How to Act ALPHA (according to instagram)
Вставка
- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Thanks to Perplexity for sponsoring this video! Uber One members can head to perplexity.yt.... to redeem one free year of Perplexity Pro through October 31st, 2024. Not an Uber One member? Sign up now to get in on this deal and all the perks that come with it!
Thank you for watching!
my ig: / itsraylikesunshine
Actually, fun fact: there's no "alpha" or beta in a pack of wolves. Its just the father and mother in the front followed by the kids at the back. When the kids become older they find their own packs.
Wait then who’s the alpha in the pack that they go find. Whos IN the pack that they go find?
I like fact that fun
@@CharnHorpeewhat
@@Mafuyuassahina if there is no alpha and the leader is the parents until the kids leave to ‘find their own pack,’ who’s the parents in the new pack?
Do they have kid wolf meet-ups like “looking for pack” ?
@CharnHorpee young adult wolves will strike out on their own and look for mates. Sometimes the new pack starts out with just the new mates pair and their cubs. Other times a young adult wolf will be accepted into a different pack that already has a few members.
12:30 no licking the spoon?? allow some joy into your life, i beg
the way you worded this is adorable XD i hope you have a ton of joy in your life!!
I can’t imagine how exhausting it must be to care about every single movement…
It is, actually! I did flamenco as a child, and you gotta have a lot of control over your movements for it to look elegant and strong. And you might be thinking that's not the same, and you'd be right. Except! I have pretty bad social anxiety (and a pretty... Unconventional grandma obsessed with me being more lady-like, which is funny bc I literally lived in a forest) and for a while I really thought other kids would judge me by how sloppy my movements were, if I laughed, or crouched the wrong way, if I did the wrong hand gesture, if I didn't seem relaxed and cool enough while making mundane tasks, etc. So I'd just try to emulate the same "elegance" I had to portray in flamenco while doing everyday stuff. With time it just kinda became second nature, funny part it's I also was a tomboy with an obsession for wild and "savage" characters in media. So I just ended up being a weird combination of like a wild kid trying to deny their nature, lmao.
The thing is, it stuck and nowadays I'm still often told that I move like I was "dancing" sometimes, and don't get me wrong, I take it as a compliment. But it sometimes reminds me that I use to force myself into it for social acceptance and I find it kinda sad. Nowadays I'm still obsessed with some movements and the softness of them or my facial features (since I feel like my expressions are so rough, unladylike and generally ugly) and I can't sleep freely while staying at friend's houses bc I'm deathly scared of moving wrong in my sleep or putting up an ugly face and I find myself being extremely conscious of some movements I make because I know they don't "flatter me."
It's still a bit tiring but I kinda remember young me thought of it as a game and a way to improve my social status, lmao
Edit: not me info dumping a random stranger, I'm so sorry lol
It also screams insecure and doesn't the give image these guys are hoping for.
@@fawnieee can confirm
this also applies to autistic folks with social anxiety and yes, it is absolutely exhausting.
@@bonbons71 imagine that some people actually have issues that make interactions hard for them, given to them at birth. Then there's these guys who just take it for themselves 😮😮😮 OMG
These 'beta' version of actions they show are like those old infomercials where they make the most mundane thing look impossible. I have never seen anyone, man or woman, try to pull a chair out like that, nor lean over a bottle to open it...
“Make this cup *serve* you.”
Ma’am, that is an inanimate object. It cannot and will not serve you
Chip from Beauty and the Beast has entered the chat
@@triciad4100 chip is the only exception
The patriarchy robs you even of the act of opening a bottle
They believe women should do that for them
Dude looks like a physiotherapist giving safe movement guidance for someone who had spine surgery and has to be careful not to cause damage while healing
This is crazy specific 😂
Funny man talks about Alphas for 16 minutes
Exactly 16 too omg wow that should be an award in itself 😂
max verstappen fan boy
8 mins if you put it to 2x speed lol
@@somkeshav4143 Actually 🤓🤣
@@tomatoneenja I don't watch any of it, but knowing he's out there earning glory for the fatherland makes me happy.
4:35 Don't turn your head like a meerkat because it's a prey type movement? SIR. Although they are considered a prey animal in some cases, Meerkats literally eat scorpions for breakfast and fight venomous snakes. Given that you have such limited head movement, I doubt you'd be able to notice a scorpion or a snake before they stung/bit you. Sooo, I mean, who is really the 'prey' in this situation? The one who dies or the one who survives? 🤷♀️
Consider it natural selection at its best, they eliminate themselves from the gene pool. Win, win.
Was about to say this. They also form large groups that will violently fight other groups. Meerkats are no joke
@@turkeykorvid even Timba had an actual meerkat's personality in the lion king
meerkats are actually badass animals i would not fuck with them 😂
I'm Ukrainian (lol) and unfortunately I have to agree there is a separate generation of women who think they need to be hyper feminine, and expect men to be hyper-masculine as well.
But imo millennials and younger do stay away from this much more, especially because of the western influence (in a positive way) that women can be comfortable even when they are not hyper feminine.
The first second I heard her accent I immediately know this "type" of slavic influencers (mainly I think it's Russia, Ukraine and Belarus), thinking holidays at Dubai, riding extremely expensive cars and having rich husband is the ideal life for any woman of her tier XD (P.S. I know this borders a stereotype but I've had multiple girls at my uni thinking same way, and their mothers being very supportive, thinking any westerner is mega rich by default)
It's still a specific type of women here but true, I forget how off putting they are to other cultures lol
and also how East Slavic men love to complain about these women. They are not praised like the "trad wife" Western meme, but are considered annoying
@@scorpieeeee well, by the trad standards they are also not fully there (I think?). They are hyper feminine but only as an image lol.
thinking doing chores is an insult (and never discussing it), never wanting a job (at least a paying one), but wanting monthly or weekly "allowance", spending a ton of money on salons, cosmetics and clothing and thinking partnership is an exchange of goods basically, man = money/house + woman = pretty body/bed.
It's what called "sugar baby" i think in the west, and theres a whole another discussion if sugar babies are trad or not XD
As a russian, I agree so much! I am afab, and it's so frustrating how much expectations are put on women and girls since very childhood.
The whole "get a husband and kids" or "be more feminine" mentality is so widespread and annoying, that I literally will start crawling the damn walls if I hear such comment one more time. Especially from my own family members who know that it rubs on me the wrong way.
Stereotypes sucks.
Although, there's nothing wrong with people who want to live that way and yadayada, their lifes - their deals, I guess. But when they start "teaching", "guiding" and "giving advices" to other people, trying to force their lifestyle and opinions on them while also calling them names or whatever, it's just.. ☠️
Anyway, have a nice day!
@@Yuuteimiya Sugar baby or much rather "trophy wife" that you can hold like a pretty jewel and dress up in fancy/expensive stuff only to show her off like a top tier supercar or luxurious mansion
@@iwoo255 oh yeah....
I'm soon to be 25 (cis female) and I already get so many comments how "my clock is ticking" and get offended when i ask to stop since they think it's "caring"....
Stereotypes do suck, and I wish you the most strength in your life fighting them,
have a nice day too!
You're supposed to hold a champagne flute or wine glass by the stem so you don't warm up the drink with your hand/body heat. But at the end of the day, it's not that big of a deal.
It used to be a much bigger deal when we didn't have good/reliable refrigeration. Nowadays, we have stemless glasses, haha.
But yeah. People should hold their glass however they please.
Also, you’re supposed to keep elbows close to your body for elegant eating, it’s one of basic rules.
So I guess she doesn’t really now what she is doing lol
I should start drinking my iced coffee like that
As an alpha i watched the entire video doing a handstand whilst making a podcast
Oh yeah? I'm a sigma, and I watched it during my therapy session. APPARENTLY I have social anxiety
@@13DeadEyeRonin38 OH YEAH WELL I READ YOUR COMMENT WHILE DOMINATING MY COFFEE CUP
I dunno, I think you should get your T level checked anyway
but did you make the video serve you
@@sharkiestarzz y-yes
Not so alpha to be accepting sweets from your girlfriend when you could just..refuse???
It is hilarious, watching Alpha
content because the main quality is supposed to be confidence, and these people are so obviously full of insecurity, they are bursting at the seams.
i never was this early omg
this chair tip was acctually pretty cool. As a person who always overthinks how I should sit down it can really help me (i'm 5'1 tall 19 yo small woman with social anxiety)
I'm a middle aged woman with back pain, so I just sit like Riker.
Yeah social anxiety sucks. It makes you analyze every movement, it’s exhausting.
Funny enough with the hyper fixation on certain social norms, behaviour and evaluation patterns they could do some interesting research if they didn't think science was for nerds.
Instead we get Alpha bs free content for years to come. I like clowns, so I don't mind.
That's what my husband does! He has been published in the journal of Men & Masculinity, which focuses this stuff. His PhD is in Social Psychology. He's very physically masculine and confident, which makes it fun when he starts dissecting these tropes.
There are SOME things I do agree you should do a particular way. I'm sure most women all know the 'correct' way to pick something off the ground when you're wearing a dress or skirt so you don't flash the entire world. I don't do that to assert dominance or try to make people think I'm confident, I do it so no one sees my undies.
Things like that have a practical reason behind it, when the stuff in this video just makes things more complicated and less practical. Like if I see a man sitting in the middle of a bench with his legs apart, I think 'wow that's a rude person. Now no one else can sit there because they are taking up all the space. Kinda selfish...' I don't think, 'wow look at that confidence!!! He is truly making the bench serve him. That's a REAL man right there!!' 🤷
"A-steroid Mike". 🏆
Hemoroid Mike
People like that who say it's desirable for 'women to have a great sense of humor' don't mean the women should be funny, they mean the woman should laugh at all the men's terrible jokes.
She go alpha on my wolf till I howl 🐺🐺🐺
Those plants are looking good 👍
But if that's really your lawn, don't feel bad. Lawns are a waste of water
1:49 When YOU take testosteone, it helps you, but when I do it, i'm mentally ill?? 💀👾
Just tell through govt it's for gains 😂
Is it just me or do these kinds of dudes just never really look happy?
I don't respect alpha men because they have to be taught how to open a bottle XD my female middle school ass thought that shit up on my own, I'm the REAL alpha XD
Upon further analysis: these men are so fucking insecure XD like, the way they have to preform EVERY task in a hyperspecific way to maintain the illusion of 'strong' 'masculine' 'alert' or 'in control' just reflects how concerned these men are to be perceived in these ways XD you said it yourself, these are attention seeking behaviors XD
Damn, they all got that 15yo girl insecurity still XD not very demure, not very alpha of you LMAOOOOO
Oh wait, the gal is right about one thing, don't hold your glasses by the bowl, hold them by the stem. Your body heat will warm up your drink. But that's not really alpha behavior.....a bar tender probably told her that.
Why do these people act like if you aren't an alpha literally every moment of existence you aren't one.
THE KING POSTED GUYS‼️‼️
HOW DARE UA-cam HIDE THIS FROM ME FOR 31 MINUTES 😭😭😭
0:32 you got it right at "self proclaimed"❤❤
IM CRYINGGG FOUL
THE SHADDEEEEEEE
LMAOOOOO
Ohmygodddddss🙊
poor cat being called out like that :D.
14:25 pls not the mordor with "СОЮЗ" sound im dying. Аnd also live there and you right...
Yeeeaaaah... In Russia we even had this man, who was very famous and literally making millions for his "original" courses on how to act on public and make things SERVE YOU.
Well... Now we know him as a PDF-file...
Because that's who these alpha male coaches' main audience is and most of them know this
The Mordor edit 😂
I've spent hundreds of hours with Slavic coworkers and friends and confirm all of these phenomenons, even posture training and not licking the spoon, are 100% true. It blows me away as an American.
@@leenygal9856 I felt like the woman alfa had Slavic accent and thought oh that checks out
Hahaha, in russian-speaking parts of mordornet this "kinetic behavioral" was quite popular sime month ago.
One coach was spilling water on himself and saying "it's not my problem, but yours, since you react to it and shirts"..... Funny nonsense 😂
'Don't grab and twist the protein shake' says man in way too tight shirt walking down a clearly affluent suburb while holding what appears to be an Arizona Ice Tea. ALPHA!
do i immediately get kicked out of the alpha women club if i still run into my couch that has that place for more than a year? or could i still be one if no one sees it?
Spinal damage core, so alpha!
I never knew, until this video was posted, that I suffer from bottle-opening-anxiety.
Yes i want to be alpha.
6:46 he literally is telling men to menspread.
Your humor is now German approved ( im not legally allowed to make such a statement in the name of all Germans but my self ) xD
As a German I agree
As a Ukrainian I appreciate a shoutout of my country, that is very true unfortunately, appearance is everything here
Imagine being this self-conscious, looks exhausting
The way he talks about how essential confidence is, but then desperately asks the audience “how does it look???” at the end of each video is the greatest self-own.
0:58 Are we sure that's protein shake? It looks like bacterial growth medium
extra points from me for “Mordor”
+++++
You know it's a good day when Ray gives us a lil sunshine!
I am the Alpha King who always stands. 😎👹😈
I have never seen someone pull a chair the way he showed us was wrong 😂
These people are giving my social anxiety imposter syndrome.
4:04 end of sponser for those who wanna skip
Wow, worrying about how you drink a latte or any drink for that matter is so unecessary.
Art the clown cameo?! Didn't see that coming lpl
NEW RAYLIKESUNSHINE VIDEO OUT 🔥🔥🔥 EVERYONE CALM DOWN
These Alpha thoughts might be a recovering session for someone who's been pulled off by pants in the past.
Are we gonna turn blind eye to Ray military pressing a small adult over his head.
they're not serving so they need inanimate objects to serve them
Make a video on how to act like a Theta (aspiring Theta here)
“haha virgin” DAMN
I don't know, the lady was actually really more giving etiquette tips, little things like where you put the spoon you stirred coffee with, stuff like that can be a real faux pas in some company.
Nothing screams "alpha" quite like practicing sitting down a hundred times before going into public
I actually spent a lot of time as a teen and young woman studying etiquitte and looking over material from finishing school/elegance school as well as working on my posture, etc. i also had a lot of dance and martial arts training as well. I enjoyed learning how to move in more graceful, deliberate ways. It can be fun and harmless if that makes you happy.
Yayy, another sunshine video
The funniest irony of this alpha stuff is that it's all about the fear of others' judgements. So the answer is to live your life performing stereotypically masculine actions. It's funny. I was out cycling today and passed one guy who was walking like a gunslinger in a black and white cowboy movie. He just looked like he had a stick up his ass.
Your cat is exactly like my cat panda but fluffier :->
Unironically saying alpha turns u beta and podcasts?? not even gonna go towards that area 😭 also yyayay so early here jkdjsakdj
the girl on a date impression was so spot on, i looked exactly like that before the impression even went on
being so afraid of being judged by others is the least alpha thing you can do basically
never been this early
The wrong way and right way to slide into a booth are the exact same thing, great tip my guy
I recently broke two vertebrae and now I move like that 😬
Seeing alpha in all caps made me think it was an acronym
Thank you, Ray. I am now alpha.🐺
opinion on danny ric leaving f1?
ray do you miss daniel ricciardo
8:56 LOLS legit laughed at that.
time to be an alpha guys
Im a gay 5 foot 6 socialist
I deadlift 323 lbs for 5 reps and have an 8 inch viking beard
I guess most straight conservative men are just betas 🤷♂️
as a Ukrainian, double like for mordor comment lol, but also great video!
Under a minute gang
RAY LIKE PEESHINE POSTED YAY!!!1!1!1!1! this is a good video even though ive only just started it :3
friendly ableism reminder for those who don't know (This isn't a rude comment just information) the term Cripple is a slur for physically disabled people
8:09 ew ew ew ewwee I have the same water bottle as him. NOOOOOO!!!
Also, Owala's have a straw inside them... That's like the girliest thing to drink from lol. I wonder how he drinks it off camera inside his home 😗🤭
I just came from a smash or pass video for bloodborne bosses (don’t judge me). I’m still in that mentality when the video started and all I can think when he’s correcting every little movement is pass, Pass, PASS! Ugh he’s so insecure 😟
I watched all of your videos. MAKE MORE!!! pleaseee you're an awesome person with a
great editing style
If I ever see these guys filming I'm just gonna walk and interrupt them while filming asking them how to be alpha 😂 just to fuck with them.
For He is The Alpha and The Omega; The First and The Last.. The Beginning and The End. Our Lord who is Most High and Glorified, came down to Earth as the incarnate Son of God to serve humanity... and to save us all through His love, grace and sacrifice... so that through the punishment that He took for us, we are redeemed in His name.
"Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves."
- Matthew 10:16
LMAO I saw the "how to drink your wine" lesson in a freaking webtoon just a few days ago, how many bets this chick got it from a similar source? She's saying, "Hold the glass by the stem and not by the cup, because otherwise your hands will warm the drink."
perplexity sounds like worse google.
its probably just searching google anyway
Honestly that last one was fair enough. Be happy. stay well groomed. Have a laugh. Sure its good for the people you want to attract, but its also good for you.
Do you like Jazz?
Me, a Jazz musician "thank you"
Why would I want my husband to love me the same way he did at the beginning of the relationship? That would be a huge downgrade.
Plus I am nearing 50 - I think he has noticed I look different than when we were teens! He still can't keep his hands off me, though. 😏
I'm from India and one of your other video about this alpha man topic got a reaction from my favourite Indian youtuber shwetabh gangwar but his video is in hindi so you probably won't be able to understand the video but I was so happy and wanted to share this with you😅also if you just want to check out his video or is on his other channel gangstas perspective
The guy looks like me after a back surgery when i could not fkn bend and was moving clunky
"This is how I open the door like a chad" 2024-Alpha quotes
tbh i think dude just hit a blinker. bc sometimes when i do it i get really scared and think about every single movement i’m making. my friend says i got eggs iety but i just call it blinky jinkies
Sure, there's nothing more manly than caring about what other people think about the way of every simple things that you do, while the beta is someone who just do whatever they like without care in the world, we surely don't want to be the beta
Not the point but the other day the mini crossword had as a clue “beam of sunshine” and I yelled RAY, I’m officially brainwashed
Woah
This man knows how to
Squeeze men till they pop
Squeeze them till they drop