I appreciate your videos man! You’ve helped me come out of my comfort zone and talk to girls. Also banger video!! Yesterday I had a date with this girl, and I was nervous af but she was still really into me :), in the end of our date it came to the point of “so what do you want to do” and I just held her hand for like a solid 5 mins, when I walked her to her car she told me we should hang out more often, and then today bro she calls me and she said she just wanted to hang out. Bro your videos help me understand romantic situations better, keep up the hard work
women will never make the first move(they will show subtle signs that she wants YOU to make it) nowadays, if she accepted to hang out with you, it's a big sign that she wants somethin' more with ya if you are 100% sure that she is interested, just make the move. regardless of overthinking, fear, nervousness just do it. confidence is KEY for everything that involves women. have a confident body language and don't demonstrate nervousness. you can literally talk about whatever you want with a girl. don't overthink "the best things to say" just talk as long as you don't turn it in an interview. make eye contact, this will show you are safe and confident about yourself. be playful, as it will make both you and her more comfortable and create a relaxed environment
Won’t lie, i just ended things with this girl that i actually liked and lowkey caught feelings for and she liked me too, she was talking about wanting to be with me forever and all that, but because i’m religious, I’ve learned from others saying that there is no point in engaging with a relationship if you are not going to marry the girl. my place in life is going to be completely different in 1-3 years so i didn’t see myself marrying this girl, as in some traits she had i ain’t see as wifey material, but just as relationship material for now as i’m only 21, and never been in one no cap, so i wanted to experience a relationship for the first time. so i had to end things because i actually cared for her and didn’t wanna mess her up or lead her on cuz that’s selfish
@@uchihadna920 straight to the point like a real one fr. But you dont know what could have been. Life changes. Quick. Also, you saying that shit wasnt selfish that u ended it like that, like leading her on wouldve been, it dont sit right w me. Still I think that was the right move, I just hope you had a little heart to heart before you pulled this one. Dont ever make solo decisions like that in a relationship. communication is key.
Ayo what's good bro , saw ur first video today and subscribed , what u say is facts can't lie , for real brother like the things u say is so true and I'm glad u can help people with the experience u have had in life . Keep spending the truth bro and keep on doing what u doing , means alot to me that their is people like u in this world that can help others , keep strong brother .
Difference between flirting and being weird is how attractive you are. That flirting vs harrassment meme is true. Search it up if u dont understand what i mean
My question to you, let's say I have my material down & got smooth convo going the girl's cheesing hard at me & giggling, what's the correct way to end an interaction on the street/a function? I already learned how to cut back & talk in a way that makes people laugh, I ask questions, I do tend to get nervous & forget things as I'm talking to a female but I make up for it every time w/ all my other skills. I've gotten dates, #s but have much to learn. I basically have a point of reference & want to build on it. & I know the place to start is to learn better conversation etiquette. You're funny af & have an actual personality & brains far beyond just having looks or style, so I respect you a lot. You're a lot like some of my best friends who are also highly intelligent & good with women. You look like one of my best friends in particular & he's funny af I'm telling him abt your channel
the truth is i was a player when i was kid i pulled a lotta girls and i lived like a main character but when puberty hitted me the cute and adorable face i had just vanished and now i became a little insecure but instead of focusing on my insecurities im trying to focus on how i could improve my communication skills and my body movements so i could be natural and stop acting like im being forced to
hahaha you're a delulu man. me as a real ladies man can say, yeah as a kid I was also popular. but what's going on in life as a adult its something different. you said it, what's back then with 15, 16, 17 years, its for kids and not really cool or serious, its laughable haha.
Today I offically turned to Christ✝️. My parents are Muslim, and I’m scared to tell them because I know they will hate me for it, and not accept me. It’s a very difficult situation for me.
@@swaythekid Brother I read the Quran, the bible and the jewish bible. And I felt closest the bible. I know that everyone needs a God in their life, and mine was meant to be father, son and the holy spirit.
I rmr one time a girl actually came up to me and I’m gonna be honest hooking up w her was the worst decision in my life several years of agony and pain being so attached to this girl man I came to point where I was like no one will ever be as cool as she is.
Question Kam, what happens if you want a girlfriend, but you want to go crazy like when you both get married, is there a way to convince her to wait? I’m not in this situation, I just want to know by when the time comes.
Bro I was talking to a girl for about 3 to 4 weeks we vibed and I made her laugh a lot I ask her if she want to get something to eat because I thought we was cool and friends but she told me a lie that she was going to meet her bf but before this I asked what her plans were and she told me she had nothing to do after class but I didn’t say anything because I was nervous. Where did I mess up or go wrong?
Bro, a veces no es culpa tuya ni algo que hayas hecho, puedes ser el mejor aguacate pero siempre va a haber alguien que no le gusten los aguacates. Sea o no sea tu culpa, aprende y no te mortifiques, tampoco te enojes con ella o con contigo, el que se enoja pierde. Acepta lo que paso y sigue adelante.
@@Ricardo2-dsm si pero pienso que pudría hablar con ella más tiempo para conocer mejor hacer Un bien amistad, que era muy temprano para preguntar. I should have texted with her more
@@AdrianCampos-j6n nah bro, 3 - 4 semanas ya va de sobra, si hubiera sido por ahí en una semana se hacía, no cometas ese error de pensar que tienes que hablar con ella más antes de invitarla a algo. De hecho mientras más pronto mejor (claro tampoco el primer mensaje) tienes que saber si le gustas realmente o si te tiene así por que le gusta que le des atención, mientras más te tardes en invitarla más vas a estar en ese limbo, no quieras extender ese limbo por miedo a que te rechaze,porque mientras más te tardes es más probable que cuando la invites ya te haya clasificado como amigo, claro,hay excepciones, a algunas les vas a gustar te tardes lo que te tardes tanto que hasta son ellas las que te invitan,pero estas son una de 100, no prolongues lo inevitable, o le gustas o no,no por "conocerla" le vas a gustar más, créeme he estado ahí, siempre es mejor al principio.
@@Ricardo2-dsm yeah I get what your saying but I only texted her a couple times about class y es todo but the vibe with her in person and in class was there . Idk man I had asked her antes que era sus planes para el fin de semana y tiene que trabajar but she said she had nothing to do after class but I didn’t say anything because I was nervous asking her out for the weekend pero ya pasó eso no puede hacer nada ya. Sucks she was a baddie
If he was onna topic of first date Ice cream is a pretty good option. It’s simple, you can eat it any wherever, and girls love it. Can’t go wrong with that
So this would apply to say, a roommate? I’m 24 she’s 19. She just broke up with her bf 9 months ago but she talks about how she’s lowkey still on him. I’m assuming this all applies the same? She claims im more or a brother to her but she constantly grinning and going out her way sometimes to talk to me. I even asked her if she views me as such and she said yeah but she was grinning when she did. We’ve only been acquainted for 4 months so far. She’s also kinda out looking for a good time right now not relationship. Any advice would be great.
If you feel he’s not a man, you can learn to do some things with him. Like chopping wood, Shoot, even lie and tell him “dang babe you’re so strong” it will convince him he’s strong and he’ll actually keep being strong without even knowing it.
Being playful is facts, if you joke with her you will be more relaxed and more in control
I appreciate your videos man! You’ve helped me come out of my comfort zone and talk to girls. Also banger video!! Yesterday I had a date with this girl, and I was nervous af but she was still really into me :), in the end of our date it came to the point of “so what do you want to do” and I just held her hand for like a solid 5 mins, when I walked her to her car she told me we should hang out more often, and then today bro she calls me and she said she just wanted to hang out. Bro your videos help me understand romantic situations better, keep up the hard work
I just lost my v card lowkey from this man helpin me😂
What a G, best of luck bro 🤝
women will never make the first move(they will show subtle signs that she wants YOU to make it)
nowadays, if she accepted to hang out with you, it's a big sign that she wants somethin' more with ya
if you are 100% sure that she is interested, just make the move. regardless of overthinking, fear, nervousness just do it.
confidence is KEY for everything that involves women. have a confident body language and don't demonstrate nervousness.
you can literally talk about whatever you want with a girl. don't overthink "the best things to say" just talk as long as you don't turn it in an interview.
make eye contact, this will show you are safe and confident about yourself.
be playful, as it will make both you and her more comfortable and create a relaxed environment
Won’t lie, i just ended things with this girl that i actually liked and lowkey caught feelings for and she liked me too, she was talking about wanting to be with me forever and all that, but because i’m religious, I’ve learned from others saying that there is no point in engaging with a relationship if you are not going to marry the girl. my place in life is going to be completely different in 1-3 years so i didn’t see myself marrying this girl, as in some traits she had i ain’t see as wifey material, but just as relationship material for now as i’m only 21, and never been in one no cap, so i wanted to experience a relationship for the first time. so i had to end things because i actually cared for her and didn’t wanna mess her up or lead her on cuz that’s selfish
Need some advice on if what i did was correct or opinions
@@uchihadna920 straight to the point like a real one fr. But you dont know what could have been. Life changes. Quick. Also, you saying that shit wasnt selfish that u ended it like that, like leading her on wouldve been, it dont sit right w me. Still I think that was the right move, I just hope you had a little heart to heart before you pulled this one. Dont ever make solo decisions like that in a relationship. communication is key.
You didn’t need to completely end it. All you needed to do was tell her the truth and see if she’ll comply or not. If she don’t. Leave
@Jack Will it help me?
claim your "here before patbat" ticket
🤝🏾
@PatBat69 here he comes
You need to eat me aka Cobb salad, I can Rizz her up for you, then you be a couple
@@natehiggers13what is that username bro…
Ayo what's good bro , saw ur first video today and subscribed , what u say is facts can't lie , for real brother like the things u say is so true and I'm glad u can help people with the experience u have had in life . Keep spending the truth bro and keep on doing what u doing , means alot to me that their is people like u in this world that can help others , keep strong brother .
This man is a solider dropping dimes
9:22 bet, I was questioning if I should have gone for it instead of building tension. I am glad you recommend we wait as long as possible
Well shit, take notes cause this man knows what's up. Very good advice explained well, respect
I came here for yall to give you this, if you aren’t tryna make any moves at all shes gonna think of you as a friend.
needed it thankls
this dude be lookin perry the platypus from Phineas the ferb
Difference between flirting and being weird is how attractive you are. That flirting vs harrassment meme is true. Search it up if u dont understand what i mean
Dress nicer. I bet you’re not hideous. I used to think I was, until my chin hair grew a little and trimmed my stash.
My question to you, let's say I have my material down & got smooth convo going the girl's cheesing hard at me & giggling, what's the correct way to end an interaction on the street/a function?
I already learned how to cut back & talk in a way that makes people laugh, I ask questions, I do tend to get nervous & forget things as I'm talking to a female but I make up for it every time w/ all my other skills. I've gotten dates, #s but have much to learn.
I basically have a point of reference & want to build on it. & I know the place to start is to learn better conversation etiquette.
You're funny af & have an actual personality & brains far beyond just having looks or style, so I respect you a lot. You're a lot like some of my best friends who are also highly intelligent & good with women. You look like one of my best friends in particular & he's funny af I'm telling him abt your channel
imma be honest i thought this dude gonna just yap and say bull shet at the beginning but he is speaking FACT
the truth is i was a player when i was kid i pulled a lotta girls and i lived like a main character but when puberty hitted me the cute and adorable face i had just vanished and now i became a little insecure but instead of focusing on my insecurities im trying to focus on how i could improve my communication skills and my body movements so i could be natural and stop acting like im being forced to
hahaha you're a delulu man. me as a real ladies man can say, yeah as a kid I was also popular. but what's going on in life as a adult its something different. you said it, what's back then with 15, 16, 17 years, its for kids and not really cool or serious, its laughable haha.
@luc74 just sharing my experience bro it's none of your business that's your opinion
@luc74 btw i just turned 18 time is on my side
Love your videos man, part of the reason I started making my own
INB4 PatBat
thank you for keeping it real.
u da goat bro.
bro left me with no question about seduction mode
Here before patbat69
Today I offically turned to Christ✝️. My parents are Muslim, and I’m scared to tell them because I know they will hate me for it, and not accept me. It’s a very difficult situation for me.
Why Not Islam ?
@@TwitchVlearzHub I always felt like I grew up in the wrong religion.
terrible decision
@@arianitzeqiri9854 why brother Islam is the way, man. :(
@@swaythekid Brother I read the Quran, the bible and the jewish bible. And I felt closest the bible. I know that everyone needs a God in their life, and mine was meant to be father, son and the holy spirit.
I learn a lot from you man!
I rmr one time a girl actually came up to me and I’m gonna be honest hooking up w her was the worst decision in my life several years of agony and pain being so attached to this girl man I came to point where I was like no one will ever be as cool as she is.
Bro…
Soul ties
Wow.
Question Kam, what happens if you want a girlfriend, but you want to go crazy like when you both get married, is there a way to convince her to wait? I’m not in this situation, I just want to know by when the time comes.
Find a girl who has the same moral, can’t force it on someone. If you try then a 6’6 nba player will be beating the doonies down
@@JamsTrading Thanks, I hope I will find one with the same morals, also wdym by the doonies?
😂😂😂
@@thamesplayz7406 cheeks
If she ain’t share that belief which is pretty significant, dump her. Ain’t worth your time.
Bro I was talking to a girl for about 3 to 4 weeks we vibed and I made her laugh a lot I ask her if she want to get something to eat because I thought we was cool and friends but she told me a lie that she was going to meet her bf but before this I asked what her plans were and she told me she had nothing to do after class but I didn’t say anything because I was nervous. Where did I mess up or go wrong?
Bro, a veces no es culpa tuya ni algo que hayas hecho, puedes ser el mejor aguacate pero siempre va a haber alguien que no le gusten los aguacates. Sea o no sea tu culpa, aprende y no te mortifiques, tampoco te enojes con ella o con contigo, el que se enoja pierde. Acepta lo que paso y sigue adelante.
@@Ricardo2-dsm si pero pienso que pudría hablar con ella más tiempo para conocer mejor hacer Un bien amistad, que era muy temprano para preguntar. I should have texted with her more
@@AdrianCampos-j6n nah bro, 3 - 4 semanas ya va de sobra, si hubiera sido por ahí en una semana se hacía, no cometas ese error de pensar que tienes que hablar con ella más antes de invitarla a algo. De hecho mientras más pronto mejor (claro tampoco el primer mensaje) tienes que saber si le gustas realmente o si te tiene así por que le gusta que le des atención, mientras más te tardes en invitarla más vas a estar en ese limbo, no quieras extender ese limbo por miedo a que te rechaze,porque mientras más te tardes es más probable que cuando la invites ya te haya clasificado como amigo, claro,hay excepciones, a algunas les vas a gustar te tardes lo que te tardes tanto que hasta son ellas las que te invitan,pero estas son una de 100, no prolongues lo inevitable, o le gustas o no,no por "conocerla" le vas a gustar más, créeme he estado ahí, siempre es mejor al principio.
@@Ricardo2-dsm yeah I get what your saying but I only texted her a couple times about class y es todo but the vibe with her in person and in class was there . Idk man I had asked her antes que era sus planes para el fin de semana y tiene que trabajar but she said she had nothing to do after class but I didn’t say anything because I was nervous asking her out for the weekend pero ya pasó eso no puede hacer nada ya. Sucks she was a baddie
banger vid
Kam how do u feel about patbat
He be deleting his videos because of him.
@@GuyVick patbat in kam 🤦🏽♂️
What if you in a group of people
patbat needs to collab with kam
great video bro 👍🏻
KFC Popeyes lol cmon bruh how u gon feed a b some grease
If he was onna topic of first date Ice cream is a pretty good option. It’s simple, you can eat it any wherever, and girls love it. Can’t go wrong with that
So this would apply to say, a roommate? I’m 24 she’s 19. She just broke up with her bf 9 months ago but she talks about how she’s lowkey still on him. I’m assuming this all applies the same? She claims im more or a brother to her but she constantly grinning and going out her way sometimes to talk to me. I even asked her if she views me as such and she said yeah but she was grinning when she did. We’ve only been acquainted for 4 months so far. She’s also kinda out looking for a good time right now not relationship. Any advice would be great.
Ik u have to talk to her build a connection break the touch barrier but after all that how long should you wait before shooting your shot?
Where u get that beanie bro?
wheres the discord
Use your height, bruh I'm pretty short 😂
Dope beanie!
Where is the discord server invite
Who is this patbat clown 😂
Please make video on what to do on second date
Why you got them filas dino stumpers on💀
Kam the great
where discord
This video is 1 week too late for me😅
7:00
Kam
i don't rock with jesus tho
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Does this work for guys too? Im trying to get better at flirting with my boyfriend.
Not at all. Remain in your feminine frame. Let him be a man and you be the woman. You will be happier
If you feel he’s not a man, you can learn to do some things with him. Like chopping wood, Shoot, even lie and tell him “dang babe you’re so strong” it will convince him he’s strong and he’ll actually keep being strong without even knowing it.
💪🏾
You talk to damn fast