Hey guys, just a reminder that while what we went through was horrible and completely wrong....and while it never should have happened, that doesn't mean that you can't turn it to something good. My traumas and abuse from childhood still hurt like hell sometimes, but it gets better I promise . I've wanted to die so badly before too, but I am at the point where every day I am so thankful I never did. Life is beautiful. No matter how ugly it can be at times, the beauty remains, hidden in the small things, and I think that itself is beautiful. You have to pay attention and be thankful for those moments of beauty everyday. You are beauty, the fact that you are living and breathing right now is beautiful....after everything you have gone through and after how horribly you have been treated. And even though all of our stories are different, we can be the same. We can heal our traumas and be the kind of parents, siblings, or friends that we never had growing up...we can stop the cycle, and while that task can seem overwhelming and heartbreaking at times, I hope you see the beauty in it. That is so cool. That you, yes you, have the power to overcome hate with love and make a ripple effect in peoples lives...not just that, but the world. It really is a cycle, and what you do matters. So please please please, love yourself, that is a whole other subject I could preach on, but please...it it the least you deserve. Breathe....it will be okay...the darker your past is, the brighter your future is, and stay here...stay alive....I promise your future self will be proud and thankful, even if it takes a long time to get there. It will be worth it all. I love you random stranger, and you are worthy of being loved correctly even if you aren't being treated like that right now. Set boundaries, and leave toxic situations and relationships. Heal yourself before looking for others to fill your emptiness. And remember you can't love others until you love yourself. I love you and if no one has told you today, I am proud of you, you are loved, you are lovable, you are worthy of being loved, you are strong, you are brave, and you will get through this. If you can't stay alive or heal for yourself, then do it for me, because even as a stranger, my life is sadder without you. The world is sadder without you.
@@titanofsaturn6234 I'm glad someone in need got to hear it. You alone are worth the time it took to make that comment. I wish you the best in life. If you ever get to the point where you think no one cares, remember me. I am rooting for you. Always.❤
I also suffered from this state . My dad was an alcoholic and my mom dead when I was 15 bcz of depression . My dad's mistress used to hurt for entertainment and one day I stand against her so she throw me out for the house at the age of 17 . I called my childhood best friend and tell him whats happening so he told me to stay with him and I agreed . Now everything is fine I'm in relation ship with my best friend from 2 year hehehe I love him Edit : if u read that much that's for 🎉🎉
I felt a tear rolling down my right cheek by the end of this video. I pray for everyone's safety and acknowledgement of their own worth. Please know you are valued by someone. Hold on.
You know , parents usually beat u up and then when u actually get the courage to talk about it to someone , they say "it's for your own good". Abusing kids is not for their good.
To whoever needs it, As someone who gets physically and mentally abused, I can tell you that it’s not our fault There’s gonna be times when we can’t help but feel at fault and hate ourselves, while the person who should be getting blamed gets away with it. Don’t let them win, you might as well pronounce them dead to you, especially if you already went through the phase of thirsting for their love. If you don’t end up killing them from your life, you’ll end up mentally dead and empty inside (if you think what your going through is bad, it gets worse when you let them win). As someone who killed my person out of my life a little to late, I feel empty, so just make sure you do it in time. I have faith in you, and don’t you dare think of hurting yourself😡, been there, done that, just made me more sad. Love you ❤️
i am suffering through depression and mental health issues and try not to break out but my dad's cursing words caused the reason of my tears ,last weak just blasted with tears .....
This is really sad that there are many people like me 😔my parents are really abusive..... When i was younger i often got beaten up and even after growing up i still get beaten up and tortured mentally...... This is really heartbreaking 😔😔once they told me to die and said that they wish they had killed me when i was a child 🙂💔
Even though I am late I proud of you all y'all are strong enough to made it till here don't let anyone break you i hope and wish y'all a bright and a happy future ahead!
@YUQI💜 please don't. You're so precious and amazing, you don't deserve to die if things get to hard, feel free to open up here. we'll always be here to console you
This reminds of the time I was having an argument with my mom and I shouted out "I wish I was never born! " cause I was mad and I say things that I don't mean when I'm mad .But when i said that my mom said " yes it would have been better if I weren't born! " I got upset and ran to my room .And that's not the first time my mom said things like .
Your parents love for you should be unconditional, let yourself know that you don't have to be good and perfect to be worthy of love, you can be your little imperfect self trying to manuevre through a very harsh thing called life and still very much be worthy of love
My dad beats me up almost everyday and abuses me telling that he regrets being a father to a daughter like me... I don't know why I easily forgive him afterwards... It sucks to fake a smile and act like you're living your best in front of people... Even in school I feel like a shit and don't wanna talk to anyone... I just feel much better here knowing that I'm not alone:(
Same i hate pretending that i have the best happy life fuck i hate it but if others know the truth they will feel sorry for me and will look down on me it’s hard for me to just exist lol
If you think about it, the most f-ed up ones in Penthouse had abusive upbringings and that was passed on to their kids, specifically Eun Byol, her mother Seo Jin, the twins and their father Joo Dan Tae as well.
my own mother told me "i wish you were never born" and beats me,abusing me physically and emotionally, so watching this video did make me cry but atleast this video explains my emotions while i try to comprehend them :)
You're strong I wish I could hug you rn but I can't One day u will be strong and God will u give you the reward! (ignore the god part if you're an atheist)! Love you 💕💕
I really hope to it okay if it gets worse talk to someone and this might be far but sometimes child services is needed I am sorry she does that I hope you know your not alone and your strong 💖💕
My mom also say it to many times that she wish I was never born Or i should die! She also swear me a lot But she says it when she is angry! But she also cares for me! I don't know is she abusive or good parent!
I feel bad for the people who have toxic parents Edit: I read my comment section and I feel so bad for you yall you don’t deserve to go through all of that
My dad beat me as a kid, and sometimes I thought death was better than his abuse. This is an accurate representation of forms of abuse people go through, thank you
I'm really sorry for you, sorry that you had to through it all Not a single kid deserve this sort of treatment, wish you all the love in the world because you deserve it
Bro it's so hard I'm trying not to cry because my parents could barge in and they would see me crying and they would kill me but out of all the things the most related to me I the suicide attempt I tried it twice at the ages of 6 and 7
Whenever I listen to this song it always reminds me of my mom She wanted to give me up for adoption because I was brown skinned and fat and biggest part I was born in India and my mom would always told me to not play outside or I'll be more dark skinned and do not eat so much food because I was a girl and no one would marry me K-pop, K-Drama and Anime has big role in my life, it helped me to get out of DEPRESSION but People didn't believed me Only I know how much I've been through my life
Hey its ok many people go through this I want u to aim for ur future try hard to acheive it.....ik life is hard but everyone faces it, the one who beats it would succeed....my life is hard too I have thought many times to end it but I can't becuz ik I can achieve my dreams and my life has more meaning than this...my parents are not supportive I have family problems and I want to show life I can do what I like.....I wish u the best and if a person doesn't want to marry u becuz ur brown and dark? Then he/she is not the one for u......again I wish u the best for ur future and wish me luck....💜
When I watched that moment with word "die." I started to cry. Because my dad said it to me too. He said that he wanted to kill me. How it hurts. I just can't forget these words.
I can’t imagine how bad you must have felt.. I don’t even know what to say. How dare he say that to u. I’m so sorry you had to go through something like that. Please stay strong you must prove him wrong. ❤️
no matter what your dad said, you should know that you do deserve to be happy and you deserve to be alive and to be loved and appreciated. don‘t forget that you matter, stay strong
Maybe in the nxt life we can get this..... but this proves that we will end up being good parents becuz of the suffer we had , we will not let our children face this. Everything will b okay.🤎
When you're an Asian, you often don't realise that you are a victim of abuse not only mentally but also physically because it's never okay to beat up a child for good results and threaten them And if this victims of abuse become parents without getting proper help they only pass on generational abuse and trauma, and we become to our children what our parents are to us, so get help, go seek therapy, it's the best thing you can do to yourself even if you think you had a good childhood and were not a victim in anyway. Be a good parent to your inner child first, treat yourself with patience, kindness and goodness that your parents were supposed to, after you have healed your inner child, be good parents to your children if you have any
This is really right, i absolutely respect that, and agree, but, let me just say that not only asians get treated this way... Everyone can, no matter of race, age, etc. It is honestly so sad, let's just stay strong, all of us, even if it's hard, we need to still go on. Also ily
Listen to this is really giving me anxiety because of how relatable this is... My mom is sleeping next to me,it's just the two of us in our house(my dad lives abroad and my older sister just got married) The verbal abuse,emotional abuse (sometimes even physical abuse) it's never ending..I just want to go out alone and without hijab my STRICT asian muslim parents are like NOPE....I still remember that I just wanted to go to school without hijab once (i was in 6th grade) and my mom.....yes my mom called me shameless for wanting that....I am 15 now I literally lost my childhood because of their strictness.....I swear to god that i am not saying this for clout but i literally self harm and tried to commit suicide......twice. My mom screams at me whole day and worships my sister she says in my face that "she(my sister) is my ideal daughter" ect ect....i asked one day "then what about me?" She said........"youuuuu are useless" when in fact i do all the household work including cooking (again I am 15 btw my sister is 25)... She (my sister) recently came to visit us and my mom literally forgot i exist screamed at me,called me names when i swear i didn't do anything.. And i am not even allowed to feel anything my sister expects me to stay all smiley and happy when it's killing me inside 'She is you mother,she is your mother,she is your mother' i didn't ask her to be my mother... They made me hate the word 'family'. Edit: 9th march.They even forgot my birthday..yes both mom and dad. :)
I'm really sorry for u..i dunno to put this in words but i really hope ur fam n u will get hidayah from Allah swt... always ask Allah to soften ur mom heart n hope she will see u as a human being aka as someone who has heart...take care lil sis..if u're feeling the urge to harm urself.. listen to surah ar rahman( study the meaning).. InsyaAllah things will get better..i will always pray for u...i love u for still breathing in this world..for still smiling..for still have courage to write ur story here..n last but not least...for everything u have done..lots of love
@@anzhar6344 Don't know how to thank you enough for what you wrote to me that is the nicest Thing someone has said or done for me. I will definitely consider all the things you said :) May Allah bless you as well..I will also pray for you...Thank you..thank you sooooo much... :)
2:36 when she started laughing, I felt her and understood her. Now when my parents scream at me, tell me I am worthless and not smart, my friends are better than me, I am a regret in life, I am bad luck. I laugh it at it, I feel it funny because it has been happening to me and my sister for years. It happens every year, almost every day, every second, every minute, every hour, everytime, it's going to be with my everywhere and everytime that I laugh at it now and try not to feel the pain... but I still do the feel the pain. I cry eveytime I think these words my mom told to my sis 'I hope you die!' 'When you die, I will be so happy!' My sis almost got diabetes and my mom told to that 'If you got diabetes and die in the end, I won't care about it all at all.' It hurts me even if it's not about me.... bcoz ik she meant for me too... and not just my sister. She hates us both, never wanted us alive, never cared for us, never truly loved us, never made us feel cared or loved, never made us smile and laugh. Instead make us cry, feel pain, suffer... I laugh so much when she tell tells to me that I am her favourite daughter and she will always love me, I know it's a lie. You think it's fun being the favourite child? No, it is not. It's instead a world of pain and suffering.
Even though my parents never told that to me , I felt it . The feeling when your parents compare you to your friends . I also cry at night when everyone is asleep and wear a smile when I'm in front of others cause faking a smile is easier than explaining what I am feeling and I know that they won't understand. The feeling when you feel like you are not good enough, nobody loves you and feel like you are a worthless , untalented, good for nothing person . A burden to your parents. And you work day and night to make yourself a better daughter, a better student , a better friend but nobody notices it. All they notice is your flaws . That's what happens to me. That's my life.
May God give help to you and your sister, I'm so sorry that you have to through it. Here's one more proud that no everyone deserves to be a parent. Every kids deserve to have parents who will love and take care of them, but sadly it's not the case. Thank you for open up here, always feel free to do it again whenever you feel like you need to. Lots of love
I never felt jealous of anyone.....but I feel jealous of my classmates how their families are good , supporting them, loving them and many more... Edit: Reading my comment section , I just realised the fact that many people like me are suffering like me..But don't worry , endure a little more who knows someday all these pain, hurt, tears will go away and u will get happiness.... let's just believe in God and try to live even if it's painful.
True. I actually met my best friend over the internet in an amino group. Exchanged numbers in a private chat and now it's close to hitting a whole year of friendship It's such a shame that me and him live so many counties apart tho
I'm watching it's okay to not be okay and when I saw her laughing after her dad tried to kill her.... Too relatable. It's just idk maybe because we're tired of it?? And we just start to find it funny?? I don't remember how many times I thought I was crazy because I was laughing or smiling just after something bad happened to me...never mind Btw it's a good edit
i'm sorry that you can relate, i sincerely wish you all the love and that everything will get better ❤️ thank you for staying here even if life is hard for you and particularly unfair, you are so strong. & tysm
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh no it's not your fault and in between something worst than this happened (I got sexually assaulted) but I will say I'm fine I still laugh and hang out with my friends and I make some people's day better so I guess I'm important :))) Thanks for your comment it was so sweet and kind! I love you! 💜😊
Same. That one shot was too relatable. I think we laugh because it's the same old shit. We know it's happening to us again. We know we can never escape the trap. Sometimes I feel like I need to feel that pain again (not in a psycho way) but rather to convince myself that im the victim, im the one who suffers. Just a thought tho.
Same happens to me and I find it hard to even explain my mom's behaviour to myself. Sometimes she treats me like a damn blessing in her life and then she goes back to treating me like I'm some kind of curse to her. I don't even know what she feels about me for real
@@niyathireddy8891 I think she has problems with her mother, maybe not as much as with her father, but her mother only sees the abuse she receives from her father.
Damn you're making me cry in the middle of the night lol. It's been years but I am still not used to it. I still damn cry. It still fucking hurts. Although he rarely hurts us physically, the emotional and mental pain he causes has ruined me. Actually while I'm typing this comment, painful memories comes back. I remember those countless times that I've thought it's better to die and those attempts to be gone. I hope someday, I'll be free from him. Soon, we'll be free from him. I just need to hold on a little tighter. For those who have been experiencing any kind of abuse, hold on. Someday, they won't be able to hurt us. We will be free. We will be happy and safe. Stay there, it'll happen soon. For those who have been experiencing emotional abuse, we see your pain. That pain you've been feeling is valid. You don't deserve those hurtful words. Don't believe on his/her words. Be patient.
Omg I really felt that I have stepdad and he has daughter with my mom but he hates me. They're couple for 9yrs and I am going crazy he is really emotionally abusive and I feel like that my dad will love me more but he was drug addicted so he cant take me to his care But my stepdad is the wrost ,manipulative ,abusive and angry person and I wanted to common suicide 😢 Thank you for reading my comment I feel with you. And thanks for comfort words
I have just turned 18 this year and truly it's fvcking over...no more abused mentally and physically. Hold on a little bit more one day everything will be alright, just do not give up.
I love this. I am proof that if you hold on longer you will make it. You will be happy and free, regardless of what they try to do. You've got this. I love you and I believe in you💜
when you lose emotion, their words dont hurt. their pain makes you smile, and thats about it. you dont care, at all. your face is solid, you've been hurt so much to ever show a reaction to whatever one says.
I hate seeing these types of videos tbh, they hit too close to him, watching It's Okay To Not Be Okay was a pain itself cuz my parents used to think of me as this perfect child til I was young, and now they see me as a psychopath, good for nothing and all that, and I know they think that cuz they've said it to my face, and oh, if I even dare to speak back, I get hit, but I still will, cuz I'm not gonna take bullshit, even from my parents. I've done self harm many many times because of them, spent so many nights crying and on the bathroom, not even being able to cry out loud cuz then they'll just yell at me again and hit me saying "what will the neighbors think? Shut up, you attention seeker" Everything used to be so happy and good, I just don't know what went wrong and where, I've tried taking my life and been suicidal for the longest time not only because of my parents, but other stuff too. Now I'm diagnosed with severe clinical depression from one of my friends who's a doctor but I can't even tell my parents or somehow get the medication required cuz then I'll probably just be hit and yelled at again, or just thrown out of the house I'm just hoping I can move out of here soon, I hate it here :]
Hey don't worry we are here for you never consider yourself as a psychopath . No matter what happens love yourself and don't worry we are here tell us your stories and let out your pain
Yeah dumbo if you don't love your life who will and I can understand I know it hurts so bad . But don't worry buddy whenever you feel sad or angry just comment on this and I will keep responding kay 😊 I wish I was there to console you be with you but don't worry you are a good person and that never changes never let those things change you ❤ always fight for yourself and I know you can
Hi, I'm really really sorry to know that Whenever you need to express your feelings, feel free to share them here, i'll always be here trying to comfort you
I'm so sorry for you I'm sorry for me that i can relate. But let's try to look at from another angle! Psychopaths r SO FREAKING HOT!!! WE BOTH R HOT AF😌😌😌 Hi, I'm so Called Weirdo, Psycho, and the living aimlessly
Seeing this after being beaten up by my own parents everyday and mistreated and humiliated every single moment by friends and other people makes me cry. Good to know that I am not alone bearing all this s**ts. Wish one day we all will get out of this.
After reading some of the comments and rewatching this i almost started crying for how many people relate… some people should understand that this isn’t ‘normal’… fortunately i have the best parents ever that never ever hit me… i am so sorry for the millions of people that can’t relate to my example… and the phrase ‘every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves children’ will stay with me forever
I'm asian with asian parents but I never got abused that's because my parents were abused when they were young and they felt the pain that's why they never hurt me. But seeing other asian kids get hurt makes me cry I feel very sorry for you all. Just don't let other people control your life and remember we all love you you are loved and your life is precious ! Don't give up !
My parents are extremely passive-aggressive. They never let me have one good day. The best times of my life were away from them. Honestly, I wouldn't care too much if they died. They always make me feel bad about myself. I'm pretty sure I've been through self-hatred and depression. But they don't care. They just yell at me for everything without trying to understand me first. But worst of all... They make fun of me for feeling sad, angry, or numb. They make fun of me in a humiliating way and expect me to take it as a joke. I have a strong sense of anger which never seems to go away. Also, This song perfectly describes our relationship from my pov.
I'm so sorry to hear that u have to go through this much. I somethimes talk to myslef when im in my room and my family makes fun of me not knowing why i talk to myself(cuz i don't have anyone to talk to) im 17 now and still going through depression and anxiety and my family just makes fun of me. I'm still suffering. I'm just waiting till im 18 so i can leave this place and honestly i won't care even if they die. They just made me hate them this much. I honestly don't hate them that much but hate myself for not hating them.
@@mlfmpov7428 IKR!! I can't wait to get away from them too. For me things are getting better since I made new and meaningful friends and my physical school started. I think that when a big change happens, then your life will get better, or worse, depending on what your experience and choices are. I think that my life changed for good because I had been through too much already. My parents still make me sad, but I should less time with them due to school. Your life will also change. You're almost 18 and that's good. You can make your own decisions, maybe move out, go to college etc. Trust me, if you've been through a lot at a young age, things will only get better as you grow.
@@who_xyz thanks alot i appreciate it alot... and im happy to know that ur life is getting better now...im planning on keeping morning shift at my college as i just gave my last year of highschool exams... ill also start working a part time job just so i can stay away from them as much as i can
I can relate to these drama , I have really abusive parents, I am the middle child, and told as adopted, my mother and father used to hit me when I was 6 and now am 23 , I really feel embarrass going school with scars on my face to school, Everyone used to laugh on me , nobody had pity on me, even my teacher used to make fun of me , what the fuck I just did wrong? I hope I never born or they never adopted me! Just wanted to die on 2018, but got saved anyway My mother always yell at me on small things, I am jealous seeing other parents being so happy/enjoyable with their kids! Am so depressed, they compare me Always, says that my sister is really good at Studies, and she will achieve her dreams! When I grew I left Everything even I left my house and Started living out of our country now am in ukrain ! I have loving life without my parents and never wanting to contact them again! And still some scars on my face but reminds me of those toxic parents!
Being grown in such type of family I experience this everyday and idk why I'm still alive when my own parents make me feel shit every single day, getting abused everyday, growing in a traumatizing environment, flinching on small small things. I just don't know how I'm still alive. Hope y'all have good day. Just came here to lighten my heart. Thanks for reading this.
There comes a time when you get tired of trying to please them, trying to make them happy, trying to prove yourself to them and you just give up because no matter what you can never be what they expect you to be 💔
At a distance spring is green is so freaking underrated, I wanna scream. Like the main lead's struggles with his parents and the bromance of him and second lead. The rom com side of this drama is also good. I don't know why no one talks about that drama. I wanna binge rewatch it because I watched it when it was ongoing.
No one deserves to be treated like this, not even by the parents.....no one is perfect but everyone is special to every stranger out there, "YOU ARE PERFECT, YOU ARE WORTH IT! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, IT'S ONLY YOU THAT YOU SHOULD LOVE FIRST"
I never cry in front of my abusive family ... yesterday i was controlling my tears ..... today my mom said "kiske gam mea roo rhi thi " ☠️ .... she just beat me . .. just because i said .... i Can't you guys be silent when I'm studying ...
My parents always said that Me since 6th grade and when I was in 4th grade they'd keep reminding me that they would've saved alot of money if I was dead they would always favour my younger siblings and make them hate me I remember in my sisters last birthday she wished that I never existed ... Me too
@@Optimisticnihilistic9999 omg, i'm so sorry that they can't realize how precious you are. i hope you'll realise it yourself some day ❤️ you deserve to be happy, respected and loved don't ever doubt that
When I was younger I was beat up a lot by my father, I tried to reason with myself and become better behaved but it never changed anything.He has stopped doing things like this now and only has a few outbursts here and there but he still makes me feel very uncomfortable.
I don't crave anything in my life other than my parents love and support....all they want is just good marks and if I am not able to achieve that they make me feel worthless.....I can totally relate to and understand what feels like being in the shoes of the girl from true beauty
The fact that Soojin is hated by most. Nobody notices her consequences. What she did was wrong but if she was helped before she would've never done that. She needed genuine love which she got from no one. I feel bad for all those who are considered as bad just because their consequences made them like that.! They deserve better. They're so strong. And whoever here is dealing with such hard consequences, I love you. Feel free to express yourself here y'all.💕
Exactly! People complain about her being bad, but they never tried to understand what make her like this. She wasn't a bad person, but she get hurt and nobody was here to help her. From that we can't complain about her doing bad actions when it was only the logics consequences or what she had through. Your comment sounds so right,and i hope that all the people who can relate to her will become happier
Currently it's 3 a.m. and I am watching this and thinking how relateble it is as just few hours ago my mom told me that I am big headache for her and she would just push me from the rooftop.
Every kid deserves parents , but not every parent deserves a kid. But thank to God for giving me such a wonderful and loving mother, she is like heaven poured in a human mold (touch wood).
Yes, we really should be thankful to have good parents! It break my heart to see how many kids are suffering of abusing parents, thank you for the positivity in your comment ❤️❤️ May God give your mom and you a happy and long life
Watching this makes me thank god for giving me good parents, and my parents for raising me well...i feel so bad for all of these characters, and of course even the kids who are going through this in REAL LIFE, like that shit is so scary...sending love to you guys.
Eh why am I crying... Why does this feel suffocating Specially the true beauty scenes I- I can’t deny my father is just like king su Jin’s I can’t stop crying How do you stop these
To all the people who have normal parents (aka unconditionally loving and supportive) how does it feel to have them? I mean like I wanna know how it feels
to the person who reads this: abuse is NOT normal. If you are subjected to abusive attitude, or you have had such an experience, I am sorry to the point of pain in my heart. You don't deserve to go through this, and I will hope that your happy days are going into a long life that will fill you with the strength to live. Just live. You deserve all the love on this earth and beyond, you will cope with everything, I believe in you!
I literally feel so bad for ppl who go through this, like I’m reading all the comments and freaking crying so bad….this shit really hurts, y’all don’t deserve this.
I see myself in the character of soojin the way she doesn't show it to anyone and always laughs and is stron but the fact she is being abused mentally and physically both at home is like my story but the difference is that somehow I manage to think abt good even when the life is being miserable with me
It's weird sometimes to think that there are people who didnt go through this,at some point each of us that did learned to cope with it in our own ways and make the abuser feel accomplished faster so it would be over faster and i personally think the actors did great in showing this.
It's sad that I can relate to this. My family has been psychically and emotionally @busive to not just me, but my siblings as well. We have no way out. We just hope things get better. :c
Hey guys, just a reminder that while what we went through was horrible and completely wrong....and while it never should have happened, that doesn't mean that you can't turn it to something good. My traumas and abuse from childhood still hurt like hell sometimes, but it gets better I promise . I've wanted to die so badly before too, but I am at the point where every day I am so thankful I never did. Life is beautiful. No matter how ugly it can be at times, the beauty remains, hidden in the small things, and I think that itself is beautiful. You have to pay attention and be thankful for those moments of beauty everyday. You are beauty, the fact that you are living and breathing right now is beautiful....after everything you have gone through and after how horribly you have been treated. And even though all of our stories are different, we can be the same. We can heal our traumas and be the kind of parents, siblings, or friends that we never had growing up...we can stop the cycle, and while that task can seem overwhelming and heartbreaking at times, I hope you see the beauty in it. That is so cool. That you, yes you, have the power to overcome hate with love and make a ripple effect in peoples lives...not just that, but the world. It really is a cycle, and what you do matters. So please please please, love yourself, that is a whole other subject I could preach on, but please...it it the least you deserve. Breathe....it will be okay...the darker your past is, the brighter your future is, and stay here...stay alive....I promise your future self will be proud and thankful, even if it takes a long time to get there. It will be worth it all. I love you random stranger, and you are worthy of being loved correctly even if you aren't being treated like that right now. Set boundaries, and leave toxic situations and relationships. Heal yourself before looking for others to fill your emptiness. And remember you can't love others until you love yourself. I love you and if no one has told you today, I am proud of you, you are loved, you are lovable, you are worthy of being loved, you are strong, you are brave, and you will get through this. If you can't stay alive or heal for yourself, then do it for me, because even as a stranger, my life is sadder without you. The world is sadder without you.
Thank you so much for that, i wish you the best ❤️❤️
@@nayabiggestyerifan I wish you the best too💜
Thank you for your kind words. I really needed them at this moment 😊
@@titanofsaturn6234 I'm glad someone in need got to hear it. You alone are worth the time it took to make that comment. I wish you the best in life. If you ever get to the point where you think no one cares, remember me. I am rooting for you. Always.❤
@@heystobit803 Thank you so much. I wish u have an abundant happiness in the world❤❤
"A CHILD THAT IS BEING ABUSED BY ITS PARENTS DOESN'T STOP LOVING ITS PARENTS, IT STOPS LOVING ITSELF."
It's so true😶
well then that's me then🙃🥺🥺🥺🥺
@↳ꗃ𝐑0𝐒ⁱ𝐄𝐏𝐇0𝐁𝐈𝐒 ↲ hello
@↳ꗃ𝐑0𝐒ⁱ𝐄𝐏𝐇0𝐁𝐈𝐒 ↲ heyyyy its good evening for meh😊
Their*
Themselves*
I also suffered from this state . My dad was an alcoholic and my mom dead when I was 15 bcz of depression . My dad's mistress used to hurt for entertainment and one day I stand against her so she throw me out for the house at the age of 17 . I called my childhood best friend and tell him whats happening so he told me to stay with him and I agreed . Now everything is fine I'm in relation ship with my best friend from 2 year hehehe I love him
Edit : if u read that much that's for 🎉🎉
Wish I could also run away like uh did
I felt a tear rolling down my right cheek by the end of this video. I pray for everyone's safety and acknowledgement of their own worth. Please know you are valued by someone. Hold on.
The woman i knew as my mother said " Don't call me mom.. I'm not your mother.. it's all my fault for giving you birth"
🙂..
They give us everything material, but they don't know that all we want is their love and understanding for wanting to be free.💔
K-drama names with timestamps :)
0:17 It's ok to not be ok
0:50 Dr Romantic 2
0:53 True beauty
1:11 At a distance spring is green
thank you!
@Donkey it’s okay not to be okay
@Donkey I think it’s true beauty, and then doctor romantic after that
Allnll no, l
At 2:36 whats the show name? And can you tell me the name of the show in which the Blonde haired guy shows up and gets hit???
"Every child deserves parents but not any parent deserves a child"
You know , parents usually beat u up and then when u actually get the courage to talk about it to someone , they say "it's for your own good". Abusing kids is not for their good.
To whoever needs it,
As someone who gets physically and mentally abused, I can tell you that it’s not our fault There’s gonna be times when we can’t help but feel at fault and hate ourselves, while the person who should be getting blamed gets away with it. Don’t let them win, you might as well pronounce them dead to you, especially if you already went through the phase of thirsting for their love. If you don’t end up killing them from your life, you’ll end up mentally dead and empty inside (if you think what your going through is bad, it gets worse when you let them win). As someone who killed my person out of my life a little to late, I feel empty, so just make sure you do it in time. I have faith in you, and don’t you dare think of hurting yourself😡, been there, done that, just made me more sad. Love you ❤️
I wish you the best ❤️❤️❤️
i am suffering through depression and mental health issues and try not to break out but my dad's cursing words caused the reason of my tears ,last weak just blasted with tears .....
In “its ok not to be ok” they don’t care that the stupid old man choked her and she almost died and just left her on the ground
This is really sad that there are many people like me 😔my parents are really abusive..... When i was younger i often got beaten up and even after growing up i still get beaten up and tortured mentally...... This is really heartbreaking 😔😔once they told me to die and said that they wish they had killed me when i was a child 🙂💔
Even though I am late I proud of you all y'all are strong enough to made it till here don't let anyone break you i hope and wish y'all a bright and a happy future ahead!
I don't even watch kdramas but this made me cry me eyes out cuz my parents are toxic as hell
Oh I'm so sorry for you. You don't deserve this I hope everything will get better luv
@@nayabiggestyerifan thank you, you really made my day better
@@lefthandderivative i'm glad I did, always feel free to talk to me if you need to
It reminds me of my family who never wanted me😂💔💔
So sorry for you, they don't deserve you :(
@@nayabiggestyerifan I wish I could die
@YUQI💜 please don't. You're so precious and amazing, you don't deserve to die
if things get to hard, feel free to open up here. we'll always be here to console you
This reminds of the time I was having an argument with my mom and I shouted out "I wish I was never born! " cause I was mad and I say things that I don't mean when I'm mad .But when i said that my mom said " yes it would have been better if I weren't born! " I got upset and ran to my room .And that's not the first time my mom said things like .
you will never be able to pay for even one moment of pain that all of you caused me .
Your parents love for you should be unconditional, let yourself know that you don't have to be good and perfect to be worthy of love, you can be your little imperfect self trying to manuevre through a very harsh thing called life and still very much be worthy of love
1:02 I froze
An wise man say that "if you don’t love your child, they won't love you".
this hurts to watch 😭😭 after watching this i'm very grateful for my parents 🥺😭
Does your parents notice that their happy little girl lost a long while ago~
I was expecting them to defend themself-
Ahh I'm kidda sad but I want to support ur channel I loved it 💜✨ fighting u can do it ✊
Aww thank you so much that's really sweet of you
My dad beats me up almost everyday and abuses me telling that he regrets being a father to a daughter like me... I don't know why I easily forgive him afterwards... It sucks to fake a smile and act like you're living your best in front of people... Even in school I feel like a shit and don't wanna talk to anyone... I just feel much better here knowing that I'm not alone:(
Same i hate pretending that i have the best happy life fuck i hate it but if others know the truth they will feel sorry for me and will look down on me it’s hard for me to just exist lol
I hate lying man I don’t want to lie
I hate too, but its ok cause it's normal for me
My parents beat me at small things and they even beat me when I am not smiling and telling me to laugh by beating me
I cried watching this
this video it just hits different when you feel the same thing.
I'm very grateful to have great parents I love them alot which can't shown by my words
I will definitely make them very proud of me ❤️
I feel really jealousy
@@ipurpleyou-j7i I'm sure you'll find a person too who will love you unconditionally 💓
Something I relate to, the most.
This honestly triggered me since my mom been verbally abusive.
abuse can also be verbal😮💨
Kdrama? This legit is about to make me cry 😭
SEEING COMMENT SECTION I FELT I AM NOT ALONE.
I'm sorry that you can relate
@@nayabiggestyerifan thanks ❤️
"every children deserve their parents, but not every parents deserve their children"
Sadly true :(
This comment literally made me burst into tears
My parents dont except my dad
It's bitter but it's truth!
fr
"every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"
these dramas are so triggering for me cause of my toxic and emotionally abusive family but i love to know i’m not alone
I'm really sorry for you sweetie, I'm here if you need to talk
Wishing you that it'll get better
Don't loose hope please love you 💓 💗 💖 💕 💜 ❤ 💓
Stay strong plz . We need you .
I know I came to click into this video cuz I was feeling a bit of these vibes personally too, youre not alone!
Same. hope you all for the best :)
EunByol from Penthouse really suits this video. I mean, the pressure of being perfect made her crazy. She wasn't hurt physically, but also psychology
Yes she really does! I forgot to add her in this video but she is just like them :( no one of them deserved this treatment
If you think about it, the most f-ed up ones in Penthouse had abusive upbringings and that was passed on to their kids, specifically Eun Byol, her mother Seo Jin, the twins and their father Joo Dan Tae as well.
@@pandaaaaa4 yes,the penthouse basically wouldn't have started if cheon seo jins father wasn't shitty and only cared abt the trophee and pride
Seojin also, she is an abusive mother because of her parents too
@@nayabiggestyerifan The Twins too were a big part of the abuse!
my own mother told me "i wish you were never born" and beats me,abusing me physically and emotionally, so watching this video did make me cry but atleast this video explains my emotions while i try to comprehend them :)
You're strong I wish I could hug you rn but I can't One day u will be strong and God will u give you the reward! (ignore the god part if you're an atheist)! Love you 💕💕
Stay strong dear,ik it must be hard for you but please don't lose hope
I promise one day u gonna be so happy ,I promise. Just hold on a little 💜
I really hope to it okay if it gets worse talk to someone and this might be far but sometimes child services is needed I am sorry she does that I hope you know your not alone and your strong 💖💕
You know I am proud of you baby this universe gave space for you bcz this world needs your love your smell your voice ♥💕💖❤💗
My mom also say it to many times that she wish I was never born Or i should die! She also swear me a lot But she says it when she is angry! But she also cares for me! I don't know is she abusive or good parent!
I feel bad for the people who have toxic parents
Edit: I read my comment section and I feel so bad for you yall you don’t deserve to go through all of that
Same, hope they can get some help :(
@@nayabiggestyerifan yeah I hope some day….
Thank u for the sympathy 🙂
i feel bad for me too
@@grace11_ aww I am so sorry
My dad beat me as a kid, and sometimes I thought death was better than his abuse. This is an accurate representation of forms of abuse people go through, thank you
I'm really sorry for you, sorry that you had to through it all
Not a single kid deserve this sort of treatment, wish you all the love in the world because you deserve it
@@nayabiggestyerifan aww ty, i appreciate it
@@kaithefly811 you're welcome ❤️
No one deserves that kind of pain
I hope you're alright
you are so so loved, i hope the pain is better now.
is hard to explain why I want to cry when I hear screaming sounds or why I cried over a song and a movie like that. ppff what a life I have
I'm so sorry for u, feel free to express your feelings here whenever you need to
We are here for you
same
same :( so damn sorry for us and for anyone who's going through it
Bro it's so hard I'm trying not to cry because my parents could barge in and they would see me crying and they would kill me but out of all the things the most related to me I the suicide attempt I tried it twice at the ages of 6 and 7
this hits different when your family isn't supportive but controlling
Fucking hate that- is this umi btw?
Yes
Yesss relatable
I can relate..
its true i never been happy i only have one dream pay them back and die peacefully
Nothing hurts more when you're crying at night without making a noise and losing your breath with those silent screams of hurt
Truly relatable to me but for me it was not a fixed time whenever my mom beats me I do this in the bathroom so that no one can know
In bathroom, I've never cried with noises. I've always had silent mental breakdowns.
And when it's full neither cry nor angry just silent
It was my whole childhood. I grunt my teeth silently with tears in my eyes when i want to scream
Whenever I listen to this song it always reminds me of my mom
She wanted to give me up for adoption because I was brown skinned and fat and biggest part I was born in India and my mom would always told me to not play outside or I'll be more dark skinned and do not eat so much food because I was a girl and no one would marry me
K-pop, K-Drama and Anime has big role in my life, it helped me to get out of DEPRESSION
but People didn't believed me
Only I know how much I've been through my life
Hey its ok many people go through this I want u to aim for ur future try hard to acheive it.....ik life is hard but everyone faces it, the one who beats it would succeed....my life is hard too I have thought many times to end it but I can't becuz ik I can achieve my dreams and my life has more meaning than this...my parents are not supportive I have family problems and I want to show life I can do what I like.....I wish u the best and if a person doesn't want to marry u becuz ur brown and dark? Then he/she is not the one for u......again I wish u the best for ur future and wish me luck....💜
Trust me!! You are not the only one....
Trust me u are reallt strong never give up these days are us like dak night but day sun will come again agr we will shine like mooon
I want to believe in you
I believe you dear😊 don't feel lonely....if you wanna share anything, you can share with me 👍👍
When I watched that moment with word "die." I started to cry. Because my dad said it to me too. He said that he wanted to kill me. How it hurts. I just can't forget these words.
I'm really sorry for you, at the same time I'm glad you didn't let him win and you still here
I can’t imagine how bad you must have felt.. I don’t even know what to say. How dare he say that to u. I’m so sorry you had to go through something like that. Please stay strong you must prove him wrong. ❤️
no matter what your dad said, you should know that you do deserve to be happy and you deserve to be alive and to be loved and appreciated. don‘t forget that you matter, stay strong
I'm sorry I know how it feels but it's alright forget the pain it brought you but never forget what those words taught you about that other person
Atleast we are not alone
HAVING A HAPPY FAMILY IS MY DREAM .
Me too 😢
Hope you'll both have someone who'll love you as you deserve
@@nayabiggestyerifan Omg Thank you so much you're such a beautiful person thank you
@@mariakrajcovicova3105 no problem luv, and thank you
Maybe in the nxt life we can get this..... but this proves that we will end up being good parents becuz of the suffer we had , we will not let our children face this.
Everything will b okay.🤎
This is my life in 2 minutes and 44 seconds.
Omg I'm so sorry that you can relate, praying that everything will be better
This shows that being successful are much more important than ourselves
I felt that. Also nice pfp😏
When you're an Asian, you often don't realise that you are a victim of abuse not only mentally but also physically because it's never okay to beat up a child for good results and threaten them
And if this victims of abuse become parents without getting proper help they only pass on generational abuse and trauma, and we become to our children what our parents are to us, so get help, go seek therapy, it's the best thing you can do to yourself even if you think you had a good childhood and were not a victim in anyway. Be a good parent to your inner child first, treat yourself with patience, kindness and goodness that your parents were supposed to, after you have healed your inner child, be good parents to your children if you have any
This is really right, i absolutely respect that, and agree, but, let me just say that not only asians get treated this way... Everyone can, no matter of race, age, etc. It is honestly so sad, let's just stay strong, all of us, even if it's hard, we need to still go on. Also ily
@@nunofthem i know that but i am an Asian and can only speak from what i see but although it happens everywhere it's way too normalised in Asia
This is absolutely right, I hope it'll stop being normalized. I hope you're happy & doing great
Can someone tell me why should i live ?
Wish I was able to like it 10000 times
Listen to this is really giving me anxiety because of how relatable this is...
My mom is sleeping next to me,it's just the two of us in our house(my dad lives abroad and my older sister just got married)
The verbal abuse,emotional abuse (sometimes even physical abuse) it's never ending..I just want to go out alone and without hijab my STRICT asian muslim parents are like NOPE....I still remember that I just wanted to go to school without hijab once (i was in 6th grade) and my mom.....yes my mom called me shameless for wanting that....I am 15 now I literally lost my childhood because of their strictness.....I swear to god that i am not saying this for clout but i literally self harm and tried to commit suicide......twice. My mom screams at me whole day and worships my sister she says in my face that "she(my sister) is my ideal daughter" ect ect....i asked one day "then what about me?" She said........"youuuuu are useless" when in fact i do all the household work including cooking (again I am 15 btw my sister is 25)...
She (my sister) recently came to visit us and my mom literally forgot i exist screamed at me,called me names when i swear i didn't do anything..
And i am not even allowed to feel anything my sister expects me to stay all smiley and happy when it's killing me inside 'She is you mother,she is your mother,she is your mother' i didn't ask her to be my mother...
They made me hate the word 'family'.
Edit: 9th march.They even forgot my birthday..yes both mom and dad.
:)
I'm really sorry for u..i dunno to put this in words but i really hope ur fam n u will get hidayah from Allah swt... always ask Allah to soften ur mom heart n hope she will see u as a human being aka as someone who has heart...take care lil sis..if u're feeling the urge to harm urself.. listen to surah ar rahman( study the meaning).. InsyaAllah things will get better..i will always pray for u...i love u for still breathing in this world..for still smiling..for still have courage to write ur story here..n last but not least...for everything u have done..lots of love
@@anzhar6344
Don't know how to thank you enough for what you wrote to me that is the nicest Thing someone has said or done for me. I will definitely consider all the things you said :)
May Allah bless you as well..I will also pray for you...Thank you..thank you sooooo much...
:)
May Allah helps you ❤️ don't forget that you matter and you are an amazing person because Allah created you and we all are perfect in our own way
@@nayabiggestyerifan
Thank you sooo much you guys don't know how much your nice words means to me.May Allah bless you as well.
Thank you.
@@mariamalia8330 the A is capital . Allah
2:36 when she started laughing, I felt her and understood her. Now when my parents scream at me, tell me I am worthless and not smart, my friends are better than me, I am a regret in life, I am bad luck. I laugh it at it, I feel it funny because it has been happening to me and my sister for years. It happens every year, almost every day, every second, every minute, every hour, everytime, it's going to be with my everywhere and everytime that I laugh at it now and try not to feel the pain... but I still do the feel the pain. I cry eveytime I think these words my mom told to my sis 'I hope you die!' 'When you die, I will be so happy!' My sis almost got diabetes and my mom told to that 'If you got diabetes and die in the end, I won't care about it all at all.' It hurts me even if it's not about me.... bcoz ik she meant for me too... and not just my sister. She hates us both, never wanted us alive, never cared for us, never truly loved us, never made us feel cared or loved, never made us smile and laugh. Instead make us cry, feel pain, suffer... I laugh so much when she tell tells to me that I am her favourite daughter and she will always love me, I know it's a lie. You think it's fun being the favourite child? No, it is not. It's instead a world of pain and suffering.
Even though my parents never told that to me , I felt it . The feeling when your parents compare you to your friends . I also cry at night when everyone is asleep and wear a smile when I'm in front of others cause faking a smile is easier than explaining what I am feeling and I know that they won't understand. The feeling when you feel like you are not good enough, nobody loves you and feel like you are a worthless , untalented, good for nothing person . A burden to your parents. And you work day and night to make yourself a better daughter, a better student , a better friend but nobody notices it. All they notice is your flaws . That's what happens to me.
That's my life.
@@Shefali_05 it's sad that they think they are being helpful when in reality they are killing us.
@@winterbear2981 If only they undertood that.
@@Shefali_05 yea...
May God give help to you and your sister, I'm so sorry that you have to through it. Here's one more proud that no everyone deserves to be a parent. Every kids deserve to have parents who will love and take care of them, but sadly it's not the case.
Thank you for open up here, always feel free to do it again whenever you feel like you need to.
Lots of love
I never felt jealous of anyone.....but I feel jealous of my classmates how their families are good , supporting them, loving them and many more...
Edit: Reading my comment section , I just realised the fact that many people like me are suffering like me..But don't worry , endure a little more who knows someday all these pain, hurt, tears will go away and u will get happiness.... let's just believe in God and try to live even if it's painful.
It's okay, everything will be better
Is it just me who felt like crying when I read this comment?- Maybe its because its relatable..
literally so true. I only get jealous over people's perfect families
@@j_8857 i'm sorry that you can relate, wishing you the best in the future. take care
@@wazzaaaapshawtyy2929 so sorry for you, i hope it'll get better !
There wasn't an episode where i didn't cry while watching it's okay to not be okay and at a distance spring is green
Same these dramas were amazing and I feel like at a distance spring is green is so underrated
@@nayabiggestyerifan spring is green is so underrated :(
I couldn't watch at a distance spring is green properly cuz it is so realistic and relatable and it triggers me a lot tho I absolutely love it
Where can I watch these dramas ?
@vishaka 498 it’s okay to not be okay is on Netflix, not sure abt the other one :)
"Is so weird that apsolutly random strangers on internet are close to you more then your own family"
- Kind stranger in comments
Sadly that can be true sometimes
True
True
it's true
True. I actually met my best friend over the internet in an amino group. Exchanged numbers in a private chat and now it's close to hitting a whole year of friendship
It's such a shame that me and him live so many counties apart tho
I'm watching it's okay to not be okay and when I saw her laughing after her dad tried to kill her.... Too relatable. It's just idk maybe because we're tired of it?? And we just start to find it funny?? I don't remember how many times I thought I was crazy because I was laughing or smiling just after something bad happened to me...never mind
Btw it's a good edit
i'm sorry that you can relate, i sincerely wish you all the love and that everything will get better ❤️
thank you for staying here even if life is hard for you and particularly unfair, you are so strong.
& tysm
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh no it's not your fault and in between something worst than this happened (I got sexually assaulted) but I will say I'm fine I still laugh and hang out with my friends and I make some people's day better so I guess I'm important :)))
Thanks for your comment it was so sweet and kind! I love you! 💜😊
Same. That one shot was too relatable. I think we laugh because it's the same old shit. We know it's happening to us again. We know we can never escape the trap. Sometimes I feel like I need to feel that pain again (not in a psycho way) but rather to convince myself that im the victim, im the one who suffers. Just a thought tho.
Hm ya 🙂
Hmm shes laughing and crying i think cause you see that tear on the side on her cheek 😔
"It hits hard when your parent compares you with other kids"
Yes
It sucks so much yet my parent won't stop even though its haram to do that, I really want her to realise that I do have something in me
This reminds me of my mom when she is angry. My mom is that she is kind but she just gets aggressive all of a sudden sometimes
So sorry for you, I wish you all the best
Same happens to me and I find it hard to even explain my mom's behaviour to myself. Sometimes she treats me like a damn blessing in her life and then she goes back to treating me like I'm some kind of curse to her. I don't even know what she feels about me for real
@@sista363 Hey, same here
@@nayabiggestyerifan Thanks!!
I'm really sorry for you both
Soojin isn't a bad person, Her depression turned her into a rude person. She had abusive parents and also she lost her love. I feel so bad about her
She had a abusive dad not mom
Mom was fine
@@niyathireddy8891 I think she has problems with her mother, maybe not as much as with her father, but her mother only sees the abuse she receives from her father.
Damn you're making me cry in the middle of the night lol. It's been years but I am still not used to it. I still damn cry. It still fucking hurts. Although he rarely hurts us physically, the emotional and mental pain he causes has ruined me. Actually while I'm typing this comment, painful memories comes back. I remember those countless times that I've thought it's better to die and those attempts to be gone. I hope someday, I'll be free from him. Soon, we'll be free from him. I just need to hold on a little tighter.
For those who have been experiencing any kind of abuse, hold on. Someday, they won't be able to hurt us. We will be free. We will be happy and safe. Stay there, it'll happen soon. For those who have been experiencing emotional abuse, we see your pain. That pain you've been feeling is valid. You don't deserve those hurtful words. Don't believe on his/her words. Be patient.
Thank you so much for these positives words, i'm sure it'll help a lot
Omg I really felt that
I have stepdad and he has daughter with my mom but he hates me. They're couple for 9yrs and I am going crazy he is really emotionally abusive and I feel like that my dad will love me more but he was drug addicted so he cant take me to his care
But my stepdad is the wrost ,manipulative ,abusive and angry person and I wanted to common suicide 😢 Thank you for reading my comment I feel with you. And thanks for comfort words
💖
I have just turned 18 this year and truly it's fvcking over...no more abused mentally and physically. Hold on a little bit more one day everything will be alright, just do not give up.
I love this. I am proof that if you hold on longer you will make it. You will be happy and free, regardless of what they try to do. You've got this. I love you and I believe in you💜
when you lose emotion, their words dont hurt.
their pain makes you smile, and thats about it. you dont care, at all.
your face is solid, you've been hurt so much to ever show a reaction
to whatever one says.
Explains my car condition so perfectly!
@@noobde_da_channel LMAOOOOO
I hate seeing these types of videos tbh, they hit too close to him, watching It's Okay To Not Be Okay was a pain itself cuz my parents used to think of me as this perfect child til I was young, and now they see me as a psychopath, good for nothing and all that, and I know they think that cuz they've said it to my face, and oh, if I even dare to speak back, I get hit, but I still will, cuz I'm not gonna take bullshit, even from my parents.
I've done self harm many many times because of them, spent so many nights crying and on the bathroom, not even being able to cry out loud cuz then they'll just yell at me again and hit me saying "what will the neighbors think? Shut up, you attention seeker"
Everything used to be so happy and good, I just don't know what went wrong and where, I've tried taking my life and been suicidal for the longest time not only because of my parents, but other stuff too.
Now I'm diagnosed with severe clinical depression from one of my friends who's a doctor but I can't even tell my parents or somehow get the medication required cuz then I'll probably just be hit and yelled at again, or just thrown out of the house
I'm just hoping I can move out of here soon, I hate it here :]
Hey don't worry we are here for you never consider yourself as a psychopath . No matter what happens love yourself and don't worry we are here tell us your stories and let out your pain
Don't you ever think of taking your life
Yeah dumbo if you don't love your life who will and I can understand I know it hurts so bad . But don't worry buddy whenever you feel sad or angry just comment on this and I will keep responding kay 😊 I wish I was there to console you be with you but don't worry you are a good person and that never changes never let those things change you ❤ always fight for yourself and I know you can
Hi, I'm really really sorry to know that
Whenever you need to express your feelings, feel free to share them here, i'll always be here trying to comfort you
I'm so sorry for you
I'm sorry for me that i can relate. But let's try to look at from another angle!
Psychopaths r SO FREAKING HOT!!! WE BOTH R HOT AF😌😌😌
Hi, I'm so Called Weirdo, Psycho, and the living aimlessly
Seeing this after being beaten up by my own parents everyday and mistreated and humiliated every single moment by friends and other people makes me cry. Good to know that I am not alone bearing all this s**ts. Wish one day we all will get out of this.
After reading some of the comments and rewatching this i almost started crying for how many people relate… some people should understand that this isn’t ‘normal’… fortunately i have the best parents ever that never ever hit me… i am so sorry for the millions of people that can’t relate to my example… and the phrase ‘every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves children’ will stay with me forever
Ikr omg that's really makes me so sad, I didn't thought that so many ppl could relate to this when I made this FMV
@@nayabiggestyerifan ikr
@@sadiyaawan1681 thank you so much! I hope you the best! Hope you are okay!
When u can relate to this.
Sometimes I wanna die but I can't cause I have some dreams to achieve.
Don't feel alone we both are same
And you are not the only one "the best comment ever "
I'm asian with asian parents but I never got abused that's because my parents were abused when they were young and they felt the pain that's why they never hurt me. But seeing other asian kids get hurt makes me cry I feel very sorry for you all. Just don't let other people control your life and remember we all love you you are loved and your life is precious ! Don't give up !
Then, you are bron with the biggest luck 🥲✨
0:54
She is still lucky.Her father didn't hit her when she cried...
My mother didn't even stop hitting me when I cry.....
"Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the worst kind of poverty."
- Mother Teresa
this just made me feel grateful for my parents-
i love em sm
Same
Not to sound rude or anything but why would you say such thing on a video like this it was completely unnecessary
@@scarlett5591 It's not unnecessary though...?
My parents are extremely passive-aggressive. They never let me have one good day. The best times of my life were away from them. Honestly, I wouldn't care too much if they died. They always make me feel bad about myself. I'm pretty sure I've been through self-hatred and depression. But they don't care. They just yell at me for everything without trying to understand me first.
But worst of all...
They make fun of me for feeling sad, angry, or numb. They make fun of me in a humiliating way and expect me to take it as a joke.
I have a strong sense of anger which never seems to go away.
Also, This song perfectly describes our relationship from my pov.
I'm so sorry to hear that u have to go through this much. I somethimes talk to myslef when im in my room and my family makes fun of me not knowing why i talk to myself(cuz i don't have anyone to talk to) im 17 now and still going through depression and anxiety and my family just makes fun of me. I'm still suffering. I'm just waiting till im 18 so i can leave this place and honestly i won't care even if they die. They just made me hate them this much. I honestly don't hate them that much but hate myself for not hating them.
@@mlfmpov7428 IKR!! I can't wait to get away from them too. For me things are getting better since I made new and meaningful friends and my physical school started. I think that when a big change happens, then your life will get better, or worse, depending on what your experience and choices are. I think that my life changed for good because I had been through too much already. My parents still make me sad, but I should less time with them due to school. Your life will also change. You're almost 18 and that's good. You can make your own decisions, maybe move out, go to college etc. Trust me, if you've been through a lot at a young age, things will only get better as you grow.
@@who_xyz thanks alot i appreciate it alot... and im happy to know that ur life is getting better now...im planning on keeping morning shift at my college as i just gave my last year of highschool exams... ill also start working a part time job just so i can stay away from them as much as i can
Same with me😔
You're so me at times. (a lot of times, actually)
I can relate to these drama , I have really abusive parents, I am the middle child, and told as adopted, my mother and father used to hit me when I was 6 and now am 23 , I really feel embarrass going school with scars on my face to school,
Everyone used to laugh on me , nobody had pity on me, even my teacher used to make fun of me , what the fuck I just did wrong? I hope I never born or they never adopted me!
Just wanted to die on 2018, but got saved anyway
My mother always yell at me on small things, I am jealous seeing other parents being so happy/enjoyable with their kids!
Am so depressed, they compare me Always, says that my sister is really good at Studies, and she will achieve her dreams!
When I grew I left Everything even I left my house and Started living out of our country now am in ukrain ! I have loving life without my parents and never wanting to contact them again!
And still some scars on my face but reminds me of those toxic parents!
OML-naya I know I haven’t commented for a while, but this fmv just blew my mind! One of my favourites from all the fmv’s on earth
Ohh don't worry about it Avy! Thank you so much omg
@@nayabiggestyerifan your welcome!
Being grown in such type of family I experience this everyday and idk why I'm still alive when my own parents make me feel shit every single day, getting abused everyday, growing in a traumatizing environment, flinching on small small things. I just don't know how I'm still alive. Hope y'all have good day. Just came here to lighten my heart. Thanks for reading this.
You're a strong man/women!💕💕
Was that the reason I finch alot like for even stupidest shit now it makes sense 🙂
@@Krishna-lg1je You're strong bestie
@@niaxae thankyou I really wanted to hear that 🥺
@@Krishna-lg1je :) I love you 💕 I wish I could hug you rn
Be honest...many of us are being abused by our parents but mentally....
They don't hurt us physically but kills us by their talks...; (
😥so correct 😫
There comes a time when you get tired of trying to please them, trying to make them happy, trying to prove yourself to them and you just give up because no matter what you can never be what they expect you to be 💔
I can't remeber who said it but I really felt it, "every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child"
Sometimes it feel like my Mother only love me because of my grades
Aww I'm so sorry for u sweetie always feel free to talk here
U must b Indian then, ig
ada O I'm Vietnamese
At a distance spring is green is so freaking underrated, I wanna scream. Like the main lead's struggles with his parents and the bromance of him and second lead. The rom com side of this drama is also good. I don't know why no one talks about that drama. I wanna binge rewatch it because I watched it when it was ongoing.
IKR!!! literally ones of my faves dramas the plot is amazing as well as the actors
It's been on my watchlist for years it feels like, I should watch it soon
It's so beautiful 😭
No fr.
No one deserves to be treated like this, not even by the parents.....no one is perfect but everyone is special
to every stranger out there, "YOU ARE PERFECT, YOU ARE WORTH IT! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, IT'S ONLY YOU THAT YOU SHOULD LOVE FIRST"
I never cry in front of my abusive family ... yesterday i was controlling my tears ..... today my mom said "kiske gam mea roo rhi thi " ☠️ .... she just beat me .
.. just because i said .... i Can't you guys be silent when I'm studying ...
How many parents have told thier kids i wish you weren't born...i wonder
That's really sad :(
Same thoughts here!!! And how could them all without exception say the same hellish words!!!!
My parents always said that Me since 6th grade and when I was in 4th grade they'd keep reminding me that they would've saved alot of money if I was dead they would always favour my younger siblings and make them hate me I remember in my sisters last birthday she wished that I never existed ... Me too
@@Optimisticnihilistic9999 omg, i'm so sorry that they can't realize how precious you are. i hope you'll realise it yourself some day ❤️
you deserve to be happy, respected and loved don't ever doubt that
@@nayabiggestyerifan thank you so much ❤️
Parents: I wish I never had child like you
Me : I didn't ask you guys to birth me and then torture me for not being your expectation
When I was younger I was beat up a lot by my father, I tried to reason with myself and become better behaved but it never changed anything.He has stopped doing things like this now and only has a few outbursts here and there but he still makes me feel very uncomfortable.
Omg I'm so sorry that you had to through it, wish you the best
I don't crave anything in my life other than my parents love and support....all they want is just good marks and if I am not able to achieve that they make me feel worthless.....I can totally relate to and understand what feels like being in the shoes of the girl from true beauty
Same
The fact that Soojin is hated by most. Nobody notices her consequences. What she did was wrong but if she was helped before she would've never done that. She needed genuine love which she got from no one. I feel bad for all those who are considered as bad just because their consequences made them like that.! They deserve better. They're so strong. And whoever here is dealing with such hard consequences, I love you. Feel free to express yourself here y'all.💕
Exactly! People complain about her being bad, but they never tried to understand what make her like this. She wasn't a bad person, but she get hurt and nobody was here to help her. From that we can't complain about her doing bad actions when it was only the logics consequences or what she had through. Your comment sounds so right,and i hope that all the people who can relate to her will become happier
@@nayabiggestyerifan I wish everyone understood this like you do.. 💕
It's my dream, my aim, my goal to become a business woman but my parents are forcing me to become a doctor ... I'm fighting alone......
Currently it's 3 a.m. and I am watching this and thinking how relateble it is as just few hours ago my mom told me that I am big headache for her and she would just push me from the rooftop.
Every kid deserves parents , but not every parent deserves a kid. But thank to God for giving me such a wonderful and loving mother, she is like heaven poured in a human mold (touch wood).
Yes, we really should be thankful to have good parents! It break my heart to see how many kids are suffering of abusing parents, thank you for the positivity in your comment ❤️❤️
May God give your mom and you a happy and long life
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh my god thank you so much you made my day and you too♥️♥️
@@GarlickBraid you're welcome, anytime! And thank you so much 💗
I feel jealousy
My parents mentally and physically abuse me , this video helped me realize that I'm not the only one who feels that way.
Imagine hating yourself just because your parents made you feel yourself a piece of trash😅
😊
Watching this makes me thank god for giving me good parents, and my parents for raising me well...i feel so bad for all of these characters, and of course even the kids who are going through this in REAL LIFE, like that shit is so scary...sending love to you guys.
take care of your parents ❤️❤️❤️
Kdramas showed the real pain of abusive household and toxic society...
Eh why am I crying...
Why does this feel suffocating
Specially the true beauty scenes
I-
I can’t deny my father is just like king su Jin’s
I can’t stop crying
How do you stop these
To all the people who have normal parents (aka unconditionally loving and supportive) how does it feel to have them? I mean like I wanna know how it feels
to the person who reads this: abuse is NOT normal. If you are subjected to abusive attitude, or you have had such an experience, I am sorry to the point of pain in my heart. You don't deserve to go through this, and I will hope that your happy days are going into a long life that will fill you with the strength to live. Just live. You deserve all the love on this earth and beyond, you will cope with everything, I believe in you!
This shows kdramas aren't just bout romance or love triangle.. they represent real trauma or teens..
I literally feel so bad for ppl who go through this, like I’m reading all the comments and freaking crying so bad….this shit really hurts, y’all don’t deserve this.
I see myself in the character of soojin the way she doesn't show it to anyone and always laughs and is stron but the fact she is being abused mentally and physically both at home is like my story but the difference is that somehow I manage to think abt good even when the life is being miserable with me
It's weird sometimes to think that there are people who didnt go through this,at some point each of us that did learned to cope with it in our own ways and make the abuser feel accomplished faster so it would be over faster and i personally think the actors did great in showing this.
It's sad that I can relate to this. My family has been psychically and emotionally @busive to not just me, but my siblings as well. We have no way out. We just hope things get better. :c
You'll get better,don't worry
It will be okay one day:) Jesus will give you a way out:) I love you, take care