Unrelenting Standards Schema

This video is about the Unrelenting Standards.Hypercriticalness Schema. Unrelenting Standards is one of the 18 maladaptive schemas that form the basis for Schema Therapy. Ruth Holt and Rita Younan (Clinical Psychologists and ISST certified Advanced Schema Therapists) discuss how clients present with this schema, how it plays out and some goals for therapy.
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[@SarahBoyd002]

I seem to have all the modes. Overwhelming.

[@demirisreal9467]

Thank you so much for this series

[@schematherapyinstituteaust]

My pleasure!

[@katja6332]

I was in a relationship with a guy who was having unrelenting standards /hypercriticalness. He had more Schemata active, but when he looked at his results, he said "I want to keep those, they are not a problem".
I suffered a lot from this, because he was never satisfied with anything, last week my therapist said that he was a narcissist.
He was putting pressure on others and felt angry if the other person was not meeting his unreasonable expectations.
She said, many narcissist have the schema (she's a schema therapist by the way).
I am healing now with the help of my therapist from all the pressure and unreasonable expectations and rage he put me through. Just three years were enough to crush my self- worth.

[@LouiseNormande]

Thanks, Ruth & Rita. This was very elucidating and straight to the point! 🧠🤝👏🏻

[@Christopher-jq3jv]

So interesting, thank you for your clarity.

[@schematherapyinstituteaust]

Glad it was helpful!

[@BlackBros2010]

Thank you very much!!!!

[@martinlocante5441]

Phenomenal, thank you

[@dr.nefisee5002]

Thank you

[@schematherapyinstituteaust]

You're welcome!

[@xangierichardsx]

I would love to understand more about how this schema shows up in relationships. I’ve just realised how belittling, demanding and insensitive I am with my partner. I want more
Joy and less constant hustle, but I’m not sure how to catch it and correct it before it ruins my relationship.

[@schematherapyinstituteaust]

Hi Angela,
We are hoping to provide more about schemas in relationships in the coming months - stay tuned!

[@GeneralArmorus]

Poor deontology, gets heat here