Why do books have a cover? It's for slightly and quickly judging what the insides might be. Don't judge a book by its cover doesn't make a lot of sense.
@@gameoverfm as someone who made book covers, it makes way more sense then you think it does. You have no idea what kind of terrible and boring books we've had to make seem super interesting by designing great and interesting covers for them
@@sarathomas8499 Too bad that there's a lot to looks that's influenced by genetics only and you can't help it but people still severely judge you for it. I'm guilty of it my self some times, specially when I'm not in a good mood but there's somewhat of a distinction between what you can influence and what you can't influence. Too many guys get rejected for their hight for example, has nothing to do with confidence as they claim in the video
in all seriousness though, be yourself! if she doesnt want who you really are, it's just a waste of time pretending you're someone you're not, just to get her attention.
That's what I was trying to say but everyone kept saying I was lying and girls only want bad boys🤦🏼♀️ But you're exactly right. Yeah, you have to catch their eye, but it's who you are as a person that keeps them around
I agree and I am a woman myself but many are too self entitled and think they are all that. But guys can be like that too so it just depends on the person. There are plenty of more fish in the sea.
@@valenciasaintilus9573 That makes you the exception then. All it takes is one look at the dating pool requirements of some women to prove what she's talking about.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Half the fish are the wrong gender. Many are the wrong age. Many are already taken. Many would find you not their type. Many are geographically unreachable. Many are the wrong person beliefs-wise.
@@wutgreens443 Ha. Can be totally subjective and it depends on both parties in the relationship but I would say to just be with someone who is also your bestfriend in every aspect, respect one another, forgive things that are forgivable, and to support and motivate each other lol. Things aren't perfect in my relationship but when I really think about it, I wouldn't have it any other way 😁
This was cracked me up. Great advice. Just be yourself, whatever that looks like. And, love yourself. You're on a date for you too, so enjoy yourself and try to worry less about what she's thinking. Maybe you will be the one that rejects her in the end. She is not superior or inferior to you.
I struck out on the dating game on the first tip. My hair's been balding/receding since I was 20. It's been a huge hit on my confidence. I'm 30 now and no luck in love ever.
Don't give up. Hair is great, but honestly, I've loved a bald Patrick Steward since I was a teenager. And honestly he is still a very beautiful old man.
you can grow hair and/or beard via using minoxidil, I suggest to try to use it, it works (but try not to buy a fake one). Personally I use minoxidil by Kirkland
Honestly if I gotta change who I am for a girl to like me then she isn’t the girl for me I will act and look like what makes me feel comfortable that’s how I got my girl of my dreams
Only partially true. If you have a weird personality or you act in a way that’s odd and you stay that way because you “wont change who you are for anyone”, that’ll never get you the girl that you want.
"You should smile more … you look better, more approachable" … wasn't that a sexist thing to say to a women, no long ago? And now it happens to be a trade they look for in potential partners? Funny how that works, hu
It's not that deep dude. Anyone looks more approachable when they smile more, works for both sides. You wouldn't want your SO to be in a constant frown right?
@@nal9398 his picture is Rick Sanchez... You dont think he has that picture because he is a bubbly and fun guy to be around do you? Or he wrote a reply like that out of general need to udnerstand this? No he is a depressed person who got his heart broken and blames everyone else for why, when it was his fuslt and his personality that caused it. And he hasnt moved on or improved himself to prevent it happening in future. Just like Rick... Rick Sanchez the biggest hypocrite in the multiverse.
@@nal9398 I'm not arguing against it. Make sense that people are more approachable if they smile, the hair is done properly, they look good and dress well. All valid points. What I'm arguing is that if a men says this of a women is sexist but if a women says this of a men, is not. Even more soo, you can make a UA-cam video and monetize it without any risk of violation, but if it is the other way around, you can have a strike on your channel.
@@drunkpaulocosta and your picture is of a grumpy old cat. What says that about you? Mine is because I love the show and character, and find dark humor the best kind of humor. I'm a pretty handsome man, with a tick in most of the trades the video lists. That doesn't disqualify my point of view or my ability to point a double standard or someone being incoherent. Next time try not to project your faults and lacks of character onto others.
Don't do the "adidas" haircut. A buzz cut or shaven works. It's not how it looks, it's more: "look like you maintain" your look and don't look like you're hiding something.
@@zlac true that. its all about perception. (and just a side note,we women do find buzz cuts really attractive. complete consensus among all my best friends on this topic, even though we had massively contrasting choices on the other parameters)
@@eliasl332 if you feel like there is something wrong with you then change it because of you, not because of other people. I'm assuming you are in highschool... If you don't make friends in highschool then you will for sure make some when you get to university or your work. Says the antisocial who had no friends from sophomore to senior year and is making a bunch of friends at his university ;)
@@UA-cam_name5651 i dont need friends, i need perfection Im always working for it, my standards are beyond, who needs love, the thing human call love is most likely attraction I got over that, always looking forward for divine and ditch this weak human body, mortals are juvenile and foolish they must be educated with pain Their doom is inevitable
@Black Women Love Latino Men Men that think women are one note and hate the entire gender because they can't get one, or if they manage to, they go for the worst type and assume all women are the same. The stereotype that all women are good at is spending your money is common amongst these people.
@@BabsChannel Stereotype comes from experience. No stereotype just magically appears out of nowhere. All stereotypes exist for a reason. They don't fall from the sky. A stereotype by definition appears in zeitgeist because so many people do that.
I'm a Cherokee with some noticable "they were quicker, but I won" combat scars. My first impression is almost always criminal or fear. If they have no reservations about it, then I get scared.
@@ROOSTER333 thanks but it's only a self deprecating observation, not wholly true every time, but way more often than should be the case... even if I was a criminal or not.
Honestly as a female, I would just assume an accident or something and not say anything. I am from a blue collar family in a farming and military town and, experience has taught me that honestly stuff just happens sometimes. And I don't know your story so I have no place to judge.
These are all very good points! The first thing I look for is personal hygiene. One too many have approached me smelling like old gym socks with strong BO and an overall seemingly poor personal health. If they do not want to care for their own well-being, how will I know they can care for me? First impressions are definitely important! Also, being a gentleman is the way to go. Be polite. You have no idea how the simple acts of opening a door, allowing us to take the first seat at a date, and even offering to walk you to your vehicle, means to us. Ensuring that you can look out for a potential companion is huge in my eyes. But these are all my own personal thoughts when it comes to men. Everyone has their opinions on the matter, the same goes for women. Kindness goes a long way.
I read a great story about that a while ago. Dad takes his highschool daughter to the schools football game and notices that one of her classmates seems quite attracted to his daughter. So he tells her that she should go for it. She giggles a little and says "Dad, that not a guy you date. That's a guy you marry." Basically saying that's the guy you settle down with once you've had your dating fun.
I feel like a great sense of humor isn't appreciated enough in this video. That's a major thing for a lot of women. Shows that you're able to joke around and not take everything too seriously.
Be yourself ,not someone your not. Be approachable, smile, do your best to take care of yourself, and DON'T TRY TOO HARD TO GET THE GIRL. and the right one will find YOU!
@@supercooldude824 Men who have been in toxic relationships or altercations with women when trying to simply approach them. Women don't know what they want, it's about how they feel in the moment.
Did you really just do an entire video of basic hygene and social skills and act like thats what women want? Thats literally the bare minimum of being a human being. All this taught me were women are just like men and will sleep with anything in a nice outfit thats showered
I usually wear a massive jacket and some slim fit pants for comfort. Some cat ears and and kitty slippers. One girl stared at me soo long she fell into a sewer. She had such a weird look but I knew she was just amazed.
As an autistic person, don't give up :) I'm dating a really sweet girl right now, and she doesn't care at all that I'm neurodivergent. Even if it's hard to socialize right now, that doesn't mean there's no way for you to meet people or for anyone to like you
Tall skinny and flat abs younger than me and intelligent confident great singer and actor high credit score- good with saving money-great chef- sarcastic and loves dogs and his family! Blue green eyes and sensual - I got lucky with him !!
@Black Women Love Latino Men agree, they say "I want a man like this and this and this..." Or "my man is this and this and this" but they aren't even half of that.
I've got an interesting little story about my dating experience. I'm fairly new to dating, and I always figured I'd have to be the one trying to hint towards people that I like them that I never realized that my current gf was flirting with me before we started dating. Took someone to set me up with them for me to realize they did like me, which was an utter shock to say the least.
I kind of object since it's like proving the fact that after dating and on the long run? people drop everything, weigh out the pros and the cons to make their relationships work. And while getting drunk may not be a good way to have a first impression to someone, it is an honest way to meet someone and you can tell who are you really dealing with.
Look guys ima be 100% real with y’all convo is prolly the most important part. As long as you don’t look like you crawled outta dumpster you’re good. TRUST ME I don’t get hoochie the most there’s def people that do way more BUT what I’ve noticed if you look like you put effort into (like they said) and make eye contact n y’all both kinda smile or gives you the look… be the one to spark convo & remember girls love compliments! Don’t flatter me too hard maybe a few flattering comments and def more witty ones. It takes practice, my thing is if you don’t get turned down, you’re not trying. I’ll admit I’ve been turned down a few times, you learn from it! Keep your head up guys! Just remember 1) it only takes a lil effort in how you look 2) YOU spark the convo, and definitely confidence is key 3) when you compliment her say it like you mean it, if you hesitate at ALL girls will smell it like a fuqing flock of great whites chasing a wounded zebra!
"eye contact" and that's why I'm single. I can't for the life of me keep my eyes still in one place for a long time. So they wander. No matter with who I am talking to. But I'm still listening and talking. Just... not constantly looking at their eyes.
I feel that however people convey themselves is just them reflecting their personality and you shouldn't change the way you are just because some talkshow host of a informational youtube chanel tells you different.
as a woman, I say that the first thing I notice is if a guy stinks. Like seriously, go take a shower if you're not showering every day! Every second day isn't enough! And use some deodorant AFTER showering, not instead! Air freshener only works if you've already flushed the toilet, so why should it be different for deodorant?!
@@Theamericanvillian I literally had a mohawk three years ago and an afro now. They aren't lame, people really like those styles because they stand out.
confidence check smile check good looks check smell good check eye contact check manners check every single girl saying they would be with me but...check
Him: if your talking to someone that talks a lot make sure to seam interested don’t cross your arms or look toward the exit Me: “looks out the school bus window”
1st, SHOES!!! I know it's superficial, but if you take the time to keep your shoes in good condition, then you're typically going to keep yourself in good overall condition as well. So it's always the 1st thing I notice about someone. Smell is 2nd. I live a great smelling man. 😋 3rd is if you can make me laugh. If you're able to check off those 3 things, you're good with me!
Hair ✅ Breath❎ Posture❎ Scent✅ Faking intrest✅ Cloth✅ Nice face✅ Shoes❎ Tall✅ Confidence ❎ How i treat others Um... I compromise a lot How i laugh: Worse than father Manners✅ Hygiene ✅ Social media presence 🥴
As a woman, this always been a weird statement to me, like, idk...maybe I just notice their whole existence?🤷🏽♀️😂 I don't technically look for anything in particular but I have a weakness for men with nice beards lol!
What a woman says she like and the type of men she dates can be totally 2 different things.
Exactly!
Yep
When they say they like something it might not be for attraction. Maybe they just like seeing someone who just has that cause it's neat.
The dual mating strategy. What she wants and what she needs, she'll get both either way.
In the end, these white female of human species pick the money "donated" to them from their online store that doesn't see anything to do with fan
People always tell me not to judge a book by it’s cover. But, like, that’s literally the first thing that leaves an impression on people.
Yea I feel like loole are important it tells you who the person is but after that then you get to know the person for who they are
Why do books have a cover? It's for slightly and quickly judging what the insides might be. Don't judge a book by its cover doesn't make a lot of sense.
@@gameoverfm as someone who made book covers, it makes way more sense then you think it does. You have no idea what kind of terrible and boring books we've had to make seem super interesting by designing great and interesting covers for them
@@sarathomas8499 Too bad that there's a lot to looks that's influenced by genetics only and you can't help it but people still severely judge you for it. I'm guilty of it my self some times, specially when I'm not in a good mood but there's somewhat of a distinction between what you can influence and what you can't influence. Too many guys get rejected for their hight for example, has nothing to do with confidence as they claim in the video
@@belivuk2526 I agree with you :)
"Avoid self deprecating humor"
Well that's the hardest one to follow in this whole guide
Heheh first
It's a job interview. They want cash
Lol everyday
Lol
Hello again
“You’re a catch, act like it.” Actually made me feel more confident. I love this show
@Makoto kitty 24mins later ido lol
You get it… all these comments. You get it
in all seriousness though, be yourself! if she doesnt want who you really are, it's just a waste of time pretending you're someone you're not, just to get her attention.
Good advice bro :)
That's exactly what I was thinking. It's easier, more genuine and will avoid problems in the future!
That's what I was trying to say but everyone kept saying I was lying and girls only want bad boys🤦🏼♀️
But you're exactly right. Yeah, you have to catch their eye, but it's who you are as a person that keeps them around
Who cares what women think? If they like you cool, if not oh well. Take women off the pedestal.
I agree and I am a woman myself but many are too self entitled and think they are all that. But guys can be like that too so it just depends on the person. There are plenty of more fish in the sea.
amen o that brother
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj oh please. I'm a woman as well and I don't see people in that way man or women.
@@valenciasaintilus9573 That makes you the exception then. All it takes is one look at the dating pool requirements of some women to prove what she's talking about.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Half the fish are the wrong gender. Many are the wrong age. Many are already taken. Many would find you not their type. Many are geographically unreachable. Many are the wrong person beliefs-wise.
So the first thing they notice is every single thing about your appearance. Got it thanks 🤦
You seem disappointed
Well kinda because you can't really show your personality every moment 😂😂
@Black Women Love Latino Men what about u
@Black Women Love Latino Men why should he be disappointed then
Even with the best appearance you are going nowhere if you are not a good talker.
I no longer care about what they want, just aimed at improving myself and minding my business.
This is the real thing right here.
Exactly!
Ironically, that's exactly what the ladies want.
Sigma male
sigma grindset
"It's good to be out there in the dating world..."
Me: Well, that is a load of s**t....
I've been in my relationship for 12 years now and I would be mortified dating nowadays 😅
@@Naistov tell me your secret to a lasting relationship or i will commence Armageddon
Im glad i dont have any
Im free af
@@wutgreens443 Ha. Can be totally subjective and it depends on both parties in the relationship but I would say to just be with someone who is also your bestfriend in every aspect, respect one another, forgive things that are forgivable, and to support and motivate each other lol. Things aren't perfect in my relationship but when I really think about it, I wouldn't have it any other way 😁
Be clean and be yourself, don’t be fake lol that’s it
I mean it's not that I can't pull girls, it's bc I can't manage relatonsheps ;(
This was cracked me up. Great advice. Just be yourself, whatever that looks like. And, love yourself. You're on a date for you too, so enjoy yourself and try to worry less about what she's thinking. Maybe you will be the one that rejects her in the end. She is not superior or inferior to you.
I struck out on the dating game on the first tip. My hair's been balding/receding since I was 20. It's been a huge hit on my confidence. I'm 30 now and no luck in love ever.
start going to events that interest you maybe youll meet people there or worst case at least you have experiences to talk about
Don't give up. Hair is great, but honestly, I've loved a bald Patrick Steward since I was a teenager. And honestly he is still a very beautiful old man.
Shave ur head bald!
you can grow hair and/or beard via using minoxidil, I suggest to try to use it, it works (but try not to buy a fake one). Personally I use minoxidil by Kirkland
Honestly if I gotta change who I am for a girl to like me then she isn’t the girl for me I will act and look like what makes me feel comfortable that’s how I got my girl of my dreams
Only partially true. If you have a weird personality or you act in a way that’s odd and you stay that way because you “wont change who you are for anyone”, that’ll never get you the girl that you want.
Ding!
"But if your LESS
Genetically BLESSED"
For sure, my Cells are angry when they've heard this...
"You should smile more … you look better, more approachable" … wasn't that a sexist thing to say to a women, no long ago? And now it happens to be a trade they look for in potential partners? Funny how that works, hu
Double standards
It's not that deep dude. Anyone looks more approachable when they smile more, works for both sides. You wouldn't want your SO to be in a constant frown right?
@@nal9398 his picture is Rick Sanchez... You dont think he has that picture because he is a bubbly and fun guy to be around do you?
Or he wrote a reply like that out of general need to udnerstand this?
No he is a depressed person who got his heart broken and blames everyone else for why, when it was his fuslt and his personality that caused it.
And he hasnt moved on or improved himself to prevent it happening in future. Just like Rick... Rick Sanchez the biggest hypocrite in the multiverse.
@@nal9398 I'm not arguing against it. Make sense that people are more approachable if they smile, the hair is done properly, they look good and dress well. All valid points.
What I'm arguing is that if a men says this of a women is sexist but if a women says this of a men, is not. Even more soo, you can make a UA-cam video and monetize it without any risk of violation, but if it is the other way around, you can have a strike on your channel.
@@drunkpaulocosta and your picture is of a grumpy old cat. What says that about you?
Mine is because I love the show and character, and find dark humor the best kind of humor.
I'm a pretty handsome man, with a tick in most of the trades the video lists. That doesn't disqualify my point of view or my ability to point a double standard or someone being incoherent.
Next time try not to project your faults and lacks of character onto others.
First thing they look at... hair. Yep, I'm gonna die alone. Thanks genetics, you did me a real solid.
bunch of nonsense, if you would step out of maybach no one would look at your hair
I need no one anyways
Don't do the "adidas" haircut. A buzz cut or shaven works. It's not how it looks, it's more: "look like you maintain" your look and don't look like you're hiding something.
I have extremely bad dandruff so yea my hair isn’t to good
@@zlac true that. its all about perception. (and just a side note,we women do find buzz cuts really attractive. complete consensus among all my best friends on this topic, even though we had massively contrasting choices on the other parameters)
Your survival story vids are the best.
This is the most important survival manual
I know right. This video here helped me escape the woods of Canada
Remember guys, just be you and that way you will find people who like you because of who you are and not what you want to be or what you can be. :)
Positive message but I can get only waifus this way. Says the unconfident weep that spends all the time indoors and has dead social life.
@@eliasl332 if you feel like there is something wrong with you then change it because of you, not because of other people. I'm assuming you are in highschool... If you don't make friends in highschool then you will for sure make some when you get to university or your work. Says the antisocial who had no friends from sophomore to senior year and is making a bunch of friends at his university ;)
@@UA-cam_name5651 i dont need friends, i need perfection
Im always working for it, my standards are beyond, who needs love, the thing human call love is most likely attraction
I got over that, always looking forward for divine and ditch this weak human body, mortals are juvenile and foolish they must be educated with pain
Their doom is inevitable
@@Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman "They must be educated with pain" it reminds me of Pain from Naruto "Now you will know pain... ALMIGHTY PUSH!!!!"😂
@@Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman Oof, careful you're gonna cut yourself with all that edge
The first thing women notice about guys:
*Their wallet*
Yikes dude
@@snickerdoodle7767 Found the incel.
@Black Women Love Latino Men Men that think women are one note and hate the entire gender because they can't get one, or if they manage to, they go for the worst type and assume all women are the same.
The stereotype that all women are good at is spending your money is common amongst these people.
@@BabsChannel Stereotype comes from experience.
No stereotype just magically appears out of nowhere.
All stereotypes exist for a reason. They don't fall from the sky.
A stereotype by definition appears in zeitgeist because so many people do that.
The truth is hard sometimes.. If you are not looking to start a family any time soon go for the paid services, they are more profitable.
Women only notice one thing in Men... It is
1. Everything
I'm a Cherokee with some noticable "they were quicker, but I won" combat scars. My first impression is almost always criminal or fear. If they have no reservations about it, then I get scared.
I'll give a like for the Cherokee joke
@@ROOSTER333 thanks but it's only a self deprecating observation, not wholly true every time, but way more often than should be the case... even if I was a criminal or not.
Honestly as a female, I would just assume an accident or something and not say anything. I am from a blue collar family in a farming and military town and, experience has taught me that honestly stuff just happens sometimes. And I don't know your story so I have no place to judge.
Who's not "genetically blessed"
Raise your hand 🙋♂️
✋
🖐
🖐️
With my luck im most likely am 🖐️
✋🏻
Wow, a video that talks about how to make a good first impression that isn't pickup artistry, that's great
Moral of the story/lesson, be yourself with a little spice 🌶, try to look like you care lol, and do your best. ☺️👊🏽❤️
Just make sure things don't get too spicy for the pepper..... xD
These are all very good points! The first thing I look for is personal hygiene. One too many have approached me smelling like old gym socks with strong BO and an overall seemingly poor personal health. If they do not want to care for their own well-being, how will I know they can care for me? First impressions are definitely important! Also, being a gentleman is the way to go. Be polite. You have no idea how the simple acts of opening a door, allowing us to take the first seat at a date, and even offering to walk you to your vehicle, means to us. Ensuring that you can look out for a potential companion is huge in my eyes. But these are all my own personal thoughts when it comes to men.
Everyone has their opinions on the matter, the same goes for women. Kindness goes a long way.
Nothing hurts like a woman can,well unless you get kicked in the cohones
Hair is SUCH a big thing ! Hair can make or break whether or not a girl finds you attractive, trust me !!
you dont ask a fish how to catch a fish. you go to the fishermen.
@x9 well, i'm not going to the fisherman who's not catching.
all of these don't matter unless you are tall and handsome
I am tall, but I do not know about handsome.
@@superdays7933 show your pic, we'll be the judge
If you ask a man the same question the other way, you will only get one answer. You know that.
Whether they can game or not
What
Yeah, their hair
@Black Women Love Latino Men teynna figure out this riddle
That a$$! 😁
Nah they only see how much money they can take
Oof
The horrible truth. I don’t know if it’s worth it, compared to the paid services.
I read a great story about that a while ago. Dad takes his highschool daughter to the schools football game and notices that one of her classmates seems quite attracted to his daughter. So he tells her that she should go for it. She giggles a little and says "Dad, that not a guy you date. That's a guy you marry." Basically saying that's the guy you settle down with once you've had your dating fun.
@@azathoththe3rd If they didn't want us in their prime why would we want them in ours?
Infographic show: "To make a good an impression, you got to also look lower-"
Me: UHHHHHHHHHHHHHh
Infographics: "The shoes"
Me:...phew
I feel like a great sense of humor isn't appreciated enough in this video. That's a major thing for a lot of women. Shows that you're able to joke around and not take everything too seriously.
Then usually notice that I'm too hairy
Be yourself ,not someone your not. Be approachable, smile, do your best to take care of yourself, and DON'T TRY TOO HARD TO GET THE GIRL. and the right one will find YOU!
Infographics speaking some game for the young ones out here. Well done fellas. Young bucks take note.
except he isnt right at all
@@klimtkiller what are they wrong about?
My first sentence to my now 4-year Girlfriend was “ you have nice eyebrows. when will you have time to do mine?”🤣.
The worst mistake you can make is trusting a woman’s perspective. Learn from the fisherman not the fish…
Who is the fisherman in this in this point than?
@@supercooldude824 Men who have been in toxic relationships or altercations with women when trying to simply approach them. Women don't know what they want, it's about how they feel in the moment.
that's a warped way to look at the world but believe what you wish.
This is a hilarious yet very wise piece of advice. May have to pass it on.
@@jakylekuririn spot on.
I'm so happy to be a mixed breed. I inherited super thick dark hair from my native American ancestors and I love it so much
Same
Same here bro! Grows very straight!
They're check you from head to toe, then judge you...
but you must not judge them by how they look. 🤦♂️🤣😂🤣
Bruh infographic show helped more than 10 of my homies
Did you really just do an entire video of basic hygene and social skills and act like thats what women want?
Thats literally the bare minimum of being a human being.
All this taught me were women are just like men and will sleep with anything in a nice outfit thats showered
Funny af
I usually wear a massive jacket and some slim fit pants for comfort. Some cat ears and and kitty slippers. One girl stared at me soo long she fell into a sewer. She had such a weird look but I knew she was just amazed.
That's a great strategy 10/10 would date
Fr?🤙🤙
it was obviously a joke
Meanwhile, us autistic people; Socially awkward and not easy to get on with or confident with other people.........
As an autistic person, don't give up :)
I'm dating a really sweet girl right now, and she doesn't care at all that I'm neurodivergent. Even if it's hard to socialize right now, that doesn't mean there's no way for you to meet people or for anyone to like you
Yep, I feel you on that. I'm so used to being single now I can't even imagine dating.
Surprising how this video nearly amassed a million view in 24 hour... Honestly people love these king of video more than anything ......Right?😂
Tall skinny and flat abs younger than me and intelligent confident great singer and actor high credit score- good with saving money-great chef- sarcastic and loves dogs and his family! Blue green eyes and sensual - I got lucky with him !!
Did you special order him on Amazon????
When we are in love everything is perfect...
Sounds like me but i dont got a girl 😎
@Black Women Love Latino Men agree, they say "I want a man like this and this and this..." Or "my man is this and this and this" but they aren't even half of that.
Just be attractive, at its core.
the first thing they notice is height, jawline, eye-area...basically anything that isnt under your control. dont be fooled guys
And men don't?
@@SomethingBeautifulHandcrafts what is your point?
Its hard for them to notice my hair due to the glare off my head...where hair used to be
Anybody who sees this
Have a blessed day 😁😁😁😁
6:12 'there is a reason he got thrown out of family dinner ' 😂
Woman looks for:
Looks,
Money,
Finitial Stability
A bunch of personality requirements
Men look for:
Be educated
Atleast be a nice person
u forgot looks
The old Asian saying is women go for talent/money and men go for looks!
my personal requirement is be a decent person, have substance/character and emotional intelligence. I believe my bar is reasonable.
@@valenciasaintilus9573 emotional intelligence is not real and cannot do math.
I've got an interesting little story about my dating experience. I'm fairly new to dating, and I always figured I'd have to be the one trying to hint towards people that I like them that I never realized that my current gf was flirting with me before we started dating. Took someone to set me up with them for me to realize they did like me, which was an utter shock to say the least.
THAT FADE THO
Within 2 mins of upload!! Earliest I have seen a video!
The advice works on men too, ladies.
What makes you think anyone watching this have ever talked to a woman
They really hit my guy with a stick. 😂😂😂
2:35
Well I could have use this last week asking out my crush
3:53 They had us in the first half, not gonna lie.
The first thing they notice is how they look just like with anyone…
I kind of object since it's like proving the fact that after dating and on the long run? people drop everything, weigh out the pros and the cons to make their relationships work. And while getting drunk may not be a good way to have a first impression to someone, it is an honest way to meet someone and you can tell who are you really dealing with.
if you ask a guy what he wants.... you know that pal... but if you ask him to not scream about ......😶😶....
Look guys ima be 100% real with y’all convo is prolly the most important part. As long as you don’t look like you crawled outta dumpster you’re good. TRUST ME I don’t get hoochie the most there’s def people that do way more BUT what I’ve noticed if you look like you put effort into (like they said) and make eye contact n y’all both kinda smile or gives you the look… be the one to spark convo & remember girls love compliments! Don’t flatter me too hard maybe a few flattering comments and def more witty ones. It takes practice, my thing is if you don’t get turned down, you’re not trying. I’ll admit I’ve been turned down a few times, you learn from it! Keep your head up guys! Just remember
1) it only takes a lil effort in how you look
2) YOU spark the convo, and definitely confidence is key
3) when you compliment her say it like you mean it, if you hesitate at ALL girls will smell it like a fuqing flock of great whites chasing a wounded zebra!
Finally a infographics vid on women😂
The eyes. They must be kind and intelligent. After all, they are "the mirror of the soul".
You really should never ask women what they want. Just observe what they do.
Yup. This applies to men and women. Actions speak louder than words.
"eye contact" and that's why I'm single.
I can't for the life of me keep my eyes still in one place for a long time. So they wander. No matter with who I am talking to. But I'm still listening and talking. Just... not constantly looking at their eyes.
I feel that however people convey themselves is just them reflecting their personality and you shouldn't change the way you are just because some talkshow host of a informational youtube chanel tells you different.
Now, there will be a flood of love and relationship experts in the comments section.
Probably being watched all the time?
God fearing men : Amen
I brush my teeth every night but because I'm a coffee/tea drinker they are pretty much stained a bit yellow.
Dont worry. Teeth are supposed to be slightly yellow. Anyone who has really white teeth only have them because they paid to get then bleached.
well thats a big drop in quality of information in this one
*This is a certified non-hood classic!!*
😂
Lol
Don't chase just replace. No woman should be the center of your attention, she at best should be an accessory.
as a woman, I say that the first thing I notice is if a guy stinks. Like seriously, go take a shower if you're not showering every day! Every second day isn't enough! And use some deodorant AFTER showering, not instead!
Air freshener only works if you've already flushed the toilet, so why should it be different for deodorant?!
Can you do a swat training video
This is the content I need
What women think.
As soon you say I DO, instantly she think, maybe I could do better?.
Gonna use these tips to help me
First, how they are looking at me.😊
Second, their head! I'm attracted to bald/balding men! 🦲
I have the feeling that my half Afro half Mohawk hair is giving off the wrong vibes
How is that even possible haha?
Yea who tf wears an afro or mohawk anymore. A mohawk is lame af
@@Theamericanvillian I literally had a mohawk three years ago and an afro now. They aren't lame, people really like those styles because they stand out.
@x9 nah wtf, now my dreads get females not no dusty mohawk
At least you got hair 😐😑
3:19 nothing empties a room faster than a sneezing fit either
"It's good to be out there in the dating world."
Me: That's not true, just Bulls*ht
Me, as An Intelectual: _"This is a load of barnacles."_
Nah money is the first thing
confidence check
smile check
good looks check
smell good check
eye contact check
manners check
every single girl saying they would be with me but...check
yeah they only go for the guys who r rich, handsome and their status
Oh yes let's go to the bar to meet women when everything is online now including dating 😑
1. Hair
Me: permanently bald 😢
😆😁😂😣😭
Say " Gurrl Ya Thcker than a bowl of oat meal !!!"
what everyone first notices: everything the eyes can see. who wouldve thought
self deprecating humour was never cool, just awkward and sad
At 5:43 he says it so confordently
It's a job interview? They want money
When I go on a date all this applies to the girl and as well as myself, it goes both ways.
Indeed.
For both sexes.
The Infographics Channel: "Act like you're always being watched"
The FBI: *laughs in omniscience*
Him: if your talking to someone that talks a lot make sure to seam interested don’t cross your arms or look toward the exit
Me: “looks out the school bus window”
1st, SHOES!!! I know it's superficial, but if you take the time to keep your shoes in good condition, then you're typically going to keep yourself in good overall condition as well. So it's always the 1st thing I notice about someone. Smell is 2nd. I live a great smelling man. 😋 3rd is if you can make me laugh. If you're able to check off those 3 things, you're good with me!
How long it takes him to finish in a ice cream cone
One thing you'll never see is you'll never see a video saying women don't do this on a first date
Hair ✅
Breath❎
Posture❎
Scent✅
Faking intrest✅
Cloth✅
Nice face✅
Shoes❎
Tall✅
Confidence ❎
How i treat others
Um... I compromise a lot
How i laugh: Worse than father
Manners✅
Hygiene ✅
Social media presence 🥴
As a woman, this always been a weird statement to me, like, idk...maybe I just notice their whole existence?🤷🏽♀️😂 I don't technically look for anything in particular but I have a weakness for men with nice beards lol!