DON’T do THESE THINGS in a Nigerian Wedding /

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  • @xeelvya
    @xeelvya 3 роки тому +34

    OK i can't take my eyes off your hair 😍

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +4

      Aww🥰 thanks a lot dear

    • @adetokunbo.osanya3144
      @adetokunbo.osanya3144 3 роки тому +2

      Yes I was thinking how long it took, and how she will take it out,all by herself.
      And thinking I won't be able to sit that long.
      But it's her natural hair and it's very beautiful.

  • @annakay1869
    @annakay1869 3 роки тому +31

    My mum always made us eat before going out. Till date,this has stuck with me as an adult. Imagine squeezing face because of small chops..Odiegwu. Well done Asy. Very good tips.

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +3

      Very very important advice!!
      I always do and I tell my people too, cos you can never tell what you’d meet there 😂😂

    • @chukwuemerie
      @chukwuemerie 3 роки тому +1

      @@AsyDarlyn AM not a fan of spraying money no matter the currency. I don't very much like shows but in something like a wedding where we can't avoid it , we should do it responsibly. I prefer sending my gifts in advance, preferably cash. Many " average"Nigerians need it at that time. For the rich relatives ,chose a role to play and a very token gift. I also give time because many couple are under stress and need assistance because they can't thing straight. Help remember things they forget.
      The beef between inlaws often starts on the wedding day .Argument of who controls what. Remember, your family members will not be with you in your husbands house and you will bear the consequences of their misbehaviour. This goes to the man also, don't let you people strain your relationship with your in-laws due to exhibition of greed and dominance.

  • @otionaoputu1558
    @otionaoputu1558 3 роки тому +10

    in your 50s, how are you the bride's friends. Im dead.. lol...mama oh

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @pearly-greaty
      @pearly-greaty 3 роки тому

      I almost fell off my bed when I heard that 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @xeelvya
    @xeelvya 3 роки тому +22

    Before I finished typing, "Hi Asy".
    I just heard you're behaving like you've passed menopause 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Oh my gosh

  • @CommonSenseSisters
    @CommonSenseSisters 3 роки тому +26

    Our mum always says "Eat before going for wedding or any party".

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +4

      THIS!!!!! I tell all my staff, cos you never know

  • @RoselomonTV
    @RoselomonTV 3 роки тому +16

    That intro though 😂

  • @oliviaobiemoro8606
    @oliviaobiemoro8606 3 роки тому +8

    How come I'm discovering this channel this late🙆gosh! I'm so already in love with you girl! One subscriber added👍👍👍

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      Awww thanks a lot!! Welcome to the Darlyns 🤗

  • @graciaskanyiki1336
    @graciaskanyiki1336 3 роки тому +7

    This is why I love my Congolese weddings. We cook a lot. Even take way

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +13

      😂😂😂😂 even if you kill 10 cows in a Nigerian wedding, some people will still say they didn’t eat well 😩🤣🤣🤣 We’re very spoilt here

    • @chukwuemerie
      @chukwuemerie 3 роки тому +2

      @@AsyDarlyn You are right. Even if you give them a cow each as a give away. They will complain.

  • @NonyeElsie
    @NonyeElsie 3 роки тому +3

    Yes I can relate with item 7, I always make sure I eat before going to any occasion

  • @ikiosworld8819
    @ikiosworld8819 3 роки тому +7

    Ahh Asy!!!! I am so loving this your series. I am learning so so much

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      Thanks a lot dear 🤗🤗

  • @osarhiemenjoyagbonkonkon6385
    @osarhiemenjoyagbonkonkon6385 3 роки тому +5

    I'm enjoying Asy's excitement, attention to details and fun weddings. Thank you for sharing to us your Darlyns

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      Thanks a lot for watching

  • @MansaQueen
    @MansaQueen 3 роки тому +2

    No lies in this video! 🤣🤣 i almost fell out my chair

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂 thanks a lot dear

  • @asabosah2366
    @asabosah2366 3 роки тому +3

    As for sitting arrangements, some of us will be in the church, these people will go from make up studio to the reception venue. We will look like we came late and scatter the seating arrangement.
    Izit goood ? 😃well done girlie.

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      As in ehhh😂😂 that’s why we do strictly by IV and label tables too. Also another thing, bouncers open the hall only when the church guests have arrived

  • @melu.8637
    @melu.8637 3 роки тому +4

    Point 2 is heavy and expedent menh!! 🔊.
    💖❤

  • @adventuresoftelma468
    @adventuresoftelma468 3 роки тому +7

    That claiming ownership thingy ehhhhhh! Quontinue... Who cares if you paid for them sourvernirs 😂

  • @priscanzekwe5239
    @priscanzekwe5239 3 роки тому +5

    Am loving these wedding series ❤❤❤

  • @xeelvya
    @xeelvya 3 роки тому +3

    As usual this was a fun watch yet very helpful...

  • @florenceelijah6621
    @florenceelijah6621 3 роки тому +3

    Asy you are indeed a darling. Nice and beautiful looks. You are very experienced in event planning. Nice tips. Thanks for sharing.

  • @reginalartey6796
    @reginalartey6796 2 роки тому +1

    Very useful information, thanks

  • @NonyeElsie
    @NonyeElsie 3 роки тому +2

    Yes oo, it's the ginger and fun for me as a wedding guest

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      🥳💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @edwardtamuno249
    @edwardtamuno249 3 роки тому +3

    Always with my pen and journal!!!! Totally loving this series aunty Asi, love you so much♥️✨

  • @feliciaokoro2872
    @feliciaokoro2872 3 роки тому +2

    Asy, stop shaking the table 😆

  • @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143
    @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143 3 роки тому +5

    Hey Asy! 🤗 How are you darlyn? These tips on what not to do, at a Nigerian wedding are awesome. Thanks for giving your expertise on this, it should help many people be the best guest possible. 💯 Cheers to that! 🥂💝

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      Aww thanks a lot!! Hope you’re doing great?

  • @zunaiandre2341
    @zunaiandre2341 3 роки тому +3

    Yeah, SUPPORTIVE""I once here, welcome to Married Squad,where there's no peace,(on somebody's wedding)ahhhhhhhhhhhh!I nearly slap the woman 😲😲😲

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +2

      Ahh ahhhh😳😳😳 for real? Some people sef🙄

  • @estheradetona7284
    @estheradetona7284 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for the advice .

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      Thanks a lot for watching

  • @teincharles5896
    @teincharles5896 3 роки тому +3

    Asy doing the Lord's work 🙌

  • @Meskwe
    @Meskwe 3 роки тому +1

    Wish I knew some of these etiquette before now, am guilty of some it. Well🤷 thank God I watched, I've taken my notes

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks a lot for watching

  • @idatonyejeff3010
    @idatonyejeff3010 3 роки тому +1

    Very incisive, this 24min video has lot of contents. The summary I got from it all is that Everyone (couple's inclusive) should make everyone happy. Even if it is your Ex wedding just be Happy.
    @Asy Dalyn, your delivery on this topic is like thunder even the deaf dey feel the vibration.

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks a lot 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @CommonSenseSisters
    @CommonSenseSisters 3 роки тому +6

    Congratulations Asy on your 10k subscribers💃💃💃💃💃

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +2

      Thanks a lot dearies🤗🤗

  • @kemi.a.2000
    @kemi.a.2000 3 роки тому +1

    I love your way my sis.

  • @adventuresoftelma468
    @adventuresoftelma468 3 роки тому +4

    WHAT DO YOU WANT THE PLANNER TO DO????? GREAT QUESTION

  • @favyscorner
    @favyscorner 3 роки тому +2

    You made very good points 😊
    Nice video Asy 🤗

  • @favyscorner
    @favyscorner 3 роки тому +10

    Wedding guest: I don’t hide my mouth 🙄
    Asy: Don’t you have sense 💁🏽‍♀️
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Always shaking the tables 💃🏾

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kelechiezeibe4896
    @kelechiezeibe4896 3 роки тому +1

    I love this video.

  • @sophienwachukwu7555
    @sophienwachukwu7555 3 роки тому +2

    Hey Asy darling...... thanks for this tips..... you are one in a million 🥰

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      Awww thanks a lot dear

  • @augustacookeygam5579
    @augustacookeygam5579 3 роки тому +1

    😂😂😂 your videos are funny

  • @ibeblessing2195
    @ibeblessing2195 3 роки тому +2

    Premium content!🙌🙌🙌

  • @adventuresoftelma468
    @adventuresoftelma468 3 роки тому +1

    Geng geng. My way to relax.

  • @estherelijahn
    @estherelijahn 3 роки тому +1

    Present ma'am

  • @CommonSenseSisters
    @CommonSenseSisters 3 роки тому +5

    Then those guest that will be gathering around the bride and groom when they are having intimate dance is so annoying ehhhhhh. Asy what if the MC announces that no body should be on the dance floor when the couple are having their intimate dance won't the guest listen? or is it better to have an enclosed barrier for couple's intimate dance?

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +2

      Exactly! The MC literally has to beg cos some guests will still form big uncle stubbornness 🙄

  • @CommonSenseSisters
    @CommonSenseSisters 3 роки тому +11

    We think it is highly disrespectful for guest to show up without IV/RSVP (especially when it is required) or be coming late and demanding for table that isn't assigned to them..... just terrible behaviour. We attended a Nigerian wedding in Houston, Texas years ago, and some guest (from outside Texas) showed up without IV/nor RSVP omoooor they were denied entry ooh. The bouncers weren't playing mehnn.

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +5

      Ah ahhh why did they come without IV?!! People are brave oo, just shows that bad character can follow you abroad😂😂

  • @QueenbellaJoy
    @QueenbellaJoy 3 роки тому +1

    Lovely video content sis

  • @morgansmithson6215
    @morgansmithson6215 3 роки тому +1

    Lovely

  • @kemi.a.2000
    @kemi.a.2000 3 роки тому +3

    I notice now that all people do at parties and weddings is to bring out their phones to take pics. The lights go off anyhow. Immediately, they post it on social media.

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +2

      everything is now an opportunity to put video on social media... sad sha

  • @dorothydicent1588
    @dorothydicent1588 2 роки тому +1

    I have watched this lady I like her challel

  • @morgansmithson6215
    @morgansmithson6215 3 роки тому +1

    Am interested about joining your training sessions but am Benin

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      Our trainings are online

  • @kellyemenim430
    @kellyemenim430 3 роки тому +2

    Nice video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alexisonyejiaka9573
    @alexisonyejiaka9573 3 роки тому +1

    Can I get your contact for an upcoming event??

  • @amarachichigozie3939
    @amarachichigozie3939 3 роки тому +2

    Asy I love your videos!!
    please talk about the monetary aspect of wedding planning like the cost range of certain necessary things like deco, planner etc

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks a lot!!
      The cost varies greatly, it all depends on what the client wants and also what they can afford. ☺️

  • @nkese4547
    @nkese4547 3 роки тому +1

    Omo ....looking at faces to share food.
    I experienced this 2 week's ago. thankfully I ate before the event.

    • @anneeffiong7202
      @anneeffiong7202 3 роки тому +1

      My girl has reached here 😃😃😃. Babes we need the MC to announce these list on your day.

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      It’s so bad. Only happens when the couple are the ones that brought the caterers. Worse when one Aunty takes it upon herself to scatter the food arrangement. 😂😂😂

  • @vanessanjoh3759
    @vanessanjoh3759 3 роки тому +2

    Geng geng geng first to be here

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      Yayyyy!! Geng💃🏽💃🏽

  • @amarachukwu3455
    @amarachukwu3455 3 роки тому +2

    You are such a darling

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks a lot dearie 🤗🤗

  • @Tia_13
    @Tia_13 3 роки тому +1

    Quick question: I want to do my Igbo traditional marriage outside but my family compound is too small. Where else could I do it and also do you do weddings in Enugu?

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +2

      Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. Yes we do Enugu events.
      If the compound is small, a school field in the community can work.

    • @Tia_13
      @Tia_13 3 роки тому +1

      @@AsyDarlyn thanks so much- I will be in touch 😊

  • @ekwustosiagiriga623
    @ekwustosiagiriga623 3 роки тому +2

    If you are going to an event have fun or better stay at home

  • @favyscorner
    @favyscorner 3 роки тому +2

    Nigerian time 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      So bad!! It’s almost like they want their own “Geng geng” moment

  • @estherelijahn
    @estherelijahn 3 роки тому +4

    E get why them dey hand pick guest for wedding, i no like nonsense

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂 that saves you a lot of headache

  • @kemi.a.2000
    @kemi.a.2000 3 роки тому +2

    They want people to see their dresses my sister

  • @vibewithann298
    @vibewithann298 3 роки тому +6

    I’m first today💃💃💃💃💃

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      Yaaayyy!! Thanks a lot

  • @RoselomonTV
    @RoselomonTV 3 роки тому +4

    Hey darling 😘

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      Yummy mummy🥰🤗🤗 Thanks a lot dearie

  • @fidausadam4817
    @fidausadam4817 3 роки тому +1

    Please oo are you in anyway family related to Chacha Eke??

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      😂😂 no I’m not. I should ask my Dad though 🤣

  • @tombimashri8149
    @tombimashri8149 3 роки тому +1

    Put card with names on each table so people sit on assigned tablexwith their names on.

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      That’s if it’s 100 people not 500 people and over. Plus trust Nigerian guests to mix up the seats cos they want to seat with their friends 😂😂😂

  • @winifreddokubo
    @winifreddokubo 3 роки тому +2

    This 10k subscribers, I had seen it when you were still at 7k subscribers.

  • @otionaoputu1558
    @otionaoputu1558 3 роки тому +2

    some people use the money to slap you.lol

  • @estherelijahn
    @estherelijahn 3 роки тому +1

    Asy nwa how body? Your eyes... na who dey worry you make we fight am

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks a lot dear 😄😄

  • @telmamarthin9457
    @telmamarthin9457 3 роки тому +1

    Please I want to join asy🙏🙏

  • @TheBalochOfficial
    @TheBalochOfficial 3 роки тому +1

    🌟👌👍👍

  • @IjeomaGloriaAnopueme
    @IjeomaGloriaAnopueme 3 роки тому +2

    That unleashing too much information about the couple is so annoying, some will go as far as saying their family history

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      As in ehhh!!! So annoying, the kind of things I hear ehh

  • @elizabetheffiong2083
    @elizabetheffiong2083 3 роки тому +1

    All this thing’s you’re saying it not easy in a big wedding,

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому +2

      It is oo. Unless they’re not using a good event company. I’ve done events of over 2500 people, it’s just proper crowd control cos guests can be stubborn 😫🤣🤣🤣

  • @edwardtamuno249
    @edwardtamuno249 3 роки тому +5

    Always with my pen and journal!!!! Totally loving this series aunty Asi, love you so much♥️✨

    • @AsyDarlyn
      @AsyDarlyn  3 роки тому

      Awww thanks a lot dear