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I agree and disagree. We accept love that we think we deserve, but for those that give you love you think you don’t deserve, you can still accept it because love is love. ❤️
There are so many "life stories" on UA-cam that always paint men as the villains. Luis is awesome because he shows us that evil knows no race or gender. Keep it up!
@@rojaligajula2184 Because a real man would never lay a finger on a woman, no matter what, out of respect. Plus, you don’t answer violence with violence. The problem is a real man is hard to find and they’re exactly the ones who get abused by women.
Men can get abused too.. Violence has nothing to do with gender and true 'change for our own better ' is the rule of life ! Thanks Luis for creating such a positive impact into our lives
The girl at the gym was the perfect example of what a real partner is. She supported him and turned his life around after going through shit. She sees herself in him too and it generally defines what love is.
@@roberttippett3733 It’s times like this I’m glad I didn’t get married because for all I know that wife could be Just like the one in this UA-cam video
It really depends on how you define abuse.....there are two ways i know of, to abuse a spouse, there is physically and there is also psychologically.....as we know, men are normally the ones that do the physical abuse, women tend to be more psychological abuse......believe it or not, psychological abuse takes longer to heal than physical abuse and since male to female abuse seems more common than female to male abuse is because most female to male abuse goes unreported because the men feel ashamed and they will be mocked....you know, via a 'you got beaten by girl? so lame, so pathetic' yet if you defend yourself, the same people that mock you, will condemn you for defending yourself, for a man, it is a lose-lose scenario.
I love that last statement because it’s something that many people don’t realize: “We accept the love we think we deserve.” If we don’t care about ourselves or think that we aren’t worthwhile, we will let others mistreat us and abuse us verbally and physically. This life lesson is so important because we don’t have to be in an abusive relationship or be with people who don’t respect us. Also, I’m sure that men find it hard to admit that they are being abused by their wives, girlfriends or significant other. Thanks, Luis.
Y’know if you would like where this quote initially came from, then check out the perks of being a wallflower, be it the movie or the book it still has this message
It's sad that people stereotype women as being exclusive victims of domestic and sexual abuse. It's important to see men can be victims too so thank you for posting this.
Yeah, I agree, its just probably because men are stronger (not stereotypical, its just how god made humans) so if a woman abused him he could overpower her by a lot the only problem is he'd go to jail, which is probably because men can deal more damage to women than women to men. But yeah, women should go to jail too if they do this.
@@chaosqueen1703 Men are not that "stronger." That strength gap is quickly closing, and before you know it women will be just as strong/even stronger than men.
Thanks for making this video Luis. So many people don’t think women are capable of abuse, and call the men weak for not being a “man.” Men can be abused just as women can!
It’s good to finally see videos coming out showing that men also go through DV. As sad as it is to see I think a lot of people don’t get that men can go through abuse also and so many times it’s missed, ignored or even laughed at. It’s not joke. Men suffering in silence, suffering at all, is not a joke. More awareness needs to be made.
This goes to show that it's not just women getting abused. It happens to men as well. Your stories are always an inspiration, Luis, and I can't wait to see more
@@besties4eva732 men are but if they hit back the consequences for them will be much more severe then a woman hitting a man because that's just how life is. in this matter it is really unjust for men
I’m glad that you made this. Because majority of society believe that we men “can’t” get abused by our wives. Hopefully this video will show people that we men are just as vulnerable to abuse. Hope everyone has a good day and stay safe everyone 👍❤️
It doesn’t matter whether your a man or a woman any gender that abuses another person regardless of gender deserves to be punished the same way how they punish men
The abuse is especially hard because these men oftentimes feel helpless because they worry what society will think of them for not protecting themselves which is a double-edged sword because men aren’t supposed to defend themselves against women.
Society seriously needs to understand that women are just as capable of being monstrous abusers the same way as men can but it's sadly not recognized that much. Good thing this video shows otherwise
Unfortunately for men in situations like this, if there were or do stand up to their abusers, they often get in trouble themselves. Wether they block a punch, push the abuser away or even try to fight back. A lot of men put up with this everyday because unfortunately, the law isn’t on their side. I hope one day there’s a lot more support for men.
@@Dani_ElleAnzace Damn law always trying to make it sound like the male gender are weak. The justice system is the one that's weak if they believe one side is acceptable while the other is "frowned upon"
My ex girlfriend was pretty abusive along with being a narcissist her family didn't make it any better by enabling her behavior and forcing me to apologize for her mood swings and insecurities instead of telling her that she's wrong men get abused too it's not widely reported mostly due to embarrassment and fear of being ostracized
Poor sweetheart,I had put up with lots of mental abuse when I got married to my ex husband,his sister and mom were mentally abusive He might as well have been too going along with what they did to me
Men aren't the only ones in a relationship that can harm their partner. In order for a relationship to work both partners need to respect each other and keep each other safe from harm.
Great to see that you are shedding some light on female abusers. I had clothes hangers thrown at me, been slammed up against the bathroom door, threatened of accusations of rape in public and gone through narcissistic abuse. I even had new prospective girlfriends leave me, claiming I was just playing victim because women are not abusive.
I was married once... my ex wife used to beat on me and I had enough. One day I had to defend myself. I didn't beat her up or anything, but I got the heck out of there and was able to escape with my life. All that is glitters is not gold. Thanks to my mom, I was able to escape while my now ex-wife was asleep.
I remember watching a lifetime movie years ago based on a true story called men don’t tell it was about a wife who had a drinking problem and whenever she got drunk or angry she would physically and verbally abuse her husband
This DOES happen to us men, having lived through it firsthand myself. It needs to be talked more about just like abusive men are toward women, so thank you for spreading awareness! 💯
It saddens me that people are so blind to the fact that thousands of men are being abused by woman and because of the stereotypes that depict the men are the abusers and they need to be strong and not show emotion, the reality is that anyone, including women can be abused. To all the men who are being or have been abused, never be afraid to speak up, you matter too, don’t let the media or stereotypes stop you from speaking up, you are not alone
they arent blind they just dont get it fact that the actual abused victims have evidence but other women who think hey i want rid of my man but how and play the victim card same as the male abusers will also play that victim card and actualy most victims dont get a proper trial because again the abuser knows if they deny deny for 5 times then admit then the victim does not get heard and he or she gets off with basically a slap on the wris so they can then harrass their victim after
What a mess we find our self in ,when you're in an abusive relationship the pain we endure ,the shame ,the hurt and sometimes don't know where to turn but not most would have the courage to get up and get out .great story Luis thanks so much
If someone finds themselves in a situation where your partner is laying hands on you in violence or putting you in a position where you would consider laying them out, it’s time to call it quits! And always stay financially independent.
@@Frightmarelordofthenightmares dude people say “always believe women” dude we barely believe men, and they say we have privilege! They have legal privileges
True, men probably get yelled at or abused by their wives more than we think, usually women experience this a lot (that’s bad), but it can happen to men too (that’s also bad). I agree with you.
It's sad that society always think of domestic abuse as the man doing it to the woman when it can be the other way around too. This video is the best at showing that women are just as capable of being monstrous abusers
Thank you Luis for showing this happens. I am part of a community that is fighting to get this kind of ab*se recognized and the media doesn't help by painting only the men as the abusers. So thank you for doing this again.
This was such an emotional video and it was a good video. Women do these to men and they don't report it since they don't want to be seen as weak. Men receive abuse just like women and they should be aloud to take about it. I love you Luis and your videos. He is better off with someone else that doesn't treat him that way and she is going to regret it one day
Finally people who don’t think men are invincible egotistical bastards and realize men are actual human being thank you Luis I’m glad someone knows me suffer too
Thanks, Luis for the video/story. This brings awareness to spousal abuse, no matter the gender. Although this is a true story about a man who's on the receiving end of abuse, society seems to not take this as seriously if it was the reverse. Hopefully, this mindset will change.
sadly, a lot of men are abused in relationships, but very few come forward to tell their story. Those who have were either disbelieved, shamed, or even accused of having deserved it!
I was in an abusive relationship once and it ended recently. Women are not always the victim according to most people. Men getting abused is just as common as women getting abused
I found parts of this video to be disturbing to watch. Your actors are very talented. The second wife is abusive and cruel. I’m glad that he met Sarah. He learned to love himself. I agree with the statement “we accept the love we believe we deserve”. The first time I heard that was from the movie “the Perks of Being a Wallflower”. It’s very true.
Thank you Louis for putting a spin on things and showing the other side of the pillow that people don't want to show. Now I know that they are women whom are being abused badly and my heart goes out to them, but they are some men out there who take a bad beat down as well!!! No name's!!! I know a guy whom could hold his own pretty damn good, but was being abused in his own home and went to the courts for help, did you know that the judge looked at him and laughed at him saying how could she hurt you!! Two things, one I wasn't hitting back and two she was a pretty big female and strong and well trained!!! The judge never give up the paperwork that this gentleman went for. The court office saw the whole thing and said that was wrong!!! But keep the paperwork as proof!!! Peace and love
I once had a buddy who used to get abused by his wife. She'd hit him, scratch his face, and give him black eyes and he'd just let her and I told him that if he didn't get help real soon you're gonna end up fighting back and it's gonna be so spontaneous you won't see it coming until it happens and that's exactly what happened one day when she tried to hit him on the head with a heavy ash tray he straight up co-cocked her and she hit the floor like a sack of potatoes got up and ran out of the house.
@@rmanimationsdc2781 My buddy once told me his first wife's father was a professional chef, opera singer, and a boxer who taught his daughter how to fight and he used to have to protect himself from her because she had a bad temper and that's what ended the marriage and he didn't want to make the same mistake again and of course he did by getting into a whirlwind courtship with this girl he barely knew and I told him to slow down until you get to know this woman and he didn't listen and ended up with a crazy abusive woman. I haven't seen dude in years and I sometimes wonder if he's still married to her.
This is a great video thanks for sharing. The wife is terrible towards her husband she has no right to treat him like that this guy deserves way better than her and people like her in real life have no business being in a relationship.
It’s about time they show a video like this! Finally! Women can be abusive as men. They need to show this more. Thank you Luis for showing this! That woman’s behavior is unacceptable!
@@Moonrosiehrt I have bad eye sight for real so typing takes me a minute and it's mostly auto correct so I often misread comments and have to double take. sometimes I find it so funny I share :)
FINALLY!!! A video that turns the table and doesn't show the guy as the bad guy, and for once shows that there are girlfriends and wife's out there that can and will abuse their husbands. Sad reality is that they can get away with it, cause if a guy speaks out, no one is gonna believe him unless shown proof. Luis you have my full respect dude, if only the others like Vid chronicles would do this too.
This happened to me I lost my son through death my first wife left because she could not cope don't blame her.then I met someone else and was so crazy she ripped my neck apart could not speak to anyone if I did not do what she say she would jump on me. One day I came home from work, I worked late as was ice cream man trying to earn living when I got home I read news paper and she put her heal in my back no reason at all. I'm fed up that women never go to justice and pay for there mistakes like men do. Now I train every day and will never let any women do what she did.I It's not just abuse that men do it women too the world should know. All adverts on tv on abusive men but what about women. P.s now I have a beautiful lady in my life and so happy. Thanks for listening.
Thank you. Not just men can be abusive, but also women! It is not weak to ask for help. Men have feelings too. Treat your partner with respect, loyalty and love. No matter what.
Hi Luis, I had a neighbor many years ago and he was in a violent relationship as his wife used to beat him and even tried to strangle him on several occasions, I saw it with my own eyes. He was too weak and his wife was strong as a bull. He eventually filed for divorce. I enjoyed the episode and I always love the happy ending. Thank you brother for always feeding us fantastic life lessons. Be safe.💓💓💓💓
I’m glad that Luis is at least honest with his titles. Dhar Mann is good too, but he uses “instantly regrets it” so much, but they really don’t regret it instantly, while Luis doesn’t do that.
I agree with you but Luis’s video’s sometimes are fake for example who would put their husbands head in a trash can? I understand hitting your husband but not putting his head in a trash can?
As a DV survivor myself, who also was abused by a narcissist. The hardest thing to see is our worth after being torn down for so long. And narcissist don't admit using & abusing someone. You can identify them by lack of concern & respect as well as abusive & destructive behavior.
Abusive wives are almost as common as abusive husbands. In some ways that's even more evil, because the husbands rarely admit to it, rarely seek help, just die inside. It happened to someone I know - a lovely, very intelligent chap. The marriage lasted less than a year of physical and mental abuse - but "battered wives" get all the sympathy
I had an abusive ex husband. One day when he wasnt drunk i stood up to him.told him what i thought of him. He cowered and said he would change. I told him to leave.he did. We are long divorced.great video luis.
So glad to see a video about awareness about men being abused there’s always so much stuff about the women being the victims but not enough about men being the victims like think about it child abuse for example you talk about every gender of the child being abused but an abusive relationship they just talk about the women being abused and never the men being abused so I’m so glad that this video is showing the opposite and showing men being abused and making awareness
Love yourself and others will love you. If you find yourself being abused in a relationship then move on because that person doesn't love you they love controlling you. You are not the garbage they say you are.
Can't believe I actually searched "abusive wife" on UA-cam and watched it, Thinking it would help.. Can't believe I actually cried Can't believe I actually thought this world might of cared about men abused by their wives 💙💜💙💜🖤🖤🖤🖤
She also caused her husband to get sacked from his previous job while she doesn't work. And she could take out the trash HERSELF since she doesn't do anything but drink beer and watch American football, and cheat on her husband. She's sounds like a gold digger because she only married him for the insurance he received.
@@aishaabdirahman8589 EXACTLY!!! She should've gone to jail for abuse and if she did, justice should be served and there should be no amount of money to save her
I've been through that situation back in 2003 it tooks me awhile to break out of it before things were getting worse. When I saw that, it gives me a flashback and it did feels like the opposite of "What's Love Got To Do With It" it's hard for me to forgive her but I will never forget.
Hey Brother in 2002 I went thru the same thing abusive marriage lying cheating on me it took all my power to get out weren't for my family and friends it so much too tell u
Well done Luis!!! You've finally released a video that reveal also men get abused by their wives. I don't know why most videos from other you tubers paint men as evil or villains.
Some girls won’t walk away or let you walk away. Some females pick up weapons smh. Pray for us. Ya never know which of us is stuck in this exact thing.
You rarely don't hear wife abusing their husband its usually the other way around mentally yes but physically no. So its not always the husband the wife can also be cruel as well.
Women aren't often able to physically overpower men (there are always exceptions) so they execute passive aggression, manipulation, emotional abuse and taking advantage of the legal system which they know favours them more than it does men and at the centre of it, the children (if any) in relationships. This man in the video could easily have physically overpowered that She-Devil he was married to but he was much too passive.
@@Broccoli75 Err...Yeah, that's what I basically implied when I stated all of those things, especially when I stated that they take advantage of the legal system knowing full well it is way more in favour towards them, thus he ends up either prosecuted if he defends himself or taken to the cleaners if he files for divorce.
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I agree and disagree. We accept love that we think we deserve, but for those that give you love you think you don’t deserve, you can still accept it because love is love. ❤️
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Yes, but you forgot to add that she was arrested for violence and abuse!
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wow, the roles are reversed yikes.
Finally one where a wife is abusive. Great job Luis!
Totally agree! This happens more than it’s talked about. It needs to be put out there and talked about more!
@@andreabennerakaandi9256 I say more emotional abuse
It’s about time
Ikr
Ye ik
There are so many "life stories" on UA-cam that always paint men as the villains. Luis is awesome because he shows us that evil knows no race or gender. Keep it up!
It's proven women are likely to be abuse victims. Low numbers with men, but it happens.
But how was she able to overpower him she's smaller or about the same size
@@rojaligajula2184 Bc some men don’t want to hurt them
@@rojaligajula2184 Because a real man would never lay a finger on a woman, no matter what, out of respect. Plus, you don’t answer violence with violence. The problem is a real man is hard to find and they’re exactly the ones who get abused by women.
@@personifiedeath your name is Alice, so I'm assuming you are a woman, and if you are then you have no authority to talk on men's problems 💀
Men can get abused too.. Violence has nothing to do with gender and true 'change for our own better ' is the rule of life ! Thanks Luis for creating such a positive impact into our lives
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I agree with you 💯%.
@@grim1566 bababooey!!!!!!!!!!!
Its really sad that most victims are Females and when males are abused, we don’t believe them. We need to change that.
The girl at the gym was the perfect example of what a real partner is. She supported him and turned his life around after going through shit. She sees herself in him too and it generally defines what love is.
That’s what she looks like now.
@@roberttippett3733 It’s times like this I’m glad I didn’t get married because for all I know that wife could be Just like the one in this UA-cam video
this wife needs to get arrested
Anyone can be abusive. Thank you so much Luis for making a video on this.
That's Right, abuse can happened to both men and women.
@@jonathantyner171 This is the reason they need to be single
She was a bully
@@perryionebrooks6002 Not nice lady, no! 😮
And to think that there are people who still think men can't get abused by women, glad this video is out! Great video
I still think that, unless the woman is like some martial artist
Really hope things change in the future where women are always nice to men.
@Stuck in Afghanistan yeah, if like the man is disabled, or the woman is like an ufc fighter for an example
It really depends on how you define abuse.....there are two ways i know of, to abuse a spouse, there is physically and there is also psychologically.....as we know, men are normally the ones that do the physical abuse, women tend to be more psychological abuse......believe it or not, psychological abuse takes longer to heal than physical abuse and since male to female abuse seems more common than female to male abuse is because most female to male abuse goes unreported because the men feel ashamed and they will be mocked....you know, via a 'you got beaten by girl? so lame, so pathetic' yet if you defend yourself, the same people that mock you, will condemn you for defending yourself, for a man, it is a lose-lose scenario.
Now they got an aggressive WIFE! Holy sh#t!
I love that last statement because it’s something that many people don’t realize: “We accept the love we think we deserve.” If we don’t care about ourselves or think that we aren’t worthwhile, we will let others mistreat us and abuse us verbally and physically. This life lesson is so important because we don’t have to be in an abusive relationship or be with people who don’t respect us. Also, I’m sure that men find it hard to admit that they are being abused by their wives, girlfriends or significant other. Thanks, Luis.
I would like to mention that we accept the love we want. That would be a sigh of relief.
Y’know if you would like where this quote initially came from, then check out the perks of being a wallflower, be it the movie or the book it still has this message
That was beautiful
*THIS ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️*
That's not always true. Speaking from experience si why catagorize.
It's sad that people stereotype women as being exclusive victims of domestic and sexual abuse. It's important to see men can be victims too so thank you for posting this.
Yeah, I agree, its just probably because men are stronger (not stereotypical, its just how god made humans) so if a woman abused him he could overpower her by a lot the only problem is he'd go to jail, which is probably because men can deal more damage to women than women to men. But yeah, women should go to jail too if they do this.
me too bro but if you are a man bro its not so usual to get beat up by a woman.
This is a fact of real life in this Western world.
@@chaosqueen1703 Men are not that "stronger." That strength gap is quickly closing, and before you know it women will be just as strong/even stronger than men.
@@justforrow well thats with tons of workout/laziness, but naturally, men tend to be stronger
Thanks for making this video Luis. So many people don’t think women are capable of abuse, and call the men weak for not being a “man.” Men can be abused just as women can!
It’s good to finally see videos coming out showing that men also go through DV.
As sad as it is to see I think a lot of people don’t get that men can go through abuse also and so many times it’s missed, ignored or even laughed at. It’s not joke. Men suffering in silence, suffering at all, is not a joke. More awareness needs to be made.
And also SA
This goes to show that it's not just women getting abused. It happens to men as well. Your stories are always an inspiration, Luis, and I can't wait to see more
あなたが正しいです、それは両方の方法で起こります、そして実際にはそれを見るのはとても悲しいです
Sometimes I don’t get how some men aren’t strong enough women
@@besties4eva732 men are but if they hit back the consequences for them will be much more severe then a woman hitting a man because that's just how life is. in this matter it is really unjust for men
Thank you for being one of the few influencers who acknowledges the pain and abuse of men that tends to be overlooked in our modern society!
Modern society should be known as the "real world."
Anyone if anyone sees how a man is sometimes treated by a woman like this, they just laugh and make jokes of it
I’m glad that you made this. Because majority of society believe that we men “can’t” get abused by our wives.
Hopefully this video will show people that we men are just as vulnerable to abuse.
Hope everyone has a good day and stay safe everyone 👍❤️
That's why he's awesome. Shows us evil knows no race or gender.
It doesn’t matter whether your a man or a woman any gender that abuses another person regardless of gender deserves to be punished the same way how they punish men
The abuse is especially hard because these men oftentimes feel helpless because they worry what society will think of them for not protecting themselves which is a double-edged sword because men aren’t supposed to defend themselves against women.
Society seriously needs to understand that women are just as capable of being monstrous abusers the same way as men can but it's sadly not recognized that much. Good thing this video shows otherwise
true but its never this bad
If a woman ever did that to me, Madea said it best "I'm going to jail".
Unfortunately for men in situations like this, if there were or do stand up to their abusers, they often get in trouble themselves. Wether they block a punch, push the abuser away or even try to fight back. A lot of men put up with this everyday because unfortunately, the law isn’t on their side. I hope one day there’s a lot more support for men.
@@Dani_ElleAnzace The Me Too movement already got rid of that
@@j.i.r608 yup it tossed that policy in the garbage were it belongs!
I'd go to jail too if a woman did that to me.
@@Dani_ElleAnzace Damn law always trying to make it sound like the male gender are weak. The justice system is the one that's weak if they believe one side is acceptable while the other is "frowned upon"
I think its very refreshing that someone actually spoke about male victims. Thank you Luis
My ex girlfriend was pretty abusive along with being a narcissist her family didn't make it any better by enabling her behavior and forcing me to apologize for her mood swings and insecurities instead of telling her that she's wrong men get abused too it's not widely reported mostly due to embarrassment and fear of being ostracized
Same man
My dad was abused by my mother
She ended up killing him before he could report it
See men can abused too my ex bf was telling me men can’t abused yes they can
@@supermanfan3113 How sad 😭
@@supermanfan3113 man that’s so sad I hope your doing well ❤️
Poor sweetheart,I had put up with lots of mental abuse when I got married to my ex husband,his sister and mom were mentally abusive
He might as well have been too going along with what they did to me
Men aren't the only ones in a relationship that can harm their partner. In order for a relationship to work both partners need to respect each other and keep each other safe from harm.
Great to see that you are shedding some light on female abusers. I had clothes hangers thrown at me, been slammed up against the bathroom door, threatened of accusations of rape in public and gone through narcissistic abuse. I even had new prospective girlfriends leave me, claiming I was just playing victim because women are not abusive.
This if proof that men can also be abused. Great video. Being with someone because of their money, how low of a person can that woman be?
I was married once... my ex wife used to beat on me and I had enough. One day I had to defend myself. I didn't beat her up or anything, but I got the heck out of there and was able to escape with my life. All that is glitters is not gold. Thanks to my mom, I was able to escape while my now ex-wife was asleep.
I'm really glad 💓
Bro I am sorry if a woman is bold enough to hit a man he should beat her ass
Why didn't u hit her back
U put ur hands on me I put them back I don't care who u are a men a girl a cop a dea maf I don't touch u you don't touch me we have to show respect
@@juangalvan2930 A new born baby too?
This lady has really executed the abusive part well.... thanks for showing the concept to the people who don't believe it this way
I remember watching a lifetime movie years ago based on a true story called men don’t tell it was about a wife who had a drinking problem and whenever she got drunk or angry she would physically and verbally abuse her husband
@@erinmefford8041 What movie was it called?
I’m glad mike finally stood up to Daniela and for himself, and the trash that he saw is her.
At the end it should have had Sarah punch Danielle in the face for what she did.
So, am I. Man or woman, straight or gay, nobody has any business mistreating/abusing their significant others, period.
@@atrainbrady3208 Agreed
@@atrainbrady3208 I wish Sarah should’ve punched Danielle. Why didn’t she do that?
This DOES happen to us men, having lived through it firsthand myself.
It needs to be talked more about just like abusive men are toward women, so thank you for spreading awareness! 💯
"We accept the love we think we deserve". I always loved this message ❤️ I agree with this statement I definitely DO❤️
It saddens me that people are so blind to the fact that thousands of men are being abused by woman and because of the stereotypes that depict the men are the abusers and they need to be strong and not show emotion, the reality is that anyone, including women can be abused. To all the men who are being or have been abused, never be afraid to speak up, you matter too, don’t let the media or stereotypes stop you from speaking up, you are not alone
God bless you 🙏🏾❤🙌
@@mako2king609 thanks for the comment 😊
@@numnutz01-11 NP dawg
Because, feminism along with government has given this narrative that all men are evil and women are good.
they arent blind they just dont get it fact that the actual abused victims have evidence but other women who think hey i want rid of my man but how and play the victim card same as the male abusers will also play that victim card and actualy most victims dont get a proper trial because again the abuser knows if they deny deny for 5 times then admit then the victim does not get heard and he or she gets off with basically a slap on the wris so they can then harrass their victim after
What a mess we find our self in ,when you're in an abusive relationship the pain we endure ,the shame ,the hurt and sometimes don't know where to turn but not most would have the courage to get up and get out .great story Luis thanks so much
If someone finds themselves in a situation where your partner is laying hands on you in violence or putting you in a position where you would consider laying them out, it’s time to call it quits! And always stay financially independent.
Aw that poor guy! he seemed so kind!
Yeah, he was nothing but nice, and she was bullying him the whole time
Im glad the other side of abuse awareness is coming out. Men being abused need support, listening , and for their truth to get out.
Finally one where the wife is abusive. Whenever humanity thinks of abusive relationships they don't think the woman is capable of it.
I couldn't agree more. People need to be more aware that women can be just as abusive as men
Ikr usually it’s always the husbands
They always get blamed, when a man is accused it’s just the womens story and not the man’s.
@@yoriichi426 Yeah and the fact that they sometimes fake it and ruin his life makes it even worse.😔
@@Frightmarelordofthenightmares dude people say “always believe women” dude we barely believe men, and they say we have privilege! They have legal privileges
Man, that was something. Usually the women can be in a abusive relationship, but men can too. Powerful stuff.
True, men probably get yelled at or abused by their wives more than we think, usually women experience this a lot (that’s bad), but it can happen to men too (that’s also bad). I agree with you.
It's sad that society always think of domestic abuse as the man doing it to the woman when it can be the other way around too. This video is the best at showing that women are just as capable of being monstrous abusers
Thank you Luis for showing this happens. I am part of a community that is fighting to get this kind of ab*se recognized and the media doesn't help by painting only the men as the abusers. So thank you for doing this again.
This was such an emotional video and it was a good video. Women do these to men and they don't report it since they don't want to be seen as weak. Men receive abuse just like women and they should be aloud to take about it. I love you Luis and your videos. He is better off with someone else that doesn't treat him that way and she is going to regret it one day
Finally people who don’t think men are invincible egotistical bastards and realize men are actual human being thank you Luis I’m glad someone knows me suffer too
This was great Luis...power to all those who are getting abused in their relationships. It's all about the lessons of self-love!
Finally, someone has switched up the status quo. Women can be abusive too. Great lesson!
Nice job, Luis
I love the self love he got in the end. "I deserve it" 🥰❤
Thanks, Luis for the video/story. This brings awareness to spousal abuse, no matter the gender. Although this is a true story about a man who's on the receiving end of abuse, society seems to not take this as seriously if it was the reverse. Hopefully, this mindset will change.
And don't forget dating abuse.
This kind young man deserves happiness and love .I'm happy he met this amazing woman
sadly, a lot of men are abused in relationships, but very few come forward to tell their story. Those who have were either disbelieved, shamed, or even accused of having deserved it!
I was in an abusive relationship once and it ended recently. Women are not always the victim according to most people. Men getting abused is just as common as women getting abused
Exactly
Facts my guy
I found parts of this video to be disturbing to watch. Your actors are very talented.
The second wife is abusive and cruel. I’m glad that he met Sarah. He learned to love himself.
I agree with the statement “we accept the love we believe we deserve”. The first time I heard that was from the movie “the Perks of Being a Wallflower”. It’s very true.
Finally, a person who doesn't view men as the assholes always being wife beaters, honestly a decent channel with semi-good quality production videos.
I love this
Men don’t abuse
Abusers abuses
That includes men women and everything in between. There voices deserve to be hear as well
I am glad to see the other way around. Great Lesson Luis!
Moral of the story:
Don't get married if someone you're with didn't respect you and treating you like trash.
Thank you Louis for putting a spin on things and showing the other side of the pillow that people don't want to show. Now I know that they are women whom are being abused badly and my heart goes out to them, but they are some men out there who take a bad beat down as well!!! No name's!!! I know a guy whom could hold his own pretty damn good, but was being abused in his own home and went to the courts for help, did you know that the judge looked at him and laughed at him saying how could she hurt you!! Two things, one I wasn't hitting back and two she was a pretty big female and strong and well trained!!! The judge never give up the paperwork that this gentleman went for. The court office saw the whole thing and said that was wrong!!! But keep the paperwork as proof!!! Peace and love
Beautiful and lovely msg . So much abuse is happening in this world today ..... I love the msg.🙏🏼💙❤🌻🌻🌻🌻🌺
I am very happy to see a woman being mean to someone!! Tysm!! No one should have to go through this!
I once had a buddy who used to get abused by his wife.
She'd hit him, scratch his face, and give him black eyes and he'd just let her and I told him that if he didn't get help real soon you're gonna end up fighting back and it's gonna be so spontaneous you won't see it coming until it happens and that's exactly what happened one day when she tried to hit him on the head with a heavy ash tray he straight up co-cocked her and she hit the floor like a sack of potatoes got up and ran out of the house.
Damn dude. She deserved it
@@greenbandit4219 Yeah I know especially since she took total advantage of my buddy who doesn't believe in hitting women.
In that case, he was perfectly within his right
@@kimbelsimpson7535 I Hope hes okay now, anyways, what a such prehistoric way to think, but maybe he just don't wanna get in trouble
@@rmanimationsdc2781 My buddy once told me his first wife's father was a professional chef, opera singer, and a boxer who taught his daughter how to fight and he used to have to protect himself from her because she had a bad temper and that's what ended the marriage and he didn't want to make the same mistake again and of course he did by getting into a whirlwind courtship with this girl he barely knew and I told him to slow down until you get to know this woman and he didn't listen and ended up with a crazy abusive woman.
I haven't seen dude in years and I sometimes wonder if he's still married to her.
This is a great video thanks for sharing. The wife is terrible towards her husband she has no right to treat him like that this guy deserves way better than her and people like her in real life have no business being in a relationship.
Abuse can go both ways, and when you feel like you’re not going to get through it, leave , and not regret it
Amen.
Hallelujah
I went thru it with my 2nd ex wife
"The moment she lays her hands on you all respect is lost. There's no relationship to save."
Ouch, that one was tough to swallow
It’s about time they show a video like this! Finally! Women can be abusive as men. They need to show this more. Thank you Luis for showing this! That woman’s behavior is unacceptable!
yes indeed
My day always gets better when Luis uploads 😁👍🏼🔥🔥
I thought u said ur dad always gets better I had to blink and read it a couple more times 😂
@@topaz9655 haha funny
@@Moonrosiehrt I have bad eye sight for real so typing takes me a minute and it's mostly auto correct so I often misread comments and have to double take. sometimes I find it so funny I share :)
FINALLY!!! A video that turns the table and doesn't show the guy as the bad guy, and for once shows that there are girlfriends and wife's out there that can and will abuse their husbands. Sad reality is that they can get away with it, cause if a guy speaks out, no one is gonna believe him unless shown proof. Luis you have my full respect dude, if only the others like Vid chronicles would do this too.
This happened to me I lost my son through death my first wife left because she could not cope don't blame her.then I met someone else and was so crazy she ripped my neck apart could not speak to anyone if I did not do what she say she would jump on me. One day I came home from work, I worked late as was ice cream man trying to earn living when I got home I read news paper and she put her heal in my back no reason at all. I'm fed up that women never go to justice and pay for there mistakes like men do.
Now I train every day and will never let any women do what she did.I
It's not just abuse that men do it women too the world should know.
All adverts on tv on abusive men but what about women.
P.s now I have a beautiful lady in my life and so happy. Thanks for listening.
I wish your son could never die like that
Thank you. Not just men can be abusive, but also women! It is not weak to ask for help. Men have feelings too. Treat your partner with respect, loyalty and love. No matter what.
Hi Luis, I had a neighbor many years ago and he was in a violent relationship as his wife used to beat him and even tried to strangle him on several occasions, I saw it with my own eyes. He was too weak and his wife was strong as a bull. He eventually filed for divorce. I enjoyed the episode and I always love the happy ending. Thank you brother for always feeding us fantastic life lessons. Be safe.💓💓💓💓
I'm so sorry to hear that
I’m glad that Luis is at least honest with his titles. Dhar Mann is good too, but he uses “instantly regrets it” so much, but they really don’t regret it instantly, while Luis doesn’t do that.
I agree with you but Luis’s video’s sometimes are fake for example who would put their husbands head in a trash can? I understand hitting your husband but not putting his head in a trash can?
@@Abc-.1 Actually that isn't that rare
@@ALIBABA_2 really? I never hear stories about it
This happens not very much but definitely SHOULD be talked about
This happens a LOT
@@burmiester1 mhMMMMM
It happens alot.
@@x_wird0_x909 it does happen a lot, men just don’t come out because they would be looked at as weak and not masculine enough In society
1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner. Which is not rare at all for women to beat men
As a DV survivor myself, who also was abused by a narcissist. The hardest thing to see is our worth after being torn down for so long. And narcissist don't admit using & abusing someone. You can identify them by lack of concern & respect as well as abusive & destructive behavior.
5:35 I like how the captions say more than just audio
Abusive wives are almost as common as abusive husbands. In some ways that's even more evil, because the husbands rarely admit to it, rarely seek help, just die inside. It happened to someone I know - a lovely, very intelligent chap. The marriage lasted less than a year of physical and mental abuse - but "battered wives" get all the sympathy
Love this man, keep up the good work.
Finally a video on men people will say us a men are weak for anything like that
Sociality issue
I had an abusive ex husband. One day when he wasnt drunk i stood up to him.told him what i thought of him. He cowered and said he would change. I told him to leave.he did. We are long divorced.great video luis.
So glad to see a video about awareness about men being abused there’s always so much stuff about the women being the victims but not enough about men being the victims like think about it child abuse for example you talk about every gender of the child being abused but an abusive relationship they just talk about the women being abused and never the men being abused so I’m so glad that this video is showing the opposite and showing men being abused and making awareness
This channel deserves to support.
I watch some of its viedos, they're very amazing.
I Love and Appreciate what you have made Luis I hope to see more of this 🙏🙏
I know the feeling. Can't spend my money. Always verbally abusing me. Sometimes hits me. I can relate to this story perfectly.
I agree being thru it
Im a woman and that behavior is absolutely unacceptable. I would put her in her place in 2 seconds. People treat us how we allow them to treat us
Love yourself and others will love you. If you find yourself being abused in a relationship then move on because that person doesn't love you they love controlling you. You are not the garbage they say you are.
What a sad story. I'm glad Mike learned to love himself again
It’s not a sad story
Thanks for always bringing us good content, Luis, keep up the great work💖
This video is great, and it shows that men aren’t always the ones who abuse women, sometimes women abuse men
Can't believe I actually searched "abusive wife" on UA-cam and watched it,
Thinking it would help..
Can't believe I actually cried
Can't believe I actually thought this world might of cared about men abused by their wives 💙💜💙💜🖤🖤🖤🖤
This is sad. Men can be abused too not just women 😢
glad to see that you are back luis!
I feel SOOOOOO bad for you Mike. Your wife is truly EVIL
She also caused her husband to get sacked from his previous job while she doesn't work. And she could take out the trash HERSELF since she doesn't do anything but drink beer and watch American football, and cheat on her husband. She's sounds like a gold digger because she only married him for the insurance he received.
@@aishaabdirahman8589 EXACTLY!!! She should've gone to jail for abuse and if she did, justice should be served and there should be no amount of money to save her
the new girlfriend is like the valliant paladin questing to slay the evil dragon(the wife).
Yeah this is truly what a psychopathic wife would be like
@@pethrosuriahson6156 I know, right!!
I've been through that situation back in 2003 it tooks me awhile to break out of it before things were getting worse. When I saw that, it gives me a flashback and it did feels like the opposite of "What's Love Got To Do With It" it's hard for me to forgive her but I will never forget.
Hey Brother in 2002 I went thru the same thing abusive marriage lying cheating on me it took all my power to get out weren't for my family and friends it so much too tell u
Kudos for addressing this, because it's seldom addressed for obvious reasons.
8:25 my favorite part, thanks Luis!
Awesome story luis Great hard work Road to 1 Million 🙌 Soo close .. 😊
Some people don’t realize men can be abused just as much as a woman can
Abuse goes both ways not just men and not just women
Both woman and man can be this way. Great video Luis! NPD happens to everyone!
Wow. She punched his boss in the face, she just lucky there weren’t any police officers around
Always original with your videos. Keep them coming. Luv them.
💯💯💯💯👍👍👍👍👍
Well done Luis!!! You've finally released a video that reveal also men get abused by their wives. I don't know why most videos from other you tubers paint men as evil or villains.
Ikr. People are so dumb for not realizing that women can be abusers too
It’s sad that this happen more often than we think and hear about.This isn’t love it’s tyranny
Some girls won’t walk away or let you walk away. Some females pick up weapons smh. Pray for us. Ya never know which of us is stuck in this exact thing.
I love being funny. I love making Freddie Staley laugh
It's not good for anybody be abusive male or female
It never ends well sometimes it ends in death
It's a lesson everyone should learned
If I had a man like him, I would've treated him like a king. What the hell is wrong with her?
Who you telling
@@erinjohnson4273 me
You rarely don't hear wife abusing their husband its usually the other way around mentally yes but physically no. So its not always the husband the wife can also be cruel as well.
Women aren't often able to physically overpower men (there are always exceptions) so they execute passive aggression, manipulation, emotional abuse and taking advantage of the legal system which they know favours them more than it does men and at the centre of it, the children (if any) in relationships.
This man in the video could easily have physically overpowered that She-Devil he was married to but he was much too passive.
@@Broccoli75 Err...Yeah, that's what I basically implied when I stated all of those things, especially when I stated that they take advantage of the legal system knowing full well it is way more in favour towards them, thus he ends up either prosecuted if he defends himself or taken to the cleaners if he files for divorce.
@@vinaymulukutla358
Oh, i didn't quite understand your comment, sorry
@@Broccoli75 No worries mate. I guess we both feel pretty strongly about what happens here. Stay Cool ;)
@@vinaymulukutla358
Thank you!
Sundays are me and Wife’s favorite time to spend time together.
Thank you so much for showing us a time where a man is abused by a woman. The world needs to know about this
Love to watch all your video Luis you are the best UA-camr in the world love you from India🇮🇳 🔥🔥