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Bro, have you seen how you look? Most women would rate you a 10. You’re Cleary a good guy to go with it.

I appreciate your honest male perspective.

Filtering is definitely key. There are specific things to look for.

It's crucial for both men and women to harness their sexual energy for different reasons. The harnessing of your sexual energy will benefit you, the individual, immensely but I rarely see it discussed. All I see is religious repression on one side and the permissiveness to do whatever a person wants on the opposite side. Avoid these polarities if at all possible...they are equally damaging in different ways.

i think if there is three-gen-family live together, no way your parent let you be in this situation. By living 1-1 with her, you get manipulat

I have a friend who is very much like you, he got divorced cos his first hungarian village wife was toxic AF, anger issues, lying, debt the lot, cheated on him with another hungarian village bumpkin. He now went through 2 relationships with 2 single mothers and imo wased his 5 years on these women where he could of looked for a normal, non tattoo'd, non kids in toe, non anger issue and well adjusted early twenty something. but I think he has alot to sift out in his head cos something tells me he doesnt believe he deserves it.

Thanks for sharing your difficult experiences with us !

I already subscribe, i hope your channel grow fast

The same thing happened to me, 4 years in a sexless marriage, tried everything and still nothing, I’m a very attractive woman but right now after I moved out of the house finally I honestly don’t have the best self esteem.

Thought provoking video cheers

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I love your perspective and growth while intersecting the flaws and foolishness of humanity. Sadly, the sexless marriage experience reveals the transactional relationships between far too many people.

Men lose intrest over time for their sexual partners.

So, a partner is to be valued just for her butt, breasts and beauty😮😢 Edit: and you just "have" a partner, like an object?? 😢😢

it cheapens anything about what makes it special

Women have the same problem. Date 100 guys, and all they're left with is an ideal man who only exists in the mind of Dr Frankenstein

No you cant just have 100 persons and then just be happy, the past is the best predictor of future behaviour. Look at any job Look at buying a house Look at buying a car Look at moving in a new place Look for a loan

Thank goodness he didn't have children with this b****. Like some of us did.!

I agree with this. And I'm way past the point of a healthy count. My brain now demands constant variety, it's a battle in my early 40s. Now and again I try to give a good woman a fair chance, but inevitably I escape because I don't want to cheat on her. It's something to live with, but the desire to retrain my brain is present. Even though it seems nearly impossible now.

Thank you Chris, this feels very right for me personally, I'm on the low count side of things 😅

I agree , most people don’t understand stand there’s a threshold for both genders one can not come back from, the threshold levels vary from person to person but most people realize little to late

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You give booty to random guys for free but charge him, nice compliment!

This hits too close to home. Feel like im following the same path but 10 years later than you...

The woman that is your type is not always the same woman that you can build with. If a woman is hot she will get under your skin, even if you know she is not a good person for you.

My mom is bone thin and I'm not even interested in a women without a belly. Maybe mommy problems? 😂

I'm sorry man! She seemed like a narcisistic woman. Great thing for you is thst you didn't start to go to parties and start drinking or doing drogs! How did you meet her? How much time you spent with her before marring her?

8:46 you only see someone's true nature at their worst times, well said

If you didnt have sex for so long with your ex-wife brother let me tell you from my experience with many many different women from different parts of the world, the people I know who dont know each other but the pattern is always the same "She sees someone else and is having that sex with someone else.". Women love sex as much as we men love it and if your now husband is not masculine enough to manhandle her at the right time she will cheat on you. Because see that kind of unrisky behaviour, not doing actions, beeing devout, not throwing her on the bed is not male behavior. Thats why a lot of men are cucked behind their backs. Also if she knows personally your male friends she will most probably cheat with one of them. In 2024 its so easy for women to just open a social media account and the men are rushing towards her to give her good time let us not speak about dating-apps where its more easy for a woman.

It’s very difficult watching this, especially because you’re such an attractive man. You didn’t deserve that

Beta bucks, alpha f…. 😂🎉

Sure if she feels sex isn’t everything then she won’t care if I get sex from other women. If she cares she will sign off on getting my needs from other women if she won’t take care of my needs.

I'm in a sexless marriage 3 years now

@b.b.m. You _maybe_ could find out if that...chap ran for the hills.

She was obviously a narcissistic sociopath. They are the dregs of humanity-

If you had been rougher with her, maybe she would have respected you more. Some people need to be treated with coldness.

I really needed this since being in a healthy relationship with my partner, his love scared me because he's so honest and caring but after seeing this I reckognize I have to do the healing for myself to give him my full heart, so him and I can have a long happy life together.

So, all honesty, the reason she found it good when you two finally did it, was because now you were something that she knew was leaving. She wanted what she couldn’t have. Messed up, but true.

Thank you for your honesty.

"Women are beauty objects. Men are success objects." "Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally." "You're not her first choice. It's just your turn." Remember guys.... Your value in ANY relationship depends solely and entirely upon what you can provide. The moment she thinks someone else can provide more, you're yesterday's news. It'll be as if you never existed. And if 10 seconds afterward, you get flattened by a bus, she'll just step over you and move on. If she pauses at all, it'll be simply to grab your wallet. She does NOT love you. She likely never has and just as likely never will. The ONLY reason she's even with you in this moment is because she sees you as the fattest milk cow in the herd. The minute you start to dry up, slow down or get sick, it'd onto the truck with you.

Now I’m almost 30 and couldn’t lock down the hot, fun, exciting men I really wanted, you can have their stomped on rejected leftovers for full price, when they got a better version free cheap and easy. Leave quick dude, in 10 years you will get a friend zoned sexless marriage.

Dude. This is nearly precisely what has happened to me in life. There were minor variations in early life (I grew up thinking that my parents were healthy, but as I've worked more as a counselor I've come to realize just how dysfunctional they always actually were), but other than that just about everything else is exactly what has happened to me. I'm now 42, eight years divorced, and I'm engaged to a wonderful Filipina. It's the best decision I've ever made. I just wish I'd met her at 24 instead of my ex-wife.

When was the last time you said something perfectly?. Exactly the way you meant it?

Ty for sharing! You sound like a beautiful man inside and out! U think we all go thru our trips and falls in our 20’s. I hope you resolved to not bring your standards down but up to now choose someone who values intimacy and has integrity and commitment. Never lose these things!

I also heard your old video about your previous 7 year sexless relationship to a female monster. She clearly had Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which is a very very dangerous mental illness. These women ( or men) always damage and destroy their partners, even in 6 months, far worse over 7 years. The only way anyone can heal is psychotherapy from a fully legal Psychologist or Psychiatrist. Other grades of counsellors are not the same. I've been a similar victim there. PLEASE go for Prof therapy,and watch You Tubes Dr Ramini Dursuvala who is the USA expert on absolutely everything about NPD.

She made clear that it is material provision that has caused her to settle for him. As opposed to some of his intrinsic qualities, creating an attraction, that made her choose him. She not only made it clear she wasn't truly attracted to him, but that his value to her is largely provisional, not personal. He now has to wrestle with the reality that any failure of provision will likely lead to her ending the relationship. Her attitude is essentially one of, "You're not my first choice, but you should feel lucky to provide for me and occasionally receive affection in return." That is not a compliment, that is self-aggrandizement from a person who see themselves as a prize to be granted provided the other party pay. Keep in mind too that since men risk more in the context of wealth and resources in a marriage, and women by a wide margin end more marriages, to say a man is "marriage material" is simply to say "he has enough resources to exploit that an exclusive relationship, which I can end without penalty, is worth having at the moment".

It seems most venusians don't understand that being "adventurous" and wild is ok and will get no judgement if it's done with the one they're married with. But modern venusians genuinely believe that it is wrong to be open and trusting in the room with someone you have a connection with but ok with random people you know nothing about and don't care about them.

Just curious.. it’s been a year hope you’ve healed and found a great person to partner with

The ultimate advice! Thanks for sharing 👏

That is why we say "No Hymen , No diamond".. that is the whole point. You never pay full price for a Used Car when you can buy a New Car...