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I'm not sure that the video to the right applies in this context as it is just a basic r*pe fantasy/taken by force situation, we women have naturally in us towards whom we find attractive.

I think I am in the final stage of my relationship, manipulation & gaslighting, and hearing "no means no" paired with this in the video. I want to breakup but I am struggling on how to go about it the right way. Any advice? It would mean a lot. PS: I am watching your videos for quite some time now, keep it coming!

when a woman pulls this stunt in a marriage she has before hand been wearing that man down into a nub by complaining about anything. Now he only sees freedom when she delivers the ultimatum.

And you commit, giver her security, safety, children, a home - and the still play these games. Withholding at the drop of a hat for years because...... no darned good reason

Well said. You see a lot of this in movies and TV shows as well. The scripts that people have in their heads about what dating or relationships should look like are pretty screwed up. I think the sad part in all this is that their girlfriends who have a heathier emotional life will not speak truth to them.

yeah some women are fckd

Do you have a Shiba?

I love your posts! They are very valuable!

Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from, and viceversa.

It’s a very common trope now with modern women - once they get what they want and you “put a ring on it”, she checks out because she thinks she doesn’t have to bother trying anymore. If she leaves, she still gets half his stuff. Society has taught women that there’s no downside to being selfish. Her needs are the only thing that matters.

Wheat Waffles or any blackpill UA-camr never said that looks or height are everything. He is just saying that in 2024, looks and height have become more and more important. For instance, 90% of women are only chasing the top 10% of the most attractive men because social media and dating apps have given women countless options and validation. He has also provided a lot of data to support his point. Blackpill also points out that how people, especially women, treat you is mainly based on your looks. Confidence and personality only matter if she is already attracted to you by your looks first.

we "live lives of quiet desperation"

clicked on a whim and glad I did

Is saw those short, yes it triggered me and made me think. Yes im single because theres a reason. For me its because i dont go out, self isolated myself to the point where i only talk to my family, i have no friends or social circle, due to that i dont met new people => social skills no that good/not many situations for better calibration of said skills, i fill my freetime outside of work with tasks alone at home or Yt, for human connection i use normal relationship videos for sexual i use corn

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I’m superficial because I don’t expect much from people (no really deep relationship) . Choose personality over looks to discover later that this person is also trash?! No thanks. Maybe I’ll mature later like you , but so far, I still haven’t met someone who made me feel that I’m wrong to think that way .

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I want you to know that every word was felt in the deepest fibers of my soul.

People can't have contracts they don't know about - well stated.

Dude you killed it really enjoying your videos

Yeah, it would be nice to meet someone to date for the first time in decades who wasn't a train wreck and who didn't expect to be able to control, use, or emasculate men and that she'll reciprocate, because having boundaries and expectations that she'll behave makes a guy undatable. If a guy is a complete walkover and gives her feminine energy, she'll be interested. It's funny that when they discover very early on that you have boundaries that they immediately vanish.

The way i feel about is like what "the Weeknd" said in one of his songs: "I don't need a b1"tc# i am what a b1"tc# need"

We need to put the divorce court out of business! The only valid reasons for divorce are abandonment, abuse, neglect, dereliction of duties, and withholding sex.

Folks, read Taken into Custody by Dr. Stephen Baskerville and Rotating Polyandry and its Enforcers by F. Roger Devlin.

Thanks for sharing, so sorry you had to go through that. I can relate, people don't understand the pain of it and how you suffer in silence, jumping through a bunch of hoops to try and make it better only for nothing to change or it gets worse. For me, if I didn't initiate, nothing would happen. I spent thousands on buying him things for his hobbies, crafts, whatever he wanted or needed. Glad you were able to get out sooner. I stayed for 20 years, because I was hoping we would have kids, now that's not possible :(

The point on the more you understand worst case that could happen is a very good insight Chris

Thank you for presenting a realistic view and understanding of marriage. The overwhelming majority of relationships and marriages are founded in fairy tail lalal-land feelings and chance. Completely correct in establishing a mature view not just on the other person but on oneself. Continue to keep producing these thought producing concepts. Keep going and keep striving for mastery.

If he was that successful then certainly he had heard of a pre-nuptial agreement. Men that pick their wives based on their appearance rather than on their character know what they are getting. They are getting a self-centered one-trick pony. So why are these men surprised when they later lack positive character traits? They were blinded by their hormones then clutch their pearls when the pretty snake bites them.

I really like what you stand for! I can agree with this. ❤🎉

thank you for posting, thats really interesting to listen

its about looks mostly

As a young man (26), I am 100 percent worthless. I don’t mean anything to anyone I’m not blood related to. My only value is attributed to my degrees, certifications, income, and listening skills.

Women find men who are already in relationships more attractive, and will sometimes try to “ steal him” for two reasons. First, it’s not because she thinks “ oh she can deal with him” its more like “he’s willing to commit, he wants to be in a relationship, and his partner seems happy, he has a job, she has a decent car, I wish I had what she has”. Second, the women who do end up trying to see if they can “steal” him, usually have an a self worth wound that they aren’t aware of, and it is expressed as high self esteem instead of low. This is because on a subconscious level, they believe that if she can get a man to leave his partner, get him to stray, get him to risk or leave his family or wife for her, then in her mind it makes her better than his wife or girlfriend. Most if not damn near all are completely unaware of this to be the case. But if examined, you will find that there was a situation in her life that left her feeling like she wasn’t wanted, she was abandoned, or rejected.

Friend of mine changed his luck completely on dating apps, by having a photo taken in the seat of a private plane and putting his job down as "pilot", he actually works as an aircraft mechanic at a small airstrip in the west midlands. This guy is mid 50's, not attractive or handsome, but he was matching with hundreds every month, from 18 years old to late 50's. It's not about looks, it's about fulfilling desirable stereotypes.......... The other one that works is Doctor and Firefighter, although the fireman thing isn't quite as appealing now as it was 20 years ago.

Sounds like my first marriage. I spent 15 years in a sexless marriage. My life was centered around trying to make her happy. Nothing I did was good enough. “If you would do X, Y, Z I would be in the mood.” I would do that only to be told “If you would do A, B, C I would be in the mood.” My life was being constantly criticized and withholding of sex as a weapon. I also ignored the red flags before we got married. It took 15 years for me to break. Thankfully I met another woman who understands the importance of physical intimacy including sex. Over a decade later and we have a solid relationship of mutual respect and gratitude (and an active sex life). My relationship with my second wife is everything I had ever hoped for with a woman. I am the happiest I have ever been with her and the children she has given me.

Correct Chris, there are enough women in the world for a guy not to have to steel one. Whilst there are nuances (no girl is ever single), it’s a lack of options that leads guys to do this

Happened to me my ex left me after seven years for a Scottish guy she met on her gaming console 😂😂 but hey same things gunna happen to him if it hasn’t already life goes on and youl meet someone you don’t have to steal

Us monks don't have these petty issues. Find purpose. Delete the apps. Forget about dating. Be a great person.

Means she can be stolen

Thoughts on GBD or GTFO

How do you say with a straight face that men who want married women aren't healthy but there's nothing wrong with women who do this?😂

Alot of us was born into low self esteem dont beat yourself up for it we all human thanks for sharing your story

Excellent video.

People need to understand that dating is inherently discriminatory and unfair for both women and men. Just because some people have an obvious advantage it doesn’t mean the rest of us won’t find a partner. Imagine perfectly functional men are giving up because of looks how are disabled people, burn victim finding a partner? I think the real problem here is most of the time this people desire people who “ are out of their league “ and I hate saying this because there is no such a thing as leagues but they want people who would never give them a chance sometimes because of fantasy other times to prove their insecurities right and abandon. All this to say if looks is what you focus on tho put yourself out there then you are doomed. There are non attractive people who are in committed relationship because looks are not everything, they communicate well, are interesting, intelligent, charming and well behaved and that’s far more attractive on the long run

6 years in a relationship and the longest stretch has been 7 months of no intimacy. He has so many reasons in the book on why we don’t have sex. At the end of the day it’s all a sorry attempt of an excuse! I cried so much that he finally gave into having sex… that I initiated might I add. But that was a month ago. I have so much shame around this! He’ll have his friends over and they make comments/jokes around sex and I save face for him all the time. It’s so lonely to be here and being a woman in this situation is challenging as well. I feel like I can talk to no one!

Good one. It resonated. I feel this dynamic you described started with your parents though.

Nope. They wanted to be strong and independent. Time for them to put on their big girl pants and make the first move. We’re the ones who have been making the first move since the dawn of time, risking rejection. Now, not only are we risking rejection, but also being labelled a creep, having the police called on us for harassment, and being shamed all over social media. Ball is now in their court.

Terrifying comments - sex without another person isn’t your right ! If you want sex , find someone who wants sex with you !!!

I dont think its ever a good idea to bring up lack of intimacy to your partner as it never results in more intimacy. They see you as needy. For me its 3 strikes youre out rule. If i initiate intimacy 3 times in a row and am rejected it is clear that the person is no longer interested in having sex. When someone desires you you they will have have sex with you effortlessly. If you are not fulfilled then it is time to move on. People get complacent and then they string you along as they continue to lose respect for you. This is in any relationship. Married or not.

Your experience isn't limited to Bumble. Talk to your gay friends about Grindr.