HTSM (So Far) #42 Mark Says Nadia's FAME DESTROYED his ability to SHOW Affection (PDA CONFESSIONS)
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- How do you feel about public displays of affection? Mark confesses that Nadia's fame has made him think twice about being affectionate around Nadia, but how does this revelation make her feel?
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I love the way Nadia just carries on as if mark has said nothing ie dogging session.looool. its great that you still do it mark.
What dogging ??? I hope he doesn’t
But Mark.... youre now becoming famous... youre Mark off UA-cam! 71K ppl would mob you given the chance hahaha
Mark, people are probably looking at you thinking 'that's Mark Adderly off UA-cam! I wonder what his wife's like!' 😄 (you've got 70k subs don't forget!)
I've grown up avoiding PDAs like holding hands in the street because i'm gay and i've always felt anxious about the potential negative reaction i'll get from other people.
I remember having the feeling of being totally oblivious to the people around you because you are completely besotted with the person you are with and they are all that matters at that point in time!
Loving the conversation as always guys!
I’m a very affectionate, tactile person, with friend’s, family and of course my kids! My husband isn’t at all comfortable with PDA and in the past it was an issue for me, especially when we were with couples who were very affectionate in public. He is however very affectionate in private, which feels so genuine, as it’s never to impress anyone else, it’s just because he want’s too be... he’s also very shy like Mark, I’m more like you Nadia, from a big family, one of four girls, lots of hustle and bustle, chat and madness!! 🤣
On balance though I love holding hands etc but would hate and feel really uncomfortable with grossness in public!🤦♀️ x x
I love holding hands with my hubby and we hug and kiss (not a snog) if the mood takes us and neither of us are exhibitionists at all, it's just nice to show affection whenever, wherever💗
Lyn I agree, hubby and I are the same and we are in late 50's/early 60's. Feel a bit sad for Mark and Nadia that you don't feel totally at ease to do this 😔 but sure you make up for it in privacy 😘
same here like i give my boyfriend a kiss and i'm happy with that love him so much from jenny from ireland 🇮🇪🙂😘
Mark,be confident with yourself,you are a lovely guy,don’t bother about other people,live your life for your comfort,.....just remember you are lovely.xx
Mark all people are thinking are what a gorgeous couple &how lovely it is to see how close &loving you both are..It's not all about nads off the telly?It's all about a good looking happy couple WHO ARE STILL VERY MUCH INTO EACH OTHER 💛
Penelope Pitstop awww
It is manners Nadia, you are absolutely right! I was brought up the same, and hope I've brought my children up the same! Mark I understand your shyness but be PROUD to have Nadia by your side!! X
I don’t mind PDA’s if it is spontaneous and innocent but what you described I think that is obscene and I also think that they are looking to make others feel uncomfortable. Hand holding is sweet and I love to see older people holding hands and I feel isn’t that sweet that they are still in love💕💕🦋🦋
PDA is too far when a) the tongue comes out. b) the hands wander to places meant for only the bedroom. Other than that I love all signs of affection from my husband, children and friends!. Mark you crack me up every time, even when you are trying to be serious. Xx
I love these podcasts and sad i will never have a relationship like yours. X
Ye are just so funny 😁😁😁
Love every one of ye're vlogs ❤❤❤
It’s Maaark off you tube!!! 🤣😂🤣😂❤️x
Show us the arm around nadia walk round in circles please guys!!!!
I love how Mark explains his self consciousness. I have it too. I was bullied at school and see being noticed at inately threatening and wish not to be seen. I'm at a phase in my life right now when I'm challenging that and it is hard work but CBT has helped with the facts over feelings mentality. Can I just recommend to you the loveliest song I've heard in a long time it's called 'Black tie by Grace Petrie. It's written to her year 11 self and it's just a love letter telling her everything is going to be ok. It's joyous but so emotional. If you've got 3 minutes please check it out and I promise you will immediately want to pass it on to someone else.
Nadia, you give me life. Honestly, your so real and I love it!
I think you being able to talk together about anything is a great relationship Nadia and Mark 😊
I think that participating in, or seeing couples engaging in a PDA is perfectly fine. ( within reason)
What is uncomfortable and awful to witness, is couples fighting in public!!!
Mark im like that I hate anyone looking at me. I get sooo paronoid it stops from living my life properly. I just hide away all the time.
Nadia I definitely feel for you on this topic. Mark knew you were on the telly when he met you. He needs to work through this and get past it. Nadia you are you. You've told Mark what you like and he's conscience that he isn't giving it. Mark you're making excuses. Nadia has had her laugh, her curly hair and been on the telly for quiet some time now. In fact your whole marriage. It's awful when you feel like you can't be yourself with the people you are closest to. Nadia isn't asking for you to take her down on the restaurant table. lol She wants you to sit next to her, hold her hand and put your arm around her. Simple things.
Rewatch the Spain Holiday blogs - you guys ARE a lot more affectionate (on camera anyway) than home.. - is that the anonymity / holiday romance/ or the Joe Wicks effect LOL
Mark you and nadia are very famous, I've been watching you guys for 2 years. 😎😎💋💋💋💋
Marrrk! You look so thin in the face! Well done.
Totally with you on PDA, holding hands or arm around is fine but full on kissing and groping is a definite no no! So come on guys don't be worried about people seeing you holding hands and do it more often! 😉😘
Hi you both seem to show your affections when you are walking the pooches.Love you all x
Since having kids i really miss holding my hubbys hand as either one of us is always pushing a pram. So when ever we have the chance we leave them with my parents after sunday lunch to nip to the shops, just the two of us so we can hold hands and be silly again. Also of an evening we always sit next to each other on the sofas, without kids climbing all over us haha
I think it depends how old they are (the ones showing PDA ) because some people are showy like that but they like to see people's reactions ) but when it's instant or someone greets a loved one and they arnt aware anyone's even looking at them then that doesn't bother me . I have the attitude ( a bit like the song ) that no one knows what goes on behind closed doors and that couple might be showy in public but have relationship issues when alone together do need to be showy in public lol . I don't like snogging in public with my hubby because I do think there's a time and place but we are effectionate and hold hands sometimes ( well until they get sweaty lol ) I'll kiss him goodbye and hello wherever I am but it's not a long snog .
The Joke about the hand holding and limp legs Was so funny! Thank you.
Also, so so thoughtful of you Nadia, when you talked abt not being affectionate around those of who have broken up etc. Mindfulness in practice right there! Thank you. Xx
Personaly, i'm not a fan of PDA other than it being modest and respectful. Is there such thing?
Take him around the corner saved by the 🔔
I'm 26 and I have a issue with PDA while in relationships and it has been an issue. As I am more shy and not as comfortable with it. I believe a lot of it comes from the way I was brought up ;as well as, my sexuality. I don't ever recall my parents other than a peck on the lips occasionally or holding hands in the car being that Publicly Affectionate. Also I can remember growing up hearing "that's disgusting" "they need a room" "that's so inappropriate" from my parents and others when seeing others were being affectionate. So maybe it internally made me feel it was something to be private of, and being shy anyhow and not liking attention then hearing those comments it created a effect of second hand embarrassment and attention that as being a shy individual not wanting. Plus factor in being queer in a small conservative town being publicly affectionate can truly put you in a situation of being harmed. I personally don't mind a peck when in a more private area or at a friends bbq, but I only hold hands while in the car or at a theater, or when sitting next to each other but never when walking down the street or through a shop. I just find it uncomfortable and awkward again maybe that's due to what I witnessed from my own parents. I've always found a just a simple touch or closeness of the person I'm with or that certain look of love someone gives you across the table or across the room to being just as equally affectionate or more so because its privately and quietly. It's an energy, a warmth that they can only give you. It a look that you share that you can only share, a look of meaning without words.
I think as women we always want what we haven't got lol. So if your partner's shy and he doesn't show affection in public or at home you want it and if you have a partner that's all over you wherever you are you might wish he was more discreet .
You loooooook beauuuuutiful today Nadia!
This is the thing, I have just realised why I can be OTT with pda's. It's the only time I can touch my husband without him thinking it's going to lead to sex! I would love more affection. I used to think I became very touchy feely when we were in supermarkets because I thought how handsome he was, but it wasn't about that, it was because he couldn't fully ravish me in the middle of tesco! think you've got problems guys! Xx
Yeah - that's me too......
if Nadia off the telly and her gorgeous husband are walking 5paces apart, the Daily Mail headline will be Nadia off the telly and husband are not speaking, marriage in trouble, he can't bare to look at her, divorce is on the cards for the loose woman.....blah blah, you just can't win, great subject, enjoyed this.x
When i was a teenager/early 20s i would snog the face off my boyfriend anywhere and wouldn’t think anything of anyone else doing it. Now im in my early 30s i hate PDA 🙈 im happy with my partner but i would never snog him infront of anyone. A peck on the lips yes but thats about it. Also i dont do hand holding etc it just doesnt feel natural to me.
same here i give my boyfriend a kiss and a hug thats all really i have being with him 9 years now my name is jenny from ireland 33 years old
A hug and a peck on the lips or cheek is a nice thing to see, but snogging the face off each other or hands in the wrong place isn't acceptable.
I’m 19, and although I wouldn’t have a full on snog in public, I find I’m a lot more publicly tactile and affectionate with my boyfriend when I’m somewhere where I don’t know anyone !! I wouldn’t want to be all over each other in front of friends or family because I find it a bit embarrassing and like you say, you’ve got to think about the feelings of those around you. It’s a tricky one, I definitely sympathise with Mark being embarrassed as Nadia is “off the telly” but I understand you too Nadia. Xxxx
I was kissing my boyfriend when I was 19 in a park in Richmond and we was laying on a picnic blanket having a kiss and cuddle in the sunshine, A american woman with too kids on bikes walked by and shouted out " how insulating! "You have just offended my children" I was just living in the moment I guess didn't think about it at the time, but after that I became very aware of public displays of affection!
Some people are very crass and ott I've seen Some people nearly shagging borderline heavy petting..its a bit much!
You should have a hug and kiss or what ever you only die once...you will be sorry you ever gave a shit when your older...worrying what people would say or think is futile.
Holding hands and just being tactile is good for a relationship.
It must be very challenging being famous.
I was brought up that way too in a Catholic back ground my nan called everyone perverted I just thought for a long time it was a term of endearment cos she said it so often!
I love it when you say " off the telly" I want the t-shirt.
Can you do a competition and we win a t-shirt if we get the question correct? "IT NADIA OFF THE TELLY I DNT DO SNOGGING"! 🤣🤣🤣😘
I would love to see you guys showing more public affection. I love you guys. You guys are sooooo cute. I love mark when he is naughty
Hi Mark....hes of youtube….
Great subject 👏
At 63 years old my partner and I will hold hands whilst walking down the street but no ear eating! Extreme PDAs from other people make me feel uncomfortable.
Even in my teens and twenties I felt awkward and uneasy at couples showing huge PDA, what is wrong with holding hands and a quick peck on the cheek? The rest is for private time surely? 😂😊
There`s definitely a line that`s crossed (for me anyway).From right when i was in my teens/early 20`s ,and even in that first flush of headiness with a new relationship ,where touching/kissing etc which is obviously leading further ,needs to be private.Just my opinion ,and i`m a very loving/huggy hold hander:).However i`ve also been with someone ,who would happily have gone past that PDA line ,and i`ve pulled away and just intimated we need to get home!!Very British?Maybe.We are known for being reserved.However ,i think it has alot to do with upbringing ,respecting yourself too.Whatever a couple do in private ,in a commited and loving relationship ,is their business.We dont all need to watch!! Btw ,i agree with Mark ,it`s not especially romantic either.50 shades anyone? Ugh!!! LOL
Snogging in public how you described it, is gross and i would have said the same thing when i was a teenager 🙈
PDA I have never felt comfortable around it. In fact I find it embarrassing. I am not sure why exactly? Maybe because I am gay? It took me many years to accept myself. So it’s all from a muddled up past of confusion. It’s not changed. I am still private and discreet. But I am happily married after 20 years together. I’ve no desire to be voyeuristic or affectionate in public. I am not prudish or resentful towards others and people should do what they are content with. I am fine with my conditioning now and I don’t feel the need to display my feelings in public. Maybe it’s because I feel fortunate enough to see the world has progressed far beyond I could have ever imagined.
Its so nice to hold hands, my husband and I hold hands everytime we are out, even in the car my husband will take my hand and place it on his leg, at traffice stops he will lean over and give me a little kiss, I think its so sweet, but no deep snogging in public I dont like to see that ....Nadia and Mark please hold hands more in public its nice a little kiss now and then is nice who care what people think or who looks you both love each other and its nice to show that anytime anywhere off the telly or not , your husband and wife and it makes us feel loved and wanted,
Link arms, much easier 😃
I Love the French PDA
That has been going on
For years!
When your man kisses the
Back of you hand!!!!!
Holding eye contact in the
Process!!!!!
There's an energy about this
It's neither offensive or Yuck!!!!!
Best get practicing Mark!!!!!!!
A glance & a brush of the Lips
Is much nicer than smash & grab!
But then I'm an old Romantic!
Mark what are you gonna do with all the extra attention when your a famous UA-camr! 😂
I think its weird and inappropriate chowing someones ear off too the point where theirs every chance he has a hard on!!! considering there was children and teenagers about....I've done my vulnerable children and young adult training too me that's inappropriate, nothing wrong with holding hands or putting an arm around each other or a kiss but not a full on snogg... there is a point where enough is enough x
Holding hands is ok .Other PDA is uncomfortable to see in anyone over 30 . Also hate sexy dancing displays ,twerking and such like, gross.I have become such a prude. Can we have a podcast on, competing, do you and Mark compete with each other in your relationship. Or point scoring ! I don't see it when i watch you both .
As I got older iv not been into PDA but it was an issue with my ex husband. He was very aggressive with it he use to threaten to make a scene if I wouldn't kiss him in public and he would get really angry with me. I didn't like to hold hands either I know I'm the odd one out but I didn't want to be effectionate in public it makes me feel smothered and I can't do with that. As Nadia said about it at home in front of friends or family they are plenty of times to be effectionate without putting it in their faces. My ex husband ended up pushing me awsy so much I didn't want him near me because of the aggressive nature and he would try grope me in public it felt abusive and controlling. His temper and aggressiveness made me leave him and scared to go into another relationship. Iv been happily single 13yrs and don't want to spoil it. Pawing me was something else he did. He told everyone I didn't show him any effectionate at all but I would have been more likely to if he wasn't always trying to force me when I felt uncomfortable about it.
I don’t have a problem with PDA unless they are being overtly aggressive with the look at us attitude. Regarding children I bet they’d rather PDA than an argument so sod them they will always have a negative opinion. Mark if I ever saw you and Nadia out in public I would stare because I am great fans of you both so I am sending my pre apologies now. Love 💕
Gail Adams awwwww xx♥️
My ex used to always have his hands all over me in public, I hated it, made me want to punch him!
Viewer poll: Would subs prefer to see Mark eat another protein muffin, some PDA or neither? 😂 Another interesting podcast. Thanks!
I always wonder “what are they trying to prove”? Believe me it’s never a good look. Holding hands, arms around , a kiss when greeting or parting all lovely, other stuff mmmm. mmmm. ??? You two are gorgeous.
She must have very dirty ears if it was going on so long 😂💃🏽
I think it’s lovely to hold hands when out.....unfortunately my husband doesn’t, he thinks people will look at us......and we aren’t even on the telly 🤣😂. Love yr GFH, home time and vlogs. Hope Nanny Di is ok, she didn’t look too well on last GFH at wkend.
You two should live in Scotland, we are far less impressed by fame and wealth and you could quite happily walk down the street hand in hand or with an arm round your waist and nobody would bat an eye lid. In England, and I have lived there for some time, people are far more judgmental and prudish. I'm half German and I have a European outlook on life.
I don’t mind handholding or if someone leans over to give their partner a peck on the cheek but I don’t like seeing couples really eating the face off each other. And it’s not because I’m 53.......I’ve always been like that. I think it’s nice to see couples being affectionate with each other but I’m not a fan of full on snogging in the street. I agree with Nadia.....I think it’s just manners. Maybe I’m just old fashioned. Lol. And can I just say, if I saw you two in the street I would be just as excited at meeting Mark as I would at meeting Nadia. X
Young love ❤️been there done that ❤️say get a room 🙃
Wake up smell the coffee☕️
I enjoy seeing people in love and kissing or holding hands, love is beautiful. However, there is a line which shouldn't be crossed in public particularly in front of children. I got told off in California by a security guard in a museum for being affectionate with my husband. It did make us laugh afterwards as I was late 30s at the time and my husband was in his 40s and it just affection, not anyway sexual.
Don't let other people stop you being affectionate when out with your wife just because she off the telly. I don't think people think your showing off ,you show how much you love each other which is nice even when Nadia says marrrrrk 😀
Don't mind PDAs its lovely thing mark don't speak with mouth full lol great discussion though
I see PDA as total straight privelege. I've been discriminated against whilst part of a interacial same sex couple for a simple on the mouth kiss. And this was in 2008 not the dark ages lol.
On the other hand though I have really bad misophonia where certain noises f***ing annoy me and I can't hide it so 😂
You don’t have to explain all the sounds that you hear. We don’t. Your mics are directed toward you. So it might be a bit more annoying when you feel the need to explain everything that we can’t hear. Sorry. Just had to tell you. Great vlog otherwise. 👍🏻
Lol sooo funny, I'd just like my husband to know I'm there and not walk 10 yards in front of me and take my hand sometimes it wd be nice but it never happens and when I take his hand it's like he's ok for about three seconds and then he's off, and I'm not off the telly, I don't like all that full on snogging thing either but it wd be nice holding your hand and making sure your ok crossing even a road if your out I'd like that 😊😍
Form Art love ❤️ john Lennon and yoko in bed in shop window ❤️do you remember 🙃 young at heart ❤️ old farts mark Nadia 👂
On there list 💋pda 💕
My Facebook post from the other day: "I'm sorry, Madonna, but how does posting images/videos of LGBTQ+ people kissing provocatively help the cause in any way?"
I actually think these kinds of images detract from the bigger narrative.
Daniel Gaul Wow I bet Madonna responded to.
@@loopsruby Yep! We're currently hanging out at her place in Portugal 😝
Almost eating itchother body parts in a public environment as you experience it's kinde weird. I think as you as older you get you get more more conservative with some public affection. Personally i have become that. Can understand in a way that Nadias fame is intimidating in alots way not because of Nadia herself but because people have you under telescope. When that is said Mark have to accept Nadias fame and he is not married to the fame,but Nadia the person ☺.I JUST SAY KISS KISS 😉💏💏💏❤❤
Tone Marie Antonsen 😘
Nadia your bubbly & lovely.. marrrrrk you famous now..my fella is the same in a restaurant when im chatting i can feel hes worried whos listening ... i dont care lol..its a funny ole world xx as for kids they cringe at everything we do so i do it anyway... my daughters dad when there out for dinner she cringes at him tryin to flirt ( not with me btw) lol x
All kids are the same, it just not your two I can assure you! When you were talking about, going around corners, I couldn’t stop laughing. I think you are both great 😘
Lol mark your proberly as famous as nadia dont forget you do youtube and 71k ppl watching you ha ha think he forgets he is in the public eye in some way x
Maaaaark! You can’t eat whilst vlogging & podcasting 😂
Too far too far 🙃 mark
I was walking in the park with my son , I was walking ahead of him and there was a teenage couple where the girl was straddling the guy and wearing the face of each other , she saw me , gave me eye contact and continued kissing him . So I went up to them and I asked them to unwrap themselves as my 8 year old son was coming and I didn't want him exposed to what they were doing. ( my exact word)Have to say they were very good and did what I asked and untangled themselves from each other.
Redz 71 How arrogant you are..