Hey guys, just a reminder that while what we went through was horrible and completely wrong....and while it never should have happened, that doesn't mean that you can't turn it to something good. My traumas and abuse from childhood still hurt like hell sometimes, but it gets better I promise . I've wanted to die so badly before too, but I am at the point where every day I am so thankful I never did. Life is beautiful. No matter how ugly it can be at times, the beauty remains, hidden in the small things, and I think that itself is beautiful. You have to pay attention and be thankful for those moments of beauty everyday. You are beauty, the fact that you are living and breathing right now is beautiful....after everything you have gone through and after how horribly you have been treated. And even though all of our stories are different, we can be the same. We can heal our traumas and be the kind of parents, siblings, or friends that we never had growing up...we can stop the cycle, and while that task can seem overwhelming and heartbreaking at times, I hope you see the beauty in it. That is so cool. That you, yes you, have the power to overcome hate with love and make a ripple effect in peoples lives...not just that, but the world. It really is a cycle, and what you do matters. So please please please, love yourself, that is a whole other subject I could preach on, but please...it it the least you deserve. Breathe....it will be okay...the darker your past is, the brighter your future is, and stay here...stay alive....I promise your future self will be proud and thankful, even if it takes a long time to get there. It will be worth it all. I love you random stranger, and you are worthy of being loved correctly even if you aren't being treated like that right now. Set boundaries, and leave toxic situations and relationships. Heal yourself before looking for others to fill your emptiness. And remember you can't love others until you love yourself. I love you and if no one has told you today, I am proud of you, you are loved, you are lovable, you are worthy of being loved, you are strong, you are brave, and you will get through this. If you can't stay alive or heal for yourself, then do it for me, because even as a stranger, my life is sadder without you. The world is sadder without you.
@@titanofsaturn6234 I'm glad someone in need got to hear it. You alone are worth the time it took to make that comment. I wish you the best in life. If you ever get to the point where you think no one cares, remember me. I am rooting for you. Always.❤
If you think about it, the most f-ed up ones in Penthouse had abusive upbringings and that was passed on to their kids, specifically Eun Byol, her mother Seo Jin, the twins and their father Joo Dan Tae as well.
My dad beat me as a kid, and sometimes I thought death was better than his abuse. This is an accurate representation of forms of abuse people go through, thank you
I'm really sorry for you, sorry that you had to through it all Not a single kid deserve this sort of treatment, wish you all the love in the world because you deserve it
my own mother told me "i wish you were never born" and beats me,abusing me physically and emotionally, so watching this video did make me cry but atleast this video explains my emotions while i try to comprehend them :)
You're strong I wish I could hug you rn but I can't One day u will be strong and God will u give you the reward! (ignore the god part if you're an atheist)! Love you 💕💕
I really hope to it okay if it gets worse talk to someone and this might be far but sometimes child services is needed I am sorry she does that I hope you know your not alone and your strong 💖💕
My mom also say it to many times that she wish I was never born Or i should die! She also swear me a lot But she says it when she is angry! But she also cares for me! I don't know is she abusive or good parent!
I feel bad for the people who have toxic parents Edit: I read my comment section and I feel so bad for you yall you don’t deserve to go through all of that
Whenever I listen to this song it always reminds me of my mom She wanted to give me up for adoption because I was brown skinned and fat and biggest part I was born in India and my mom would always told me to not play outside or I'll be more dark skinned and do not eat so much food because I was a girl and no one would marry me K-pop, K-Drama and Anime has big role in my life, it helped me to get out of DEPRESSION but People didn't believed me Only I know how much I've been through my life
Hey its ok many people go through this I want u to aim for ur future try hard to acheive it.....ik life is hard but everyone faces it, the one who beats it would succeed....my life is hard too I have thought many times to end it but I can't becuz ik I can achieve my dreams and my life has more meaning than this...my parents are not supportive I have family problems and I want to show life I can do what I like.....I wish u the best and if a person doesn't want to marry u becuz ur brown and dark? Then he/she is not the one for u......again I wish u the best for ur future and wish me luck....💜
Bro it's so hard I'm trying not to cry because my parents could barge in and they would see me crying and they would kill me but out of all the things the most related to me I the suicide attempt I tried it twice at the ages of 6 and 7
Maybe in the nxt life we can get this..... but this proves that we will end up being good parents becuz of the suffer we had , we will not let our children face this. Everything will b okay.🤎
When I watched that moment with word "die." I started to cry. Because my dad said it to me too. He said that he wanted to kill me. How it hurts. I just can't forget these words.
I can’t imagine how bad you must have felt.. I don’t even know what to say. How dare he say that to u. I’m so sorry you had to go through something like that. Please stay strong you must prove him wrong. ❤️
no matter what your dad said, you should know that you do deserve to be happy and you deserve to be alive and to be loved and appreciated. don‘t forget that you matter, stay strong
2:36 when she started laughing, I felt her and understood her. Now when my parents scream at me, tell me I am worthless and not smart, my friends are better than me, I am a regret in life, I am bad luck. I laugh it at it, I feel it funny because it has been happening to me and my sister for years. It happens every year, almost every day, every second, every minute, every hour, everytime, it's going to be with my everywhere and everytime that I laugh at it now and try not to feel the pain... but I still do the feel the pain. I cry eveytime I think these words my mom told to my sis 'I hope you die!' 'When you die, I will be so happy!' My sis almost got diabetes and my mom told to that 'If you got diabetes and die in the end, I won't care about it all at all.' It hurts me even if it's not about me.... bcoz ik she meant for me too... and not just my sister. She hates us both, never wanted us alive, never cared for us, never truly loved us, never made us feel cared or loved, never made us smile and laugh. Instead make us cry, feel pain, suffer... I laugh so much when she tell tells to me that I am her favourite daughter and she will always love me, I know it's a lie. You think it's fun being the favourite child? No, it is not. It's instead a world of pain and suffering.
Even though my parents never told that to me , I felt it . The feeling when your parents compare you to your friends . I also cry at night when everyone is asleep and wear a smile when I'm in front of others cause faking a smile is easier than explaining what I am feeling and I know that they won't understand. The feeling when you feel like you are not good enough, nobody loves you and feel like you are a worthless , untalented, good for nothing person . A burden to your parents. And you work day and night to make yourself a better daughter, a better student , a better friend but nobody notices it. All they notice is your flaws . That's what happens to me. That's my life.
May God give help to you and your sister, I'm so sorry that you have to through it. Here's one more proud that no everyone deserves to be a parent. Every kids deserve to have parents who will love and take care of them, but sadly it's not the case. Thank you for open up here, always feel free to do it again whenever you feel like you need to. Lots of love
When you're an Asian, you often don't realise that you are a victim of abuse not only mentally but also physically because it's never okay to beat up a child for good results and threaten them And if this victims of abuse become parents without getting proper help they only pass on generational abuse and trauma, and we become to our children what our parents are to us, so get help, go seek therapy, it's the best thing you can do to yourself even if you think you had a good childhood and were not a victim in anyway. Be a good parent to your inner child first, treat yourself with patience, kindness and goodness that your parents were supposed to, after you have healed your inner child, be good parents to your children if you have any
This is really right, i absolutely respect that, and agree, but, let me just say that not only asians get treated this way... Everyone can, no matter of race, age, etc. It is honestly so sad, let's just stay strong, all of us, even if it's hard, we need to still go on. Also ily
when you lose emotion, their words dont hurt. their pain makes you smile, and thats about it. you dont care, at all. your face is solid, you've been hurt so much to ever show a reaction to whatever one says.
Listen to this is really giving me anxiety because of how relatable this is... My mom is sleeping next to me,it's just the two of us in our house(my dad lives abroad and my older sister just got married) The verbal abuse,emotional abuse (sometimes even physical abuse) it's never ending..I just want to go out alone and without hijab my STRICT asian muslim parents are like NOPE....I still remember that I just wanted to go to school without hijab once (i was in 6th grade) and my mom.....yes my mom called me shameless for wanting that....I am 15 now I literally lost my childhood because of their strictness.....I swear to god that i am not saying this for clout but i literally self harm and tried to commit suicide......twice. My mom screams at me whole day and worships my sister she says in my face that "she(my sister) is my ideal daughter" ect ect....i asked one day "then what about me?" She said........"youuuuu are useless" when in fact i do all the household work including cooking (again I am 15 btw my sister is 25)... She (my sister) recently came to visit us and my mom literally forgot i exist screamed at me,called me names when i swear i didn't do anything.. And i am not even allowed to feel anything my sister expects me to stay all smiley and happy when it's killing me inside 'She is you mother,she is your mother,she is your mother' i didn't ask her to be my mother... They made me hate the word 'family'. Edit: 9th march.They even forgot my birthday..yes both mom and dad. :)
I'm really sorry for u..i dunno to put this in words but i really hope ur fam n u will get hidayah from Allah swt... always ask Allah to soften ur mom heart n hope she will see u as a human being aka as someone who has heart...take care lil sis..if u're feeling the urge to harm urself.. listen to surah ar rahman( study the meaning).. InsyaAllah things will get better..i will always pray for u...i love u for still breathing in this world..for still smiling..for still have courage to write ur story here..n last but not least...for everything u have done..lots of love
@@anzhar6344 Don't know how to thank you enough for what you wrote to me that is the nicest Thing someone has said or done for me. I will definitely consider all the things you said :) May Allah bless you as well..I will also pray for you...Thank you..thank you sooooo much... :)
I never felt jealous of anyone.....but I feel jealous of my classmates how their families are good , supporting them, loving them and many more... Edit: Reading my comment section , I just realised the fact that many people like me are suffering like me..But don't worry , endure a little more who knows someday all these pain, hurt, tears will go away and u will get happiness.... let's just believe in God and try to live even if it's painful.
Seeing this after being beaten up by my own parents everyday and mistreated and humiliated every single moment by friends and other people makes me cry. Good to know that I am not alone bearing all this s**ts. Wish one day we all will get out of this.
After reading some of the comments and rewatching this i almost started crying for how many people relate… some people should understand that this isn’t ‘normal’… fortunately i have the best parents ever that never ever hit me… i am so sorry for the millions of people that can’t relate to my example… and the phrase ‘every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves children’ will stay with me forever
No one deserves to be treated like this, not even by the parents.....no one is perfect but everyone is special to every stranger out there, "YOU ARE PERFECT, YOU ARE WORTH IT! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, IT'S ONLY YOU THAT YOU SHOULD LOVE FIRST"
I'm asian with asian parents but I never got abused that's because my parents were abused when they were young and they felt the pain that's why they never hurt me. But seeing other asian kids get hurt makes me cry I feel very sorry for you all. Just don't let other people control your life and remember we all love you you are loved and your life is precious ! Don't give up !
Being grown in such type of family I experience this everyday and idk why I'm still alive when my own parents make me feel shit every single day, getting abused everyday, growing in a traumatizing environment, flinching on small small things. I just don't know how I'm still alive. Hope y'all have good day. Just came here to lighten my heart. Thanks for reading this.
True. I actually met my best friend over the internet in an amino group. Exchanged numbers in a private chat and now it's close to hitting a whole year of friendship It's such a shame that me and him live so many counties apart tho
Same happens to me and I find it hard to even explain my mom's behaviour to myself. Sometimes she treats me like a damn blessing in her life and then she goes back to treating me like I'm some kind of curse to her. I don't even know what she feels about me for real
I felt a tear rolling down my right cheek by the end of this video. I pray for everyone's safety and acknowledgement of their own worth. Please know you are valued by someone. Hold on.
I'm watching it's okay to not be okay and when I saw her laughing after her dad tried to kill her.... Too relatable. It's just idk maybe because we're tired of it?? And we just start to find it funny?? I don't remember how many times I thought I was crazy because I was laughing or smiling just after something bad happened to me...never mind Btw it's a good edit
i'm sorry that you can relate, i sincerely wish you all the love and that everything will get better ❤️ thank you for staying here even if life is hard for you and particularly unfair, you are so strong. & tysm
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh no it's not your fault and in between something worst than this happened (I got sexually assaulted) but I will say I'm fine I still laugh and hang out with my friends and I make some people's day better so I guess I'm important :))) Thanks for your comment it was so sweet and kind! I love you! 💜😊
Same. That one shot was too relatable. I think we laugh because it's the same old shit. We know it's happening to us again. We know we can never escape the trap. Sometimes I feel like I need to feel that pain again (not in a psycho way) but rather to convince myself that im the victim, im the one who suffers. Just a thought tho.
There comes a time when you get tired of trying to please them, trying to make them happy, trying to prove yourself to them and you just give up because no matter what you can never be what they expect you to be 💔
@@niyathireddy8891 I think she has problems with her mother, maybe not as much as with her father, but her mother only sees the abuse she receives from her father.
At a distance spring is green is so freaking underrated, I wanna scream. Like the main lead's struggles with his parents and the bromance of him and second lead. The rom com side of this drama is also good. I don't know why no one talks about that drama. I wanna binge rewatch it because I watched it when it was ongoing.
Every kid deserves parents , but not every parent deserves a kid. But thank to God for giving me such a wonderful and loving mother, she is like heaven poured in a human mold (touch wood).
Yes, we really should be thankful to have good parents! It break my heart to see how many kids are suffering of abusing parents, thank you for the positivity in your comment ❤️❤️ May God give your mom and you a happy and long life
Damn you're making me cry in the middle of the night lol. It's been years but I am still not used to it. I still damn cry. It still fucking hurts. Although he rarely hurts us physically, the emotional and mental pain he causes has ruined me. Actually while I'm typing this comment, painful memories comes back. I remember those countless times that I've thought it's better to die and those attempts to be gone. I hope someday, I'll be free from him. Soon, we'll be free from him. I just need to hold on a little tighter. For those who have been experiencing any kind of abuse, hold on. Someday, they won't be able to hurt us. We will be free. We will be happy and safe. Stay there, it'll happen soon. For those who have been experiencing emotional abuse, we see your pain. That pain you've been feeling is valid. You don't deserve those hurtful words. Don't believe on his/her words. Be patient.
Omg I really felt that I have stepdad and he has daughter with my mom but he hates me. They're couple for 9yrs and I am going crazy he is really emotionally abusive and I feel like that my dad will love me more but he was drug addicted so he cant take me to his care But my stepdad is the wrost ,manipulative ,abusive and angry person and I wanted to common suicide 😢 Thank you for reading my comment I feel with you. And thanks for comfort words
I have just turned 18 this year and truly it's fvcking over...no more abused mentally and physically. Hold on a little bit more one day everything will be alright, just do not give up.
I love this. I am proof that if you hold on longer you will make it. You will be happy and free, regardless of what they try to do. You've got this. I love you and I believe in you💜
I hate seeing these types of videos tbh, they hit too close to him, watching It's Okay To Not Be Okay was a pain itself cuz my parents used to think of me as this perfect child til I was young, and now they see me as a psychopath, good for nothing and all that, and I know they think that cuz they've said it to my face, and oh, if I even dare to speak back, I get hit, but I still will, cuz I'm not gonna take bullshit, even from my parents. I've done self harm many many times because of them, spent so many nights crying and on the bathroom, not even being able to cry out loud cuz then they'll just yell at me again and hit me saying "what will the neighbors think? Shut up, you attention seeker" Everything used to be so happy and good, I just don't know what went wrong and where, I've tried taking my life and been suicidal for the longest time not only because of my parents, but other stuff too. Now I'm diagnosed with severe clinical depression from one of my friends who's a doctor but I can't even tell my parents or somehow get the medication required cuz then I'll probably just be hit and yelled at again, or just thrown out of the house I'm just hoping I can move out of here soon, I hate it here :]
Hey don't worry we are here for you never consider yourself as a psychopath . No matter what happens love yourself and don't worry we are here tell us your stories and let out your pain
Yeah dumbo if you don't love your life who will and I can understand I know it hurts so bad . But don't worry buddy whenever you feel sad or angry just comment on this and I will keep responding kay 😊 I wish I was there to console you be with you but don't worry you are a good person and that never changes never let those things change you ❤ always fight for yourself and I know you can
Hi, I'm really really sorry to know that Whenever you need to express your feelings, feel free to share them here, i'll always be here trying to comfort you
I'm so sorry for you I'm sorry for me that i can relate. But let's try to look at from another angle! Psychopaths r SO FREAKING HOT!!! WE BOTH R HOT AF😌😌😌 Hi, I'm so Called Weirdo, Psycho, and the living aimlessly
I also suffered from this state . My dad was an alcoholic and my mom dead when I was 15 bcz of depression . My dad's mistress used to hurt for entertainment and one day I stand against her so she throw me out for the house at the age of 17 . I called my childhood best friend and tell him whats happening so he told me to stay with him and I agreed . Now everything is fine I'm in relation ship with my best friend from 2 year hehehe I love him Edit : if u read that much that's for 🎉🎉
My parents are extremely passive-aggressive. They never let me have one good day. The best times of my life were away from them. Honestly, I wouldn't care too much if they died. They always make me feel bad about myself. I'm pretty sure I've been through self-hatred and depression. But they don't care. They just yell at me for everything without trying to understand me first. But worst of all... They make fun of me for feeling sad, angry, or numb. They make fun of me in a humiliating way and expect me to take it as a joke. I have a strong sense of anger which never seems to go away. Also, This song perfectly describes our relationship from my pov.
I'm so sorry to hear that u have to go through this much. I somethimes talk to myslef when im in my room and my family makes fun of me not knowing why i talk to myself(cuz i don't have anyone to talk to) im 17 now and still going through depression and anxiety and my family just makes fun of me. I'm still suffering. I'm just waiting till im 18 so i can leave this place and honestly i won't care even if they die. They just made me hate them this much. I honestly don't hate them that much but hate myself for not hating them.
@@mlfmpov7428 IKR!! I can't wait to get away from them too. For me things are getting better since I made new and meaningful friends and my physical school started. I think that when a big change happens, then your life will get better, or worse, depending on what your experience and choices are. I think that my life changed for good because I had been through too much already. My parents still make me sad, but I should less time with them due to school. Your life will also change. You're almost 18 and that's good. You can make your own decisions, maybe move out, go to college etc. Trust me, if you've been through a lot at a young age, things will only get better as you grow.
@@who_xyz thanks alot i appreciate it alot... and im happy to know that ur life is getting better now...im planning on keeping morning shift at my college as i just gave my last year of highschool exams... ill also start working a part time job just so i can stay away from them as much as i can
Watching this makes me thank god for giving me good parents, and my parents for raising me well...i feel so bad for all of these characters, and of course even the kids who are going through this in REAL LIFE, like that shit is so scary...sending love to you guys.
It's weird sometimes to think that there are people who didnt go through this,at some point each of us that did learned to cope with it in our own ways and make the abuser feel accomplished faster so it would be over faster and i personally think the actors did great in showing this.
to the person who reads this: abuse is NOT normal. If you are subjected to abusive attitude, or you have had such an experience, I am sorry to the point of pain in my heart. You don't deserve to go through this, and I will hope that your happy days are going into a long life that will fill you with the strength to live. Just live. You deserve all the love on this earth and beyond, you will cope with everything, I believe in you!
The small parts where you added the audios of the characters just makes it more realistic. And for anyone ANYONE who relates to this, You never walk alone, you'll get through it. Fighting ~ !! ❤
The fact that these are just characters and we're feeling bad for them, but all this shit happens to real people irl too, people like me go through this shit all day, so yeah i find these characters and their stories extremely relatable :(
I literally feel so bad for ppl who go through this, like I’m reading all the comments and freaking crying so bad….this shit really hurts, y’all don’t deserve this.
I agree! Even though it was written about an ex-lover, it's perfect to describe dysfunctional families as well. I made a video to this song about Yeo Jin Goo's character in Beyond Evil, because his relationship with his father matches every song lyric almost perfectly! I hope you enjoy it!
When I was younger I was beat up a lot by my father, I tried to reason with myself and become better behaved but it never changed anything.He has stopped doing things like this now and only has a few outbursts here and there but he still makes me feel very uncomfortable.
I see myself in the character of soojin the way she doesn't show it to anyone and always laughs and is stron but the fact she is being abused mentally and physically both at home is like my story but the difference is that somehow I manage to think abt good even when the life is being miserable with me
I don't crave anything in my life other than my parents love and support....all they want is just good marks and if I am not able to achieve that they make me feel worthless.....I can totally relate to and understand what feels like being in the shoes of the girl from true beauty
it's hard you know when your parents are abusive, it's one step ahead to when your extended family also blames you and labels you. you don't even expect support but they go out of their way to comment on your life. when you wished nothing but goodness for them. damn it's getting harder out here. Sartre was right when he said hell is other people.
I can relate to these drama , I have really abusive parents, I am the middle child, and told as adopted, my mother and father used to hit me when I was 6 and now am 23 , I really feel embarrass going school with scars on my face to school, Everyone used to laugh on me , nobody had pity on me, even my teacher used to make fun of me , what the fuck I just did wrong? I hope I never born or they never adopted me! Just wanted to die on 2018, but got saved anyway My mother always yell at me on small things, I am jealous seeing other parents being so happy/enjoyable with their kids! Am so depressed, they compare me Always, says that my sister is really good at Studies, and she will achieve her dreams! When I grew I left Everything even I left my house and Started living out of our country now am in ukrain ! I have loving life without my parents and never wanting to contact them again! And still some scars on my face but reminds me of those toxic parents!
This is the song I turn to everytime I realize how bad the relationship between me and my father is and i'm so glad it was used in an abusive parent multifandom
People doesn't know what is truly emotion in our inside, i still believe that there still good listener and will comfort you. Maybe we doesn't know each other, but we still know how the others feel....
I never cry in front of my abusive family ... yesterday i was controlling my tears ..... today my mom said "kiske gam mea roo rhi thi " ☠️ .... she just beat me . .. just because i said .... i Can't you guys be silent when I'm studying ...
I been experiencing 50% this and tears was flowing from my eyes my family literally made me hate my self but i am grateful that they feed me send me school and buy me stuffs
You know , parents usually beat u up and then when u actually get the courage to talk about it to someone , they say "it's for your own good". Abusing kids is not for their good.
I wish i could escape from all these traumatizing events and people,sometimes strangers understand us better than people we know, i just want to live my life in peace, i dnt understand why only few of us have to suffer from this..whoever is reading this i wish ur life full of happiness n peace u deserve! Ur not alone..stay strong! Just know that no storm remains forever in our life..
My parents always said that Me since 6th grade and when I was in 4th grade they'd keep reminding me that they would've saved alot of money if I was dead they would always favour my younger siblings and make them hate me I remember in my sisters last birthday she wished that I never existed ... Me too
@@Optimisticnihilistic9999 omg, i'm so sorry that they can't realize how precious you are. i hope you'll realise it yourself some day ❤️ you deserve to be happy, respected and loved don't ever doubt that
My mom doesn't hurt me physically but she hurt me mentally a lot. Even she said that I shouldn't have born. So now I am study hard so that I can live my own life. I will never threat her bad. I will give her everything. But my heart is broken. Now no one can fix it. Since I don't have a dad I don't think even other men can love me. All of them are same. Selfish and only think about their self. I am grateful my mom choose to grow me up. But she says she regard it and what happened if she let me go. And always says to leave her alone. She doesn't know how I feel. I am crying in the bathroom. I don't have any close friends. So I thought to write like this and revile my tension. Thank you for reading this. Hope everyone in this world should live a happy and beautiful life.
You know physical abuse is better than mental abuses!! That's exactly what happens to me and alot of people in this world!! Coz of that we feel like we lose ourselves, all alone in this world, feeling so numb... It hurts more when it's our own family is the one who sees us useless!! Not knowing or understanding what we feel!!
ngl, Self love is one hell of a good thing that's keeping me alive in a toxic and abusive house ... Whoever reading this, please love yourself. I understand how hard it is nd will be for you, but hold on to yourself. Only you can love you better ❤
While reading all these comments tears are falling down my eyes I wish I could give a tight hug to everyone of you'll I hope you'll are safe💘 be happy ...
I can feel how rudely treated by my own family and it hurts so much that even after growing up the memories never go away, It's too hard to express this the pain I feel really kills mentally :,)
This chat box just breaks my heart that so many people go through this I personally don't go through it that much but sometimes I feel like I'm just loved for my grades but then i realise not (i guess)
Its ok, it feels really bad when our parents tell something that really hurts. I always feel jealousy when my friends parents treat them like a prince's and im here who don't deserve this parents. It really hurts😭
Let me tell you something.... there's no difference between my life and ko mun yeong's life, both of us mothers are relatable, fathers are relatable, situations are relatable too. And I'm here waiting for someone like Moon Gang tae...😞😞
I can relate to this. My childhood is just a mess. My parents are very strict, they never let me do anything i want, they always try to control me, i am never allowed to go out, all they allow me is to go to school, but i wanted to play and enjoy like other girls too, i always wanted to go out and play with my friends, one day while my mom was not at home, i went to my neighbours house [my classmate] to play volleyball because i really liked playing it but the next day she knew that i went to my friends house to play and then she scolded me and said that she will break my legs if next time i again go somewhere, she said i was turning into a bad girl, like c'mon just going to friends house for playing will not make me a bad girl, and also they always force me to study every single day and always compare be with everyone, i never go to my friends house nor i invite any of them in my house because am afraid that my mom will scold me or beat me infront of them, there are many a times when i thought of doing suicide, the last Sunday while i was going to extra classes with mom and dad then my mom scolded me in the car itself for some reasons and i cried there and entered the classroom with a crying face and all my friends asked me what happened but i hesitate telling them, i wanted a very good childhood but nooooooo all my dreams are gone, i was always a funny girl who likes to hangout and joke around with friends but my mom never failed in making me a introvert. I hope to die soon :)
Hi 😊 first of all I don't know how to say this or express my feelings right now but you have went through a lot and you know what you are really precious and I really just want to hug you or comfort you and say everything is going to be fine and please don't ever say that you want to die soon you are really a pure soul and you deserve the best and you will get through all of this you are strong and lots of love 🥰🥰
i am suffering through depression and mental health issues and try not to break out but my dad's cursing words caused the reason of my tears ,last weak just blasted with tears .....
My dad was abusive and got drunk a lot when I was younger. But as I grew up, he changed, he became loving and I started thinking of him as someone I can depend on and love too. But when I was 16 years old, we came to know he had last stage cancer and he died in that same year. I dont know how to feel anymore.
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Hey guys, just a reminder that while what we went through was horrible and completely wrong....and while it never should have happened, that doesn't mean that you can't turn it to something good. My traumas and abuse from childhood still hurt like hell sometimes, but it gets better I promise . I've wanted to die so badly before too, but I am at the point where every day I am so thankful I never did. Life is beautiful. No matter how ugly it can be at times, the beauty remains, hidden in the small things, and I think that itself is beautiful. You have to pay attention and be thankful for those moments of beauty everyday. You are beauty, the fact that you are living and breathing right now is beautiful....after everything you have gone through and after how horribly you have been treated. And even though all of our stories are different, we can be the same. We can heal our traumas and be the kind of parents, siblings, or friends that we never had growing up...we can stop the cycle, and while that task can seem overwhelming and heartbreaking at times, I hope you see the beauty in it. That is so cool. That you, yes you, have the power to overcome hate with love and make a ripple effect in peoples lives...not just that, but the world. It really is a cycle, and what you do matters. So please please please, love yourself, that is a whole other subject I could preach on, but please...it it the least you deserve. Breathe....it will be okay...the darker your past is, the brighter your future is, and stay here...stay alive....I promise your future self will be proud and thankful, even if it takes a long time to get there. It will be worth it all. I love you random stranger, and you are worthy of being loved correctly even if you aren't being treated like that right now. Set boundaries, and leave toxic situations and relationships. Heal yourself before looking for others to fill your emptiness. And remember you can't love others until you love yourself. I love you and if no one has told you today, I am proud of you, you are loved, you are lovable, you are worthy of being loved, you are strong, you are brave, and you will get through this. If you can't stay alive or heal for yourself, then do it for me, because even as a stranger, my life is sadder without you. The world is sadder without you.
Thank you so much for that, i wish you the best ❤️❤️
@@nayabiggestyerifan I wish you the best too💜
Thank you for your kind words. I really needed them at this moment 😊
@@titanofsaturn6234 I'm glad someone in need got to hear it. You alone are worth the time it took to make that comment. I wish you the best in life. If you ever get to the point where you think no one cares, remember me. I am rooting for you. Always.❤
@@heystobit803 Thank you so much. I wish u have an abundant happiness in the world❤❤
"A CHILD THAT IS BEING ABUSED BY ITS PARENTS DOESN'T STOP LOVING ITS PARENTS, IT STOPS LOVING ITSELF."
It's so true😶
well then that's me then🙃🥺🥺🥺🥺
@↳ꗃ𝐑0𝐒ⁱ𝐄𝐏𝐇0𝐁𝐈𝐒 ↲ hello
@↳ꗃ𝐑0𝐒ⁱ𝐄𝐏𝐇0𝐁𝐈𝐒 ↲ heyyyy its good evening for meh😊
Their*
Themselves*
"every children deserve their parents, but not every parents deserve their children"
Sadly true :(
This comment literally made me burst into tears
My parents dont except my dad
It's bitter but it's truth!
fr
these dramas are so triggering for me cause of my toxic and emotionally abusive family but i love to know i’m not alone
I'm really sorry for you sweetie, I'm here if you need to talk
Wishing you that it'll get better
Don't loose hope please love you 💓 💗 💖 💕 💜 ❤ 💓
Stay strong plz . We need you .
I know I came to click into this video cuz I was feeling a bit of these vibes personally too, youre not alone!
Same. hope you all for the best :)
EunByol from Penthouse really suits this video. I mean, the pressure of being perfect made her crazy. She wasn't hurt physically, but also psychology
Yes she really does! I forgot to add her in this video but she is just like them :( no one of them deserved this treatment
If you think about it, the most f-ed up ones in Penthouse had abusive upbringings and that was passed on to their kids, specifically Eun Byol, her mother Seo Jin, the twins and their father Joo Dan Tae as well.
@@pandaaaaa4 yes,the penthouse basically wouldn't have started if cheon seo jins father wasn't shitty and only cared abt the trophee and pride
Seojin also, she is an abusive mother because of her parents too
@@nayabiggestyerifan The Twins too were a big part of the abuse!
My dad beat me as a kid, and sometimes I thought death was better than his abuse. This is an accurate representation of forms of abuse people go through, thank you
I'm really sorry for you, sorry that you had to through it all
Not a single kid deserve this sort of treatment, wish you all the love in the world because you deserve it
@@nayabiggestyerifan aww ty, i appreciate it
@@kaithefly811 you're welcome ❤️
No one deserves that kind of pain
I hope you're alright
you are so so loved, i hope the pain is better now.
my own mother told me "i wish you were never born" and beats me,abusing me physically and emotionally, so watching this video did make me cry but atleast this video explains my emotions while i try to comprehend them :)
You're strong I wish I could hug you rn but I can't One day u will be strong and God will u give you the reward! (ignore the god part if you're an atheist)! Love you 💕💕
Stay strong dear,ik it must be hard for you but please don't lose hope
I promise one day u gonna be so happy ,I promise. Just hold on a little 💜
I really hope to it okay if it gets worse talk to someone and this might be far but sometimes child services is needed I am sorry she does that I hope you know your not alone and your strong 💖💕
You know I am proud of you baby this universe gave space for you bcz this world needs your love your smell your voice ♥💕💖❤💗
My mom also say it to many times that she wish I was never born Or i should die! She also swear me a lot But she says it when she is angry! But she also cares for me! I don't know is she abusive or good parent!
I feel bad for the people who have toxic parents
Edit: I read my comment section and I feel so bad for you yall you don’t deserve to go through all of that
Same, hope they can get some help :(
@@nayabiggestyerifan yeah I hope some day….
Thank u for the sympathy 🙂
i feel bad for me too
@@grace11_ aww I am so sorry
Nothing hurts more when you're crying at night without making a noise and losing your breath with those silent screams of hurt
Truly relatable to me but for me it was not a fixed time whenever my mom beats me I do this in the bathroom so that no one can know
In bathroom, I've never cried with noises. I've always had silent mental breakdowns.
And when it's full neither cry nor angry just silent
It was my whole childhood. I grunt my teeth silently with tears in my eyes when i want to scream
this hits different when your family isn't supportive but controlling
Fucking hate that- is this umi btw?
Yes
Yesss relatable
I can relate..
its true i never been happy i only have one dream pay them back and die peacefully
Whenever I listen to this song it always reminds me of my mom
She wanted to give me up for adoption because I was brown skinned and fat and biggest part I was born in India and my mom would always told me to not play outside or I'll be more dark skinned and do not eat so much food because I was a girl and no one would marry me
K-pop, K-Drama and Anime has big role in my life, it helped me to get out of DEPRESSION
but People didn't believed me
Only I know how much I've been through my life
Hey its ok many people go through this I want u to aim for ur future try hard to acheive it.....ik life is hard but everyone faces it, the one who beats it would succeed....my life is hard too I have thought many times to end it but I can't becuz ik I can achieve my dreams and my life has more meaning than this...my parents are not supportive I have family problems and I want to show life I can do what I like.....I wish u the best and if a person doesn't want to marry u becuz ur brown and dark? Then he/she is not the one for u......again I wish u the best for ur future and wish me luck....💜
Trust me!! You are not the only one....
Trust me u are reallt strong never give up these days are us like dak night but day sun will come again agr we will shine like mooon
I want to believe in you
I believe you dear😊 don't feel lonely....if you wanna share anything, you can share with me 👍👍
is hard to explain why I want to cry when I hear screaming sounds or why I cried over a song and a movie like that. ppff what a life I have
I'm so sorry for u, feel free to express your feelings here whenever you need to
We are here for you
same
same :( so damn sorry for us and for anyone who's going through it
Bro it's so hard I'm trying not to cry because my parents could barge in and they would see me crying and they would kill me but out of all the things the most related to me I the suicide attempt I tried it twice at the ages of 6 and 7
"It hits hard when your parent compares you with other kids"
Yes
It sucks so much yet my parent won't stop even though its haram to do that, I really want her to realise that I do have something in me
HAVING A HAPPY FAMILY IS MY DREAM .
Me too 😢
Hope you'll both have someone who'll love you as you deserve
@@nayabiggestyerifan Omg Thank you so much you're such a beautiful person thank you
@@mariakrajcovicova3105 no problem luv, and thank you
Maybe in the nxt life we can get this..... but this proves that we will end up being good parents becuz of the suffer we had , we will not let our children face this.
Everything will b okay.🤎
When I watched that moment with word "die." I started to cry. Because my dad said it to me too. He said that he wanted to kill me. How it hurts. I just can't forget these words.
I'm really sorry for you, at the same time I'm glad you didn't let him win and you still here
I can’t imagine how bad you must have felt.. I don’t even know what to say. How dare he say that to u. I’m so sorry you had to go through something like that. Please stay strong you must prove him wrong. ❤️
no matter what your dad said, you should know that you do deserve to be happy and you deserve to be alive and to be loved and appreciated. don‘t forget that you matter, stay strong
I'm sorry I know how it feels but it's alright forget the pain it brought you but never forget what those words taught you about that other person
Atleast we are not alone
2:36 when she started laughing, I felt her and understood her. Now when my parents scream at me, tell me I am worthless and not smart, my friends are better than me, I am a regret in life, I am bad luck. I laugh it at it, I feel it funny because it has been happening to me and my sister for years. It happens every year, almost every day, every second, every minute, every hour, everytime, it's going to be with my everywhere and everytime that I laugh at it now and try not to feel the pain... but I still do the feel the pain. I cry eveytime I think these words my mom told to my sis 'I hope you die!' 'When you die, I will be so happy!' My sis almost got diabetes and my mom told to that 'If you got diabetes and die in the end, I won't care about it all at all.' It hurts me even if it's not about me.... bcoz ik she meant for me too... and not just my sister. She hates us both, never wanted us alive, never cared for us, never truly loved us, never made us feel cared or loved, never made us smile and laugh. Instead make us cry, feel pain, suffer... I laugh so much when she tell tells to me that I am her favourite daughter and she will always love me, I know it's a lie. You think it's fun being the favourite child? No, it is not. It's instead a world of pain and suffering.
Even though my parents never told that to me , I felt it . The feeling when your parents compare you to your friends . I also cry at night when everyone is asleep and wear a smile when I'm in front of others cause faking a smile is easier than explaining what I am feeling and I know that they won't understand. The feeling when you feel like you are not good enough, nobody loves you and feel like you are a worthless , untalented, good for nothing person . A burden to your parents. And you work day and night to make yourself a better daughter, a better student , a better friend but nobody notices it. All they notice is your flaws . That's what happens to me.
That's my life.
@@Shefali_05 it's sad that they think they are being helpful when in reality they are killing us.
@@winterbear2981 If only they undertood that.
@@Shefali_05 yea...
May God give help to you and your sister, I'm so sorry that you have to through it. Here's one more proud that no everyone deserves to be a parent. Every kids deserve to have parents who will love and take care of them, but sadly it's not the case.
Thank you for open up here, always feel free to do it again whenever you feel like you need to.
Lots of love
When you're an Asian, you often don't realise that you are a victim of abuse not only mentally but also physically because it's never okay to beat up a child for good results and threaten them
And if this victims of abuse become parents without getting proper help they only pass on generational abuse and trauma, and we become to our children what our parents are to us, so get help, go seek therapy, it's the best thing you can do to yourself even if you think you had a good childhood and were not a victim in anyway. Be a good parent to your inner child first, treat yourself with patience, kindness and goodness that your parents were supposed to, after you have healed your inner child, be good parents to your children if you have any
This is really right, i absolutely respect that, and agree, but, let me just say that not only asians get treated this way... Everyone can, no matter of race, age, etc. It is honestly so sad, let's just stay strong, all of us, even if it's hard, we need to still go on. Also ily
@@nunofthem i know that but i am an Asian and can only speak from what i see but although it happens everywhere it's way too normalised in Asia
This is absolutely right, I hope it'll stop being normalized. I hope you're happy & doing great
Can someone tell me why should i live ?
Wish I was able to like it 10000 times
when you lose emotion, their words dont hurt.
their pain makes you smile, and thats about it. you dont care, at all.
your face is solid, you've been hurt so much to ever show a reaction
to whatever one says.
Explains my car condition so perfectly!
@@noobde_da_channel LMAOOOOO
This is my life in 2 minutes and 44 seconds.
Omg I'm so sorry that you can relate, praying that everything will be better
This shows that being successful are much more important than ourselves
I felt that. Also nice pfp😏
Listen to this is really giving me anxiety because of how relatable this is...
My mom is sleeping next to me,it's just the two of us in our house(my dad lives abroad and my older sister just got married)
The verbal abuse,emotional abuse (sometimes even physical abuse) it's never ending..I just want to go out alone and without hijab my STRICT asian muslim parents are like NOPE....I still remember that I just wanted to go to school without hijab once (i was in 6th grade) and my mom.....yes my mom called me shameless for wanting that....I am 15 now I literally lost my childhood because of their strictness.....I swear to god that i am not saying this for clout but i literally self harm and tried to commit suicide......twice. My mom screams at me whole day and worships my sister she says in my face that "she(my sister) is my ideal daughter" ect ect....i asked one day "then what about me?" She said........"youuuuu are useless" when in fact i do all the household work including cooking (again I am 15 btw my sister is 25)...
She (my sister) recently came to visit us and my mom literally forgot i exist screamed at me,called me names when i swear i didn't do anything..
And i am not even allowed to feel anything my sister expects me to stay all smiley and happy when it's killing me inside 'She is you mother,she is your mother,she is your mother' i didn't ask her to be my mother...
They made me hate the word 'family'.
Edit: 9th march.They even forgot my birthday..yes both mom and dad.
:)
I'm really sorry for u..i dunno to put this in words but i really hope ur fam n u will get hidayah from Allah swt... always ask Allah to soften ur mom heart n hope she will see u as a human being aka as someone who has heart...take care lil sis..if u're feeling the urge to harm urself.. listen to surah ar rahman( study the meaning).. InsyaAllah things will get better..i will always pray for u...i love u for still breathing in this world..for still smiling..for still have courage to write ur story here..n last but not least...for everything u have done..lots of love
@@anzhar6344
Don't know how to thank you enough for what you wrote to me that is the nicest Thing someone has said or done for me. I will definitely consider all the things you said :)
May Allah bless you as well..I will also pray for you...Thank you..thank you sooooo much...
:)
May Allah helps you ❤️ don't forget that you matter and you are an amazing person because Allah created you and we all are perfect in our own way
@@nayabiggestyerifan
Thank you sooo much you guys don't know how much your nice words means to me.May Allah bless you as well.
Thank you.
@@mariamalia8330 the A is capital . Allah
I never felt jealous of anyone.....but I feel jealous of my classmates how their families are good , supporting them, loving them and many more...
Edit: Reading my comment section , I just realised the fact that many people like me are suffering like me..But don't worry , endure a little more who knows someday all these pain, hurt, tears will go away and u will get happiness.... let's just believe in God and try to live even if it's painful.
It's okay, everything will be better
Is it just me who felt like crying when I read this comment?- Maybe its because its relatable..
literally so true. I only get jealous over people's perfect families
@@j_8857 i'm sorry that you can relate, wishing you the best in the future. take care
@@wazzaaaapshawtyy2929 so sorry for you, i hope it'll get better !
There wasn't an episode where i didn't cry while watching it's okay to not be okay and at a distance spring is green
Same these dramas were amazing and I feel like at a distance spring is green is so underrated
@@nayabiggestyerifan spring is green is so underrated :(
I couldn't watch at a distance spring is green properly cuz it is so realistic and relatable and it triggers me a lot tho I absolutely love it
Where can I watch these dramas ?
@vishaka 498 it’s okay to not be okay is on Netflix, not sure abt the other one :)
Seeing this after being beaten up by my own parents everyday and mistreated and humiliated every single moment by friends and other people makes me cry. Good to know that I am not alone bearing all this s**ts. Wish one day we all will get out of this.
After reading some of the comments and rewatching this i almost started crying for how many people relate… some people should understand that this isn’t ‘normal’… fortunately i have the best parents ever that never ever hit me… i am so sorry for the millions of people that can’t relate to my example… and the phrase ‘every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves children’ will stay with me forever
Ikr omg that's really makes me so sad, I didn't thought that so many ppl could relate to this when I made this FMV
@@nayabiggestyerifan ikr
@@sadiyaawan1681 thank you so much! I hope you the best! Hope you are okay!
No one deserves to be treated like this, not even by the parents.....no one is perfect but everyone is special
to every stranger out there, "YOU ARE PERFECT, YOU ARE WORTH IT! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, IT'S ONLY YOU THAT YOU SHOULD LOVE FIRST"
I'm asian with asian parents but I never got abused that's because my parents were abused when they were young and they felt the pain that's why they never hurt me. But seeing other asian kids get hurt makes me cry I feel very sorry for you all. Just don't let other people control your life and remember we all love you you are loved and your life is precious ! Don't give up !
Then, you are bron with the biggest luck 🥲✨
Being grown in such type of family I experience this everyday and idk why I'm still alive when my own parents make me feel shit every single day, getting abused everyday, growing in a traumatizing environment, flinching on small small things. I just don't know how I'm still alive. Hope y'all have good day. Just came here to lighten my heart. Thanks for reading this.
You're a strong man/women!💕💕
Was that the reason I finch alot like for even stupidest shit now it makes sense 🙂
@@Krishna-lg1je You're strong bestie
@@niaxae thankyou I really wanted to hear that 🥺
@@Krishna-lg1je :) I love you 💕 I wish I could hug you rn
"Is so weird that apsolutly random strangers on internet are close to you more then your own family"
- Kind stranger in comments
Sadly that can be true sometimes
True
True
it's true
True. I actually met my best friend over the internet in an amino group. Exchanged numbers in a private chat and now it's close to hitting a whole year of friendship
It's such a shame that me and him live so many counties apart tho
0:54
She is still lucky.Her father didn't hit her when she cried...
My mother didn't even stop hitting me when I cry.....
This reminds me of my mom when she is angry. My mom is that she is kind but she just gets aggressive all of a sudden sometimes
So sorry for you, I wish you all the best
Same happens to me and I find it hard to even explain my mom's behaviour to myself. Sometimes she treats me like a damn blessing in her life and then she goes back to treating me like I'm some kind of curse to her. I don't even know what she feels about me for real
@@sista363 Hey, same here
@@nayabiggestyerifan Thanks!!
I'm really sorry for you both
I felt a tear rolling down my right cheek by the end of this video. I pray for everyone's safety and acknowledgement of their own worth. Please know you are valued by someone. Hold on.
I can't remeber who said it but I really felt it, "every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child"
I'm watching it's okay to not be okay and when I saw her laughing after her dad tried to kill her.... Too relatable. It's just idk maybe because we're tired of it?? And we just start to find it funny?? I don't remember how many times I thought I was crazy because I was laughing or smiling just after something bad happened to me...never mind
Btw it's a good edit
i'm sorry that you can relate, i sincerely wish you all the love and that everything will get better ❤️
thank you for staying here even if life is hard for you and particularly unfair, you are so strong.
& tysm
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh no it's not your fault and in between something worst than this happened (I got sexually assaulted) but I will say I'm fine I still laugh and hang out with my friends and I make some people's day better so I guess I'm important :)))
Thanks for your comment it was so sweet and kind! I love you! 💜😊
Same. That one shot was too relatable. I think we laugh because it's the same old shit. We know it's happening to us again. We know we can never escape the trap. Sometimes I feel like I need to feel that pain again (not in a psycho way) but rather to convince myself that im the victim, im the one who suffers. Just a thought tho.
Hm ya 🙂
Hmm shes laughing and crying i think cause you see that tear on the side on her cheek 😔
this just made me feel grateful for my parents-
i love em sm
Same
Not to sound rude or anything but why would you say such thing on a video like this it was completely unnecessary
@@scarlett5591 It's not unnecessary though...?
There comes a time when you get tired of trying to please them, trying to make them happy, trying to prove yourself to them and you just give up because no matter what you can never be what they expect you to be 💔
Soojin isn't a bad person, Her depression turned her into a rude person. She had abusive parents and also she lost her love. I feel so bad about her
She had a abusive dad not mom
Mom was fine
@@niyathireddy8891 I think she has problems with her mother, maybe not as much as with her father, but her mother only sees the abuse she receives from her father.
At a distance spring is green is so freaking underrated, I wanna scream. Like the main lead's struggles with his parents and the bromance of him and second lead. The rom com side of this drama is also good. I don't know why no one talks about that drama. I wanna binge rewatch it because I watched it when it was ongoing.
IKR!!! literally ones of my faves dramas the plot is amazing as well as the actors
It's been on my watchlist for years it feels like, I should watch it soon
It's so beautiful 😭
No fr.
Every kid deserves parents , but not every parent deserves a kid. But thank to God for giving me such a wonderful and loving mother, she is like heaven poured in a human mold (touch wood).
Yes, we really should be thankful to have good parents! It break my heart to see how many kids are suffering of abusing parents, thank you for the positivity in your comment ❤️❤️
May God give your mom and you a happy and long life
@@nayabiggestyerifan oh my god thank you so much you made my day and you too♥️♥️
@@GarlickBraid you're welcome, anytime! And thank you so much 💗
I feel jealousy
Damn you're making me cry in the middle of the night lol. It's been years but I am still not used to it. I still damn cry. It still fucking hurts. Although he rarely hurts us physically, the emotional and mental pain he causes has ruined me. Actually while I'm typing this comment, painful memories comes back. I remember those countless times that I've thought it's better to die and those attempts to be gone. I hope someday, I'll be free from him. Soon, we'll be free from him. I just need to hold on a little tighter.
For those who have been experiencing any kind of abuse, hold on. Someday, they won't be able to hurt us. We will be free. We will be happy and safe. Stay there, it'll happen soon. For those who have been experiencing emotional abuse, we see your pain. That pain you've been feeling is valid. You don't deserve those hurtful words. Don't believe on his/her words. Be patient.
Thank you so much for these positives words, i'm sure it'll help a lot
Omg I really felt that
I have stepdad and he has daughter with my mom but he hates me. They're couple for 9yrs and I am going crazy he is really emotionally abusive and I feel like that my dad will love me more but he was drug addicted so he cant take me to his care
But my stepdad is the wrost ,manipulative ,abusive and angry person and I wanted to common suicide 😢 Thank you for reading my comment I feel with you. And thanks for comfort words
💖
I have just turned 18 this year and truly it's fvcking over...no more abused mentally and physically. Hold on a little bit more one day everything will be alright, just do not give up.
I love this. I am proof that if you hold on longer you will make it. You will be happy and free, regardless of what they try to do. You've got this. I love you and I believe in you💜
I hate seeing these types of videos tbh, they hit too close to him, watching It's Okay To Not Be Okay was a pain itself cuz my parents used to think of me as this perfect child til I was young, and now they see me as a psychopath, good for nothing and all that, and I know they think that cuz they've said it to my face, and oh, if I even dare to speak back, I get hit, but I still will, cuz I'm not gonna take bullshit, even from my parents.
I've done self harm many many times because of them, spent so many nights crying and on the bathroom, not even being able to cry out loud cuz then they'll just yell at me again and hit me saying "what will the neighbors think? Shut up, you attention seeker"
Everything used to be so happy and good, I just don't know what went wrong and where, I've tried taking my life and been suicidal for the longest time not only because of my parents, but other stuff too.
Now I'm diagnosed with severe clinical depression from one of my friends who's a doctor but I can't even tell my parents or somehow get the medication required cuz then I'll probably just be hit and yelled at again, or just thrown out of the house
I'm just hoping I can move out of here soon, I hate it here :]
Hey don't worry we are here for you never consider yourself as a psychopath . No matter what happens love yourself and don't worry we are here tell us your stories and let out your pain
Don't you ever think of taking your life
Yeah dumbo if you don't love your life who will and I can understand I know it hurts so bad . But don't worry buddy whenever you feel sad or angry just comment on this and I will keep responding kay 😊 I wish I was there to console you be with you but don't worry you are a good person and that never changes never let those things change you ❤ always fight for yourself and I know you can
Hi, I'm really really sorry to know that
Whenever you need to express your feelings, feel free to share them here, i'll always be here trying to comfort you
I'm so sorry for you
I'm sorry for me that i can relate. But let's try to look at from another angle!
Psychopaths r SO FREAKING HOT!!! WE BOTH R HOT AF😌😌😌
Hi, I'm so Called Weirdo, Psycho, and the living aimlessly
I also suffered from this state . My dad was an alcoholic and my mom dead when I was 15 bcz of depression . My dad's mistress used to hurt for entertainment and one day I stand against her so she throw me out for the house at the age of 17 . I called my childhood best friend and tell him whats happening so he told me to stay with him and I agreed . Now everything is fine I'm in relation ship with my best friend from 2 year hehehe I love him
Edit : if u read that much that's for 🎉🎉
Wish I could also run away like uh did
My parents are extremely passive-aggressive. They never let me have one good day. The best times of my life were away from them. Honestly, I wouldn't care too much if they died. They always make me feel bad about myself. I'm pretty sure I've been through self-hatred and depression. But they don't care. They just yell at me for everything without trying to understand me first.
But worst of all...
They make fun of me for feeling sad, angry, or numb. They make fun of me in a humiliating way and expect me to take it as a joke.
I have a strong sense of anger which never seems to go away.
Also, This song perfectly describes our relationship from my pov.
I'm so sorry to hear that u have to go through this much. I somethimes talk to myslef when im in my room and my family makes fun of me not knowing why i talk to myself(cuz i don't have anyone to talk to) im 17 now and still going through depression and anxiety and my family just makes fun of me. I'm still suffering. I'm just waiting till im 18 so i can leave this place and honestly i won't care even if they die. They just made me hate them this much. I honestly don't hate them that much but hate myself for not hating them.
@@mlfmpov7428 IKR!! I can't wait to get away from them too. For me things are getting better since I made new and meaningful friends and my physical school started. I think that when a big change happens, then your life will get better, or worse, depending on what your experience and choices are. I think that my life changed for good because I had been through too much already. My parents still make me sad, but I should less time with them due to school. Your life will also change. You're almost 18 and that's good. You can make your own decisions, maybe move out, go to college etc. Trust me, if you've been through a lot at a young age, things will only get better as you grow.
@@who_xyz thanks alot i appreciate it alot... and im happy to know that ur life is getting better now...im planning on keeping morning shift at my college as i just gave my last year of highschool exams... ill also start working a part time job just so i can stay away from them as much as i can
Same with me😔
You're so me at times. (a lot of times, actually)
When u can relate to this.
Sometimes I wanna die but I can't cause I have some dreams to achieve.
Don't feel alone we both are same
And you are not the only one "the best comment ever "
"Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the worst kind of poverty."
- Mother Teresa
Watching this makes me thank god for giving me good parents, and my parents for raising me well...i feel so bad for all of these characters, and of course even the kids who are going through this in REAL LIFE, like that shit is so scary...sending love to you guys.
take care of your parents ❤️❤️❤️
It's weird sometimes to think that there are people who didnt go through this,at some point each of us that did learned to cope with it in our own ways and make the abuser feel accomplished faster so it would be over faster and i personally think the actors did great in showing this.
K-drama names with timestamps :)
0:17 It's ok to not be ok
0:50 Dr Romantic 2
0:53 True beauty
1:11 At a distance spring is green
thank you!
@Donkey it’s okay not to be okay
@Donkey I think it’s true beauty, and then doctor romantic after that
Allnll no, l
At 2:36 whats the show name? And can you tell me the name of the show in which the Blonde haired guy shows up and gets hit???
Be honest...many of us are being abused by our parents but mentally....
They don't hurt us physically but kills us by their talks...; (
😥so correct 😫
to the person who reads this: abuse is NOT normal. If you are subjected to abusive attitude, or you have had such an experience, I am sorry to the point of pain in my heart. You don't deserve to go through this, and I will hope that your happy days are going into a long life that will fill you with the strength to live. Just live. You deserve all the love on this earth and beyond, you will cope with everything, I believe in you!
The small parts where you added the audios of the characters just makes it more realistic. And for anyone ANYONE who relates to this, You never walk alone, you'll get through it. Fighting ~ !! ❤
Yeo Jun from "At a Distance, Spring is Green" made me cry so hard. The actor really did a great job.
Yes he portrayed his character so so well !
Agreed!
Kdramas showed the real pain of abusive household and toxic society...
The fact that these are just characters and we're feeling bad for them, but all this shit happens to real people irl too, people like me go through this shit all day, so yeah i find these characters and their stories extremely relatable :(
I literally feel so bad for ppl who go through this, like I’m reading all the comments and freaking crying so bad….this shit really hurts, y’all don’t deserve this.
OML-naya I know I haven’t commented for a while, but this fmv just blew my mind! One of my favourites from all the fmv’s on earth
Ohh don't worry about it Avy! Thank you so much omg
@@nayabiggestyerifan your welcome!
I’ve watched most of these so it’s pretty easy for me to cry.
They didn’t deserve this at all, it’s so heartbreaking 💔
Same, my eyes are full of tears by reading those comments 🥺💔😭
Those childhood trauma we still remember from our abusive parents🙃🙃These dramas are so relatable
The woman i knew as my mother said " Don't call me mom.. I'm not your mother.. it's all my fault for giving you birth"
🙂..
This and NDA are honestly some of the best releases this year. Its hard to find stuff thats acrually meaningful in mainstream music nowadays
Agreed!
I agree! Even though it was written about an ex-lover, it's perfect to describe dysfunctional families as well. I made a video to this song about Yeo Jin Goo's character in Beyond Evil, because his relationship with his father matches every song lyric almost perfectly! I hope you enjoy it!
oooh i'll check that out!
@@nayabiggestyerifan Thanks!
My parents mentally and physically abuse me , this video helped me realize that I'm not the only one who feels that way.
Some parents doesn't abuse their kids by beating them
Sometimes they use words as their weapons and it hurts so much
They give us everything material, but they don't know that all we want is their love and understanding for wanting to be free.💔
When I was younger I was beat up a lot by my father, I tried to reason with myself and become better behaved but it never changed anything.He has stopped doing things like this now and only has a few outbursts here and there but he still makes me feel very uncomfortable.
Omg I'm so sorry that you had to through it, wish you the best
i cant help but think about how much this is relatable
so sorry for u :(
I see myself in the character of soojin the way she doesn't show it to anyone and always laughs and is stron but the fact she is being abused mentally and physically both at home is like my story but the difference is that somehow I manage to think abt good even when the life is being miserable with me
I don't crave anything in my life other than my parents love and support....all they want is just good marks and if I am not able to achieve that they make me feel worthless.....I can totally relate to and understand what feels like being in the shoes of the girl from true beauty
Same
If i ever had a last wish it would be my parents loving and supporting me and my dreams
it's hard you know when your parents are abusive, it's one step ahead to when your extended family also blames you and labels you. you don't even expect support but they go out of their way to comment on your life. when you wished nothing but goodness for them. damn it's getting harder out here. Sartre was right when he said hell is other people.
The last 5 second with a sad smile are the deepest thing in the video
I can relate to these drama , I have really abusive parents, I am the middle child, and told as adopted, my mother and father used to hit me when I was 6 and now am 23 , I really feel embarrass going school with scars on my face to school,
Everyone used to laugh on me , nobody had pity on me, even my teacher used to make fun of me , what the fuck I just did wrong? I hope I never born or they never adopted me!
Just wanted to die on 2018, but got saved anyway
My mother always yell at me on small things, I am jealous seeing other parents being so happy/enjoyable with their kids!
Am so depressed, they compare me Always, says that my sister is really good at Studies, and she will achieve her dreams!
When I grew I left Everything even I left my house and Started living out of our country now am in ukrain ! I have loving life without my parents and never wanting to contact them again!
And still some scars on my face but reminds me of those toxic parents!
This is the song I turn to everytime I realize how bad the relationship between me and my father is and i'm so glad it was used in an abusive parent multifandom
i hope it'll get better, wishing you the best, take care of yourself darling 💞
This gives me some kind of strength, and it's more powerful than anything else. Thanks for making this edit 🖤
awww I'm so glad it did ! Thanks to your appreciate it
People doesn't know what is truly emotion in our inside, i still believe that there still good listener and will comfort you. Maybe we doesn't know each other, but we still know how the others feel....
I never cry in front of my abusive family ... yesterday i was controlling my tears ..... today my mom said "kiske gam mea roo rhi thi " ☠️ .... she just beat me .
.. just because i said .... i Can't you guys be silent when I'm studying ...
I been experiencing 50% this and tears was flowing from my eyes my family literally made me hate my self but i am grateful that they feed me send me school and buy me stuffs
I got the best parents ever. They scold me but after sometime they come and make me understand about my mistakes.
You know , parents usually beat u up and then when u actually get the courage to talk about it to someone , they say "it's for your own good". Abusing kids is not for their good.
I wish no one goes through wht we have gone thru it hurts as hell but I feel like it has just made me know how to endure it all without even crying
This shows kdramas aren't just bout romance or love triangle.. they represent real trauma or teens..
I wish i could escape from all these traumatizing events and people,sometimes strangers understand us better than people we know, i just want to live my life in peace, i dnt understand why only few of us have to suffer from this..whoever is reading this i wish ur life full of happiness n peace u deserve! Ur not alone..stay strong! Just know that no storm remains forever in our life..
How many parents have told thier kids i wish you weren't born...i wonder
That's really sad :(
Same thoughts here!!! And how could them all without exception say the same hellish words!!!!
My parents always said that Me since 6th grade and when I was in 4th grade they'd keep reminding me that they would've saved alot of money if I was dead they would always favour my younger siblings and make them hate me I remember in my sisters last birthday she wished that I never existed ... Me too
@@Optimisticnihilistic9999 omg, i'm so sorry that they can't realize how precious you are. i hope you'll realise it yourself some day ❤️
you deserve to be happy, respected and loved don't ever doubt that
@@nayabiggestyerifan thank you so much ❤️
"Every kids deserves parents but not every parent deserves kids."
My mom doesn't hurt me physically but she hurt me mentally a lot. Even she said that I shouldn't have born. So now I am study hard so that I can live my own life. I will never threat her bad. I will give her everything. But my heart is broken. Now no one can fix it. Since I don't have a dad I don't think even other men can love me. All of them are same. Selfish and only think about their self. I am grateful my mom choose to grow me up. But she says she regard it and what happened if she let me go. And always says to leave her alone. She doesn't know how I feel. I am crying in the bathroom. I don't have any close friends. So I thought to write like this and revile my tension.
Thank you for reading this.
Hope everyone in this world should live a happy and beautiful life.
Parents: I wish I never had child like you
Me : I didn't ask you guys to birth me and then torture me for not being your expectation
You know physical abuse is better than mental abuses!! That's exactly what happens to me and alot of people in this world!! Coz of that we feel like we lose ourselves, all alone in this world, feeling so numb... It hurts more when it's our own family is the one who sees us useless!! Not knowing or understanding what we feel!!
Finally someone agrees, everyone always compares this song to their ex but I compare it to my mother
Yes when I heard this song it immediately made me think of abusive parents so I wanted to make this
i compare the song to my stepdad
@@milenyyy I completely get that, I still have bad flash backs because of my stepdad, but I hope everything is going okay for you right now💜
@@fandomlove6607 thank you hope every thing goes well for you
The way I still respect and show care towards my abusive parents only God knows
ngl, Self love is one hell of a good thing that's keeping me alive in a toxic and abusive house
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Whoever reading this, please love yourself. I understand how hard it is nd will be for you, but hold on to yourself. Only you can love you better ❤
The pressure of being perfect is driving me crazy
While reading all these comments tears are falling down my eyes I wish I could give a tight hug to everyone of you'll I hope you'll are safe💘 be happy ...
I can feel how rudely treated by my own family and it hurts so much that even after growing up the memories never go away, It's too hard to express this the pain I feel really kills mentally :,)
I don't know other's but yes I miss you
- A stranger
This chat box just breaks my heart that so many people go through this
I personally don't go through it that much but sometimes I feel like I'm just loved for my grades but then i realise not (i guess)
Its ok, it feels really bad when our parents tell something that really hurts. I always feel jealousy when my friends parents treat them like a prince's and im here who don't deserve this parents. It really hurts😭
Had chills through the whole video because this reminded me so much of my mentally and physical abusive mother
Let me tell you something.... there's no difference between my life and ko mun yeong's life, both of us mothers are relatable, fathers are relatable, situations are relatable too. And I'm here waiting for someone like Moon Gang tae...😞😞
These dramas make me realize I am not the only having family that emotionally and physically abusing you
I can relate to this.
My childhood is just a mess.
My parents are very strict, they never let me do anything i want, they always try to control me, i am never allowed to go out, all they allow me is to go to school, but i wanted to play and enjoy like other girls too, i always wanted to go out and play with my friends, one day while my mom was not at home, i went to my neighbours house [my classmate] to play volleyball because i really liked playing it but the next day she knew that i went to my friends house to play and then she scolded me and said that she will break my legs if next time i again go somewhere, she said i was turning into a bad girl, like c'mon just going to friends house for playing will not make me a bad girl, and also they always force me to study every single day and always compare be with everyone, i never go to my friends house nor i invite any of them in my house because am afraid that my mom will scold me or beat me infront of them, there are many a times when i thought of doing suicide, the last Sunday while i was going to extra classes with mom and dad then my mom scolded me in the car itself for some reasons and i cried there and entered the classroom with a crying face and all my friends asked me what happened but i hesitate telling them, i wanted a very good childhood but nooooooo all my dreams are gone, i was always a funny girl who likes to hangout and joke around with friends but my mom never failed in making me a introvert.
I hope to die soon :)
Hi 😊 first of all I don't know how to say this or express my feelings right now but you have went through a lot and you know what you are really precious and I really just want to hug you or comfort you and say everything is going to be fine and please don't ever say that you want to die soon you are really a pure soul and you deserve the best and you will get through all of this you are strong and lots of love 🥰🥰
@@simirajiv7982 Thank you so much!!! I am always in a hope too that things will get better.
@@moarmygenestayrat993 you don't need to thank me just remember that you are strong and precious 🥰🥰🥰
Abusive parents manipulate you by saying that we only want the best of you and then they beat you and belittle you .
i am suffering through depression and mental health issues and try not to break out but my dad's cursing words caused the reason of my tears ,last weak just blasted with tears .....
My dad was abusive and got drunk a lot when I was younger. But as I grew up, he changed, he became loving and I started thinking of him as someone I can depend on and love too. But when I was 16 years old, we came to know he had last stage cancer and he died in that same year. I dont know how to feel anymore.
I feel with you 💓 I have this same situation in life but with my STEPdad bcz my real father was drug addicted but he is really good person trust me