I had a person say that I was a narcissist. I had a moment of clarity & "I said Narcissist should be loved." What I was basically saying on a spiritual level is, "It takes one to know one." You're not going to talk me out of my power. I like how you mentioned "taking turns," and I agree. We can all shine, but I am going to get mine.
the way my jaw dropped when you said “maybe this is the one taking me out of my cave…no, no. this is just the one that’s gonna send you back to the cave in even worse condition than you came out”
I have chills watching this. So good! After just escaping an abusive relationship with a narcissist- every word you’ve said is spot on & resonates to my core! Thank you 🙌🏼💚
My husband calls me a narcissist because I show up as selfish to him. I give myself fully to my passions in the arts, singing, and performing. And I like to talk about myself and my experiences. I can see my narcissism but I’m also a mother who gives 100% of myself to parenting her. I think it bugs him that I haven’t put the same effort that I put into my work and mothering to him and his needs.
Someone referred your chakra video on Tiktok and I am so glad they did. I have literally been writing notes for two hours now. I used to go to a naturopathic perception reframist for years but for some reason your videos just click in my brain and I am so thankful to have come across your channel.
Yo this is so fuckin spot on. I absolutely agree - my last narc boyfriend would threaten to break up with me or say we needed a break and I would be like, yeah I agree we do need a break, cool! And he would change his mind... it drove him crazy! He actually told me "I have literally never chased anyone like this before". This was before I even saw your videos on this - you had an older one on IG I saw not long after I started to reflect his bullshit back and that just confirmed it. I used to be so codependent - and like you said, idgaf if someone calls me selfish, a narcissist, racist, anything... I will be like haha cool thanks! Sometimes I feel like all mythology including the bible is just code for our own psyche - Neville Goddard says Jesus is actually us on a soul level and God is the mind - "the all is mental"... but then there are also egregores so they gotta be entities outside of us too. Dude you are literally famous as fuck, I already know it. As a 1/3 projector, I have a talent for knowing what looks best and what works best - you are 100% the best spiritual teacher I have ever come across. I say you are famous now because you are! "Live from the state of having your desire now" (not in the state of wanting it to manifest which implies lack). I have followed your work for 2 years maybe and I wanna say I am so happy for/proud of you for overcoming so much fucking bullshit and look at you now. Amazing. ❤️
@@MamiOnamiHouse I just came back to this video. Saw my comment from a year ago. You went viral since I commented you'd be famous lmao but you already knew you would be too ❤
I just found your videos today and holy fuck everything u have said so far resonates deeply. Thank u for sharing these videos I’m going through some shit and I really needed to see this video today
Lol ok I’m in tears bc of how much this opened my eyes, and most of these things aren’t things that I didn’t already know in my gut…but they are things that I needed to hear from someone else. Thanks for the video 🖤
Haha thanks you've explained what a psychotherapist was trying to tell me years ago when he said I am the same as my narc farther which was then my greatest fear. I still see my narc farther as so broken and insecure underneath though & the narcisim as a coping mechanism but maybe that's the lense of my co dependent. Thankyou for your incredible insight.
I'm slightly confused by the message. Are you saying to stay with narcissist? What happens when you have these realizations and you work on yourself but the narcissist doesn't accept this and continues to abuse you? When do you take what you've learned and move on?
This is a different take and not quite the meaning of how people view narcissists now. Yes many aspects line up. However, it’s more the old meaning. More in the origins of it all, and for that this video is highly informative and valuable.
There is a huge difference between a person with confidence and a psychopathic personality disorder. People with NPD will go to the extreme of killing their children or partners and still not feel remorse. The person with NPD will be the eternal victim and will always find a target, confident or not, they will lever all their tools to do so. It is a rare person who can spot and be unaffected by a true narc.
I like your take on how you should take control of your life and such, but I think you are talking about a person with narcissistic traits as opposed to someone who has narcissistic personality disorder. There is nothing wrong with adopting healthy narcissistic ways to life, which is what you're talking about. Being in a relationship with a person with NPD is a whole different animal. Never ever take back a person with NPD, it will never change and could be dangerous.
@@MamiOnamiHouse Glad you both said this. A narcissist physically abusing you is not the same as someone wanting to just go with the flow and everyone doing their thing without them doting on your or vice versa.
Be willing, and open-minded.... You missed the point of the lesson i believe... Being the only person a narcissist will love is another narcissist... You are forgetting where the narc was manifested and what she or he was showing you.😊
So I guess this could work if you are trying to make it work with the narc. You bc a narc. I get it. And you are like pointing out the healthy qualities of a narc that could be beneficial to those who NEED to focus on themselves. I guess my question is this- at what point would you suggest this to someone? Like if they are not in a physically abusive relationship that makes sense- but what relationships like this that have gotten physical? What would be your advice? Listen, I went from new age/oneness to christian but you are definitely making me question stuff all over again so I appreciate your videos
I had a person say that I was a narcissist. I had a moment of clarity & "I said Narcissist should be loved." What I was basically saying on a spiritual level is, "It takes one to know one." You're not going to talk me out of my power. I like how you mentioned "taking turns," and I agree. We can all shine, but I am going to get mine.
The end of this video is GOLD
the way my jaw dropped when you said “maybe this is the one taking me out of my cave…no, no. this is just the one that’s gonna send you back to the cave in even worse condition than you came out”
I have chills watching this. So good! After just escaping an abusive relationship with a narcissist- every word you’ve said is spot on & resonates to my core! Thank you 🙌🏼💚
My husband calls me a narcissist because I show up as selfish to him. I give myself fully to my passions in the arts, singing, and performing. And I like to talk about myself and my experiences. I can see my narcissism but I’m also a mother who gives 100% of myself to parenting her. I think it bugs him that I haven’t put the same effort that I put into my work and mothering to him and his needs.
I could listen to you all day ❤ what a source of so much wisdom. Thank you
Someone referred your chakra video on Tiktok and I am so glad they did. I have literally been writing notes for two hours now. I used to go to a naturopathic perception reframist for years but for some reason your videos just click in my brain and I am so thankful to have come across your channel.
Best thing that ever happened to me as it did WAKE ME UP AND I LEARNED TO LOVE MYSELF and self reflect ❤
Watching everyday for the rest of my life.
your passion makes me cry happy tears! thank you♥️
I love where you went with this. It gave me the strength to face my narcissist in court today. ❤️🙏
I'm so 😱 I have to face mine here soon I want to drop charges at the same time. Because fear
Yo this is so fuckin spot on. I absolutely agree - my last narc boyfriend would threaten to break up with me or say we needed a break and I would be like, yeah I agree we do need a break, cool! And he would change his mind... it drove him crazy! He actually told me "I have literally never chased anyone like this before". This was before I even saw your videos on this - you had an older one on IG I saw not long after I started to reflect his bullshit back and that just confirmed it. I used to be so codependent - and like you said, idgaf if someone calls me selfish, a narcissist, racist, anything... I will be like haha cool thanks! Sometimes I feel like all mythology including the bible is just code for our own psyche - Neville Goddard says Jesus is actually us on a soul level and God is the mind - "the all is mental"... but then there are also egregores so they gotta be entities outside of us too. Dude you are literally famous as fuck, I already know it. As a 1/3 projector, I have a talent for knowing what looks best and what works best - you are 100% the best spiritual teacher I have ever come across. I say you are famous now because you are! "Live from the state of having your desire now" (not in the state of wanting it to manifest which implies lack). I have followed your work for 2 years maybe and I wanna say I am so happy for/proud of you for overcoming so much fucking bullshit and look at you now. Amazing. ❤️
Nice work sis
Lol no.. its not
@@MamiOnamiHouse I just came back to this video. Saw my comment from a year ago. You went viral since I commented you'd be famous lmao but you already knew you would be too ❤
Beautiful, beautiful, BEAUTIFUL!!!! ✨️🌛🌚🌜 love your work, love your relationship!!!!
You are such a phenomenal story teller ❤ I claim you as my spiritual mamiiii lol and I love how this is shifting my perspective on narcissism
Hell yeah. This is a lesson I’ve learned and now your words are pure affirmation. A perfect spring board towards the next. Thank you 🙏🏻
It’s your time.
I just found your videos today and holy fuck everything u have said so far resonates deeply. Thank u for sharing these videos I’m going through some shit and I really needed to see this video today
Just realising my so called “narcisistic ex” was actually an Echo
I appreciate you so much! I needed this ❤🙏🏻 Thank you for sharing!
Lol ok I’m in tears bc of how much this opened my eyes, and most of these things aren’t things that I didn’t already know in my gut…but they are things that I needed to hear from someone else. Thanks for the video 🖤
Ladies and gents she’s left the cave
This is fire honestly
I needed to hear this💯💯💯
Haha thanks you've explained what a psychotherapist was trying to tell me years ago when he said I am the same as my narc farther which was then my greatest fear.
I still see my narc farther as so broken and insecure underneath though & the narcisim as a coping mechanism but maybe that's the lense of my co dependent.
Thankyou for your incredible insight.
I NEEDED THIS LIKE WATER TODAY
ily, sis
This was a very different take on how to deal with a narcissist - most therapist just say you should just run …
This video is so amazing! Thank you so much for sharing this with all of us!!! 🔥🙏🏻👸🏻🖤
You are a whole fucking VIBE
I'm slightly confused by the message. Are you saying to stay with narcissist? What happens when you have these realizations and you work on yourself but the narcissist doesn't accept this and continues to abuse you? When do you take what you've learned and move on?
Best advice I’ve ever received
This is a different take and not quite the meaning of how people view narcissists now. Yes many aspects line up. However, it’s more the old meaning. More in the origins of it all, and for that this video is highly informative and valuable.
Ok yeah. After watching this I felt some kind of crazy positive shift 😮
This was so entertaining, loved it
There is a huge difference between a person with confidence and a psychopathic personality disorder. People with NPD will go to the extreme of killing their children or partners and still not feel remorse. The person with NPD will be the eternal victim and will always find a target, confident or not, they will lever all their tools to do so. It is a rare person who can spot and be unaffected by a true narc.
I like your take on how you should take control of your life and such, but I think you are talking about a person with narcissistic traits as opposed to someone who has narcissistic personality disorder. There is nothing wrong with adopting healthy narcissistic ways to life, which is what you're talking about. Being in a relationship with a person with NPD is a whole different animal. Never ever take back a person with NPD, it will never change and could be dangerous.
You spot it, you got it.
@@MamiOnamiHouse Glad you both said this. A narcissist physically abusing you is not the same as someone wanting to just go with the flow and everyone doing their thing without them doting on your or vice versa.
Be willing, and open-minded.... You missed the point of the lesson i believe... Being the only person a narcissist will love is another narcissist... You are forgetting where the narc was manifested and what she or he was showing you.😊
So much 🔥here! 🙌
You are a fkn G
I think I just realized I’m a narcissist
❤ I love this!
God this is good
I'm done with the cave
Right there with ya.
Where is the cracking codependency?
Yessss cuss me out mami 🎉❤🎉
So I guess this could work if you are trying to make it work with the narc. You bc a narc. I get it. And you are like pointing out the healthy qualities of a narc that could be beneficial to those who NEED to focus on themselves. I guess my question is this- at what point would you suggest this to someone? Like if they are not in a physically abusive relationship that makes sense- but what relationships like this that have gotten physical? What would be your advice? Listen, I went from new age/oneness to christian but you are definitely making me question stuff all over again so I appreciate your videos
Do you think this will work with something that's diagnosed with ASPD?
Holy shit 👏🏻
the end of this video is so toxic omg hahahahhahaha