@Rasheens-Story But women care about men's validation that's a fact, and something in women that they need, let's be real. So you can say that, sounds goof but the fact is, that you women need men attention, validation etc 🤔 so let's no fake, nor cap
Men in the South don’t only open doors for good-looking women. They do it because they are gentlemen. They do it for old ladies and kids too. They open doors for older men also. Everything isn’t about looks.
That is proper. But it isn’t the case everywhere unfortunately. And though some do hold the doors for everybody, they don’t trip over themselves for a basic looking woman.
You have no idea of how much I’ve learned from this man. It wasn’t easy from the beginning because I had lots of resistance in my mindset, but with the time I started to see things the way they really are. Gone too soon and he’ll always be missed. Thanks Kevin.
Can we all just get back to the word 'value' being about actual values? Do your best to be healthy - mentally, physically, morally, and spiritually. That effort results in good energy being put out into the world. Find yourself work that suits who you are and your values. Stop comparing yourself to people on social media. Turn that stuff off! Lookism/pretty privilege is an unfortunate part of life but we don't need to dwell on it! You can be beautiful, you can be wealthy or both and still have a trash personality.
Honey I knew I didn't have pretty privilege from day one. I am not unattractive but I have been told by the actions of people that I am unattractive. I've been meaning to make a podcast about this topic for a very long time. I am still trying to see value in my physical appearance. But it's truly hard to wake up and appreciate the way I look physically. It's truly hard when you've been invisible your whole life and how men won't even acknowledge you as a human being. I have such a hard time trying to find someone to date. However, I am staying single and refraining from the dating scene until I can level myself up physically. I am a solid 5/10.
What world are you living in because you are very pretty! I am female and African American so maybe the way I see beauty is different from men (specifically the men whose attention you want) but maybe you are just hanging out in the wrong spaces? Do you only hang out with groups that are of a different ethnicity than you? Beauty is so relative, honestly. Honestly, I've had white men be more attentive (and low value - aka broke and didn't have a good career - AA men that I didn't want) than the high-value AA men that I actually wanted (and foolishly chased after). Maybe you are ignoring the attention you do get from men you don't like or want (I do the same thing - it doesn't count to me because I don't want them).
Honestly I feel like no one understands me, whenever I vent about being unattractive y'all motherfuckers tell me to love myself as I am. I am working on that, you aren't hearing me out or even treating me like a human. I AM TIREDDD
All I’ve ever dated were high value men. I am a Yale graduate living in NYC and I am always surrounded by those men. However, there is a price to pay for dating these men and sometimes you have to weigh the pros and cons. All of my exes are tall, attractive, and Ivy League educated. They have careers making $200k+. The hardest part about dating those men are the women who chase after them. You are constantly fighting for your man even when he’s faithful and loyal. My exes never made me feel like I was competing with other women but I got tired of random women trying to compete for his attention. It made me feel like maybe it would be easier to have an average man.
@@georgemclane1472 Not sure what you mean by that. All of my exes wanted me back. One was a cheater and I didn't want to take him bak. The other, I broke up with because he moved overseas and I was still in graduate school and wasn't interested in living in another country at the time. I also want to point out that I am currently engaged to a man who attended a prestigious law school and makes a ton of money so...
Why is everyone so obsessed with beauty and money no conversation about attitude, connection, love, vibes only superficial temporary ass shit money is temporary too the money that those “high value men” have is temporary too beauty is temporary too so focus on the permanent stuff please
I can’t believe he’s talking about OHSTEPHCO I literally just finished watching the video. 😒 she was never hating on her friend she was just pointing out the differences of attention she got
I’m glad I was never pretty like this and average because being average is so much easier. I had no problems getting married at 25 because I had realistic expectations. I don’t have to worry about losing weight too fast, I can take my time, enjoy my married life with my average husband and children. I am so glad I don’t have to do all this crap. I say build from ground zero and be grateful for what and who u have till God decides to lvl it up.
Lol, Feminine, Fit and Friendly. It also helps if you have financial success. I have those things because it makes me happy and builds character. Everyone just needs to work on themselves and love themselves. The right person may or or may not come along but happiness is attainable depending on perspective. Me and my husband have been a team for 20yrs. Looks fade but character is what’s left at the end of the day.
And women, quit comparing yourself to other women, that's the problem. We men don't think like that. Our minds don't say : when we look at another man, we'll his muscles are bigger than mines. Or his jawline is more masculine than mines.That's why your self esteem is low. Just be you and you will definitely attract somebody because at the end of the day, it's somebody for everybody.
This is true... and natural. Women should take pride in their appearance! And! We should be comfortable with a little competition, it keeps you on your toes and from getting too comfortable. Plus it motivates you to keep your man in a healthy and happy space because out of all things you will WANT to provide peace.
@@sexygirl2735 I'm not saying anything that ain't true. If or when you start looking for a man, you gone compete whether you want to or not. (If he's of character not this HV extra shit) Just like they do for us. I mean of course if that's not your focus that's perfectly fine. I'm not forcing anything on anybody. Just giving my perspective because it worked for me.
He’s spitting facts. The dislikes must be from people who don’t like the truth. It hit must home for a lot of people. I’m extremely blessed I’m 6’7, I’m athletic m/in shape & make 6 figures. It’s genetics, intellect and luck. We all have different cards
This is such a toxic message that’s constantly being pushed at women. “Your value lasts a short time, your value will diminish, you are replaceable, you will become invisible” I’m constantly hearing this message everyday, everywhere. It’s honestly awful. I guarantee the rates of mental health problems in women are going to keep going up.
Can you clarify if you disagree with the message, or just with women receiving the message 🤔 by calling it toxic im guessing that you disagree with the message. If so it would be good to hear why you think it's false, and also why you think it's negative that women hear it if it's true. Surely if it's true women are better off learning it when they have time to utilise their peak to get where they want to be, rather than the "wall" coming as a surprise and the limitations of a post wall woman 🤔
@@billytheripper4 For the same reason I do not think the value of men should be attached to their appearance or how much they make or their ability to maintain an erection as they age.
@@zed3063 yes we can all virtue signal and say ideally the world would not work that way, but it does so isn't it better men learn that it works that way, akin to how it would be best women learned what men judge value by?
@@billytheripper4 The world works that way on the internet. Look around you in real life.. people get into relationships with all sorts. The heart wants what it wants, it doesn’t abide by arbitrary predefined rules despite this toxic narrative that is being pushed about both genders.
@@zed3063 legit question: so you'd be totally willing and happy to marry and have a committed monogamous relationship with a short, less than average man, that only makes about 30-40k a year?
I made my fiancé high value. He wasn’t when I met him. But he was loyal, kind, loving. Being a high value woman he told me what his vision was and we accomplished it in a few months and he asked me to marry him like 2 weeks later. If a man has the foundation you can make it work. I would not consider this man to be a high value man. He is arrogant, opinionated without foundation, and doesn’t seem to add value to our culture or anyone’s lives. I would pass on dudes like this if you’re desiring a loving marriage and happy family.
Well I know I’m not pretty privileged and I’m proud of it and fine with it. It’s my energy that attracts the men to me, as well as being fit and toned and funsized I’m actually happy.
I’m a High Value Woman with Pretty Privilege I have two degrees, have multiple streams of income, own my dream home and dream car. My value has been acquired through hard work, tunnel vision focus, and unwavering determination. I had my daughters in my early twenties and both of them are in pre graduate degree programs. I’m humbly grateful because I earned my High Value Status, I have no need to compete with anyone. I Am A Unicorn 🦄 🤷🏽♀️👑
You are an “independent woman who don’t need no man”. Single mom with kids and a high income. It’s not exactly a high value woman, but you are successful.
You Are high value. You are what you believe but be that act it and live it if that's what u say u are. Talk is cheap actions tell the expensive truth. So u can be who u feel u need to be but be it thru ur actions with class being humbled listen more speak less. Let's goo!!!!
Who the fuck are these people to tell you you're not high value??? Seriously? High value and low value is such a callous way to refer to human beings anyway, I wish it would stop lmao
I'm so tired of the pretty privilege conversation. Pretty privilege only exists in the entertainment world for obvious reasons. People with average regular jobs or life's do not receive this! Ordinary people are intimidated when they see a person who is beautiful and stands out because unlike Hollywood it does not happen as often. People become extremely competitive with attractive people because of their own insecurities and ultimately try to bring them down! If the person interviewing u for a good job is jealous of you then you probably won't get the job! Instead they will probably hire someone less intimidating who will not likely surpass them duh! Let's talk about ugly privilege or basic "average" privilege because that shit is real we're in the Era of inclusion. Being pretty doesn't cut it and could ultimately be your down fall but no one wants to talk about that cuz yall haters!!!! If your pretty u will have to work twice as hard because you will have twice as many haters trying to stop u and block your bag! People only want some thing from you because your attractive for beautiful woman guys just want sex and women just want a negative reaction from you! Sum f*@$&#ing privilege bs!
Leandria TV made a good point that pretty privilege doesn't always work. The pretty girl in the hood still can't get access to the powerful, successful attractive, educated man that she may want because of her social circle and financial status. So, what's the benefit of being pretty if all you can attract is some broke dusty? I knew a very pretty girl but her life was very tragic because she was born into a poor household and didn't attend college. The only way that a woman truly has privilege, pretty or not, is being in the RIGHT circles. Michelle Obama got Barack Obama because she had the brains, the education and the career that helped them to cross paths in the first place!!
Also, how has pretty privilege helped out someone like Beyonce whose husband is rich but still can't keep his eyes off of other women? Pretty privilege may be very overrated in many cases and we as women are making it bigger than it really is. It's still a man's word at the end of the day and they have ALL the privilege while women have little to none.
Thats a lie. I am not in entertainment and men have told me to cut infront of them in grocery lines. A stranger gave me money because he thought i was pretty, it might not have been much lol. I have even be placed in this prestigious society at work where newbies are never ever placed in and my superior was asking how i even got into it been new for 3 weeks and no one knows my name. I have gotten so much opportunities that it would take me really long to write. But it all boiled down to my looks as i have done nothing to deserve those privileges
@@newestbarbee3250 Looks is very important in today’s society! Ask them why folks are still paying huge amounts of cash to do plastics surgery and other body transformation, Coz it’s all down to looks. Pretty privileged had been winning and will continue to win that’s just life and human nature for you, if you’re blesss with good genetics then you’re very lucky with life. In reality everyone want to interact with actractive and beautiful people. Some might have different opinions about the conversation which I understand, But don’t change the actual facts.
Let’s be real though are men confident enough to actually go for the pretty woman? It’s like the apple at the top of the tree analogy, they tend to go for the apples that are within reach
This is true. But what you can improve on is character, morals , mindset and values. That will benefit you more than be "just pretty". Looks with no substance won't last. Build your substance🙏
@@TheKrista5 I will admit both sides have been more focused on the exterior vs the interior lately Have you ever tried to approach a guy ? Or let him know you were interested (verbally)? And if so did u make sure you two were close in levels of attractiveness?
@@vaushawnbrown2110 once and he was a close friend at the time but got rejected. I don't approach anyone anymore. I really don't waste my time anymore. If it happens fine if not fine
@@TheKrista5 well of course, that was only one time. I'm not saying it doesn't matter because it does, putting yourself out there can be very difficult. What if I were to tell you, there are people who put themselves out there and got rejected hundreds of times, this is not that uncommon. Heck even myself have been rejected many times, as sucky as it was, it made me better. Are you truly okay with it being fine or do you just don't want to go through the possibility of rejection? If you don't want to go through it, that is totally understandable, heck I took breaks from dating too frfr so I get it
You can't talk sense when people have these irrational positions. The problem isn't the evident lack of logic and understanding, it's the abundance of emotion and pretense
🤣 this is comical to me. Ladies, learn to love yourselves for who you are!!!!! Whether you’re considered “hv” or not! Learn to embrace your “flaws” and the fact that every one of us will get old one day (God willing). Clearly there’s a value placed on women based solely on looks and that doesn’t benefit the average person. What I have come to realize however , is that “Hv “ women still deal with the same transgressions as “none HV” women. The cheating etc. So at the end, who’s really benefiting here. Embrace your singleness and enjoy life!!!!!! It can be a wonderful thing, with our without a man!
So many ppl off the topic of the point of the pretty privilege video🤦🏾♀️ It's real!! Especially in America! I've dealt with both sides so I kno!! It's definitely about colorism!! We were ingrained that way for Centuries!! How could it not be🤷🏾♀️? These conversations are the only way it goes away!! Ppl like him need not to deny certain truths just to be controversial for an audience!! Not to mention She was just telling her experiences which were REAL! How anyone feel the right to dismiss that is beyond me! She gave plenty of supporting details how she came to her conclusion! Just because it never happened to u doesn't mean it doesn't exist!
He hit it!! People have to make me aware how much privilege I get cause of my looks! I thought all women get this much attention but apparently not and I’m sorry 😢 I’m just being me 🤷🏽♀️
Yup and just think about how much men gotta do just to catch up with a non pretty woman. And women, just off the virtue of being women, get much more privilege over men. I'm not complaining, I embrace it. Us men tend to get out privileged through power, resources and influence later in life, that's cool with me💯 slow and steady wins the race
@@marilynwillett804 That they can easily get kicked out of because they have no money of their own. Women need to remember that your husbands money is NOT your money. Look at Pilar Sanders as a cautionary tale.
@@bibaolaitan5189 Colleges and average working woman tht just a facts any especially pretty/ beautiful woman at the age of 23 y.o there a 80 percent she got kids. Idc how much tv gas u woman up ,but a woman with kids by other men is not a prize regardless how pretty she is.
@@goofynigga8456 again which women have you met in your life... cos you re spitting rubbish.. provide me the facts.. maybe the women in your neighbourhood have had children by the age of 23... very diff for the rest of us..
Stop begging for a mans validation and it won’t affect you
Babygirl, that's the only truth but these people are asleep...lol let them sleep
yup
@Rasheens-Story But women care about men's validation that's a fact, and something in women that they need, let's be real. So you can say that, sounds goof but the fact is, that you women need men attention, validation etc 🤔 so let's no fake, nor cap
Men in the South don’t only open doors for good-looking women. They do it because they are gentlemen. They do it for old ladies and kids too. They open doors for older men also. Everything isn’t about looks.
Right on.i do it for all.
That is proper. But it isn’t the case everywhere unfortunately. And though some do hold the doors for everybody, they don’t trip over themselves for a basic looking woman.
Up north they only do it if yr attractive
@@mellimel1174 that’s a lie stop the cap 🧢
Yeah these women are so entitled, a lot of them are mentally trapped in high school.
You have no idea of how much I’ve learned from this man. It wasn’t easy from the beginning because I had lots of resistance in my mindset, but with the time I started to see things the way they really are.
Gone too soon and he’ll always be missed. Thanks Kevin.
Can we all just get back to the word 'value' being about actual values? Do your best to be healthy - mentally, physically, morally, and spiritually. That effort results in good energy being put out into the world. Find yourself work that suits who you are and your values. Stop comparing yourself to people on social media. Turn that stuff off! Lookism/pretty privilege is an unfortunate part of life but we don't need to dwell on it! You can be beautiful, you can be wealthy or both and still have a trash personality.
That look is gorgeous on Kevin. Rip KS. Left us too soon.
Honey I knew I didn't have pretty privilege from day one. I am not unattractive but I have been told by the actions of people that I am unattractive. I've been meaning to make a podcast about this topic for a very long time. I am still trying to see value in my physical appearance. But it's truly hard to wake up and appreciate the way I look physically. It's truly hard when you've been invisible your whole life and how men won't even acknowledge you as a human being. I have such a hard time trying to find someone to date. However, I am staying single and refraining from the dating scene until I can level myself up physically. I am a solid 5/10.
What world are you living in because you are very pretty! I am female and African American so maybe the way I see beauty is different from men (specifically the men whose attention you want) but maybe you are just hanging out in the wrong spaces? Do you only hang out with groups that are of a different ethnicity than you? Beauty is so relative, honestly. Honestly, I've had white men be more attentive (and low value - aka broke and didn't have a good career - AA men that I didn't want) than the high-value AA men that I actually wanted (and foolishly chased after). Maybe you are ignoring the attention you do get from men you don't like or want (I do the same thing - it doesn't count to me because I don't want them).
you are really pretty. Are you Ethiopian?
Honestly I feel like no one understands me, whenever I vent about being unattractive y'all motherfuckers tell me to love myself as I am. I am working on that, you aren't hearing me out or even treating me like a human. I AM TIREDDD
Stop trolling, if that's your real pic then you u pretty AF
I think you’re absolutely beautiful 💯💯
All I’ve ever dated were high value men. I am a Yale graduate living in NYC and I am always surrounded by those men. However, there is a price to pay for dating these men and sometimes you have to weigh the pros and cons. All of my exes are tall, attractive, and Ivy League educated. They have careers making $200k+. The hardest part about dating those men are the women who chase after them. You are constantly fighting for your man even when he’s faithful and loyal. My exes never made me feel like I was competing with other women but I got tired of random women trying to compete for his attention. It made me feel like maybe it would be easier to have an average man.
Gurl some men do this pick average because the fight to keep pretty is too much for em whew 🤣
Bs ing
Notice how you were never able to keep none of those Rich ivy league university dudes
@@georgemclane1472 Not sure what you mean by that. All of my exes wanted me back. One was a cheater and I didn't want to take him bak. The other, I broke up with because he moved overseas and I was still in graduate school and wasn't interested in living in another country at the time. I also want to point out that I am currently engaged to a man who attended a prestigious law school and makes a ton of money so...
@@MrsTruthTeller *Aww, that was a nice little fairy tale*
All this man has ever done was dropped facts
Why is everyone so obsessed with beauty and money no conversation about attitude, connection, love, vibes only superficial temporary ass shit money is temporary too the money that those “high value men” have is temporary too beauty is temporary too so focus on the permanent stuff please
And a high value man want a attractive woman. Everyone wants to be with a pretty woman to Marry and a ugly woman just for sex.
I can’t believe he’s talking about OHSTEPHCO I literally just finished watching the video. 😒 she was never hating on her friend she was just pointing out the differences of attention she got
Exactly! And I like Kevin Samuel's but he was off in that.
I’m glad I was never pretty like this and average because being average is so much easier. I had no problems getting married at 25 because I had realistic expectations. I don’t have to worry about losing weight too fast, I can take my time, enjoy my married life with my average husband and children. I am so glad I don’t have to do all this crap. I say build from ground zero and be grateful for what and who u have till God decides to lvl it up.
#Team Stephco....
Lol, Feminine, Fit and Friendly. It also helps if you have financial success. I have those things because it makes me happy and builds character. Everyone just needs to work on themselves and love themselves. The right person may or or may not come along but happiness is attainable depending on perspective. Me and my husband have been a team for 20yrs. Looks fade but character is what’s left at the end of the day.
And women, quit comparing yourself to other women, that's the problem. We men don't think like that. Our minds don't say : when we look at another man, we'll his muscles are bigger than mines. Or his jawline is more masculine than mines.That's why your self esteem is low. Just be you and you will definitely attract somebody because at the end of the day, it's somebody for everybody.
Its not up to woman to make sure the man comes home. Stop it ✋ . He needs to make sure he comes home
this.
This is true... and natural. Women should take pride in their appearance! And! We should be comfortable with a little competition, it keeps you on your toes and from getting too comfortable. Plus it motivates you to keep your man in a healthy and happy space because out of all things you will WANT to provide peace.
Somebody gets it 🙏🏾👏
What if you just prefer comfort to chasing men...
I’m not competing with anybody I have more important things to focus on. I’m not competing with any woman for any man
@@sexygirl2735 I'm not saying anything that ain't true. If or when you start looking for a man, you gone compete whether you want to or not. (If he's of character not this HV extra shit) Just like they do for us. I mean of course if that's not your focus that's perfectly fine. I'm not forcing anything on anybody. Just giving my perspective because it worked for me.
@@bibaolaitan5189 that's your perogative; nothing else to say.
For real tho, this my guy. He's spitting facts
He’s spitting facts. The dislikes must be from people who don’t like the truth. It hit must home for a lot of people. I’m extremely blessed I’m 6’7, I’m athletic m/in shape & make 6 figures. It’s genetics, intellect and luck. We all have different cards
who cares, exactly, what genetics are you bragging about?
@@marilynwillett804 Let him be happy as long it isn't getting bad.
@watch enthusiast yes and we must never let women be above our purpose here
You're a lucky woman!
@watch enthusiast only wealthy men appreciate. Other men just get old and lose value the same way women do.
Pretty privilege has always exist and it will always exist that is Hou the world works sadly
This is such a toxic message that’s constantly being pushed at women. “Your value lasts a short time, your value will diminish, you are replaceable, you will become invisible”
I’m constantly hearing this message everyday, everywhere. It’s honestly awful. I guarantee the rates of mental health problems in women are going to keep going up.
Can you clarify if you disagree with the message, or just with women receiving the message 🤔 by calling it toxic im guessing that you disagree with the message. If so it would be good to hear why you think it's false, and also why you think it's negative that women hear it if it's true. Surely if it's true women are better off learning it when they have time to utilise their peak to get where they want to be, rather than the "wall" coming as a surprise and the limitations of a post wall woman 🤔
@@billytheripper4 For the same reason I do not think the value of men should be attached to their appearance or how much they make or their ability to maintain an erection as they age.
@@zed3063 yes we can all virtue signal and say ideally the world would not work that way, but it does so isn't it better men learn that it works that way, akin to how it would be best women learned what men judge value by?
@@billytheripper4 The world works that way on the internet. Look around you in real life.. people get into relationships with all sorts. The heart wants what it wants, it doesn’t abide by arbitrary predefined rules despite this toxic narrative that is being pushed about both genders.
@@zed3063 legit question: so you'd be totally willing and happy to marry and have a committed monogamous relationship with a short, less than average man, that only makes about 30-40k a year?
I would buy his book if he had one.
Delusion is at an all time high
How could anyone ever hate him. He was literally trying to bring up all men and women and his community.
I made my fiancé high value. He wasn’t when I met him. But he was loyal, kind, loving. Being a high value woman he told me what his vision was and we accomplished it in a few months and he asked me to marry him like 2 weeks later. If a man has the foundation you can make it work. I would not consider this man to be a high value man. He is arrogant, opinionated without foundation, and doesn’t seem to add value to our culture or anyone’s lives. I would pass on dudes like this if you’re desiring a loving marriage and happy family.
Love this ❤️❤️❤️
You have masculine qualities, and I beg to differ. My 10 year marriage has gotten better listening to this man.
He's dime a dozen. if he could rate a beautiful white blonde with blue eyes he would jump at the chance.
@@marilynwillett804 European features have nothing to do with beauty. Your facial features do.
BW have to stop doing that. A man needs to build himself
Well I know I’m not pretty privileged and I’m proud of it and fine with it. It’s my energy that attracts the men to me, as well as being fit and toned and funsized I’m actually happy.
I just looked at your picture honey your Beautiful 🤩.
@@charlitamarshall7067 facts ! Also her comment is sooo relatable
You are pretty stop capping
Fun sized!! 🤗
But you are really cute
I’m a High Value Woman with Pretty Privilege
I have two degrees, have multiple streams of income, own my dream home and dream car. My value has been acquired through hard work, tunnel vision focus, and unwavering determination. I had my daughters in my early twenties and both of them are in pre graduate degree programs. I’m humbly grateful because I earned my High Value Status, I have no need to compete with anyone.
I Am A Unicorn 🦄 🤷🏽♀️👑
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are an “independent woman who don’t need no man”. Single mom with kids and a high income. It’s not exactly a high value woman, but you are successful.
You Are high value. You are what you believe but be that act it and live it if that's what u say u are. Talk is cheap actions tell the expensive truth. So u can be who u feel u need to be but be it thru ur actions with class being humbled listen more speak less. Let's goo!!!!
Who the fuck are these people to tell you you're not high value??? Seriously? High value and low value is such a callous way to refer to human beings anyway, I wish it would stop lmao
Having regular things in life does not make you a unicorn.
He's Right Tho
Men also benefit from pretty privilege
Yep look at the hot felon. His good looks got him a modeling contract right out of prison and A baby with a billionaire woman.
@@angieangiel2666 Jeremy Meeks
Dude I don’t Tripp off no pretty woman I open doors for average looking women
i really dont be dealing w/bw anymore,But if you got the look you got the look 🤷..
which video is this from?
I'm so tired of the pretty privilege conversation. Pretty privilege only exists in the entertainment world for obvious reasons. People with average regular jobs or life's do not receive this! Ordinary people are intimidated when they see a person who is beautiful and stands out because unlike Hollywood it does not happen as often. People become extremely competitive with attractive people because of their own insecurities and ultimately try to bring them down! If the person interviewing u for a good job is jealous of you then you probably won't get the job! Instead they will probably hire someone less intimidating who will not likely surpass them duh! Let's talk about ugly privilege or basic "average" privilege because that shit is real we're in the Era of inclusion. Being pretty doesn't cut it and could ultimately be your down fall but no one wants to talk about that cuz yall haters!!!! If your pretty u will have to work twice as hard because you will have twice as many haters trying to stop u and block your bag! People only want some thing from you because your attractive for beautiful woman guys just want sex and women just want a negative reaction from you! Sum f*@$&#ing privilege bs!
Leandria TV made a good point that pretty privilege doesn't always work. The pretty girl in the hood still can't get access to the powerful, successful attractive, educated man that she may want because of her social circle and financial status. So, what's the benefit of being pretty if all you can attract is some broke dusty? I knew a very pretty girl but her life was very tragic because she was born into a poor household and didn't attend college. The only way that a woman truly has privilege, pretty or not, is being in the RIGHT circles. Michelle Obama got Barack Obama because she had the brains, the education and the career that helped them to cross paths in the first place!!
Also, how has pretty privilege helped out someone like Beyonce whose husband is rich but still can't keep his eyes off of other women? Pretty privilege may be very overrated in many cases and we as women are making it bigger than it really is. It's still a man's word at the end of the day and they have ALL the privilege while women have little to none.
Thats a lie. I am not in entertainment and men have told me to cut infront of them in grocery lines. A stranger gave me money because he thought i was pretty, it might not have been much lol. I have even be placed in this prestigious society at work where newbies are never ever placed in and my superior was asking how i even got into it been new for 3 weeks and no one knows my name. I have gotten so much opportunities that it would take me really long to write. But it all boiled down to my looks as i have done nothing to deserve those privileges
@@newestbarbee3250 Looks is very important in today’s society! Ask them why folks are still paying huge amounts of cash to do plastics surgery and other body transformation, Coz it’s all down to looks. Pretty privileged had been winning and will continue to win that’s just life and human nature for you, if you’re blesss with good genetics then you’re very lucky with life. In reality everyone want to interact with actractive and beautiful people. Some might have different opinions about the conversation which I understand, But don’t change the actual facts.
Something is wronv with this man🤔🤔 some woman must have HURT him really bad😁
This is a legitimate question: What did he say that was wrong or false?
and I actually don't agree with some of the things he says
Wow. This man is making sense and only telling the TRUTH of how men think ...HE didn't make the rules sweetie ...sorry
Let’s be real though are men confident enough to actually go for the pretty woman? It’s like the apple at the top of the tree analogy, they tend to go for the apples that are within reach
After 30 years of living and single. I always knew I didn't have pretty privileges.
This is true. But what you can improve on is character, morals , mindset and values. That will benefit you more than be "just pretty".
Looks with no substance won't last. Build your substance🙏
@@vaushawnbrown2110 i have all the things you say but hard when people don't look at that so it's whatever
@@TheKrista5 I will admit both sides have been more focused on the exterior vs the interior lately
Have you ever tried to approach a guy ? Or let him know you were interested (verbally)? And if so did u make sure you two were close in levels of attractiveness?
@@vaushawnbrown2110 once and he was a close friend at the time but got rejected. I don't approach anyone anymore. I really don't waste my time anymore. If it happens fine if not fine
@@TheKrista5 well of course, that was only one time. I'm not saying it doesn't matter because it does, putting yourself out there can be very difficult.
What if I were to tell you, there are people who put themselves out there and got rejected hundreds of times, this is not that uncommon. Heck even myself have been rejected many times, as sucky as it was, it made me better.
Are you truly okay with it being fine or do you just don't want to go through the possibility of rejection? If you don't want to go through it, that is totally understandable, heck I took breaks from dating too frfr so I get it
I used to want a high value man but they are too high maintenance. No thanks
FACTS
You can't talk sense when people have these irrational positions. The problem isn't the evident lack of logic and understanding, it's the abundance of emotion and pretense
that's what it seems, judging from this video full of irrational premises.
🤣 this is comical to me. Ladies, learn to love yourselves for who you are!!!!! Whether you’re considered “hv” or not! Learn to embrace your “flaws” and the fact that every one of us will get old one day (God willing). Clearly there’s a value placed on women based solely on looks and that doesn’t benefit the average person. What I have come to realize however , is that “Hv “ women still deal with the same transgressions as “none HV” women. The cheating etc. So at the end, who’s really benefiting here. Embrace your singleness and enjoy life!!!!!! It can be a wonderful thing, with our without a man!
Well said
You proved his point with your fourth sentence lol
Is he talking about Oh!stephco’s video?
Yes
Yep youtuber: Oh! Stephco
Where can I find the full video?
So many ppl off the topic of the point of the pretty privilege video🤦🏾♀️
It's real!! Especially in America! I've dealt with both sides so I kno!! It's definitely about colorism!! We were ingrained that way for Centuries!! How could it not be🤷🏾♀️? These conversations are the only way it goes away!! Ppl like him need not to deny certain truths just to be controversial for an audience!! Not to mention She was just telling her experiences which were REAL! How anyone feel the right to dismiss that is beyond me! She gave plenty of supporting details how she came to her conclusion! Just because it never happened to u doesn't mean it doesn't exist!
Look at Jeremy Meeks.
Its skin color too
He hit it!! People have to make me aware how much privilege I get cause of my looks! I thought all women get this much attention but apparently not and I’m sorry 😢 I’m just being me 🤷🏽♀️
You sound stupid saying that.
Yup and just think about how much men gotta do just to catch up with a non pretty woman. And women, just off the virtue of being women, get much more privilege over men.
I'm not complaining, I embrace it. Us men tend to get out privileged through power, resources and influence later in life, that's cool with me💯 slow and steady wins the race
@@vaushawnbrown2110 am all that and am pretty.Nothing beats being attractive in this world it's the best feeling
OMG!!!!!!!!.......WHAAAAATT!!!!!!??????!!!!!
Lol as them basketball wives who are struggling to keep their man in there.
Athletes and entertainers not high value men try again…
👏👏👏
they still live in gorgeous houses,
@@marilynwillett804 That they can easily get kicked out of because they have no money of their own. Women need to remember that your husbands money is NOT your money. Look at Pilar Sanders as a cautionary tale.
you treat a lady like lady...and if they are hot..even more so...😎
Wow! This guy makes a lot of since.
*sense
Stop lying, ALWAYS SKIN COLOR
To you sir
@@brianarose597 lol
What do you mean?
Boy bye
Yes, your right in all ethnic groups the women that are darker are looked down upon. If it wasn’t about color then colorism wouldn’t exist.
Kitten heels 👠 🌈
Y'all still using that ? 😑
@@onesolejeanius3498 yes
This man AINT high value. PERIODT! Stop putting women down😪
At allll
LMAO goodbye.
..sending a man a meatloaf🤣🤣
wtf he rambling on about
If a woman is over 23 y.o and she pretty she got kids automatically
so do ugly ones
What!!!.... what women have you met in your life...
@@bibaolaitan5189 Colleges and average working woman tht just a facts any especially pretty/ beautiful woman at the age of 23 y.o there a 80 percent she got kids. Idc how much tv gas u woman up ,but a woman with kids by other men is not a prize regardless how pretty she is.
I disagree with the kids part, however, many women that age have high body counts....which is a turn off as well, for me.
@@goofynigga8456 again which women have you met in your life... cos you re spitting rubbish.. provide me the facts.. maybe the women in your neighbourhood have had children by the age of 23... very diff for the rest of us..