Without getting into my family drama too much. I recently had a phone conversation with my sister-in-law and she brought up new/old information about the emotional abuse I endured from my mom. That just opened up all over again an old wound. I received a revelation (years ago...when the drama was all happening) and the Holy Ghost told me loud and clear: You never mind them. I knew I was being told, I'll deal with them, you just take care of you. So with the recent phone call, I prayed....okay that message just isn't enough to deal with this wound being re-opened. So, of course my prayers were answered. I found some sayings, a song popped up on my Pandora, and NOW your podcast. So, thank you. I learned from it that I have a narrow river and know that I am a person that wants to DEFEND myself and that will bring me sin in my anger. I will save this video and turn to it when I need help/comfort. Love to both of you.
Wow: Sending you compassion, sister. I’m so sorry that that old wound was re-opened….that is very hard. I recently experienced that, too, though around painful financial issues (rather than familial issues). ❤ I, too, turned to the Holy Spirit in my pain and refused to blow up in anger - even though part of me wanted to do so. But, hey, we are all “new creations in Christ” - no matter how long it takes, as I like to say. 😂 The change in our hearts 💕 is both immediate and also takes a lifetime to integrate and embody. It’s all of it. So super grateful for this podcast and this space of support here with wonderful people. Bless 🙏🏻✨
No way!! Today I was thinking about godly anger versus non-godly anger. Then, my Bible reading of the day was John 2 (where Jesus flips the table. THEN I came across this podcast and what do they talk about? BOTH OF THOSE THINGS! The Lord works!
Favorite part is, when Jennie explained the river will be narrow with trauma experience. Yes, it not an excuse, but be compassionate about when they might go through. Great topics as always!
Laundry... definitely the one thing my kids saw me completely lose my mind over! A search for towels turned up a pile of--I kid you not--27 towels that were dumped in their bedrooms. Mom meltdown of epic proportions, for sure. That led to a wonderful thing, though. From that day on, each of my 5 kids was assigned a day to do their own laundry. No more meltdowns. Yeah, they have piles of dirty clothes still... but I no longer worry about it. That's their responsibility. It has been a sanity (and relationship) saver for our family.
I am LOVING this so much!! You ladies are hitting it out of the park with these conversations ❤ Thank you for all the hard work you pour into each episode. It feels like we’re all just a bunch of girl friends getting together to chat over coffee-or tea or matcha ;-) and walking away refreshed and fueled to tackle anything!!
Great advice! ESP needed for the rushed school mornings and one of my sons not listening the best haha. 😜 (he’s SO loving giving hugs and kisses and I love yous, but part major rascal too haha)
Ok I’m 3 min. In and I just wanna say I’m a coffee girl but it bothered my stomach too. And now I drink mushroom coffee it’s amazing you gotta try it. ❤🎉
I have two toddlers right now and struggle daily with losing my patience. I always feel so guilty and like a bad mom. But then I have to remind myself that my husband and I don’t have a “village”, it’s just us.. so of course I’m overwhelmed. BUT I still have a lot I can work on internally to improve my patience.
HALT H-am I feeling Hungry? A- am I feeling Angry? L-am I feeling Lonely? T- am I feeling tired? This is helpful to ask yourself to help identify what you’re feeling and to assess your response to something. Often if we are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired it impacts our reactions and feelings towards a situation,
I would really love to know, myself! I cannot help wondering if she would actually tell us, because Candace is sure to get several offers to advertise different matcha brands.
I was always taught to take things said with a grain of salt. I believe that helps me to a point. I don't really get easily angered much when I do I am more hurt than angered . I just don't like anger but I do think it takes alot to have me get there
Same! Often I can brush things off and not let it affect me. Otherwise I get more hurt than angry too. If I ever get extremely upset, I normally cry it out rather than get mad.
Can completely understand this , I am greek and the same way… husband also has a hard time… I had to learn how to express myself definitely to help him
I’m a Peacemaker and I don’t get angry/explode it’s a rare thing. And yes I’m extremely extremely passionate about things:) And my sisters. And I we grew up in a very very very healthy very very very Godly home. And we are super thankful to God that our parents are super super Passionate about Jesus Christ:)@Candace Cameron Bure
"I don't like sugary drinks" yikes! as someone who is ADDICTED to soda & sweet drinks..I was wondering if Candace (or anyone) would have any advice for me.😂 This has been a lifelong love 😢
Without getting into my family drama too much. I recently had a phone conversation with my sister-in-law and she brought up new/old information about the emotional abuse I endured from my mom. That just opened up all over again an old wound. I received a revelation (years ago...when the drama was all happening) and the Holy Ghost told me loud and clear: You never mind them. I knew I was being told, I'll deal with them, you just take care of you. So with the recent phone call, I prayed....okay that message just isn't enough to deal with this wound being re-opened. So, of course my prayers were answered. I found some sayings, a song popped up on my Pandora, and NOW your podcast. So, thank you. I learned from it that I have a narrow river and know that I am a person that wants to DEFEND myself and that will bring me sin in my anger. I will save this video and turn to it when I need help/comfort. Love to both of you.
Wow: Sending you compassion, sister. I’m so sorry that that old wound was re-opened….that is very hard. I recently experienced that, too, though around painful financial issues (rather than familial issues). ❤ I, too, turned to the Holy Spirit in my pain and refused to blow up in anger - even though part of me wanted to do so. But, hey, we are all “new creations in Christ” - no matter how long it takes, as I like to say. 😂 The change in our hearts 💕 is both immediate and also takes a lifetime to integrate and embody. It’s all of it. So super grateful for this podcast and this space of support here with wonderful people. Bless 🙏🏻✨
I love how honest you both are about your feelings. So good.
No way!! Today I was thinking about godly anger versus non-godly anger. Then, my Bible reading of the day was John 2 (where Jesus flips the table. THEN I came across this podcast and what do they talk about? BOTH OF THOSE THINGS! The Lord works!
I think the term you're looking for is righteous vs unrighteous anger.
Favorite part is, when Jennie explained the river will be narrow with trauma experience. Yes, it not an excuse, but be compassionate about when they might go through.
Great topics as always!
So grateful for this podcast. I’m learning so much about God, myself, and I’m growing.
I listen to Candace and see her and all I feel and see and sense is Spring! Call me weird. So the spring colours, flowers and their odours! So sweet
Laundry... definitely the one thing my kids saw me completely lose my mind over! A search for towels turned up a pile of--I kid you not--27 towels that were dumped in their bedrooms. Mom meltdown of epic proportions, for sure. That led to a wonderful thing, though. From that day on, each of my 5 kids was assigned a day to do their own laundry. No more meltdowns. Yeah, they have piles of dirty clothes still... but I no longer worry about it. That's their responsibility. It has been a sanity (and relationship) saver for our family.
Amen. We all need a margin to decompress our emotions.
Mom rage is soooo real and so debilitating sometimes 😢 love hearing you both talk about this.
Delayed obedience is no obedience...so so true! Teaching our toddlers so in teenage yrs it not new implementations!!
I am LOVING this so much!! You ladies are hitting it out of the park with these conversations ❤ Thank you for all the hard work you pour into each episode. It feels like we’re all just a bunch of girl friends getting together to chat over coffee-or tea or matcha ;-) and walking away refreshed and fueled to tackle anything!!
I have needed this series for longer than I care to admit. Thank you both for answering God’s call on your life❤
I focus on my breath too!, candace ! 😃 thank you for sharing!!
&,It empowers us & calms our Nervous system. 😃 🌞✅️👍
This episode is going to be life changing for many people! Thank you for putting this out there. ❤
Great topic !! , yep!, people can be passionate !! Talking but not mad !, happend to me countless times. 😃 😊
This was very helpful. I love the idea of asking each other what was hard or what are you really feeling. 😊❤
Thank you Candace for this episode! It really helped me and blessed my life. Love this podcast! ❤️
I adore you Candace. Thx for this podcast. Helps so many people ☺️
Yep" internalize , " work through it " . 🎉🎉🎉
hey girl- loved the chat! Oh so good!😀😉 We need to calm ourselves and stay focused on the Lord. Like you said Candace- God's got this🥰
Thanks for openly sharing your thoughts on emotions. ❤
I am so comforted & relieved!!!
Completely understand the car time, Candace. I thought I was the only one who did that😅
Great advice! ESP needed for the rushed school mornings and one of my sons not listening the best haha. 😜 (he’s SO loving giving hugs and kisses and I love yous, but part major rascal too haha)
Love my 🍵 unsweetened matcha!!
Loved this series so much! Thank you! ❤
Great chemistry between ya" !!😃👍😼
Notice what you're feeling
Name what you're feeling
Feel what you're feeling
Share what you're feeling
Decide what to do with it.
Hi!!1st time here!! 👋🏻
Ok I’m 3 min. In and I just wanna say I’m a coffee girl but it bothered my stomach too. And now I drink mushroom coffee it’s amazing you gotta try it. ❤🎉
I have two toddlers right now and struggle daily with losing my patience. I always feel so guilty and like a bad mom. But then I have to remind myself that my husband and I don’t have a “village”, it’s just us.. so of course I’m overwhelmed. BUT I still have a lot I can work on internally to improve my patience.
Does anyone have the link to the one page guide she mentioned? I'm looking for it....
HALT
H-am I feeling Hungry?
A- am I feeling Angry?
L-am I feeling Lonely?
T- am I feeling tired?
This is helpful to ask yourself to help identify what you’re feeling and to assess your response to something. Often if we are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired it impacts our reactions and feelings towards a situation,
Can someone point me to the one page guide to being emotionally healthy. I cannot find it on the website.
My favorite! I love Matcha 🍵💗
To my shame, you are describing me almost to a "T" 😢 Working where I work, I have learned how much anger is one of my greatest struggles
What matcha do you like Candace?? I need to know what and where to get the good stuff!
I would really love to know, myself! I cannot help wondering if she would actually tell us, because Candace is sure to get several offers to advertise different matcha brands.
I was always taught to take things said with a grain of salt. I believe that helps me to a point. I don't really get easily angered much when I do I am more hurt than angered . I just don't like anger but I do think it takes alot to have me get there
Same! Often I can brush things off and not let it affect me. Otherwise I get more hurt than angry too. If I ever get extremely upset, I normally cry it out rather than get mad.
I'm Italian and you both described me perfectly. Unfortunately my husband doesn't know how to take me.
Can completely understand this , I am greek and the same way… husband also has a hard time… I had to learn how to express myself definitely to help him
Yes! Italian girl here! Yes! Passionate!
Love matcha 🍵 too girl! Ceremonial grade. Maybe Jennie, add a tad maple syrup or honey to 🍯 🍁 😉
So helpful ❤
I’m a Peacemaker and I don’t get angry/explode it’s a rare thing. And yes I’m extremely extremely passionate about things:) And my sisters. And I we grew up in a very very very healthy very very very Godly home. And we are super thankful to God that our parents are super super Passionate about Jesus Christ:)@Candace Cameron Bure
What is the matcha you use? Every time I try to research a good one they always have additives and junk. Would love a healthy matcha recommendation:)
"I don't like sugary drinks" yikes! as someone who is ADDICTED to soda & sweet drinks..I was wondering if Candace (or anyone) would have any advice for me.😂 This has been a lifelong love 😢
What mocha do you use?
What brand of Matcha do you drink, it sounds very good and healthy.
Candace, I love your pants! Can you share where I can buy them?😊
I have Italian on my mom side. I drink unsweetened ice tea in the morning.
Great advice from jennie Allen, " let kids know they can ask parents what they ARE FEELING !! 😯😯
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Yall definitely helped me❤
How do you find out what you have suppressed inside. I snap at my spouse and I don't know why
Only have gotten to the matcha discussion....matcha is gross! ;)