He got up in that old woman's face, tried to look her in the eyes, in the minute she turned away from his gaze because she was scared he put a gun to the back of her head and pull the trigger. That's not a man. That's not a police officer. That's a monster
It is a police officer. He was a police officer. It is a man. This is what men with bruised egos do all the time. Let’s look at the reality of our society. Violent men make up much of the police and firefighting forces around the world. There are statistics. Lots of domestic violence and assault. Men with egos go into professions where people’s lives can be placed in their hands on purpose.
I was 13 once. I wasn't that entitled nor that stupid. She grew up with rotten parents. Does it make it not her fault? Yes and no. Can't always blame your parents.
Yes true ! , I hate it when people is like 100% blame on the parents like some children is just pure evil and it should be even . Like it was a parents fault for not teach their children properly and it also the child fault because even if they old enough to know what right and wrong , they choose to do the wrong things! Unless they are just extremly dumb thats it. Even the dumb people is better.
Exactly both her and her parents are at fault. 13 is not a "kid" it's a teen.I have seen kids 5-9 being mature and 19-21 adults being immature. It's about the person's personality and mindset.
You really can't blame someone's environment for the unethical things they do. You'll notice that some grew up miserably but chose to be kind, and even siblings with the same parents don't grow up the same.
As a Filipino myself, I hope I can provide a little bit of context as to why people hated the girl. Our culture pays *HUGE* respect to elders. This includes reaching out to their hands and placing them on our foreheads when we visit them (called 'Mano'). When elderlies are talking and we have to pass through in the middle, we will bow and walk while having our heads really low to avoid interrupting the conversation and to pay respect. We also can't interrupt any conversations of elderlies because it is considered "rude". But her actions were clearly inappropriate. Pulling the grandma's hair and being physical with her is unacceptable (in all parts of the world I know, but most especially here in the Philippines it's a big deal). In addition, her screaming "MY FATHER IS A POLICEMAN!" if you analyze the whole conversation in a Filipino context, does not mean that "My dad is an officer and he's on the right" but it screams "My father is an officer. How dare you lay your dirty fingers on us?" that's why she got hated on it.
@@annisakarimarahmani9145some asian countries have similar culture as of the Philippines that's why some people that aren't from the Philippines are suprised that their culture is also similar to the Philippines
That’s like the Korean culture. All the young people have to bow to their elders. Even at jobs… it’s just a natural thing to do for everyone & it shows respect. I was raised mostly in the states & Germany (military brat) but I’m 75% Korean so I know all the Korean customs & sometimes I’m ashamed of how people act here in the states. But yes, most of not all Asian countries have the same beliefs or almost same.
@@misssoso5859wtf is wrong with you? YES the father may have influenced her but that doesn’t take away the fact that she IS a brat 😂 Y’all think a 13 year old is some innocent little toddler or something like no tf they not. They are WELL DEVELOPED enough to understand BASIC human respect but that brat lacks that. Y’all have the fucked mentality of allowing a child to stay sh*tty cuz y’all excuse it as kids being kids. But when you don’t recognize their bad behaviors that do on their own then they don’t do better. Y’all the type to encourage disgusting behavior. Y’all can’t keep blaming a parent for the way a child acts all the damn time. Cuz guess what there are some good a$$ parents in this world that still have the shittiest kids. Y’all needa learn what it means to take a child accountable for their own actions.
To add another context to the story, some Police men in the Philippines are corrupt and feel above the law. The daughter knew this and bragged about it and acted accordingly. She felt better than everyone else. She even spoke English trying to sound condescending. This is the reason why she was bullied.
Ellie's actions spoke volumes; she wasnt afraid for her dad's safety or morally outraged or frightened by their refusal to submit to "the law". He had the gun and the authority. By 13 you know that much, at least intellectually. That teenager thought her father and family to be "above" the neighbours, and as a product of her environment, she revelled in it. I believe that she was aware that her dad was a tyrant but as a child she was happy to reap the benefits of his corruption in his position of power. He created a monster with that child. Selfish, evil thing that he is, he didnt care about her or he wouldve extricated her from that awful scene. While she may have been a child, she needs to be monitored as a potential danger. Brainwashing is not done overnight and shes likely mentally unwell. What a tragic situation all the way around. Rest well, Sonia and Frank 🪷
Just an update about this case- The policeman was arrested and he committed suicide according to the news here before. The 13 year old girl was so ashamed that all her classmates and even relatives hated her. Her neighbor already hated her. RIP to the grandma and to his grandchild, the teenager boy.
My oldest son is 13. Hitting and yelling at an adult like that is wrong and she knew it. She was clearly raised by a monster. His actions were deplorable! If the police and courts did their jobs, he would have been stopped before these murders.
I feel like the only time I will yell at an adult is when I'm being disrespected. Remember respect is earned not automatic especially if that adult is extremely disrespectful. But of course in this case thats not what it is.
Girl we shouldn't even be talking about the kid. Just as if you did something, nobody should be blaming your kid. She's way too young to be held responsible of her reaction to something so atrocious 😔 it's insane when citizens go to blame the nearest woman - a KID in this case 🤦🏻♀️
@@purrrrrrrple Be realistic with yourself right now. Not all teenagers are naive fools that have no knowledge when it comes to stuff if this sort. This is the problem you all think teenagers are BABIES when their not.
@freaksssss This 'kid' wanted to throw her weight around just like she saw her corrupted father do. Kids have no business messing in adult affairs but she sure shoved her way into them. I can see why ppl ppl would despise this BRAT!!
If no one had recorded a video, and it hadn't gone viral, I'm absolutely certain that the police would have spun this as a self-defense scenario or "nanlaban" (fought back) during an arrest on trumped-up drug charges, a narrative that seems to inexplicably repeat itself whenever police are implicated in such incidents. Consider, for instance, the tragic case of Kian Delos Santos, an unarmed 17-year-old boy apprehended by the police and fatally shot in a dark alley. He perished, pleading for his life, mentioning he had an upcoming school test the next day.
@@omgbuffy2276Could be. But here in the Philippines the Police here are overfunded (since the Duterte Asministration) and are pardon from lots and lots of crimes. For example, police brutality (which were rampant at one point in Aquino Administration, there were several CCTVs leaked but now it's radiosilent on this) breaking quarantine laws during Covid, extra judicial killings (minors have been killed like Kian), drug selling by confiscating drugs from other people they arrested or simply just by conniving with rich people like politicians and drugs lords. They usually get a slap on the wrist. Just recently, a dismissed cop was given extra care by Philippine National Police. He cocked and aimed a gun at a cyclist but was given the extra VIP treatment by the Police and gave him a chance to have a press conference to explain his side. It's ridiculous here. 😂
It’s so disgusting how that man was a policeman who was supposed to stop these situations but instead he created one. I’m in shock of how cruel people can really be and it’s so frustrating. He is a FATHER and a POLICEMAN , like hello? I’m speechless.
With the fresh set of police violence and abuses going on in the Philippines right now , covering an older case of the same nature is a very timely decision. I hope any reaction that could be drawn from this cover would put more pressure on them to resolve and bring justice to the pending cases. Thank you , Steph.
@@mina.colada_9293I think the most recent was the case of Jemboy, who was shot multiple times by Policemen, mistakenly identifying him as their suspect/target of operation. Edit: He was 17 yrs old
@@venzkyleshouldn't they be arresting people instead of killing them? I mean why shoot the boy? You said his name was Jim? Why? Why not make the arrest? This is very bad.
The rage I felt towards the kid. And the helplessness I felt when the narrative of her age became the silver lining is immense. Please don't raise kids if you're evil.
Everyone so focused on a kid who was only mentioned for two seconds us so weird to me . Her father was the one who abused his power and murdered people .
@violetk8025 If you really pay attention to the reality all over the world you'll notice that it's very common for men to behave like absolute monsters and people would just demonize nearest female to him like their female victims, females who don't help victims, or females who support the literal monster, etc. In this case a little girl beside him. Like the comments filled in this video. Accountability is a myth for them.
That girl is not a little girl and, after she saw 2 people get murdered by her father, she wasn’t shocked or empathetic but remained hostile to the victims. That was why people hated her.
@@gisela1122I don’t feel bad for her at all. She tried to power trip and old woman on the basis of a “do you know who we are?” and two people were killed. She’s a little monster
@@Plutonium.2Her father was a monster and raised her. If anything it's coached behavior. Her father obviously didn't bother raising her to be good and that's on him. Stop blaming everything on a child, blame the people who taught her to be like this.
I think you have this mixed up with the innocent victim of extra judicial killing during war on drugs campaign of the former president, Rodrigo Duterte. It’s Kian Delos Santos. He’s not the one in this video.
That's a different case but Police Brutality was indeed rampant at that time. Maybe still is today Edit: Nvm, I watched near the end and they are mentioning Kian Delos Santos just didn't actually name him
Fr, so many old couple die of a broken heart shortly after their life partner is gone, I can only imagine how absolutely unspeakable the pain would be if that was your own child let alone also your just reached proper adulthood grandchild. There isn't any number of words that can describe that level of pain.
creator makes us to be happy sad and poor and wealthy,don't complain it,no matter what the situation is we should try to live a better life even if things goes wrong,people who knows how to live right will be happy until they die but people who just getting sad and emotional all the time will perish soon
Also side note about the 13 yr old: In the Philippines, when you speak in English to a fellow Filipino in the same tone as the kid did, that kind of attitude connotes that you feel like above the person you are talking to or you want to implicate that you are on a higher level. With that kind of mindset, I think the kid wants to show her superiority above Sonia and Frank since they are not well off and that statement "My father is a policeman" is her telling them "b*tch you better bow down because you are nothing".. Also if that kid is just truly being a kid, why didn't she flinched after the gunshots? she kept recording the video and she didn't even looked shocked.
thank u for feedback! omg it makes sense now!💔😨 that soniya backfired at the girls "humiliating" use of english with english lyrics! thats so cursed omg
The daughter didn't budge an inch, she just filmed it and kept filming, even with the 2nd shots fired. She didn't back up, didn't jump in surprise. Her behavior is chilling and evil. There's no excuse that could or should be made for her.
That's kind of a brutal opinion. Her father is her idol, these people have been villianized, she most likely is stunned but also her father is a cop and one who had already killed people. This child wasn't exactly prepared to judge her father, besides being scared. She was born into hell, and her way to cope with it is brutal and terrible but she is not evil because of it.
It’s so enraging to see how the hate towards her exceeds the hate towards her father. y’all can’t be hating on the girl more then the Killer 🤦🏻♀️. Besides that, we don’t really know what the girl Actually believed her father to be, so we shouldn’t act like we do. There’s too little we know about her relationship with her father to Not give her the benefit of the doubt.
shes a child. i havent eatched the full video becausedeath vids like this makes me uncomfortable (rightfully so) but ithers have said she backed away and seemed scared and shocked. shes 13 probably didnt even think her dad would shoot someone she does not deserve sll of the hate shes getting imagine the mental toll that might’ve caused her she isnt the victim or the victims famiky yes but dhes stil a child and if he did this he probably wasnt that great of a dad to her aswell
The scale of the hate was so big that even a close friend of mine and his family that had the same surname as the murderer was also affected. A few people directly messaged them on social media and cursed them out, my friend was so confused.
as a 21 year old this girl was just trying to stick up for her family. nothing to be humiliated yourself about but i feel like she didnt have the awareness to realoze what the situation was and even full grown adults didnt expect murder would be the outcome.
@@Chronorust You should work on your reading comprehension. She's just saying 13 is old enough to tell what is right from wrong. Why else do you have age of consent or any law that youngsters are excused of like a kid who murders are not tried as an adult but as a child.
That kid is 13, not a baby, and not a toddler. She has knowledge of what is acceptable and what isn't. We shouldn't excuse such vicious acts cause of their age or dumb them down by "not knowing". With the type of dad she has there's definitely a possibility that the way he sees the world has rubbed off on his daughter since she was little. The great entitlement to insert herself in this matter and how her dad didn't tell her to stop or back off just shows a lot about their character. As someone who loves their dad and an 18-year-old, I know that my dad wouldn't want me to put myself in any situation or even witness it. The fact that she confidently yelled and put her hands on an elderly woman just shows this is what she was taught. I honestly don't care about how she feels before and after. Her and her dad's behavior was ABSOLUTELY disgusting .. RIP to the mom and her son. I hope their souls are protected together in the afterlife.
But then again, she's definitely brainwashed by her absolute scum of a dad. 13 is old enough to know good from bad, but it's also an age where one can easily get manipulated, especially by a close family member.
She saw her dad murder two people, he died in jail, and an entire country bullied her. She's a victim, too. Just look at the type of man who raised her. She deserves sympathy and a _gentle_ lesson, not what she got. Her life is going to be absolute hell now, and all because of what her FATHER did.
@@kirikakirikakirika she didn't flinched nor cried or shows "traumatized" when her father shot those two so was thats a person who needs to be sympathetic? she didn't show sympathy to those ppl who her father killed.
@@calvinlee6996 First of all, she was clearly shocked when her father shot them and even had to go to therapy. Second, she very likely thought they were _criminals._ The reports also say she was in shock and he grabbed her and walked her away after the shooting.
When Lola (Granny) sang, I couldn't help but let out a small chuckle, marveling at how she managed to pull off the song in the midst of a heated argument. But when he pulled the trigger, my tears flowed, and even now, whenever I recall that video, a deep sadness lingers, and I find myself in tears once again.
Sadly, some doesn't understand sarcasm. And yes, the kid in this video didn't because she was even more pissed after the 2NE1 song. The mother was wittily annoying the kid as a retort to the kid boasting of her father's authority over them. That was just it. But unfortunately, the police officer had his power and authority way over his head that he chose violence and murder.
I am us citizen I have retired to the Philippines one day I was walking and an older woman, living in a very small house saw me and said :Oh come we eat !!" she had a single bowl of rice no souse no side dishes I believe that was all she had This woman was willing to give me all she had That Is a Filipina
I remember this. The father was a cop who was caught, imprisoned for the double murders and later died while in prison. The daughter's behavior is the result of the father's upbringing of entitlement and, thinking that her father is a cop, she thought that nothing would happen to them for whatever they do. Their family even had the audacity to play the victim card for all the bashing she received on social media.
The way he shot them virtually point-blank range with no concern or hesitation is so telling. This was definitely not his first time. Prayers to the family of Frank and Sonia ❤
As someone who lives in Philippines and used to live in one of the most dangerous cites, police officers are sometimes our greatest enemies. They would frame people by putting drugs in people's bags and houses so they could rank up. Everyone would tell me that if a police checks your bag, don't look away and after they do, check it again just in case if they did put something to frame you with.
there are still cases of people become prisoners because they were framed by officers by instilling drugs inside their homes just to meet a “quota”. i personally even know someone who works for my mom and told us stories in her neighborhood about police planting drugs to her neighbors homes. Seeing how so many similar stories are resurfacing in the internet means that it is very common.
Not to mention the “tukhang” era (drug war era) wherein any police officer who gets a drug addict gets promoted it instilled fear to the people specially when police will just suddenly barge in to your house plant something and make you a drug dealer just to get a raise or promotion I personally witnessed in my grandmother’s community wherein they killed a father in front of his kids just because he’s in the suspect list without further investigation or evidence
Sad but true😢 Kya mahirap ibalik ang death penalty d2 kc kawawa ang mga mahihina na kayang pagbintangan...pra sa mapromote sila gagawin nila lhat, nkakalungkot lang na minsan nananalo ang may pera..saan ang hustisya😢
I'm from Malaysia and when this case happened, it became viral here. The netizens hated the police officer and the brat 13 year old using her father's job as an excuse to be disrespectful.
Trust me,there is no amount of good deed that can trump the karma that is coming for their family. First, for the murders and second for failing to raise a good person. So no good deed can save them.
there were rumors that the teenager was used to these kinds of scenarios (the father pulling the trigger on someone else so spontaneously) hence why she didn't even flinch when her father shot both the man and his grandma. You can tell that that family took the fathers position as a police officer as an advantage to belittle others.
the memories of the panic attack i experienced after watching the raw video of this on twitter (freshly after the deed) are still vivid to me. my lolo (grandpa) also died, extrajudicially, in the hands of trigger happy cops and that’s why this case feels very personal to me. thank you for covering it, steph. thank you for letting the whole world know how inhumane a good portion of our country’s policemen are. may justice prevail. #StopTheKillings
I remember watching the video and just felt for the first time how my world stops and how there's really evil in this world. It's one thing to watch it in a movie or hear it from someone but seeing an actual video of killing someone out of spite and not of defense puts so much fear and unsafeness in me, that there are people like him walking in the street and I could be the next Frank without me doing anything wrong to them. I still remember the feeling after watching that video and mind you, I was 20 that time. The horror and the chill. Like how could you just take your gun out and shoot someone who didn't hurt you or threatened you without hesitation. The way he shoots Sonia again says a lot. That's not just him accidentally shooting someone out of shock or whatever. He wanted to kill them and he's gonna make sure it happens. That's sick.
@@LeslieJones-hl4jcafter it first happened you didn't need to find it. It was just every where. It was all over social media. I don't use social media but my friend got a link from tiktok and that is how I saw it
A 13-year-old kid can already read, write, and understand. She comprehends what she writes and understands what's happening around her, though not deeply. She's old enough to know right from wrong. This 13-year-old kid triggers her father's behavior. A 13-year-old shouldn't have the audacity to pull an old woman's hair and shout disrespectful words at them. Most children here in the Philippines are taught basic respect for older people, whether at home or at least in school. We also have a saying "Huwag makialam sa usapan ng matatanda" (which translates to "Don't meddle in the conversations of adults" in English). We can't always say that she's only a child who can't understand what's happening because we aren't the ones grieving for a lost grandma and her child. I understand the sentiments of other people that "you are cyberbullying a kid; she's not old enough to understand the situation; she's just protecting her father." But she's clearly using her father's job as leverage to harass people. I assume that this kid often uses the phrase "My father is a policeman" to assert her position in school.
GMRC stands for Good Manners and Right Conduct. In Philippine subjects, it teaches students about behaving well, showing respect to others, following rules, and understanding what's right and wrong in daily life. It helps students learn how to interact positively with people and contribute to a harmonious community.
My Lola always said that, about children being in adults business. When her health was so bad that 14-16 year old me was spending weeks in the hospital with her and taking care of her at home she kept telling me “Masyado ka pang bata para dito” and then when she was on her death bed I had to drive 4 hours to her and she shed a tear, squeezed my hand and said “Mahal kita” and she was gone. I even got it tattooed on me.
Its horrible how disgusting parents have to be to raise a child like that. She wasn’t just born like that, she was born into that. Yes, shes a monster, but her father is even more of one.
She was brought up by a murderer narcissistic cop (who killed 4 people, that we know of, likely many more). She must have suffered so much abuse and seen so much violence all through her childhood.
@@Chronorustand she doesn't know what manners is? she probably goes to school a fucking learns about manners she was old enough to not pull an old person hair why are yall make excuses for her ?
the 13 year old girl is old enough to realize the difference between right and wrong. she knew what she was doing while assaulting the middle aged woman. RIP both the middle aged woman and the son.
Look how she was raised. Look at the type of man who raised her. Her head was twisted with the wrong upbringing. The only one at fault for any of this is her FATHER.
I agree a lot people have the same circumtances as that 13 yr. old kid and some younger but smarter even though they also have family member who works for the law/government and stuff and have a anger management.
@@kirikakirikakirika she's 13 yrs old and she goes to school, means she was taught what's good and bad so it's her fault that she didn't use her mind and believes her father
@@lonewolf1679 I don't think you understand how this works. Also, who knows if she goes to school? She could easily be home schooled. In fact, more than likely she goes to a private school, where her entitled beliefs are reinforced on a daily basis. And again, her _father_ has clearly taught her what's "good" and what's "bad". From her perspective, she was doing what was right. Her father was surrounded by criminals who were recording and yelling at him. That's what she saw. Her father didn't even try to stop her. In fact, he defended her behaviour. It's no wonder she's the way that she is. She's a victim of her own father's parenting. Don't blame the _child,_ blame the man who raised her.
My heart goes out to the family of these victims. Having to witnessed these atrocities. I can’t imagine how they dealt with it mentally and processed it seeing their love ones laying lifeless. Sometimes I wish I have the ability to see what goes through inside peoples mind. Like I just don’t understand some humans.
Im from the Philippines and I remember hearing about this for the first time. Looking back, I was pretty distraught and mad. Now, I still feel the same. Who in the right mind would be so entitled and be so selfish to the point they end up taking someones life? The worst part is, the daughters real name is MY real name too. The absolute disgust I felt when I learnt about that. I feel so bad for the families and to the victims. I hope they're in peace forever with no disturbances. Rest in peace.
the fact that there are so many murder cases with the darkest reasoning behind a already dark crime is just so saddening. the world truly ended long ago
I think it discredits 13 year olds everywhere to discredit their ability to discern whether something like this is okay or not. The kid is a budding menace to society who is likely to become exactly the person her parents are. Best scenario is that she is removed from the parents and put somewhere equipped to rehabilitate and change the trajectory of her development.
@@chickensalad3535nah she is not wrong. It’s an organ that develops throughout life, however at that age, she knows a lot of things from wrong and right. When one is raised in a society and culture where they are thought to respect elders and yet her parents teach her otherwise, they are able to discern that at least in everyone’s eyes besides her parents, you respect your elders. And yet she chose otherwise. Hair so you know at 7 one’s amygdala is develop enough to know bad from wrong.
That happens a lot here in the Philippines unfortunately. Filipinos would often blame the kid, especially teenagers if they engaged with a sex*al relationship with an adult for example. It is awful. There is a show here, Raffy Tulfo in action (I think Stephanie mentioned in one of her videos,) where they "help" with legal complaints of their guess. If the case was about a child being groomed, the viewers will more likely blame the victim. I had argued against those people in the comment section and explained this to them but it didn't work. It was so frustrating.
As a Filipino in the Philippines, this is just a tip of the iceberg. The authorities violence/brutality are next level. We would rather run and protect ourselves from them then report crimes to them. For example: You lost you phone, buy new one. You lost your wallet, borrow money from your family/friends. You got h*r*ss/SA, don't report it and ignore it and pretend nothing happens or move far away from that person. Because reporting it would sometimes backfired at you because they like to victim blame everything here especially if a police are involved.
Same in India too, until and unless you are a powerful person noone cares. Even with popular people it's a problem. It take years to find justice in our court system even if u have full evidence.😢
My friend got her phone pick pocketed in a nearby mall. She reported it to the mall's security guard so that they can have footage and the guards are nice but when they reported it to the actual police they seem to just ignore it and they look at her if she's stupid and it's her fault for getting pick-pocketed. They look like they are shaming her instead of just helping. It's been a year and nothing happened.
Imagine that they even got a raise during Duterte’s time 😂 He actually did it as a nation-wide bribery thing to get the whole police force on his side. But yeah everything is pretty much a joke
In the Balkans, if someone gets assaulted, their family, neighbors and friends will form a gang and pay the perpetrator a visit. The cops will pretend they didn't see a thing. In all, nobody reports anything, people here usually take justice into their own hands
I’ve never had as much respect for a UA-cam personality as I do for this young lady. I’ve never heard someone say something like drug addicts are not the problem, they are people with a problem. I’m very close to someone that fights it daily. ❤
I remembered this issue so much. When the policeman died, the photo of his dead body was everywhere on social media and people would post this picture on their Instagram or Facebook stories and play the song “I Don’t Care” by 2NE1. 💀
dude its not an abuse of power. Rather. Its one man im authority thats deranged. Im not sorry for that word, it is what it is. The guy's a fking moron. Let me finish with this. How about every man woman a and child have a gun in the Phils...get it?! that sentiment is the end game... Think about it!
Ben & Ben (a very popular band in the Philippines) wrote the song "Kapangyarihan" (lit. "Power, Authority, Sovereign") as tribute to the victims of this exact incident and all others who suffered extrajudicial measures of any kind. Whenever I listen to Kapangyarihan, I always remember the scenes in the video of this incident. This incident in particular is the last straw for Ben & Ben as at that time, the Philippines was wrought with abusive authorities taking advantage of the COVID situation. I imagine Ben & Ben was collectively frustrated, angry and afraid that they let it all out in the song because the lyrics were wrathful. In a way, the song was a protest against the authorities who deserved neither badge nor office. This song was the voice of all those who were silenced.
Sampaguita, which is also by Ben & Ben, was a really good song pertaining to the people who were mindlessly killed by the Philippine government: Sa pagitan ng anino at ilaw Sa pagitan ng pabulong at pasigaw Sa pagitan ng pula at ng bughaw Makakailag ba sa mga balang naligaw Makakailag ba sa mga balang naligaw English translation: Between the shadows and the light Between whispers and shouting Between the red and the blue Is it possible to dodge stray bullets Is it possible to dodge strat bullets
kinda bias how abt the victims of drug users? rape victims child and mother abusers who use drugs. u know the covid era ppl were using drugs right. Kian issue is just casualty how abt the victims of drugs? if we base it in statistic drug users absusers is one of the cause of the crime back then but the media want to weaponsize the one casualty of police who mistaken identity and blame it on adminstration
What a great story teller you are when you tell stories like this! I have to admit, I ALWAYS switch off your videos when you start acting, speaking and giggling like a spoilt teenager. More of this type of video please🤞
i saw the unfiltered video on twiter on accident and im still traumatized till this day. my condolences go to the family. this is absolutely heartbreaking.
i also saw the unfiltered video on twt by accident too, like long time ago and it's newly upload, it's also night that time. After watching the whole video i felt traumatized😢
This episode brought me back to a dark time in the Philippines in the middle of a terribly managed c*vid lockdown and this video basically encompassed everything wrong in the Philippines in a gory video that was the talk of the nation for months. Thank you for researching this deeper than most of us here in the Philippines did, Stephanie! Rotten Mango has been keeping me entertained in bumper to bumper Philippine traffic.
yeah dark times for u but for ppl who surround with crimes its a peaceful time. Drugs crimes was so rampant before aquino admins the cause of drugs are rapes, child mother abuse, murder u named it thats why duterte admin won u cant blamed ppl who exp such
I can’t believe that two victims died at their own house just because someone can be so self-centred, and the daughter there is no excuse for her behaviour no for the father my payer goes out to the family
This take is ridiculous. The reason she is that way is BECAUSE of her parents! Feel blessed you weren't raised in an environment like her and lose your father at 13 because of his horrible actions.
Hearing you speak about addicts in the manner you did was heart warming. I’ve been battling heroin addiction for 15 years. I spent most of that time thinking I was dirty, unlovable, and deserved every rotten thing that happened to me. Now i’m a year sober and have been blessed with a chance to not only help myself but help others as well. Thank you so much for speaking kindly about us.
So disgusting. What an evil man. This poor woman and her son I can’t believe it. Despite how much is covered, I can’t believe people can be so cold and evil.
I'm a 27 year old woman and i haven't spoken to my father in about 8 years now. the way you explained the shooter, his power tip. all the little details are exactly what my father is like.. a narcisist through and through. i'm not saying this for sympathy but for the little girl. it took me so long to realise my father wasnt the hero he made himself out to be. he would manipulate us all into thinking our neighbors and family were the bad people. if guns were allowed in Australia, or maybe if my dad was a cop, i could see him doing this 100%. but when i was 13... Dad was my everything.
At 13 years, we are aware of a lot of things going on around us. Yes, maybe her shouting/ranting in support of her father was a way to stand by him, but getting physical, that too to someone so elderly - that's a RED flag. She clearly was in the making of a monster with that kind of actions.
There are plenty of troubled and messed up kids in juvenile hall and recovery homes that act WAY worse then "disrespectful" of their elders, and yes even pulling elders hair. It's not a good sign, he's, but, it's also not an indictment of an "evil" hopeless life. Many kids, acting out WAY worse, learn from their mistakes to become fine people. Here we are, NOT indicting addicts as being "bad people" but needing help; yet this girl has somehow committed the unforgivable sin of acting stupid and rule breaking. Justification for cyber bullying? So what are THEIR justifications? They can't even hide behind the fact they are "only" 13. I'll betcha if "she" had been a "he" there wouldn't have been such a huge and cry for her head. This idea that girls somehow have to never violate norms of respectability with more vicious attack then boys, is why women are not even taken that seriously when they are abused or sa'd.
@@opsvixen Hi, if you carefully read my comment, I have never supported or "justified" what the other people did to her, obviously bullying is wrong no debate. I only expressed my concern that a child, even at that age, showcased violent and ill behaviour towards a human, which I am totally against. There could be someone doing something worse than her, that does not lessen her negative actions.
oh, i freaking remember this so vividly. how that girl didn't even flinch after his father's cold-blooded actions is still fresh in my mind. i saw the full video of the incident when it circulated the internet and i was since then traumatized by it. it's honestly a cruel reality that the police officers here in the philippines think so highly of themselves and think they always have the right to use violence against civilians.
Bro let’s be real rn she is used to acting like this the nature of being in a home filled with hatred by watching her father and the rest of her family act like this this is all she knows
@nicolealvarez3577 Gurl, get a grip. There are ppl who have lived around toxic ppl and still became good person. Yes, how a kid gets raised effects but a 13 y/0 knows the difference between the right and wrong
@@userfriendlyforever not everyone is the same and has the same brain chemistry there is plenty of really bad people walking around in this world which is why it’s so violent and you and I are watching this video everything has a reason and it doesn’t take fault away from the horrible things said two things can be right at once
Man I would never go as far as to bully a 13 year old like that, but honestly? I cant bring myself to feel bad for her. 13 It's old enough to understand respect
Right? Her age is no excuse for the way she acted she's a teenager 13 is old enough you know right from wrong in stuff like this even younger than 10 years old she even had the audacity to lay her hands on the older woman!!
Right! I felt a bit disappointed the way she talked about her.. sure, she didn’t commit the murders but she isn’t 5 years old either. At 13 you’re old enough to know what’s going on and she saw how her father was acting.. yes, I wouldn’t bully her but I don’t feel sympathy either 😐
Agreed 100%. I hope she gets her behaviour corrected and grows into a person with a strong conscience. It is impossible to grasp what her home life was truly like with her father. She may of mirrored her father's aggression to earn his love and approval. I truly hope she gets the support she needs and doesn't end up following her father's footsteps.
This incident became so viral that a lot of influencial, politicians and even celebrities in the Philippines gave their condolences and took action, but if this wasn't filmed, they will just say ,"I don't care" since a policeman in involved.
A lot of 13 years olds mimic what happens at home. If he can act this way in public we can only imagine what he does in private. Can you imagine trying to rebel against your violent dad?
Umm a lot of 13 y/0 have more calm self than adults. And this type of men are only brave when they are outside of their home. No need to excuse a literal 13 y/0 behavior. If he was like that towards her too she wouldn't had the courage to even be there lol. Learn some psychology before making such accusations.
@@userfriendlyforeverSorry but I completely disagree with you. Teens and younger kids a lot of times have trouble controlling their emotions especially when going through puberty so to say they're usually more calm than adults is insane. We have no clue why this girl was there or what she was doing before this started. If she's being abused at home or sees her father being aggressive/violent would not mean she'd automatically be to afraid to be there. If anything she would be more inclined to do things in front of her father that she would think would please him like mimicking his behavior. If he's normally aggressive and in peoples faces and she knows he hates these people then it would make sense for her to act this way hoping it would make her dad happy. Children that are eager for acceptance and love from their parents will do anything to make their parents proud of them including behaving the same way as they do. If all she knows at home is violence then it would make sense for her to want to imitate that behavior as well. Why do you think children of abuse often times grow up too be abusers themselves. It doesn't happen in every case thankfully but it happens a lot. That's why we often see cycles of abuse in multiple generations of families. She also may have not even known what was going on in the situation and could have thought her dad was trying too arrest this man for legitimate reasons. She may have been scared for her father thinking he was in danger and was trying to protect him. Even small children will try to protect their parents if they think they're in danger. There's just so many unknowns about this situation that we really can't say for sure why she acted the way she did. Is this normal for a 13 year old, no. That leads me too believe she was brought up to behave this way which would be a parenting problem and not completely her fault. If shes never seen the adults in her life show other people respect then why would she show respect to anyone? I don't know where you got the idea that men who are violent in public or "brave" as you called him, aren't this way at home. I think its you who probably needs too learn more before speaking out. You clearly haven't been around violent men before or around abuse if you believe this. Men who act like this in public have no problem acting like this at home. Home is where they're comfortable to be themselves so all their true colors are going to come out. Have you ever been a 13 yr old girl? Do you have children or specifically a teenage daughter? Have you ever witnessed violence in your home or had a violent father? Are you a violent man? If you answer no to the majority of these questions then I don't think you should be telling other people they're wrong for their theory on why she might have acted this way. I can answer yes to all the questions asked but one so I have first hand experience with this topic.
@@userfriendlyforeverpsychology speaks strongly about nurture and your habitat at home what you see is what you think it’s normal everyone is different and many people chose to act differently which is why the world is so violent no one is the same she learned to act like this cause that’s what her dad taught her
once again, Stephanie never fails to prove us she's the best at her craft, the way she explains the story and put context to every aspect of what happened is so amazing. i still remember this case and I also felt angry at the 13 yr old daughter
It's amazing how you gather all this information, 😮 Ive watched some of your content and i love how you tell the story, details are so good and how you give some of your opinions and disclaimer! I was also touched when in 1or2 of your video, i found both of us crying. Kudos to you and your team!
If the girl was able to film her dad killing the old lady, I hope she didn't delete it so she can always remember how horrible her father was, and that she was subconsciously, partially to blame.
Hi. I really hope you read this comment. Actually, the case I'm talking about here is not related to the video, but then again, this case was so traumatizing that I couldn't help but cry when I heard about it. Violence against women is a very big problem, especially in places of Asia. I'm Indian, and recently, I came across a crime which took place over here. A girl, a mere 16 year old, was beaten to death by her ex-boyfriend publicly. People who were there just walked by causally, even after seeing what that monster was doing to her. The video of the attack was so traumatizing that I couldn't help but cry at the pain she must have endured before she met her end. She was killed at the hands of someone she had once trusted. It is the Sakshi Dixit Murder Case. I would be glad if you could cover this case on your channel. Crimes like these must receive international attention. We must spread awareness about the injustice women are constantly facing at the hands of men. So please go through the Sakshi Dixit Murder case once.
That sounds awful that poor girl, the amount of pain she’d been through, i can’t even fathom. Its heartbreaking to know people can be capable of such violence towards others. I Hope Justice has been/ will be served and may she rest in peace. Her boyfriend, what a horrific monster he deserves punishment beyond what he did to her. Yes i think Stephanie should cover this case, violence against women, sadly, only seems to be growing and needs to be known. If anyone reads this please protect eachother and be kind to eachother the world is too small, and our lives to short to be cruel. RIP Sakshi 🤍
Thank you for bringing up this case so more people can know of it and know of her life. I hadn't heard anything of this so at the very least you have already spread her story further around the world by commenting here. I don't know her family or loved ones but I imagine they would appreciate your compassion and kindness, both by how much you were affected by what sounds like an absolutely awful and tragic video, and by you going out of your way to share the story in the hopes of getting more attention. I'm so sorry to that poor young woman... She never, EVER should have had to deal with anything even close to that. To have such violence come from someone she trusted and loved is already horrific, but to also have it be a public spectacle where it would feel like surely potential saviors are all around, yet no one does a thing, had to be a feeling beyond words. I am sending all the brightest of blessings to her family and loved ones, and to all those who witnessed that tragedy in person or later online and who were deeply affected like you were. I hope Stephanie is able to cover this as well, so we can learn more about her and so her story spreads even further beyond this comment thread and anywhere else it's been discussed. Thank you for caring about her, and I'm so sorry for the pain you went through watching it and having it in your memory even now. And as for the girl, who I assume is named Sakshi Dixit but in case I'm wrong I've been not including her name in order to be most accurate: May her soul find peace and happiness, and rest in nothing but comfort and love. Forever and always, she will be remembered and she will be loved ❤
@@sunstripe85 Thanks for such a heartfelt reply. I'm glad people online like you are getting to know about this horrific heartbreaking case. May the victim's family get the justice they deserve.
Hindus need to learn that they do not own women. Unfortunately in the Hindu faith men r worshipped. Which gives them this ego that they can do watever they want. Problematic religion leads to this.
I remember needing a break from all of my social media accounts when this happened. It was so messed up and the entire video of what happened was all over the news and the internet and trended in the PH for weeks. Thank you Stephanie for covering this. NEVER FORGET. Edit: I forgot how much the video messed me up (along with a lot of other Filipinos). I had to mute the parts and audio where the video were showed because of how traumatizing it was. I still remember the sound of gnfire and the way they both dropped d3d when it happened.
This incident shocked I think the whole country, going viral in social media. The fact that this happened few days before Christmas 2020 (?) is just so sad :(
oh this brings me back,, i unfortunately stumbled upon the uncensored footage as this case used to be all over the news and social media back when it happened. i’m glad it’s getting international coverage because of you, thank you for your hard work steph (and your team ofc) !!
I'm sorry, but no matter what the age that girl is, it is ENGRAINED to our mind to never disrespect our elders. She is aware of what is happening of how there is trouble happening in that place, she pulled out her phone instead of stopping her father from making things worse and she pull the elder's hair in a clear blatant disrespect! Yes, she is a minor, but she knows what she is doing and that doesn't excuse her actions. But, is she deserving of being cyberbullied online, getting ridiculed, or getting judge? hell NO. I hope she does get some education about police brutality (just because her dad is a police, doesn't mean he is a hero, kid) and I hope that the online harassment wouldn't affect her mental well-being. But, if that's how she is after years go by, then I just wasted my time hoping her the best. Reading articles about this is infuriating, especially when you take into an account of the fact that this all happened during Duterte's presidency, where a lot of police killings have been everywhere (and to the fact that I am also exposed to many corrupt police cases around the world) I wasn't surprised that THAT MAN was treated like a celebrity, I wasn't surprised that they still have him carry his gun around off-duty, I wasn't surprised a family feud lead to this, but instead, I feel disappointed at our country's justice system. Bless the families of the victims. R.I.P to Mrs. Sonya and Mr. Frank
@@DUNGSTA Hi cant help but notice you in the comments section. Although I agree on some points that you were saying, it is still undeniable that the person in the wrong here is the Policeman. How can you respect a policeman who threw punches in the first place? As for the kid, as a Filipino person, who saw and understood the video quite well, the kid was not breaking up the mother and the kid. She was adding fuel to the fire. the kid did not comprehend well on what was happening on the instances that happened. Yes, the woman was egging on the I dont care song, but that does not warrant their deaths. A policeman would have kept his cool to deal with a situation no matter who is the person that they are dealing with. The policeman was a crooked cop from the get go.
I really hate how there are so many people that have no issues with bullying a 13 yr old who clearly wasn’t raised with good parents. That’s 13 years of taking in horrible information that is no doubt harmful for a growing individual to learn. Justice has been served for the guilty, yet there are people who go out of their way to stand out a house carrying signs with death threats and disgusting insults aimed at a young immature girl who isn’t entirely aware of what is going on. Her dad was a monster, and those people are as well.
Heyy Steph! Have you ever heard about the case of the Brazilian nightclub fire? The nightclub is called Kiss and it all started as a normal freshers party that would unfortunately end with 242 deaths. This case deeply impacted Brazil and it is talked about till this day because of all the corruption that it uncovered. Last year Netflix released a tv show inspired by this case called the endless night. Speaking as a Brazilian and a fan of your work I would love to see you covering this case!
This case still makes me sad.. listening to you talk about it made me cry. What bothers me is how unfazed the girl was when her dad shot the two. Like it was nothing.
I actually hated that kid because of her behavior. I know all of us make mistakes but I understand the family every will when you lost someone who is precious to you,it's a very traumatic experience to see that they die right in front of you. It's been years since that video went viral and I almost forgotten about it. I hope the family find peace and hope.
The video surfaced on Twitter and I accidentally saw it when it was trending. That was a painful watch not only because it's graphic but also I got so disturbed by the fact that if not for that video, he would have gotten away with that murder. Police brutality here is very rampant and the only few ones that are brought to justice are the ones that happen to have video recordings. And thank you for talking about that nasty president who should never be named. He has promoted a culture of impunity and people loved it which was very disturbing too.
I still remember how big this was, still such a traumatizing event, it was aired everywhere in Philippine Television, many articles were wrote, and many tributes towards the grandma and the boy all over the social media platforms, and alot of enraged, and empathizing people cursing the policeman's family. R.I.P to lola and kuya 🙏🏻🤍
Your story telling is superior!! The way you give parts of the story and then come back to those parts after you give us more info (like how the one man was a police officer) is unmatched
Thank you so much, Stephanie, for covering these international cases. With all your hard work, put into all your videos, we are more aware of what is happening in other countries. You are always so respectful towards the victims and their families. My condolences go out to the family's and friends who have had a loved one taken away in such an evil way.
when this case happened, i accidentally watched the video without knowing its contents because it was posted on twitter and it truly traumatized me, i was in shock for weeks. it was horrible i feel so bad for the bereaved family.
Thank you for covering this case Steph. I remember this happening close to holiday season and I was sent a video link to the raw footage of what happened. It was so saddening and angering to see it all unfold. My country's shity police force, and even worse, corrupt and abusive political system feels so hopeless.
As a Filipino I heard about this case so many times and everytime it only inferiorated me. Don't even give that 13 year old girl the benefit of a doubt... The fact that she was 13 and already acted that way, speaks louldy about what she'll likely become in the future. It's beyond bad. Many hate drug addicts... Specially when some of them have the audacity to play-victim when in reality...the people they Raped &/or Murdered while being high on drugs, are the Victims.
as someone who grew up with hot temper-abusive father, trust me even in my elementary school days, i already ask forgiveness from several people that have arguments (borderline fights) with my father
Stephanie, you’re such a great storyteller! Did you know that because you, I have lost 5 lbs in the past two weeks? I listen to your podcasts every time I work out. I walk about 2 hours entertained because of you. The time flies by and thank you for that! 😊
I have become basically addicted to listening to your channel. You're really good at story telling and even better at slipping the advertisements into the story. I know you're job is to sell the ads and you're killing it too. However, I don't believe for one minute that a trip to the grocery store takes up your entire day.
People defending Elilie reminds me of when “children” in that age range (13) in South Korea viciously bully and torture other people and the excuse is they’re just kids they don’t know they’re doing. When I was 13 even in the midst of a really tense situation, I knew that it waa wrong to yell at adults let alone pull on an adults hair and or hit them. You’re not a baby when you’re 13, you know right from wrong and you know not to do those things such as bullying or assaulting an adult. Honestly, I can’t find it in my heart to feel bad for Ellie. God knows situation she grew up in maybe she had a spoiled brat mentality, but I don’t think that excuses her actions whatsoever.
So true. I wasn't a perfect kid when I was 13 too but I know what's wrong from right. And my parents would've out right tell me if I'm making mistakes and I would reflect. The way she shouts at Sonya really shows how an entitled brat she is. But I do hope she changes when she grows up & then again we can never be sure cause the people raising her isn't doing a good job.
now that's just wrong to compare bullies but it's not about excusing her behavior. It's literally explaining why she was like that and why the hate she got was undeserved. She was definitely wrong but does that justify bullying her to death? She should be punished and her actions should be corrected and that's it. Accountability should be asked of the parents who raised her. And you may not be a baby when you're 13 but you definitely don't know what is right or wrong. You can tell because you grew up in a decent environment where you perceive what is right or wrong through the actions of everyone around you. While she grew up in an environment where her father was on the "right" side. She grew up thinking that everything her father does is for the sake of "justice". So if you were in her position of having the impression that every action of your father is 'right' would you say the same?
Also bullying is a different topic that shouldn't even be compared to her case. Bullying itself shouldn't be looked upon as a whole as different people have different circumstances. Some are just psychotic, some don't know that what they're doing is wrong, some are acting out, and some are just kids acting mean to impress and hide their vulnerable selves. Do those things make it okay? Of course not. But knowing their circumstances can help how to deal with the kids, how to take action, and how to correct them.
Since I discovered this channel, most of the youtubers I liked to listen to seem so boring now! 😅 Stephanie, you are a formidable storyteller, but above all, you are a deeply good person with a pure soul, and it SHOWS in your work! Mention to Mr.Butt: The support and love you show Stephanie with her work is so heartwarming, it literally makes me put higher standards about relationships and men in general! 😂
I can’t even watch others videos until the end. With Stephanie the linger the video the better. I could listen to her for hours no problem 😂 I had other youtubers I watched before her but know I can’t, their way of telling the story is kind of boring 😓
same! I struggle to watch most other true crime and storytelling youtubers now! I either get bored, or it feels like they dont put as much love and respect into their videos as Stephanie does. Even when she uploads SO much content on multiple channels and podcasts her storytelling and research (though she has a team for translation and research it's still incredible and impressive) is usually so accurate and well put/organized. Of course there are tons of other great youtubers with good storytelling and research, but no one's content... feels(?) the same as Stephanie's does. Their content just cant compare to hers and even I'm not 100% sure why!
I saw the video of what happened to the mom and son a few years ago on Twitter. I wasn't sure of the context at that moment as I couldn't understand the language, but it was hair-raising to see the dad shot them. Now that I learned what had happened, it was both frustrating to find out it involved police brutality, and heartbreaking that a man's ego costed two persons passing away just because he felt superior than anyone else.
As a Filipino, while listening to you my heart beat so fast from anxiety and anger. Eventhough it happened several years ago but I feel the rage all over again. I really hated this father-daugther duo so much. I'm not even the victims' relative
This case went super viral, many made fun of the elderly woman, the girl, the whole event in general. But I was **very** devastated, to think your demise is to be captured on video, and be made fun of. It made me cry, because no one deserves to die that way. But I am glad you covered this incident, and solemnly so. I haven’t finished the video, but if you mentioned this, the policeman (the man who shot the elderly woman and young man) has died in prison. It brought me a lot of joy, and justice is served. I don’t care what you think of me celebrating someones death, but it was well deserved. I hope both the young man and the elderly woman rest in peace, the man stills fuels my hatred to policemen and how they abuse their position. I know not all cops are bad, but theres enough cases like this to say so. The young girl being proud of witnessing a murder angers me too, and needs to be taught a lesson. But anywho, I learned more from this video because you also shared the backstory of the whole thing. Thank you once again, may they rest in peace.
A 13 year old is mature enough to understand their are good and horrible people, Ellie should have not touched the old lady that’s not exceptable. I believe we should not be using her age as an excuse for what she did.
No she's not. Not when you're raised by someone like her father. I think you and a lot of others seem to forget about that part. This isn't just some lonely kid whose parents just simply worked all day. This is someone who was clearly raised by a narcissistic, psychopath of a so-called dad. Try understanding the psychology of what that can do to a child.
I remember this one, it happened in our province a municipality just 20-30 mins away. It's a bitter-sweet ending for both parties. (Sonya's family and the child too). The murderer died, he didn't even suffer that much. And the kid was ridiculed, and I think it will remain the same way for a long time. Sonya's family got the justice just because it went viral, I wonder how many isolated cases of police brutality/powertripping/abuse of power have happened that were not even reported or not given spotlight.
I saw the cop's fb page once, he was very fond of his daughter. Actually, he spoiled her alot. He puts his daughter on some sort of a pedestal and you can tell from his posts that his daughter gets EVERYTHING she wants. That man has no control, no authority over his own family and should be the furthest person from a gun. Such a disgrace to my country's police force.
Thank you for shedding light into this case. Just one of many cases with police brutality here. There are a lot of police related violence lately and most of the victims are teens or worse children. "Mistaken identity", or because the apprehended "tried to fight back". It's enraging. Idk why policemen like these had the audacity and arrogance when in fact people pay their salaries and pensions.
Cyber bullying is really a trend here on the Philippines. A lot of people here likes to act righteous so they are blinded to the fact that they are cyber-bullying.
seeing the video when it first happened definitely messed me up for quite a while but i never knew the full story, it went viral here so quickly and the tide of comments were quickly shifting onto new aspects of the case (people were big on talking about the daughter) but i was still stuck on how fast and swift the killings were, it made me so angry that just like that lives were taken and the family's lives were forever changed thank you for adding additional context about the police brutality here and the "war on drugs" movement cause until now it's such a big problem, so many lives have been lost because people are on a power trip. the police are so quick to draw their weapons on people who pose no threat to them. just recently a young man was killed after the police shot him cause they thought he was someone else just so fucking tiring, frustrating, and angering
He got up in that old woman's face, tried to look her in the eyes, in the minute she turned away from his gaze because she was scared he put a gun to the back of her head and pull the trigger.
That's not a man. That's not a police officer. That's a monster
It is a police officer. He was a police officer. It is a man. This is what men with bruised egos do all the time. Let’s look at the reality of our society. Violent men make up much of the police and firefighting forces around the world. There are statistics. Lots of domestic violence and assault. Men with egos go into professions where people’s lives can be placed in their hands on purpose.
thats a police officer alright. all cops are just power tripping pigs and a waste of tax
that’s when he cussed her out and asked if she wanted to die. She then looked away. Very sad for the victims…
Unfortunately men police officers do that. It fits.
a coward
Being 13 year old girl who's one of the most hated people in the country is such a cursed achievement
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And the country still hates her (and at the same time pity her).
YOUR EVERYWHERE I FOUND YOU!!!🤯🤯🤯
you are everywhere what the hell
LOVVVVVEEEE THE NAME HEISENBURG
Nothing worser than an egotistical police officer. This case boiled my blood.
For real. For non self defense case
*worse
I hope the cop a burning in hell. He kinda got off easy.
@@raisou9750 for real. For killing Two people senselessly
I can relate!
I was 13 once. I wasn't that entitled nor that stupid. She grew up with rotten parents. Does it make it not her fault? Yes and no. Can't always blame your parents.
Yes true ! , I hate it when people is like 100% blame on the parents like some children is just pure evil and it should be even . Like it was a parents fault for not teach their children properly and it also the child fault because even if they old enough to know what right and wrong , they choose to do the wrong things! Unless they are just extremly dumb thats it. Even the dumb people is better.
yes her parents are to blame.
Exactly both her and her parents are at fault. 13 is not a "kid" it's a teen.I have seen kids 5-9 being mature and 19-21 adults being immature.
It's about the person's personality and mindset.
@@The4pinksforlife 13 is absolutely a kid. when theyre a victim. but then suddenly theyre a teen and not a kid when they do something wrong.
You really can't blame someone's environment for the unethical things they do. You'll notice that some grew up miserably but chose to be kind, and even siblings with the same parents don't grow up the same.
As a Filipino myself, I hope I can provide a little bit of context as to why people hated the girl. Our culture pays *HUGE* respect to elders. This includes reaching out to their hands and placing them on our foreheads when we visit them (called 'Mano'). When elderlies are talking and we have to pass through in the middle, we will bow and walk while having our heads really low to avoid interrupting the conversation and to pay respect. We also can't interrupt any conversations of elderlies because it is considered "rude". But her actions were clearly inappropriate. Pulling the grandma's hair and being physical with her is unacceptable (in all parts of the world I know, but most especially here in the Philippines it's a big deal).
In addition, her screaming "MY FATHER IS A POLICEMAN!" if you analyze the whole conversation in a Filipino context, does not mean that "My dad is an officer and he's on the right" but it screams "My father is an officer. How dare you lay your dirty fingers on us?" that's why she got hated on it.
Wow, as an indonesian, i suprised by 'mano' and bowing when we passing by elder ppl. We really hv similar culture.
She was only trying to help the situation by trying to get the mother off of the son.
@@annisakarimarahmani9145some asian countries have similar culture as of the Philippines that's why some people that aren't from the Philippines are suprised that their culture is also similar to the Philippines
That’s like the Korean culture. All the young people have to bow to their elders. Even at jobs… it’s just a natural thing to do for everyone & it shows respect. I was raised mostly in the states & Germany (military brat) but I’m 75% Korean so I know all the Korean customs & sometimes I’m ashamed of how people act here in the states. But yes, most of not all Asian countries have the same beliefs or almost same.
@@milanannella that's confucian teaching.
"My Father is a Police Man" ugghh. this case still fresh in my head. Disgusting and entitled people.
@@kirstenwright1974 Learned behaviour. I don't think she'd have been like that with different elders imo. But what do I know 🤷🏼♀️
@@kirstenwright1974Its her dads fault. She could be smarter but her dad is the main problem.
@@kirstenwright1974She was A CHILD. Wtf is wrong with you???
@@misssoso5859wtf is wrong with you? YES the father may have influenced her but that doesn’t take away the fact that she IS a brat 😂
Y’all think a 13 year old is some innocent little toddler or something like no tf they not. They are WELL DEVELOPED enough to understand BASIC human respect but that brat lacks that.
Y’all have the fucked mentality of allowing a child to stay sh*tty cuz y’all excuse it as kids being kids. But when you don’t recognize their bad behaviors that do on their own then they don’t do better.
Y’all the type to encourage disgusting behavior. Y’all can’t keep blaming a parent for the way a child acts all the damn time. Cuz guess what there are some good a$$ parents in this world that still have the shittiest kids. Y’all needa learn what it means to take a child accountable for their own actions.
@@misssoso5859"child" is a bad excuse, as a 13 year old I do empathize with her but she did fuel the fire.
To add another context to the story, some Police men in the Philippines are corrupt and feel above the law. The daughter knew this and bragged about it and acted accordingly. She felt better than everyone else. She even spoke English trying to sound condescending. This is the reason why she was bullied.
Philippines or not, corrupt or not some police (not all) do really feel they are above the law
*most police men in the philippines are corrupt.
Nawwhhh its true but sad
I looked at her Facebook and damn her English is terrible 😔
She was 13 and bullied by adults. Make it make sense...adults doing to a child what the child was accused of.
Ellie's actions spoke volumes; she wasnt afraid for her dad's safety or morally outraged or frightened by their refusal to submit to "the law". He had the gun and the authority. By 13 you know that much, at least intellectually. That teenager thought her father and family to be "above" the neighbours, and as a product of her environment, she revelled in it. I believe that she was aware that her dad was a tyrant but as a child she was happy to reap the benefits of his corruption in his position of power.
He created a monster with that child. Selfish, evil thing that he is, he didnt care about her or he wouldve extricated her from that awful scene. While she may have been a child, she needs to be monitored as a potential danger. Brainwashing is not done overnight and shes likely mentally unwell.
What a tragic situation all the way around.
Rest well, Sonia and Frank 🪷
Elisha Nuezca is her name.
Exactlyyyy
Just an update about this case- The policeman was arrested and he committed suicide according to the news here before. The 13 year old girl was so ashamed that all her classmates and even relatives hated her. Her neighbor already hated her. RIP to the grandma and to his grandchild, the teenager boy.
news report says, the bureau of corrections claim that Jonel died of a heart attack
@@meodrac some say it's just a press release but inmates hated him and did it themselves.
@tiffymahilum3002 any more updates?
Disurb ☠️
@@janeaguinaldo2687 it’s the worst situation for a police to be put together with criminals who hated his kinds.
My oldest son is 13. Hitting and yelling at an adult like that is wrong and she knew it. She was clearly raised by a monster. His actions were deplorable! If the police and courts did their jobs, he would have been stopped before these murders.
Kids actions are a mirror of the home
I feel like the only time I will yell at an adult is when I'm being disrespected. Remember respect is earned not automatic especially if that adult is extremely disrespectful. But of course in this case thats not what it is.
Girl we shouldn't even be talking about the kid. Just as if you did something, nobody should be blaming your kid. She's way too young to be held responsible of her reaction to something so atrocious 😔 it's insane when citizens go to blame the nearest woman - a KID in this case 🤦🏻♀️
@@purrrrrrrple Be realistic with yourself right now. Not all teenagers are naive fools that have no knowledge when it comes to stuff if this sort. This is the problem you all think teenagers are BABIES when their not.
@freaksssss This 'kid' wanted to throw her weight around just like she saw her corrupted father do. Kids have no business messing in adult affairs but she sure shoved her way into them.
I can see why ppl ppl would despise this BRAT!!
If no one had recorded a video, and it hadn't gone viral, I'm absolutely certain that the police would have spun this as a self-defense scenario or "nanlaban" (fought back) during an arrest on trumped-up drug charges, a narrative that seems to inexplicably repeat itself whenever police are implicated in such incidents. Consider, for instance, the tragic case of Kian Delos Santos, an unarmed 17-year-old boy apprehended by the police and fatally shot in a dark alley. He perished, pleading for his life, mentioning he had an upcoming school test the next day.
Why are police so aggressive? Is this a worldwide problem?
@@omgbuffy2276 the kind of people draw to positions of power and authority.
@@omgbuffy2276Could be. But here in the Philippines the Police here are overfunded (since the Duterte Asministration) and are pardon from lots and lots of crimes. For example, police brutality (which were rampant at one point in Aquino Administration, there were several CCTVs leaked but now it's radiosilent on this) breaking quarantine laws during Covid, extra judicial killings (minors have been killed like Kian), drug selling by confiscating drugs from other people they arrested or simply just by conniving with rich people like politicians and drugs lords. They usually get a slap on the wrist. Just recently, a dismissed cop was given extra care by Philippine National Police. He cocked and aimed a gun at a cyclist but was given the extra VIP treatment by the Police and gave him a chance to have a press conference to explain his side. It's ridiculous here. 😂
@@sinewave1k735Exactly. It's a matter of ego, a display of masculinity.
@@sinewave1k735 the worst kind of people want to be in power and control. The ones best suited flee from the job.
It’s so disgusting how that man was a policeman who was supposed to stop these situations but instead he created one. I’m in shock of how cruel people can really be and it’s so frustrating. He is a FATHER and a POLICEMAN , like hello? I’m speechless.
With the fresh set of police violence and abuses going on in the Philippines right now , covering an older case of the same nature is a very timely decision. I hope any reaction that could be drawn from this cover would put more pressure on them to resolve and bring justice to the pending cases. Thank you , Steph.
This!!!
what other cases are going on the philippines right now?
google it x
@@mina.colada_9293I think the most recent was the case of Jemboy, who was shot multiple times by Policemen, mistakenly identifying him as their suspect/target of operation.
Edit: He was 17 yrs old
@@venzkyleshouldn't they be arresting people instead of killing them? I mean why shoot the boy? You said his name was Jim? Why? Why not make the arrest? This is very bad.
The rage I felt towards the kid. And the helplessness I felt when the narrative of her age became the silver lining is immense. Please don't raise kids if you're evil.
Frrrrrrrr everyone was so mad and wanting to kill this child
Everyone so focused on a kid who was only mentioned for two seconds us so weird to me . Her father was the one who abused his power and murdered people .
@violetk8025 If you really pay attention to the reality all over the world you'll notice that it's very common for men to behave like absolute monsters and people would just demonize nearest female to him like their female victims, females who don't help victims, or females who support the literal monster, etc. In this case a little girl beside him. Like the comments filled in this video. Accountability is a myth for them.
@@violetk8025yes exactly
If you're not a Filipino and was not here when all of this broke out in the news, you sit down.
That girl is not a little girl and, after she saw 2 people get murdered by her father, she wasn’t shocked or empathetic but remained hostile to the victims. That was why people hated her.
maybe they were tiny short grown woman who look like a kid
Am I wrong for not feeling bad for her? Like idk she happily supported her dad while being wrong on his power trip.. idk seems just like her dad
@@gisela1122I don’t feel bad for her at all. She tried to power trip and old woman on the basis of a “do you know who we are?” and two people were killed. She’s a little monster
she looks shocked to me, if it doesnt look for u, maybe she is deep inside?
@@Plutonium.2Her father was a monster and raised her. If anything it's coached behavior. Her father obviously didn't bother raising her to be good and that's on him. Stop blaming everything on a child, blame the people who taught her to be like this.
The boy who was killed by the police was heard to have said "Please let me go, I still have an exam tomorrow."
I think you have this mixed up with the innocent victim of extra judicial killing during war on drugs campaign of the former president, Rodrigo Duterte. It’s Kian Delos Santos. He’s not the one in this video.
This is another story about drugs.
THAT'S KIAN DE LA CRUZ THAT'S DIFFERENT 😂
That's a different case but Police Brutality was indeed rampant at that time. Maybe still is today
Edit: Nvm, I watched near the end and they are mentioning Kian Delos Santos just didn't actually name him
i guess he likes studying
I feel bad for the 90 year old grandma.she out lived her daughter and grandson.
this kind of "special" pain and loss shouldnt exist at the first place((
And also the fact that she had to bury her daughter and grandson made it more heartbreaking
Fr, so many old couple die of a broken heart shortly after their life partner is gone, I can only imagine how absolutely unspeakable the pain would be if that was your own child let alone also your just reached proper adulthood grandchild. There isn't any number of words that can describe that level of pain.
@@101falconI often hear of moms dying after their kids die too. Older moms. Like ONE day after. Creepy.
creator makes us to be happy sad and poor and wealthy,don't complain it,no matter what the situation is we should try to live a better life even if things goes wrong,people who knows how to live right will be happy until they die but people who just getting sad and emotional all the time will perish soon
Also side note about the 13 yr old:
In the Philippines, when you speak in English to a fellow Filipino in the same tone as the kid did, that kind of attitude connotes that you feel like above the person you are talking to or you want to implicate that you are on a higher level. With that kind of mindset, I think the kid wants to show her superiority above Sonia and Frank since they are not well off and that statement "My father is a policeman" is her telling them "b*tch you better bow down because you are nothing".. Also if that kid is just truly being a kid, why didn't she flinched after the gunshots? she kept recording the video and she didn't even looked shocked.
thank u for feedback!
omg it makes sense now!💔😨 that soniya backfired at the girls "humiliating" use of english with english lyrics! thats so cursed omg
👍👍👍👍👍
Because she is brainwashed by her father. That’s why she didn’t flinch. She was TAUGHT violence is okay. She didn’t raise herself
in short, her tone was mocking
@@asteria1575 yes that's the exact word I was looking for! thanks
The daughter didn't budge an inch, she just filmed it and kept filming, even with the 2nd shots fired. She didn't back up, didn't jump in surprise. Her behavior is chilling and evil. There's no excuse that could or should be made for her.
she does back away, her demeanor seems scared after the shots were fired. I'm not excusing her actions but she didnt seem unaffected
That's kind of a brutal opinion. Her father is her idol, these people have been villianized, she most likely is stunned but also her father is a cop and one who had already killed people. This child wasn't exactly prepared to judge her father, besides being scared. She was born into hell, and her way to cope with it is brutal and terrible but she is not evil because of it.
It’s so enraging to see how the hate towards her exceeds the hate towards her father. y’all can’t be hating on the girl more then the Killer 🤦🏻♀️. Besides that, we don’t really know what the girl Actually believed her father to be, so we shouldn’t act like we do. There’s too little we know about her relationship with her father to Not give her the benefit of the doubt.
She’s a child that was raised by this man. Of course she turned out like that. But she’s still just a kid.
shes a child. i havent eatched the full video becausedeath vids like this makes me uncomfortable (rightfully so) but ithers have said she backed away and seemed scared and shocked. shes 13 probably didnt even think her dad would shoot someone she does not deserve sll of the hate shes getting imagine the mental toll that might’ve caused her she isnt the victim or the victims famiky yes but dhes stil a child and if he did this he probably wasnt that great of a dad to her aswell
The scale of the hate was so big that even a close friend of mine and his family that had the same surname as the murderer was also affected. A few people directly messaged them on social media and cursed them out, my friend was so confused.
As a 13 year old, i never felt so humiliated and ashamed to see someone at my age being so terrible towards the elders.
But that's not your fault. It's just an age.
As a 13 year old too, I totally agree with you.
I'm also a 13yrs old since 2000s and I felt the same way.
as a 21 year old this girl was just trying to stick up for her family. nothing to be humiliated yourself about but i feel like she didnt have the awareness to realoze what the situation was and even full grown adults didnt expect murder would be the outcome.
@@Chronorust You should work on your reading comprehension. She's just saying 13 is old enough to tell what is right from wrong. Why else do you have age of consent or any law that youngsters are excused of like a kid who murders are not tried as an adult but as a child.
That kid is 13, not a baby, and not a toddler. She has knowledge of what is acceptable and what isn't. We shouldn't excuse such vicious acts cause of their age or dumb them down by "not knowing". With the type of dad she has there's definitely a possibility that the way he sees the world has rubbed off on his daughter since she was little. The great entitlement to insert herself in this matter and how her dad didn't tell her to stop or back off just shows a lot about their character. As someone who loves their dad and an 18-year-old, I know that my dad wouldn't want me to put myself in any situation or even witness it. The fact that she confidently yelled and put her hands on an elderly woman just shows this is what she was taught. I honestly don't care about how she feels before and after. Her and her dad's behavior was ABSOLUTELY disgusting .. RIP to the mom and her son. I hope their souls are protected together in the afterlife.
But then again, she's definitely brainwashed by her absolute scum of a dad. 13 is old enough to know good from bad, but it's also an age where one can easily get manipulated, especially by a close family member.
She saw her dad murder two people, he died in jail, and an entire country bullied her. She's a victim, too. Just look at the type of man who raised her. She deserves sympathy and a _gentle_ lesson, not what she got. Her life is going to be absolute hell now, and all because of what her FATHER did.
@@kirikakirikakirika she didn't flinched nor cried or shows "traumatized" when her father shot those two so was thats a person who needs to be sympathetic? she didn't show sympathy to those ppl who her father killed.
@@calvinlee6996
First of all, she was clearly shocked when her father shot them and even had to go to therapy.
Second, she very likely thought they were _criminals._ The reports also say she was in shock and he grabbed her and walked her away after the shooting.
ik she's 13 years old and acting like a toddler. she is old enough to know how to behave
When Lola (Granny) sang, I couldn't help but let out a small chuckle, marveling at how she managed to pull off the song in the midst of a heated argument. But when he pulled the trigger, my tears flowed, and even now, whenever I recall that video, a deep sadness lingers, and I find myself in tears once again.
same, but with angry tears
Sadly, some doesn't understand sarcasm. And yes, the kid in this video didn't because she was even more pissed after the 2NE1 song. The mother was wittily annoying the kid as a retort to the kid boasting of her father's authority over them. That was just it. But unfortunately, the police officer had his power and authority way over his head that he chose violence and murder.
@@mbcordero03this is the true context of the video
Fr like that was such a surprise that my whole body froze ugh just thinking about it gives me goosebumps
This is the reason why people loath their existence specially that little goblin. Their whole family is loathed by the whole country even now
I am us citizen
I have retired to the Philippines
one day I was walking and an older woman, living in a very small house saw me and said
:Oh come we eat !!"
she had a single bowl of rice
no souse no side dishes
I believe that was all she had
This woman was willing to give me all she had
That Is a Filipina
I remember this. The father was a cop who was caught, imprisoned for the double murders and later died while in prison. The daughter's behavior is the result of the father's upbringing of entitlement and, thinking that her father is a cop, she thought that nothing would happen to them for whatever they do. Their family even had the audacity to play the victim card for all the bashing she received on social media.
The way he shot them virtually point-blank range with no concern or hesitation is so telling. This was definitely not his first time. Prayers to the family of Frank and Sonia ❤
As someone who lives in Philippines and used to live in one of the most dangerous cites, police officers are sometimes our greatest enemies. They would frame people by putting drugs in people's bags and houses so they could rank up. Everyone would tell me that if a police checks your bag, don't look away and after they do, check it again just in case if they did put something to frame you with.
Sometimes is an understatement. I would say most of the time they are the enemies. They won't help you unless you're rich or influential.
agree with you @@miming7201
there are still cases of people become prisoners because they were framed by officers by instilling drugs inside their homes just to meet a “quota”. i personally even know someone who works for my mom and told us stories in her neighborhood about police planting drugs to her neighbors homes. Seeing how so many similar stories are resurfacing in the internet means that it is very common.
Not to mention the “tukhang” era (drug war era) wherein any police officer who gets a drug addict gets promoted it instilled fear to the people specially when police will just suddenly barge in to your house plant something and make you a drug dealer just to get a raise or promotion I personally witnessed in my grandmother’s community wherein they killed a father in front of his kids just because he’s in the suspect list without further investigation or evidence
Sad but true😢
Kya mahirap ibalik ang death penalty d2 kc kawawa ang mga mahihina na kayang pagbintangan...pra sa mapromote sila gagawin nila lhat, nkakalungkot lang na minsan nananalo ang may pera..saan ang hustisya😢
I'm from Malaysia and when this case happened, it became viral here. The netizens hated the police officer and the brat 13 year old using her father's job as an excuse to be disrespectful.
Isnt't that everywhere then
I remember this! Almost everyone in the country wanted their family not only dead, but cursed for generations. THEY ARE PURE EVIL.
Trust me,there is no amount of good deed that can trump the karma that is coming for their family. First, for the murders and second for failing to raise a good person. So no good deed can save them.
The girl child is just influenced by the father , honestly, parents set example for children so screw their ancestors for raising crap genes
Dapat talapun ng buhay ang buong angkan nila! Lalo na ang bwaka ng inang putang bata na iyon
And wishing curse is also PURE EVIL. Be careful
there were rumors that the teenager was used to these kinds of scenarios (the father pulling the trigger on someone else so spontaneously) hence why she didn't even flinch when her father shot both the man and his grandma. You can tell that that family took the fathers position as a police officer as an advantage to belittle others.
It could be that I saw the video and the girl has no reaction. She only takes a step back when she sees them fall.
She was raised by a psychopath. And yeah there were rumors that this family is arrogant.
It could be from shock. I mean it's not everyday you (especially a little girl) get a chance to see your own dad kill someone in front of you
@@Danisa100 where did u see the video
@@selenite.-qn8cc where did you watch it?
the memories of the panic attack i experienced after watching the raw video of this on twitter (freshly after the deed) are still vivid to me. my lolo (grandpa) also died, extrajudicially, in the hands of trigger happy cops and that’s why this case feels very personal to me.
thank you for covering it, steph. thank you for letting the whole world know how inhumane a good portion of our country’s policemen are.
may justice prevail. #StopTheKillings
I remember watching the video and just felt for the first time how my world stops and how there's really evil in this world. It's one thing to watch it in a movie or hear it from someone but seeing an actual video of killing someone out of spite and not of defense puts so much fear and unsafeness in me, that there are people like him walking in the street and I could be the next Frank without me doing anything wrong to them.
I still remember the feeling after watching that video and mind you, I was 20 that time. The horror and the chill. Like how could you just take your gun out and shoot someone who didn't hurt you or threatened you without hesitation. The way he shoots Sonia again says a lot. That's not just him accidentally shooting someone out of shock or whatever. He wanted to kill them and he's gonna make sure it happens. That's sick.
How did you find the video?
@@LeslieJones-hl4jcafter it first happened you didn't need to find it. It was just every where. It was all over social media. I don't use social media but my friend got a link from tiktok and that is how I saw it
A 13-year-old kid can already read, write, and understand. She comprehends what she writes and understands what's happening around her, though not deeply. She's old enough to know right from wrong. This 13-year-old kid triggers her father's behavior. A 13-year-old shouldn't have the audacity to pull an old woman's hair and shout disrespectful words at them. Most children here in the Philippines are taught basic respect for older people, whether at home or at least in school. We also have a saying "Huwag makialam sa usapan ng matatanda" (which translates to "Don't meddle in the conversations of adults" in English). We can't always say that she's only a child who can't understand what's happening because we aren't the ones grieving for a lost grandma and her child.
I understand the sentiments of other people that "you are cyberbullying a kid; she's not old enough to understand the situation; she's just protecting her father." But she's clearly using her father's job as leverage to harass people. I assume that this kid often uses the phrase "My father is a policeman" to assert her position in school.
GMRC stands for Good Manners and Right Conduct. In Philippine subjects, it teaches students about behaving well, showing respect to others, following rules, and understanding what's right and wrong in daily life. It helps students learn how to interact positively with people and contribute to a harmonious community.
My Lola always said that, about children being in adults business. When her health was so bad that 14-16 year old me was spending weeks in the hospital with her and taking care of her at home she kept telling me “Masyado ka pang bata para dito” and then when she was on her death bed I had to drive 4 hours to her and she shed a tear, squeezed my hand and said “Mahal kita” and she was gone. I even got it tattooed on me.
Its horrible how disgusting parents have to be to raise a child like that. She wasn’t just born like that, she was born into that. Yes, shes a monster, but her father is even more of one.
The kid isn't a monster for pulling hair. She was just blind to her terrible decisions. She didn't pull the trigger.
She was brought up by a murderer narcissistic cop (who killed 4 people, that we know of, likely many more). She must have suffered so much abuse and seen so much violence all through her childhood.
@@nomygame5732
Abuse don't excuse anything .
@@louyou6614 did I say it was an excuse her actions? did I say anything that wasnt fact/true?
@@Chronorustand she doesn't know what manners is? she probably goes to school a fucking learns about manners she was old enough to not pull an old person hair why are yall make excuses for her ?
the 13 year old girl is old enough to realize the difference between right and wrong. she knew what she was doing while assaulting the middle aged woman. RIP both the middle aged woman and the son.
Look how she was raised. Look at the type of man who raised her. Her head was twisted with the wrong upbringing. The only one at fault for any of this is her FATHER.
I agree a lot people have the same circumtances as that 13 yr. old kid and some younger but smarter even though they also have family member who works for the law/government and stuff and have a anger management.
@@kirikakirikakirika she's 13 yrs old and she goes to school, means she was taught what's good and bad so it's her fault that she didn't use her mind and believes her father
@@lonewolf1679
I don't think you understand how this works. Also, who knows if she goes to school? She could easily be home schooled. In fact, more than likely she goes to a private school, where her entitled beliefs are reinforced on a daily basis. And again, her _father_ has clearly taught her what's "good" and what's "bad". From her perspective, she was doing what was right. Her father was surrounded by criminals who were recording and yelling at him. That's what she saw. Her father didn't even try to stop her. In fact, he defended her behaviour. It's no wonder she's the way that she is. She's a victim of her own father's parenting. Don't blame the _child,_ blame the man who raised her.
@@kirikakirikakirika oh you think so?💀
blame them both, no excuses
My heart goes out to the family of these victims. Having to witnessed these atrocities. I can’t imagine how they dealt with it mentally and processed it seeing their love ones laying lifeless. Sometimes I wish I have the ability to see what goes through inside peoples mind. Like I just don’t understand some humans.
You can't understand them because they lost their humanity
It’s so heartbreaking 💔
I think like that too.
That’s just straight evil and hate.. the fact he did that shows how messed up he is and how much he brainwashed his daughter
Im from the Philippines and I remember hearing about this for the first time. Looking back, I was pretty distraught and mad. Now, I still feel the same. Who in the right mind would be so entitled and be so selfish to the point they end up taking someones life? The worst part is, the daughters real name is MY real name too. The absolute disgust I felt when I learnt about that. I feel so bad for the families and to the victims. I hope they're in peace forever with no disturbances. Rest in peace.
the fact that there are so many murder cases with the darkest reasoning behind a already dark crime is just so saddening. the world truly ended long ago
I think it discredits 13 year olds everywhere to discredit their ability to discern whether something like this is okay or not. The kid is a budding menace to society who is likely to become exactly the person her parents are.
Best scenario is that she is removed from the parents and put somewhere equipped to rehabilitate and change the trajectory of her development.
You're wrong though. The amygdala is not fully developed in teenagers
@@chickensalad3535nah she is not wrong. It’s an organ that develops throughout life, however at that age, she knows a lot of things from wrong and right. When one is raised in a society and culture where they are thought to respect elders and yet her parents teach her otherwise, they are able to discern that at least in everyone’s eyes besides her parents, you respect your elders. And yet she chose otherwise. Hair so you know at 7 one’s amygdala is develop enough to know bad from wrong.
@@chickensalad3535 plus add in mob mentality, you have a very good point.
That happens a lot here in the Philippines unfortunately. Filipinos would often blame the kid, especially teenagers if they engaged with a sex*al relationship with an adult for example. It is awful. There is a show here, Raffy Tulfo in action (I think Stephanie mentioned in one of her videos,) where they "help" with legal complaints of their guess. If the case was about a child being groomed, the viewers will more likely blame the victim. I had argued against those people in the comment section and explained this to them but it didn't work. It was so frustrating.
@chickensalad3535 It doesn't matter they still know the difference between right and wrong
As a Filipino in the Philippines, this is just a tip of the iceberg. The authorities violence/brutality are next level. We would rather run and protect ourselves from them then report crimes to them. For example: You lost you phone, buy new one. You lost your wallet, borrow money from your family/friends. You got h*r*ss/SA, don't report it and ignore it and pretend nothing happens or move far away from that person. Because reporting it would sometimes backfired at you because they like to victim blame everything here especially if a police are involved.
Very much like south Africa. Law enforcement and the so called justice system is a joke
Same in India too, until and unless you are a powerful person noone cares.
Even with popular people it's a problem. It take years to find justice in our court system even if u have full evidence.😢
My friend got her phone pick pocketed in a nearby mall. She reported it to the mall's security guard so that they can have footage and the guards are nice but when they reported it to the actual police they seem to just ignore it and they look at her if she's stupid and it's her fault for getting pick-pocketed. They look like they are shaming her instead of just helping. It's been a year and nothing happened.
Imagine that they even got a raise during Duterte’s time 😂 He actually did it as a nation-wide bribery thing to get the whole police force on his side. But yeah everything is pretty much a joke
In the Balkans, if someone gets assaulted, their family, neighbors and friends will form a gang and pay the perpetrator a visit. The cops will pretend they didn't see a thing. In all, nobody reports anything, people here usually take justice into their own hands
I’ve never had as much respect for a UA-cam personality as I do for this young lady. I’ve never heard someone say something like drug addicts are not the problem, they are people with a problem. I’m very close to someone that fights it daily. ❤
❤ We fear what we don't understand. Forgive our ignorance and give us a chance to understand.
I remembered this issue so much. When the policeman died, the photo of his dead body was everywhere on social media and people would post this picture on their Instagram or Facebook stories and play the song “I Don’t Care” by 2NE1. 💀
WHAT 💀
Yeah... some people in the PH are savages like that 😬
SO TRUUU LMAO
pinoy netizens are very cruel at times, thats why i stop using social media.
The photo was also posted on his daughter's (alleged) Facebook account, from what I remember she was still trying to justify what he did.
Rip Sonia and Frank 💔 my deepest condolences to all the families affected by corruption and abuse of power.
😔 two lives gone too soon.
Corruption? It's a situation of fock around and find out.
@@DUNGSTA get help.
dude its not an abuse of power. Rather. Its one man im authority thats deranged. Im not sorry for that word, it is what it is. The guy's a fking moron. Let me finish with this. How about every man woman a and child have a gun in the Phils...get it?! that sentiment is the end game... Think about it!
@@KingKC24 don't push people's buttons 🤷♂️
Ben & Ben (a very popular band in the Philippines) wrote the song "Kapangyarihan" (lit. "Power, Authority, Sovereign") as tribute to the victims of this exact incident and all others who suffered extrajudicial measures of any kind.
Whenever I listen to Kapangyarihan, I always remember the scenes in the video of this incident.
This incident in particular is the last straw for Ben & Ben as at that time, the Philippines was wrought with abusive authorities taking advantage of the COVID situation. I imagine Ben & Ben was collectively frustrated, angry and afraid that they let it all out in the song because the lyrics were wrathful.
In a way, the song was a protest against the authorities who deserved neither badge nor office.
This song was the voice of all those who were silenced.
dude, I love this song.
I didn't know they released a song for this type of issue. Streaming rn
Sampaguita, which is also by Ben & Ben, was a really good song pertaining to the people who were mindlessly killed by the Philippine government:
Sa pagitan ng anino at ilaw
Sa pagitan ng pabulong at pasigaw
Sa pagitan ng pula at ng bughaw
Makakailag ba sa mga balang naligaw
Makakailag ba sa mga balang naligaw
English translation:
Between the shadows and the light
Between whispers and shouting
Between the red and the blue
Is it possible to dodge stray bullets
Is it possible to dodge strat bullets
kinda bias how abt the victims of drug users? rape victims child and mother abusers who use drugs. u know the covid era ppl were using drugs right. Kian issue is just casualty how abt the victims of drugs? if we base it in statistic drug users absusers is one of the cause of the crime back then but the media want to weaponsize the one casualty of police who mistaken identity and blame it on adminstration
Umm...it is also by SB19 you know? Their leader (PABLO) co-wrote the song.
What a great story teller you are when you tell stories like this! I have to admit, I ALWAYS switch off your videos when you start acting, speaking and giggling like a spoilt teenager. More of this type of video please🤞
i saw the unfiltered video on twiter on accident and im still traumatized till this day. my condolences go to the family. this is absolutely heartbreaking.
what did u write to see it?
@@matyldawilkicka4349he shot them
There's even a raw video of this in UA-cam. It's titled My father is a policeman
i also saw the unfiltered video on twt by accident too, like long time ago and it's newly upload, it's also night that time. After watching the whole video i felt traumatized😢
I remember seeing it 3 years ago at the height of police brutality being recognized
This episode brought me back to a dark time in the Philippines in the middle of a terribly managed c*vid lockdown and this video basically encompassed everything wrong in the Philippines in a gory video that was the talk of the nation for months.
Thank you for researching this deeper than most of us here in the Philippines did, Stephanie! Rotten Mango has been keeping me entertained in bumper to bumper Philippine traffic.
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What are you saying??? That time was the best for the Philippines 🇵🇭 tsk
yeah dark times for u but for ppl who surround with crimes its a peaceful time. Drugs crimes was so rampant before aquino admins the cause of drugs are rapes, child mother abuse, murder u named it thats why duterte admin won u cant blamed ppl who exp such
Wow that was the darkest time in Ph for you? I think our govt now is the most shadiest.
I can’t believe that two victims died at their own house just because someone can be so self-centred, and the daughter there is no excuse for her behaviour no for the father my payer goes out to the family
This take is ridiculous. The reason she is that way is BECAUSE of her parents! Feel blessed you weren't raised in an environment like her and lose your father at 13 because of his horrible actions.
@@tiramax She's a teenager, not a baby.
Hearing you speak about addicts in the manner you did was heart warming. I’ve been battling heroin addiction for 15 years. I spent most of that time thinking I was dirty, unlovable, and deserved every rotten thing that happened to me. Now i’m a year sober and have been blessed with a chance to not only help myself but help others as well. Thank you so much for speaking kindly about us.
So disgusting. What an evil man. This poor woman and her son I can’t believe it. Despite how much is covered, I can’t believe people can be so cold and evil.
For real anywhere in this world 🌍 unexpectedly.
This is a perfect example not to push people's buttons.
Stephanie always delivers the most interesting cases and her way of storytelling is amazing 🖤
True
this is a very viral case in the philippines
I'm a 27 year old woman and i haven't spoken to my father in about 8 years now.
the way you explained the shooter, his power tip. all the little details are exactly what my father is like.. a narcisist through and through. i'm not saying this for sympathy but for the little girl.
it took me so long to realise my father wasnt the hero he made himself out to be. he would manipulate us all into thinking our neighbors and family were the bad people.
if guns were allowed in Australia, or maybe if my dad was a cop, i could see him doing this 100%. but when i was 13... Dad was my everything.
At 13 years, we are aware of a lot of things going on around us. Yes, maybe her shouting/ranting in support of her father was a way to stand by him, but getting physical, that too to someone so elderly - that's a RED flag. She clearly was in the making of a monster with that kind of actions.
There are plenty of troubled and messed up kids in juvenile hall and recovery homes that act WAY worse then "disrespectful" of their elders, and yes even pulling elders hair. It's not a good sign, he's, but, it's also not an indictment of an "evil" hopeless life. Many kids, acting out WAY worse, learn from their mistakes to become fine people. Here we are, NOT indicting addicts as being "bad people" but needing help; yet this girl has somehow committed the unforgivable sin of acting stupid and rule breaking.
Justification for cyber bullying? So what are THEIR justifications? They can't even hide behind the fact they are "only" 13. I'll betcha if "she" had been a "he" there wouldn't have been such a huge and cry for her head. This idea that girls somehow have to never violate norms of respectability with more vicious attack then boys, is why women are not even taken that seriously when they are abused or sa'd.
@@opsvixen Hi, if you carefully read my comment, I have never supported or "justified" what the other people did to her, obviously bullying is wrong no debate. I only expressed my concern that a child, even at that age, showcased violent and ill behaviour towards a human, which I am totally against. There could be someone doing something worse than her, that does not lessen her negative actions.
oh, i freaking remember this so vividly. how that girl didn't even flinch after his father's cold-blooded actions is still fresh in my mind. i saw the full video of the incident when it circulated the internet and i was since then traumatized by it. it's honestly a cruel reality that the police officers here in the philippines think so highly of themselves and think they always have the right to use violence against civilians.
Her being 13 shouldn’t be an excuse, she definitely knows right from wrong. She’s 13, not 6.
real and true
shes a teen, not a toddler
Yep. She knows it's wrong but probably knows nothing will happen to her since she's "still a kid."
Bro let’s be real rn she is used to acting like this the nature of being in a home filled with hatred by watching her father and the rest of her family act like this this is all she knows
@nicolealvarez3577 Gurl, get a grip. There are ppl who have lived around toxic ppl and still became good person. Yes, how a kid gets raised effects but a 13 y/0 knows the difference between the right and wrong
@@userfriendlyforever not everyone is the same and has the same brain chemistry there is plenty of really bad people walking around in this world which is why it’s so violent and you and I are watching this video everything has a reason and it doesn’t take fault away from the horrible things said two things can be right at once
Man I would never go as far as to bully a 13 year old like that, but honestly? I cant bring myself to feel bad for her. 13 It's old enough to understand respect
Right? Her age is no excuse for the way she acted she's a teenager 13 is old enough you know right from wrong in stuff like this even younger than 10 years old she even had the audacity to lay her hands on the older woman!!
Right! I felt a bit disappointed the way she talked about her.. sure, she didn’t commit the murders but she isn’t 5 years old either. At 13 you’re old enough to know what’s going on and she saw how her father was acting.. yes, I wouldn’t bully her but I don’t feel sympathy either 😐
Agreed 100%. I hope she gets her behaviour corrected and grows into a person with a strong conscience. It is impossible to grasp what her home life was truly like with her father. She may of mirrored her father's aggression to earn his love and approval. I truly hope she gets the support she needs and doesn't end up following her father's footsteps.
13 years old is old enough to understand murder
Know she’s wrong but don’t engage her.
This incident became so viral that a lot of influencial, politicians and even celebrities in the Philippines gave their condolences and took action, but if this wasn't filmed, they will just say ,"I don't care" since a policeman in involved.
A lot of 13 years olds mimic what happens at home. If he can act this way in public we can only imagine what he does in private. Can you imagine trying to rebel against your violent dad?
no one deserves to be harassed and killed by the police. My prayers go out to the family
Umm a lot of 13 y/0 have more calm self than adults. And this type of men are only brave when they are outside of their home. No need to excuse a literal 13 y/0 behavior. If he was like that towards her too she wouldn't had the courage to even be there lol. Learn some psychology before making such accusations.
@@userfriendlyforeverSorry but I completely disagree with you. Teens and younger kids a lot of times have trouble controlling their emotions especially when going through puberty so to say they're usually more calm than adults is insane. We have no clue why this girl was there or what she was doing before this started. If she's being abused at home or sees her father being aggressive/violent would not mean she'd automatically be to afraid to be there. If anything she would be more inclined to do things in front of her father that she would think would please him like mimicking his behavior. If he's normally aggressive and in peoples faces and she knows he hates these people then it would make sense for her to act this way hoping it would make her dad happy. Children that are eager for acceptance and love from their parents will do anything to make their parents proud of them including behaving the same way as they do. If all she knows at home is violence then it would make sense for her to want to imitate that behavior as well. Why do you think children of abuse often times grow up too be abusers themselves. It doesn't happen in every case thankfully but it happens a lot. That's why we often see cycles of abuse in multiple generations of families. She also may have not even known what was going on in the situation and could have thought her dad was trying too arrest this man for legitimate reasons. She may have been scared for her father thinking he was in danger and was trying to protect him. Even small children will try to protect their parents if they think they're in danger. There's just so many unknowns about this situation that we really can't say for sure why she acted the way she did. Is this normal for a 13 year old, no. That leads me too believe she was brought up to behave this way which would be a parenting problem and not completely her fault. If shes never seen the adults in her life show other people respect then why would she show respect to anyone? I don't know where you got the idea that men who are violent in public or "brave" as you called him, aren't this way at home. I think its you who probably needs too learn more before speaking out. You clearly haven't been around violent men before or around abuse if you believe this. Men who act like this in public have no problem acting like this at home. Home is where they're comfortable to be themselves so all their true colors are going to come out. Have you ever been a 13 yr old girl? Do you have children or specifically a teenage daughter? Have you ever witnessed violence in your home or had a violent father? Are you a violent man? If you answer no to the majority of these questions then I don't think you should be telling other people they're wrong for their theory on why she might have acted this way. I can answer yes to all the questions asked but one so I have first hand experience with this topic.
@@userfriendlyforever you're joking with this comment 😂 so now kids should be as mature as adult, huh?
@@userfriendlyforeverpsychology speaks strongly about nurture and your habitat at home what you see is what you think it’s normal everyone is different and many people chose to act differently which is why the world is so violent no one is the same she learned to act like this cause that’s what her dad taught her
once again, Stephanie never fails to prove us she's the best at her craft, the way she explains the story and put context to every aspect of what happened is so amazing. i still remember this case and I also felt angry at the 13 yr old daughter
It's amazing how you gather all this information, 😮
Ive watched some of your content and i love how you tell the story, details are so good and how you give some of your opinions and disclaimer! I was also touched when in 1or2 of your video, i found both of us crying. Kudos to you and your team!
If the girl was able to film her dad killing the old lady, I hope she didn't delete it so she can always remember how horrible her father was, and that she was subconsciously, partially to blame.
Hi. I really hope you read this comment. Actually, the case I'm talking about here is not related to the video, but then again, this case was so traumatizing that I couldn't help but cry when I heard about it.
Violence against women is a very big problem, especially in places of Asia. I'm Indian, and recently, I came across a crime which took place over here. A girl, a mere 16 year old, was beaten to death by her ex-boyfriend publicly. People who were there just walked by causally, even after seeing what that monster was doing to her. The video of the attack was so traumatizing that I couldn't help but cry at the pain she must have endured before she met her end. She was killed at the hands of someone she had once trusted. It is the Sakshi Dixit Murder Case. I would be glad if you could cover this case on your channel. Crimes like these must receive international attention. We must spread awareness about the injustice women are constantly facing at the hands of men. So please go through the Sakshi Dixit Murder case once.
That sounds awful that poor girl, the amount of pain she’d been through, i can’t even fathom. Its heartbreaking to know people can be capable of such violence towards others. I Hope Justice has been/ will be served and may she rest in peace. Her boyfriend, what a horrific monster he deserves punishment beyond what he did to her. Yes i think Stephanie should cover this case, violence against women, sadly, only seems to be growing and needs to be known. If anyone reads this please protect eachother and be kind to eachother the world is too small, and our lives to short to be cruel. RIP Sakshi 🤍
Thank you for bringing up this case so more people can know of it and know of her life. I hadn't heard anything of this so at the very least you have already spread her story further around the world by commenting here. I don't know her family or loved ones but I imagine they would appreciate your compassion and kindness, both by how much you were affected by what sounds like an absolutely awful and tragic video, and by you going out of your way to share the story in the hopes of getting more attention.
I'm so sorry to that poor young woman... She never, EVER should have had to deal with anything even close to that. To have such violence come from someone she trusted and loved is already horrific, but to also have it be a public spectacle where it would feel like surely potential saviors are all around, yet no one does a thing, had to be a feeling beyond words.
I am sending all the brightest of blessings to her family and loved ones, and to all those who witnessed that tragedy in person or later online and who were deeply affected like you were.
I hope Stephanie is able to cover this as well, so we can learn more about her and so her story spreads even further beyond this comment thread and anywhere else it's been discussed.
Thank you for caring about her, and I'm so sorry for the pain you went through watching it and having it in your memory even now.
And as for the girl, who I assume is named Sakshi Dixit but in case I'm wrong I've been not including her name in order to be most accurate:
May her soul find peace and happiness, and rest in nothing but comfort and love. Forever and always, she will be remembered and she will be loved ❤
@@sunstripe85 Thanks for such a heartfelt reply. I'm glad people online like you are getting to know about this horrific heartbreaking case. May the victim's family get the justice they deserve.
Hindus need to learn that they do not own women. Unfortunately in the Hindu faith men r worshipped. Which gives them this ego that they can do watever they want. Problematic religion leads to this.
How awful
I remember needing a break from all of my social media accounts when this happened. It was so messed up and the entire video of what happened was all over the news and the internet and trended in the PH for weeks. Thank you Stephanie for covering this. NEVER FORGET.
Edit: I forgot how much the video messed me up (along with a lot of other Filipinos). I had to mute the parts and audio where the video were showed because of how traumatizing it was. I still remember the sound of gnfire and the way they both dropped d3d when it happened.
Do you still listen to 2ne1?
This incident shocked I think the whole country, going viral in social media. The fact that this happened few days before Christmas 2020 (?) is just so sad :(
Stephanie always puts light on these interesting and unheard of stories. And the way she explains everything is just amazing.
oh this brings me back,, i unfortunately stumbled upon the uncensored footage as this case used to be all over the news and social media back when it happened. i’m glad it’s getting international coverage because of you, thank you for your hard work steph (and your team ofc) !!
Thank you for covering all those sensitive cases with the at most respect and empathy Stephanie
You don’t even know it was sensitive case
@@OddDumping what?
@@OddDumpingtwo people died. what are you talking about????
OMG, you brought back my anger towards that child and her father.
The intro is becoming so familiar to me and it still gives me chills. You know you're in for a story when you hear it
I'm sorry, but no matter what the age that girl is, it is ENGRAINED to our mind to never disrespect our elders. She is aware of what is happening of how there is trouble happening in that place, she pulled out her phone instead of stopping her father from making things worse and she pull the elder's hair in a clear blatant disrespect! Yes, she is a minor, but she knows what she is doing and that doesn't excuse her actions. But, is she deserving of being cyberbullied online, getting ridiculed, or getting judge? hell NO. I hope she does get some education about police brutality (just because her dad is a police, doesn't mean he is a hero, kid) and I hope that the online harassment wouldn't affect her mental well-being.
But, if that's how she is after years go by, then I just wasted my time hoping her the best.
Reading articles about this is infuriating, especially when you take into an account of the fact that this all happened during Duterte's presidency, where a lot of police killings have been everywhere (and to the fact that I am also exposed to many corrupt police cases around the world) I wasn't surprised that THAT MAN was treated like a celebrity, I wasn't surprised that they still have him carry his gun around off-duty, I wasn't surprised a family feud lead to this, but instead, I feel disappointed at our country's justice system.
Bless the families of the victims.
R.I.P to Mrs. Sonya and Mr. Frank
engrained hahaha
But it's OK for adults to tease kids?
@@DUNGSTA Hi cant help but notice you in the comments section. Although I agree on some points that you were saying, it is still undeniable that the person in the wrong here is the Policeman. How can you respect a policeman who threw punches in the first place? As for the kid, as a Filipino person, who saw and understood the video quite well, the kid was not breaking up the mother and the kid. She was adding fuel to the fire. the kid did not comprehend well on what was happening on the instances that happened. Yes, the woman was egging on the I dont care song, but that does not warrant their deaths. A policeman would have kept his cool to deal with a situation no matter who is the person that they are dealing with. The policeman was a crooked cop from the get go.
@@erikajane4189 crooked cop or not the kid is still a kid. I bet you think she's a crooked kid too?
@@DUNGSTA Not a crooked kid, just a crooked cop raising a kid without manners
What is wrong with people?? This is so horrendous!! Teaching children to hate is heartbreaking! Condolences to the family of these victims💔
I really hate how there are so many people that have no issues with bullying a 13 yr old who clearly wasn’t raised with good parents. That’s 13 years of taking in horrible information that is no doubt harmful for a growing individual to learn. Justice has been served for the guilty, yet there are people who go out of their way to stand out a house carrying signs with death threats and disgusting insults aimed at a young immature girl who isn’t entirely aware of what is going on. Her dad was a monster, and those people are as well.
I am so impressed at how you tell stories. The energy and the emotion, you really have gift.
Heyy Steph! Have you ever heard about the case of the Brazilian nightclub fire? The nightclub is called Kiss and it all started as a normal freshers party that would unfortunately end with 242 deaths. This case deeply impacted Brazil and it is talked about till this day because of all the corruption that it uncovered. Last year Netflix released a tv show inspired by this case called the endless night. Speaking as a Brazilian and a fan of your work I would love to see you covering this case!
This case still makes me sad.. listening to you talk about it made me cry. What bothers me is how unfazed the girl was when her dad shot the two. Like it was nothing.
I actually hated that kid because of her behavior. I know all of us make mistakes but I understand the family every will when you lost someone who is precious to you,it's a very traumatic experience to see that they die right in front of you. It's been years since that video went viral and I almost forgotten about it. I hope the family find peace and hope.
The video surfaced on Twitter and I accidentally saw it when it was trending. That was a painful watch not only because it's graphic but also I got so disturbed by the fact that if not for that video, he would have gotten away with that murder. Police brutality here is very rampant and the only few ones that are brought to justice are the ones that happen to have video recordings.
And thank you for talking about that nasty president who should never be named. He has promoted a culture of impunity and people loved it which was very disturbing too.
Who's that president?
two months into college you’re somehow still keeping me sane 🫡
same!
@Rottenmango I love u too my Asian beauty doll
no you’re so real!
good luck!!
Same. Let’s hope that we finish college with our sanity intact
I still remember how big this was, still such a traumatizing event, it was aired everywhere in Philippine Television, many articles were wrote, and many tributes towards the grandma and the boy all over the social media platforms, and alot of enraged, and empathizing people cursing the policeman's family. R.I.P to lola and kuya 🙏🏻🤍
Your story telling is superior!! The way you give parts of the story and then come back to those parts after you give us more info (like how the one man was a police officer) is unmatched
Thank you so much, Stephanie, for covering these international cases. With all your hard work, put into all your videos, we are more aware of what is happening in other countries. You are always so respectful towards the victims and their families. My condolences go out to the family's and friends who have had a loved one taken away in such an evil way.
when this case happened, i accidentally watched the video without knowing its contents because it was posted on twitter and it truly traumatized me, i was in shock for weeks. it was horrible i feel so bad for the bereaved family.
what did u write on twitter to see the video
@@matyldawilkicka4349 nothing it was just posted many times all over everyone's timelines. seen accidentally
same
Same and that time, the video is not censored so I witnessed the actual shooting. I was terrified for weeks or months after.
Thank you for covering this case Steph. I remember this happening close to holiday season and I was sent a video link to the raw footage of what happened.
It was so saddening and angering to see it all unfold. My country's shity police force, and even worse, corrupt and abusive political system feels so hopeless.
As a Filipino I heard about this case so many times and everytime it only inferiorated me.
Don't even give that 13 year old girl the benefit of a doubt... The fact that she was 13 and already acted that way, speaks louldy about what she'll likely become in the future. It's beyond bad.
Many hate drug addicts... Specially when some of them have the audacity to play-victim when in reality...the people they Raped &/or Murdered while being high on drugs, are the Victims.
as someone who grew up with hot temper-abusive father, trust me even in my elementary school days, i already ask forgiveness from several people that have arguments (borderline fights) with my father
I have seen kids do that & I feel so bad that they have to go home with that parent.
It's so sad and toxic that you have to apologize for a grown man. Hope your doing better and found better people to be around.
As a Filipino, thank you for telling this story.
Stephanie, you’re such a great storyteller! Did you know that because you, I have lost 5 lbs in the past two weeks? I listen to your podcasts every time I work out. I walk about 2 hours entertained because of you. The time flies by and thank you for that! 😊
Yess I do to listen to her while working out she definitely makes me more focused and determined!!
I have become basically addicted to listening to your channel. You're really good at story telling and even better at slipping the advertisements into the story. I know you're job is to sell the ads and you're killing it too. However, I don't believe for one minute that a trip to the grocery store takes up your entire day.
People defending Elilie reminds me of when “children” in that age range (13) in South Korea viciously bully and torture other people and the excuse is they’re just kids they don’t know they’re doing.
When I was 13 even in the midst of a really tense situation, I knew that it waa wrong to yell at adults let alone pull on an adults hair and or hit them. You’re not a baby when you’re 13, you know right from wrong and you know not to do those things such as bullying or assaulting an adult.
Honestly, I can’t find it in my heart to feel bad for Ellie. God knows situation she grew up in maybe she had a spoiled brat mentality, but I don’t think that excuses her actions whatsoever.
So true. I wasn't a perfect kid when I was 13 too but I know what's wrong from right. And my parents would've out right tell me if I'm making mistakes and I would reflect. The way she shouts at Sonya really shows how an entitled brat she is. But I do hope she changes when she grows up & then again we can never be sure cause the people raising her isn't doing a good job.
now that's just wrong to compare bullies but it's not about excusing her behavior. It's literally explaining why she was like that and why the hate she got was undeserved. She was definitely wrong but does that justify bullying her to death? She should be punished and her actions should be corrected and that's it. Accountability should be asked of the parents who raised her.
And you may not be a baby when you're 13 but you definitely don't know what is right or wrong. You can tell because you grew up in a decent environment where you perceive what is right or wrong through the actions of everyone around you.
While she grew up in an environment where her father was on the "right" side. She grew up thinking that everything her father does is for the sake of "justice". So if you were in her position of having the impression that every action of your father is 'right' would you say the same?
Also bullying is a different topic that shouldn't even be compared to her case. Bullying itself shouldn't be looked upon as a whole as different people have different circumstances. Some are just psychotic, some don't know that what they're doing is wrong, some are acting out, and some are just kids acting mean to impress and hide their vulnerable selves. Do those things make it okay? Of course not. But knowing their circumstances can help how to deal with the kids, how to take action, and how to correct them.
Its not good to bully a kid, people is trying to get her to end her life with their intensity.
Since I discovered this channel, most of the youtubers I liked to listen to seem so boring now! 😅 Stephanie, you are a formidable storyteller, but above all, you are a deeply good person with a pure soul, and it SHOWS in your work!
Mention to Mr.Butt: The support and love you show Stephanie with her work is so heartwarming, it literally makes me put higher standards about relationships and men in general! 😂
I can’t even watch others videos until the end. With Stephanie the linger the video the better. I could listen to her for hours no problem 😂
I had other youtubers I watched before her but know I can’t, their way of telling the story is kind of boring 😓
same! I struggle to watch most other true crime and storytelling youtubers now! I either get bored, or it feels like they dont put as much love and respect into their videos as Stephanie does. Even when she uploads SO much content on multiple channels and podcasts her storytelling and research (though she has a team for translation and research it's still incredible and impressive) is usually so accurate and well put/organized. Of course there are tons of other great youtubers with good storytelling and research, but no one's content... feels(?) the same as Stephanie's does. Their content just cant compare to hers and even I'm not 100% sure why!
@@SimonesanderssI have to rewatch their old videos just so I could have my daily dose of the mangobutts when they haven’t upload new ones yet!
I saw the video of what happened to the mom and son a few years ago on Twitter. I wasn't sure of the context at that moment as I couldn't understand the language, but it was hair-raising to see the dad shot them.
Now that I learned what had happened, it was both frustrating to find out it involved police brutality, and heartbreaking that a man's ego costed two persons passing away just because he felt superior than anyone else.
it was so dumb and pointless arghhh its frustrating and shocking and enraged. a whole tragic and dumb mix🤦🏽♀️💔
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As a Filipino, while listening to you my heart beat so fast from anxiety and anger.
Eventhough it happened several years ago but I feel the rage all over again.
I really hated this father-daugther duo so much.
I'm not even the victims' relative
This case went super viral, many made fun of the elderly woman, the girl, the whole event in general. But I was **very** devastated, to think your demise is to be captured on video, and be made fun of. It made me cry, because no one deserves to die that way. But I am glad you covered this incident, and solemnly so. I haven’t finished the video, but if you mentioned this, the policeman (the man who shot the elderly woman and young man) has died in prison. It brought me a lot of joy, and justice is served. I don’t care what you think of me celebrating someones death, but it was well deserved. I hope both the young man and the elderly woman rest in peace, the man stills fuels my hatred to policemen and how they abuse their position. I know not all cops are bad, but theres enough cases like this to say so. The young girl being proud of witnessing a murder angers me too, and needs to be taught a lesson. But anywho, I learned more from this video because you also shared the backstory of the whole thing. Thank you once again, may they rest in peace.
made fun of the elderly woman??
A 13 year old is mature enough to understand their are good and horrible people, Ellie should have not touched the old lady that’s not exceptable. I believe we should not be using her age as an excuse for what she did.
Not only is she young, she was raised with a violent parent. Not crazy she'd end up like him
She was trying to get the mother off of the son
Her age is not an "excuse" it's an explanation, it's ridiculous to hold a 13 year to the same moral standard as an adult.
No she's not. Not when you're raised by someone like her father. I think you and a lot of others seem to forget about that part. This isn't just some lonely kid whose parents just simply worked all day. This is someone who was clearly raised by a narcissistic, psychopath of a so-called dad. Try understanding the psychology of what that can do to a child.
@@Chronorust she was actually trying to help but the immature lady thought it was a better idea to tease the girl by singing a kpop song and found out
I remember this one, it happened in our province a municipality just 20-30 mins away. It's a bitter-sweet ending for both parties. (Sonya's family and the child too). The murderer died, he didn't even suffer that much. And the kid was ridiculed, and I think it will remain the same way for a long time. Sonya's family got the justice just because it went viral, I wonder how many isolated cases of police brutality/powertripping/abuse of power have happened that were not even reported or not given spotlight.
All countries has their own police power tripping cases.
I saw the cop's fb page once, he was very fond of his daughter. Actually, he spoiled her alot. He puts his daughter on some sort of a pedestal and you can tell from his posts that his daughter gets EVERYTHING she wants. That man has no control, no authority over his own family and should be the furthest person from a gun. Such a disgrace to my country's police force.
Thank you for shedding light into this case. Just one of many cases with police brutality here. There are a lot of police related violence lately and most of the victims are teens or worse children. "Mistaken identity", or because the apprehended "tried to fight back". It's enraging. Idk why policemen like these had the audacity and arrogance when in fact people pay their salaries and pensions.
i remember seeing this happen and i was so mad. that kid had no respect at all. she didn’t even flinch or anything when her dad shot them
It runs in the family, I guess
It’s actually how they raised the child, that’s why she turned out like that. 😶
Cyber bullying is really a trend here on the Philippines. A lot of people here likes to act righteous so they are blinded to the fact that they are cyber-bullying.
Totoo lang, they hide it in the guise of 'joking around'
This video still lives rent free in my memory. It’s disturbing 😢😭
always want to say thank you to Stephanie & the team for all your hard work & dedication!
seeing the video when it first happened definitely messed me up for quite a while but i never knew the full story, it went viral here so quickly and the tide of comments were quickly shifting onto new aspects of the case (people were big on talking about the daughter) but i was still stuck on how fast and swift the killings were, it made me so angry that just like that lives were taken and the family's lives were forever changed
thank you for adding additional context about the police brutality here and the "war on drugs" movement cause until now it's such a big problem, so many lives have been lost because people are on a power trip. the police are so quick to draw their weapons on people who pose no threat to them. just recently a young man was killed after the police shot him cause they thought he was someone else
just so fucking tiring, frustrating, and angering