The RIGHT Way to Eat Soup

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  • Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
  • In this video, Heidi explains soup etiquette and shows us the proper way to eat soup if you’re dining at the highest levels, or home by yourself. Heidi demonstrates how to hold your spoon, and everything you’ll need to know to be prepared to for your next soup course at a fine dining establishment.

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  • @LubaShul
    @LubaShul 6 місяців тому +7

    This is a fantastic video lesson on how to eat soup. This is exactly how I was taught by my aunt who was an educator many years ago. Today I bought some Oneida spoons for creamy soup, and I thought I need a refresher on soup etiquette. This video brought so many childhood memories of events around the time I was learning to eat soup properly. Thank you for that 🙏🏻🤍

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  6 місяців тому +2

      Hello! Reading your very kind comment, has absolutely made my day! I am thrilled that this video could be a bit helpful to you, but most especially evoke childhood memories, the very best kind, don’t you think?
      Please let me know how it goes for you, soup is a really big subject! I very much appreciate your kindness, and your generosity in taking time to watch the video and leave such such a beautiful comment!
      Here’s to some beautiful soup in our future!
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi💕💕💕🥣🥣

    • @LubaShul
      @LubaShul 6 місяців тому

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 yes, absolutely, childhood memories are the best memories. They remind us of who we are, where we came from, how far we went and long forgotten lessons that could be still useful today. And yes here’s to some soup, memories and staying true to ourselves 🤍🤍🤍

    • @LubaShul
      @LubaShul 6 місяців тому +1

      @@HeidiDulebohn1I also wanted to add how universal and multi national etiquette knowledge is. My lessons were in the 80s in Soviet Union. One side of my family comes from pre revolutionary Russia aristocracy who mostly perished in Russian Revolution and the aftermath, but I vividly remember my grandmother and her sisters who went through it as a children and through WWII and Soviet Regime, but still eating things like pears and radishes with special forks and knives even in their later years. They did it so elegantly and effortlessly, I always was mesmerized by it. And now I remembered some of aunt’s lessons too not only about soup, but also general knowledge, and my father teaching me different types of knives and how to hold them, how to eat different types of fish and drink tea. I maintained a fascination with different types of dinner and flatware throughout my whole life. I am so happy I found your channel, because of how similar your explanations are, how enthusiastic you are and your lovely way of speaking. I can’t wait to deep dive in your other videos. 🤍🙏🏻

  • @myaggs3653
    @myaggs3653 Рік тому +28

    This was very useful, I was eating with Tom Brady and he judged the way I ate soup so I switched to proper form and he admired the way I eat soup. This video was truly a life changer.

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +10

      Hello, M Yaggs,
      Oh, my, you run with a high circle! I'm so glad Mr. Brady appreciates your soup skills. 🥣☺☺
      Thank you for watching and giving me a big smile! You're funny! I'd love it if you'd kindly subscribe!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi

    • @cvspvr
      @cvspvr Рік тому +4

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 you're joking, right?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +7

      @@cvspvr
      hello!
      No, no joke, there is a whole ,huge etiquette thing around soup. However, I’m not your typical etiquette expert, I don’t take myself too seriously, and I realize that being kind, caring, and respectful person, is far more important than how you eat, soup, or anything else. Be a decent person and don’t worry about which fork you pick up. That’s really my whole message.
      But, if you want know the proper etiquette rules, I can certainly share those as well.
      Thanks for watching and leaving a comment, I’d love if you subscribe!
      Sending best wishes for awesome day!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi💕🥣

    • @cvspvr
      @cvspvr Рік тому +5

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 oh, i'm not saying you shouldn't eat soup with proper etiquette. i'm just saying that this person has never tom brady and tom brady has never judged anyone's soup eating skills

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +4

      @@cvspvr Luv it!! Yes, just like Brady, there’s no judgement in etiquette - in my opinion!💕

  • @sandrajelovsek6966
    @sandrajelovsek6966 2 роки тому +13

    I love soup! Thank you for good reminders!

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  2 роки тому

      Thank you, Sandy! Thank you so much for watching and leaving a great comment! I love soup also I think I could live on soup! Thank you so much!💕💕

  • @DonnaTalarico
    @DonnaTalarico Рік тому +7

    I've watched three or four soup etiquette videos but not seeing anything addressed for soup with veggies, etc. in them where you can't daintily pour it into your mouth. Heidi, your answer below is "to do the best you can with what you have" -- but could you be more specific? Could you do a video about stew or something hearty? (Like do you open your mouth and shove it in, etc?)

  • @aimeedesjardins175
    @aimeedesjardins175 Місяць тому +1

    absolutely lovely and informative

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  25 днів тому

      Hello! Thank you! Thank you for watching and being so encouraging! You made my day!
      We’ve posted so many videos, I would absolutely love your thoughts on some of the other Dining videos! I’m always striving, to improve and offer content that is interesting and helpful.
      Best wishes for a lovely day 💕💕💕

  • @emailant
    @emailant Рік тому +2

    I really love how you teach. Making sure we note all the wrong ways of usually doing things as well. It’s so funny it cracked me up while drinking my soup while watching this. Thank you! ☺

    • @billmthacker
      @billmthacker 6 місяців тому

      I was sharing a bowl of clam chowder with my cat as I sat at my computer. But you never know who you may be dining with so..... here I am.

  • @arzumc3487
    @arzumc3487 2 роки тому +4

    I like the fact she gives all the details which we might not even notice ...

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  2 роки тому

      Thank you, our zoo!
      Thank you so much you are always so kind to watch, and leave such a nice comment! Soup is one of those giant topics in etiquette, and I think it all goes down to just don’t put too much on your spoon at one time!
      Thank you again, and I wish you a wonderful rest of your evening!
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi💕💕

  • @bonnielynn1779
    @bonnielynn1779 3 місяці тому +1

    This is really elegant and useful ❤ plus, i love the ways you’re talking so sweet.😊

  • @Existentialnausea
    @Existentialnausea Рік тому +5

    I'm not even a fan of soup. But now I want to try the soup etiquette skills. 😅

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +1

      Hello!
      Yes, you know what I love your name-we are all in progress, I know I certainly am!
      Please let me know how it goes. Try out the soup skills! You’re going to wow, in a major friends and family! Remember the trick do not overload the spoon.
      Please let me know how it goes. I’ll be very anxious to hear!
      Sending you best wishes! And love it if you kindly subscribe to my channel.
      Kind regards,
      Heidi.💕🍜🥣

  • @gbjames64
    @gbjames64 Рік тому +5

    When finishing the soup, make sure to tilt the bowl away from you to get the last of the soup. Very important.

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +2

      Hello James!
      Thank you so much for watching and leaving a comment! Yes, an informal situation, tilting the ball is perfectly fine. However, if you are dining with royalty or at a state dinner, I would just leave the bowl on the table and do the best I could with the ball in a static position.
      But when you’re at home or in formal dining, gosh, be reasonable, have some fun and enjoy your soup!
      Sending best wishes for a lovely day, and I’d be very grateful if you’d be so kind to subscribe to my channel.
      Warm regards,
      Heidi. 💕

    • @DannieGaming17
      @DannieGaming17 8 місяців тому

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 I forgot how to eat soup thanks so much

  • @cityrose4692
    @cityrose4692 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much, Heidi!

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +1

      Hello, City Rose!
      Thank you for watching and remember, the trick to eating soup well, is; don't overload your spoon, the rest will fall into place.
      Best of luck and I'd love it if you'd subscribe!
      Best wishes for a great weekend!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi💕🍜

  • @rfarevalo
    @rfarevalo 7 місяців тому +3

    The 18th century rhyme to teach children etiquette "Like ships that go out to sea, I spoon my soup away from me."

  • @honeybeejourney
    @honeybeejourney 5 місяців тому +1

    Good tip. Thanks.

  • @josephbassett6332
    @josephbassett6332 Рік тому +1

    Keep up the great work Heidi!

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello Joseph!
      Thank you so much for watching and I very much appreciate your encouraging comment! Thank you so much and please keep tuning in. We have so much content already posted and we’re posting new contact all the time.
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi💕

  • @kanika__12
    @kanika__12 Рік тому +2

    Plz make video on how to walk with style when you are going outside

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +1

      Hello, Kanika!
      Thank you for watching and I love your comment. We have made a couple of shorts about walking, one about stairs--here's a link below.
      We will work on your great suggestion!
      Meanwhile, wishing you a fabulous weekend!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi💕
      ua-cam.com/users/shortsaDZHcllUtI8?feature=share

  • @Blessed_Beyond_Belief
    @Blessed_Beyond_Belief Рік тому +1

    Best video ! Thank you 😊

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      You’re lovely! Thanks for watching and leaving this wonderful comment!
      I’d love it if you kindly subscribe, and best wishes for a great day!
      Warm regards
      Heidi💕

  • @billmthacker
    @billmthacker 6 місяців тому

    I came here as I was sitting at my computer and sharing a bowl of clam chowder with my catr. You know hovering over the bowl pulling the spoon in a slurping it. I giggled and though t I know thee is a rproper and potite way to have soup. So I came here to learn some etiqwuite. This is fun I am enjoying your videos. I am already polit and have good manners but nothing wrong with learning etique. I will be sure to put it to practice.

  • @stevenlopez7551
    @stevenlopez7551 Рік тому +1

    This was very fun to learn!

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello, Steven!
      Thank you very much for taking the time to watch the video and for leavign such a lovely comment! I love making these videos, and it's great to hear it was helpful.
      Thank you, and I'd be very grateful if you'd kindly subscribe!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi

  • @GigiLaBelleTV
    @GigiLaBelleTV Рік тому +1

    This was very helpful

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello!
      Thanks so much for watching and leaving this great comment! I’m so happy you found it helpful!
      I’ll be thrilled if you would watch some other videos, and leave me your comments about those! I try to be helpful, and a little informative, I’m a bit hung up on the history, but the origin story is always so fascinating to me on so many things.
      I’d love it if you kindly subscribe to my channel and help me spread the word
      Sending your very best wishes for a terrific day!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi 💕💕

  • @FlightsCancelledOutdoors
    @FlightsCancelledOutdoors Рік тому +5

    Thank you for all the help I normally ate my soup with a straw it takes way less time that way and that is probably why I am 350 pounds at the age of 20. Maybe thanks to you I can loose a few pounds form eating my soup slower and burning more calories when I eat my soup. Maybe I can get a girlfriend too now that I know how to properly eat soup they always seemed to walk out of the restaurant whenever I start eating and then I end up paying for the food 🤦. Anyways thank you for all your help

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +2

      Hello!
      Well, I'm here for you, and I'm so grateful you took the time to watch the video and leave a comment! Sounds like you're going to do just fine--I have posted lots of videos about eating food--I hope they are helpful to you! I'd love it if you'd subscribe!
      I'm sending best wishes to you!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi

    • @pjj633
      @pjj633 Рік тому

      You were saying “excuse me” after. Is that because you were talking? Also, should you finish the soup or always leave some?

  • @user-ku7tz6qu5o
    @user-ku7tz6qu5o Рік тому +1

    LOVE

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello!
      How kind of you to watch and comment!! Thank you very much! I'd love it if you'd kindly subscribe. Sending very best wishes for a lovely day!
      Kind regards,
      Heidi💕

  • @memyselfandi9684
    @memyselfandi9684 Місяць тому +1

    I'm okay with everything except having to bring the soup spoon all the way up to my mouth with just a little smidge of soup in it. I'd be paying too much attention to my soup etiquette that I would not enjoy myself. But I would say some practice is in order and maybe I'll be more agreeable to it

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Місяць тому

      Hello! Yes, you’re absolutely right! Practice makes perfect! I remember being a little girl, and my mother making my two younger sisters, and I bring soup all the way up to our mouse, and of course we drip things all over, but we were learning. And in the end, doing things properly, became second nature, and easy to do. But of course, be reasonable, and remember, what I teach is when you were dining at the highest circles. But if you’re dining, informally, or at home with family and friends, do you! But, I do subscribe to the school of thought that says if you practice your manners all the time, you will use them no matter where you are or what the circumstance. I think that’s something to aspire to.
      Sending my very best wishes to you, and thank you very much for taking the time to watch the video. We have so many videos posted, I’d love your thoughts on other videos! 💕💕💕

  • @fanniebirthday8885
    @fanniebirthday8885 6 місяців тому +1

    I have a question. At the end of the video, you specify where to leave your spoon to indicate that you have finished. Is this the same location where you should leave your spoon if you have not finished, and and you are just taking a break from eating the soup? Please reply at your convenience. Thank you.

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  6 місяців тому

      Hello! Thank you for watching and yes, you are correct leaving a spoon in the soup is considered less than optimal. It should go on the plate, or soup saucer, if you will, whether you’re resting or finished.
      However, today, not many people have soup saucers. Instead, people have nice soup bowls, without a plate underneath. In this case, there is no other option, and whether you’re resting or finished, the spoon would rest in the bowl.
      I hope this helps a little, and again, thanks for your great question, and please watch a few other videos and let me know what you think!
      Best wishes for a lovely day!
      Heidi💕💕🥣

  • @Inignik
    @Inignik 9 місяців тому

    Thank you🙏

  • @memyselfandi9684
    @memyselfandi9684 Місяць тому +1

    I love soup, but usually I have lots of big chunky vegetables in mine. Is the soup etiquette the same? It probably needs a huge spoon right?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Місяць тому

      Hello! Thank you so much for watching and what a terrific question! And your instinct is right! Usually big Hardy stews and soups, have a big spoon. And it’s usually a lot easier to eat off the side of that, they’re usually way too big to even think about putting them straight into your mouth, which, Dining at the highest levels, is considered, poor form.
      So for your soup with big chunky veggies, use a bigger spoon and you’re good to go!
      Thanks so much, and I send you very best wishes for a lovely day! 💕🥣

  • @JustMitchyNo.9
    @JustMitchyNo.9 Місяць тому

    Ah I'm glad you showed me how to eat soup, I've been using a fork all this time 🤷‍♂️

  • @emailant
    @emailant Рік тому

    Sorry for the noob questions but I trust your input. The soup is really hot so in the actual eating.
    i) Can we slurp it or is that a no no?
    ii) Can we blow on it too cool it?
    (All of this at the spoon I mean).

  • @ResonantSun17
    @ResonantSun17 Рік тому

    Hi Heidi, I am left handed, so I have to train my right hand? I am 62 years young. Take care regards Debra Melbourne Australia

  • @chinagoromokafor3050
    @chinagoromokafor3050 Рік тому +1

    Thanks ma'am!

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello!
      You are very welcome, and thank you for watching and leaving a nice comment!
      Sending you best wishes for a lovely day, and I’d be very grateful if you’d kindly subscribe.
      Warm regards,
      Heidi💕🥣

  • @thedowagerd.2431
    @thedowagerd.2431 4 місяці тому +1

    When using gumbo spoons for bouillabaisse, how can you sip pieces of seafood from the side of the round spoon?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  4 місяці тому +1

      Great question I guess the simple answer is, discreetly.
      However, I totally get your point sometimes big gumbo, stews, etc.,it’s can be difficult to skip from the side of the spoon, even a large and in those cases, be reasonable, and do what you need to do with as much discretion and elegant as you can. The bottom line is she want to enjoy a lonely, fool, gumbo, stew, chili, so just use your best banners and be very aware of your surroundings. If it’s an informal setting them, don’t however, if it’s a bit more horrible, then just do the best you can.
      Thank you so much for watching, Lea Anne! By the way, I love your handle! 💕💕💕🥣🥣

    • @thedowagerd.2431
      @thedowagerd.2431 4 місяці тому

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 Thank you for taking the time reply. I think I will continue using the oval spoons.

  • @joriktenkate
    @joriktenkate 2 роки тому +3

    I didn't know how to hold the spoon so crooked on my first try, it just spilled out. oh it was scary

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  2 роки тому +2

      Hello!!
      Thank you so much for watching, and leaving a comment!
      Do you know soup is really scary when you’re trying to engage with the highest forms of etiquette! It said that children of royalty can spend weeks on soup etiquette! Not sure if that’s true or not but it’s plausible, when you think about how difficult it is. My best advice is keep trying, and practice makes perfect. Also I think the biggest tip is do not put to much on your spoon, it’s easy to overload the spoon and then it can be a mess! Keep trying, you’ve got this, and if you need any help I’m always here for you!
      I would be so grateful if you would kindly subscribe to our channel, help pass the word, and offer any topics for future videos that you’d like to see, and will get them in our queue.
      Sending very best wishes for a lovely day!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi💕

    • @joriktenkate
      @joriktenkate 2 роки тому +1

      @@HeidiDulebohn1
      I'm 23 years old and I even made a WORD file about it when I decided to learn about food etiquette. But this video of yours was very good, even if yesterday it failed in practice, at least on soup.
      Besides, I can't believe you're so kind and sweet. I can sense how great your energy in the video is, but I'm amazed that you explain it like that. Maybe the subject of your next video may be 'rhetorical art', or you can make videos on 'body language' if you wish.
      Greetings from Turkey.
      I subscribed!
      🌸

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  2 роки тому +1

      @@joriktenkate hello! Welcome and so glad you’re part of our community! I love it that you are young and curious and want to keep learning! I am a lifelong learner myself, and every day I learn something new!
      I’ve done several videos about dining etiquette, and if you have the time I did one video, it’s 45 minutes long, but truly it’s a mini master class in what you would learn and etiquette school about dining etiquette. Here’s a link to it, but if you have time, search our channel because I have done so many different videos based on dining etiquette, and breaking it all down. The history behind it is truly fascinating, and it gives us the reason why we do what we do in Etiquette. The link is below.
      I love your suggestion for a video and we will definitely put that in our queue.
      I think you live in an absolutely beautiful country, I was lucky enough to visit Turkey, and fell in love with the people the place and the coffee! I even did a video about Turkish coffee☕️
      I’m sending you very best wishes for a lovely day, and weekend.
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi💕💕
      ua-cam.com/video/80zMpzZnYTg/v-deo.html

  • @etcetera6707
    @etcetera6707 Місяць тому +1

    What's the difference when you scoop inward and outward? It dont make sense to me.

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Місяць тому

      Hello! There’s a lot of history and tradition regarding the proper way to eat soup. And by the proper way, I mean when Dining at the highest circles! If you’re at home, or Dining informally, eat how you’d like. However, I do stress that if you follow proper dining etiquette, it becomes second nature, regardless of where you are and your surroundings.
      Scooping away makes sense because it is less likely to become messy if there is a mishap. I consider it somewhat similar to cutting away from yourself with a knife.
      Besides all that, it’s just much more elegant. Thank you so much for watching and commenting.💕🥣

  • @jayashan5559
    @jayashan5559 Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @dingleberryridesagain3606
    @dingleberryridesagain3606 Рік тому +1

    I was with Yogi Bear and his nephew Sniffy Bear on my humble Tub the SV Bearly Afloat,we were motoring through the Cyclades at a steady 8 when a UFO circled overhead, well !!a Spaceman came on board captured Sniffy, then took off, they left behind a year's supply of Artichokes and marinated chicken wings, yup !we often wonder where Sniffy is now,is he happy,,,gone ! But not forgotten !

  • @tatianagrosu5205
    @tatianagrosu5205 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for valuable tips! Where do I need to put the spoon when taking a pause during conversation or need both hands free? Should it be put on soup saucer?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +1

      Hello Tatiana!
      Thank you so much for taking time from your day to watch the video, and leave such a terrific comment!
      Yes, you are absolutely correct, if there is a saucer for the soup bowl, during breaks, you leave the spoon on the saucer. When you’re completely finished, you would put the spoon back on the saucer as well. However, if there is no sauce or just the bowl, you would have to leave the spoon in the bowl of soup. A saucer is always preferred, but not always presented.
      I would be incredibly grateful if you would be so kind as to subscribe to my channel, help me, spread the word about it, and offer any topics for future videos that interest you, I think she might like to see.
      I’m sending you very best wishes for a lovely evening!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi.💕🍜

  • @carmichael2359
    @carmichael2359 8 місяців тому

    Question: what if we are served a hearty soup, such as clam chowder? How do we gracefully get the soup onto the spoon and then into our mouths without looking gauche? Also,I was taught long ago that it is NEVER permissible to blow on your soup to cool it.Does this rule still stand? THANKS!!

  • @toml.8210
    @toml.8210 Рік тому +2

    Only animals put their face in the bowl or plate.
    Where do you get this stuff (scoop away from you)? It's not in any of my vintage Gentleman's etiquette books.
    Also, unless you're at home, you can leave the last bit in the bowl. Wealthy people (Gentlemen) can afford to leave some soup for the butler to give to the dog.

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +1

      Hello Tom L!
      Thank you for watching and asking such a great question. I have attended several different etiquette schools around the world, and the accepted way to eat soup--in the Western world and at the highest levels, e.g., you're at a state dinner or dining wth royalty; you scoop away from you when eating soup. Many organizations spend weeks teaching soup etiquette--you can get into the weeds with this one--different kinds of soups, different spoons, etc., It's a whole thing.
      I can offer some great etiquette books, if you like, about soup, in particular.
      Having said all of that--etiquette is really about being a kind and respectful person, and if you don't follow the soup etiquette rules completely, well, what the heck, as long as you're kind.
      Wishing you an amazing day! I'd love it if you'd subscribe!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi💕🥣

    • @-thefluffypoodle-
      @-thefluffypoodle- Рік тому +1

      Hello Heidi! Another great video here 🙏🏻 Are there any books on soup etiquette you would recommend? I wasn’t aware that it was covered separately as a topic in any, given that the common ones like Emily Post tend to have only a chapter devoted to dining etiquette as a whole. Looking forward to hearing from you!

  • @arianahunt1073
    @arianahunt1073 6 місяців тому +1

    How do you eat a rustic soup?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  6 місяців тому

      Hello and thanks for watching! Great question! Usually rustic type soups or stews, are served with a larger soup spoon, to make it easier to eat the soup, basically the same way it would any other soup. I’ve seen some spoons for more substantial soups, that are very large, and this more helpful when eating soups like this. It is interesting when you get into all the different types of soup spoons. Broth type soup usually have a smaller round bowled spoon, as compared to the larger oblong bowl of the spoon for heartier soups.
      I hope this helps! Thanks so much for watching, and please tune in to some other videos and ask any other questions !💕💕💕🥣

  • @brendag.763
    @brendag.763 10 місяців тому +1

    I wish UA-cam existed back in the 80's, when I had a rich boss, so occasionally ate at formal meals. Having tomato soup today, made me wonder why soup spoons were so large as to be uncomfortable to get completely inside my mouth. Now I know!

  • @nishadnishadma1710
    @nishadnishadma1710 2 місяці тому

    Mam when we can drink this soup.. Before food or after food?

  • @jonnybgoodwin
    @jonnybgoodwin 6 місяців тому

    Can I make any noise while sipping the soup

  • @prairiekid1
    @prairiekid1 2 місяці тому +1

    Do you always say “excuse me” after swallowing each mouthful?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  7 днів тому

      Hello! Thank you for watching!, No, I don’t say excuse me before every bite at home or when Dining in general, I just did that because I felt as if eating in front of the audience, could seem a bit rude, and I would excuse myself while I take a bite. my intentions were to be polite.
      Thanks again for watching and have a super day!💕

  • @zingxiu6123
    @zingxiu6123 Рік тому +1

    Finaly i keep spilling my soep and its so anoying but now i know how to drink / eat soep propperly

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching!! I’m so glad it was helpful! I’d love it if you would kindly subscribe to my channel and watch some other videos, love to hear your comments! I think you’ll find there’s a lot of helpful content on my channel.
      Best wishes for a fantastic day!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi.💕

  • @guitarsz
    @guitarsz Рік тому +1

    Hi! What if it's a thick butternut squash...so it doesn't exactly pour into you mouth?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +1

      Hello, Brooklyn!
      Thank you for watching and for the great question. Big, hearty soups should have a bigger spoon, more oval than round, and it's the same--scoop away and then bring it to your mouth. But, sometimes, you have a small spoon, and the soup is extra thick--in this case, just be reasonable and do the best you can with what you have to work with. Etiquette is really about being a kind and caring person; do that, and the rest will be okay, even super thick soup!
      Thank you, and I'd be very grateful if you'd kindly subscribe!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi

    • @guitarsz
      @guitarsz Рік тому +1

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 Thanks Heidi. I love that etiquette is an act of kindness towards others. I'll keep that in mind. Your videos are great, and you convey a grace in your actions. Love it. Happy to subscribe!

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      @@guitarsz Thank you very much, Brooklyn!! You are so kind!!💕💕

  • @YuethMP
    @YuethMP 10 місяців тому

    I love thiss! I get why people do it! It makes me feel like royalty or something like that HAHAHAAHHAHAHA

  • @markpeter4304
    @markpeter4304 10 місяців тому

    I learned how from watching the movie Pride and Prejudice.

  • @scdulebohn
    @scdulebohn 2 роки тому +1

    ?is it different for cold soup

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  2 роки тому

      Hello! Thank you for watching, and asking a good question! The answer is no, the etiquette is the same for cold soup or hot soup, or any kind of soup that is served in a bowl.
      Thank you for watching, and I’m
      sending best wishes for a nice Sunday!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi💕

  • @annabelgrace1267
    @annabelgrace1267 Рік тому +1

    What if it is a soup filled with meat and vegetables, served in a soup plate? I spoon the soup away from me, still. Is that correct?

    • @annabelgrace1267
      @annabelgrace1267 Рік тому +1

      What soup spoon do I use for a soup with meat and vegetables? What about something like beef bourgignone?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello Annabel!
      Thank you so much for watching, and asking such a great question! Sometimes you have soups with filled pasta in them, which should be bite-sized. So, you could use your soup spoon to pick up one of the filled pastas and then eat it the same way; tipping the spoon away from you to pick up the pasta piece, and then bringing it to your mouth and tipping it into your mouth from the side of the spoon.
      So it’s the same, and soup plates, or coupes, as I like to call them, same thing applies, if the coop is not on another plate, you would rest your spoon in the bowl of soup. Usually with coops, they are on their own, no saucer or under plate, so you just rest your spoon in the soup.
      Hope this helps a little bit,
      Sending your very best wishes for a lovely weekend!
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi. 💕🥄🥣

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      @@annabelgrace1267 hello! Sometimes big, hearty soups, like stews, and one of my favs; beef bourguignon, is a very large spoon, and sometimes, if it’s super hearty or on top of crusty bread, sometimes the way it could be served, you may have to use your fork and knife, at some point, if the pieces of beef are too big.
      You make me hungry, I think I’m going to have to make this tomorrow!
      Sending very best wishes for a wonderful weekend!
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi 💕💕🥄🍴

    • @annabelgrace1267
      @annabelgrace1267 Рік тому

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 Hahaha. Another question. In that case, do you cut and eat the meat first, and then use your soup spoon? What kind of spoon would you use for that? How would you set the table for that?
      Hope you enjoy your beef bourgignone!

    • @annabelgrace1267
      @annabelgrace1267 Рік тому +1

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 Thank you, Heidi, for answering my questions. I realise you do this for a living as well. Thank you for your time.

  • @wmpetroff2307
    @wmpetroff2307 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, young lady. I am a big soup eater. I have been sipping soup all wrong. :(

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +1

      Hello! I’m sure you’ve been eating soup just fine! And these videos I so what is the proper, expected matter, if your dining at the highest circles. But just remember, at Edita, Corps, etiquette is about being a kind, caring, and respectful person, regardless of how you eat your soup.
      Sending your very best wishes for a fabulous day!💕💕🥣

    • @wmpetroff2307
      @wmpetroff2307 Рік тому

      Howdy from Texas. I have been eating soup the way I know how to enjoy it, lol. However, I do realize there is a highest circle proper way to eat so that is what I am learning. Thank goodness for your sweet attitude. Btw, its gonna take a lot of practice and alot of stain remover!@@HeidiDulebohn1

  • @annabelgrace1267
    @annabelgrace1267 Рік тому +1

    What about a soup with crackers? How do you eat that?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому +1

      Hello Annabelle!
      Thanks so much for watching, and asking a really great question!
      If you were dining at the highest levels, you would not put crackers into any soup.
      However, regarding in formal dining, there are crackers made just for soup like oyster crackers, and others, and, you would eat the soup just the same as you would any other soup, with your spoon. Hopefully the crackers will be very soft, and very easily picked up in eaten with your spoon.
      Sending very best wishes for a super evening!
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi 💕🥣

  • @shashankkatembhurkar5897
    @shashankkatembhurkar5897 Рік тому +1

    Can stir the soup. While eating

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello!
      Thanks so much for watching and asking this great question! I would say most soups do not need stirring, but if yours does, please do it very discreetly- just a gentle swish back-and-forth and it should be nicely stirred. It will be a rare occasion where you will need to stir your soup, so you probably will not have to worry about it. However, if you do you know what to do very gently.
      Wishing you a lovely day, and I would be so grateful if you would kindly subscribe to my channel!
      Warm regards,
      Heidi.💕🥣

  • @kanika__12
    @kanika__12 Рік тому +1

    Your house is beautiful

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Thank you very much for watching, and for your very kind compliment! You’re really lovely, we had a whole house, renovation, and it was really to our very specific liking. However, things changed, and we have since moved from that beautiful house, and we are in search of our next beautiful house! Truly, what makes the house beautiful is simple, it’s the people who inhabited that house! As long as it’s full of love and good and generous spirits, that is a beautiful home!
      Thank you, you’re lovely, I appreciate your kind words.
      I’d be very grateful if you would kindly subscribe to my channel and help spread the word!
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi 💕

    • @kanika__12
      @kanika__12 Рік тому

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 ok

  • @user-ku7tz6qu5o
    @user-ku7tz6qu5o Рік тому +1

    Вы просто супер спасибо большое ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fiberdelicrochet
    @fiberdelicrochet Рік тому +1

    Thank you, I’m a female and my grandpa said I eat soup like a mountain man. Not anymore

  • @pce12345
    @pce12345 Рік тому +3

    I like to eat it with a knife and fork. Much more elegant

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello! Thanks so much for watching, and you do you! Remember, at its core, etiquette is about being a kind and respectful person, regardless of how you eat your soup.
      Sending best wishes for a super day, and I'd love it if you'd kindly subscribe to my channel.
      Warm regards,
      Heidi🥣🍴

  • @FakeItalianoII
    @FakeItalianoII 9 місяців тому +3

    That is too complicated, I prever to use a STRAW !!!

  • @StevenHughes-hr5hp
    @StevenHughes-hr5hp Місяць тому

    Why do you want to sit straight up while eating messy stuff? You just wind up with soyp, rice or peas all over the floor. With soup or chili lean over the bowl.

  • @not_much_of_chad_after_all
    @not_much_of_chad_after_all Рік тому +1

    Why do have 2 forks ????

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  11 місяців тому +1

      Hello! Thank you for watching and asking such an observant question! I love playing "detective" and determining the menu by merely looking at the table setting. So, in this video, I am on the soup course--the smaller outside fork indicates another course, perhaps a salad, then the larger inside fork and knife are meant for the main course.
      I hope this helps! Please watch some of our other videos. I'd love to hear your thoughts, and I'd be grateful if you'd kindly subscribe.
      Thank you and Bon Appetite!
      Heidi💕🍽

    • @not_much_of_chad_after_all
      @not_much_of_chad_after_all 11 місяців тому

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 i know what the forks mean but your only eating soup so if anything you should just have the main course fork and remove the salad fork
      Cuz by your sense you should add every other fork while just eating soup

  • @pj-light-glass
    @pj-light-glass 3 місяці тому +1

    But why? How did that become the "proper" way?

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  2 місяці тому

      Hello! You ask a super question! This goes back for hundreds of years and has become tradition. Etiquette is about honoring tradition, yet always evolving and staying modern. So when you eat soup, this is the proper way, however if you have a big hardy stew then be reasonable how you handle your spoon.
      Thanks so much for watching, I’d love to hear what you think about some other videos! 💕🥣

  • @kanika__12
    @kanika__12 Рік тому

    Can we eat soup with theeth i eat with that

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  Рік тому

      Hello!
      Well, sure, if your teeth when eating chunky soups! Thank you for watching, and I love it if you would kindly subscribe to my channel!
      Sending very best wishes for a lovely day,
      Warm regards,
      Heidi💕🥣

  • @alexandro_lux
    @alexandro_lux 11 місяців тому +2

    This gave me anxiety.

  • @maramSB
    @maramSB Рік тому

    Who can’t be kind to you?!!

  • @johndawhale3197
    @johndawhale3197 10 місяців тому +1

    lol what am I watching...If you're this concerned with the way people eat then your priorities are seriously messed up...
    I thought this was gonna be a video correcting people who slurp their soup to instead drop it like cough medicine...which actually is fundamentally the correct way to do it.

  • @achitophel5852
    @achitophel5852 7 місяців тому

    Start by not splitting the infinitive. It's difficult to take someone seriously who doesn't obey the rules of grammar. And what happened to soup spoons?

  • @killersoung
    @killersoung Рік тому

    God watching 👀 like smh!!!

  • @wRAAh
    @wRAAh 7 місяців тому

    Should be two to three minutes max. Talking so much is not good etiquette.

  • @ropeSARnerd
    @ropeSARnerd 9 місяців тому

    This is a pointless skill in life

  • @MickHuerta
    @MickHuerta Рік тому

    Odd accent ... 🤔

  • @bart234465
    @bart234465 7 місяців тому

    This woman has no actual problems

  • @donnastevens5515
    @donnastevens5515 2 роки тому

    Good Morning Heidi Never really thought of the right way to eat soup, although can be a bit messy thank you for those tips hope you are well and fine we are day in front here 4am 12th july up and about my birthday today off to celebrate tonight going to a lovely place to dine excuse to get dressed up lol tc and enjoy your day Love Donna xoxo enjoying your channel trying to keep up lol

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  2 роки тому +1

      💕🥳🎊🎉💕
      Happy birthday, Donna! I’m sending very best birthday wishes to you lovely day and a fabulous dinner tonight!
      Thank you, as always for being so extremely kind to watch and comment! Soup is a very big subject in etiquette! Can take weeks and weeks and weeks to really study! Believe it or not!
      I’m very excited about your day, and hope to hear how the restaurant was, and I hope your meal is extra special!
      Sending warmest birthday wishes!
      Love, HEIDI💕💕🎂

    • @donnastevens5515
      @donnastevens5515 2 роки тому

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 Thank you Heidi looking forward to this evening with my date will let you know how the night turns out Off course have learnt my etiquette manners ladylike love the old fashion manners have to say Donna xoxo

    • @donnastevens5515
      @donnastevens5515 2 роки тому +1

      @@HeidiDulebohn1 Morn Heidi Was a lovely romantic evening got dressed up had a ball lovely meal and yes remember table manners ladylike way was given some lovely flowers so was a good time just thought id give you feedback Love Donna xoxo

    • @HeidiDulebohn1
      @HeidiDulebohn1  2 роки тому +1

      @@donnastevens5515 hello Donna! I am so delighted to hear that your birthday, and dinner date was lovely! You deserve it! You deserve to have an absolutely, spectacular birthday! Thank you for your very kind words regarding all your etiquette, I know you were absolutely perfect!
      Sending you very warmest and the most sincere best wishes,
      Warmest regards,
      Heidi💕💕💕💕💕💕🎉🥳❤️🎂💕

    • @annabelgrace1267
      @annabelgrace1267 Рік тому +1

      Happy birthday! Hope you had a good one

  • @alexandro_lux
    @alexandro_lux 11 місяців тому

    This gave me anxiety.