Why you may need to rethink your "type" in dating!

[@arnecianewton9583]

The way this man just read my life!!

[@TroySpry]

HA! I got you...😉

[@TroySpry]

Thanks for listening!

[@TjRizzles09]

Wow this is really enlightening

[@TroySpry]

Thanks for listening!!

[@ajl8198]

exactly!! Wise words

[@Scorp-zn3py]

I changed my type, no more thugs and potential men.

[@TroySpry]

How’s it working out for you now!? 🤔

[@primrose_m]

so enlightening

[@TroySpry]

thank you!

[@faridie]

Honest question - but if a man has/had a preference and always only dated that preference/type of woman, even if they found someone entirely different they say they love, wouldn’t they possibly have a wandering eye or when things get hard in the relationship, it be easier for them to return to what was the original preference?
Sorry for the run on sentence! Trying to make the question clear. lol

[@d.c.5033]

Yes. For example, I recently broke up with a guy who followed really thick/fat models or women with bbls. After a few months of me requesting he unfollow them, he admitted that’s his type (big butts). He knows it’s wrong to be following them (he doesn’t even allow his daughters to follow him because they’ll see), but since that’s what he likes he refused to unfollow them and said that I shouldn’t judge what he likes. He even told me if he’s with his friends and someone with a big butt walks by, he’ll/they’ll point it out cause “that’s what guys do”. If his love for me was strong, he would unfollow them and change his mindset. It’s a really immature mindset. I’ve always liked any type of guy as long as he had good hygiene, nice style, etc. But men are raised to be lustful so they are mesmerized by assets whether they like them big, small, a certain shape, etc. It sucks that this is the way things are but I love myself too much to settle for a guy who only half way loves and respects me.

[@d.c.5033]

Some men are able to mature and change their mindset, but other men are stuck in their childish ways. The world has set us up to fail. I wanted to be married and it’s like that may not ever happen because of societal norms these days.

[@leshegolerutla2998]

True

[@TroySpry]

Thanks!