Thank you for making and uploading all of these videos, I know it takes a lot of time. I just started on my journey and identify very similarly to what you've described. It's so hard for me to find resources on this topic that I relate to, so I'm on my way to binging a TON of your videos! Thank you thank you thank you.
Hi, I'm a gendefluid person, I think. I really struggling with my gender and have been for months now. I fricking hate gender roles, that's why I probably started wondering about my gender I'm amab but as I said before I thinks I'm either or genderfluid or non binary, I would really want breasts though, but I'm to scared to ask anyone for help an ask for therapy, cuz I also struggled with my gender a year ago, then I thought I was fully trans, however that turned out to be untrue, and my parents didn't receive it well. They're okay with begin gay and stuff but this was a bridge to far for them, they said it was only about image or as an accessory. I have kinda repressed it since then. That's why I'm too scared to ask because it feels like I'm doing it for attention which I'm not doing. But I'm also just really uncomfortable with to talk about my gender with other people cuz of the judgement. How did you handle your coming out and stuff like that? Btw love your vids
Sorry for the late response!! In all honesty, there are always going to be people who don’t agree with being trans or non-binary etc, and there’s no way for you to “prove” your gender. For me, I began surrounding myself with people who listened to how I felt and respected my identity, and allowed me to figure things out. I have two moms and one of them is not ok with the trans thing, and me, my brother, and my sister all haven’t spoken to her in years (she’s a whole mess of things lol). The way that I’ve helped myself be more confident is 1) by surrounding myself with people who support me, and also 2) by allowing myself to be however I feel in the moment. It takes time to “rewire” the way your brain thinks/reacts but it really helps! I used to be really afraid to dress “masculine” because I was worried people would just think I’m a boy. Now I’ve been on HRT almost 4 years and I feel more like myself in “masculine” clothes (usually). Once I started seeing me through *my* eyes, it helped lessen the pain from how *other* people may see me improperly. If you want to chat more, feel free to message me on Instagram (@Ded_Lungz). I don’t come on UA-cam all too often so you’ll have better luck reaching me there 😇 wishing you the best of luck 💛
Thank you for making and uploading all of these videos, I know it takes a lot of time. I just started on my journey and identify very similarly to what you've described. It's so hard for me to find resources on this topic that I relate to, so I'm on my way to binging a TON of your videos! Thank you thank you thank you.
Aw you’re welcome! I’m glad my videos help you find yourself 💛
I know very little about the trans spectrum and because of my introversion I know a very few Trans people
So you have been a great help
I’m glad I can help 💛
Hi, I'm a gendefluid person, I think. I really struggling with my gender and have been for months now. I fricking hate gender roles, that's why I probably started wondering about my gender I'm amab but as I said before I thinks I'm either or genderfluid or non binary, I would really want breasts though, but I'm to scared to ask anyone for help an ask for therapy, cuz I also struggled with my gender a year ago, then I thought I was fully trans, however that turned out to be untrue, and my parents didn't receive it well. They're okay with begin gay and stuff but this was a bridge to far for them, they said it was only about image or as an accessory. I have kinda repressed it since then. That's why I'm too scared to ask because it feels like I'm doing it for attention which I'm not doing. But I'm also just really uncomfortable with to talk about my gender with other people cuz of the judgement. How did you handle your coming out and stuff like that?
Btw love your vids
Sorry for the late response!! In all honesty, there are always going to be people who don’t agree with being trans or non-binary etc, and there’s no way for you to “prove” your gender. For me, I began surrounding myself with people who listened to how I felt and respected my identity, and allowed me to figure things out. I have two moms and one of them is not ok with the trans thing, and me, my brother, and my sister all haven’t spoken to her in years (she’s a whole mess of things lol). The way that I’ve helped myself be more confident is 1) by surrounding myself with people who support me, and also 2) by allowing myself to be however I feel in the moment. It takes time to “rewire” the way your brain thinks/reacts but it really helps! I used to be really afraid to dress “masculine” because I was worried people would just think I’m a boy. Now I’ve been on HRT almost 4 years and I feel more like myself in “masculine” clothes (usually). Once I started seeing me through *my* eyes, it helped lessen the pain from how *other* people may see me improperly. If you want to chat more, feel free to message me on Instagram (@Ded_Lungz). I don’t come on UA-cam all too often so you’ll have better luck reaching me there 😇 wishing you the best of luck 💛