5 Signs You're A SILENT 'Alpha'

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  • @giovanerene
    @giovanerene 4 роки тому +2070

    “I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying.”
    ~ Michael Jordan

    • @kentvicente2467
      @kentvicente2467 4 роки тому +2

      don't try

    • @jackson5506
      @jackson5506 4 роки тому +13

      Check out the last dance series on Netflix, Micheal Jordan doesn’t have the silent Alpha traits, Scotty Pippen is more of a silent Alpha.

    • @varence7007
      @varence7007 4 роки тому +1

      Hee hee

    • @focusedallday5620
      @focusedallday5620 4 роки тому +14

      I have never failed. I have only learned.

    • @adwaithbabu8783
      @adwaithbabu8783 4 роки тому

      Alpha

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 4 роки тому +1178

    Confidence is silent but insecurities are loud. Insecurity kills all that is beautiful. Do not let insecure thoughts RUIN something amazing 🖖

  • @stephenyoung5392
    @stephenyoung5392 4 роки тому +2802

    I think a true alpha is one who doesn't concern himself with being one.

    • @roshans5275
      @roshans5275 4 роки тому +98

      That is correct for a “true alpha”. They are just naturally gifted. This could come from their looks or other factors that allowed to be confidence and never have doubt within themselves. Going from Beta to Alpha is another thing

    • @jonjeskie5234
      @jonjeskie5234 3 роки тому +23

      Nah that's a beta who has just accepted his role..

    • @cosmicdoggo9296
      @cosmicdoggo9296 3 роки тому +80

      @@jonjeskie5234 only a fool falows this Alpha Beta trend you should have bether things to do with your time

    • @neilfender8592
      @neilfender8592 3 роки тому +3

      ill agree with this

    • @jonjeskie5234
      @jonjeskie5234 3 роки тому +18

      @@cosmicdoggo9296 uh... I saw a video. I commented. You act as if I'm spending every waking moment of my existence concerned with social hierarchy Concepts 😂

  • @atharvashintre
    @atharvashintre 3 роки тому +1209

    "A wise man once said nothing at all."
    ~Anonymous.

  • @instakaos6051
    @instakaos6051 3 роки тому +737

    Silent Alphas don’t talk the talk but walk the walk 😤💪

  • @theperfectfighter9193
    @theperfectfighter9193 4 роки тому +8064

    Every person watching this video: yeah that's me

  • @-whackd
    @-whackd 4 роки тому +2063

    I'm such a silent alpha I almost didn't write this post

  • @ninjanikki00
    @ninjanikki00 4 роки тому +738

    ‘Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something’
    - Plato

    • @satoshistacker3273
      @satoshistacker3273 3 роки тому +4

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      @bitcoin8138 3 роки тому +3

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      @podcastclips1242 3 роки тому

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      @carljones4704 3 роки тому

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      @businessinsider6099 3 роки тому

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  • @thescreeb6763
    @thescreeb6763 3 роки тому +291

    Be a real man and stop using the term “alpha”. Honestly everyone I know who looks at these things is just some hopeless guy slapping the term on his fake confidence hoping he gets noticed

    • @indigence1178
      @indigence1178 3 роки тому +24

      I thought the exact same thing. Labels are either used to make your head big or put somebody else down. I mean its 2021 people should worry more extensively at the fact folks in our nation are dying everyday as if we're in a war zone. If you go out into the cities after midnight it is a fuckin war zone, yet instead of investing in our nation to make it a better home for ourselves and our children they want to play games in a proverbial pissing match to see whos got the smallest Dick. I just dont get it.

    • @MrAmbassador11
      @MrAmbassador11 3 роки тому +12

      "Simp" and "alpha" are over-used.

    • @moneymakingblack9087
      @moneymakingblack9087 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 its alot of them

    • @thepandadon3425
      @thepandadon3425 3 роки тому +7

      You know the craziest thing is us that I didn't watch this video to see if I was an "alpha male". I watched it to see just this person had to say because the truth is if you're watching this to make yourself feel better you're in the wrong place. But as for the other four people on this post. Yes our country is a fucking warzone right now but are any of you doing anything to change it? Yes I agree the terms "simp"and "alpha" are over used but only because society thinks it's funny to shame and label a guy or a girl for being totally fine with falling for someone, and Alpha because big headed back asses who want them selves to feel good about their tiny penis (much like the people who posted comments here and even if your girl you still have some sort of ego problem to.

    • @MrAmbassador11
      @MrAmbassador11 3 роки тому +1

      @@thepandadon3425 You, K.G and Aldo Cruz are correct, Imo. I just wrote the the terms "alpha" and "simp" are over-used but I did not go beyond those comments. It's like people shame you for merely liking someone. And yes, there are way more important events going on in the world. And we should be contributing to it's healing and not just talking.

  • @tristanquezadadiaz4508
    @tristanquezadadiaz4508 3 роки тому +273

    "Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles" - Alex Karras

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 роки тому +733

    “Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else’s opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.”
    - Oscar Wilde

  • @jukijunk
    @jukijunk 4 роки тому +797

    Silent Alpha's is like Itachi from Naruto.

  • @joegongora2200
    @joegongora2200 4 роки тому +629

    A silent Alpha can fit into any body size like a master of disguises. He just watches and observes because he doesn't need to make a spectacle of himself, like being the life of the party or bragging about himself. Because he's confident in himself individuals that know him accept him, but at times his personality type doesn't sit well with others. Because of the way he carries himself, his personality possess a threat to others, especially individuals that are narcissistic and self centered. They'll try to put such an individual down because their afraid of being unmasked by him, because he's an individual that has seen through them. This type of male feels he doesn't need to prove anything to anyone.

    • @zuhayerahnafaziz6956
      @zuhayerahnafaziz6956 4 роки тому +49

      Hey Joe. I must say, you said the exact same thing the way I feel most of the time in my daily life. You are spot on, thanks for letting me know that I am not the only one thinking that way.

    • @JeffreyJeffreyFLF
      @JeffreyJeffreyFLF 4 роки тому +19

      A silent Alpha can also disguise himself as transgender.

    • @dominostimes2119
      @dominostimes2119 4 роки тому +4

      Now let’s imagine if this guy actually says what he really thinks about the other one

    • @sayyer10
      @sayyer10 4 роки тому +14

      You put it in beautiful words. I am exactly that. My boss is so insecure coz I can look through him and every time he feels threatened he will push me down the rabbit hole!

    • @joegongora2200
      @joegongora2200 4 роки тому +13

      @@sayyer10 the narcissist behaves in that manner because he doesn't want to be exposed for he/she is what that individual is trying to do is protect themselves. I'm pretty sure you know what type of person he is. So you need to be careful with someone like that that's in authority because who knows what they're capable of. You address an issue or you need something they'll try to change the subject. But you need to keep asking over & over but don't be disrespectful because the game that's being played they want you to lose your cool. Because the games he/she plays is a test of your self-confidence. But don't lose your cool because the person in authority needs to be respected whether they deserve it or not. Sounds like the person you work for is a jerk and one needs to go along with them. Becoming argumentative with them is the worst thing one can do one needs to maintain a good relationship with their boss. One doesn't want to lose their job especially with the pandemic that's going & jobs right now are hard to come by. But maintain your cool and self respect and always keep your head up. Show that you're willing to work with confidence.

  • @trewilliams8789
    @trewilliams8789 3 роки тому +119

    I don't know who needs to hear this but you matter never give up. Blessings

    • @dovasquad5228
      @dovasquad5228 3 роки тому +3

      God bless you brother

    • @trewilliams8789
      @trewilliams8789 3 роки тому +3

      @@dovasquad5228 May GOD bless you as well brother

    • @kurtneywilliams1956
      @kurtneywilliams1956 3 роки тому +2

      Same to me to you and others who are on their grind stay positive and bless stay focus.

    • @trewilliams8789
      @trewilliams8789 3 роки тому +1

      @@kurtneywilliams1956 Will do blessings up to the Most High and may he watch over you always

    • @nood1le
      @nood1le 3 роки тому

      I dont need your blessings, dawg.

  • @julianob.a.6365
    @julianob.a.6365 3 роки тому +210

    The best example of an Silent Alpha is James Bond. He don't hang out in groups and always acts alone.

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 роки тому +481

    “Victory is reserved for those who are willing to pay its price.”
    ― Sun Tzu

    • @mralone5501
      @mralone5501 4 роки тому +1

      Nice one

    • @ggrthemostgodless8713
      @ggrthemostgodless8713 4 роки тому +4

      That sounds stupid, because it is very SITUATIONAL. Sounds cool and wise though.
      The price of greatness is always too high for most, and people who think they got what it takes to achieve those things are never to the level. We hear or know of the ones who tried and survived, but the ones who die trying and didn't achieve it we never hear. "Victory" in what or of what or how do we know it has been "won"?
      Think of any "great" man, now think about WHEN did he know he had achieved victory?? never, it was just the way he was made.
      "Wise words" are all around us on the net or books, or your aunt Sally, but so what! What does anyone do with them?? Those men didn't know in advance where they would end up, they end up where they end up because the WAY THEY ARE takes them there, it is their CHARACTER that drives them.
      Those people SEEK challenges and WANT TO be put to the test in things they KNOW ahead of time they might not make it or survive or "achieve". Not just any stupid "test" but true beyond themselves things that NEED DOING.
      Haven't seen any of those guys around, and have read of some in history books, and also of their folly and mistakes and how they STARTED something and ended up conquering the landscape, like Alexander the Great... notice he was born into a family of great people. Some are not, but they got the character.

    • @Kuroneko_Seeker
      @Kuroneko_Seeker 4 роки тому

      I decide the price

    • @henryseg8802
      @henryseg8802 4 роки тому

      Art of War

    • @ggrthemostgodless8713
      @ggrthemostgodless8713 4 роки тому +3

      @HW
      You got no idea!! LOL
      People gather round me to challenge their stupid views, and sometimes, they change mine.
      But now there are no parties, I'm stuck with people like you here; who make general wise-sounding comments without making a point. LOL

  • @lubomirhristev9103
    @lubomirhristev9103 4 роки тому +235

    Not bragging for your success that's the biggest sign.

    • @AfrikanAssassin
      @AfrikanAssassin 4 роки тому

      Yup!

    • @lubomirhristev9103
      @lubomirhristev9103 4 роки тому

      @jay dowd Exactly buddy👌

    • @thedude7099
      @thedude7099 4 роки тому +3

      It will back-fire later , Satans children are watching like ravenous lions, bragging is arrogance , arrogance means insecure...

    • @stevenschroeders7502
      @stevenschroeders7502 4 роки тому +1

      i never brag. I only share my accomplishments when they pertain to a conversation. Never out of any type of supremacy. Other humans usually take it the wrong way though.

    • @lubomirhristev9103
      @lubomirhristev9103 4 роки тому

      @@stevenschroeders7502 Only people that are jealous will get it the wrong way. So no worries buddy. You are doing great!

  • @dr3skul191
    @dr3skul191 4 роки тому +289

    Am I the only one who just got this randomly in their recommended page

    • @bradenjarvis3454
      @bradenjarvis3454 4 роки тому +6

      This video just randomly popped up in my Notification Center

    • @suzanneneil4309
      @suzanneneil4309 4 роки тому +3

      No ! Me too!

    • @massx00
      @massx00 4 роки тому +2

      i did too

    • @5H4Ll0wD4N
      @5H4Ll0wD4N 4 роки тому +3

      No, you're not.
      ._.

    • @jasonbehealthy7221
      @jasonbehealthy7221 4 роки тому +5

      Nope, I was watching Jordan Peterson and this was next in my autoplay. 🤔

  • @josephbedwell3164
    @josephbedwell3164 3 роки тому +122

    Silent alpha has the ability to get an entire conversation out of a woman by providing a simple "yes", "no" or "uh huh".

    • @ElixirRL
      @ElixirRL 3 роки тому +8

      Why is this so true for me wtf

  • @nyallcollinson2153
    @nyallcollinson2153 3 роки тому +15

    Just want to say a massive thank you for this content. It's made me a much better person overall. The new mindset of 'always more' really puts life into a whole new perspective.

  • @davidsdinero
    @davidsdinero 4 роки тому +338

    Alpha is mentality not what you physically look like. It's true you don't have to be ripped to be considered an alpha.

  • @glennhughes9594
    @glennhughes9594 4 роки тому +221

    I have been a quiet most of my life. I never really fit into a “group” I was always thinking about the deeper meanings of things and I was put in special education in school because I didn’t learn the same way everyone else did. I was steered away from college and was told that I wasn’t really “college material” I went in the work force after graduation and worked as a factory mechanic for 17 years. My plant closed and I started looking at what to do next. I started a drain cleaning and plumbing business. People thought I was crazy dealing with cleaning out sewer lines. But I saw the opportunity in it because no one else would do it. Now I run a successful business and laugh at the others who doubted me while they work to make someone else rich.

    • @ZaptamusInHisPrime
      @ZaptamusInHisPrime 4 роки тому +30

      The shitty part is knowing nobody wants to do it and you HAVE to do it if you want it bad enough. Good on you my brotha for truly getting it out the (butt) mud!

    • @intergalacticweatherzone
      @intergalacticweatherzone 4 роки тому +15

      Chase the bag bro...and not only in its financial form but in all its forms💯💯

    • @Hunterslife315
      @Hunterslife315 4 роки тому +5

      Great job bud. Good for you.

    • @kennethrobinson1672
      @kennethrobinson1672 4 роки тому +3

      👍

    • @WhereisYunoGasai
      @WhereisYunoGasai 4 роки тому +2

      💯

  • @juliuss.5797
    @juliuss.5797 4 роки тому +438

    This is referred to as a "lone wolf"

  • @StillMrTp
    @StillMrTp 3 роки тому +14

    I honestly think that the truest mark of an Alpha is not over obsessing about whether you may or may not be an Alpha male. It simply comes down to knowing who you are and not feeling the need to prove it to anyone.

  • @livinggsamurai5643
    @livinggsamurai5643 3 роки тому +212

    Is there anyone out there like me ?
    •Bored most of the time
    •listens to a lot of music
    •Popular but has no messages
    •Atheltic
    •Overthinker
    •trust issues
    •Dosent really care about relationships ( you could be in one and be happy but the moment you break up it’s like you really didn’t care )
    •manipulates others feelings for your benefit

  • @Mylesaj7
    @Mylesaj7 4 роки тому +338

    A true Alpha doesn't need a stimulus check , steroids, or women to validate who he is. A true Alpha knows when you build your kingdom it attracts all you need. True Alpha's know God

    • @SantiXiAmaru
      @SantiXiAmaru 4 роки тому +21

      The true alpha knows who he is, he doesn't even have to rely on the "concept of a God". A god existing or not doesn't even matter because the alpha has achieved knowledge of himself, which is the highest knowledge one can attain. Ancestral knowledge.

    • @sequanwilliams3558
      @sequanwilliams3558 4 роки тому +1

      Stop

    • @sequanwilliams3558
      @sequanwilliams3558 4 роки тому

      Santi g

    • @Mylesaj7
      @Mylesaj7 4 роки тому +20

      @@SantiXiAmaru because you can reply dont mean you saying anything. Point blank. There is no self without God be your own alpha and dismiss yourself from worrying about what this alpha says.

    • @sinister910
      @sinister910 4 роки тому +9

      True alpha's know God is a fabricated character made up cause we fear the unknown and is meeded for the weak minded sheeps.

  • @Stormy4Hunnid
    @Stormy4Hunnid 4 роки тому +195

    "If you're not humble, life will visit humbleness upon you" - Mike Tyson
    Edit: wow most likes I ever had on a YT post haha thank you all, God bless, have a good day and keep working on yourselves 💘

    • @Lavrec
      @Lavrec 3 роки тому +4

      " I broke my back. My back is broken." - Mike Tyson

    • @dahero6216
      @dahero6216 3 роки тому

      God will humble u

  • @its_just_marvlus
    @its_just_marvlus 4 роки тому +184

    That introverted alpha is also known as 'Sigma',sigmas or this silent alpha has the aura of a king, calm, collective, thoughtful everywhere he is. This sigma proves themselves to others not like a show off but more like a reason why. Whats better than being yourself? The answer is nothing. I like who i am, im not fake, im real. Im not a fool, im a free mind.

  • @mubashirafridi8085
    @mubashirafridi8085 3 роки тому +12

    A true alpha is not about suppressing others or letting other suppress him but to strengthen others around him through his sheer strength and power.

  • @B4_E
    @B4_E 3 роки тому +9

    Hey, this helped me alot! I was being insulted and called names in class a few days ago and it got to me and I walked out and hit the wall out of anger. I responded to them on snapchat and I was angry. I know that keeping calm and collected and not giving a damn what they think will keep me above them. I thought the only way to handle the situation was to fight my way out of it, but in reality, the complete security and inner confidence will keep you standing and let those people know you have a back bone. I really appreciate this video ❤

  • @shaaprosperous1520
    @shaaprosperous1520 4 роки тому +102

    A weak man can be found amongst a large crowd a wise man in solitude

    • @indigence1178
      @indigence1178 3 роки тому +8

      Real gs stay silent like lasagna

  • @murasaki1896
    @murasaki1896 4 роки тому +281

    A moment of silence ...for all those who thinks they're now "introverted" alphas

    • @JamesDavis-rz2cq
      @JamesDavis-rz2cq 4 роки тому +13

      LOL well played sir

    • @gkiodinakachukwu631
      @gkiodinakachukwu631 4 роки тому +6

      It's alarming..

    • @justanobody8010
      @justanobody8010 3 роки тому

      i am at least one of those things

    • @JamesDavis-rz2cq
      @JamesDavis-rz2cq 3 роки тому +1

      Petulant little sh!ts.. hilarious

    • @B4_E
      @B4_E 3 роки тому +3

      @@JamesDavis-rz2cq I think you just can't handle the fact these petulant little shits are the men who are already far above you

  • @scoutMaster97
    @scoutMaster97 4 роки тому +1082

    Skinny virgin takes a break from watching his anime: "oh yeah thats me!"

    • @johnnoreau3570
      @johnnoreau3570 4 роки тому +64

      I feel attacked on the skinny and taking a break from his anime parts far from a virgin 😭🤣🤣

    • @aaronharman5431
      @aaronharman5431 4 роки тому +144

      Alpha is a mentality, not a body type or a number

    • @taylorcarter6940
      @taylorcarter6940 4 роки тому +1

      John Noreau lmaooo😂😂😂💀

    • @tenochtitlan6905
      @tenochtitlan6905 4 роки тому +22

      Aaron Harman Say it one more time for the people in the back!🙌

    • @nosferatozodd5330
      @nosferatozodd5330 4 роки тому +12

      shut up you negative insect

  • @fahrudinmedjedovic4746
    @fahrudinmedjedovic4746 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you for this 8 minutes or so. I just found myself in all of the traits that you just described.

  • @VeryStupid4547
    @VeryStupid4547 3 роки тому +21

    Having anxiety has nothing to do with this. Speaking for myself, I get anxious because I'm anticipating what's going to happen and the best way to approach a task. Screw a plan b, I have plans H,I,J,K,L,M,N,O,P and Q.

    • @sterlingfreeman7260
      @sterlingfreeman7260 3 роки тому

      now try to narrow that down to 1 plan that will just work, instead of having a way out of every angle you screw up. :)

  • @IronMan-ur9sx
    @IronMan-ur9sx 4 роки тому +23

    I followed you for many years, I really thank you for all the precious insights on social dynamics you offered and still continue to offer

  • @LOOTLORD605
    @LOOTLORD605 4 роки тому +270

    One big warning for everyone: Watch out for Narcissist.

    • @stevenschroeders7502
      @stevenschroeders7502 4 роки тому +33

      why? They are no threat. Just use their own tactics against them. Isolation is a narcissists nightmare.

    • @Dualbladedscorpion7737
      @Dualbladedscorpion7737 4 роки тому +15

      @@stevenschroeders7502
      Yep they have themselves to talk too.

    • @easyflow420galactus9
      @easyflow420galactus9 3 роки тому +1

      I second that...

    • @CommentedHere0
      @CommentedHere0 3 роки тому +2

      I know. :/

    • @gargoyliangaming6556
      @gargoyliangaming6556 3 роки тому

      @@stevenschroeders7502 I know right pathetic cowards. Hurt little adults not wanting to reflect an Take responsibility. Fuk them. Let them stay in their cycles of filth.

  • @samgonzalez2059
    @samgonzalez2059 4 роки тому +12

    Thank you for helping us to understand who we really are😏 I never realized that I was one of those. The only thing I knew is that I was doing always my thing and always knowing where I'm going. Focused and moving forward for my reward in life. Thx4posting really good videos,man!

  • @gregi787
    @gregi787 3 роки тому +108

    "Life is an ass, shit just happen"
    - idk maybe me

    • @DeeYpc
      @DeeYpc 3 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @jeotts
      @jeotts 3 роки тому

      EPIC lol

  • @tristanwoodward4170
    @tristanwoodward4170 3 роки тому +11

    1. Always think b4 speak
    2. Ik I'm not the only who makes fake scenarios in there mind.
    3. Pland out my entire future already
    4.125 pounds 6ft 15yrs old skinny af

  • @sgtzulu2507
    @sgtzulu2507 4 роки тому +73

    The silent alpha is the other Alpha's ultimate wing man that everyone knows not to F$&/! With him. He's really is the one that's in charge.

    • @electrokinesis_9729
      @electrokinesis_9729 4 роки тому +7

      Huh, that's interesting.

    • @1CE.
      @1CE. 3 роки тому +3

      Cope

    • @taylorschott4659
      @taylorschott4659 3 роки тому +9

      Thats why I never took loud bullies seriously. you can talk a big game all you want, but unless you can actually back up your bull shit, I will not respect you as a man. its the quite ones you should watch out for. Every bully i,v ever had were talkers, they rarely hurt me physically. But when they did hurt me, I did not hesitate to fight back, even if I was outnumbered and I was getting my ass kicked. After I would fight back, they realized that I wasn't going to take it lying down and they would leave me alone. I would usually give a warning first, but if they didn't take it seriously, I would not give them a second warning. I may have been quite, but I was no where near a goodie two shoes in elementary school. I tried to stay out of trouble as much as I could, but I got into a lot of fights back then.

    • @ericpogue8014
      @ericpogue8014 3 роки тому

      True, I am a veteran and a woman and I held myself to a high standard, I was deployed with mostly men and if I didn't immediately demand respect I would have been ran over bcuz its around 500,000 men who haven't been around females in a while. I'm also quiet but the entire time I am watching everyone around me and their actions.

  • @nothing4youhere540
    @nothing4youhere540 4 роки тому +38

    Those who know what they're capable of, have no need to brag about it.
    "Silent Alphas" Prefer to speak through action, rather than gratuitous boasting.

  • @laurentserna5414
    @laurentserna5414 4 роки тому +81

    The amount of experience gained in life plus failures creates an introvert alpha.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 3 роки тому +5

      yes at a later life now I feel I am turning this way but I got burned a few times to get there - I have never before had so much attention from women like now - look good walk proud get in shape enjoy your old and new life Hobbies - King

    • @dannysllrs
      @dannysllrs 3 роки тому +1

      @@marksallai2289 add in a cologne collection to that and you're unstoppable! Really figure it all out tho what kinds for what seasons and occasions. If you got em coming to you already now the ones your not getting will be able to smell the alpha in the air and follow the scent right to you! I have no problem with girls and when you don't and pretty much ignore them they want you so much more. Add a scent and when they smell something resembling anything you wore they'll think of you, I've had em tell me they thought of me all day long smelling some ADG Profumo around them. People always want what they can't have!

  • @sphinx2476
    @sphinx2476 3 роки тому +3

    This just put tears into my soul Essence. That's all i can say 🌄🙇🏾‍♂️❤🙏🏽

  • @universpro7741
    @universpro7741 4 роки тому +26

    I'm a shy introvert who starts sweating when talking to girls

    • @codymerritt1202
      @codymerritt1202 3 роки тому +4

      Don’t talk to them right away unless it’s only a one time thing seeing her. Keep her guessing avoid her make her want you more and more then make the move and when you do just open your messages if you already got her name then hand her the phone and ask for her number you don’t even have to say shit

    • @JavoneJJones
      @JavoneJJones 3 роки тому +1

      @@codymerritt1202 ur a inspiration 💯👍

    • @williamempaling6082
      @williamempaling6082 3 роки тому

      @@codymerritt1202 My Mans!

    • @youreadopted3960
      @youreadopted3960 3 роки тому

      @@JavoneJJones you're

    • @indigence1178
      @indigence1178 3 роки тому

      Its okay buddy, you wont be a virgin forever.

  • @phienux
    @phienux 4 роки тому +138

    This is what we call a Sigma. The Alpha’s rival.

    • @kinjo2169
      @kinjo2169 3 роки тому +8

      Exactly...

    • @UhmActually.
      @UhmActually. 3 роки тому +8

      Sigma balls

    • @bizhustle3741
      @bizhustle3741 3 роки тому

      Alpha is the Boss, Sigma is the Consigliere

    • @ryanlee6529
      @ryanlee6529 3 роки тому +3

      @@bizhustle3741 and you're the omega

    • @apollontv1078
      @apollontv1078 3 роки тому +1

      Alpha beta sigma omega...ALL GREEK LETTERS FROM THE GREEK ALPHABET...but neither of these is used to describe the strongest and ext...there are other much more powerful letters....like "ν-Ν", meaning the MIND.
      or "τ-Τ",meaning the TOUGH one...ext
      We use ALPHA as the beginning..not like the PRIOR,but like the CAUSE..(as you say -cause and effect..?)..
      Also OMEGA =Ω-ω.. Means ::OH THE GREAT...

  • @shukuladay8883
    @shukuladay8883 4 роки тому +51

    A real silent alpha man don’t brag about being real as long as he knows it. And only the real silent alphas know. And that’s the approach taken. Only other silent alphas can relate.
    If there’s no need, then why bother.
    This video is straight facts. It’s more factual than the word fact. And that’s facts.

  • @consciousdom770
    @consciousdom770 4 роки тому +67

    "Sometimes you have to be a lion to be the lamb you truly are"- Dave Chappell's Mom

  • @Truth-wonder
    @Truth-wonder 3 роки тому +9

    So silent “alpha” seems to be synonymous with what others consider “sigma” as they have basically all the same qualities.

  • @basickr5822
    @basickr5822 3 роки тому +5

    I needed this video. I've been struggling to find out why I think the way I do and now I know the answer, thank you!

  • @peterhoatson
    @peterhoatson 4 роки тому +5

    My God, every word spoken in this video was spot on in describing exactly who I am!
    Helps in my self - awareness and oh so encouraging for me to keep doing what I'm doing

  • @joshreyes3624
    @joshreyes3624 4 роки тому +10

    I agree with most of it, though I have one correction. The anxiousness.
    That in particular is just pre-battle jitters going into an unknown zone outside the wire. Guys who say they never feel even a small amount of anxiety before headed into an unknown situation are lying to not only you, but themselves.
    Its feeling and perservering through said anxiety that makes you strong.

  • @theexclusiveedition
    @theexclusiveedition 4 роки тому +105

    SIGMA!!!!!!

    • @zephaniahdunlap98
      @zephaniahdunlap98 4 роки тому +5

      Ayy that's right brotha Sigma nation rise up!!

    • @seanjohnblaze
      @seanjohnblaze 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly! I was waiting for this guy to say Sigma. He's describing the Sigma.

    • @joey22306
      @joey22306 3 роки тому

      Exactly 💯 .The narrator clearly doesn't know.

    • @johntrojan9653
      @johntrojan9653 3 роки тому

      👍

  • @intj1782
    @intj1782 3 роки тому +2

    Alpha - ENTJ
    Silent Alpha - INTJ

  • @pdxmorte2010
    @pdxmorte2010 3 роки тому +6

    i used to be a silent alpha but i fell off my path that changes today

  • @OneElkCrew
    @OneElkCrew 4 роки тому +57

    This is like astrology, but for men who are not-quite confident enough. Broad terms that vaguely describe a large portion of the people

    • @chillycharlie7210
      @chillycharlie7210 4 роки тому +3

      Thing about astrology and the parallel here are they are like general overviews of behavior, they are focused more on a "developing mentality" than a fixed mindset. They identify very generally where you're strengths and weaknesses lie in your personality with the intent that readers or viewers will use the knowledge to make improvements where they feel are necessary... it is not 'vague' per se but 'untapped potential' meaning it's up to YOU to define the attitude and behaviors that define the alpha masculinity within your ID, EGO & PERSONALITY i.e. "here's all we know about your archetype, with this knowledge you can push towards the positive aspects(alpha tendencies) or submit to the complacency of your negative aspects(beta tendencies) the choice is all yours"

    • @SkyreeXScalabar
      @SkyreeXScalabar 4 роки тому +4

      Yep, he's just cold reading people and being vague. Person who invented the idea of a lone wolf even went back and said that isn't true, male and female work together to raise pups.

  • @ralphsawe7175
    @ralphsawe7175 4 роки тому +15

    These videos always make me feel good about myself.

    • @MichaelBrown-bl2ff
      @MichaelBrown-bl2ff 3 роки тому

      That's good. :)

    • @sterlingfreeman7260
      @sterlingfreeman7260 3 роки тому +1

      that's what it's about. people troll these message boards because they're looking to point the fingers at others to make themselves feel bigger. They shouldn't be watching this. It's about people coming to a realization about something within themselves and that it's ok to accept and confront it as being reality. good for you!

  • @jeremiahplunk1193
    @jeremiahplunk1193 4 роки тому +85

    This guy you’re referring to is typically called the “ Sigma Male”, Steve Jabba devotes his you tube channel to it, Caleb Jones calls this guy the “ Alpha Male 2.0”, And wrote a book on the subject, thanks for sharing yet another great video for us guys

    • @gabrieljimenez6740
      @gabrieljimenez6740 4 роки тому +5

      Thanks!!

    • @dncsmedia
      @dncsmedia 3 роки тому +1

      You're the only one I noticed in the entire comments that realized this person is the Sigma Male. 🙌🏼🏆🤙🏼✌🏼❤️

    • @1CE.
      @1CE. 3 роки тому +2

      There’s no such thing
      You’re either Chad it you’re not and that’s all on your genetics not any sort of “self improvement”
      Ask yourself this, is dating at all suppose to be this complicated that you need books?

    • @KainChrist
      @KainChrist 3 роки тому +1

      I am glad to see someone else knows of the term.

  • @1of174
    @1of174 3 роки тому +16

    It's called an Aloof and no he does not have a beard with his hair cut short and combed to the side. That is a beta who's tries to look masculine. The silent alpha is cool and calculated he sees everything and fears nothing.

    • @21stCenturySpaceOdyssey
      @21stCenturySpaceOdyssey 3 роки тому

      @1 of 1 Best comment here, good sir. And you are correct about appearence...does not have to have a beard or hair combed to the side; he could have a shaved head.

  • @TrupimOkiemTV
    @TrupimOkiemTV 3 роки тому +2

    Just getting my message out there - I hope You guys are here because of wisdom, not any kind of validation. I wish You all the best, peace.

  • @burningwheel5088
    @burningwheel5088 4 роки тому +25

    Me: After hearing confidence...I'M OUT...

    • @Hail2GOD
      @Hail2GOD 3 роки тому

      Lmao😂

    • @halofreak1990
      @halofreak1990 3 роки тому

      I'm usually pretty confident, just not around women. Though part of that is caused by how easily one gets false accusations thrown at them for virtually anything.

  • @groovesan
    @groovesan 4 роки тому +75

    totally accurate BUT its a double-standart:
    They see you as the silent alpha if you're attractive.
    If you're not, they see you as a weird creep

    • @rid1cul0us
      @rid1cul0us 4 роки тому +8

      How you see yourself, expressed in part by your vibe/presence, is whom others will sense first then see. It comes from within.

    • @Dualbladedscorpion7737
      @Dualbladedscorpion7737 4 роки тому +5

      That would depend on the vibes your putting out, and probbly how you act and look.

    • @rid1cul0us
      @rid1cul0us 4 роки тому +2

      @@Dualbladedscorpion7737 Exactly. Own it! 💪

    • @xsj_anonymous17domain-styd12
      @xsj_anonymous17domain-styd12 3 роки тому +2

      That's true

    • @tylerh2548
      @tylerh2548 3 роки тому

      If you're not attractive, you ARE the weird creep. Sorry

  • @austinsnyder3185
    @austinsnyder3185 4 роки тому +18

    “Why have people still not received their stimulus check”😂😂😂😂 Great video man. This is the type of person I strive to be

  • @pjsaggu4320
    @pjsaggu4320 3 роки тому +2

    i always refer to myself as a silent wolf. or a lone wolf. this video basically confirms who i am per se. well explained. subbed.

  • @nostalgiaemeraldtablet
    @nostalgiaemeraldtablet 3 роки тому +2

    💯🙌🏿🦍 “Silence Is Truly Eloquent, They’ll Do Anything to Stay Relevant”

  • @JaketheJust
    @JaketheJust 4 роки тому +16

    It’s better to remain silent and thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt

    • @TheSparkart
      @TheSparkart 4 роки тому

      Not necessarily.... Lotta people stay quiet for fear of looking like an idiot.... knowing you dont know something and speaking up even though it'll make you look stupid is confidence as well.... knowing your limits and accepting someone knows more than you so that you can gain their knowledge.

    • @JaketheJust
      @JaketheJust 4 роки тому

      @@TheSparkart Good point. I go back to what made Socrates the wisest man in Greece and it was because he knew nothing. Meaning that he knew his limits and recognized his own arrogance and lack of knowledge on a subject. What I see when someone or myself remain silent is so I can listen and hear what someone is saying. I can learn and maybe find fault in with my own argument or the other side. But if you just speak out for the sake of just speaking, it’s not the best course of action. If someone arrogantly speaks out and just continues talking then they do not realize that they may be wrong or what the other side’s view on a subject

    • @TheSparkart
      @TheSparkart 4 роки тому

      @@JaketheJust yeah, youre right.... I guess what I meant by remaining silent, is pretending you know something instead of speaking up so someone can explain.... remaining silent so you can absorb or speaking up so someone can explain for you are both great.

  • @vic7131
    @vic7131 4 роки тому +6

    I got to an age to where I just don't care anymore. I'm turning to a grumpy old man at an early stage.

  • @raizerlp1richtig488
    @raizerlp1richtig488 4 роки тому +23

    All the things he said apply to me. Until now, I thought that wasn’t normal.
    Thank you so much !!!

    • @me-dtrellx7895
      @me-dtrellx7895 4 роки тому

      You just hit home fr because I’ve Changed halfway

    • @sayyer10
      @sayyer10 4 роки тому

      Me too! Just realise I am a silent alpha after viewing this! How cool is that?

  • @latter-daysaintbatman2679
    @latter-daysaintbatman2679 3 роки тому +4

    *Does his own thing & has been said by his teachers that he will amount to nothing...but builds a multi-national billionaire company....and a friend has said that I am a deep thinker too....*
    I never expected myself to take this path.....(I am a sigma male, however, these experiences now make sense in my life.). This is God's will for me.
    (I am thinking this out loudly and yes I do overanalyze from time to time.)

  • @toethlef8994
    @toethlef8994 3 роки тому +3

    If you’re watching this video and you sit in the back of class picking your nose, you’re definitely a “Silent Alpha”. Dont let nobody tell you different.

  • @eric6rock
    @eric6rock 4 роки тому +6

    I think to be a sigma I feel you have to go through adversity and have a good head on your shoulders as of being humble. Another thing about this type of alpha is nonconformity, they go against social norms that's why we are deemed "Weird" or the "quiet kid". I can relate with so many traits given from this video.
    This will be a novelty until the mainstream media catches on to this

  • @AfrikanAssassin
    @AfrikanAssassin 4 роки тому +6

    Kwahi Leonard is a perfect example of this.

  • @ace4625
    @ace4625 4 роки тому +167

    U mean, a sigma male? Lol

    • @dnpaker84
      @dnpaker84 4 роки тому +15

      Sams thing I said

    • @OGStarlightKY
      @OGStarlightKY 4 роки тому +30

      I was like “A silent alpha? Bitch that’s what a Sigma is”

    • @daslous89
      @daslous89 4 роки тому +26

      Yep, he is actually referring to a sigma. An introverted alpha

    • @keanau4844
      @keanau4844 4 роки тому +1

      Or a zeta male

    • @joshuanickle
      @joshuanickle 4 роки тому +4

      Keanau Thurston-baker zeta male? I’ve never heard of it

  • @um52
    @um52 3 роки тому +1

    They’re quiet, humble, low key and successful. They lead by example. They don’t degrade or belittle others. They march to the beat of their own drum, live their own life and aren’t crowd pleasers. That’s an alpha male

  • @Lizzbird_
    @Lizzbird_ 3 роки тому +3

    Downside if being an Silent Alpha is that nobody knows your an Alpha and may think you lack self-confidence, but an Alpha is an Alpha.

    • @1CE.
      @1CE. 3 роки тому

      There’s no such thing as an alpha
      It’s either Chad or non Chad’s and that’s something generic not behavioral that some video or book with teach you

    • @Lizzbird_
      @Lizzbird_ 3 роки тому +1

      @@1CE. I agree, when I wrote this comment, I thought there were different types of males, but today now I realized there is no such thing as an Alpha, or beta, or any other, every guy is good in their own way.

    • @1CE.
      @1CE. 3 роки тому

      @@Lizzbird_ Umm no...there’s Chad and not Chad’s

    • @ElixirRL
      @ElixirRL 3 роки тому

      Kid in class who is silent focusing on work but you know he's cool but don't mess with him and when recess come he can be funny making jokes with best friend silent alpha and has that best friend as a alpha who talks a lot but is very funny and cool in class very loud. But when that alpha gets in trouble the silent alpha controlling situation tells teacher hes not being rude

  • @josephmiller9722
    @josephmiller9722 4 роки тому +16

    Watches the Beta video: “Damn, that’s me.”
    Watches the Silent Alpha video: “Yeah, that’s me actually.”

  • @santostroncoso4174
    @santostroncoso4174 3 роки тому +20

    A fat guy in his basement playing world of warcraft: That's so me

  • @Billski86itsallalie
    @Billski86itsallalie 3 роки тому +6

    I wonder why this would come up when im listening to Bushido audio books. Alpha is a word made of letters in an ALPHAbet if you stop learning you stop living a word does nothing for how you sit inside yourself silence creates time to learn

  • @ajaxliz9231
    @ajaxliz9231 3 роки тому +1

    Speak only when you feel your words are better than your silent..
    That's what I go with.. ✌🏼

  • @DrebinI893I
    @DrebinI893I 3 роки тому +2

    "In a nutshell"
    Regular Alpha - Lion 🦁
    Silent Alpha - Tiger 🐅

  • @melfrausto3538
    @melfrausto3538 4 роки тому +6

    “ they ask why?” “ why hasn’t anyone gotten they’re stimulus check” had me weak

  • @greater-vision4608
    @greater-vision4608 4 роки тому +33

    Is sigma and silent alpha the same thing??

  • @domenictorcasio3557
    @domenictorcasio3557 3 роки тому +7

    This is me...it’s weird how Google/UA-cam have a explanation/definition for every person..it’s like we’re unique but not unique at the same time..

  • @alurnima
    @alurnima 2 роки тому +1

    When i was younger and on parties I never needed alcohol to have fun. When I was talking all the girls seemed interested (because i had a lot to say compared to the other boys my age) And the boys always wanted to connect to me. Nowadays nobody would ever expect me to be a quiet introvert. One of my achievements was to unlock that hindering part of "introvertness" because in my case it was not only an introvert part but also infused with a lot of fear/anxiousness out of my very unhealthy and unstable upbringing. It's hard to fight your roots but worth it a 1000 times when you succeed. Today people i know get "scared" when i go silent, really silent. Which means im thinking on my own and am usually many steps ahead of them. In my mothers tongue Einstein called this type of thinking "Gedankenexperiment" which roughly translates to "Thinking Experiment". Men always wanted to work with or for me, women always seemed kind of interested or wanting to be around me. For some years i refused all those social obligations, which is wrong to do. Now I'm building not only my sociallife but business connections who will help me out greatly (and I'm helping them of course)
    I will leave a f-ing dent in the universe and while doing so help out many others greatly.
    I do not give a lot of sheets about this Alpha/Beta stuff...but if you had lived my Life you would probably feel a little weird too.

  • @adamanonymus3309
    @adamanonymus3309 3 роки тому +2

    Actually, I clicked on this video, because I don't really have any alpha-traits, and deep down I know I'm not one of them, but I needed a video that gives me the false sense that I might be a secret, "undercover" alpha. Now I feel a bit better, thanks!

  • @hckung34
    @hckung34 4 роки тому +5

    One of my childhood friends was an introverted silent Alpha, he didn't speak so much he let the other persons speak and get all the attention but he only spoke when spoken to or when he disagreed with someone. I do not know how he gets all the girls and so many friends and everything when he never starts conversations or even speak that much it is like it comes naturally for him even when we were like 6-10 years old everyone followed him around and just battled for his attention.

    • @ElixirRL
      @ElixirRL 3 роки тому

      Genetics because I'm just like your childhood friend, that would happen to me all the time

  • @timtim2564
    @timtim2564 3 роки тому +4

    *I silently concur with this entire video*

  • @siddhanthdas8622
    @siddhanthdas8622 4 роки тому +7

    I know I'm silent alpha , I mean all the traits matches with me ... It has to be

  • @Kurachi84
    @Kurachi84 3 роки тому +2

    Was wondering why i didn't look like others who call themselves alpha, while i've been less active about it. I know most people feel "cool" by calling themselves alpha and such, but i really don't let anyone (aside from the government, they are way too powerful) screw me up.
    I'm not far in life due to brain damage, but i've been called many negative names, which bothered me, but never wanted to fight back. Nowadays i just let them be as low as they want, and only take action when really needed.
    "Thinking about why" is what i did from the day i was born, basically, with an IQ of 120, which got held back by the brain damage i received at the age of 11, making my whole life a mess, and now am just stuck in this poor(financially, which i cannot change), boring and lonely life.
    Not that i care, as so many people fight blindly against people who would be allies, if they'd talk, rather than call the innocent ones names and fight them over every little, irrelevant detail.
    Silent alpha? I guess, but not gonna show off with it... i just start to talk (type) when i see many features about myself, andthen you see my comments this long, which happens often XD
    But nowadays people fight each other over irrelevant details, so i guess i'll stay out of it, and protect what i have in life, as talking on my own level will confuse these blinded fighters, and using my energy and time to try to compromise with people who won't listen, and eventually get into fights with them, which they seem to LOVE, is not something i approve of, i rather live life in peace.
    Not sure if i'm a silent alpha or just a lone wolf, but i rather care about what and who (in case i'd ever get a GF... and the household family i grew up with, of course) i have in my life, than try to fight people who won't ever change, making talking (not gonna fight them physically, that would just make things worse) to them completely useless.
    I've been called loner and nerd quite often, but i guess compared to most other categories of different kinds of behaviour of people, it's a compliment nowadays :D
    I can think a lot, which i do every single day, and will fight if i need to protect all that's important to me in life, and i won't run until i win, or ... lose.
    Not very social with others anymore, but man, it's way easier living for what i CAN change and improve, while society is just unchangeable for me.
    Oh boy, here i went again XD Sorry!
    I hope 2021 will cure some people from their mental blindness, and brings us some better times.
    I have lots of doubt, but i can wish, i guess.
    Have a good time, people! :)

  • @casualcorey3027
    @casualcorey3027 3 роки тому +1

    So, I’ve read a lot of comments and I can say I’m a silent alpha. I’m always checking my surroundings, know when to step in and when to back down. NOT all alphas are built the same. I’m 5’6,300lbs and what what needs to be done and how to get it done. I’m a social butterfly but, I also enjoys alone time.

  • @blacsavage3989
    @blacsavage3989 4 роки тому +13

    You had me at “where are ppls stimulus checks” to funny how you slide that in there!

  • @WeTryYouWin
    @WeTryYouWin 4 роки тому +11

    Watch the 2011 movie called Drive... Perfect Example

  • @animestarlord9021
    @animestarlord9021 4 роки тому +4

    I always think before doing everything, over think most of the time. Most folks call me dumb for doing that.

  • @sarimsok83
    @sarimsok83 3 роки тому +1

    Here’s my 2 cents, it’s not that we’re quiet, we’d rather get things done rather than just talk about. Less talk, more action.

  • @baloongalot
    @baloongalot 3 роки тому +1

    The best way to deal with mistakes is not to avoid them (though it's preferable), but to learn the right lesson from them

  • @ishaanjain7101
    @ishaanjain7101 4 роки тому +31

    "I'm so full of self esteem that I sweat Fog"

  • @_s2700
    @_s2700 4 роки тому +4

    Everyone : watching this video
    Also everyone : I ammmm A SILENT 'Alpha'

  • @tonythvch3500
    @tonythvch3500 4 роки тому +30

    “Why haven’t people still received their stimulus checks?” I wonder about that too...guess that makes me a silent alpha lmao

    • @Deandre2200
      @Deandre2200 4 роки тому +1

      Lmao now that's very funny 😂😂😂😂

    • @SantiXiAmaru
      @SantiXiAmaru 4 роки тому +2

      Lmmfao 🤣🤣

  • @multicreativeartist6579
    @multicreativeartist6579 4 роки тому +1

    I can talk to people naturally. But for some reason I always go on Silent mode automatically subconsciously.

  • @sycokoko2799
    @sycokoko2799 2 роки тому +1

    Now I know who I am
    And I'm proud of myself