Glad to see some of y’all were entertained by these stories. Apart from the little details I changed in order to protect the guys’ identities, these stories are 100% true. Maybe they have now realized they’re bisexual or gay, not sure, because we’re not in contact anymore 🤷🏽♂️ Besides, sexuality is a spectrum and isn’t black & white. Thanks for watching hint and check out my channel for more fun content! Peace and love ✌🏽❤️
I think the thing that has frightened many men from acting on their sexual impulses with men is not the sex. It’s the identity. Lots of guys will fool around with their buds on the DL and enjoy it. But the moment that it interacts with their social profile that’s when they get uncomfortable. I’ve known lots of straight guys who fool around with guys (both gay and straight) and as long as it’s a secret between them there’s no anxiety and they really enjoy it. But what they fear is the label “gay” or worse the label “in a couple.” That’s where they draw the line, and that’s often where a lot of homophobia starts.
I am openly bisexual and I have had a lot of guy friends that identify as straight kiss me, ask to cuddle and even want to experiment: bottom line is sexuality is on a scale for most people.
I had an experience with a straight friend in college. For a few weeks after that I felt SO awkward every time I ran into him. But that wore off eventually and we were good. That was NEARLY 40 years ago!!!
Straight guy while traveling, Georgetown, KY. The most impactful comment in my life so far. During our 'event' in my hotel room, he looks at me and says, "Why does it feel so good?" I said, "because its supposed to". We had a long discussion afterwards; he was not 'mentally prepared' for gay love/sex. He said yes because he was curious, had some spare time - and he wasn't dating anyone and I was passing through. I said yes because he was good looking, and I liked him while talking to him. He was genuinely unprepared for a really enjoyable experience with me, and had no support system to understand and process it.
I hate it that straight guys are too curious and feel entitled to make use of openly gay guys in an attempt to explore their own sexuality, and once they've tried kissing or touching a boy they just dump him, as though he's to blame for tainting them. It's happened to me many times, and I'm sure that's why I have very few straight male friends: I'm not at their service, I'm not a piece of territory for them to claim.
I hooked up with a straight guy, I was about 20 and he he was about 40. He was a father of 3 that lived 2 houses down from me, his sons of which I played on the same football team with and grew up together as friends. I am now 24 and he has moved away. He would say he was straight but a couple months ago when I was still hooking up with him he said that he lived in a closet, I felt bad for him. Sexuality is definitely a spectrum.
I left this under another comment & decided to share more directly: "Man that part...as a woman this terrifies me. Just be honest & say you're bi/pan/sexual & give women the freedom to choose if she wants to date/marry you because she loves "all of you". Secrets never remain over time."
I've had a few strange happenings with straight guys in my day. They were definitely, "What are you doing?" moments . Twice the guys were definitely under the influence. I feel for guys like that. It's really hard for some guys to deal with the fact they are actually attracted to other men. Learning how to be completely ok with everything you are is really hard.. The gay thing is complicated. Life is complicated.
There are probably just as many bisexual men as there are gay men. A lot of bisexual men may not ever feel comfortable exploring their sexuality with men. I didn’t realize how many bisexual guys there are until my late twenties when someone opened my eyes to it. I didn’t realize how I closed minded I was to bisexual people in general. But now that I’m more aware I meet bisexual guys constantly because I realized that they exist.
Story number one makes me think of innocent kids who play together and show affection - the kind of spontaneous affection that has no ulterior motives. The (drunk) frat guy - wow - his defenses were down, and he got down with you! Jealous here. In my earlier days I tried to make it with friends I liked. Were they all straight? Who knows. None of them responded, so I just gave up. Subscribed 😎
It has taken me years to figure out that I am bi. I would strongly believe I was straight, but find myself checking out hot guys. The more perfect the face, body, or fun that they expressed - the more I would want to be around them and glance at them. I wouldn't kiss them or be wandering while dating, but realized over the years that I can be attracted to both sexes. Maybe more men than women. It is difficult to quantify, just that my types expand based on what turns out positively. I believe there is a spectrum like you say and that good or bad experiences can reinforce it or contract it.
Glad to see some of y’all were entertained by these stories. Apart from the little details I changed in order to protect the guys’ identities, these stories are 100% true. Maybe they have now realized they’re bisexual or gay, not sure, because we’re not in contact anymore 🤷🏽♂️ Besides, sexuality is a spectrum and isn’t black & white. Thanks for watching hint and check out my channel for more fun content! Peace and love ✌🏽❤️
I think the thing that has frightened many men from acting on their sexual impulses with men is not the sex. It’s the identity. Lots of guys will fool around with their buds on the DL and enjoy it. But the moment that it interacts with their social profile that’s when they get uncomfortable. I’ve known lots of straight guys who fool around with guys (both gay and straight) and as long as it’s a secret between them there’s no anxiety and they really enjoy it. But what they fear is the label “gay” or worse the label “in a couple.” That’s where they draw the line, and that’s often where a lot of homophobia starts.
I am openly bisexual and I have had a lot of guy friends that identify as straight kiss me, ask to cuddle and even want to experiment: bottom line is sexuality is on a scale for most people.
“tainted by the heterosexual male” 🤣
I had an experience with a straight friend in college. For a few weeks after that I felt SO awkward every time I ran into him. But that wore off eventually and we were good. That was NEARLY 40 years ago!!!
Straight guy while traveling, Georgetown, KY. The most impactful comment in my life so far. During our 'event' in my hotel room, he looks at me and says, "Why does it feel so good?" I said, "because its supposed to". We had a long discussion afterwards; he was not 'mentally prepared' for gay love/sex. He said yes because he was curious, had some spare time - and he wasn't dating anyone and I was passing through. I said yes because he was good looking, and I liked him while talking to him. He was genuinely unprepared for a really enjoyable experience with me, and had no support system to understand and process it.
I hate it that straight guys are too curious and feel entitled to make use of openly gay guys in an attempt to explore their own sexuality, and once they've tried kissing or touching a boy they just dump him, as though he's to blame for tainting them. It's happened to me many times, and I'm sure that's why I have very few straight male friends: I'm not at their service, I'm not a piece of territory for them to claim.
YOU were not "too close for comfort", Quincy! You are appreciated, and you are very attractive!
I hooked up with a straight guy, I was about 20 and he he was about 40. He was a father of 3 that lived 2 houses down from me, his sons of which I played on the same football team with and grew up together as friends. I am now 24 and he has moved away. He would say he was straight but a couple months ago when I was still hooking up with him he said that he lived in a closet, I felt bad for him. Sexuality is definitely a spectrum.
I left this under another comment & decided to share more directly: "Man that part...as a woman this terrifies me. Just be honest & say you're bi/pan/sexual & give women the freedom to choose if she wants to date/marry you because she loves "all of you". Secrets never remain over time."
I've had a few strange happenings with straight guys in my day. They were definitely, "What are you doing?" moments . Twice the guys were definitely under the influence. I feel for guys like that. It's really hard for some guys to deal with the fact they are actually attracted to other men. Learning how to be completely ok with everything you are is really hard.. The gay thing is complicated. Life is complicated.
I think more straight guys are now evolving more than ever.
There are probably just as many bisexual men as there are gay men. A lot of bisexual men may not ever feel comfortable exploring their sexuality with men. I didn’t realize how many bisexual guys there are until my late twenties when someone opened my eyes to it. I didn’t realize how I closed minded I was to bisexual people in general. But now that I’m more aware I meet bisexual guys constantly because I realized that they exist.
Talk about a visual story teller - relatable & pretty. Thx Quince.
This was a great story time , Do you have anymore , I would love to here them ( :
Gay is not a choice. We are born the way we are
Story number one makes me think of innocent kids who play together and show affection - the kind of spontaneous affection that has no ulterior motives. The (drunk) frat guy - wow - his defenses were down, and he got down with you! Jealous here. In my earlier days I tried to make it with friends I liked. Were they all straight? Who knows. None of them responded, so I just gave up. Subscribed 😎
Tell me the bar was The Den 😂 Everything you described checks out
It has taken me years to figure out that I am bi. I would strongly believe I was straight, but find myself checking out hot guys. The more perfect the face, body, or fun that they expressed - the more I would want to be around them and glance at them. I wouldn't kiss them or be wandering while dating, but realized over the years that I can be attracted to both sexes. Maybe more men than women. It is difficult to quantify, just that my types expand based on what turns out positively. I believe there is a spectrum like you say and that good or bad experiences can reinforce it or contract it.
I am straight. Let me French kiss you, Quincy. 😀 😃 😄 😁