I don't think guys are dying to be with girls who have daddy issues. She never had to option of refusing in the first place. Like a beggar saying "I won't be accepting a million dollars".
Jonathan, At first I really wanted to say, "This video isn't for you." But after further thought I changed my mind. This video is for you. It hurts me that you still have that same perception after watching it. I made it for people with thoughts like that to open their mind and show them the other side of the situation. But it's clear you must have covered your ears. The term "Daddy Issues" isn't an adjective to describe people by. Just because I lost my Dad doesn't mean I'm clingy or there is something inherently wrong with me. I think you'd be surprised at just how strong, resilient, and independent I am, because I CHOSE to be. Which is just one of the many options I had/have. My father died in my arms. I held him as he took his last breath. If by that alone, you automatically categorize me as "undateable" or "unwanted" then I am sorry. I'm sorry you are so incredibly intimidated by strength. I sincerely hope, you find someone meek and weak enough to not damage your ego.
Katie, my father passed away two years ago when I was 17. This is the most perfect thing I could have seen today. We will always hurt, but we have so much love for the world and everyone in it. I post about my dad on social media often, and tell stories about him every day. The world thinks that means I will never "get over it", but it's my way of keeping him alive. Thank you for having the strength and courage to post this. You're a wonderful writer and such an inspiration.
@108482462644085702117 Kara, I'm so glad this resonated with you. It's always good to know you're not the only one fighting a battle. I definitely understand sharing stories about your Dad to keep him alive, I do it often. Thank you for having the strength and courage to keep your father's memory alive, shining a light on the darkness of grief, and supporting this message. One day I hope 'Daddy Issues" will be used as a compliment. Until then, the phrase will always hold a message of fortitude and perseverance for me. Thank You!
i tell stories about my girlfriend all the time like it was yesterday, she killed herself a year ago, it kind of makes you feel like they're still with you
Katie, We have never met, nor have I had the pleasure of meeting your father. However, he must have been an incredible man to instill such wisdom and grace beyond most. It came through in your words, your stature, but most importantly in your eyes. You have been gifted by both of your Fathers in Heaven. I have never posted to things online, however, this moved me beyond just viewing.
This young girl has good insight and offers the rest of us a shining example of someone who has, through introspection and with courage, discovered a way to get through obstacles and reach the other side relatively intact. " To make the individual uncomfortable, that is my task. " - Nietzsche
Katie, I lost my father before I knew what love was and before I could crawl! But he new he was sick and he knew he was leaving and it killed him! But I was his little doll! The day I was born my mother told me That was the happiest day of my life! He was in his 40s! He still watches over me everyday! I went to my first funeral before I could walk. I was brought to the casket by my brother I just looked I couldn't even talk! So I just looked and grabbed at my dad as any 1 year old would! Little did I know that day would be they last time that I could!
Katie, I've never been close with my real dad mostly bc he's never been there for me. I had my grandfather. My grandfather was my best friend. He ended up passing when I was only 5. I still cry when I think about him today. I've always heard the term "daddy issues" and I've never understood nor took it in that my real dad and I, our relationship means that I have so called "daddy issues". Thank u for speaking out I will never say that u have daddy issues because my father has passed. My grandfather will forever be my father by heart. Thank u Katie.
I wish I could speak of my earthly dad this way. I grew up with a dad who was dead. Alive and walking and present, but careless, abusive, and heartless. So for many years I had daddy issues until I met my Father who is in heaven. The one who loves, forgives and cares. Who taught me to do the same. I chose to forgive and to love my earthly dad and that's when my chains came off. Thank you Lord for being my father
My dad died 11 months ago , and this brought me to tears because of how deep it hit. When he died I felt like a piece of me died with him and that I can no longer make him proud , but I know now that just because he's not physically here doesn't mean he's not here with me. I know that I am making him proud no matter what I do because my dad always saw the good in me even when I had lost my way , and this video really made me realize that no matter what I will always have the memories to keep him with me.
That was well said. Daddy issues are looked upon as hindrances to healthy and loving relationships. But what can I girl or guy if there father died or left at a really young age. Sometimes when another father figure such as a step father comes into life, he still doesn't quite fill the "void". He doesn't treat you right. What's there to do? Just accept and acknowledge the fact.
I can just feel the strength and resilience in this thread. If you ever want to talk to someone who's been there, or if there's ever anything I can do for you, email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com
Me and my Dad aren’t that close. And he isn’t the best but I still love him. I love him for the happy moments we have. And even if he hurt me sometimes and he isn’t the best I still love him
Katie, my dad passed away when I was eleven years old. Whenever "daddy issues" was a term used for me, I always abandoned it because I thought it meant only for a father that did nothing for their child, which was definitely not mine. What I'm trying to say is, hearing your words made today a little easier. thank you. 💘
I'm happy I could make today easier for you. Kind words like yours make every day easier for me. And if in the future there is anything else I can do to make your day easier, don't hesitate to reach out! Thank you.
Daddy issues is a girl that has attention problems and often projects them on the men she meets. In other words, she's clingy. Of course, your father could have done everything for you and you can still be clingy, but that's not the point. If you're clingy, you need to look at your behaviour.
Jonathan (I'm just going to copy and paste this as a reply to every comment you make), At first I really wanted to say, "This video isn't for you." But after further thought I changed my mind. This video is for you. It hurts me that you still have that same perception after watching it. I made it for people with thoughts like that to open their mind and show them the other side of the situation. But it's clear you must have covered your ears. The term "Daddy Issues" isn't an adjective to describe people by. Just because I lost my Dad doesn't mean I'm clingy or there is something inherently wrong with me. I think you'd be surprised at just how strong, resilient, and independent I am, because I CHOSE to be. Which is just one of the many options I had/have. My father died in my arms. I held him as he took his last breath. If by that alone, you automatically categorize me as "un-dateable" or "unwanted" then I am sorry. I'm sorry you are so incredibly intimidated by strength. I sincerely hope, you find someone meek and weak enough to not damage your ego.
If I lost my dad I wouldn't know what to do. For all the people who lost there Dads I'm so sorry. This really won't do anything but just know you have support.
wow! i clicked on this instantly as i saw the title. my father walked out on us (me, my twin sister, and my mom) when i was only two months old. my boyfriend broke up with me and told everyone i had daddy issues. i know that our situations are very different but it made me look at that term in a different light. i talk about my father walking out because i don't want it to happen to anyone else. its not that im depressed about it, I take it as a strength. thank you so much for this.
I lost my dad when I️ was 18. My boyfriend at the time was a piece of crap to me about the whole thing. Im 22 now and I️ am with the man of my dreams who even years after my dads passing honors him, even though he has never met my father. I️ found this video today and I’ve had it on repeat for an hour. I️ really needed this today, thank you.
I'm so glad this video could speak to you, Brittany. And I love hearing about your happy ending. If you ever want to talk about the loss of your Dad with someone who's been there or if there's ever anything I can do for you email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com ... Hope you have a great day!
As someone who lost their dad as a girl, I can't thank you enough for saying this and using such a platform. THANK you! ❤️ I think about this term "daddy issues" all the time. You spoke everything I was thinking.
Daddy Issue Poem by Katie I was talking to this guy and out of nowhere we hit a dead end, I was really confused and then I heard him talking to his friend, He said I like her a lot, she seems really cool, just one problem though, I don't date girls with daddy issues. I have issues?! He made it sound like I had done something obscene, just because my dad died when I was 19, he labeled me daddy issues like he knew, but we never spoke of it, he didn't have a clue. I tried to look it up, to figure out just what it means. The Internet said, that a girl with daddy issues is basically a cling. A girl with a bad relationship with her father. Who seeks attention and makes relationships harder. I thought that was a poor categorization to go by. How can you judge all deserts, by one piece of pie. So first off, I can't help but laugh when you classify me as a cling. You see I lost the most important man in my life, I'll be just fine if you leave. Life's too short to be holding on to something that's walking away. If you don't want to be here, I won't be begging you to stay. But to call me coldhearted and distant, is to have me wrongly branded. Because after that loss, I no longer take anyone's presents for granted. But maybe you're right, I made a mistake, you don't want to date me, I've got too much on my plate. Too much strength, too much love, faith, courage, you name it, and all of the above. Because where there is great grief, there is also great love. Now I have two fathers in heaven, watching me from above. Both who have loved me unconditionally since day one. So I don't need you to fill in an empty space. I'm not half full, I'm over flowing with Grace. There's this thing that people used to tell me, to help me remember my place. They would say, not my monkeys, not my circus. They're right, it's not my fight. Not my purpose. But I won't bite my tongue, you don't deserve it. See, I wasn't given daddy issues, I earned it. I make a choice every single day to keep him alive. I'm sorry if that makes you uncomfortable but he's never someone I'm going to hide. You see, someone once told me, those that love beyond the earth never really die, but he did. And when he did, I made a promise. A promise to remember him in smiles and never in tears. Because the day that he died, so did all of my fears. I made a vow that day that his passing would never be an excuse. So let me just add to that, it will also never be an issue. So with the girl with Daddy issues, let me just say, that I'd rather be a daddy's girl than your girl-any day.
thank you for this.. i lost my father at age 5 and this is a phrase i have been belittled with since a teenager.. so well spoken and made me cry. you put it into words.
You're welcome!! Sorry to hear about your father, if you ever want to talk about it with someone who's been there or if there's ever anything I can do for you email me anytime at thekatiecronin@gmail.com
hi this is kinda late on commenting but my dad passed when i was 13 months old and to hear that makes me feel that i’m not the only one , you are a huge role model to me and i really like you videos. all my friends feel bad for me because i don’t have a dad. they refuse to talk about it when i’m around but your words are amazing, thank you
I'm so glad my words made a difference to you. Your words just made my day and reminded me why I do what I do. Stay strong, sending lots of love your way. If there's ever anything I can do for you, or if you just want someone to talk to - don't hesitate to reach out! thekatiecronin@gmail.com
Katie, thank you for speaking out against male assumptions about our lives because we aren't from a common two parent household. You are an inspiration. Shutting down the lies and rumors and reminding the world that a women's success should never fall under a "con" category no matter what the story may say.
@hHaile Victoria - Male assumptions about your lives are generally accurate, just because there are a few stories that don't obey the norm don't make them any less true. This is not about "women's success", this has to do with women not understanding the concept of boundaries i.e being clingy. Interesting that you attempt to frame women failing to understand the concept of personal boundaries as an attack on women's success. In fact, female entitlement could be seen as recently as Kesha - Jerry Seinfeld incident where Jerry refused to hug someone he didn't know. People immediately framed it as male arrogance for refusing to hug a successful female artist when in fact Kesha was infringing on Seinfeld's personal space. 'Daddy issues' is only a compliment to anyone who thinks female violation of personal space is something to be proud of.
"Life's too short to be holding on to something walking away" - I forgot how much in love I was with spoken word til four hours later, it's 4 in the morning & im falling in love all over again with spoken word.
People label but they don't know about how it feels. Have them stand at their own father's funeral or watch as he leaves out the door and know he's not coming back, but not be able to do anything but stand there and cry. Let me tell you it's not easy for the people who go through this everyday. These people shouldn't be labled or be just another statistic for something that is not their fault. Maybe it's not my business but i'd rather say something than sit around and do nothing. Not all people labled with "daddy issues", are the same. After all we're all unique people who respond to the same circumstances differently.
So sorry to hear about your father's passing, Evia! I'm glad my words could help a little. If you ever want to talk to someone who's been there or just need someone to listen email me anytime: thekatiecronin@gmail.com
My father was never around and died when I was sixteen. But it is amazing to see through your words the deep connection you two shared. He meant a lot to you and no one should label you with "Daddy Issues" because of it. This video shows your love and strength. Don't let anyone bring you down. Wonderful :)
"Because where there is great grief, their is great love." Lost my dad and my world when I was 17, I'm 19 now. Never heard something I could relate to so much. Thanks for the inspiring strength!
You are so very welcome. I can feel the strength and perseverance in your words. Sorry to hear about your Dad, if you ever want to talk about it with someone who's been there or if there's ever anything I can do for you email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com
My dad left me when I was very little so I was never really taught what a real 'man' was so I've been let down many times, but every time this makes me feel better. Thank you for this
You are welcome. I'm glad this video could help. I can feel the resilience in your words. I know you'll stand taller every time you're knocked down. If there's ever anything I can do to help you email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com
Thank you! Sorry to hear about your Dad, if you ever want to talk about it with someone who's been there or if there's ever anything I can do for you email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com
My dad just Ignores me, now matter how much I try to make everything right and he just shits on it. my parents divorced when I was 7, I was a daddys girl but now I'm just a girl with Daddy issues in my friends eyes
wow... this is amazing... I don't have a dad... I was called "daddy issues " by my friend last week, and then I realized, "daddy issues? How do you know I don't have a dad? you know nothing about me." that 'friend' I had, is gone. I would rather him be gone then him staying, because I'm not friends with someone that can't accept my 'daddy issues'
This is a beautiful piece.. Thank you for presenting it.. very strong.. elegant.. hard.yet soft.... I really enjoyed it and found aspects relatable..keep creating!!
I really loved your poem, Katie. I wrote a spoken word poem to my Dad, and it has helped a lot. I am very glad to have a loving and caring father, yet only recently have I realized I have abandonment "daddy" issues. My Dad hasn't passed away. He hurt me many years ago and he has often let me down. I have been internalizing that anger, and it resolved in a lot of pain. I am living abroad and I have met a guy I like, but he's only here for four months. We've only hung out a few times, but I am experiencing the same emotions and acting the same way I did when I was (and still am) working through those issues. I am glad that my Dad and I are on speaking terms now, but it's difficult for me to communicate to this guy what I want or even see if it's worth it, because I'm scared of being hurt. I felt like your poem emanated strength and vulnerability at the same time, and I really like that. All the best
Very well-written piece! I like it! I think it's awesome that you're holding onto the happy memories that you and your father shared. That guy who said you have "Daddy Issues" is definitely not the right guy for you and I'm glad you have not let his negative words affect you. Thanks for sharing Katie! :)
Wow, this gets me.. My mom passed away three years ago, and there are boys who Don't want me Because of that. Because They don't know How to deal with that. Because they think I'm crying all day long Because my mom is dead. I'm not. I'm living for her, thankfull for every day that I get. Knowing that in a 50 years, I'll see her again, and she'll be so proud of me. Fuck those boys who think They know you or How you handle loss. They don't.
I'm sorry to hear that. Know that you will always be more than any label or phrase anyone can place on you. Especially 'Daddy Issues'. If there's anything I can ever do for you, don't hesitate to reach out!
Hi! This is one of my favorite videos and i just wanted to say I am really truly sorry. My dad almost died once and it was the worse things to happen to me. To be labelled like that is terrible, am i would be dead inside if my dad really did die. So i would like to say this: I am a daddy's girl. And i am proud of it. If someone had something bad to say of it, you may as well be talking to a wall because i wont listen.
"You see i lost the most important man in my life, I'll be just fine if you leave"
Strong, that hit home. Amazing poem, outstanding x
And yet, she's so clingy, as evidenced by the fact that the guy who didn't want her said she had daddy issues.
That part had me in tears
"I'd rather be a daddys girl. than your girl anyday "
me: *Shouts* OH SHOOOOOOOTTTTTTTTT
I don't think guys are dying to be with girls who have daddy issues. She never had to option of refusing in the first place. Like a beggar saying "I won't be accepting a million dollars".
Jonathan Xavier this shows that 'daddy issues' isn't a disease. People talk as if it is.
Jonathan, At first I really wanted to say, "This video isn't for you." But after further thought I changed my mind. This video is for you.
It hurts me that you still have that same perception after watching it. I made it for people with thoughts like that to open their mind and show them the other side of the situation.
But it's clear you must have covered your ears. The term "Daddy Issues" isn't an adjective to describe people by. Just because I lost my Dad doesn't mean I'm clingy or there is something inherently wrong with me.
I think you'd be surprised at just how strong, resilient, and independent I am, because I CHOSE to be. Which is just one of the many options I had/have.
My father died in my arms. I held him as he took his last breath. If by that alone, you automatically categorize me as "undateable" or "unwanted" then I am sorry.
I'm sorry you are so incredibly intimidated by strength.
I sincerely hope, you find someone meek and weak enough to not damage your ego.
Katie Cronin damn yes u tell him queen
"I'm not half full, i'm overflowing with grace"
;)
I love the line, "Where there is great grief, there is great love."
"I'd rather be a daddy girl than your girl, any day"
Lmao, like she had a choice in the first place.
It's 2019... Believe it or not, women have choices.
Katie, my father passed away two years ago when I was 17. This is the most perfect thing I could have seen today. We will always hurt, but we have so much love for the world and everyone in it.
I post about my dad on social media often, and tell stories about him every day. The world thinks that means I will never "get over it", but it's my way of keeping him alive. Thank you for having the strength and courage to post this. You're a wonderful writer and such an inspiration.
@108482462644085702117 Kara, I'm so glad this resonated with you. It's always good to know you're not the only one fighting a battle. I definitely understand sharing stories about your Dad to keep him alive, I do it often. Thank you for having the strength and courage to keep your father's memory alive, shining a light on the darkness of grief, and supporting this message. One day I hope 'Daddy Issues" will be used as a compliment. Until then, the phrase will always hold a message of fortitude and perseverance for me. Thank You!
i tell stories about my girlfriend all the time like it was yesterday, she killed herself a year ago, it kind of makes you feel like they're still with you
My father passed I'm 14 he passed May 28th. My mom's anniversary of her death was yesterday too she passed when I was 13
"let me just say
I'd rather be a daddies girl than your girl anyday"
GIRLL I LIVE FOR THAT LINE
Me too ;)
This was spoken so well that I had to rewatch it multiple times.
Katie,
We have never met, nor have I had the pleasure of meeting your father. However, he must have been an incredible man to instill such wisdom and grace beyond most. It came through in your words, your stature, but most importantly in your eyes. You have been gifted by both of your Fathers in Heaven. I have never posted to things online, however, this moved me beyond just viewing.
Pamela Reichard Thank you for your kind words, it is so encouraging to hear that this moved you as much as it moved me. Thank you.
Beautiful. As the dad of a girl with the best part of my heart...you are a beacon.
This young girl has good insight and offers the rest of us a shining example of someone who has, through introspection and with courage, discovered a way to get through obstacles and reach the other side relatively intact.
" To make the individual uncomfortable, that is my task. "
- Nietzsche
Katie, I lost my father before I knew what love was and before I could crawl! But he new he was sick and he knew he was leaving and it killed him! But I was his little doll! The day I was born my mother told me That was the happiest day of my life! He was in his 40s! He still watches over me everyday! I went to my first funeral before I could walk. I was brought to the casket by my brother I just looked I couldn't even talk! So I just looked and grabbed at my dad as any 1 year old would! Little did I know that day would be they last time that I could!
It had nice rhythm. The last line said it all.
Katie, I've never been close with my real dad mostly bc he's never been there for me. I had my grandfather. My grandfather was my best friend. He ended up passing when I was only 5. I still cry when I think about him today. I've always heard the term "daddy issues" and I've never understood nor took it in that my real dad and I, our relationship means that I have so called "daddy issues". Thank u for speaking out I will never say that u have daddy issues because my father has passed. My grandfather will forever be my father by heart. Thank u Katie.
Every time I have watched this, I just love it even more, love that it has a Christian stand point❤️ such a strong and powerful message!
I wish I could speak of my earthly dad this way. I grew up with a dad who was dead. Alive and walking and present, but careless, abusive, and heartless. So for many years I had daddy issues until I met my Father who is in heaven. The one who loves, forgives and cares. Who taught me to do the same. I chose to forgive and to love my earthly dad and that's when my chains came off. Thank you Lord for being my father
My dad died 11 months ago , and this brought me to tears because of how deep it hit. When he died I felt like a piece of me died with him and that I can no longer make him proud , but I know now that just because he's not physically here doesn't mean he's not here with me. I know that I am making him proud no matter what I do because my dad always saw the good in me even when I had lost my way , and this video really made me realize that no matter what I will always have the memories to keep him with me.
She is so powerful God and Jesus is looking over and protecting her. She is kind caring loved. Don't give up
Wow that's amazing that some boy would judge you by your dads passing. It's clear that your an amazing strong person who knows right from wrong.
Gave me chills !!!!!! Beautiful words !!!!
That was well said. Daddy issues are looked upon as hindrances to healthy and loving relationships. But what can I girl or guy if there father died or left at a really young age. Sometimes when another father figure such as a step father comes into life, he still doesn't quite fill the "void". He doesn't treat you right. What's there to do? Just accept and acknowledge the fact.
At 14.. all I knew in my world left this earth. Forever my Guardian Angel my Daddy. 8-29-10💔
i lost my father at 14 as well Love you Daddy 21-11-16
jdaee two days before my 14th 4.5.16 we're all gonna make it through though xx
I can just feel the strength and resilience in this thread. If you ever want to talk to someone who's been there, or if there's ever anything I can do for you, email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com
Me and my Dad aren’t that close. And he isn’t the best but I still love him. I love him for the happy moments we have. And even if he hurt me sometimes and he isn’t the best I still love him
Katie, my dad passed away when I was eleven years old. Whenever "daddy issues" was a term used for me, I always abandoned it because I thought it meant only for a father that did nothing for their child, which was definitely not mine. What I'm trying to say is, hearing your words made today a little easier. thank you. 💘
I'm happy I could make today easier for you. Kind words like yours make every day easier for me. And if in the future there is anything else I can do to make your day easier, don't hesitate to reach out! Thank you.
Daddy issues is a girl that has attention problems and often projects them on the men she meets. In other words, she's clingy. Of course, your father could have done everything for you and you can still be clingy, but that's not the point. If you're clingy, you need to look at your behaviour.
Jonathan (I'm just going to copy and paste this as a reply to every comment you make),
At first I really wanted to say, "This video isn't for you." But after further thought I changed my mind. This video is for you.
It hurts me that you still have that same perception after watching it. I made it for people with thoughts like that to open their mind and show them the other side of the situation.
But it's clear you must have covered your ears. The term "Daddy Issues" isn't an adjective to describe people by. Just because I lost my Dad doesn't mean I'm clingy or there is something inherently wrong with me.
I think you'd be surprised at just how strong, resilient, and independent I am, because I CHOSE to be. Which is just one of the many options I had/have.
My father died in my arms. I held him as he took his last breath. If by that alone, you automatically categorize me as "un-dateable" or "unwanted" then I am sorry.
I'm sorry you are so incredibly intimidated by strength.
I sincerely hope, you find someone meek and weak enough to not damage your ego.
If I lost my dad I wouldn't know what to do. For all the people who lost there Dads I'm so sorry. This really won't do anything but just know you have support.
wow! i clicked on this instantly as i saw the title. my father walked out on us (me, my twin sister, and my mom) when i was only two months old. my boyfriend broke up with me and told everyone i had daddy issues. i know that our situations are very different but it made me look at that term in a different light. i talk about my father walking out because i don't want it to happen to anyone else. its not that im depressed about it, I take it as a strength. thank you so much for this.
You are very welcome. I can feel the strength in your words.
I lost my dad when I️ was 18. My boyfriend at the time was a piece of crap to me about the whole thing. Im 22 now and I️ am with the man of my dreams who even years after my dads passing honors him, even though he has never met my father.
I️ found this video today and I’ve had it on repeat for an hour. I️ really needed this today, thank you.
I'm so glad this video could speak to you, Brittany. And I love hearing about your happy ending. If you ever want to talk about the loss of your Dad with someone who's been there or if there's ever anything I can do for you email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com ... Hope you have a great day!
As someone who lost their dad as a girl, I can't thank you enough for saying this and using such a platform. THANK you! ❤️ I think about this term "daddy issues" all the time. You spoke everything I was thinking.
You are so very welcome. Hope you have a fantastic week!
Daddy Issue Poem by Katie
I was talking to this guy and out of nowhere we hit a dead end,
I was really confused and then I heard him talking to his friend,
He said I like her a lot,
she seems really cool,
just one problem though,
I don't date girls with daddy issues.
I have issues?!
He made it sound like I had done something obscene,
just because my dad died when I was 19, he labeled me daddy issues like he knew, but we never spoke of it,
he didn't have a clue.
I tried to look it up,
to figure out just what it means.
The Internet said,
that a girl with daddy issues is basically a cling.
A girl with a bad relationship with her father.
Who seeks attention and makes relationships harder.
I thought that was a poor categorization to go by.
How can you judge all deserts,
by one piece of pie.
So first off,
I can't help but laugh when you classify me as a cling.
You see I lost the most important man in my life,
I'll be just fine if you leave.
Life's too short to be holding on to something that's walking away.
If you don't want to be here,
I won't be begging you to stay.
But to call me coldhearted and distant,
is to have me wrongly branded.
Because after that loss,
I no longer take anyone's presents for granted.
But maybe you're right,
I made a mistake,
you don't want to date me,
I've got too much on my plate.
Too much strength,
too much love,
faith,
courage,
you name it,
and all of the above.
Because where there is great grief,
there is also great love.
Now I have two fathers in heaven, watching me from above.
Both who have loved me unconditionally since day one.
So I don't need you to fill in an empty space.
I'm not half full,
I'm over flowing with Grace.
There's this thing that people used to tell me,
to help me remember my place.
They would say,
not my monkeys,
not my circus.
They're right,
it's not my fight.
Not my purpose.
But I won't bite my tongue,
you don't deserve it.
See,
I wasn't given daddy issues,
I earned it.
I make a choice every single day to keep him alive.
I'm sorry if that makes you uncomfortable but he's never someone I'm going to hide. You see,
someone once told me,
those that love beyond the earth never really die,
but he did.
And when he did,
I made a promise.
A promise to remember him in smiles and never in tears.
Because the day that he died,
so did all of my fears.
I made a vow that day that his passing would never be an excuse.
So let me just add to that,
it will also never be an issue.
So with the girl with Daddy issues,
let me just say,
that I'd rather be a daddy's girl than your girl-any day.
I just lost my dad at 20, thank you for sharing this
"I lost the most important man in my life, I'll be just fine if you leave", that was amazing
I'm so sorry to hear that. My email is thekatiecronin@gmail.com, if you ever want someone to talk to about it that's been there.
thank you for this.. i lost my father at age 5 and this is a phrase i have been belittled with since a teenager.. so well spoken and made me cry. you put it into words.
You're welcome!! Sorry to hear about your father, if you ever want to talk about it with someone who's been there or if there's ever anything I can do for you email me anytime at thekatiecronin@gmail.com
I feel your pain, what a powerful poem
My dad left when I was 10 this is so beautiful, thank you for making this
Thank you for watching it
hi this is kinda late on commenting but my dad passed when i was 13 months old and to hear that makes me feel that i’m not the only one , you are a huge role model to me and i really like you videos. all my friends feel bad for me because i don’t have a dad. they refuse to talk about it when i’m around but your words are amazing, thank you
I'm so glad my words made a difference to you. Your words just made my day and reminded me why I do what I do. Stay strong, sending lots of love your way. If there's ever anything I can do for you, or if you just want someone to talk to - don't hesitate to reach out! thekatiecronin@gmail.com
Katie, thank you for speaking out against male assumptions about our lives because we aren't from a common two parent household. You are an inspiration. Shutting down the lies and rumors and reminding the world that a women's success should never fall under a "con" category no matter what the story may say.
It's all about fighting the good fight Halie! I'm proud to have you in my corner. :)
@hHaile Victoria - Male assumptions about your lives are generally accurate, just because there are a few stories that don't obey the norm don't make them any less true. This is not about "women's success", this has to do with women not understanding the concept of boundaries i.e being clingy. Interesting that you attempt to frame women failing to understand the concept of personal boundaries as an attack on women's success. In fact, female entitlement could be seen as recently as Kesha - Jerry Seinfeld incident where Jerry refused to hug someone he didn't know. People immediately framed it as male arrogance for refusing to hug a successful female artist when in fact Kesha was infringing on Seinfeld's personal space. 'Daddy issues' is only a compliment to anyone who thinks female violation of personal space is something to be proud of.
"Life's too short to be holding on to something walking away" - I forgot how much in love I was with spoken word til four hours later, it's 4 in the morning & im falling in love all over again with spoken word.
Very well said baby girl, you're amazing!! I love you 💖
People label but they don't know about how it feels. Have them stand at their own father's funeral or watch as he leaves out the door and know he's not coming back, but not be able to do anything but stand there and cry. Let me tell you it's not easy for the people who go through this everyday. These people shouldn't be labled or be just another statistic for something that is not their fault. Maybe it's not my business but i'd rather say something than sit around and do nothing. Not all people labled with "daddy issues", are the same. After all we're all unique people who respond to the same circumstances differently.
Solid piece. 💪
Thank you!
I am not half full, I am overflowing with grace 👍
This is everything I needed to hear by father passed January 1 2018
So sorry to hear about your father's passing, Evia! I'm glad my words could help a little. If you ever want to talk to someone who's been there or just need someone to listen email me anytime: thekatiecronin@gmail.com
My father was never around and died when I was sixteen. But it is amazing to see through your words the deep connection you two shared. He meant a lot to you and no one should label you with "Daddy Issues" because of it. This video shows your love and strength. Don't let anyone bring you down. Wonderful :)
Good job Sweetheart!! Such a firecracker!! Inspirational!
Thank you!!
"Because where there is great grief, their is great love."
Lost my dad and my world when I was 17, I'm 19 now. Never heard something I could relate to so much. Thanks for the inspiring strength!
You are so very welcome. I can feel the strength and perseverance in your words. Sorry to hear about your Dad, if you ever want to talk about it with someone who's been there or if there's ever anything I can do for you email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com
I have no words for how perfect this is.
That's so sweet of you to say! Thank you!!
inspiration over flow💕✨
Wow.. I'm not a really a Cristian (or Catholic) but that part about God gave me chills..
*Christian
Very powerful and well done. Please keep writing!
Thank you, Belinda. I'll keep writing if you keep listening, deal?
so many people need this reminder and you spoke it just right. we need more people like you in this world!!
Thanks Dani -- I'm really glad we have people like YOU in the world. :)
My dad left me when I was very little so I was never really taught what a real 'man' was so I've been let down many times, but every time this makes me feel better. Thank you for this
You are welcome. I'm glad this video could help. I can feel the resilience in your words. I know you'll stand taller every time you're knocked down. If there's ever anything I can do to help you email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com
This was so well spoken and I know she feels about her dad dying mine died when I was 11
My favorite video!!♥️🌸😇🙏
#Loveyoukatie♥️
Thank you, that's so sweet. Love you more.
i relate to this so heavily. beautifully said.
This is amazing. I lost my dad when i was 1....i am almost 13. its hard!!!! but hearing those words of yours are truly inspiring
Thank you! Sorry to hear about your Dad, if you ever want to talk about it with someone who's been there or if there's ever anything I can do for you email me anytime thekatiecronin@gmail.com
as long" as your strong" w/IN ur own" RIGHT!!!
Well done. And a total eye opener. Thanks.
Thank you!
Loved it !
BRAVO!
I love this poem 💗
Fearless, this was amazing
I relate to this so much.
This is beautiful
This is amazing I've watched over and over it's so inspirational
My dad just Ignores me, now matter how much I try to make everything right and he just shits on it. my parents divorced when I was 7, I was a daddys girl but now I'm just a girl with Daddy issues in my friends eyes
Very powerful. Please don't stop uploading. Thank you
Wow. I love this 💜
your amazing
I think that's one of the best videos that I've ever seen. Cheers.
Wow. What a compliment! Thank you!
wow... this is amazing... I don't have a dad... I was called "daddy issues " by my friend last week, and then I realized, "daddy issues? How do you know I don't have a dad? you know nothing about me." that 'friend' I had, is gone. I would rather him be gone then him staying, because I'm not friends with someone that can't accept my 'daddy issues'
I love this poem ❤
This is a beautiful piece.. Thank you for presenting it.. very strong.. elegant.. hard.yet soft.... I really enjoyed it and found aspects relatable..keep creating!!
Thank you, I've got more videos coming soon, can't wait to share!
"I wasn't given Daddy issues, I earned it"
wow! you are truly an inspiration I love you girl💜 u are great and amazing you go girl
Thank you!!
I really loved your poem, Katie. I wrote a spoken word poem to my Dad, and it has helped a lot. I am very glad to have a loving and caring father, yet only recently have I realized I have abandonment "daddy" issues. My Dad hasn't passed away. He hurt me many years ago and he has often let me down. I have been internalizing that anger, and it resolved in a lot of pain. I am living abroad and I have met a guy I like, but he's only here for four months. We've only hung out a few times, but I am experiencing the same emotions and acting the same way I did when I was (and still am) working through those issues. I am glad that my Dad and I are on speaking terms now, but it's difficult for me to communicate to this guy what I want or even see if it's worth it, because I'm scared of being hurt. I felt like your poem emanated strength and vulnerability at the same time, and I really like that. All the best
Thank you, Rosalind! Just like you said -- I've learned that true strength comes from a soft heart.
Very well-written piece! I like it! I think it's awesome that you're holding onto the happy memories that you and your father shared. That guy who said you have "Daddy Issues" is definitely not the right guy for you and I'm glad you have not let his negative words affect you. Thanks for sharing Katie! :)
Thanks for watching!
i love this, this moved me so much
So glad to hear that. Means a lot. Sending love your way!
Wow, this gets me.. My mom passed away three years ago, and there are boys who Don't want me Because of that. Because They don't know How to deal with that. Because they think I'm crying all day long Because my mom is dead. I'm not. I'm living for her, thankfull for every day that I get. Knowing that in a 50 years, I'll see her again, and she'll be so proud of me. Fuck those boys who think They know you or How you handle loss. They don't.
DAMNNNN , THIS IS SO AMAZING!💙💙💙
You are so beautiful.I respect you a lot. I'm speechless..
Same, girl. Same.
I just found this... so inspiring and beautiful. I want to do this with my life
Wow, thank you. Let me know if there's ever any way I can help you do that, I know you'll be great!
Wow! You rock it! 🙏
I really enjoyed that xx
God bless you! This is beautiful..
Thank you, love!
Thank you so much for this.
You are so welcome :)
your awsome
Omg that was amazing so relatable my dad left when I was 9
This hit me , thank you ! Such a powerful speaker ❤️ Stay blessed , much love X
P.s Had to subscribe
Thank you!
Well spoken👌
This was amazing wow :)
Amen 🙏🏻 keep it up
Respect to you :') my endless respect
And to you. Thank you!
do more like this I love it
This is reallyy good
I'm the 100th comment!! Yay!! You're amazing!! Love this video!! ❤❤
wow this is amazing,you are amazing
Thank you. That means a lot.
My dad died when I was only 4 months old I get bullied for not having a dad and I get known as that one girl with the daddy issues
I'm sorry to hear that. Know that you will always be more than any label or phrase anyone can place on you. Especially 'Daddy Issues'. If there's anything I can ever do for you, don't hesitate to reach out!
awesome
like if you agree! a "father and son relationship" is the best relationship in the world
Hi! This is one of my favorite videos and i just wanted to say I am really truly sorry. My dad almost died once and it was the worse things to happen to me. To be labelled like that is terrible, am i would be dead inside if my dad really did die. So i would like to say this:
I am a daddy's girl. And i am proud of it. If someone had something bad to say of it, you may as well be talking to a wall because i wont listen.
Be proud of it! Yes! Happy to hear it.
her hand motions are fucking funny
this is beautiful & can i also ask the background music? it's SO familiar but i just can't place it!