Is It Healthy To Keep Secrets In a Relationship?

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  • Опубліковано 17 чер 2024
  • We discuss if it is important to share everything with your partner. Do you think it is important to have a tell-all relationship or should some things not be brought up? Plus, we chat about what couples should discuss before moving in together.
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  • @TheRealDaytime
    @TheRealDaytime  3 роки тому +20

    Do you think it is important to have a tell-all relationship or should some things not be brought up?

    • @bettinafahiespire9341
      @bettinafahiespire9341 3 роки тому +2

      He should know but for me if he brought it up if he don't why cause confusion

    • @gorataoneramotswai1595
      @gorataoneramotswai1595 3 роки тому +3

      Tell-all please, secrets come out nastier than they actually are...especially when kept for too long- ending up involving whole lot people.

    • @lesleymbuyikayembe7553
      @lesleymbuyikayembe7553 3 роки тому +2

      I was litterally thinking about this today!
      Nope! And I don't think he would ask either

    • @tashawilliams8093
      @tashawilliams8093 3 роки тому +3

      Some things should be taken to the grave.

  • @Theriandra5
    @Theriandra5 3 роки тому +74

    Poor Jeannie was so unhappy but she couldn't really say anything...

  • @kattodoggo3868
    @kattodoggo3868 3 роки тому +122

    The one about bank account is true. Ladies you always should have your secret money for just in case

    • @hannahwalmer1124
      @hannahwalmer1124 3 роки тому +5

      Men too for his 'just in case' if ya know what I mean

    • @alex_n215
      @alex_n215 3 роки тому +28

      Smart couples would each have an individual bank account while having a joint one too.

    • @user-tp3yj2iw6h
      @user-tp3yj2iw6h 3 роки тому +2

      @@alex_n215 exactly

    • @natevic1867
      @natevic1867 3 роки тому +9

      Never understood a couples stupid decision with sharing everything. You can never trust anyone especially a spouse. So many lie even about love, there’s a reason why divorce rates are so high. And with so many horror stories you really are an idiot nowadays to not have your own account. People are just obsessed with being honest and sharing everything with their spouse. I share nothing with mine other than food. I keep many secrets from him, haven’t told him many things about my family and he has no idea what my net worth is and it’s never affected our relationship.

    • @karmabiitch26
      @karmabiitch26 3 роки тому +1

      Damn right !! My momma always taught me that !!! 💯💯💯

  • @jessfarias3134
    @jessfarias3134 3 роки тому +41

    Jeannie: “Imma take a backseat on this and let you ladies talk”
    Also Jeannie: *talks the whole time*

  • @deidrab4421
    @deidrab4421 3 роки тому +24

    Loni’s facial expressions lol 😂

  • @chefnic4763
    @chefnic4763 3 роки тому +45

    I don't have secrets. I'm just a private person. When I do open up, my fiancé is always shocked and thankful for the info lol. He still doesn't know how much money I make or what I have stashed...and we're living together. Lol. Mind your business 😌

    • @mube8885
      @mube8885 3 роки тому +2

      @No Reason At All 😆😆😆😆😆🙏

  • @gingerjoy5836
    @gingerjoy5836 3 роки тому +9

    Loni: Did you just flip up yo bangs? Omg…I’m dying😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @maryware3915
    @maryware3915 2 роки тому +7

    I agree with Adrienne and Tamara. I was in a situation where I looked like a fool when I took my ex out to eat, we were recently split and trying to work thru things & get back together , right after we were seated by the female my intuition told me something was up . I asked my ex straight up is this female someone you were with previously he lied right to my face , we walked outside the restaurant and here was her mom ( who I had met before and knew was the mom of an ex of his I never met) waiting to pick her up from work 🤬🤬🤬

  • @fayepatrice1672
    @fayepatrice1672 3 роки тому +100

    Who looked at episodes like these and saw Jeannie and Freddie's divorce coming? 🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @SeeWhyAnn
      @SeeWhyAnn 3 роки тому +17

      everything is always much clearer in hindsight

    • @EnchantedReader89
      @EnchantedReader89 3 роки тому +3

      @@SeeWhyAnn It was obvious from season 1, their relationship was toxic

    • @moneekodunze7602
      @moneekodunze7602 2 роки тому +2

      Everyone had been talking about their split since the 1st season. It was painfully obvious. 🙁 I think people misjudged Jeannie too. I think he mistreated her a lot and that’s why she was so uptight about stuff.

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 Рік тому

      I saw signs even before but...

  • @sabrinamaldonado1418
    @sabrinamaldonado1418 2 роки тому +5

    I swear Idk anyone more “ME” in this life than Adrienne 😂🤣😂 Literally. Every. Thing. She says. SO ME🤣🤣🤣

  • @4knewt505
    @4knewt505 3 роки тому +48

    Me waiting ⏲️ to see how old this clip is and who Jeannie was with.... Oh ok

  • @sfr7169
    @sfr7169 3 роки тому +47

    Jeannie talks so differently now that she's with Jeezy

    • @nolyssa
      @nolyssa 3 роки тому +9

      Yup cuz she actually cares about him lol

    • @dayjahomara
      @dayjahomara 3 роки тому

      she wasn’t with him in this clip. this clip is so old

    • @sfr7169
      @sfr7169 3 роки тому +6

      @@dayjahomara I know...I'm speaking on how she talks now

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 2 роки тому +8

    Jeanie is right, living with with a man, is so different then sleep overs. I'm glad I'm married and living with my husband. I wouldn't live with anyone else because we know each other's baggage, that everyone has. I dwtk anyone else's baggage at all. I love my husband married 18 yrs, praise God!💙👉🙌

  • @desireelbeniquez2571
    @desireelbeniquez2571 2 роки тому +3

    You never keep secrets but you don't lie to them. But you don't have to tell if he dont ask.

  • @nissihuni7823
    @nissihuni7823 2 роки тому +4

    Past is in the past honestly digging through who I was will not get you to understand who I am now... It doesn't work like that🙌

    • @violetl.4615
      @violetl.4615 Рік тому

      I disagree. Your past shapes who you are today.

  • @Thewifelife40
    @Thewifelife40 2 роки тому +2

    My husband was married before me so I knew about his ex wife..I don't know anything about any other exes of his. He knows my past relationships as well. I don't think it's a big deal. If it is not important to them anymore then I don't need to know about it. I'm happy with him and we know what we need to know about each other

  • @fat2fabbabe447
    @fat2fabbabe447 3 роки тому +28

    I miss Tam 😭😭😭

    • @abelgarcia6345
      @abelgarcia6345 3 роки тому

      What happened with tam

    • @fat2fabbabe447
      @fat2fabbabe447 3 роки тому

      @@abelgarcia6345 she is no longer with the show!

    • @abelgarcia6345
      @abelgarcia6345 3 роки тому

      @@fat2fabbabe447 no way! Did she get fired? I haven’t watched the show on a while and i noticed she was gone right away

    • @fat2fabbabe447
      @fat2fabbabe447 3 роки тому +2

      @@abelgarcia6345 She decided not to renew her contract!! So on the new season she’s not there😭😭

    • @jacke8847
      @jacke8847 2 роки тому

      How?

  • @NotAMuse
    @NotAMuse 2 роки тому +3

    I wish I could have chimed in to Tamera. People who are more likely to move in with their significant other before marriage already tend to be outside of the ‘typical’ expectations and don’t prescribe to a ‘typical’ relationship standards. So if they get married and it’s not working out, they’re gonna get out of that relationship. Whereas people who wait until marriage tend to have a strict set of values about marriage and they’re more likely to follow the standard and stay married and try to work it out. Or just be miserable and stay married.

  • @silviamothershed421
    @silviamothershed421 3 роки тому +2

    Tamara you look gorgeous today 😎

  • @heyheyhey40
    @heyheyhey40 3 роки тому +2

    Tamera asking about “sleep overs”. 😂

  • @tasneembowers9280
    @tasneembowers9280 3 роки тому +6

    I wonder if Jeanie would say the same things with her new husband.

    • @angelinemutsengi2148
      @angelinemutsengi2148 2 роки тому

      Definitely not lol. I could tell from season 1 she didn't really care about Freddie like that but she actually loves Jeezy so her opinion would be different.

  • @fcstylz
    @fcstylz 2 роки тому

    I had a hard time with my husband touching my things we didn't stay together before marriage and it was a hard adjustment for me bc i dont like people touching or moving my things.

  • @amariwilson5305
    @amariwilson5305 3 роки тому +2

    I miss Tam🥺🤍

  • @brittneyrenea210
    @brittneyrenea210 3 роки тому

    💜💜💜💜

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 роки тому +4

    Bank account is best

  • @KISSFanDan1995
    @KISSFanDan1995 3 роки тому +7

    About the secret bank account I’m keeping that to myself until I can 1,000% trust her.

  • @hustonbrice8654
    @hustonbrice8654 3 роки тому +2

    Hi ❤️❤️😘💕🥰😉☺️😍

  • @CeeP211
    @CeeP211 2 роки тому +2

    Adrienne acts so goofy sometimes.

  • @8luvbug
    @8luvbug 3 роки тому +1

    10:27

  • @marcellacollins4697
    @marcellacollins4697 2 роки тому +1

    Why you worrying about it if it's the pass

  • @dilveensingh2806
    @dilveensingh2806 2 роки тому

    Lonnie Steve Eediate mind Out Finishing

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 роки тому

    These bad

  • @dilveensingh2806
    @dilveensingh2806 2 роки тому

    Loni Gini Pet Kini Pet Bini Pet Looni Coloney

  • @jacke8847
    @jacke8847 2 роки тому +1

    At the end when Tamera, is talking about the difference between "living together before marriage", and "living together before marriage but also being engaged". WTF . There is no difference. I can't stand the holy act. 🙄

  • @adamsey_mame9043
    @adamsey_mame9043 3 роки тому +8

    I don't know what is really wrong with Adrienne and her husband addiction ⁉️ girrrrrrl please save something for yourself, forever us too long‼️