Anthony O'Neal: Embracing Your Single Season

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  • Опубліковано 5 кві 2023
  • Redefining Love involves navigating the world of dating and relationships, which can be both terrifying and terrific all at once. While marriage is usually glorified in our society, I’m learning to embrace my single season and enjoy the connections that I’m able to make along the way.
    In this week’s episode, I’m joined by my friend, a national bestselling Author, Educator, Speaker, and Host of one of the top financial podcasts, Anthony O'Neal.
    Anthony went from being 19, and $35,000 in debt, to debt-free and living his life’s purpose, and as the Host of The Table with AO, he now strives to have REAL, RELATABLE & RELEVANT conversations that guide ambitious and purpose-minded people on a journey towards mental, spiritual and financial freedom.
    Key discussion points from this episode include:
    03:50 - Enjoy Your Single Season
    07:50 - What’s On Your Dating List
    19:00 - Relationships Require Vulnerability
    38:50 - Invest In You To Prepare For The One
    45:00 - Help A Bear Build
    48:10 - The Single’s Blueprint
    Embracing Your Single Season Takeaways
    “I’m enjoying my single season.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “Men are going to cover up their vulnerable side until a woman allows us to open up.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “If you have a man that is not vulnerable or emotional, it’s not his fault.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “I’m really investing in me being a healthier version of a man.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “Become what you’re trying to attract.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “The difference between someone who is successful and non-successful is they allow their moods to impact their moments.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “Sometimes people are not emotionally mature to process the truth.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “Help a bear build.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “If she can not submit to God, she cannot submit to man.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “Don’t allow your comfort zone to become your kill zone.” - Anthony O'Neal
    “Your network is greater than your net worth.” - Anthony O'Neal
    Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions
    And with that, let’s dig into Anthony’s responses to our Redefining Wealth Rapid Wisdom Questions.
    Define Success:
    “Success is how many people have I helped to get out of debt and build wealth.”
    Define Wealth in 3 Words or Less:
    "Joy, Peace, Love.”
    One Book that Has Helped You Redefined Wealth For Yourself:
    Think and Grow Rich: A Black Choice by Dennis Kimbro
    Fill-in the Blanks … “My name is ___ and the truth about wealth is ___”:
    “My name is AO, short for Anthony O'Neal and the truth about wealth is ‘God is good’.”
    Connect With Anthony:
    Instagram: @anthonyoneal | / anthonyoneal
    Website: www.anthonyoneal.com/
    Podcast: The Table With AO | / @anthonyoneal
    The Single’s Playbook Quiz: take.singlesplaybookquiz.com/
    LINKS:
    Take The Redefining Wealth QUIZ: patricewashington.com/starthere/
    Book Me To Speak: patricewashington.com/speaking/
    Find Me On Instagram: @SeekWisdomPCW
    / seekwisdompcw
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 62

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому +25

    AO there is only so many single successful black women in America you got to give one of these people a chance.

    • @Prosperityessentials
      @Prosperityessentials Рік тому +2

      Lol. He has, but he is being wise now and practicing self-love & prioritizing his own wellness.

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому

      @@Prosperityessentials that doesn't stop until you die single or not. The problem is he doesn't like to be on the phone after work caking and getting to know someone. He said that. He also said he been dating.

    • @daynelcollins5208
      @daynelcollins5208 Рік тому +3

      Sometimes we all make things harder than need to be and over analyze things.

  • @atee6331
    @atee6331 Рік тому +15

    I am so happy to hear Anthony talk about how much he invests in his mental and emotional well-being. There are men who absolutely WILL NOT talk to a therapist of any kind! It benefits everyone! I’m a subscriber to both of your channels and respect you both for the relevant conversations you both bring to your platforms. Thank you! Peace & Blessings to you both✌🏽🙏🏽

  • @mpatreece2726
    @mpatreece2726 Рік тому +9

    Aw Snap! This is a dynamic duo right here! I've got my popcorn ready! 😁

  • @islagirl10
    @islagirl10 Рік тому +1

    Patrice, thank you so much for this episode! I’m early into my thirties just out of a 7 year relationship and it’s so refreshing to hear from others older than me who are so resolute and convicted in who they want in a partner, while not necessarily in a rush to find that person. As painful as the end of my relationship and the presumed future of what I envisioned of the relationship was to get over, I’m now getting back to the place where I’m enjoying me for me while digging into what I’d want in a future partner when the time comes. Appreciate you & AO both and the wisdom you shared!

  • @ashleyjames3222
    @ashleyjames3222 Рік тому +5

    This episode of Redefine Wealth was amazing! Chileeee both of y’all speaking my language. Love love love this healthy conversation about stewarding your single season 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @thebackyardgardenexperienc5143

    I watch both of you and love what both of you represent and believe. You both speak my language and I love it!! I am looking forward to Patrice on AO.

  • @theladymvp
    @theladymvp Рік тому +4

    PA-TRICE!!! Anthony had some good content, but YOU had me rollin’!! 🤣🤣
    As always, love it! ❤❤ Great show.

  • @jaz1elise
    @jaz1elise 10 місяців тому

    So many gems in this episode for my single season that God has me in currently! I'm with Patrice on needing my husband to be over 6 feet because I am not an average woman for I am extraordinary! God has me working on me meaning my relationship with God, healing through therapy, living by myself soon, and fulfilling my God-given calling before He brings my husband this year.

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 10 місяців тому

    I've been single and celibate for 11 years and decided to stop dating about 5 or 6 years ago. I needed time for healing and learning to enjoy my own company which means OFTEN doing things SOLO. Don't ask anyone to come along except Holy Spirit 🙏🏾. It's been so good for me 💙 in the beginning it felt lonely but after a little while it felt like peace and joy that surpasses all understanding because most of the women I know rarely do things SOLO they don't want to enjoy their own company and really get to know who they are and who God is . When I venture out solo I meet and have conversations with some very intriguing and nice people.

  • @chanellsmith3204
    @chanellsmith3204 Рік тому +2

    I have known Patrice before she was married and a mother...I'm like divorced 😳🤷...what? Anyway, I love her and want her happy 🕊️🧘💞. AO is my new friend from afar ...I look forward to meeting him, talk to him about life, my new book and the trip to Israel 💃🤸🧳✈️🙋. This is a great show, you two are great.

  • @zeedean
    @zeedean Рік тому +1

    Y’all are cutting up on this video and I love it. So much clarity and honesty.

  • @lana8305
    @lana8305 Рік тому +3

    I hate when people try and push short men on to tall women. That question is so tired and we've heard it a million times. As a 6 ft tall woman, I'm being open minded by being willing to date a man at a minimum of 5'10. Why is this a big deal? As an above average height woman, I want an above average height man.

  • @chicmystique2151
    @chicmystique2151 Рік тому

    Nice tip about the voice memos. I will use that one. You are such an inspiration, Patrice, thank you! Anthony too, beautiful person.

  • @BeatriceYakubu
    @BeatriceYakubu Рік тому +3

    Was this Patrice being interviewed? 🤣. I love the energy between you two👌🏽

  • @gradysimpson3137
    @gradysimpson3137 Рік тому +1

    This episode was entertaining, funny, and incredibly helpful!!

  • @relaxcalmnaturepeace
    @relaxcalmnaturepeace Рік тому

    Happy to watch this! 👀 Just watched AOs podcast video! I love Patrice Washington, so many of our personal experiences are similar!❤❤❤

  • @JIJII420
    @JIJII420 Рік тому +1

    I love AOs podcast. This was a great conversation

  • @Flower.Power.1996
    @Flower.Power.1996 Рік тому

    This was so rich. Thank you for another amazing podcast Patrice. The irony of the Steve Harvey show being on the radio before I put this on in the car😂 A reminder of what it looks like to chase purpose.

  • @debrawilliams2781
    @debrawilliams2781 Рік тому +1

    I truly enjoyed your vlog, very informative and a lot of fun!!!😆😆😆💞💞🙏🙏🙏

  • @ITSNISHABRO
    @ITSNISHABRO Рік тому +1

    Wow this is good. So glad I came across this video. ❤

  • @kia5368
    @kia5368 Рік тому +2

    Great episode!

  • @frankaaknight3699
    @frankaaknight3699 Рік тому

    15min. into this girrrrlll you had me weak bcuz I heard myself talking, I was weak. The entire interview was beautiful though

  • @touchoflovecookieswithlezl4822

    Lol. I'm cracking up😂😂 love this conversation.

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 10 місяців тому

    Patrice is on point, laughter is good medicine and not mean spirited humor.

  • @Tiahassell
    @Tiahassell Рік тому

    For future interviews..please interview the person you invite to your channel. You spoke way more than Anthony. He tried to bring it back for you multiple times and you were just not getting it. Self-awareness is key.

  • @dr.rennes
    @dr.rennes Рік тому

    Had to stop listening to the podcast and come here 😂😂😂 y’all have me cracking up

  • @hellosunshine3647
    @hellosunshine3647 Рік тому

    I loved this!!! The “emotional coach” caught my attention as well. I will look further into that. (We need that plug guys!)
    I have a therapist and she has been so great to me this far. I have sorted through some problems in my life over the last couple months, so I’m super grateful for her… I agree with him saying therapists make you “think” because after each session I’m definitely spinning my wheels and can’t wait to tell her what I’ve discovered at the next session…
    However I realize I love SUPER hard and not many love like me. It is my responsibility to get my emotions in check, as well as everything else. I thank you guys for this session! Good luck to you both. 🙏🏽

  • @jamaicaninthekitchen4358
    @jamaicaninthekitchen4358 Рік тому

    first time on your show send by Anthony

  • @timewithmabel2752
    @timewithmabel2752 Рік тому +2

    Great show 😂😂

  • @stephenmoten4017
    @stephenmoten4017 Рік тому +1

    Teach us.

  • @mjules8431
    @mjules8431 Рік тому

    This was good!! I don’t even know how to begin dating after 24yrs🤪

  • @melaninbratzvlogs2210
    @melaninbratzvlogs2210 8 місяців тому

    Which episode is this?

  • @therealdeal4589
    @therealdeal4589 Рік тому

    I’m not feeling dude, sorry. Patrice, good for you in your singleness and knowing what you want and deserve.

  • @trophytrades8879
    @trophytrades8879 Рік тому

    I love her…. Don’t play with me with a smile 😂❤❤❤

  • @dd6228
    @dd6228 Рік тому +3

    Most men/women over the age of 35 already have kids. If they don’t they are a rare unicorn.

  • @nbgvfcmnbh6226
    @nbgvfcmnbh6226 Рік тому

    Just need to setup the kdp account. Requires a bank account and w9 form

  • @ChristelleGM
    @ChristelleGM Рік тому +2

    Who is actually being interviewed looks like it is Patrice, not Anthony...🤭

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 10 місяців тому

    I do memos too on video

  • @theetravelhippie
    @theetravelhippie Рік тому

    👀👀

  • @lisasykes624
    @lisasykes624 Рік тому

    Love 🙄 come back to earth... don't get so high you back yourself into a corner 😢

    • @otsam1050
      @otsam1050 Рік тому

      Ikr, home girl is deluded. There are a lot of them out there though

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому

    Why did she get a divorce?

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому

    I got 7 Ss.

  • @giftytuffour8090
    @giftytuffour8090 Рік тому

    Ao am patienctly waiting for you to come and marry me ,I just don't know what you still waiting for 😂😂 boy am attracted to you ❤😊,great program you soo on point 👌 100 resonate 🎉

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому +1

    If he has no kids he going want some. But most likely he going have a bunch of kids if he is over 40.

  • @Adel.H.S.Udenhout-gg9pl
    @Adel.H.S.Udenhout-gg9pl Рік тому

    911

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Рік тому

    Patrice is single? Oh ok. :)

  • @yshaundamcduffie3172
    @yshaundamcduffie3172 Рік тому

    There are ladies out there they do like the simple things in Life who are successful and honest and looking for good real men but can still enjoy that thousands dollars experience without spending money but the height only the Lord can help you with that NO SHORT MEN 😂😂

  • @dawn7220
    @dawn7220 Рік тому

    I wonder if she would consider being with Shannon Sharpe 🤔

  • @yerushalom87
    @yerushalom87 Рік тому +1

    The men are simple and women are complicated statement is true.
    I hope she finds her forever.....but with a 29 list, not likely.

  • @therealdeal4589
    @therealdeal4589 Рік тому +1

    Oh please! How are you putting a man’s emotional Dysfunction on his mate? Wow! She may not be a safe space but he may be a broken man coming in the relationship. Stop it!