This is so true! Unfortunately he doesn’t want to go for counseling. And so the elephant in the room gets bigger and bigger. There is nothing I can say anymore because he is deaf to my words.
I am the betrayed and am not able to get my spouse to go for help however just watching you has helped me personally understand alot of things. Before I started watching I was in the mind frame that he did this because he didnt love me,but now I see and am compherter by what you are putting out there. Thankyou
It's true. I have seen couples experience infidelity and never get expert help or address it, and it destroys the marriage. Even if they stay together, all positive emotion towards each other slowly erodes away til there's none at all. Get expert help.
Yet another video that just hit my hard... as the unfaithful... objectivity is gone... I have been studying... I have been learning... Getting myself on a better path... @2:16 this was what I needed to hear! I get it now... She can not hear at this point... I believe that one day we will be at a place to work on us... Thanks for these videos...
The place where I live , I don't have any experts who can help , so what I do then, Iam stuck , my unfaithful husband is narcassist type , and I don't know what to do now
try the online courses here: www.affairrecovery.com/programs-and-courses/online-courses there is a course for you, for him, and then one for you both if you like. they will be incredibly effective for your recovery. if you're tight on finances, you can also apply for a scholarship here: www.affairrecovery.com/scholarship-application-request
I get it now I am the betraying husband I could say to my wife look the sky is blue but she would say no it’s red No matter what I said she refused to hear Filed for divorce ... been 3 years now Even now she won’t talk to me / respond to anything I still love her I give up
She's devastated and tried to fix it before when you wouldn't hear her. She loves you too but doesn't trust you. It breaks her heart a bit every day. She wonders if she'll find a love that could mend her broken heart. Sometimes consequences effect more than just the perpetrator forever.
“You’re wondering if you miscommunicated. I’m wondering if I married the right person.”
Actual quote that I think sums up what you are discussing.
This is so true!
Unfortunately he doesn’t want to go for counseling. And so the elephant in the room gets bigger and bigger. There is nothing I can say anymore because he is deaf to my words.
I am the betrayed and am not able to get my spouse to go for help however just watching you has helped me personally understand alot of things. Before I started watching I was in the mind frame that he did this because he didnt love me,but now I see and am compherter by what you are putting out there. Thankyou
After watching many videos of yours..one thing is certain:
Affairs are devastating
Without expert help No couple can recover.
Muddling through, takes many years. Intimacy and communication are forever in marriage.
It's true. I have seen couples experience infidelity and never get expert help or address it, and it destroys the marriage. Even if they stay together, all positive emotion towards each other slowly erodes away til there's none at all. Get expert help.
You're right .. There is no objectivity. Just resentment and codependency.
Your videos are so dead on , opening my eyes to everything. Than you
This was really impactful right now. Thank you
Why have an affair with your wife's best friend? That way too much for anyone to bear!
I appreciate this video, it’s truly powerful and right on the money!
Yet another video that just hit my hard... as the unfaithful... objectivity is gone... I have been studying... I have been learning... Getting myself on a better path... @2:16 this was what I needed to hear! I get it now... She can not hear at this point... I believe that one day we will be at a place to work on us... Thanks for these videos...
The place where I live , I don't have any experts who can help , so what I do then, Iam stuck , my unfaithful husband is narcassist type , and I don't know what to do now
try the online courses here: www.affairrecovery.com/programs-and-courses/online-courses there is a course for you, for him, and then one for you both if you like. they will be incredibly effective for your recovery. if you're tight on finances, you can also apply for a scholarship here: www.affairrecovery.com/scholarship-application-request
Hi Jayshree ,I am in the same situation, my wife I feel is a narcissist and I just moved out today.I feel relieved and pained at the same time
Im so sick of always hearing its his problem
I get it now
I am the betraying husband
I could say to my wife look the sky is blue but she would say no it’s red
No matter what I said she refused to hear
Filed for divorce ... been 3 years now
Even now she won’t talk to me / respond to anything
I still love her
I give up
Gotta restore equity after betrayal. She is entitled to feel that way after a betrayal. Love says I will not control your recovery process.
She's devastated and tried to fix it before when you wouldn't hear her. She loves you too but doesn't trust you. It breaks her heart a bit every day. She wonders if she'll find a love that could mend her broken heart. Sometimes consequences effect more than just the perpetrator forever.
You have hurt her. What do you expect?
Yes exactly!
Yes yes yes