Become Irresistible in YOUR Relationship! (Here’s How)
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- Опубліковано 28 лют 2021
- You guys. This talk right here was straight fire. I invited my friends Marvin and LaKiesha Richardson and Jacent Wamala (y’all will probably recognize her) to The Table to dive into singleness, relationships and the idea of oneness in marriage. And man, they did not disappoint. We talked about the controversial word “submission,” how to be a team, and things both men and women can be doing in their season of singleness to really prepare them for that next step. Don’t miss it!
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Hey, fam! I’m Anthony. I’m fired up about meeting you where you are in a real, relevant, and relatable way. Here on this UA-cam channel, we’ll be having honest conversations about finding our authentic selves by living life based on spiritual, financial, and mental freedom. At the age of 19-homeless and deep in debt-I turned my life around by becoming debt-free, and I decided to spend the rest of my life helping people avoid the same money mistakes I made. Today, by the grace of God, that’s what I’m doing every day with AO Enterprise. You can rock with me on Instagram @AnthonyONeal or online at anthonyoneal.com.
"I don't want you to need me. I need you to want me" -- that's good
A word!!!🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽
I told that to a guy and he still wanted some woman who couldn’t do a thing without him. I kept walking.
@@emilypacheco2074 good thing you walked away. Surely, he'll find a woman who needs him.
18:57- protect- willing to die for her, die to your flaws, ego, things done your way. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 And it goes for both! Love this
Sooooo sooo good ✨✅
How come being independent is always followed by “don’t need a man”. The notion that women should be starving before meeting her husband, needs to end. A lot of women are left with the burden of taking care of parents. Imagine being single with parents to take care of and all of you are “starving”, just because you’re single. Nope. Men and women need to find their purpose/fulfillment in their single lives and not be looking for a spouse to do that.
I wish the young people would realize that submitting to someone when you're in a relationship is not just a point of you giving yourself to someone. It also means that the person that is receiving that submission has a powerful responsibility. They have to cover you in prayer, guide the family (if that's your situation) in the right biblical direction, setting the tone for the financial, physical and intellectual well-being of his family. A woman needs to feel cherished, loved and her opinion respected in the household decision making process, the children need to have the right kind of discipline and feel loved and heard. Submission is a good thing when you are in the right relationship and have a healthy respect for one another. When a person is being submissive, the person/man receiving that respect will do what is best to continue to feel that and honor his role in the relationship/family.
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Well said💯!!!!
Wow! ❤️ this.
You said that perfectly 👏🏿
When you are fine all by yourself you find your mirror image.
Get back to me when you fine your other.
I see your comments everywhere... Love your channel keep it up !
Aye bro haven't I seen you commenting on the black hokage? XD you really everywhere
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Let me get straight to the point where I say ....I need MORE of all what just played out here. Looking forward!!! Thank you Mr. O'Neal and guests.
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"A man wants us to come under him but he doesn't have anything for us to submit too" - Preachhh sister! 🙌🏻🔥
Mike drop situation
The “independent” mindset was birthed from women who’ve been wronged. BUT, that needs to be healed if you desire a partner. The way we were created by God means we desire partnerships. Men need women and women need men. To go even “deeper” marriage is the biggest representation of Christ’s love for the church which is why it’s being attacked.
Sad thing many think marriage is 50/50 and that’s not what God is saying. Your living 100/100 with Christ over both for each other, in Gods scriptures.
@@NeoMoses phew! Preach! The 50/50 mindset is actually selfish when you break it down. It also implies that each person should still consider only their desires rather then becoming “one-flesh”.
@@alexisforteza_ big facts! 🙌 can’t have a half way thinking and think a home will stand. That’s actually allot of feminist I know saying that, and it’s getting worse! Smh
Mostly true except for the Christ part - that's not just why it's attacked - marriage existed thousands of years prior to Christianity if we're going to keep it all the way funky and true.
Independence in women was bred from feminism. And feminism is only seems to exist in modernized countries. For whatever reason, modern women have the fervent belief that "I can do better...". Odd how it's come to men being optional in the minds of women.
Please do a Part 2 with the married couple about “sustaining your marriage” to bring everything back in full circle. My husband and I LOVED this episode! We felt like we were sitting at the table with y’all ♥️
That first line!!!!! Sis. I say all the time, my GOD given role in a marriage, if I am to marry this guy, is to be a help meet. What am I helping you to meet if you have no clue? To what am I supposed to submit? She spoke a whole word in 1 sentence.
Brother said a mouthful: raising their daughters and loving their sons. It's going on!
“What am I helping you to met if you have no clue?” that was good!
This was such a matured , professional conversation. This needs to be seen by many and be talked about. We need more of these conversations, not the KS shenanigans.
They’re literally saying the same thing that KS does🤔
@@Thecairopractors ks is disrespectful, unprofessional. His approach sucks
Aman I second that emotion
Yes!!!
@@gingerfab funny enough,Mr Samuels is even more professional,than they can ever be in a thousands years.
For crying out loudest, please y'all should stop subjecting the masculine nature and male figure to the image of a female y'all had created in your head, that has no basis in nature and do not conform to the structure of reality and existence.
The universe is a market place, and life is about people,thus relationship.
Because,nature is relative and relationship is based on nature's need for value.
There is a business aspect of relationship, which Mr Samuels was articulate,professional and gracious in awakening black community to,cuz that was what was needed but was lacking.
There is a proposal in marriage- proposal,and that's a business term.
And in religious term it is offering, which the proposition of value is:offer.
The default setting or set up of the structure of life,reality and existence,is the opposites in conflict.
That's what the bible conceptualised as in the beginning was chaos, and out of chaos comes order,upon which you found and build upon.
AO this is good. My grandmother taught me how to cook, clean, and she also told me that she doesn't want a woman to take care of me. Now my parents taught me how to work . Now that I have a help meet, and we are on two different speeds, I'm learning to be patient and help her , Love her and show her we can do this together
I am loving this type of conversation...when he said “I don’t want her to need me, I need her to want me.” That got me.
True I don't need a man I want a man
That statement is coming from ignorance or pandering.
A woman,do not just want a man,she needs a man, emphasis NEED.
Just like the subconscious mind, she is non selective and non personal,and as such don't understand the difference between the opposites in conflict nor has she the values, abilities and resources to percieve the need and problem in and of nature,to make sense of it,articulate and communicate it.
Thus she needs a man to create, build and provide her a structure and identity,to be able to unlock,take or make the best choice,for her desired outcome.
It takes the identity and structure of a Creator and builder to be intentional, purposeful,creative and strategic in decision and choice making or taking for a desired-outcome(vision).
Women are choosers, but women are generally not good with decision making,cuz that requires a structure,purpose, process and rule(rule of construct and engagement).
But women most often than not do not really know nor understand what they want and why.
He said the golden words "Being one is....Deciding to be intentional about being a team"
“Equal in value, different in function.” Woooooooooowww!
I agree with mostly everything, but post-partum depression can happen regardless of fitness level.
I agree with everything except the postpartum depression piece. I was very fit before and healthy to still end up having postpartum depression and anxiety. Working out during and even more after birth has helped but still didn’t hit me until many months down the road.
I agree I found her 3 "F's" kind of problematic.
I don't like when married women pass the responsibility of the success or failure of a marriage onto the woman.
She mentioned faith, nothing wrong with praying for your husband but he should take the lead in spirituality as well.
Fitness - She mentioned a man's wandering eyes. Nothing wrong with health and fitness but too many people give husband's lack of faithfulness a pass...
Right I agree with you on the postpartum & even if a man have a woman that's fit he will still look at something else.
Whew! This too much heat 🔥 ! I truly appreciate this conversation. I appreciate the humility and I also appreciate the collaborative effort in explaining relationships keys and not jabbing at each other despite the sensitive topics spoken! I’m learning !
I totally agree about the importance of submitting to your spouse. The problem is men trying to force women to submit to them when the woman hasn’t chosen to submit to them and men trying to force women who aren’t their spouse to submit.
It can be triggering to hear the word “submit” because literally every woman has an experience outside of marriage of a man attempting to force her submission, whether it’s in dating or in the workplace or just living life in public. So I think any discussion of submission has to be had with a disclaimer about the boundaries of submission. The bible never calls women to submit to every man. It calls us to submit to the one we choose. Too many men are demanding we submit when we haven’t chosen them...
I LOVE THIS👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 we can’t just submit to anyone Man, we too get to choose whom we want Submit too tfffff!!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 great point!
@@ChicStrands Thank you! When I re-read the story of Isaac (Genesis 24), it totally reframed for me the concept of submission. Abraham's servant went to Rebekah's family with gifts and his goal was to woo her, to entice her into choosing to follow him. It was never to force her to submit. Then her family asked her if she would like to follow the man (Genesis 24:57-58) and she agreed to it. She was very clearly meant to have a choice...
You shouldn’t be submitting to a boyfriend.
As a single-independent woman who was "raised" by my mother, it was very refreshing to here what I've been battling with all my adult life. Reprogramming my mind to become able to submit has been an ongoing challenge. So, thank you for these perspectives.
I heard TD Jakes say submission simply means to SUBMIT to the MISSION. That made it crystal clear.
@@bohosoul13 Don't tiptoe around TD Jakes, self-appointed "bishop". Study and meditate on God's Word instead to get a clear understanding.
A man makes the proposal of marriage, and that simply means the proposal is a proposition of value,aka offer.
Then she accepting the offer and being binded/pair bond with the principle,value and rule of construct and engagement that marriage is founded or that proposal of marriage is founded on/upon,is simply submission.
Love is value, that's what the concept of a man's proposal is..
And submission is acceptance.
The dating phase is the negotiation , and that's value conversation.
Anthony ans Jacent's gasps and reactions had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣
seriously, right?!?
Can someone please get Anthony O'neal a bottle of water!!!!🤣🤭👑
Shuuu 🙆🏾♀️ 🔥 🔥 🔥 this conversation was loaded and necessary 🙌🏾💯
Indeed it was!!!
Less than 10 minute in and I’m already impacted by this level of revelation! The Word of God is indisputable.
I hear what AO is saying about needing to be needed. On the other hand, I ask why it is an issue for a woman to have her own--even if it is more than what her husband has. If they are in a partnership, the better each person does in life only benefits the whole.
I think it's less of an issue now. I can't really understand guys who need to have more/make more than their partner, especially in marriage when it's community property. My wife has a bunch more degrees than me, makes a little more than me, and I'm so proud of her. There's no downside to more money coming in that I can see 🤷🏾♂️
I like that couples should have "successful in marriage" mentors
I like how you guys gave the analogy of men submitting to their boss... who can be either male or female... they don't push back
Nothing but gems🔹 dropped through this whole podcast. I am forever changed! Thank yall!!!
The advice in this video is amazing . This video needs to be pushed on every platform
Man I haven’t even got 5 mins in and they are speaking the truth
This was such a powerful conversation! Thank you so much to everyone involved!
This was goooood. I’m slowly unlearning so much about submission.
The points made is this were SO POWERFUL! I CLAPPED SEVERAL TIMES! Whew. God bless you all!
This was THE REALEST and most accurate conversation I have heard on marriage. Being married 8 years now, it’s so important to have these conversations. I thoroughly enjoyed it
This was amazing!!! I just loved hearing your perspective on this subject. Everything just flowed so smoothly!
AO keep this content coming! It’s fire! 🔥Also, I love the longer shows!
This conversation right here is EVERYTHING!!!! Thank you so much. I left wanting more and more. Keep up the GREAT work AO!!
This literally fed my whole soul. Thank you for your amazing content as always 👏🏾👏🏾
I'm going to watch this again and take notes!!!
I wish I could double like. Best show ever!!!
This conversation was powerful and matured. I loved it.
THIS. Was everything I needed to hear today!! ALL of the ESSENTIALS we need to be made whole~ I will be sharing... Thank you, AO and Guests! Thank you!💜
I’m sending this video to everybody! I absolutely loved this entire conversation and I’m taking notes
This was EVERYTHING BEAUTIFUL !!!!! ♥️ I love each one of you for what you brought to this conversation!!!! What a blessing, Thank you & God bless you All🙏🏽 !!!!
This needs to be talked about more frequently 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is phenomenal. Yes 🙌🏾. I need the men to step up their game in preparation for emotional health. We need more conversations like this.
This was so powerful. Great dialogue. Love how you did not interrupt or over host the conversations by letting them flow.
DANG. Loved this!!! So insightful on both sides of the fence (gender) and just dang. This was amazing. THANK Y'ALL, we NEED more of this!!
So shes submitting to his purpose? First time I'm hearing it like that. Great talk.
Correct
WOWWWWW CONGRATULAIOTNS TO YOUR SISTER UNION!! LOVEEE THE WHOLE TEAM AND THE GUESSSES SO BIGGGGG!!
These are my people in real life! Marvin and Kiesha. Follow them for that low hanging fruit!🔥🔥🔥🔥 To God be the glory, this was so good!🖤🖤🖤🖤💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This conversation is NEXT LEVEL and totally NEEDED! Anthony, your energy bro...wow!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯
I had to pause and say "oop ooop ooop ooop WE STEPPIN ON TOES TODAYYYYY!!!" within the first 7 seconds of this video!
This was AMAZING!! I will listen to this one over and over again. Thank you! As a single, never married mom, this has truly blessed me!!
Again!! What a wonderful session! Love your guest!!! I'm so glad that I happened upon your show!!!!!
Please, keep up the great work.
Loved this! Please make this a series. 😊
THIS WAS MONUMENTAL!!!! This not only help me with myself in my singleness, but with my children! I absolutely loved this and the points that have now been made aware to me.
I'm truly blessed to hear this message because this is exactly what I've needed in my difficulties with being impatient in my single season.
This interview is on fire. The woman will submit naturally, easily when she see the vision to Submit to. 🎉❤
Learnt a lot from this. Also exciting to watch how authentic Anthony is and how he makes the conversations flow so easily. Plus y'all being from the family of Faith... the best! ❤
A lot of wisdom and knowledge was dropped on this video. I love it. Let's take this and use it to better ourselves. 🙌🏽💪🏾🙏🏽
I felt this in so many ways. The title almost had me pass it by.
Great episode and discussion. I really enjoy and appreciate these relationship topics. Shout out to Marvin & LaKiesha Richardson. I discovered them in TOU and their story was so inspirational.
so much good knowledge to absorb..
as always 💯✨
Hands down my favorite episode of this year!
This convo is soooo good!!!! Keep them coming AO!!!!
This was definitely a blessing to hear. Thank you brother for spreading wealth in all aspects.
great group of people to speak on this topic...this whole conservation hit different for me, especially finding myself as a man and the type of father and husband I want to be.
AO thank you for this, I gotta say I really enjoyed every moment. Thanks for all the great content you provide to us all. Bless up brother, and good luck with everything you do/need G-d willing!
So many gems were said here!!🙌🏾
Great episode, AO! This so timely for me and what’s going on in my life right now. I need to submit to God before I can ask my fiancé to submit to me. By submitting to God and pursuing Him, He will grant me the vision that my fiancé can submit to. In essence, she is not submitting to me or my vision but God’s vision for our relationship. We then are both submitting to God and falling under His orders.
This was such a marvelous conversation! So much knowledge at that table. I could listen to them speak all day!
My favourite interview so far !!!! This was so good
Loved this! Thank you all💗
This discussion was everything!!! So many gems! My goodness. I have to listen again and take written notes because this was it for me.
I wish Ms. LaKiesha would have addressed for the Four F's when it came to Fitness "Psychologically and Emotionally" Fit as well... you will not be performing or attracted to someone who is not Psychologically and Emotionally Fit as well... EDIT: I LOVE THAT JACENT SPOKE ABOUT THE MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL AFFECTING THE PHYSICAL!!!!
I love Jacent!!!! My East African sis always droping so much knowledge and wisdom! Thanks for having her. Love the conversation in general! If I had to add anything, both men and women should be dying to their flesh on a daily bases, to be grow together while individually growing in their relationship with God.
Love content like this!
WONDERFUL! We need more of these deep conversations! God Bless and thank you!
Amen! I really appreciated every aspect of this. Thank you very much!
I love her!! She is so articulate and the epitome of a queen conscious woman🙌🙌
One of many amazing podcasts--- I must admit that this one on relationship--- His way... is a gem worth saving,sharing and standing. I am inspired and encouraged...thank you. We need more of this dialogue for our community of and for all ages...I have a passion for people. Would love to learn how to help others in this way...in my neighborhood...keep doing this mandatory work!
All of this chocolate on the screen I love it 😂😂 didn’t even finish the video b4 commenting. Couldn’t help it!
Absolutely amazing conversation!!!! Sharing this with my hubby to be! Definitely a favorite... I'm going back to take notes!!! Thanks for this one AO!
Amen 🙏🏽 to all of this!!! I loved this show and every aspect that was brought up
Im from uganda. 🇺🇬 living in the 🇺🇸.Glad to have someone represent us
I would like to say thank you so much this is going to help me on my journey I am single and you all had great nuggets for me to take with me I am so grateful 🙏🏽
Thank you so much for this piece. God bless you abundantly!! Thank you for all the wisdom that was shared here. I really loved the way everything was centered around God!! Thank you so much for this blessing.
This was absolutely extraordinary...Thank you!!
AO I just discovered your channel and so far I love it. Great conversations.
THIS CONVERSATION BLESSED MY SOUL!!
Great conversation well needed. I loved every word!!!!
Now this is a Word!! Amen Amen Amen
This was awesome! Seriously!!! Thank you.
Mr. O'Neal, you and your co hosts or special guests with their sincere, adamant, GOD LED THINKING,and matured approach to this and many topics are so REFRESHING until it makes perfection here on earth seem possible! Thank you sir. You and your guests are lifesavers!
That last piece of advice from the panelists was fire. Let me work on my purpose so I can be illuminated.
I heard all facts and finally some depth. Great job.
Wow, this was powerful! Definitely learned alot.
This episode was definitely a blessing to me. It was so informative yet so entertaining. Thank you to Anthony and guests.
I like this talk, so informative. Thank all of you!
I'm a widow, I truly enjoyed this conversation. I was married for 43 years and I could have used the information for sure. This is great instruction in so many of the problems that married people face. Thank you
Good discussion. Very beneficial for the couple to listen together and listen to each other with what they are both capturing from the discussion. Thank you!
This was great 👍🏽!!!!! A much needed conversation for all ages. This had specifics and examples not superficial. I love intelligent conversation with no overtalk. Great points. Perfect guests that I could listen to for hours.