Another thing is that bw normally supported the girlies with loose textured hair more than those with 4c hair on social media. UA-camrs with 3c hair are always more popular with more subcribers because the vast majority of their audience are bw.
you are absolutely right about that, especially black american women…you even can tell by how they interact w/ 4c haired women in real life compared to how they treat looser haired females in the same vicinity…& don't let that 4c haired woman be actually dark skinned too🤦🏿♀️hell often breaks loose even more than it already was.
@@Rosemary46840yes that's how they got the "new" tips that are said on tiktok now (Rosemary oil, using a microfiber towel or t shirt to dry hair, satin/silk pillowcases, not washing hair too often, etc)
“There’s always gonna be someone that looks different than you who embraces and loves how they look” THIS is it in a nutshell! I am only allowed to love how I look as long as I look similar to or “worse than” the average UBW because then I’m being confident & loving the skin that I’m in. But if I look different from them, aka having mixed or non black features, then me loving myself equals “superiority complex,” “colorist,” “stuck up,” etc. We ALL deserve to be able to love ourselves out loud.
@@ExoticalsUnited One would have to have a pre existing inferiority complex to be offended by someone else’s confidence. Like you said in the video, I wouldn’t think twice about a white girl flaunting her straight blonde hair or blue eyes because I genuinely love my features. I can even freely admire the beauty in her features because I love my own and don’t feel like saying her straight, blonde hair is pretty is me saying that my curly black hair isn’t or that she’s better.
To be honest even though my natural hair is a fine textured 4a texture. I love wearing wet and wavy hair extensions because it gives my hair volume. This gives me a soft feminine look.
@@ExoticalsUnited That isn't true. I was "natural" in 1999, and there were limited styling options and information about how to care for natural hair. It wasn't even called natural hair. Straight hair was popular in a way that people today probably can't imagine. For the hairstyles that were popular at that time it was sensible advice. Today people are STILL complaining that natural hair is too much work. He is a hairdresser and was listening to his clients. He probably noticed which textures said that the most and advised them based on the experiences of his clients. Also, 3c hair was included in the 3b category originally. Cree Summer and Gloria Reuben were examples of 3b hair back then. Before 3c existed, I would just search "black women curly hair" when looking for product reviews for curly hair that was similar to my kind of curl. The hair chart is meant to be used like a spectrum. People freak out over the categories, but it shouldn't be hard to find where you are on it if you are honest with yourself. Mine is 3c, but it has more in common with 3b than 4a. I can still learn from 4a ladies who wear their hair curly and they are some of my favorite content creators. Women who feel limited/oppressed by that chart are missing the point of it. It's a guide not a hair grading system.
Your point about how the algorithm works needs to go viral because we really do have way more personal power over certain things than we’d like to admit. And really in truth I think it’s because we as a community at large desperately still want validation from the ruling class. If we were interested in being in community for ourselves a lot of these issues wouldn’t even exist. There wouldn’t be so much competition and division.
Yeah I’m really confused since they started going on about how problematic the hair typing system is??? How?!?!?! I always found it to be really helpful in understanding my curl pattern and I’m a type 4. it’s never affected me negatively so I will continue to use it, they stay crying about everything omfg
I think part of it is that it can be confusing especially because people are often in between, there isn't a set or perfect reference, and people usually have multiple hair types? I'm honestly not quite sure, it's not something serious for them to be getting upset over.
Some people like Leslie Jones carry the purple heart (victim mindset) syndrome with pride. Based on my experience I learned from my asian friends that real confidence is silent like a feather hitting concrete and insecurities are loud like a semi truck horn.
Facts.Twist out and curl defined wash n gos were the go to for damn near every natural on yt for the longest, which led to the looser texture looks being more popularized, intentional or not, instead of promoting naturally dry unmanipulated hair.
Does any other MLS (with type 4 hair only) find that type 3 hair looks better on you than your own type 4 hair! I feel like my straight wig and my type 3 wig looks more natural on me than my own 3c/4a hair underneath!!! I know it’s controversial to saaaaay buuuut it’s true! My own hair looks like the wig! 😂😂😂
This is actually true for me believe it or not. Straighter textures actually go well with my facial features, freckles etc and it looks “natural” or whatever . To the point where I HATE wearing human hair wigs because it looks too real and boring on me 😂
I have mostly 4C hair (i think bcuz they change what it 4C every weeks) and i shave my hair in December 2022 (i litteraly went bald and i don't wear wigs so i weared hat/bonnet the first half of the year) bcuz i was too lazy to take care of them but i never shamed people who have other hair texture. 4C hair are beautiful, i think people with 4C hair are too lazy to care of them My aunt her sister and her daughter who are darkskin have beautiful and very long 4C hair and they take really care of them.
Mine is actually a mixture of 3c and 4a, mostly 3c. I also have a little bit of 4c and 3b. 4 different curl patterns, but because my texture is silky all of the curls are defined, and they all blend together (although different sizes).
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Another thing is that bw normally supported the girlies with loose textured hair more than those with 4c hair on social media. UA-camrs with 3c hair are always more popular with more subcribers because the vast majority of their audience are bw.
you are absolutely right about that, especially black american women…you even can tell by how they interact w/ 4c haired women in real life compared to how they treat looser haired females in the same vicinity…& don't let that 4c haired woman be actually dark skinned too🤦🏿♀️hell often breaks loose even more than it already was.
Exactly. It was BW making these mixed chicks popular just like how BW made Beyoncé and Rihanna popular over Kelly Rowland
@@Rosemary46840yes that's how they got the "new" tips that are said on tiktok now (Rosemary oil, using a microfiber towel or t shirt to dry hair, satin/silk pillowcases, not washing hair too often, etc)
I so wish I had screenshot the fb group argument I had where I ended it with "that's why Rachael dolezal scammed ya'll" n left the group
😂😂😂😂😂
“There’s always gonna be someone that looks different than you who embraces and loves how they look”
THIS is it in a nutshell!
I am only allowed to love how I look as long as I look similar to or “worse than” the average UBW because then I’m being confident & loving the skin that I’m in. But if I look different from them, aka having mixed or non black features, then me loving myself equals “superiority complex,” “colorist,” “stuck up,” etc. We ALL deserve to be able to love ourselves out loud.
Exactly , I don’t take it negatively if someone different than me loves themselves . I don’t assume they think they’re better or that IM ugly 😂
@@ExoticalsUnited One would have to have a pre existing inferiority complex to be offended by someone else’s confidence. Like you said in the video, I wouldn’t think twice about a white girl flaunting her straight blonde hair or blue eyes because I genuinely love my features. I can even freely admire the beauty in her features because I love my own and don’t feel like saying her straight, blonde hair is pretty is me saying that my curly black hair isn’t or that she’s better.
@@PrettyEyesz EXACTLY! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
The amount of DS women I see wearing 3c long wigs is staggering 😮! If you don’t like your own hair texture no one else will.
To be honest even though my natural hair is a fine textured 4a texture. I love wearing wet and wavy hair extensions because it gives my hair volume. This gives me a soft feminine look.
The guy who created this chart felt that any texture past 3B should be relaxed.
One of the Oprah goons who create mayhem in the world.
wait really? oh wow. thats hypocritical then for the natural hair movement to even take on this chart and use it as their standard
@@ExoticalsUnited makes no sense why it’s pushed so heavily.
@@cutiepiea3687absolutely.
@@ExoticalsUnited That isn't true. I was "natural" in 1999, and there were limited styling options and information about how to care for natural hair. It wasn't even called natural hair. Straight hair was popular in a way that people today probably can't imagine. For the hairstyles that were popular at that time it was sensible advice. Today people are STILL complaining that natural hair is too much work. He is a hairdresser and was listening to his clients. He probably noticed which textures said that the most and advised them based on the experiences of his clients.
Also, 3c hair was included in the 3b category originally. Cree Summer and Gloria Reuben were examples of 3b hair back then. Before 3c existed, I would just search "black women curly hair" when looking for product reviews for curly hair that was similar to my kind of curl.
The hair chart is meant to be used like a spectrum. People freak out over the categories, but it shouldn't be hard to find where you are on it if you are honest with yourself. Mine is 3c, but it has more in common with 3b than 4a. I can still learn from 4a ladies who wear their hair curly and they are some of my favorite content creators. Women who feel limited/oppressed by that chart are missing the point of it. It's a guide not a hair grading system.
I thought he said that about type 4 hair only.
Your point about how the algorithm works needs to go viral because we really do have way more personal power over certain things than we’d like to admit. And really in truth I think it’s because we as a community at large desperately still want validation from the ruling class. If we were interested in being in community for ourselves a lot of these issues wouldn’t even exist. There wouldn’t be so much competition and division.
Yeah I’m really confused since they started going on about how problematic the hair typing system is??? How?!?!?! I always found it to be really helpful in understanding my curl pattern and I’m a type 4. it’s never affected me negatively so I will continue to use it, they stay crying about everything omfg
Right I never viewed it as bad
I think part of it is that it can be confusing especially because people are often in between, there isn't a set or perfect reference, and people usually have multiple hair types? I'm honestly not quite sure, it's not something serious for them to be getting upset over.
right. i never viewed it as anything serious to get mad about
Some people like Leslie Jones carry the purple heart (victim mindset) syndrome with pride. Based on my experience I learned from my asian friends that real confidence is silent like a feather hitting concrete and insecurities are loud like a semi truck horn.
As an mls man, the black women who prefer me look like Leslie Jones
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Tyla and Tems or Arya Starr are going to be the next unambiguous vs ambiguous Bw debate. I can already see it now.
It’s already happening
@@kelsilulu Not surprised
Here from the future and you were correct...
@@MissRayneNerdiiChicK Yes I see the rumblings of this starting to happen more the bigger Tyla gets.
Facts.Twist out and curl defined wash n gos were the go to for damn near every natural on yt for the longest, which led to the looser texture looks being more popularized, intentional or not, instead of promoting naturally dry unmanipulated hair.
Does any other MLS (with type 4 hair only) find that type 3 hair looks better on you than your own type 4 hair! I feel like my straight wig and my type 3 wig looks more natural on me than my own 3c/4a hair underneath!!! I know it’s controversial to saaaaay buuuut it’s true! My own hair looks like the wig! 😂😂😂
I’m speaking for my mom here. She looks like Halle Berry and type 3 hair just fits her better in my opinion.
@@TamTam9-15 okay!!!But she has natural type 4 hair?
@@Academiacaramelcurlz yes 4a. When she was relaxing her hair and would curl it a little or just wear it straight it just fit her better.
This is actually true for me believe it or not. Straighter textures actually go well with my facial features, freckles etc and it looks “natural” or whatever . To the point where I HATE wearing human hair wigs because it looks too real and boring on me 😂
Another thing is 2 mls people with “good hair” are not allowed to date each other
Omg yes !
Is it wrong to want to be with a woman with 3b 3c hair as a 3c 4a man ? Brown skinned kind of exotical here.
@@tafarimakonnan1763 nope not at all
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Hope you like it!
I have mostly 4C hair (i think bcuz they change what it 4C every weeks) and i shave my hair in December 2022 (i litteraly went bald and i don't wear wigs so i weared hat/bonnet the first half of the year) bcuz i was too lazy to take care of them but i never shamed people who have other hair texture.
4C hair are beautiful, i think people with 4C hair are too lazy to care of them
My aunt her sister and her daughter who are darkskin have beautiful and very long 4C hair and they take really care of them.
Rihanna has type 4 natural hair, fyi.
Ok?
2:40 Kelly’s head is so much bigger than Rihanna’s.
I have 3 a , and 3c type hair texture it gets stiff sometimes, but I use hair oils, hair grease to relax soften the stiffness of my hair 🥰
Mine is actually a mixture of 3c and 4a, mostly 3c. I also have a little bit of 4c and 3b. 4 different curl patterns, but because my texture is silky all of the curls are defined, and they all blend together (although different sizes).