How can we discern and find love in today’s dating culture? | Delphine Chui

Is there a better way of dating? What are some green flags and red flags? What kind of person should we be and what kind of person are we looking for? All these questions and more in this great Session from Delphine Chui.
Delphine is a London-based cradle Catholic and a former mainstream women’s magazine journalist who now uses her writing talents for a Christian legal advocacy organisation. She can also be found on the Christian UA-cam channel Salt speaking on the topic of holy love in the modern world.

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beautifully expressed

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The paradox of choice is the one that kills me the most these days. You make good points. Porn certainly makes it worse. But even if porn isn't a part of your routine, social media makes it impossible to be content, or living in a big city, I suppose living in a small city could do it too. Haha. Finding a true grounding in God is probably the first step... and this is just a theory, but I think once that grounding is truly established a second grounding can really take place, since we are already grounded in God, not in social media, not in cultural noise, or chronic anxiety, but in God, we can then see another person with clarity, tuning out distraction and commit to them as well, similarly to how we first committed to God. It builds beautifully.