Living an intersex life

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  • Опубліковано 28 жов 2023
  • According to statistics cited by the U.N., .05 to 1.7 percent of the world's population is intersex, defined as having external or internal sexual organs that are not clearly male or female. As a matter of course, doctors in the past performed surgery on babies, ostensibly so that they would live a "normal" life. Correspondent Erin Moriarty talks with Pidgeon Pagonis (who was born looking female on the outside but also with testes and XY chromosomes) about Pagonis' memoir, "Nobody Needs to Know"; with professor Elizabeth Reis, author of "Bodies in Doubt: An American History of Intersex"; and with urologist Dr. Ilene Wong, who believes the medical community has failed intersex patients.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 275

  • @maggiemacha5552
    @maggiemacha5552 7 місяців тому +107

    Much gratitude for all those brave humans speaking up and advocating! This is a long overdue conversation!

    • @user-th2oo9hr7j
      @user-th2oo9hr7j 2 місяці тому +2

      😢and the human being rights are still happening 😭 todai thanks to the ultra rights violent of our minds and bodys todai thanks for getting these human being s rights 😢out 😭 todai to the public 😢

  • @hilpei3675
    @hilpei3675 7 місяців тому +108

    We just need to see each other as humans, all of us with compassion and cooperation. PERIOD.

  • @dicedrice7216
    @dicedrice7216 7 місяців тому +83

    Please let intersex people just be themselves.
    There was a 20-something intersex person in my neighborhood when I was growing up in the 1970s. They were born in the mid or late 1950s.
    Their parents were told, "You're so lucky! You can choose the gender of your baby!" The parents were told it's all nurture over nature, so they could simply choose.
    Dad wanted a boy. So they raised him as a boy. By the time he was a teenager it was clear to everyone -- even the younger kids in the neighborhood -- that this was not true.
    It was heartbreaking to watch. He very much struggled. His parents fought bitterly over it -- each blaming the other. Eventually the dad abandoned the family.
    And then there were the neighborhood meddlers. Even people who barely knew the family had strong opinions. Some thought he should be free to live as a female, and others felt his parents should do more to more strongly reinforce that he was a male.
    At 31 they took their own life.
    Rest in peace🕯️

    • @I_WANT_MY_SLAW
      @I_WANT_MY_SLAW 7 місяців тому +2

      So what you're saying is God makes mistakes?

    • @susanlena6935
      @susanlena6935 7 місяців тому +11

      U really explained the damage this has done to ppl. Thank you for your post.

    • @DigitalMediaWorldUSA
      @DigitalMediaWorldUSA 7 місяців тому +11

      ​@@I_WANT_MY_SLAWno one is saying that at all. Where are you getting that?

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому

      Unfortunately, now this "meddling" has been weaponized politically and people like this are marginalized even further.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +12

      @@I_WANT_MY_SLAW Seems like man made the mistake, not God. If you believe in God.

  • @dorthymcbride3384
    @dorthymcbride3384 7 місяців тому +53

    This is exactly why we should never judge or make laws regarding anyone's personal sex! It's none of anyone else's business and Congress/Supreme Court needs to mind their own business!!

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun 4 місяці тому +1

      At the same time, it's why it should be illegal for kids to have gender reassignment surgery. You have to let the kid grow up and figure that out for themselves. It's permanently limited when you perform surgery. Besides, there's no reason for a kid to be showing their privates to people.
      I'm just saying, if I was born this way, this is what I'd want. I'd also want to know what chromosomes I have, internal and external organs, and so on. Kids need to be kept in the loop and have personal caseworkers/ advocates.

    • @user-rg3fq1jg6n
      @user-rg3fq1jg6n 4 місяці тому

      at the same time, puberty can have devastating effects on someone who knows they are of a different gender than their body. @@Poodle_Gun

  • @patriciafeeley7997
    @patriciafeeley7997 7 місяців тому +28

    I knew a person who worked in a lab at a Boston Hospital in the 80 ‘s. The job was for her to do the various chromosome studies , etc. Tgen she turned the clinical data over to the Doctors to share with parents of intersex kids. This was a classroom environment and we were all asking and Then what? The Doctors and parents Then decided how the child would be raised, male or female. This was 40 years years ago and I honestly believe all parties thought they had the best interest of the child at heart. This is a wonderful piece and I am sorry Pigeon has been hurt, truly and particularly the osteoporosis as frosting. It will stop , things change as more information becomes available. Good for her using her voice

    • @brendabertsch9352
      @brendabertsch9352 7 місяців тому +1

      And early forced menopause. I'm sure she may be on E patches. It really made a difference for me.

  • @theresabernstein7748
    @theresabernstein7748 7 місяців тому +38

    The ridiculousness of the comments is astounding. Its a medical malpractice issue, its an issue of doctors "fixing" perceived problems, many times with out consulting the parents. Yet so many of the comments are hateful towards the patient. You have the right to choose any name you want no matter who you are that doesn't diminish the severity of the issue.

    • @Julieglam3
      @Julieglam3 7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you!!!

    • @cstuartdc
      @cstuartdc 7 місяців тому +4

      I can understand why doctors did this with all the hatred out there.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому

      They consulted the parents who were the legal guardians and legally had to make those decisions. The problem is, is that at that time, medicine didn't know or want to know what the long range effects of those decisions would be. Society didn't want deviation then, or now.

  • @brendabertsch9352
    @brendabertsch9352 7 місяців тому +14

    What a brave person you are Pigon! I've been thru my 10th female cancer surgery and I couldn't imagine what doing this as a little girl. I'm glad that you had a family that supported you. It just goes to show that individual suffering is very unique. I do believe that there is always a silver lining to every moment of suffering. I cope with my own prayer.... Start 3 sentences.
    Thank God.....
    At least....
    Sometimes......
    It's brought me so much peace. My heart goes out to you!

  • @pamboxpam
    @pamboxpam 7 місяців тому +26

    Thank you for your voice Pidgeon!

  • @carlytrammell2412
    @carlytrammell2412 7 місяців тому +54

    I am so glad that of all the news/media outlets that Sunday Morning has presented this segment. It is so important for people to know and understand this group of our human family. ❤ I'm 45 years old and had a friend as a teen who was born intersexed and his parents consented to surgeries assigning his gender and sex as male. I'm not sure if how much his parents knew and understood but they didn't hide it from him and he was open with close friends about it. I'm so very grateful for knowing him and having at least some understanding that there is more than male and female and that our identities are shaped by what happens in our infancy and childhood. The lies doctors have told parents of intersexed newborns should be considered malpractice.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 7 місяців тому +3

      i feel like this is the proper use of "assigning" gender at birth. it should only be used for describing intersex people. it doesn't really make sense for anyone else since their sex is observed, rather than assigned, at birth.

    • @DigitalMediaWorldUSA
      @DigitalMediaWorldUSA 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@jones2277I don't think you get this at all. There are people "observed" and their chromosomes are intersex but just not tested after being born or till later in life.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 7 місяців тому

      @@DigitalMediaWorldUSA exactly. 98.3% are correctly observed as their sex. Only 1.7% are assigned a sex.

    • @addictedtochocolateandcoff9582
      @addictedtochocolateandcoff9582 7 місяців тому +1

      that was the original use of assigned, trns co-opted the terms just like the co-opted from other oppressed/minority groups[eg 'passing' co-opted from interracial/mixed blcks .... genocide co-opted from gews/other destroyed groups, the list goes on] there's a list@@jones2277

  • @conahanbarbarian9719
    @conahanbarbarian9719 7 місяців тому +89

    A solid piece of reporting on a shamefully unreported subject.

  • @xelamercedes
    @xelamercedes 7 місяців тому +24

    Thank you for this report! All of it new information for me. Presented without advocacy or condemnation. So refreshing in an era where more than half of all media has a clear bias or agenda. My heart is breaking for the thousands of little ones who underwent unnecessary surgeries. More collateral damage from the Puritan ethic....

  • @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman
    @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman 7 місяців тому +49

    I'm intersex I look male but have female parts on the inside and I have Klinefelter Syndrome meaning that my chromosomes are XXY and I'm transgender and I identify as female

    • @fkutube933
      @fkutube933 7 місяців тому +4

      NOBODY CARES

    • @oc5297
      @oc5297 7 місяців тому +22

      @@fkutube933you kinda do!

    • @fkutube933
      @fkutube933 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@oc5297exactly the glowstick bot personal prejuidice intolerance projecting thing to say. Your motto is rules for thee not for me. And you probably still wear a mask and close outdoor parks for children.

    • @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman
      @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman 7 місяців тому +9

      @@oc5297 yeah or else he wouldn't have said anything

    • @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman
      @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman 7 місяців тому +6

      @@fkutube933 why are you making it political?

  • @emmgeevideo
    @emmgeevideo 7 місяців тому +17

    I absolutely think that we should understand things like this and treat people rationally and compassionately. I feel that some small variances in human anatomy and psychology should drive us to alter the fundamental categorization of male and female.

    • @BunnyMan-ec4xg
      @BunnyMan-ec4xg 6 місяців тому

      @@MrsFarmingtonWhitmoreCom-wj2it parental rights are really overrated and I say this as a parent. In this day and age we have information. If u choose to ignore that information, you don't get a free pass because you wanted sex one night and forgot protection. That's literally all the credentials you need to be a parent. You don't have to be intelligent to get someone pregnant. But you do have to be intelligent to get a teaching degree or a doctorate. Giving birth or getting someone pregnant doesn't mean you know more than an actual expert who studied the subject.

  • @KateBrown-hs2zd
    @KateBrown-hs2zd 6 місяців тому +20

    So people need to stop saying there are only men & women. Intersex people are important & matter. As many people that have red hair is how many intersex people there are in the world. And thank you for shinning a light on this. It hasn't been much information on intersex because people where ashamed to tell people. But they have always existed.

    • @Nikki-ks6wi
      @Nikki-ks6wi 6 місяців тому +1

      Intersex isn’t the same as plp having fully developed body parts choosing to be different. I think intersex are the ones who actually should have the chance to choose.

    • @BunnyMan-ec4xg
      @BunnyMan-ec4xg 6 місяців тому +2

      @@Nikki-ks6wi actually it is because genes are just code to tell our bodies to make certain hormones, those hormones tell our bodies how to look and develop. So gender is as simple as taking different hormones. It's not real. Once we get old we stop producing hormones, no matter what our genes are, and we become nonbinary. Look at all 80 year olds, they all look the same.

    • @user-rg3fq1jg6n
      @user-rg3fq1jg6n 4 місяці тому

      who are you to judge trans people?@@Nikki-ks6wi

    • @Mouse01011
      @Mouse01011 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Nikki-ks6wi”Choosing to be different “? so do you assume that homosexuality is also a choice? I’m just asking.

    • @Pau1ll
      @Pau1ll Місяць тому

      @@Mouse01011sexuality and sex are not the same reread the comment

  • @karenjennings3239
    @karenjennings3239 7 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for this story! I remember a kid growing up that was intersex and in those days the word "hermaphrodite" was used, which your story clarified is a slur derived in ancient Greece marking individuals as monsters, which they are far from being. I can only imagine the pain of that kid in Catholic school and the life that he must have led as someone who was intersex. You are saving lives by reporting this and may you forever be blessed for doing so!

  • @anmnou
    @anmnou 6 місяців тому +5

    Poor darling--to have to go through all those surgeries as a little child. Very brave of her to speak out--I hope it helps others in her situation. ❤

  • @lorettanericcio-bohlman567
    @lorettanericcio-bohlman567 7 місяців тому +6

    We have so much to learn, I wish the people that don’t understand would not go directly to hate

  • @cariwaldick4898
    @cariwaldick4898 6 місяців тому +7

    Funny that they were doing surgeries on infants and children, and never studied if it was really necessary. We're seeing this also in circumcision decisions--though clearly that is less traumatic.
    With all the controversy around transgenders, and gender re-assignment, this is a good example of why we need to just accept people as they are, and affirm their own choices.

  • @user-ju1os7kz3q
    @user-ju1os7kz3q 7 місяців тому +18

    This is the last time I will use the word hermaphrodite.

  • @luciboras
    @luciboras 7 місяців тому +4

    Intersex is not a condition, it is nature, which is animal, human species.

  • @user-rq3oj8xn6v
    @user-rq3oj8xn6v 7 місяців тому +6

    We are constantly shown that there is so much we don't know, and yet sometimes we are so quick to act like we KNOW, and then we FEAR differences, and we JUDGE. And cause pain and exclusion, from ignorance masquerading as knowledge, wisdom and conviction.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому

      Welcome to the America of today.

  • @Pixellava
    @Pixellava 7 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for presenting this important story, especially for your older demographic who seems to struggle with understanding these issues.

    • @emem2863
      @emem2863 6 місяців тому +1

      I think the older demographic is very aware of this topic, except they grew up saying hermaphrodite instead of intersex. It really isn't a new thing.

    • @BunnyMan-ec4xg
      @BunnyMan-ec4xg 6 місяців тому +1

      The funniest part is all old people become nonbinary when their bodies stop producing hormones. That's why elderly couples all look alike.

  • @BillPritchard
    @BillPritchard 7 місяців тому +4

    What remarkable courage

  • @BooksForever
    @BooksForever 6 місяців тому +3

    Thanks for the public service, CBS. Conservative media tries to keep their base ignorant and confused with the notion that this portion of our population can serve as a sort of common enemy for them to rally against. Clear understanding should dissipate that simmering anger.

  • @theshermer
    @theshermer 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Pidgeon for sharing your story. I grew up in the Chicagoland area (still live there) and know of this hospital. It is a good hospital and it is good that it issued an apology to you and other intersex children. We know a lot more now than before and hopefully are realizing that decisions shouldn’t be made just because a child will be more comfortable (or parents). The child will eventually notice and may resent it. They are human and should be treated as such.

  • @gregorypeterson9
    @gregorypeterson9 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for bringing this to light. Love Pigeon I've seen her podcast and Pigeon is a star and a awesome advocate ❤🧡💛💚💙

  • @sixinchzipper
    @sixinchzipper 6 місяців тому

    What a beautiful and strong person and I’m so grateful they were able to share their story and that I was able to hear it ❤

  • @bernie_faithfamily7260
    @bernie_faithfamily7260 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for the Story of your Journey and Personal Life

  • @juanesteban8827
    @juanesteban8827 7 місяців тому +14

    We could all learn a lot from the way "Intersex" people are viewed in Native American & First Nation cultures. They are called "Two-Spirits"and they are revered!

  • @TangibleReads
    @TangibleReads 7 місяців тому +11

    That's s heck of a thing to find out later in life

  • @suzannadannaTARDIS
    @suzannadannaTARDIS 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for interviewing Pigeon. I happened on their UA-cam videos several years back and found Pigeon to be such an engaging speaker. I purchased the book - cried throughout Nobody Needs to Know. Pigeon is an amazing human for sharing their story to help us insure ensure no other child is assigned a gender when born intersex in the future.

  • @wildflower2092
    @wildflower2092 7 місяців тому +1

    Wonderful being who we are!
    Celebrate that!

  • @MichelleCarithersAuthor
    @MichelleCarithersAuthor 7 місяців тому +4

    great story....

  • @donaldswanson9647
    @donaldswanson9647 6 місяців тому +3

    Doctors fixed what they thought was an opportunity for profit. 😂

  • @leonardodemelo3711
    @leonardodemelo3711 7 місяців тому +5

    Nature does what it does… when will we learn to leave it alone and accept that this is part of nature’s plan…. The pain that would be avoided if all people learned empathy and practiced kindness should be the aspiration of every human being! Science and research are wonderful but they can be intolerant….always trying to gear towards the “norm”….I know one day we will get there…. Because in spite of it all…. I truly do believe that we aspire to the light and not the darkness….

  • @sarahelliott7926
    @sarahelliott7926 10 днів тому

    Performing a Vaginalplasty on a young child is totally wrong. I am very sorry this happened. Kudos to you for speaking out, and standing up for yourself!

  • @Julieglam3
    @Julieglam3 7 місяців тому +18

    The level of ignorance regarding intersex is evident as depicted in a few of these comments shown here...try reading. You might just learn something...🙄

    • @OleLockAndKey
      @OleLockAndKey 7 місяців тому +1

      Ok boomer

    • @Julieglam3
      @Julieglam3 7 місяців тому +5

      @@OleLockAndKey I know...to be informed is so boomer-ish isn't it?? To an internet troll like you. anyway.

    • @OleLockAndKey
      @OleLockAndKey 7 місяців тому

      @@Julieglam3"informed" by whom? I'll wait...
      Also, you don't find it the least bit telling that google/youtube deletes the postings from more than half of the people in the world - in the name of "fact"/"truth"/"hate"/"misinformation"?
      You think it's normal for a tech company to be able to groom people like you into believing what they TELL YOU to believe? Have you ever thought for yourself?

    • @lorettanericcio-bohlman567
      @lorettanericcio-bohlman567 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Julieglam3thank you

  • @katherineking3174
    @katherineking3174 12 днів тому

    They always apply!!!

  • @blakeposter7496
    @blakeposter7496 7 місяців тому +6

    She may not have intended to but she just made the case why you dont alter a childs sex before the age of consent

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +5

      Here's another thought about that. She didn't know she was intersex, nobody was honest with her. She may have been able to identify which gender she wanted long before the age of consent.

    • @CarrieTrine
      @CarrieTrine 6 місяців тому +5

      No one does that. Gender affirming care for minors consists of clothes, pronouns, names, maybe hormone therapy and mental therapy. Not surgery.

    • @mtns340
      @mtns340 6 місяців тому +2

      yet it's completely legal to feed your kid fast food & soda every day, setting them up for serious diseases and health problems as an adult. and that affects waaay more kids than the miniscule number getting hormone treatment.

    • @Bethelaine1
      @Bethelaine1 16 днів тому

      Keeping secrets from a person about themselves is the problem. Making choices for them is the problem, telling them they don’t know who they are is the problem. No infant should go through this.

  • @JamesBrown-ij1px
    @JamesBrown-ij1px 7 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for sharing Pidgeon's story regarding this very important issue! Once again, an example that conservative politicians need to keep their own beliefs and their legislation off of the bodies of other people.

  • @rchrdgrn
    @rchrdgrn 5 місяців тому +1

    I'm 69 when I was 15 I shared a hospital room with a boy who had had 15 surgeries to build a penis. At the time I thought he had been injured. But I wonder if this was the case. He was orthodox Jewish And his parents were very educated that probably had something to do with him Remaining a male. Like I said this was the late Sixties.

  • @kusheran
    @kusheran 7 місяців тому +1

    No one is to blame. Everyone is accountable and forgivable. For 12 to 18 years after birth, the one most effected cannot make their own choice. By the age of understanding, for some, it is too late to prevent all harm. Humans cannot control everything.

    • @sleepmore8587
      @sleepmore8587 6 місяців тому

      john money fabricated the results of his studies, but his research is still used to justify many modern decisions in medicine.

  • @RandyBurchell
    @RandyBurchell 7 місяців тому +6

    If a person can be born #intersexed on the outside where it can be seen,why can't they be born that way on the inside? Where we cannot see.
    If we can accept that a person can be #born that way on the outside, why can't we accept that they were born that way on the inside?
    If everyone could get on board with that, that's one world problem solved! Agreed

    • @fkutube933
      @fkutube933 7 місяців тому

      Everyone agrees that people are born that way. It is called klepinglers syndrome or something. Maybe do some research and stop just repaeting what others tell you. Ignorance.

    • @RandyBurchell
      @RandyBurchell 7 місяців тому +2

      @fkutube933 good for you!!!
      Keep up the great work. But please remember, insults show your desperation for superiority. You are intelligent enough to make your point w/o insults. Right?
      Thanks for your comment.

    • @squidvidz934
      @squidvidz934 20 днів тому

      I doubt tho, if intersex is a gender on it's own, why do they require surgery?
      You know if left unchecked will be detrimental to the person in their adult life unlike one who came out male or female?

  • @fuzzmuscle69
    @fuzzmuscle69 7 місяців тому

    4:22 - very important.

  • @v.a.993
    @v.a.993 7 місяців тому +6

    I really appreciated this story. Everyone who identifies as non-binary is not Intersex, correct? What was the basis for protesting at Lurie Children's Hosptial? Was it to get the apology for Pidgeon specifically, or was it to get the hospital to stop its practice of deciding intersex babies' gender? The statement the hospital issued was just an apology, right? I would imagine in the current climate e.g., the past several years, the hospital no longer performs such surgeries on intersex babies.

    • @jillevers1432
      @jillevers1432 7 місяців тому

      I actually know someone who is nonbinary. But I don’t know much about….that person’s story to claim he/she is

    • @conahanbarbarian9719
      @conahanbarbarian9719 7 місяців тому +2

      Correct, not everyone who identifies as non-binary is intersex. Intersex is a medical designation, not a gender identity. I believe the protest in question was to advocate against the violent procedures forced on intersex youth to make them confirm with the opinions of doctors and their families regarding what their gender presentation "should" be.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 7 місяців тому +1

      the real nonbinary people are intersex/DSD people. the rest are just engaging in dress-up.

    • @AlyssaMakesArt
      @AlyssaMakesArt 7 місяців тому +2

      To the first part, Correct. Non-binary is in reference to gender like boy, girl, etc., which is social based (outward) and based on internal personhood. Intersex is biological and based on the “hard” science. I say hard in quotes for a few reasons too length to explain. Both are valid.

    • @CarrieTrine
      @CarrieTrine 6 місяців тому +4

      Intersex is physical. Non-binary is gender expression. I wouldn't presume that the hospital no longer does the surgeries. A PR response is a far cry from policy change.

  • @Nikki-ks6wi
    @Nikki-ks6wi 6 місяців тому +2

    These are the people that deserve a choice in my opinion all facts in front not ideas

  • @rchrdgrn
    @rchrdgrn 5 місяців тому +1

    This message needs to be listened to by the trans community that advocathe reassignment surgery just based on choice. All these complications apply to them. Surgery is not the answer. It's risky painful and has no chance of creating a fully functioning person Of the opposite sex.

  • @dustincarter6839
    @dustincarter6839 7 місяців тому

    Strange but true, live and let love.

  • @riobrasilsambashowssambist1453
    @riobrasilsambashowssambist1453 5 місяців тому

    5:40 omg she looks just like her mom so cute

  • @Wudup
    @Wudup 6 місяців тому

    And the doctors just had to f with her. SMH Unbelieveable.
    She's beautiful. ❤

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 6 місяців тому +2

      The point was making her acceptable to society. And as her intersex self, society still is most unaccepting.

  • @mikhaelle87
    @mikhaelle87 19 днів тому

    Gods creations are so extraordinary 💝💙💝

  • @Deerhunter-fo5mw
    @Deerhunter-fo5mw 3 місяці тому

    is intersex the ssme as being a hermaphrodite? i mean that in the most respectful way possible im jus truly curious if its the same thing a variation of it or something completely different all together?

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 12 днів тому

      Intersex is the new name for the "h" word. The "h" word is now considered stigmatizing and denigrating. Frankly I find it ridiculous to play these semantic games like calling homeless "unhoused" or illegals "undocumented".

  • @katherineking3174
    @katherineking3174 12 днів тому

    I've heard about him

  • @spiritranger9202
    @spiritranger9202 6 місяців тому +1

    The doctors should just leave the kids alone if they can't tell the sex. Then let the natural process happen and they can figure it out 🤷‍♀️

  • @audieboykin175
    @audieboykin175 6 місяців тому

    this very thing happened to me

  • @DesertRascal
    @DesertRascal 5 місяців тому +1

    It's an insult to intersex individuals having their real challenges hijacked by those who misappropriate gender.

  • @fkutube933
    @fkutube933 7 місяців тому +19

    No one should be forced to suffer genital mutilation including "circumcised" newborn baby boys.

    • @JohnnyAngel8
      @JohnnyAngel8 7 місяців тому +7

      Agree. I've long thought circumcision is genital mutilation. It really needs to be a thing of the past.

    • @mtns340
      @mtns340 6 місяців тому

      This should literally be common sense, yet in the US it is not.

  • @AnonymousAccount514
    @AnonymousAccount514 6 місяців тому +1

    its a very difficult decision to make....lets assume the doctors didnt touch her and left her just how she was....her life could have been just as difficult...and she could be complaining to us how we didnt do anything and "put her in this position"....there is no clear answer...either way....she would need to ACCEPT what she has

    • @metaldemort
      @metaldemort 6 місяців тому +1

      Please speak over intersex people's voices. Thank you.

  • @valarieballog6218
    @valarieballog6218 11 днів тому

    What are they supposed to do?

  • @basilrose
    @basilrose 7 місяців тому +3

    Beautiful story. The courage and strength it must have taken for Pidgeon to arrive at acceptance is admirable. My prayer for trans people is to join the intersex community in finding their own acceptance of non-binariness without the tragic intervention of drugs and surgery that -- at best -- can only approximate a binary gender.

  • @DanielleA2023
    @DanielleA2023 6 місяців тому

    Diversity is the key to a prosperous joyful successful and sustainable Future for All 💖

  • @emem2863
    @emem2863 6 місяців тому

    I wonder if Pidgeon has androgen insensitivity syndrome. This was covered well. However, instead of saying gender, biological sex should have been used. In today's world, gender can be chosen, but biological sex is predetermined. Thanks for sharing your story Pidgeon. Hopefully, medical providers will stop performing these surgeries on intersex children.

    • @mtns340
      @mtns340 6 місяців тому

      did you not watch this video at all? intersex people don't have a predetermined biological sex, they are literally INTERSEX.

    • @BunnyMan-ec4xg
      @BunnyMan-ec4xg 6 місяців тому +1

      Yeah but biological sex isn't accurate either. Junk don't always match the genes.

    • @sam15342
      @sam15342 6 місяців тому +2

      yes. Pidgeon has Partial Androgen Insensitivity Sydrome.

  • @positiveandstrong
    @positiveandstrong 7 місяців тому

    The state of Minnesota has the population of the country of Japan?!?!? (1:33)

    • @linguaphile42
      @linguaphile42 6 місяців тому

      Yes, that struck me, too. What she might have been referring to is that if you take the U.S. population of 331 million and take 1.7% of it (the upper end estimate of babies born intersex), that's the equivalent of the population of Minnesota. Then, if you look at the pop. of Japan vs world pop., that is 1.7%, but that one doesn't quite work out. She's trying to put into real context how many people this affects, and is really is more than most people would think. A high school of 2500 could have as many as 42 kids who were born intersex.

    • @tnomi1965
      @tnomi1965 6 місяців тому +1

      What she meant is that the number of intersex people is either the same as the population of Minnesota or the population of Japan (or somewhere in between). That's how wide the range of estimated number of intersex people is.

  • @samalsrei5089
    @samalsrei5089 3 місяці тому +1

    Please remember that sex is not the same as gender.

  • @StefanieAnneMarie-qe6fj
    @StefanieAnneMarie-qe6fj 15 днів тому

    ❤. In this matter the public is not informed or educated about the truth of being intersex. Get ahold of the book work book about "on being intersex in the binary world" from beacon publishing company of New York. This is free order it and read discuss copy and share with your friends family associates and everyone that is curious about this subject matter

  • @lauren6509
    @lauren6509 6 місяців тому

    Unconsenting surgeries on minors should be outlawed

  • @user-lp8qp2un9v
    @user-lp8qp2un9v 4 місяці тому +1

    I got changed at 9 was on a doughnut for a few months drugs and brain washing that made me an mean fought with it my whole life never got close to love trust issues still have them I just want to be left alone that's all

  • @daneblack2593
    @daneblack2593 14 днів тому

    I like him or her whatever you want to be called strong person

  • @elainegonzaga2867
    @elainegonzaga2867 3 місяці тому

    Everyone: let's all share link to this story far and wide to help open eyes of those who believe there are only 2 genders and demonize sexual activity they dont understand

  • @marisilver52
    @marisilver52 27 днів тому +1

    Genesis 1:27
    King James Version
    27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

  • @jodymazzarese5151
    @jodymazzarese5151 6 місяців тому

    I learned about hermaphroditism from Dr. Marcus Wellbee back in the 70’s … a little digging into this condition they might find one twin never fully formed.

    • @blackbroadwayandbeyond
      @blackbroadwayandbeyond 5 місяців тому +1

      I love Marcus Welby! Wish I could find the full series somewhere.

  • @SS-cc8wr
    @SS-cc8wr 4 місяці тому

    Speak out!

  • @DigitalMediaWorldUSA
    @DigitalMediaWorldUSA 7 місяців тому +6

    Matt Walsh would have never handled this conversation.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +3

      Yep. His head would have exploded.

    • @fkutube933
      @fkutube933 7 місяців тому +1

      I do not agree with alot of what matt walsh says but he has always acknowledged that people born intersex are real. So obviously you have no idea of what youre talking about. Youre just parroting what others say.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +6

      @@fkutube933 Matt Walsh thinks being gay is a choice and supports conversion therapy. So what he thinks about intersex is definitely lost in the other noise he generates.

  • @lzrd8460
    @lzrd8460 14 днів тому

    I would consider Margie Greene to be in this category, I can’t tell which sex she is!

  • @BDgamer333da2
    @BDgamer333da2 16 днів тому

    I'm a intersex person ❤️😘
    But I leaned how to love himself ❤

  • @Billy.hoodoo
    @Billy.hoodoo 6 місяців тому

    :( I’m embarrassed and I feel beyond ignorant . I’m ready for our views to be our own we as in humanity needs to control the paradigm how can we have a conversation with everybody . We got race issues , sexuality , finances , health , education, issues , how can we heal.

  • @midlanddreamhomescindymunr6934
    @midlanddreamhomescindymunr6934 5 місяців тому

    This is sad - they could have done a surgery to allow this person to develop as a male as the chromosomes and hormones would have naturally done and they could have possibly fathered children if they wanted to. They knew the chromosomes of this person and sexually castrated them.

    • @davidrosen5137
      @davidrosen5137 2 місяці тому +1

      The development you're suggesting occurs during embryogenesis.

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 12 днів тому

      Undescended testicles can easily become cancerous. No way to make them descend.

  • @kdoeastvalley
    @kdoeastvalley 7 місяців тому +5

    According to National Institutes of Health, the number of intersex persons in the general population is 0.018. That estimate is considerably less than the percentage reported in this piece. This piece is misleading.

    • @conahanbarbarian9719
      @conahanbarbarian9719 7 місяців тому +2

      Your statement itself may be more misleading actually. The source you cited: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12476264/ This piece by Sunday morning does cite the more common statistic, and there is academic dispute over it, as cited in the abstract of the study you suggest. The point should be that the number is unclear, but this makes the presentation of this minority group no less important. The debate is about who gets to be included in the term "intersex", not whether more or less of such people described in either case exist. It is an argument over classification, not existence. The numbers describe two groups of people, with the larger one being more inclusive.

    • @xelamercedes
      @xelamercedes 7 місяців тому +3

      The topic is only now coming out of the shadows. There will likely be some discrepancies, and controversies for a while. Let's just take a breath and wait before the blaming and criticism starts.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +1

      @@xelamercedesYes. A very, very long breath.

    • @mtns340
      @mtns340 6 місяців тому +1

      It's not misleading, they didn't give an exact number, only speculation. You're making things up.

  • @catholicfemininity2126
    @catholicfemininity2126 6 місяців тому +1

    Uhhh, babies sex is hard to determine as babies. A baby could literally pass for a boy or girl. You can't tell.

  • @joeybaseball7352
    @joeybaseball7352 5 місяців тому

    Who names someone pigeon?

    • @Andrea-xs4ny
      @Andrea-xs4ny 3 місяці тому

      According to the video, her birth name is Jennifer, so she named herself
      Pidgeon.

  • @StefanieAnneMarie-qe6fj
    @StefanieAnneMarie-qe6fj 13 днів тому

    Sadly 😢 the truth is the correct ion is considered normal and right 😢 but it's o so wrong morally in every way.😢😢😢

  • @tj-kv6vr
    @tj-kv6vr 5 місяців тому +1

    another Yaaaaaawner from liberals

  • @sierrachoco5271
    @sierrachoco5271 6 місяців тому +1

    IMO There are 3 genders - male, female and intersex. You are who you are and you're born that way so I don't understand why people get so upset.

  • @Seekthetruth3000
    @Seekthetruth3000 7 місяців тому

    So, does she/he date males, females, or intersex people?

    • @debbiehunt5940
      @debbiehunt5940 7 місяців тому +1

      Do you? Cousin it!

    • @JohnnyAngel8
      @JohnnyAngel8 7 місяців тому +16

      It really doesn't matter. Attraction is in the mind, not the genitals or lack thereof.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 7 місяців тому +1

      @@JohnnyAngel8 that's a lie!

    • @xelamercedes
      @xelamercedes 7 місяців тому +8

      Odd question steeped in assumption. Maybe they don't date at all. What then?

    • @JohnnyAngel8
      @JohnnyAngel8 7 місяців тому

      @@jones2277No, it isn't. If you knew anatomy and physiology, you'd know that the body's largest sex organ is the brain.

  • @jones2277
    @jones2277 7 місяців тому +1

    there's no way to know if not having the gender-conforming procedures would have had a better result. Pidgeon could be on this same segment crying about being alienated and harassed for a confusing sexed appearance. imagine growing up a teenage boy with a micropenis or a vagina. Roshaante Anderson's perspective on this is especially illuminating.

    • @mtns340
      @mtns340 6 місяців тому +3

      Pidgeon was upset by health conditions that occurred due to the operations, like the osteoperosis. That's something that wouldn't have happened otherwise.

  • @charlesstiebing9231
    @charlesstiebing9231 7 місяців тому +2

    when Pidgeon's chromosomes confirmed male, all subsequent medical assistance should be based on this fact.

    • @fkutube933
      @fkutube933 7 місяців тому +2

      Thousands of people are born with the gender specific dna that oppose their physical bodies. Which means they are born male with female dna or female with male dna. Read a book.

  • @suther0938
    @suther0938 7 місяців тому

    Become a parent , then you make there decision with information given to you. You should off, then later you wish to did not. Life, . Is she attractive to men or women,?

  • @keithstringer1140
    @keithstringer1140 7 місяців тому

    Intersex…is this like Truducken where you shove a lot of different things inside yourself at the same time?!

  • @morriswilburn9858
    @morriswilburn9858 10 днів тому

    The parents and doctors need the wisdom of Solomon to decide what to do. But I do agree that if medical intervention is needed, it should be done as an infant. In order to function very well in society, a person must know what he/she is with respect to gender, and learning that begins early in life.

  • @Sj27m
    @Sj27m 7 місяців тому +11

    Unnecessary surgery pushed on parents by doctors that children later regret when they become adults.
    Why does that sound so familiar?🤔

    • @OleLockAndKey
      @OleLockAndKey 7 місяців тому

      This...

    • @oc5297
      @oc5297 7 місяців тому +5

      There’s a very clear difference between a baby and a young person who has the agency to have life altering procedures.

    • @OleLockAndKey
      @OleLockAndKey 7 місяців тому

      @@oc5297yup! 8 year olds have life figured out! 🤦🏻‍♂️🤡

    • @fkutube933
      @fkutube933 7 місяців тому +5

      Including "circumcision" right..?

    • @Sj27m
      @Sj27m 7 місяців тому +3

      @@fkutube933
      I've never regretted my circumcision.
      Glad i dont have yellow goo build up on mine.🤣
      I'm talking about surgery that people actually regret.

  • @fatmanyrhaw9423
    @fatmanyrhaw9423 7 місяців тому

    "microplastics"

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +1

      Nope. "If the level of hormones are out of balance, or if the embryo cannot respond to the hormones, this can result in an intersex variation."

  • @fruitarian
    @fruitarian 7 місяців тому

    I used to be a man. Then I fell into an industrial paint mixer.

  • @michellelippincott6097
    @michellelippincott6097 6 місяців тому +2

    He (God) made them male and female Genesis case closed.

    • @linguaphile42
      @linguaphile42 6 місяців тому +2

      Sure, whatever you say. Except for the millions that are born with conflicting gender characteristics.

    • @LizaFan
      @LizaFan 6 місяців тому +4

      Thought-terminating cliches.

    • @mtns340
      @mtns340 6 місяців тому +1

      sure Jan.

    • @cidschnubedubaubau6781
      @cidschnubedubaubau6781 6 місяців тому +1

      How is this relevant? What is even your point?

    • @davidrosen5137
      @davidrosen5137 2 місяці тому +1

      So, ignore the physical reality? Do you apply this to every aspect of your life?

  • @Jacob-seek-Jesus-123
    @Jacob-seek-Jesus-123 7 місяців тому +1

    Well this is what modern medicine offered parents according to their education as treatment at that time.
    If it doesn’t threaten the life of the child, let the child live.
    Something strange with medicine back then, thank God that abortion was made illegal recently, statistics of abortion are starting to drop & yet continues to show the same demographic group, the primary recipients are young educated white women between the ages of 20 to 29 & ironically they are also the same demographic that support abortion, it’s not rape or incest but either a lifestyle in college which includes the male & or a lifestyle outside of marriage which includes the male & yet it’s sad but equally sad is the death penalty.
    pro life is pro life in sides of keeping a child alive starting at conception, to unnecessary operations to children & all the way to eliminate the death penalty & our voices will not be silent & our voices are for the innocence murdered as surely as God lives & if one is not sure, simply ask God for yourself in Jesus Name.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому

      Wrong. Abortions are actually on the rise. Ask Jesus to make sure your statements are correct.

  • @OleLockAndKey
    @OleLockAndKey 7 місяців тому +4

    0.05 to 1.7%
    Reliable...pause...not

    • @conahanbarbarian9719
      @conahanbarbarian9719 7 місяців тому +7

      Unreliable because you don't like the numbers? Lol

    • @JohnnyAngel8
      @JohnnyAngel8 7 місяців тому +8

      Do you have your own personal study you'd like to share?

  • @maxlinder5262
    @maxlinder5262 7 місяців тому +2

    So ...what does... she ..he...have ..????? Confusing....???

    • @jillevers1432
      @jillevers1432 7 місяців тому

      I know what you mean

    • @dicedrice7216
      @dicedrice7216 7 місяців тому +7

      Why does that matter?

    • @conahanbarbarian9719
      @conahanbarbarian9719 7 місяців тому +5

      They used she/her pronouns for Pigeon, implying that they asked and that she was okay with that. It's not a big deal lol

    • @debbiehunt5940
      @debbiehunt5940 7 місяців тому +9

      That’s for her to know, and for you to mind your own anatomy.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +2

      Pidgeon had a genetic imbalance in the womb. And it caused Pidgeon to have a male chromosome and look like a female. Not confusing at all. And now that Pidgeon knows the truth, she decides to be nonbinary. Which, in reality Pidgeon is.

  • @OleLockAndKey
    @OleLockAndKey 7 місяців тому +5

    "Pigeon, whose birth name is Jennifer"...tells you all you need to know about these people
    Clown world 🤦🏻‍♂️🤡

    • @Sj27m
      @Sj27m 7 місяців тому +5

      I think pigeon would be an appropriate name for all leftists.

    • @robertcuratolo5339
      @robertcuratolo5339 7 місяців тому +4

      What you mean by "These People"?

    • @OleLockAndKey
      @OleLockAndKey 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Sj27mI have other words for them, but my comments would be deleted by the arbiter of truth - youtube/google

    • @Sj27m
      @Sj27m 7 місяців тому +3

      @@OleLockAndKey
      Now that's not fair.
      About 1 out of 20 of mine make it through. 😂
      What is fun is to have two devices and All your comments will show up on the one you post from but look on a separate device and few if any actually post.
      I've posted hard left leaning Wikipedia statistics on crime only for them not to post.
      Light is the sworn enemy of darkness.

    • @OleLockAndKey
      @OleLockAndKey 7 місяців тому +1

      @@Sj27myup! There was a guy in Germany that used to decide what everyone's "truth" should be, similar to what google does...🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • @DickNasty480
    @DickNasty480 7 місяців тому +2

    You are not special or unique

    • @xelamercedes
      @xelamercedes 7 місяців тому +10

      We are all special and unique. Even identical twins have unique characteristics.

    • @0hffs
      @0hffs 7 місяців тому +4

      neither are you 👌

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +8

      I think that's the point. Pidgeon just wants to live her life without condemnation. Like everyone else. And that idea ISN'T unique or special.

    • @0hffs
      @0hffs 7 місяців тому

      @@queent3343 yeah? so explain the oxymoron of the LGBTQIA+ community supporting Hamas as a "movement" when Arab countries and society does not care about your individualism and uniqueness. While Pigeon wants, Pigeon isn't gonna get.

    • @queent3343
      @queent3343 7 місяців тому +1

      @@0hffsHere are more sweeping generalizations you. Why do women and minorities support the Republican party? Name one thing they've done to make any of their lives better? And here's a reality check, Pigeon wants her body parts back, is she going to get that? And will she ever be except as what she truly is? Nope and Nope. And if this is an issue that bothers you, why be part of the conversation?