I actually worked with a girl and she was like drop dead gorgeous and I really wanted to ask her on a date but I didn’t know how. Now I can see signs that she maybe found me attractive but I don’t even find myself attractive so idk how she would’ve. But she did tease me and she wanted to hang out with me but she would constantly bring up drugs and alcohol and I didnt want any part of that. When I asked her about her future, (because I was pursuing psychology at the time but not construction management) she got mad at me and said she didn’t want to leave her current job. The job was not that great either, but maybe she enjoyed it, idk. But I was just creating conversation not trying to piss her off or anything and I ended up doing it instead. So maybe this was my gut feeling or god’s way of telling me to stay away from her, but to still talk to her. Idk if whoever is reading this is religious or not, but I know god has purpose for my life, but not with her. So when she comes along, hopefully she’s better than the last and better than that former co worker. Also thank you to anyone who read this long essay I wrote.
guys carefully with the girls that look at you, some of them are just curious, once I had an embarrassing experience because of that and I had to change gym hahaha, that girl was looking at me every day for about 8 months and when I finally had the courage to approach her, well... (I got rejected)
None of this has ever happened to me. Women wont date me cause I wont pay their way on a date, I'm direct, and I'm mild mannered..O and I'm only 5'6. As a result i think its better off this way, i dont have much of a choice anyway. I dont hate or dislike women nor do i find myself to be superior over women. I just think I'm just one of those people thats meant to be alone. I'm 48 and been single for a lil over 20 years now. My advice for everyone. Learn to be happy on your own and love yourself first. Never rely on others for happiness. Finding a partner is a bonus in life. Find someone that adds to your happiness.
@@GoldenLeafsMovies that's a myth. People love people who aren't happy with themselves all the time. Say there was a child who was love starved would you tell him he had to lobe himself before anyone else could love him.
@@eta_carithebrightlord3396 I think you're misunderstanding me, what you mention is the other way around. You may love someone who doesn't love themselves, but they can't truly love others unless they start loving themselves.
My biggest problem is I am a really nice guy, so I treat girls very good, whether I had crush on them or not. That niceties made me seemed insensitive to girls that genuinely liked me (they've told me themselves much later), but still that didn't won me the girls I've liked 😁 🤦♂️.
It's funny, I do no 5 to the people I'm not into but I only see them friendly. I basically tease a lot of people. The problem is that they think I'm into them but I'm not! And things get messy...
There is this one girl in my class that really stuck out to me in the past week. One day during my culinary class we were making roux and we were sharing containers to put it in and this girl who I already knew wanted to share with me. I thought how strange it was and thought of it for awhile. Another day at the end of school, I was resting my arm on the table and she passed behind me to talk to the teacher. Next thing I know (I'm still debating to myself if it was intentional to this day,) she kinda sat on my arm I felt it and I'm like "hey, you sat on my arm!" But she didn't respond. Few minutes later I was sitting zoning off like I usually do and she jumps into my line of sight as if she wanted me to see her. I thought of those 2 events the whole bus ride home. This week on Tuesday, I cut my thumb on the little tape ripper on the tape holder box thing and she seemed concerned. Normal right? Then I went to the office to get a bandaid trying to keep my blood in my mouth because it was gushing. And I heard her say my name down the hall and she was rushing towards me. I walked out to say what and we almost ran into eachother. She walked into the office to get ME a bandaid while I was already there about to reach the first aid kit. It seemed she went out of her way to see if I was alright and wanted to take care of me. I said thank you and I think she blushed a little and smiled. We walked out until I almost ran into another person. I jokingly said "man, I'm giving everyone a jumpscare," she smiled again and kind of laughed This was one of the nicest students I've met in all my eight grades and it makes my heart warm up a bit. Today, I fell of my schools 6 foot tall pull up bar and landed on my back. My breath was nearly taken out of me as I couldn't say a word slowly exhaling "ehhhhhh..." in shock. My friend who was beside me and I walked up to the recess supervisor to tell her what'd happened. She told me to get an ice pack. Now my girl classmate immediately said "I'll take him!" I said I was fine and I didn't need one because I hardly felt pain. I showed them my back and they all were shocked at the big red mark on my back. The girl grabbed my arm and said "cmon, you need an ice pack!" I refused since I didn't feel anything yet. She let go and we were headed into the building. Again, I've never seen a class mate go out of their way just to take care of me. I've never seen such an affectionate and caring student ever. I'm shocked and truly think she cares for me and likes me.
@@Irlyolo The truth is if i tell u, u might fall in love with every random man looking for these sign but trust me. You will know when the time has arrived. Whatever you do, don't give yourself a reason to tell another man "you deserve better than me". Nobody is perfect but keep your standards high. Like attracts like.
#1 So great! I love when women don't make things only about them. Like this video... Because they know that there is nothing better in this entire world that a woman find a space in her schedule to have a date... as if men didn't know she will cancel everything for a Chad/Tyrone, a 666 type (u know: 6 feet , 6 inches , 6 figures), or a gangster or any dude with some kind of power over others. I didn't bother to see #2.
Now lady tell me this. Except the one about date and maybr about text, how do you differentiate between someone who is interested and someone who is just being nice or someone who just has a playful nature. It is confusing for me
You can't and if you get it wrong all women who witness it will see you as a predator from them on. High chance of social aggression, very low chance of anything positive happening.
1. That's fair. 2. Could also indicate she wants you to stop looking her way and is making you uncomfortable. 3. Ok. 4. Yeah I can see that. 5. "You're my best guy friend, I hope to find someone like you but not you." that make sense?
She has a really open body language with others but when I am near or we talk she crosses arms and legs and her voice is really inaudible I have to lean to listen
I am checking myself😅
SAMEEEEEEEE
And then you'll be sad when the guy inevitably doesn't catch your 'signs'. Why can't you girls simply be upfront about it?
Same here!
@@siu281its not the girls job bro quit being a wuss
@@siu281Because it’ll appear as if she’s desperate and turn you away.
I actually worked with a girl and she was like drop dead gorgeous and I really wanted to ask her on a date but I didn’t know how. Now I can see signs that she maybe found me attractive but I don’t even find myself attractive so idk how she would’ve. But she did tease me and she wanted to hang out with me but she would constantly bring up drugs and alcohol and I didnt want any part of that. When I asked her about her future, (because I was pursuing psychology at the time but not construction management) she got mad at me and said she didn’t want to leave her current job. The job was not that great either, but maybe she enjoyed it, idk. But I was just creating conversation not trying to piss her off or anything and I ended up doing it instead. So maybe this was my gut feeling or god’s way of telling me to stay away from her, but to still talk to her. Idk if whoever is reading this is religious or not, but I know god has purpose for my life, but not with her. So when she comes along, hopefully she’s better than the last and better than that former co worker. Also thank you to anyone who read this long essay I wrote.
I'm a girl watching it to check myself 😂😂
😂😂
Smart idea.
These tips would have made my early 20s way less confusing 😅 Great info.
Really enjoyed the breakdown of non-verbal cues, especially the part about prolonged eye contact.
Can you do Saturday?
Who are you?
Hmm..I think she likes me
If she says "I'm calling the police", you're in.
All of these are facts. Happy to say that she's now mine.
guys carefully with the girls that look at you, some of them are just curious, once I had an embarrassing experience because of that and I had to change gym hahaha, that girl was looking at me every day for about 8 months and when I finally had the courage to approach her, well... (I got rejected)
*They aren't curious - they are* 🥴🤤
Why would you need to change gym?
Stay, there is nothing wrong in telling someone that you like her, as simple as that.
@@redishdudeNah, sometimes you have to move countries and change identities.
None of this has ever happened to me. Women wont date me cause I wont pay their way on a date, I'm direct, and I'm mild mannered..O and I'm only 5'6. As a result i think its better off this way, i dont have much of a choice anyway. I dont hate or dislike women nor do i find myself to be superior over women. I just think I'm just one of those people thats meant to be alone. I'm 48 and been single for a lil over 20 years now. My advice for everyone. Learn to be happy on your own and love yourself first. Never rely on others for happiness. Finding a partner is a bonus in life. Find someone that adds to your happiness.
I am 19 and i can feel you for real.
My dad always told me, you have to be happy with yourself first, in order to find happiness in others.
@@GoldenLeafsMovies I agree with him 100%. He's a wise man!
@@GoldenLeafsMovies that's a myth. People love people who aren't happy with themselves all the time. Say there was a child who was love starved would you tell him he had to lobe himself before anyone else could love him.
@@eta_carithebrightlord3396 I think you're misunderstanding me, what you mention is the other way around. You may love someone who doesn't love themselves, but they can't truly love others unless they start loving themselves.
You are a blessing to humanity 🎉
My biggest problem is I am a really nice guy, so I treat girls very good, whether I had crush on them or not.
That niceties made me seemed insensitive to girls that genuinely liked me (they've told me themselves much later), but still that didn't won me the girls I've liked 😁 🤦♂️.
It's funny, I do no 5 to the people I'm not into but I only see them friendly. I basically tease a lot of people. The problem is that they think I'm into them but I'm not! And things get messy...
*If you do that, people will eventually figure out that you're* 🥴🤤
Similar. But in my case, I didn't tease them deliberately. It's just who I am genuinely.
Now I know my dog likes me
Great advice ❤❤❤
Great insights 😊😊🎉
Thank you teacher. 🎉😂❤
She had a crush on my heart and she crushed it into bits and bobs.
The UA-cam algorithm just recommended this channel to me…….… and let say…….… YOU NOW HAVE A NEW SUBSCRIBER! ❤
She tells you she has no gag reflex. 😂
That could be a sign yes
Thank you
There is this one girl in my class that really stuck out to me in the past week. One day during my culinary class we were making roux and we were sharing containers to put it in and this girl who I already knew wanted to share with me. I thought how strange it was and thought of it for awhile. Another day at the end of school, I was resting my arm on the table and she passed behind me to talk to the teacher. Next thing I know (I'm still debating to myself if it was intentional to this day,) she kinda sat on my arm I felt it and I'm like "hey, you sat on my arm!" But she didn't respond. Few minutes later I was sitting zoning off like I usually do and she jumps into my line of sight as if she wanted me to see her. I thought of those 2 events the whole bus ride home.
This week on Tuesday, I cut my thumb on the little tape ripper on the tape holder box thing and she seemed concerned. Normal right? Then I went to the office to get a bandaid trying to keep my blood in my mouth because it was gushing. And I heard her say my name down the hall and she was rushing towards me. I walked out to say what and we almost ran into eachother. She walked into the office to get ME a bandaid while I was already there about to reach the first aid kit. It seemed she went out of her way to see if I was alright and wanted to take care of me. I said thank you and I think she blushed a little and smiled. We walked out until I almost ran into another person. I jokingly said "man, I'm giving everyone a jumpscare," she smiled again and kind of laughed This was one of the nicest students I've met in all my eight grades and it makes my heart warm up a bit.
Today, I fell of my schools 6 foot tall pull up bar and landed on my back. My breath was nearly taken out of me as I couldn't say a word slowly exhaling "ehhhhhh..." in shock. My friend who was beside me and I walked up to the recess supervisor to tell her what'd happened. She told me to get an ice pack. Now my girl classmate immediately said "I'll take him!" I said I was fine and I didn't need one because I hardly felt pain. I showed them my back and they all were shocked at the big red mark on my back. The girl grabbed my arm and said "cmon, you need an ice pack!" I refused since I didn't feel anything yet. She let go and we were headed into the building.
Again, I've never seen a class mate go out of their way just to take care of me. I've never seen such an affectionate and caring student ever. I'm shocked and truly think she cares for me and likes me.
Me checking if I've feelings for him
There's a girl that likes me a lot but I don't feel the same way. What should I do to prevent hurting her feelings?
None of this is anything but normal common sense interactions between people.
5 signs that will never happen to me.
Never mind I'll drink wine and watch Netflix
Same here, they don't want me only my $ which I don't have much of. And if they are interested in me they have a criminal record or on drugs .
Even though I'm in the same boat, it doesn't help to be depressed about it. We have to live life without caring too much for stuff like these
Psychology doesn't have crushes in their courses but I took it so long ago so maybe that's changed idk.
It's good reassuring myself that actually no girl is into me 😂
Your reactions are cute. You married franci ?
can u do guys now?
if he doesn't want to talk to u, he might really like u
@@arebelfromhell welp that great!! ill never know
@@Irlyolo The truth is if i tell u, u might fall in love with every random man looking for these sign but trust me. You will know when the time has arrived. Whatever you do, don't give yourself a reason to tell another man "you deserve better than me". Nobody is perfect but keep your standards high. Like attracts like.
This horse needs a carrot 🥕 holy moly
#1 So great! I love when women don't make things only about them. Like this video...
Because they know that there is nothing better in this entire world that a woman find a space in her schedule to have a date... as if men didn't know she will cancel everything for a Chad/Tyrone, a 666 type (u know: 6 feet , 6 inches , 6 figures), or a gangster or any dude with some kind of power over others.
I didn't bother to see #2.
I'm a guy and I do exactly the same things with the girls I like, is it normal? 😂
Don't need no signs, she just told me she has a crush on me and she is willing to go with me any time.
Off, Im into someone 😅
Ok so this is the opposite of all my experiences haha
Jea. She has "crush" on our bank account + sports car + yacht + villa ...
Now lady tell me this. Except the one about date and maybr about text, how do you differentiate between someone who is interested and someone who is just being nice or someone who just has a playful nature.
It is confusing for me
You can't and if you get it wrong all women who witness it will see you as a predator from them on. High chance of social aggression, very low chance of anything positive happening.
*Sometimes if a girl likes you, she will look away or avoid looking at you.*
1. That's fair.
2. Could also indicate she wants you to stop looking her way and is making you uncomfortable.
3. Ok.
4. Yeah I can see that.
5. "You're my best guy friend, I hope to find someone like you but not you." that make sense?
5 key signs I will never see...
Oh well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
She has a pulse?
Thanks to your adivce ive find a new victim ... i mean gf 😅
what if every time we see each other we have sex. Is it just the sex?
Can you do a vid on how to pass the shit test please?
She has a really open body language with others but when I am near or we talk she crosses arms and legs and her voice is really inaudible I have to lean to listen
I got bad news for you brother
Jesus Christ of Nazareth..
Buddha sanchez of chingdu province
What if she does the 4th, 5th.. even holds eye contact is shy around but dont reply on texts. 😐
Every girl does this to me so what should I do?🥲