Why Men Dont Want To Be Men Anymore...
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In one week bro went from roasting tf out of internet simps to actually sympathizing for them and explaining why it's like that. This is my new favorite channel
I feel like this is a little bit different
He’s not simping for them
I hate autocorrect
@@robbyTHEgameru legit could have changed it tf
YOOO we have the same pfp 😮
😂😂😂😂
love how when he says they like attractive men he puts the picture of Walter White. As a woman, i can confirm this is 100% true
hey, im walter white
1Cloud9 inspires me.. My parents said if i get 60K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally
Begging...
@@namantherockstarcool I sub
@@VoltReturnsbros got that 99% pure rizz
@@Bigman.I.S. sh.ut yo corny a$$ up (Why the heck does youtube keep censoring my comment)
being an average man today is hard… but being an ugly man is genuinely impossible
Same with women 🤷♀️
@@kroxxroad814 very true, although i think it is a little disproportionate for guys when it comes to getting into relationships
@@user-zg2pd7st4c Fair point
I think (most) women try look for relationships, while on the other hand, (most) men usually look for (temporary) relations or one night stands
@@kroxxroad814only unattractive women though. Average to good looking women generally have options when it comes to relationships. Only the top 1% of men have that.
@@kroxxroad814cap
This is why a strong male friend group that want to improve is important, they will force you up when you want to sink
I was about to comment, the issue of male loneliness goes way deeper than getting no 🐱. If you have people who love you a relationship is a want instead of a need. If you have no friends or family who love you, you’re literally fighting an uphill battle as you grow ip
There are literally dudes with no friends and I'm one of them.
@@CloneMarine0 I apologize but I’m confused as to the purpose of the comment? Are you trying to say you’re an outlier, a lone wolf who doesn’t need friends? Or are you saying indirectly that to have a strong friend group is harder to do then have? I’m asking to not to humiliate you or for sarcasm sake, I wish to simply understand and respond
@@alchemistjay2845harder to have
@@CloneMarine0You need to get yourself a friend group
Listen girls (as one myself), don’t be harsh, men got fellings too. Imagine if they all rejected you because you aren’t a super model and don’t swim in money. Lower your standards and you will one day meet the good guy.
don't lower the standards on character, but lower the standards on other things... im just saying this as a guy, that girls deserve someone who does care for them, is loyal, isn't a man-hoe, and while he doesn't make 6 figures a year, he must at least be able to provide. doesn't have to be fancy, but isn't something you can get out of the garbage.
@@slushyslushslushbruh Yes, very true. Character is the most important thing for a relationship, and to start one, you have to find someone you know you will feel safe with and that you can trust that person.
@@slushyslushslushbruhdisloyal man-hoes get the most attraction from women though.
Also, don't think men have to do 100% of the work, I've noticed a lot of women think that men are supposed to clean up after them and do everything for them, honestly I think women need to help to like cleaning the house or finding job to help the man pay the bills or something that helps benefits the both of them so it's easier to make a living
Yo don’t lower your standards, raise yourself up to those standards you look for in another person
My son was assaulted by girls for no reason, along with his friends, as they’re men they ‘deserve’ it.
Unreal
Your sick
@@Legend_BrennenI used quotation marks, it is sarcasm, please read my comments properly before making any comments
No one deserves to be assaulted men or women😢 Edit: thanks for the likes first time I got this many before so i thank you all remember to keep on fighting even in the darkest days remember that you don't deserve to be assaulted who ever you may be.
@@nandougherty3856 i think we read it properly i think you should read it again
I got rejected a lot in my life, I lost my girls because she felt like I wasn’t enough value to her even tho I was the nicest dude to her. I never cheated on her and I’m very nice, but eventually I’m not happy because I always feel lonely. I look good but I get called burnt
danm straight my g
But I had game to pull but I got called names and got blocked off
If you haven’t already try the gym. Maybe this is your time to take some time off for yourself to genuinely assess your life as a whole and see where you will turn out.
Don’t worry bro I get no bitches but there are other things that make me happy and women arnt everything, you could die lonely but happy
@@SparklingJamsame
The issue of male loneliness to me goes way way WAY deeper than getting no female action. The way society sometimes works and sometimes due to the rotten luck of some people, they grow up with emotionally stunted parents who can’t properly love them, and friends who will make fun of them to impress a 4/10. Way I see it, not getting much sexual action isn’t exactly a big deal by itself..
Having NO ONE in your corner in this confusing thing we call life makes existence a living hell.. makes you unable to develop, process life, handle your emotions, which can ALSO feed into guys being unable to carry themselves around girls which FURTHER feeds into the weirdo/loneliness cycle.
Not to mention, if you ever find yourself in a relationship, you will be unable to properly love the other person because of the gaping holes in your psyche and heart, and the dynamic will be you relying on them for happiness instead of two people being able to healthily share life together.
Important point from a commenter(screamingstar66): instead of bemoaning that we have no one and letting the cycle continue, we need to step up to be there for each other, to be that person that stops that vicious cycle of loneliness for someone else. "Be better for the people around us." Embodying that energy will fill our lives and bring the right people in. Our friends, the youth, our kids won't grow up alone if we step forward for each other.
Real asf bro
This is the realest shit in the world
This is exactly how I feel rn.
Real shit bro
Men created society and why modern men are treated so poorly, but let’s blame women because it’s convenient
I’m a girl and feel so bad for guys when my friends will just make fun of them for no reason. My old friend was 5’1 and 200 pounds at the age of 12 and made fun of a guy in my grade for being 5’3
It's crazy cuz both men and women have an ideal relationship where the man is supposed to be taller than his gf, and by taller I mean over a foot taller and these are unrealistic expectations
*taller
@@salvambala7779But look at the unrealistic standards for women as well, it goes both ways 🤷♀️
@@kroxxroad814What expectations do women have other than not being overweight?
@@lol._.1450 Easy
Usually has to be 5’5-5’7 at most, has to have big boobs and a big ass (naturally) and a small wait with “thick thighs” and have no stretch marks and has to have a flat stomach (also no stretch marks) then has to be “naturally beautiful” and wears no makeup while being healthy 🤷♀️
All of this is in current time.
Summary of this video:
Women ---> Going for Men they can't pull
Men ---> Being reject by women they should be able to pull but can't since they are all going for men they can't pull
Nobody gets relationship
Result: Big Sad for Everyone
Ya pretty much
facts man
Modern female hypergamy in a nutshell
This is why pulling chubby girls is the strategy. Yes theyre fat, but not obese. My homie and his girl go to the gym and a year has passed and bro... Homeboy saw potential and unlocked it.
My old toxic highschool friend group made fun of him for being ugly and pulling a chubby girl but bro didnt care
imagine needing a relationship to feel happy
this video gave a very good explanation of men’s modern problems in society. i think another problem is that men have little resources to try and improve their lives/solver their problems. men just sometimes need their problems to be understood and validated, but doing that makes it seem like you’re a misogynist. i felt that so much where there’s no one that can actually help you, which is why guys often turn to the redpill movement. it’s a place where men’s problems can actually be acknowledged without insulting or shaming men (which is now increasingly common). the world is crazy nowadays 😢
like these days you can just criticize, blame, shame, and insult men for their looks (small dick energy as an example), their beliefs, their emotions, and desires, and it is just accepted without any realization. you can be called worthless, ugly, and trash all you want, and anything that doesn't fit male standards causes you to be seen as a failure. Can't succeed in work? Tough, work harder. Not succeeding in dating? Tough, you're just ugly and need to work harder to improve. But then the moment you do or expect the exact same thing out of a woman, then ur seen as a sexist/misogynsitic prick, incel, loser, weirdo...standards are different lmao
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Ong tho. I feel like there’s NO space for men to talk about their problems or how women treat them without it being construed into “mIsOgOnY”
@@joshuasatterwhite9520exactly totally agree
@@xario5449 fr
If y'all think this genration is doomed and gen-alpha the next generations will just keep getting worse.😢🤦🏽♀️
The 6ths graders are mostly gen-alphas in my school and its just something else... Heck, the dating drama mostly comes from the 6th graders
@@TotaIIyAdamthey be vaping and shit
@@Drewking9999 okay they dont do THAT but oh gosh 😭
Why do Gen Z talk like angry old boomers whenever they talk about Gen Alpha? Like their life has just started bro chill
@@Sunnysideanyway not to say I’m like that. But maybe cause a lot of us can be/ are arrogant. But I’m sure there more to it then this..
so this is what it's come to? height, financial status, "two girl" "four guy" "ten," categorizing everyone into mid, high value, sigma, good, fine, lizzo etc. what ever. why can't we all accept that there's no hierarchy of human value, that everyone has a unique combination of traits, and some people just gravitate towards each other, and that there's someone out there for everyone?
thank you someone said it. it irritates me so much going online and seeing people refer to others as “a 5, a 7, etc.” i just want someone i vibe with who gives me butterflies and treats me well, is that too much to ask?
I want the same, believe me I do, but it seems to be impossible and over the years it just beats you down even if you start off as a gentlemen (Which these days is often looked upon as creepy, which in on itself, is, well, creepy). I have tried so many times in the past and nothing… Unless someone is actually serious and a decent person it's not worth it and with me being 45 I probably don't have a chance in H E double hockey stick anymore anyways (As if I ever did in the first place)... In regards to 1Cloud9' video, I would not go with 99.5% (Or the high 90s) of men being on the decent side emotionally/mentally!! Pretty much 1% of men have notable anger issues that get to the point of being truly scary (Like going to a max security prison kind of scary)… Now saying that over 90% of men are anywhere from decent to absolutely godly is believable. But just like with Women any Man can be pushed over the edge, and boy do a lot of men get pushed… As for the working out/etc, there are no arguments in that it can help for sure, but it is such a shame that so much more is expected of most Men… Women say they need to be skinny, but if you have a man that is skinny he is too weak or if he has even like 10-20 pounds of extra weight he is looked upon as lazy, even if he is in his early to mid 30s or older (When fat is often harder to get rid of and gets packed on more easily) age does not seem to make a difference in those horrible views… I would be willing to bet that most men, so long as women have the kinds of personalities they want they will not really care about a little extra meat (A little extra is often quite sexy in of itself, it’s just that the media has gotten it through their heads that they have to be skinny, skinny, skinny an that even a healthy amount of fat is something to be ashamed of…), a bit below average looks and plenty of other things. It may be hard for many women to believe but most men don’t just think about sex. It is an important part of connection, yes, no doubt, and it should be experienced at least once a day for most days if two people truly love each other and don’t have any actual medical issues that are causing a lack of libido, and of a wife is not cheating on her husband and is not self pleasuring then the drive should be there on her end too… If a woman makes a man feel unwanted and/or dunce, then odds are he is not going to seem as caring and be distant, because, like with women, we too are human beings with something called emotions, and many of us men often have to deal with a lot of pressure that can easily cause men to sink… As for his suggesting, um, hard hard, I think most men do that right off the bat so that point I believe is moot and since so many men do that they don’t really need to hear that particular one, like, at all/ever. Hard work/Education is not a guarantee in this day and age especially with the costs of many colleges and universities just being so outrageous now (Has been for a while) and student debt with the further lack of opportunities in the job market (Not having a natural knack or drive for work as some people love that kind of challenge, high IQ, amazing social skills/etc make things even worse in today' world, or so it seems) and the current housing/rental market/etc does not help matters and can often cause things to be worse. As for being stable and even faithful, those can only last so long if a man has enough unnecessary s*** storms coming his way… Exercise and good nutrition for sure those should be suggested (Even though they shouldn’t be taken to the extremes that many feel they should for them to actually have a decent enough chance of working), but it should also be understood that even with that, if a man have so much as one bump on his face or just something that should not be a big deal (Even if she has stuff herself) men are probably still gonna have a hard time, and if a men does find someone, well, look at all the divorces and how often courts fail men and favour women with their outdated BS… So yeah, it’s tough for a lot of men out there…@@elizabethrose644
poetic
Its like what J Cole said in his song “Don’t save her she don’t wanna be saved”.
lol women save y’all nowadays . You make today are no Prince Charming and if so you’re just acting for some 🐱
As my father once told me: Be yourself, enjoy your life, grow your career and let the girls come to you.
True
As a Family Nurse Practioner and ER nurse for 10 years. Jerking off does not decrease testosterone. This is a major misconception and myth very similar to the saying that jerking off too much will make your hand hairy. In fact, some studies have shown an increase in testosterone from jerking off. I have been asked this by patients before, it is a very common false belief. Overall though I see what you are saying, the modern man today is at a disadvantage and it is not talked about enough
isnt there a study showing that it is true? I am a data type of guy, I need evidence for my inkling of an idea to be disproven.
@@johnspencer4769 it dose decrease the risk of heart disease
"Increase in testosterone from jerking off" 😂😂 that gotta be cap, ain't no way it's real
@@hollowsid9623 I think studies generally concluded it doesnt matter as long as its not a problem, but plenty of people go cold and they say it helps so the placebo effect might help you there. its up to you
I probably should Have worded my comment better, multiple studies have shown an increase in testosterone post orgasm, however, it eventually does drop off. in general though you wont lose testostrone from jacking off.@@hollowsid9623
This spoke to me
I literally prayed for something like this
Bro God is Good
You right
I gotta keep grindin and keep working on myself
Ive been slackin
Thank you Bro
Even tho you probably wont see this comment
But thank you man
That good girl will come soon
Just gotta get back on how i was before
Working out most of the time and reading my bible
Taking care of myself
Amen to that brother. I know some people don’t believe in God or Jesus, but this is the mentality that works and helps you grow in life. Girls shouldn’t be a priority until you feel like you can provide for yourself. And even if the odds are stacked against us, that doesn’t stop me from trying. You have options, and you will eventually find the one that connects with you and loves you for who you are and what you want.
@victorcapote7376 Thank You man
May God be with you and Hope you have a great day
Stay strong bro💪🏼
@@smileydelarosa825 You too, man
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why are
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like this
I’m short af? Been insulted over my height almost all my life lol. Been told by an ex that I’m barley a man Because if it lol
I feel that bro some girls don’t what they got good till we gone.
It's all good bro and don't let your height put you down I know this might sound dumb but look at short guys like Bruce Lee for a example he's a decent height but he can do a lot of incredible things
Then she’s barely a woman.
@@noturbussiness3thats cuz they’re girls
This generation is doomed 🤦🏾♂️
Just gotta keep your head up and keep grinding king🤞🏿💫
ong ☺
MF DOOM
Nah
@@Liqo315sheep mentality
13 seconds in and bro is speaking mad facts
I'd rather die lonely than settle for a bitch that I hate, and she hates me. There is no world where living that hell is better than just focusing on my own happiness. And to be honest, as much as I like to think I could find that special someone, theres a loud part of me that truly believes that someone doesn't exist and maybe it's better that way
It's not even a choice for you
Yes! Life with a woman that resents you and looks down on you is insufferable!!!
change and grow as a person instead
@@ImPyroChadlol u made me laugh, for what reason? i spent years on philosophy and finding it all out and I ended up NOWHERE “growing as a person” is useless and only used as ultimate cope
@@momkidnapper9697Nah growing as a person is definitely the best thing to do. Even if it doesn't involve being with somebody else. You'll be much happier and accomplish your goals. That is not a cope.
I took the phrase “bros before hoes” too literally and now i’m dating my homie instead.
The best option
get out of the conversation then
When the bro becomes the hoe
Congratulations, dude!
Homies over hoes! 🗣️
Im currently with a 5’7 average guy who is finishing high school. I like him because he’s a normal dude and he is great with his words. He has told me im out of his league plenty of times, even his family. I met him through a mutual friend. I love that he doesn’t want to date me yet because he wants to get to know me more, it’s stuff like that; that makes me fall for him. He’s respectful and doesn’t try to get in my pants.
Please don't dump him over a good looking guy😂
@@baki577 looks never mattered to me, I’ve dated a model before too and his personality was the worst. He tried to propose to me and was talking about how he wants two massive weddings, spotlight on him, and it needs to be on social media for his followers. I never wanted that and dumped him a week after LOL
That right there is love. That guy is going to be a great man someday and you are going to be the most inspiring person in his life if your relationship goes on. I hope nothing but the best for the both of you! 🥰
@@joress thank you 🙃 he said he wants to have a family with me and I agreed. We agreed on a age where we will start trying
It's interesting how we're kinda encouraged to choose a partner not only based on the looks but also the personality.
But then, when someone actually does prioritize the personality too (like in your case), there's often this feeling of like "I'm not good enough"
It shows how a lot of us still put more value to looks than any other aspects.
as a girl i don’t see this as offensive mainly because i am not a man and i don’t have the same experiences. although i do agree that a lot of people need to accept that sometimes you have to settle for someone average.
I agree with this statement wholeheartedly, a lot of the “women” in the comments have a sort of femcel mentality. I know they want to empathize with guys, but c’mon don’t generalize all women. If you are “not like other girls” like you say you are, then you aren’t the only one out there. My argument for todays relationships, men, women,etc, is that it can all be solved if you find your people, go outside, join communities, or just work on yourself plain and simple. When the time comes you will find someone or something healthy that brings you joy.
Lol the fact that you said settle says it all. An average woman would say it the same exact way.
I thought that was the point of dating: find a partner and settle down with them to start a loving life together in which both support one another in both good and bad times.
@@joress that's the idea :)
@@joress”settle” comes across as staying with somebody because you have no other choice rather than it being a fun and exciting choice
As a tea kettle, i can confirm this is deep.
Dang, gotta trust this guy
He makes a strong case, Ngl
Man, aspiration
Can confirm myself
I feel like society as a whole doesn’t value integrity as much as it should. There is so much focus on doing what feels good as opposed to what’s right. Love these days is seen as a contract where everyone asks “what about me” instead of being able to put someone else first. Bruh I just want a partner I can trust and count on, and I want to be that for someone else.
Fuckin Real factz
Absolutely. Integrity doesn't exist. Women don't have it and they're teaching us not to have it either.
Thiiiiiiissss!!!👏👏👏
Anyone looking for a stable LTR needs to look for the following three traits: Character, character, and character. Do anything else, and you set yourself up for failure
@@devilsadvocacycharacter, character, and character = looks, looks, and looks
and what makes it worse is that a lot of people (boys and girls) in america nowadays lose their family structure right before they turn into adults (around high school age). whether it be divorce, fights between parents, or just not good parents in general.
You also forgot to mention, murder between parents.
Ur not lying man
Makes you wonder where all those people wind up when they can't simply, "just live with your parents forever bro, living solo is too pricy."
@@satisfiedconsumer649 lmao. Stoping buying big houses and live in an apartment or condo. Living solo can be done. Stop sounding like a 🐱.
1 hour gang👇
edit: 200 likes yeeeeeee
Yes
Ye ye
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Here
Yep
There is a girl a I really like and she's not a super model, But it's so hard to ask her out due to social pressure's,fear of rejection and just the fear of getting called a stalker or being called a bad person
there is a reason you’re feeling that way its probably because you know instinctively you’ll be rejected
@mangss9602 Bro so true, I just don't want the scenario when every time I see her after I've asked the question it would be cringe
Yolo it bruh you only live once so shoot your shot
@@titanicbigship Loving the support I've gotten so far 😊
What's the worst that can happen at least she can say you had the confidence to approach her you got this bro
The most manly thing that you can do is accept who you are as a person and be happy with it.
thats the most feminine thing you can do what
@@islixxnI think that’s just overall the strongest thing to do and it works for both
Due to my low self-esteem, I can't.
@@evn657 In spite of your low self esteem, I think you can
@@sarcasticsuperjerk18 Well, I am trying to get better, but the negative thoughts persist no matter what I do or say. Sometimes I have positive thoughts but then they immediately get shot down by negative ones.
" once you find the bread , the ducks will come " Respectfully of course
nice
Lol another cope
@@momkidnapper9697bluepillers are coping harder these days
Mfs be gettin so privileged to the point where “the ick” exists 😭
Wdym
the amount of privilege these days really gettin outta hand
can't stand girls that ask 1000 questions and let their friends decide their bf
I mean yak are icky though
I told a girl that I cared about what she thought about me and then for two years she acted like I killed somebody in front of her.
The saddest part is there’s a lot of men who just want a wife and a family to love. Smh
and this is why men are most the times scared to talk to their crush, BECAUSE OF JUDGEMENT!
It is misinformation to claim that ejaculation is enough to expell testosterone to the degree you claim. According to a medically reviewed article by healthline, "While ejaculation from masturbation may have a short-term effect on your testosterone levels, it doesn’t cause any long-term effects."
Yeah people say it’s bad when it’s not really bad,unless you do it excessively than it’s bad.
Yeah,the no fap community tend to spout a lot of bullshit.
But yeah obviously don’t beat your meat all the time and if you’re gonna do it at least don’t use porn
@@jarlbalgruuf7701 agree,masturbation Is a healthy thing to do but I would try to avoid it.
Maturabation is bad I am bit to lazy to debunk this nonsense.
@@vaderkurt7848I don't see an argument there, buddy
this video hit me on a personal level. The cycle of p*rn has been something ive experienced for five years and have tried to come off it (and now committing wholeheartedly to it) because i dont want to be a weird man or even destructive to myself. The solutions you gave at the end is literally what i’m applying to my life now. I’m 19, i’m in college, i have a full-time job and do what i do best for myself. Ik that hopefully someone will come into my life and treat me the right way when the time is right and for now i need to do me and keep grindin 💪
As a fellow 19 year old, I thought I would never ever be able to stop jacking off and would never be able to get any friends or even get a job, and it just made me think "What's the point even?". You ain't weird. Millions of men have the same problems. However, only a few manage to break the cycle and that is something you should be really proud of. Fortunately I managed to quit jacking off, I found a group of some amazing friends who support me and each other, and I'm now looking to get my first part time job. I'm not there yet, and life will still throw some huge challenges at us, but for the one's who get through it, they will be rewarded.
im turning 20. We all got time. We've barely scratched the surface of life
@@ry_an.much respect man I’m 18 now tryna improve anyway I can
I am 14, but I don't want women or men. I go for knowledge, I don't know why I am here, but I will share my experiences through music. I also love storytelling. I dont belong anywhere. I just want a good book or a good game, I don't like multi-player much, but that's enough of my story. Can I hear yours? I am also male
i agree with this completly earlier today i explained to my siblings (2 sisters) how i dont have high standards and they both laughed and said you need to change that, as they're standards are very high
Women with 5'9 Joe from IT:🤢🤮
Women with some 7 foot abusing, drugs dealer named opp killa:😍
Tyrone only if you’re black.
that's how it's always been lol. Women loved rock and rap artists
pfft that really only applies to certain women. I highly doubt a nerdy theatre kid that's into indie stuff would prefer the 7 foot guy over joe
@@Placeholder-lowercasen-ame the nerdiest ones exhibits this type of behavior more than the overtly trash ones. AWALT is a brutal pill to swallow.
Dating feels like a job interview nowadays
I don't agree with everything, but I do agree, dating apps are poison.
Meet people irl and "go touch grass" and it'll do you a lot of good. People just naturally descend into toxic behaviors online. They're much kinder in the real world.
To you women maybe. They are not kinder to average men
Unless they live in New York or Philly 😂
People don't just suddenly become nicer when they are off the internet, they just make sure their filter is on.
They're not kinder. In real life you have to follow societal norms if you don't want to be frowned upon so people put up with it as much as they don't want. On the internet they're all just a picture and a username. That gives them the freedom to show their true colours.
@@leonecartelreborn9628the problem is your worried about being frowned upon.
It’s true. I don’t wanna be a man anymore. I wanna be a radioactive nuclear fission rod that was accidentally released into the ocean and if any divers swim near me they would receive 100x the normal amount or ionizing radiation. So sad honestly. Men really do have it rough.
You always speaking facts! keep up with the bangers🔥🔥🔥
awesome sick bangers man! 🤘🏼👌🏼🔥😋
Being single for a young man in current year is basically winning and losing at the same time.
Nobody wins anything. Neither gender is satisfied in their dating situation. And worse of all,the decaying of trying your hat in the ring with dating scene in it's current state.
It sucks for both sides with the dating/marriage scene on how much of a dumpster fire it is. But my gosh,do young men get this problem the worst.
As an 18 year old.. I concur
Yeah I'm a 31 year old man and I don't even see the point in anything anymore. I chased girls forever and got rejected constantly, so I just gave up. I don't even work anymore either. I'm single and have no kids, so I have literally no reason to work. I only have myself to worry about so it's like why break my back at a job just to come home to an empty house and stare at a wall. It's pointless.
America sucks for our generation brother. Black people have this saying: “we have to work twice as hard to get half as far”.
That statement applies to 70% of men now-a-days.
@@MrJflomarioAmerica as a whole. I'm Brazilian, and it's way tougher for us here since we have rampant inflation and the same relationship issues every average and sub5 man are having in anywhere in this fkd up world.
It's all over bruh. No way things will get better in relationships at this point. Our only cope will be AI girlfriends in the near future, if they don't come up and take it away from us too.
@@Noxturno_ I've been told Brazil is alot better.
I’m a 42 year old virgin. Stop being weak! I work to have hobbies. Women are not the center of my universe.
@@Noxturno_ They are almost here lol.
I have gone through some times like these in which I think about how hard it is for an average man to have any girls, but I have already found and used my own solution. Focus on yourself. If you make your brain think that you'll only get happiness from girls, you're just making it harder to you. Create happiness from other sources. Self-improvement, small achievements, personal growth, and many other sources. Making happiness from things that can get you better and that you can almost completly control are of the best ways to continue your path in life without needing the acceptation from others. Keep on being strong, men. 💪
My god I feel this on such a atomic level
i like average men and I dont get it why people don't like em 😢
Cause the average guy is considered ugly and a women got it easy on dating compared to men an average woman can get some attention from a rare good looking guy it's usually for sex tho but it's more exciting to them than having a nice stable guy, then they say all men are trash after and blame the 96% of men they never wanted for what the few top guys did.
most people are "average" anyway. and often times it truly is the personality that increases how attractive someone is. everyone's taste is different too
@@eg4441 fair enough
When you find the right partner it doesn’t feel like average.
A lot of women are gold diggers. The sad truth
Its interesting that you say that women chasing after high value men is a bad thing they shouldn't do but say that men chasing after that same coveted women is something that should be sympathized with. Overall i kinda feel that both men and women need to stop chasing the idea of a relationship and look for people who bring out their best traits.
True 👏🏾
Spot on take to me
Well said
Nah, he metioned that guys dont get women that are on the same level as them which means an average guy cant get an average girl which should logically be the case. I dont think he said anything about men should be chasing instagram models or some shit like that
Correct me if Im wrong though
If I ever went up to any of my friends to talk about feelings and shit they would call me gay
There’s the problem, men view being empathetic with weakness, that’s your issue.
See, that's what people refer to as toxic masculinity......
@@muraismybby4617 Nope. As a woman, I’ve seen plenty of women do the same. Some even use it against them and some just mock them, saying they’re “not a real men”. Gender norms and stereotypes are enforced by both sides, not just one.
@@musicalhearts2879 Yes, that's true, but you literally have a guy saying his friends will call him "gay". Guys themselves view emotions as negative, women did not tell them too.
@@muraismybby4617 Young boys are more likely the ones to say those things, while most grown men are actually pretty supportive. There’s definitely some bad apples, obviously, but those types of guys usually don’t have many friends anyway. Unfortunately, the majority of women I’ve seen mocking and belittling men are usually full grown adults, which just isn’t okay.
The problem exists on both sides.
I baked my first apple pie today.
Good girl
Cloud going to the more serious topics, and I'm here for it🗣️
I wish I was born in the early 90's due to this and everything else happening right now
Man im honestly just trying to work on myself. At 16 hitting the gym, working, and trying decently in school. I know other my age are getting in relationships but i just dont see it working out at my age, so thats why in working on myself rn, so in the future i got a good chance of finding someone for me.
so real for this
I'm in my 20s and everyone from high school broke up with their gf or never got one lol. Stay up and work on your personality
Im motivated now. I can’t afford to fall from grace.
You know I was feeling down these past few months because, I’ve finally got my dream job, got a nice apartment for myself, started going to the gym working out and set up for the future except I can’t seem to get with a girl and this video was honestly like therapy, thanks for this some how I feel a little better about myself
Maybe not surprised to know but I’m sure you’ll be glad to know that you are not alone I’m 18 and I i’m actually considered attractive but I’ve missed out on the high school dating experience for little reasons I can’t really say but overall it should’ve been possible for me. Such is life
I have a friend who's going through something similar and he just opened up to me about it, take your time to be happy for yourself and when the time comes it'll come 💕 don't ever let your happiness depend on someone else
Hey, I just want to say thanks for reminding me why I was going to the gym. The reason why I wanted to go was because I wanted to focus on myself. But I've been struggling with staying consistent on going for the past month or so. So after watching this video it helped me realize what I don't need to be v.s who I need to be and that is a huge motivator for me so I appreciate that.
I needed to hear this. My life has just been in limbo and I've been a social recluse since high school through college. I guess I just needed to hear it from an outside source instead of internalizing and denying the fact that I am hurting myself both socially and physically like you explained. Masculinity is what makes men who we are and yeah its hard, but the consequences of being relaxed and "cool" with society isn't worth me losing who I am as a person.
I will continue to be a man and fight on no matter how crazy this world gets.
It’s just that a lot of men are so desperate af nowadays. Now, I myself wanna get into a relationship one day, I’m not bad looking and I got, for example, the charisma. But, I’ve just been having bad luck. It’s frustrating, but it isn’t gonna make me give up, regardless of how burnt out I am. However, am I gonna be desperate? No. Absolutely not. Why? I don’t wanna contribute to those horror stories. I don’t wanna be yet another member of that 5% of men. Yeah, no thank u. My time will come, I just gotta stay on my grind. That’s all.
I call that a “ Grinding Arc”
@@Jameswebbtelescope7484 yeah, and there’s nothing wrong with that. 👍🏻
Good mindset to have, my friend!!
@@musicalhearts2879 I’ve heard of a lot of incel/ neckbeard horror stories. So, my mindset helps me prevent myself from falling down that path. Plus, I’ve been hitting the gym a lot. So, here’s a question. Why would I ever wanna give up on myself, when the reward for staying on my grind will be so much better than being an incel? You give up on yourself, you lose the game of life, and I sure as Hell don’t wanna lose, because that’s not what my family wants me to do, that’s not what my friends would want me to do. They want me to succeed, they wanna see me enjoy my life. When you have a good mentality and energy, people will naturally gravitate towards that. It takes time tho, but it’ll all be worth it in the end.
It’s a disaster, what society and life did to you
You’re literally overdosing on copium to keep going nowhere
I hope one day the denial stage is gonna be over
I disagree with how you painted p3dophilia as a byproduct of women hating men. There's simply no excuse for it.
Then date a guy.
Its just a mental illness that can be treated. That sounds like he wants to excuse something.
Pedophilia is a mental disorder
The main just explained why I can’t get a gf 💀
Loneliness, the biggest problem of the 2020s and it will most likely only get worse
But who am I to complain when there’s not much I can do about it
Bro you are smart af. The cycle you explained rly makes sense
It’s like when the teacher gave us all a punishment when one kid misbehaved 🤦♂️
No, please stop you have the wrong mindset, women are NOT to blame, no one ever said all men were predators, women just have to be more careful around men, because you truly just never know, i know that all men aren’t predators, but maybe men should start having empathy, that’s a reason women dont wanna be around men. Also you should hold the guys accountable that make the women uncomfortable, stop blaming women.
Just gave me flashbacks to my military days with that mass punishment reference. One guys messes up, everyone else has to pay for it.
@@muraismybby4617 Where did he say he was blaming women? And a lot of guys _do_ have empathy, while people like you seem to be incapable of it. It seems like every reply I see of yours is dismissing something a guy has said and then basically telling him to “take accountability and man up”. How can you expect anyone to be empathetic with you when you consistently dismiss theirs?? It’s not that men are being apathetic, they’re just tired of being brushed aside and ignored.
Obviously women have to be careful with certain men, but men also need to be careful with certain women as well. Mental and emotional abuse is a thing, and a women can definitely hurt a man if she really wants to. Strength means nothing when you know all the weak points, whether it’s mentally or physically. To believe a woman couldn’t hurt a man would be sexist because she absolutely can if she knows how to do it.
@@musicalhearts2879 Can you read I said countless times in the comment, that all men are not predators. What's your issue with me?
@@muraismybby4617 Your actions speak louder than words. I’m not doubting you know that not all men are predators, but the amount of times you’ve needlessly accused the people in this comment section to be “blaming all women”, when they’re simply sharing how they feel and what they’ve experienced, while simultaneously trying to shut them up by telling them to “take accountability”, leads me to believe you view men as enemies, and that’s not a good mindset.
What you’re doing isn’t protecting women, it’s breeding more and more hate on both sides. I’m not trying to attack or insult you, I’m trying to show you why what you’re doing is wrong. You can’t respond to every guy with nothing but hostility and indifference, otherwise that’s all you will get in return.
As he said in the video, you just gotta do your own thing. Focus on your goals and what’s important, and eventually one a good girl will come along. It’s like that one quote, only when you build a garden will the butterflies come.
One good fatty girl, with 3 lovely kids and mental issues from past relationships. Love is really a beautiful thing. 😊
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@@Noxturno_I just got a video in my feed about a redditor in a dead bedroom relationship. 😂
Average with no sex or intimate relationship w women = Revolution/ Restructure of society
honestly out of all the videos i watched yours is plane and simple not all this be this Ritch and buff guy just work hard and good things will come i know for generation's. our assertors (or mine i geuss or grandparents) worked hard and got nothing but now i relized i cant let oppurinites pass me up thank you cloud you made my day.
bro ur so real for this
I’m actually currently enlisting in the marine corps partially just to get out of “le society” and just be somewhere where what I do I could actually feel proud of
don't go solely to escape society, it's a good option but eventually you will go back into society. best thing to do is see it as a stepping stone, but I wish you the best on it!
Do not stick your ween in a humvee exhaust
It hurty
@@pugasaurusrex8253 thank you for the sage advice
no matter what i go thru in life i will always be a man because thats how i was born ill be a man for life
Me too
ima be straight w you ima start listening cloud fr cuz he seems to be showing me everything i’ve done wrong and the reason why i feel like wanting to do nothing with my life no more and nothing seems to be fun i gotta chill tf out onb
this video actually speaks to me, and it probably does to many others to. Thank you for releasing this.
It’s more than .5%. My girlfriend gets inappropriate comments about her every day and sometimes people pretend to accidentally move their hand one her private parts and say it was an accident. It’s everyday at school and there’s only 160 something people in my grade. Most of the people that stuff are
In my grade. It’s more like 10-15% I would say
n o bruh that is not happening she is not getting sexual assaulted on the daily sorry to tell u
@@islixxnHow the hell would u know what girls go through, u weirdo.
Literally it is more than that
What kind of school do you go to? Sounds ghetto as hell
It can definitely be this bad in certain areas, unfortunately. Can I ask where this is occurring? Have you or her reported it?
You have enlightened me in keeping myself into turning something I might regret
Ngl this depressed the crap out of me. What’s the point of working on yourself if the end result is going to be the same.
I've been down this road of loneliness
I use to be a star athlete, was actually the starting center for our football team. I was also, at the time, dating a cheerleader, and we were lovey dovey. After football ended, my parents wanted me to do wrestling, so I agreed to do so. I had won all of my matches (3-0) and then we had a meet with another school. 10 seconds in, I fell on my back and the dude I was wrestling landed on my elbow and broke it.
Changed my life... forever.
3 weeks after that, my girlfriend decided to break up with me. A couple months later, we had a family friend who passed away. Then, my grandpa passes away a few months after that. Then, my grandma passed away a couple weeks after my grandpa. I was at my low. I was depressed, trying to chase women and becoming even more sad when I could get them and I gained weight, about 50 pounds worth.
However, my best friend finally talked me into starting to work out and I began to do so. I started on October 19, and so far I've lost 5 pounds. It's been an up and down battle, but I've been doing my best.
Nobody is perfect, but everybody is able to change and become better.
That's a terrible situation man, it's great you're bouncing back.
@@juangutierrez6571 Yeah I'm glad I've been able to turn it all back around
This was very heartwarming!
I honestly got so much respect for u bro u seem soo real and relatable that which is so hard to find on yt now have a good one my guy ✊
Ive always admired your honesty, so real.
Its never been a better time to stand out.
This is why I think mental health and psychology + therapy matters so much for society. So many people happen to lose social skills, be neurodivergent, or simply be neurotypical and happen to seem neurodivergent, to which you may actually need therapy at that point. It’s sort of like this: find out if you’re mind is different, and if not, (this is if you notice problems with basic human necessities while being fine), maybe consider medication or free therapy. Then just work on yourself, and after college years/after you’re 23, you should be able to find girls/men after you’ve worked on yourself enough! This applies to everyone honestly who isn’t a 10
It doesn’t have to be college though, just work hard in a career and you will see results.
true, im 14 and ima try to work out, eat health, improve my looks and my social skills and also focus on only myself. maybe trying to find friends that want to achieve the same goals as me will also help.
Its’ alright, Gents!
They’re lost!! Things in life u can’t comprehend or will nvr understand … your beautiful the way you are and continue to stay on top of ya’ grind !!
Hope y’all enjoy the rest of ya year !!
your whole average person rant hit me in particular, as the most average man in the history of the world, I feel that so hard
as a 17 yr old boy, I agree with this, the times online back in 2021-2022 made me feel I was a man going through these things, like losing friends I knew, people being rude, bullied in servers, becoming depressed, etc.
It's just hard now to talk to someone about what you're going through, like a good friend you trusted, or probably someone that is close. Although, I did talk to my parents about it, they really understand. I've also talked to some of my online friends, and shared what I was going through, they also understand.
Nowadays I've only wished that we could go back to spend time with friends we had, or probably fix everything we've done, therefore we can't fix the past, we can only change the future.
I'm so glad I got married when I did, 15 years ago. I don't even understand how the dating process works nowadays.
Preach the word bro 🙌🔥🔥🔥 love from London
cloud on the daily grind fr
“Go get you a good girl”💯
When you know the girl you like is out of your league so you leave it be, but love your thinking bro, as you said, always get a good girl
Idk how this video came into my feed but this is a really really good video.. very well explained my guy!
Bro woke up speaking facts, I think I really needed to hear this, it’s tough being a dude.
Always gonna be a banger.
Word of advice: ladies and gents, just get someone in ur league. Chances are someone out of ur league isn’t gonna date u unless they’re uglier than u. 5/10 better not get upset a 7/10 rejects them. And u don’t have to settle with a 5/10 if you are a 8/10 and want a 8/10, even if it hurts their feelings or u can’t find anyone else. If u don’t want them don’t get them. And don’t get mad when they say no. Even if ur hot
I feel like if you only date people becomes of looks, then there’s a problem. It’s not a problem if you want someone that’s attractive, but if that’s the sole thing you look for in a person, then you open yourself up to becoming superficial. That’s just what I think tho.
@@evanrutledge-sz4yoDate is solely about looks. Looks are everything in 99% of humans attraction over others. Everything else is cope.
@@evanrutledge-sz4yoHumans are superficial most of the time. You too would seek only for the best if you could.
@@Noxturno_wtf are you talking about? You can be attracted to someone who is only a 10 to YOU. Stop worrying about pleasing other men 😂
This was absolutely brilliant
Bro went from rating different type of people at school to deep and proper videos like this. Good shit bro
The type of girls cloud talks about is a big percentage of females but not all of em. Us good cute dorky girls are here. We're just too shy to look for a guy and we don't want prince charming. We just want someone to watch anime or tim burton movies with.
Where y'all at 👀
This comment made me cringe heavily 😭
@@kroxxroad814same😭
Pickme spotted
@@sarcasticsuperjerk18 fr
I love the new types of content. Keep it up big bro
This video is so true and so straight forward. I like it.
This was a great video with an even better solution 🙌🏾 and your right bout finding a good girl than a fine girl… thx for keeping it real