776
      @reekinronald6776 3 місяці тому

      She forgot the part where you bang them all and then ten years later scream #metoo.

    • @crimsonhawk4912
      @crimsonhawk4912 3 місяці тому

      Why would any one need to keep it quiet? She's such a dumb bitch 🤣

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому +35

      They don't find it shameful but they know that most men do.

    • @ryantucker2166
      @ryantucker2166 3 місяці тому +15

      Most of them are moaners.

    • @dcktater7847
      @dcktater7847 3 місяці тому

      By this token everything is wrong that this evil society says is wrong

  • @asolaris6470
    @asolaris6470 3 місяці тому +90

    “People do not decide their futures, they decide their habits and their habits decide their futures.” F. M. Alexander.

    • @manasseskamau5327
      @manasseskamau5327 3 місяці тому +2

      That's all that needs to be said!

    • @knightheaven8992
      @knightheaven8992 3 місяці тому +3

      Lot of wisdom in this quote. It is quite true from my experience

    • @REmcoo36
      @REmcoo36 3 місяці тому +1

      Wow, what a great quote! I love it!

  • @eensanom
    @eensanom 3 місяці тому +732

    As a woman. That coming from an older woman is genuinely sick and evil advice. Older women generally tend to figure out that « banging them all » was not the move, and they wasted their youth on doing that. They know it and they’re bitter about it.
    But they’re mad cause they can’t have another shot at it so they just try to bring everyone down to their level by giving shitty advice like this. I see this happen a lot.

    • @larrycheek3588
      @larrycheek3588 3 місяці тому +17

      yepp

    • @richardkalmwater5996
      @richardkalmwater5996 3 місяці тому +53

      I agree with the description evil.
      This woman seeks to harm younger women, No guy who understands women would wife-up a promiscuous woman. It is a terrible bet with your life.
      An old eskimo once told me that the ancient stories about witches derived from hermit woman that go insane and do evil things for attention.
      Women need men to stabilize their emotions and keep them from doing stupid things. This older woman will only grow angrier...she is a witch.

    • @whois3581
      @whois3581 3 місяці тому +33

      Crabs in a bucket. The old washed up weak ones at the bottom have to pull the others down. Misery loves company...

    • @jackdeniston59
      @jackdeniston59 3 місяці тому +6

      She is giving good, reliable advice. Do the opposite, and you will have joy.

    • @IvyMay-qn2ys
      @IvyMay-qn2ys 3 місяці тому +3

      She's not serious.
      She's a comic
      You should see her husband.
      Then you'll understand the joke.

  • @luciogarzagarza2999
    @luciogarzagarza2999 3 місяці тому +365

    She is also giving advice to young men: if you want to have sex with young women, don't present yourself as husband material, as those guys are not getting any action. If she perceives you as husband material, you'll be kept in the back pocket until she is 35 years old and then you will not want to have sex with her.

    • @salguodrolyat2594
      @salguodrolyat2594 3 місяці тому +12

      Good one.👍

    • @changingworldllc1157
      @changingworldllc1157 3 місяці тому +6

      Facts

    • @demetriusevans4139
      @demetriusevans4139 3 місяці тому +5

      Yep

    • @Lichnaya_pravda
      @Lichnaya_pravda 3 місяці тому +10

      Ad this two advices contradict each other. They could somehow work, if two audiences were completely oblivious to each other, but you can conceal nothing in the age of internet

    • @Lenny_Hondo
      @Lenny_Hondo 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Lichnaya_pravdaWay to overthink it. That gets you nothing.

  • @iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii2458
    @iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii2458 3 місяці тому +147

    Have you ever worked with women in workplaces where office politics thrive? Women never give good advice to other women because they hate each other.
    "Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy

    • @CD-vb9fi
      @CD-vb9fi 3 місяці тому

      Women run almost entirely on emotional state. The chances you will get good advice from a female are almost as bad as the lottery. There is a reason women don't trust men... because they are projecting.

  • @timjones9962
    @timjones9962 3 місяці тому +295

    That's one bitter, old and abused poisonous boot.

    • @moosehead482
      @moosehead482 3 місяці тому +12

      There's no fool like an old fool...

    • @SoloRenegade
      @SoloRenegade 3 місяці тому +12

      she's not "abused", she is the abuser.

    •  3 місяці тому

      She’s a friggin train wreck! And the women taking her advice are the derailed train cars-sheeeeeesh!

    • @TheVirginGary
      @TheVirginGary 3 місяці тому +8

      @@SoloRenegade I imagine she is both.

    • @SoloRenegade
      @SoloRenegade 3 місяці тому +5

      @@TheVirginGary how is she abused, exactly? She's abusing young women with her advice, that's for certain.

  • @fudogwhisperer3590
    @fudogwhisperer3590 3 місяці тому +298

    Men are getting smart. They know the 1000 c@ck stare when they see it.

    • @novagalaxy342
      @novagalaxy342 3 місяці тому

      What's a cock stare?

    • @JanFWeh
      @JanFWeh 3 місяці тому +11

      Yes, but not 100% of women have it.
      They can be broken beyond repair and not display the stare.

    • @Foxdie573
      @Foxdie573 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@@JanFWehtrue 😂 Pay for a bit** and at least you know what you are paying for.

    • @bobbyscalchi4013
      @bobbyscalchi4013 2 місяці тому +1

      Dead soulless eyes

    • @dustinl5813
      @dustinl5813 2 місяці тому

      Epic! Lol

  • @johnbrown4949
    @johnbrown4949 3 місяці тому +54

    When she said bang dogs, that wasn’t a joke

    • @JOEL00111
      @JOEL00111 3 місяці тому

      Wht women are into beastiality

    • @bobbyscalchi4013
      @bobbyscalchi4013 2 місяці тому +1

      Get the Skippy, Jiffy, and Peter Pan

    • @bobbyscalchi4013
      @bobbyscalchi4013 2 місяці тому

      @garethlewis3743 Yeah until she collects her benefits from you then doubts you. I get it. It's temporary fun newness and adventure but you go through that enough. You really want to keep playing with that? It's a short term win for a lifetime of long term loss. Think about it.

    • @bobbyscalchi4013
      @bobbyscalchi4013 2 місяці тому

      @garethlewis3743 If it were me? I know it would be very short term sexual gain and maybe a few material gifts if that?...But I know for a fact they will be gone anywhere between 2 weeks to 2 years either due to some form of infidelity, commitment, or effort and reciprocity. They dont build on anything but quicksand. Other than for themselves.

  • @toasterpastries5811
    @toasterpastries5811 3 місяці тому +34

    *she proved The Dual Mating Strategy to be a real thing and not a conspiracy theory*

    • @Stef3m
      @Stef3m 3 місяці тому +2

      Of course is real, everyone know although half denies it, male have similar dual strategy, accept any opportunity for sex but commit only where is deemed worth but man don't denies it

  • @Lucy-ie8qw
    @Lucy-ie8qw 3 місяці тому +431

    She sounds so disgusting. She's trying to be cool and funny. I'm 53 and never speak or behave that way. I saved myself for love only. I am so glad as i have never felt used or horrible sleeping with a stranger. Let's bring back allowing men to respect women and chase her proving his love for her. I have no interest in giving away the most special part of myself to a stranger.

    • @richardkalmwater5996
      @richardkalmwater5996 3 місяці тому +26

      The older woman is a miserable person who so hates her life she wants company.
      It takes a special kind of evil to sabotage the younger generations.
      Guys that understand women KNOW you do NOT wife-up promiscuous women.
      Those women are for naive men who think they are getting a "good" woman...

    • @whois3581
      @whois3581 3 місяці тому +15

      @@richardkalmwater5996 Yep, and she's too blind to realize that when she decides she wants that man later that she was "keeping in her back pocket", he'll already be gone. If she knows he's worth it in the future, there's another woman that would know it know and get the man now. That man will also know how she is whether she thinks she's keeping her history a secret or not. If he's a worthy man before and later, he's not going to give the girl a second thought later on.

    • @monk4ever
      @monk4ever 3 місяці тому

      Her P-sleeve must look like a wizard's sleeve.

    • @user-rf3cn2ou3x
      @user-rf3cn2ou3x 3 місяці тому

      Yup, as said to a woman by a man ! Just sounds like you are so sexualy uptight that you couldn't find sex enjoyment with anyone.

    • @TheVirginGary
      @TheVirginGary 3 місяці тому

      @@deankirby7237 100 years ago, western women were much more likely to stay virgins than today because Christianity made them smarter.

  • @DionneHartley
    @DionneHartley 3 місяці тому +139

    I agree, its poor advice by the older women. Expecting guys to be sitting around waiting for party girls to grow up is a romance fiction movie. Why would she say that?!

    • @jeffcole4203
      @jeffcole4203 3 місяці тому +21

      That was the most twisted, misleading piece of advice i've ever heard given.
      I'm sure that will destroy some young girls life.

    • @mafp22w
      @mafp22w 3 місяці тому +27

      She said it to justify her own behavior.

    •  3 місяці тому

      Modern women are without accountability, it’s never been this easy in American Society to bang women left and right all day and everyday, and even if I had that kind of stamina and staying power I would loose interest after just banging different women every other day for a couple of weeks because some men actually enjoy the conversation, the chase and leaving somethings to the imagination and something to actually look forwards to instead of jumping straight in the sack! American Society in moral decay in realtime!

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому +1

      They love to gloat at what they were able to get away with and they want others to be able to do it as well. Look at the bright side.This information is being revealed and Increasing numbers of men will take precautions because of it.

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому +10

      ​@@mafp22wShe's gloating and wants others to do the same. They have their rights and can do what they want. Come war time the self respecting men are gonna refuse to serve because a society that not only allows this sort of thing but outright glorifies it isn't battlefield defense worthy.

  • @c00lbreeze
    @c00lbreeze 3 місяці тому +24

    Us men tend to warn younger men about our mistakes. I'm 34 and I'm currently divorcing a woman who is 9 years older than me. She took my virginity and baby trapped me when i was 22 and she was 31. I didn't know shit about relationships and my naive ass was manipulated and controlled, simping for her emotionally unstable abusive narcissist ass. I learned so much and don't want to see any man go through what i did. It's what makes heros and villains. They both suffer but villains want you to suffer too, to make themselves feel better, Heros want to stop you from suffering what they did.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому +5

      I didn't have children and there wasn't such a large age gap, but I made a similar mistake marrying my first girlfriend and staying with her for another 7 years. I wasted my 20s with someone who didn't love me but liked what I supplied her with. Telling that story on this channel broughtaround half of my subscribers to my channel.

    • @rrayudu
      @rrayudu 3 місяці тому +1

      Sorry to hear that brother - you are doing the right thing spreading the gospel!

    • @c00lbreeze
      @c00lbreeze 3 місяці тому +1

      @rrayudu thanks man, that's crazy that you know I'm a devout Christian from that post with me cursing and all in frustration. The Lord has definitely been there for me, more clearly than ever in this horrible season and is helping free me while getting me through the anger. Thanks brother

    • @johnfisher7143
      @johnfisher7143 3 місяці тому +2

      It’s the difference between men and women in my experience. In the workplace the older guys will generally take the younger guys under their wing and try to impart some worldly knowledge because they don’t want to see these young versions of themselves make the same (expensive) mistakes they made. There is a genuine desire there to help these younger guys not fall into the traps they fell into. With women however, it’s almost the exact opposite. They give advice to sabotage relationships because they’re jealous of youth and beauty.

  • @jermainetaylor653
    @jermainetaylor653 3 місяці тому +61

    When a woman samples a lot of ice cream 🍦 she will always crave new flavors 😋.

    • @MPeaches1958
      @MPeaches1958 3 місяці тому +10

      Old saying:
      "If one is not enough, one thousand is not too many."

  • @cat_pb
    @cat_pb 3 місяці тому +190

    Terrible advice for not only women but man as well.

    • @Brukner841
      @Brukner841 3 місяці тому

      it's natural at that age.

    • @Motoboo_Marine
      @Motoboo_Marine 3 місяці тому

      Natural =\= good
      Wanting to bang other people when you're married is natural but that doesn't mean you should do it

    • @kornyvdf
      @kornyvdf 2 місяці тому

      men are not women, don't compare apples and oranges. Women creates one egg per month, men creates millions of spermatozoid per day. That's not without any reason

    • @jandenijs7337
      @jandenijs7337 2 місяці тому +1

      and bad advice for dogs as well

    • @samofrabat
      @samofrabat 2 місяці тому

      do women think they're smart or something ?

  • @CarrinaCarrillo
    @CarrinaCarrillo 3 місяці тому +133

    Oh yeah. Be a low-down dirty slut. Great advice. At 21 you are marching toward 30, and you will be 30 before you know it. Thirty and single is not good.
    This man is right. Our actions become our habits. Once a slut, always a slut. This is why men do not want women who have passed themselves out.
    Any man who enters into a serious relationship with a promiscuous woman is a fool.

    • @PincheGuey-gc2or
      @PincheGuey-gc2or 3 місяці тому +2

      Hey don’t kink shame

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому +9

      Just having a few intimate encounters under their belt puts a damper on their ability to pairbond. If they can't offer true blue virginity they're not marriage material no matter how tradcon they present themselves as being. If you can't have what grandpa had then it's best to stay single for life.

    • @CarrinaCarrillo
      @CarrinaCarrillo 3 місяці тому +1

      This is true. There are actually biological changes that occur in a woman who passes herself out. @@benstandard

    • @thetruther954
      @thetruther954 3 місяці тому

      Yeah Ben, but why you must talk about the women? Why not say how happy you are as a virgin and could never I again even being with someone else. I think a lot of men, especially from other cultures would really be relieved to hear that. Not only does it work for women, it works for you as well. You have found the answer, and it’s staying pure in mind and body.

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому +1

      @@thetruther954 not talking about the issue at hand causes people to ignore what's truly going on or at least the details of it preventing the preparation for some type of a solution.

  • @peterorlando4854
    @peterorlando4854 3 місяці тому +28

    Anyone who follows this old woman's advice is doomed to failure.

  • @xtc2v
    @xtc2v 3 місяці тому +76

    This is why solid guys no longer want relationships. Why be ignored for the fun stuff and then expected to take on being a financial plough horse

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому +7

      The silver lining in all this is that the word is getting out and increasing numbers of men are taking precautions because of it.

  • @alvincyt
    @alvincyt 3 місяці тому +74

    LOL!!! She thinks a 30 yo man is so stupid and so blind to see what a woman is up to, who has put him in the friendzone for years, who never gave him any attention, but is suddenly interested in him when the big three O is around the corner?

    • @salguodrolyat2594
      @salguodrolyat2594 3 місяці тому +7

      She's talking about the 30 year old simp. She is right about them.

    • @alvincyt
      @alvincyt 3 місяці тому +12

      @@salguodrolyat2594 If you're 30 year old, have known a woman for almost a decade and is still simping for her, you are hopeless.

    • @rayrwyr
      @rayrwyr 3 місяці тому +2

      Women give bad relationship advice.

    • @jamesharmon3827
      @jamesharmon3827 3 місяці тому

      I have so many women, that wouldn't give me the time of day when they were young and hot, now they are worn out old hags, they are crawling on their hands and knees. I have no inclination for worn out old hags, this shit is delicious....

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@salguodrolyat2594and there's less of them than there used to be.

  • @eastafrika728
    @eastafrika728 3 місяці тому +35

    She's not giving advice, she is speaking of how it actually is.

    • @REmcoo36
      @REmcoo36 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah!

    • @dan3696
      @dan3696 3 місяці тому +1

      the only difference is that 'all' refers to the top 5% chads though

  • @cyber6sapien
    @cyber6sapien 3 місяці тому +11

    Glad they are finally admitting to their strategy out loud.

  • @onlinebuy
    @onlinebuy 3 місяці тому +71

    I've heard women give bad advice before, but this one takes the proverbial cake. This is borderline psychotic.
    Ladies, if you live your life without moral or principles, you're not going to acquire them overnight when you "need to settle down."
    Once you're from the streets, you'll always be for the streets.

    • @d.l4055
      @d.l4055 3 місяці тому +3

      I wish You were right. Women base their trust in one thing, There's a sucker born every millisecond to a single Mom

  • @user-ml5pi3tr8h
    @user-ml5pi3tr8h 3 місяці тому +29

    This is purposeful deceit, manipulation, malice, selfishness and so on of the highest calibre. How the hell can anyone have a honest good life after following this kind of advice? What about trust, love, respect, empathy, kindness? This is 'advice' for young women!? I am a man, and I'm raising two boys. I am so hurt and scared for them already, but at least I know what to teach them about women, thanks to harpies like this one.

    • @Dansyoung
      @Dansyoung 3 місяці тому +6

      I’ll tell you exactly how, I am in the same situation as you with two boys. Explain to them how some people can manipulate situations, and relationships. Explain to them the foundation for a healthy life: stable job, fulfilment, exercise, financial stability and explain that it’s not worth chasing women, focus their time attention and lives on reaching their own personal goals.

    • @cathtaylor8878
      @cathtaylor8878 3 місяці тому +2

      I agree with you somewhat. However, she doesn’t represent all women! Some women don’t want to sleep around. They want to find a husband with similar values and they avoid the men who sleep around. All the best raising your sons!

    • @user-ml5pi3tr8h
      @user-ml5pi3tr8h 3 місяці тому +2

      @@cathtaylor8878 Thank you! And I totally agree with you. The challenge however is to find that woman. And the fact that you can never tell whether you found her or not, until after the fact (well into retirement). Statistically more than half of the marriages fail and more than 80% of divorces are initiated by the woman. Of the half that don't fail, more than half are sexless. If someone gives me a parachute and says there is a 50% chance it won't open... I'm not jumping. And I didn't even get into my personal experience with a failed marriage and the learnings afterwards. The most damaging thing a man can do in life is to marry the wrong woman. And then comes the advice above... Can you trust anyone?

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому +2

      I try to cover these big questions, and others, on my channel.
      Most of the skill isn't so much "finding a woman" but being really good at screening out the wrong ones.

    • @gregorysmull8068
      @gregorysmull8068 3 місяці тому

      The good news for men is that this information about women is no longer a privileged secret, it is becoming common knowledge. The good question is how many decent women are still out there? How many have yet to be corrupted by toxic mainstream culture and how many can resist it? Since many women follow fashionable trends like lemmings and it seems no female mentors are teaching morality and many are teaching this trash, the answer may be very few decent women are left in the west.

  • @C_A_Ross
    @C_A_Ross 3 місяці тому +84

    Men don’t care about a woman’s sexual past, unless he loves her. Bars!! 🔥 🔥

    • @christoph3187
      @christoph3187 3 місяці тому

      Nah, even for a pump and dump I would be wary of potential STDs. Women carry a much higher risk of catching something when sleeping with an infected partner and „bang them all“ will mean she’s connected to the worst scum guys whose STDs and problems you surely don’t want in your life…

    • @Dirty_Dumb_NAFO_Scum
      @Dirty_Dumb_NAFO_Scum 3 місяці тому

      I don't care about the repair history of a rental car either.

    • @crimsonhawk4912
      @crimsonhawk4912 3 місяці тому +4

      Unless he doesn't care about losing her.

    •  3 місяці тому

      Virgins have always been held in high regard once young men figures out the game, or if he’s wise enough to control his trouser-trout’s brain!

    • @d.l4055
      @d.l4055 3 місяці тому +3

      I get your point. I'd agree even more with, "Until He's asked to Love Her"

  • @HelionOne1
    @HelionOne1 3 місяці тому +56

    im out from this society...

    • @wackrapsatire
      @wackrapsatire 3 місяці тому

      Yeah, i don´t even know why i´m here under this video. But...eat good food, do some excerise, mountainbiking, taking a walk in the brisk morning air, have some alone time, take care of yourself and anybody important in your life if there is any and get the fuck outta there and especially detach yourself from the concept of needing sex and needing women. Once you´re in touch with your own sexuallity, your libido will reduce and mastrubating every once in a while gets a good feeling orgasm. Along with the rest, you´ll be at peace with yourself and the environment you live in. No time and place of hatred and bigotry, just calmy living your best life, man.
      Been doing this for the last 12 years, relationship and women free and it´s never been better

  • @michaeldavid6832
    @michaeldavid6832 3 місяці тому +40

    Tell us you have herpes without telling us you have herpes.

  • @gjad813
    @gjad813 3 місяці тому +26

    No one with a brain wave would ever think that was good advice.

    • @JanFWeh
      @JanFWeh 3 місяці тому +3

      Young women fall for that bs.
      Because it's all they hear nowadays.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому +2

      It's in line with what they'd read in Cosmopolitan magazine

  • @jkbrown5496
    @jkbrown5496 3 місяці тому +36

    This is an observation about the 1920s, but seems the 2020s are doubling down on it
    "Whether prostitution increased or decreased during the decade is likewise uncertain; but certain it is that the prostitute was faced for the first time with an amateur competition of formidable proportions."

    • @airthrowDBT
      @airthrowDBT 3 місяці тому

      Dating as we know it is literally formalized prostitution that has trickled down to normal girls who got jealous of the dinners the prostitutes in the 19th century were going on.

    • @kenyoung976
      @kenyoung976 3 місяці тому +2

      Wow! Interesting comment on the “Roaring 20’s”.

    • @anthonybatissa1417
      @anthonybatissa1417 3 місяці тому

      Hopefully 2029 doesn't end like 1929 😮

  • @cathyinnocenti9834
    @cathyinnocenti9834 3 місяці тому +7

    When I was in high school. What ever a guy did with his girlfriend over the week-end, half the school knew before lunch.

  • @allenjones4862
    @allenjones4862 3 місяці тому +11

    An excellent analysis and response. no wasted words. "Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." Galatians 6:7

    • @lucdevries8732
      @lucdevries8732 3 місяці тому

      From a biblical point of view the woman's advice is even much worse. The lifestyle she promotes for the young women likely leads to their death.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      Glad you enjoyed it. Hope some of my other videos are useful to you.

  • @xsamitt
    @xsamitt 3 місяці тому +8

    If I were married and found out the woman I was married to was sleeping with everything on two legs in her past, then I would divorce her!

    • @xsamitt
      @xsamitt 3 місяці тому

      Do you really think they are going to tell you the truth!@@mYsTiCaLiEs

    • @Maarten8867
      @Maarten8867 2 місяці тому

      That's why I would only marry a virgin.

  • @danielmccann4055
    @danielmccann4055 3 місяці тому +18

    Uh. .Herpes, HPV-Cancer, HIV are three cons I can think of fairly quickly.

    • @randomAnnanoumousDude2134
      @randomAnnanoumousDude2134 3 місяці тому +5

      You left out hepatitis, protect yourself at all times

    • @lauriesimonds9229
      @lauriesimonds9229 3 місяці тому +3

      Yup - I'm an RN - STD cases are skyrocketing.

    • @PremiumFuelOnly
      @PremiumFuelOnly 3 місяці тому

      Plenty of women on here crying about their HIV story.

    • @radmirov8541
      @radmirov8541 3 місяці тому

      ​@@lauriesimonds9229 -- And it's mostly women getting STDs.

  • @fett_420
    @fett_420 3 місяці тому +8

    Ladies, she's an old single lady for a reason.

    • @buddhaparadox
      @buddhaparadox 3 місяці тому

      Her name is Christina Pazsitzky. She has been married to Tom Segura since 2008. They have two sons together.

    • @LWT1449
      @LWT1449 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@buddhaparadoxGlad I'm not her son. Sad old dog😂

  • @rapace6183
    @rapace6183 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you lady. Just proved our point about women

  • @josephtraficanti689
    @josephtraficanti689 3 місяці тому +3

    The problem with a bad habit is that you get used to it.
    It no longer looks like bad habit.
    So the girl settles down
    For a while
    And gets around to the good one
    She wants to keep.
    AND DECIDES TO REVERT JUST ONCE.
    AND ONCE BECOMES A HABIT.
    AND SOMEBODY TELLS WHAT WAS SEEN OR HEARD ABOUT.
    AND THE DIVORCE ENDS IT ALL.

    • @josephtraficanti689
      @josephtraficanti689 3 місяці тому

      Maybe this makes more sense.
      There is having sex.
      There is getting fucked.
      There is making love.
      They are all the same for some.
      They are all different for others.
      Marriage is for the lovers. Truly

  • @jamesharris6368
    @jamesharris6368 3 місяці тому +17

    And if you're friend's with someone that is going out with a shady girl like that and you don't tell him because "You don't want to ruin a good relationship" you're just as bad as her for covering up for her fkry, if you're my friend and I know something about your girl that can embarrass you in the future you bet I'm gonna tell you everything about her, even if it hurts your feelings....you'll thank me when you get over your girly feelings.

  • @artifexdei3671
    @artifexdei3671 3 місяці тому +8

    This lady must've had some wild days in her youth

    • @stevezilla68
      @stevezilla68 3 місяці тому +3

      Or she probably didn't, and she regrets it.

  • @jamiemobilerepairnow5968
    @jamiemobilerepairnow5968 3 місяці тому

    Your application of the thoughts > actions > habits > personality pipeline to this specific topic is very insightful, its probably the best reason ive heard as to why you should put it about, as a man or as a woman

  • @zipp5656
    @zipp5656 3 місяці тому +1

    Love the way you nailed the big picture so succinctly.

  • @Andrito3000
    @Andrito3000 3 місяці тому +4

    Definitely listen to single granny with 3 to 10 cats. You can tell that thing didn't have kids or grandkids for some reason yet she did everything right In her life and now is confident to give advice to younger women.

    • @buddhaparadox
      @buddhaparadox 3 місяці тому

      Her name is Christina Pazsitzky. She has been married to Tom Segura since 2008. They have two sons together.

    • @gregorysmull8068
      @gregorysmull8068 3 місяці тому

      I bet her husband loves what she just did to his reputation. I am glad for her sake she has no daughters, I just hope there are no granddaughters that she can corrupt and ruin with this advice. Her sons should keep their daughters as far away from her as possible when they are older.@@buddhaparadox

  • @SimRacingVeteran
    @SimRacingVeteran 3 місяці тому +20

    Ahhhh yes give it away for nothing to all the other dude and make the quality dudes work for it. Delululusions!!

  • @rambultruesdell3412
    @rambultruesdell3412 3 місяці тому +8

    We're all lost and gone.

    • @buddhaparadox
      @buddhaparadox 3 місяці тому +2

      True. I know that the “end of the world” has been predicted many times throughout history but I do truly feel we are on the brink now. Just toooo many signs at this point lol.

  • @EnnuiPilgrim
    @EnnuiPilgrim 3 місяці тому +3

    Shows just because someone is aged doesn't mean they have wisdom.

  • @user-bl6xg8mb6c
    @user-bl6xg8mb6c 3 місяці тому +32

    All this has shown me Is that?
    Old women can also be two bit whores

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому

      This woman is likely the older end of the millennials to younger end of gen x and the damage was already done before they reached adulthood. It's been bad out here for a lot longer than most realize. Such were the mainstream decades ago.

  • @rev.philthyphil6839
    @rev.philthyphil6839 3 місяці тому

    Bro your face when she spoke priceless

  • @konstantinpiontkovsky3067
    @konstantinpiontkovsky3067 2 місяці тому

    Thank you! Great reasoning.

  • @user-bc7dz7ei4x
    @user-bc7dz7ei4x 3 місяці тому +19

    This is great for us guys since now we never have to commit. We get everything for nothing. Keep doing your thing ladies.

    • @redrustyhill2
      @redrustyhill2 3 місяці тому

      You are part of the problem

    • @lucdevries8732
      @lucdevries8732 3 місяці тому

      Indeed, whores for free.

    • @patnor7354
      @patnor7354 3 місяці тому

      Except a family with a decent woman.

    • @user-bc7dz7ei4x
      @user-bc7dz7ei4x 3 місяці тому

      @@patnor7354 True. Very true

    • @lucdevries8732
      @lucdevries8732 3 місяці тому

      Exactly. It's the fruit of modern feminism. These girls loose their dignity and chance of binding a good man. Stupid, stupid, stupid. And so sad.

  • @CovenOfWonders
    @CovenOfWonders 3 місяці тому +5

    great advice, ran tru eyes👀, got mi passport.

  • @ViceCoin
    @ViceCoin 3 місяці тому +2

    Will do!
    Happy Intl Womens month!

  • @EA-dweller
    @EA-dweller 3 місяці тому +1

    Misery loves company. It’s insane the amount of unhappy women who drag other women into misery.

  • @_D_A_V_E_
    @_D_A_V_E_ 3 місяці тому +9

    She’s a comedian, who gets paid to show and say inflammatory shit for laughs and shock value. What did you expect? It’s highly unlikely that she’d give that advice to her daughter.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому +15

      Where's the punchline?

    • @LiberPater777
      @LiberPater777 3 місяці тому +11

      ​@@busybecomingmyselfIn womens happiness statistics and divorce statistics as well.

    • @johncorson6599
      @johncorson6599 3 місяці тому +4

      I’ve heard other woman “comedians” saying similar things in YT videos …. I don’t know who would pay to listen to them .. why would any guy? I hope she didn’t quit her job at Starbucks

    • @vincev4630
      @vincev4630 3 місяці тому

      Inflammatory 😂 Love that

    • @AbstractAngelArtist
      @AbstractAngelArtist 3 місяці тому

      @@vincev4630 what part of her body is inflamed and do antibiotics work for that? she may have some STDs.

  • @edsemple9297
    @edsemple9297 3 місяці тому +7

    This guy is great!

  • @Rjisawake
    @Rjisawake 3 місяці тому +1

    She done gave yall the tea 😂

  • @thomasberry1772
    @thomasberry1772 2 місяці тому

    Great message to young people, good vid.

  • @mba2ceo
    @mba2ceo 3 місяці тому +5

    Exactly what my mother TOLD !!! Never EVER marry a used SLORE

  • @malcolmapplet4313
    @malcolmapplet4313 3 місяці тому +4

    Give the serious guy who was going to make something of himself the "Hey Stranger" treatment (after you've been around the block 15 million times). Yeah, guys have kind of caught on to that. But this old lady trying to be hip and cool and she's some attic spider. lol.

  • @megret1808
    @megret1808 3 місяці тому

    I recently became aware of the term “sneaky links.” Emphasis on the sneaky

  • @Tygelin86
    @Tygelin86 2 місяці тому +1

    Condolences to this woman husband :(

  • @The69bombero
    @The69bombero 3 місяці тому +5

    Girls like that made my youth so fun. If it wasn't for the easy girls things would have been so boring. God bless the easy chicks.

  • @larrycheek3588
    @larrycheek3588 3 місяці тому +7

    The wedding dress is white.

  • @user-ml2qb5vl6c
    @user-ml2qb5vl6c 3 місяці тому

    Good video. Practical life advice, residing in reality.

  • @powertothepeople3832
    @powertothepeople3832 3 місяці тому +1

    In my experience, having lots of sexual partners leads to misery.
    I’ve never met any exception in this area.

  • @WiPri0371
    @WiPri0371 3 місяці тому +6

    I'm 52. I've had younger women interested in me for some time now. One in particular fits this. She's mid-20s. Beautiful, but somewhat easy and very high maintenance. She pursued me for over a year, but I would not relent. Her body count is not low. I rejected her and continue to do so because I call her a walking Petri dish for STDs. She's never been tested as far as I know. But I simply don't want that. If she were not as she is, I might actually consider a relationship with her. Or least try to take one on. But it is what it is and I'm not interested. This video simply makes my case even stronger in going my own way with items I hadn't considered.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      I'm glad I could offer more food for thought. That's all I aim to do with this channel. Hope some of my other videos might be useful to you too.

    • @gfxmaniac
      @gfxmaniac 3 місяці тому

      I feel you. It mentally exausting thinking what you can get std-wise with a chick like this.

  • @4thePORSCHE
    @4thePORSCHE 3 місяці тому +4

    Where can I get the whole clip?

    • @LWT1449
      @LWT1449 3 місяці тому +1

      It's on a card in a phone box is soho😂

    • @4thePORSCHE
      @4thePORSCHE 3 місяці тому +1

      @@LWT1449 😂😂😂

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      Name of the podcast is in the description. Sorry didn't have time to get the link.

  • @vendomnu
    @vendomnu 3 місяці тому

    Good video - exactly what I'd arrived at and keep telling my kids before they reach the stupid age.

  • @bobbyscalchi4013
    @bobbyscalchi4013 2 місяці тому

    Running "The Racoon" needs to go viral. 😂

  • @hellmanksingh7967
    @hellmanksingh7967 3 місяці тому +3

    Just waste your life on external validation and choose depression with wealth. Noice

  • @JMan-Dawg
    @JMan-Dawg 3 місяці тому +3

    What a lovely, mature woman - great feminist guidance as usual. Great video man!

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      Thanks. Glad you enjoyed it. Hope some of my other videos are useful to you too.

  • @user-px7yq9he3k
    @user-px7yq9he3k 2 місяці тому

    I think that's exactly one of the reasons why many men don't want to be in a relationship with women any more.

  • @vaticinus
    @vaticinus 3 місяці тому +1

    Very good video! Well done.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      Thank you very much! Glad you enjoyed it.

    • @vaticinus
      @vaticinus 3 місяці тому

      @@busybecomingmyself Yes. You didn't just criticize but also gave good advice that sounds very professional. I'm sure a lot of people will be helped by your content as well. I have subscribed.

  • @user-tf6ck1ku6y
    @user-tf6ck1ku6y 3 місяці тому +12

    An old 'garden tool' given a new 'garden' tool advice lolol

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 3 місяці тому

      The early 60s was the last of an era where most did it right then wrong.

  • @novagalaxy342
    @novagalaxy342 3 місяці тому +5

    Disgusting.

  • @jeremylewis5551
    @jeremylewis5551 3 місяці тому

    In my late 30s i was woken up by a random number. Turns out the girl who was stringing me along throughout high school wanted to give it a try. What pissed me off is we hasn't spoken in years, she somehow knew my work history and was upset when i mentioned im already married. Needless to say i wouldn't be upset if i never speak to her again.

  • @elbowstrike
    @elbowstrike 3 місяці тому

    I tell young people if they’re in a long term relationship with somebody they really love and the feeling is mutual that that is as good as it gets and just to get married and get on with living a responsible adult life they aren’t “missing out” by partying and living care free until their middle age they’re actually wasting their most important and productive years when they should be building their future together.

  • @theodorearaujo971
    @theodorearaujo971 3 місяці тому +4

    There are a lot of miserable people out there, and this woman is one.

    • @natela_mk
      @natela_mk 3 місяці тому +2

      Her advice was horrible, but she's actually happily married, with kids, doing what she loves for a job. So calling her miserable might be hasty.

    • @LWT1449
      @LWT1449 3 місяці тому

      ​@@natela_mkGlad I'm not her son dirty old tramp.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      Yeah. I do think she is sabotaging young women for whatever reason though. Even if she is married she's probably conscious she isn't getting the attention these young pretty girls are, like she used to.

    • @natela_mk
      @natela_mk 3 місяці тому +1

      @@busybecomingmyself I really don't think women worry about this as much as men seem to think, especially when we're in happy relationships no time is spent trying to sabotage other women. I only see 20 year olds as people without fully formed frontal lobes, who need to be nurtured and protected. I can only speak for myself, though. I think her comment was just a flippant reflection of the very normalised, deeply damaging hookup culture of the west.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      I don't think this rivalry is conscious. Most of our actions, male or female, are driven by unconscious instincts and beliefs that never come to the surface. I rely on honest friends to tell me when I'm doing something that I'm not aware of. In the study "off with her hair" I'm sure the women recommending shorter haircuts to women of similar attractiveness were not registering the rivalry consciously at all.

  • @jbris16
    @jbris16 3 місяці тому +11

    I have 3 boys and I feel disheartened that I am going to have to pay for background checks on my son's perspective wives. We are Christians and do not believe in sex before marriage and it seems a background check and a P.I. will be the only way to ensure the chastity of of my future daughter in-laws 😮‍💨

    • @LisaMedeiros-tr2lz
      @LisaMedeiros-tr2lz 3 місяці тому +4

      Helicopter. Let's see how that works out for you when you tell your son who is romantically involved, that you got the goods and lay it out on the table. You will generate resentment, even perhaps hatred towards you. It could result in you being forever shut out as manipulative, controlling, and meddling with their lives. Don't you want them to be able to think for themselves and become self-sufficient and strong? Sometimes that means living their lives, making mistakes, and learning. Life is learning. I don't predict things go well for you.

    • @joel4960
      @joel4960 3 місяці тому +5

      Get your sons passports.

    • @mafp22w
      @mafp22w 3 місяці тому +4

      I’m coming up on our 30 year anniversary. I was a virgin for my wife when we got married at 35 and 34. It was so difficult then when I was dating as I always worried that woman would think I didn’t like them or I was gay. If it was tough then, I can only imagine how hard it is for my sons in their 20’s. They are both successful, but very single. I don’t think I’d want an American girl at all.

    • @salguodrolyat2594
      @salguodrolyat2594 3 місяці тому +6

      ​@@LisaMedeiros-tr2lz gaslighting at its finest.🤣

    • @RedEyeification
      @RedEyeification 3 місяці тому

      Doesn't matter if she didn't have sex before marriage if she was using her asshole or mouth.Today we're living the days of Lot and Noah.Be ready.

  • @flashpan26
    @flashpan26 3 місяці тому

    Great video so true

  • @felipearaujo7815
    @felipearaujo7815 3 місяці тому

    It IS good advice! The problem is that a girl that develops that pattern will very hardly leave it.

  • @user-gl5cj6tg5i
    @user-gl5cj6tg5i 3 місяці тому +3

    for all the good guys out there... just pump and dumb these broads when they come around. Do the same thing the bad boys do.

    • @deanjones2525
      @deanjones2525 3 місяці тому +2

      Well, they are not "good guys", if they follow your advice.

    • @user-gl5cj6tg5i
      @user-gl5cj6tg5i 3 місяці тому +1

      @@deanjones2525 They would be idiots to follow your advice..im sure

    • @deanjones2525
      @deanjones2525 3 місяці тому +3

      @user-gl5cj6tg5i My advice would be to avoid women who will give themselves to you outside of marriage. Choose a woman who wants to be a wife and mother. Choose a woman who wants a family with a man who will be faithful to her, be a good husband, and an upstanding example of manhood to his children. The guys who want to play the field are part of the problem.

    • @user-gl5cj6tg5i
      @user-gl5cj6tg5i 3 місяці тому

      @@deanjones2525right...brush your teeth and accept Jesus christ as your lord savior..smh ....your advice has nothing to do with the vid. The women in the vid is trying to use men...best use her first.

    • @deanjones2525
      @deanjones2525 3 місяці тому

      @@user-gl5cj6tg5i Brush my teeth. Accept Jesus Christ. Use her first. Clearly, you're just as deranged as the woman giving bad life advice.

  • @foobar5477
    @foobar5477 2 місяці тому

    I remember in college I dated a girl. All my guys friends knew she was easy . She was known all over campus. And the world is small words gets out.

  • @tomcat9112
    @tomcat9112 3 місяці тому

    The narator is actually right and made me think.
    one of my friend, actually a very good and close friend, has been and is like the woman described !! Well today she is beyond 40 !!
    and still has the same lifestyle and the same goals ... for more than 15 years now !!
    And still hasn't found a good men !

    • @knightheaven8992
      @knightheaven8992 3 місяці тому

      And she probably wont, and even if she does, the likelihood of the relation to last is quite low

  • @wisefix9256
    @wisefix9256 3 місяці тому +5

    Older women are jealous of younger women, so they ill-advise them such that they end up in the same situation, lonely and bitter. What can I say, misery loves company.

    • @TGP109
      @TGP109 3 місяці тому +2

      No they're not. Why would anyone want to go back to the most confusing, frustrating times of their lives?

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      Because they don't see it like that. They just see an aspect, like all human beings do when they feel jealousy. People rarely see the big picture. They just see these stupid pretty young things getting the attention that she used to.

  • @billhassa
    @billhassa 3 місяці тому +4

    So sneaky. Terrible.

  • @REmcoo36
    @REmcoo36 3 місяці тому

    Oh wat a great advice lady!

  • @robertcruz2775
    @robertcruz2775 3 місяці тому

    This the reason why i stay single, been single since 2014, im 34 now, i have met plenty of mothers giving this type of advice

  • @unknowncomment85
    @unknowncomment85 3 місяці тому +4

    misery loves company

  • @rogermoore7404
    @rogermoore7404 3 місяці тому +5

    Then you get unexpected pregnancy and high value men don't want a ready made family they want to make their own family. I know I avoided single moms.

  • @GreyDeathVaccine
    @GreyDeathVaccine 3 місяці тому

    Insta sub! Great content.

  • @profiler4772
    @profiler4772 3 місяці тому

    My mother's warning: "A trodden field does not grow any grass".

  • @robking7781
    @robking7781 3 місяці тому +4

    Men know the village bike when they see one

    • @TGP109
      @TGP109 3 місяці тому

      Of course, because they've all been trying to ''ride that bike'', haven't they? Men are their own worst enemies.

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому

      Not many men could. Just the most attractive 20% or so.
      I touch on it in my latest video but I plan to do a video on why women exclude the majority of men when they complain about men.

  • @rodan2852
    @rodan2852 3 місяці тому +4

    Just imagine how many girls are pretty muxh destined to be 304's forever. "Reprobate silver shall men call them"

    • @deanjones2525
      @deanjones2525 3 місяці тому +3

      They are already that. Respectable young women wouldn't be asking advice at this stage of their life from a woman like this. Descent human beings are raised with values by their parents or guardians from the beginning. A "good" man will look for a wife who's family focused. Likewise, a respectable woman will not be found at bars, in the club, or hanging out with those who do.

  • @theskyd7800
    @theskyd7800 3 місяці тому +10

    I just love your videos so much. You focus on the core of the subject and speak about it so nicely

    • @busybecomingmyself
      @busybecomingmyself  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks. I don't have the viewership the emotional bait channels have but comments like this make me feel appreciated and the efforts worthwhile.

  • @Pulse87dotca
    @Pulse87dotca 3 місяці тому +1

    First says that young men are really immature and not relationship material, so "Bang the all".. *Then* says to the girl "When *you're* older and *you're* ready", go for the relationship. Sounds like deep inside, she knows that it's the *women* that are immature and not ready for a relationship, and by getting a huge body count, she's ensuring she never will be.

  • @tima.478
    @tima.478 3 місяці тому

    I've always been a dude that crosses bridges when I get to them. I don't keep track of people and if they're cheating or not...but if I catch you, that's on you to suffer that consequence, not me!

  • @paulevans4905
    @paulevans4905 3 місяці тому +4

    Trash heap.

  • @makingmadmoves7643
    @makingmadmoves7643 3 місяці тому +4

    Her body count….
    OVER 9000

    • @derikuk2967
      @derikuk2967 3 місяці тому +1

      Her memory... a haze of meaninglessness.

  • @lucmalafarina1807
    @lucmalafarina1807 3 місяці тому

    Well said.

  • @Sal-fn1pm
    @Sal-fn1pm 3 місяці тому +1

    The woman who was to occupy most of my life sure did that - she was a teenager in Sweden in the 70s, where the notion of free sex had run riot, and girls had the insane opportunity to have sex with literally billions of men all around the world while their own women were locked in (for us too, of course) as they always had been (in Sweden too, not long befor that). We guys could only watch, contemplate what was going on, cry and nauseate. If we as much as suggested an objection to the whole thing we were told by way of the leading feminists of the days that we were chauvinists and reactionaries. Who won this sad and ugly war? I don't know. It was a disaster, like most wars.

  • @hanswurscht6625
    @hanswurscht6625 2 місяці тому +1

    That's funny cause as I'm old enough I have observed the full life cycle of that idea. And let me tell you, it usually doesnt get better. The men women desperately try to date seriously in their 30s arent any better than the guys they dated in their late teens and early 20s. Except that now they're alot older, and she's too, so both are less inclined to adapt to each other.
    Here's a better strategy: Just date intentionally when you're younger. If you want a mature guy when you're 30, you have to help build him. When you fuck everyone except the good guys, why the fuck would anyone want to be good?