VINTAGE IN PORTUGAL AND VENTING AT HOME.......
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- ...... I take you with me to visit a new place in Portugal - Olhao! I show you what else I bought in the vintage shops, do a quick skincare/makeup routine, and share my inner feelings about ageing with you. Looking forward to your feedback. Suzi x
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Suzi, I think you're bloody amazing. Aging is dreadful, you've lost your friend, you're on your own, having to move home, something going on in Portugal and you've been sick and yet you still get up, put on your face and think about us. Truly admirable.
Love your beautiful hair.
One day at a time, small bites. Well done you.
Thank you lovely so appreciated. My brilliant cousin said that I was suffering from empty nest syndrome - now that makes so much sense as I didn’t have kids and Jack loved as long as a child moving out!!! Bless you x
Suzi have a think about it
Regarding your hair
My hair is grey but I still have a bit of colour for now I keep saying to my hairdresser I am thinking of not colouring my hair anymore
She said you could leave it for awhile if you change your mind
Colour it again
Luckily the colour blinds in with the grey meaning no roots lol 😮
People do admire my hair colouring
Aaw yes l too have noticed you being not quite Suzi. It's only natural that you are feeling low after loosing dear Jack. I was glad to hear you say you may walk other peoples dogs, that will deffinately lift your spirit when you are ready. We all get a bit fed up with our hair from time to time, not really an age thing. Your hair always looks great, and l love how you wear a scarf. Praps a new haircut or a few low lights, they dont need attention. I think of having a few at the front of my hair which is gleaming white 😂 but my daughter said "dont end up like Mrs Slocombe"😂 Take care Suzi love and hugs......Alioban ❤
No one is invisible, sometimes it’s a state of mind because your sad.Always remember, you gave little Jack a smashing life. Sadly, our little chums catch the early bus ahead of us! Hey, but weren’t we lucky to have had them in our lives, fun memories and adventures!Step out to life, it’s all yours!
I’m 74 …always been fit and well , always flamboyant and always loving fashion . I have always had Lidl money but Harrods taste 🤣🤣. I have spent my life in charity and vintage shops …looking fab and being admired . Suddenly 70 comes a knocking ( I’m 74 ) my knees suddenly hurt and I get tired quicker …I hate it !!! I’ve had white hair since my cruel divorce at 58 when it transformed …I loved it at 58 through my 60’s but after 70 …I suddenly feel invisible and old . I’ve just been to London and on my way home from Camden ( paradise ) .the taxi driver came to help me out …plus a lady ( not young herself ) called me MAMMY ….. and if any more young people say ….” Oh , bless “ to me …I will scream . I have become a BLESSIT !!!! I’ve thought of doing my hair the vivid red I had previously but I’m afraid of looking like a geriatric Bo Peep 👵🏻. Plus I can’t face the root touching and the red grouting in my bathroom . I have decided to be graceful and accept it ….Im not Immortal …I just thought I was …….. Feck it
I think the two of you should meet if possible. Si.ply love Suzi, admire. You'll get past Jack, just be happy for him he's running and playing.
Absolutely brilliant Carol
Love your attitude 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Baby boomers ( I am also one) always have to be centre of attention….just embrace being old…..it is a gift many don’t get….😊
I was 76 in February. I had ginger wavy hair and used to get the Micky taken out of me because I was different. I loved it when I left school. I still get my hair dyed ginger and straighten it. There’s no way,while I can use my ghd’s, that I’ll go grey. Most of the people I go out with have short grey hair but I don’t want to be the same. I’ve now got a permanent stoma, keratosis on my legs, that’s a skin change but not infectious, probably because I’ve got ginger hair and a pale skin. I need my knee replacing but I’m expecting to be on the waiting list for a long time. We are told all about the menopause now but getting older well no one told me about that? what to expect. I used to walk miles 18 months ago before my stoma but you know the surgeon saved my life so I accepted it. Got divorced and moved from London to Worthing 8 years ago ( and just a 700 bus ride from Brighton )oh and I retired. I knew one person in Worthing then she moved further out (I hope it wasn’t me ) I’m living by the sea now which is good for the soul . Haven’t got much money, only my flat but I have the greatest of friends, the best children and grandchildren in the world. I always say I’d rather be lonely and single than lonely and married. Though a man is handy when you want jobs doing etc. you are allowed to be ‘off’ some days just get it out of your system and get out again. You have an amazing life but just take it a bit slower, and give yourself time to grieve over Jack. Please. As for hair - well it’s not short and grey 😊and it’s lovely the way it is and only you can decide about yr hair. Age is just a number remember you have lots to look forward to. Take care Suz xxx
You may have Covid as well. That may make you feel down
Thank you for your honesty in this vlog. At 71 I suddenly have a painful knee and need a stick to walk; suddenly I am old! Two months ago I was striding through rainforest trails in Costa Rica feeling rather youthful then bam…. I agree that reaching 70 is a real milestone. As for your hair, it isn’t grey, it is a beautiful silver and your hairstyle is modern. I think those European ladies were just looking on with envy. As so many have said, you are an inspiration. Losing Jack has been awful. We think we are psyched up to the fact that we will lose our dear pets before long but the missing of them hits you like a ton of bricks. Sending much love.
Thank you so much, what a lovely comment and glad you agree. It's a shit age but hey we may well have at least 20 years more so let's just make the most of it, knee or not! And I wish you a better knee (have you tried castor oil packing if it's inflammatory? Have a little Google. ) xx
I think your grey hair is fabulous. Dyed hair can look hard against older faces. Stop worrying about being invisible. At our age it's much more important to SEE than be seen, its active rather than passive. Besides, I always thought invisibility was a super power!!!
That's a point. Sometimes I like being invisible.
Love it! thank you. x
Introverts prefer it
Keep your lovely silver hair, it adds light to your face. I've seen lots of older ladies in the med with dark dyed hair and I think it ages them. Do what makes you happy ❤
Glad you agree! ❤️
Yes I agree 👍
I'm 66 and I have recently become very aware of my mortality. It is depressing, so your feelings are valid x
I bought a puppy on my 70th birthday. A Longhaired dachshund. I cannot get everything done inside and out of my house. Especially when I spend time with Frankie the dog. I need to clean out my third bedroom filled with home decor. So I learn to not worry and let it go.
@@jansmith8370 I am so jealous! I will get another dog one day, just not right now. x
You are not the only one who feels this way Suzi. It is definitely more difficult living alone and doing EVERYTHING on your own and I also feel invisible. It takes so much effort trying to stay upbeat and positive all the time. You and Jo feel like friends to me x
So relieved I'm not the only one!!! And yes, I am so glad I have Jo in my life now. Let's get into summer no longer invisible. x
@@AlternativeAgeing Don’t be invisible is my daily mantra from now on !x
Know exactly what you mean when you say that suddenly you feel you are getting older, I am 75 and have always been very active and out and about but I now feel tired more often and have to remind myself that it is probably just me not wanting to admit it has to do with my age. Just keep being yourself as you have a very interesting life and I thoroughly enjoy your videos
Thank you so much, that really helps. I need to do more publicly to bang the drum for the over 75s when I get there! I'm working on it. We could have another good 20 years so let's make the most of it!
Grey hair that is obviously dyed is much more aging than naturally grey hair, and yours looks fantastic ❤
Actually, I totally agree with you! I'm having a good look at people who have dyed hair over 60 and I do think many of them don't look younger at all! It seems to accentuate the wrinkles when it's a very artificial colour. The blondes look good but then I was never blond. I won't be dyeing mine that's for sure. Just adding some darker interest, hope the colourist agrees! I have photos to show him! x
I literally thought you were in your 60's! Youre such an inspiration to us all ❤
Thank you ❤️
Love your hair Suzi please don't mess with it & add faddy colours that to me is ageing! You are beautiful inside & out ❤
Jack's frame definitely needs replacing.
Monday 6th am 66yrs finally getting my state pension after working another 6 years full time. Am dropping a day at work so 4 day weekends to relax, visit family & do my thing!!
Fully understand how you feeling Suzi, am unsure where to go, want to sell up, downsize & travel.
Happily live on my own.
Thank you for always sharing & being honest.
Hang on in there girl it will all come right. Big hugs ❤❤xx
I won't! I am never going the root thing again. Just a bit of tweaking. I'm into 'tweaking' at the moment! Love that your life is changing for the better too. I know mine will too, especially when I move. But for now .....small steps. I also want to work less but the Vlog still brings me joy! Keep me posted on your new life. Suzi x
It really is a thing that we become invisible when older. I went grey but found I really didn’t like it so back to colouring my hair. You have to be kind to yourself it’s a honour to live a long life. Take care 🦋
I LOVE your videos, especially this one. I'm in my early 60s and I transitioned to grey during the pandemic and never want to go back. But I also feel invisible at times because of it. I plan to keep my hair in a younger style to help counteract that stupid public perception a bit. Thank you for showing that you're NOT always happy. Most of us who are single living alone feel a sense of loneliness at times but we don't talk about it. It's nice to feel some community with others who live the same lifestyle. You are WONDERFUL and BEAUTIFUL. Please never leave UA-cam. I look forward to your videos every week!
I won't leave YT it's the one part of my "work" I still love doing, especially now Jon is helping with the editing! And I'm so happy that my little community is so supportive and understanding. Especially the grey hair bit! When I was in Portugal, if people stared at me I immediately thought it was because I look old, but that's just silly and it doesn't happen here so I was obviously in a deep fug after my fur baby loss. I'm coming out of it slowly! Thank you. x
Is it moaning or sharing how you are feeling ? It is not surprising you are feeling low after loosing your life partner Jack and then being ill . You still remain a joy to watch . Speaking from a woman quite a bit younger it is a huge inspiration to follow women living life so well at any age. Thank you for making older women visible . We all need to see this. Rest and be kind to yourself ❤
Thank YOU! What a lovely comment. x
I've been coloring my hair since my early twenties. Most of my friends are letting their hair go gray. I'll probably be the only woman in her nineties with blonde hair! Do what you like!! And please take us along when you start looking for a new home. Your home now is lovely.
Your never invisible to us! Love your vlogs and your outlook on life!. ❤❤
Hi Susie, I don't usually comment (I'm a quiet watcher . . . always give a thumbs up though) I'm shy. I'm 72 and know exactly what you mean about being over 70 and invisible. I also think about my mortality and every ache and pain I believe is something that is going to kill me 😂 As the feeling you have been having resonated with me so much I just had to tell you that I think most of us feel the same at over 70. But, what I try to remember is that getting old is better than the alternative . . . not getting old (death). You are fabulous no matter how old you are. Take care and I hope you feel more up (maybe when we get some actual sunshine.) TFS 👍💖 P.S. A lot of companies put the colour on the bottom of the tube, I don't know, you may have already checked the bottom, but if you haven't it might be on there.
Awe thank you lovely, those words mean the world to me. I didn't realise there were so many of us out there. I'm slowly coming out the other end but it's so comforting to know that there are so many who are not in denial and feel the same way. And, as you say, there is no Alternative to Ageing (see my pun!) let's just make the most of every moment. Suzi x
Don't be so hard on yourself! Rest up , the move to another place will need all the strength you have and more! A move at anytime in life is hard. You Can Do It. ( whatever IT is ) Thank you for the weekly video. I always come away upbeat and energized. Oh by the way I am 82 years young!
Thank you Carol, I will take it easy. I'm cutting right down on work, apart from the vlog, so I have the space for this new life ahead of me, so thank you. x
I look at my grey hair at 61 and say I have earned everyone of my grey hairs, and if they make me invisible or cause someone to give me a seat all the better. If I'm invisible there is no one to see and judge me, if they think I'm old and want to give me a seat good I have bad knees and am glad for a seat. My dear its all in how you look at things, You look good you feel good you are good. Go out and WOW them, grey hair and all.
Leave your hair, the grey is lovely! My hair has gone almost white, I'm not going back down the route of tinting it every couple ofweeks, and who doesn't like it can lump it 😀
I totally agree. No way am I going the dyeing root/route!!! Thank you. x
I totally understand about gray hair and the "aging" perception . I'm 73. I transitioned 3 yrs ago and love the white but felt washed out so I had my hairdresser put a little "pepper" back in my hair for some contrast . It helped!
Your feelings are understood. You inspire! This is one of my favorite videos. Thank you for keeping it real. You matter!
Ah that's exactly what I've been thinking, highlights or low lights don't do it for me and they go brassy but pepper, now you're talking. Can't wait till Weds to discuss with my Italian colourist. I'm thinking big bold dark bits just to add a bit of interest. I love my silver quiff and don't ever want to go the roots way again. Thank you lovely. And thank you for liking my vids. This is the one area of work I am still truly loving! Suzi x
I'm 78, and still coloring mine. I do it myself, so it's easier for me. I look pale and washed out with white, so I really look better with color. Kind of butterscotch blond. When I get roots it looks natural. A cashier told me recently that she would have put me in my 50s, so I feel it doesn't look odd yet. I have been coloring since 36. I was salt and pepper then.
I'm turning 71 soon. When I retired 2 years ago, I embraced my snow white hair. I had to rethink my makeup routine to avoid looking 'washed out'. Surprisingly, I get lots of compliments 🤷🏼♀️ I still love my funky boho clothes. I really don't worry about being invisible but I do think a lot about being in the later years of my life. I'm beginning to come to terms with that fact and it makes me appreciate each day more, giving me the impetus to get out there & do everything I wish while I can...whether invisible or not!!❤
So happy to hear this Joni! And a very Happy Birthday to you (whenever your birthday is!) xx
I love your hair. Don’t change it! With your cool sense of style and beautiful face/skin you are definitely NOT invisible. Also in 2040 you would be 91. People live past 100 especially healthy people like you. Look at our girl Iris..102 yrs old!
Thank you lovely, I love Iris so much, such an amazing woman! xx
Hello lovely you could have a few low lights put in your hair of brown and red so the regrowth isn’t noticeable. It will take 10 years off. Enjoy the summer 🎉🐶
Gray definitely makes anyone look older. Lowlights and highlights could do wonders. I always enjoy your videos! Thank you.
I can't imagine anyone ignoring you! you have such an amazing presence. I'm a bit younger than you (62) and I think you're such an inspiration. Thank you for sharing all sides of you, and not pretending your life is always fabulous. Keeping it real and honest is was makes me follow you. Your hair is fabulous, don't worry what the Europeans do, it's their insecurities about aging, you're not like that. Big love and hugs. One day at a time ❤
Thank you. x
I never realised how brave old people were ……
It’s all about skin quality, if your skin is not good doesn’t matter what color your hair is. Your skin is wonderful , and you look fab with the gray.
Thank you so much Karla. x
You look absolutely fantastic for 75!!! Stuff the world and how they may make you feel! You do you!❤❤❤
Keep your chin up.. you've had a bit of a sad time loosing Jack and being under the weather. We are all 8n need of this nice sunshine it will cheer us all up. Take care. Xx
Your hair is fabulous. I agree with another commenter about putting in a funky colour, it seems to scream, “look how hip I am as an old lady.” A funky haircut may be a better thought. You look so youthful and healthy-looking and don't need any gimmicks. I'm 77 and know how you are feeling about being invisible, never mind, I am healthy too!
I am so sorry about Jack, so hard losing a beloved pet. We had our old girl for 17 years, and miss her to this day. Love your vlogs.
I just love your hair! It’s such a lovely color of gray. I too have salt and pepper color hair after losing all my beautiful red hair to cancer. I learned that I was blessed with my new beautiful color and get so many compliments. People that think it ages you, just shouldn’t do it for themselves. It would be so boring if we all did the same thing. I never feel invisible and I’m 70! Love your videos💕
Thank you lovely and I do love mine too, 90% of the time. I was just very aware in Portugal that people were treating me differently this time but it was probably my energy not my hair! We should be grateful for our health more than anything else so thank you for reminding us. x
Very healthy to share how you feel especially when you’re feeling low. Losing a loved one hits us in waves. Loneliness creeps up on us and I agree about feeling invisible. Some days I really don’t care but others I do. I’m 63 and have grey/blonde very long curly hair like an ageing hippy 😂My granddaughter calls the top part of my hair “old lady grey “ & the rest gold. Sod what anyone else thinks I think you’re amazing 🤩
Thank you lovely. 😍
Don't go to Portugal if they do not appreciate your gorgeous hair. I love your color!
Hi Suzi, I enjoy your videos every week and I particularly loved your honesty in this week’s vlog. It’s so refreshing to hear because a lot of content creators project a completely unrealistic perfect life. You are an inspiration; it’s really tough living alone and having just lost Jack you are still grieving and feeling low so try not to be too hard on yourself. I completely understand, I moved twice in two years following the death of my parents and retirement. I am still trying to find a new sense of “home” in this new situation. As you mentioned it’s an unsettling time of life but the people in Faro were probably jealous of how wonderful and authentic you looked! Be gentle on yourself and we look forward to sharing your next chapter with you. Sending love and hugs xx
Thank you Denise for such a lovely response. Life is throwing up challenges for us and it seems so much more difficult to get over them the older you get. This community on here is FANTASTIC so thank you for sharing. It means the world. x
Dear Suzi, Firstly I must say you look fantastic and are an inspiration to us all. I understand the feeling of being invisible, I was in Next on day and asked an assistant where something was and she look straight through me, I was in tears when I caught back up with my daughter, (I'm 66). Also I have been through the feeling of realising our own mortality, I gave myself a good talking to and told myself to live every day to the full and enjoy it. Finally the Grey hair, as you I have been feeling a bit fed up with it but don't want to go down the colouring route, I have decided to have purple highlights through it (I have done a purple fringe) and always got complimented on it. So all in all we ALL go through the same feelings, and the loss of Jack has hit you more than you may realise, when your moved and settled get a pet, they are such lovely company. Lastly I admire the fact you go travelling on your own something I could never do. You are a lovely lady and I look forward to your vlogs every week. Keep up the good work. xxxx
Thank you for your comforting words, they mean a lot and I so hear you. We must just make the most of the years ahead of us. Nothing is more important than health and stuff everything else! x
I am fit....always moving, doing something but taking care of my skin has always been an after thought. And it should not be.....69 and have the brown spots, I am still the beach girl.Trying to do the best I can everyday.....my husband, my soulmate passed away on May of 2017. I still go to Kenya every year.....see friends.....every Friday Malaika (my sweet dog) and I go to the local hospital and visit.....that has helped me through more than I can ever say. You do inspire me!! Thank you xx Love the painting of sweet Jack, have a great week. Beth xx
I miss seeing your friend Dahlia. Enjoy life day by day. I’m 71 and also realize how much time I may have left. Thank you for sharing. Love your silver hair.
Debbie from Georgia USA
Love grey hair, we ladies need to stick together. I started going grey at 23 and now at 62 I’m nearly white and I still love it. Celebrate the grey..
Yes, I do agree. There's no way I'm going down the dyeing road again. I'll just add some interest that will probably affect me more psychologically than physically! A new hair do always helps if you're low! Thank you for your lovely words. x
I love the grey - do not change it! Colouring your hair is toxic and plus it really suits you x In Australia it is slowly becoming more common for women not to colour their greys - hello from Melbourne x I have been single for 10 years now and, like you, love my own company. I find it does get harder each year - you start to feel very vulnerable.
I totally agree with you. I will never go back to dyeing again, I just want a bit of va va voom put into my hair for summer. No roots growing out for me plus all that toxic stuff on my scalp. I love Melbourne and cannot wait for my winter escape. I will drop in! x
@@AlternativeAgeing lovely - come visit us we will make you welcome xx
Every decade seems to have its milestones. I'm turning 70 in July and consider myself quite fit, healthy and thankful to be a 39 year cancer survivor. I'm a pandemic grey haired convert; cold turkey and kept my hair long during the process. I would never go back to coloring but I know you occasionally have some funky color added. Go for it if you think it will make you feel better and it won't be annoying to grow or wash out. I think you look fantastic and love your use of vintage with more modern fashion.
Jack was one of those special dogs and I understand the void. Maybe you can adopt a senior dog; they are so appreciative and loving.
Yes I agree, I won't be doing anything to my hair that requires constant attention! And thank you for reminding me that health is more important than anything else. I will get an older dog one day, that's the one thing I realise, all those people with dogs yesterday on Bank Holiday Sunday just left Mary and me stopping all the time to pet them we love them so much so I'll definitely look after any I can before I move. I've already offered 2 sets of neighbours!!! Thank you. x
It would be nice to have a frame like your black and white striped glasses! A bit of your personality with sweet Jack❤
Loved this.
I lost my dog after 17 years as well.. it’s been 3 years and feels like yesterday. I moved to a small cottage and love it!
I use the IT CC.. what color do you use? I’m thinking mine is too light!
Thanks for all you share. Really enjoyable.
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I’m 77.. when did THAT HAPPEN?? I’ve always taken care of myself..retired at 74, after 25 years in cosmetics. I adored it but don’t miss the grind. Thank goodness I still feel good and am so very very grateful for that. I insist on my face makeup being done and my short white hair has to be styled every day-even if I’m just hanging around the house.-it’s who I see and recognize! I don’t feel invisible out in public yet… but I’m afraid that day is coming. Getting old is not for sissies. It is WORK trying to stay healthy and safe!
Hi lovely, thank you for sharing, it always makes me feel better sharing out loss. Every single night when it’s dark I really miss him. Wow retired at 74 that sounds like me! Almost there with my new life. And what a great career you had. I agree on the make up, unless I really am not going anywhere but the beach, light make up all the way. You’ll find me far more visible on this weeks vlog!!! And the IT cosmetics foundation is also a bit too pale for me, they have thousands on-line so worth doing another check as you’re the expert! I have very olive skin so don’t go by me. But like every single thing I buy lately, there is NO colour on the tube! I think they must put them all on boxes and I need to make a note without throwing them in the recycling with such gusto! x
Hi Suzi just to let you know that the grey suits you but its only a suggestion that a blonde shade would suit you too anyway you look decade younger and whatever you decide you always look beautiful and fabulous 😊❤
You don’t look your age! You always look so amazing.
It’s good to downsize. Less areas to clean.
Love Jake photo. I think we miss him too. The photo helps us too.
Love you and God bless you.❤
I've struggled with liking my hair ALL OF MY LIFE! I have strawberry Blonde wavy/curly hair. I'm just these past few years began to appreciate and love my natural curl and color. I've colored it et al. I'm 72 and now love my hair - of course I have my days- but I just let it be! My vote if you care is to keep it as natural as possible! Love you Suzi.
I fully understand you still miss Jack. As you know I lost my black lab in February and I miss him so much it almost hurts 💔. It will take time. I really like your grey hair, at least it is a bit of a funky style and not a 'wash and set'. That place you visited in Portugal in the middle of nature looked gorgeous. Also that train fare seemed very cheap, don't know how far it was but I doubt you can get a platform ticket in this country for that😡. Take extra care of yourself Suzi.♥️
Leave your hair alone, it looks beautiful the way it is.
Hi Suzi, all the turtles swimming about was so fun. I love all your colorful glasses. They look so good with your hair.
Thank you so much! The turtles are so sweet! xx
Hi Suzi I'm 70 and keep my hair very short its different shades of grey, but used to be red. I use a toner on my hair so just like a shampoo really. I used a pink one for a few years but last few years been using lilac. I feel it perks me up along with funky earrings and a bright scarf. Hope you still go out walking as it's great for your mood, don't be hard on yourself, we all go through these phases and it has been a long winter🥰
Thank you and yes I love the toner. I will get back into it. I think I just need summer to arrive and shift my mood. And yes I still love my walks and still stop to pet all the dogs along the way and have a chat with their owners so when the weather behaves it's actually very good to be home! x
My hair is snow whiteI was brunette,I cold never go back dyin.Iwill beg hairdressers every 2 weeks.
I will be 70 in August I suddenly have become aware of my age and my mortality.So totally understand Suzo.💚☘️💚
Thank you! Have a huge party. I loved my 70th but the mortality bit has suddenly been very apparent. So let's just get the very best of our lives from now on!! and yes I agree with you, I will never go back to dyeing. x
I hear you when I got to 70
I was so depressed still not over it year later❤❤
I was 70 last week and the approach to my birthday was so difficult and depressing! I had never felt like this before in my life. Now I have decided to think to myself it’s been and gone and now I’m 63 😅again x
I am your age. Having similar thoughts plus some chronic fatigue thing.. Rant away!!
I retired a month ago as could no longer cope with the responsibility and stress, and have cried every day since. Everything feels like an ending. I am kind of traumatised by it.
Change of any kind, let alone a bereavement, can totally mess with our minds. Humans are very adaptable though. I am hoping i will eventually adjust to what feels at the moment like a devastating change in circumstances. I have every confidence that you will too, dear Suzi 🤗
That is so comforting Jane, in a wrong way! I have also cried every day since I got back from Portugal and work has had a lot to do with it. We need to change our lives to bring the joy back in and we will! I also can't cope with the stress so new beginnings this year for sure. I think Jack going has just highlighted what is wrong with my life rather than what is right and it sounds like you are going through the same thing. Stay in touch and we can talk more. Do you live near me, I can't remember? x
I am in Scotland! @@AlternativeAgeing
Thank you for solidarity and empathy 🤗
Let's do this together Suzi 🤗
Yes life is a bit tougher on your own. I took myself to the local park this morning, early…lots of dog walkers to talk to . I’m can’t have a dog in this rented flat…and I love them
I think Susie's idea of walking other peoples dogs is a great idea… Almost like pet sharing!😊
Remind yourself of who you are ,and what you have achieved, and get out there and ROCK!
Thank you so much Shirley xx
What you talked about and how you feel, and what you're facing, was just up my street, today. I really needed to hear it. Thanks Suzi!
I'm pleased to hear I could help, Angela. Sending hugs xx
Hi Suzy, don’t change the colour but have a funky haircut.
I think Susie is fab, she knows how to enjoy herself ❤
Always love watching! I know what you mean about reaching a certain age…….. all of a sudden you realize how short life is! Have a wonderful week!🥰
To be honest I color my hair because i look like ME. It's one of the few things I CAN control!
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Grey is awesome!!!! don't change it for anything or anyone!! I understand how you feel without little Jack. I have been feeling the same without my darling dog who died 2 months ago. Looking after other people's dogs is a great idea!😘
Thank you Colette, it's been really hard, I'm so sorry to hear about your doggy, so sad. Sending hugs xx
@@AlternativeAgeing Thank you Suzi, and sending virtual hugs right back to you 🤗
I loved your hair when you had added a touch of peach a couple of years back. It was fun and you rocked it! Love your gray too, but I know what you mean about wanting a change. I added some highlights and low lights to my grey and I quite like it. The portrait of Jack is BEAUTIFUL!! Have you thought about hanging him in your kitchen? I think it would look super and we could have a peek at him from time to time too. lol xo
I haven't thought of putting him in the Kitchen. I'll have a look. I do want to re-frame him though. And thank you on the hair. Seeing him on Weds for a consult. x
It’s going to be an exciting adventure for you relocating, and hopefully you will take us along house/apartment hunting !
Yes I am very excited about it! \Don't worry, you'll be coming too. x
Your hair is so healthy and shiny ❤️ try a different cut to perk you up 😂❤️
Suzie you are a strong lady, and a great support to us all.Much love ❤❤❤❤
Suzi, age is nothing but a number...you are very young at heart and have a zest for life ..a real inspiration for us ladies on the higher side of 50. Keep sharing with us your beauty secrets...
Don't worry what others think about your hair color...It's what you feel about your hair color. I hope you're feeling better. I love your "Verve" on life ! Take care.🌻 Happiness, Cindy
Hi Suzie, I do think that the miserable weather this year is a factor in your low mood along with losing little Jack. I turned 60 this year and I suddenly feel old and for the first time in the 5 years since I retired am bored and feel I’ve no purpose. I’m sure that will change once we get some brighter weather. Maybe Portugal just isn’t your place? You’re always so trendy and I love the clothes that you wear. In respect of your hair, maybe some darker lowlights would be easy to maintain mixed in with your grey. I love your new black yoga top and grey top, you look fab! X
All good wishes Suzi …you are entering another adventure in your life ..especially living near your friends ..and leave your beautiful hair .it’s a gorgeous silver grey ..you are amazing …so stylish and trendy …the sun is shining now ..happy days ..☀️. from the north east ..
I love your fringe going backwards, like it use to be
The quiff? Me too, and I will never get rid of the silver on top because of that. Thank you. x
As a permanent wig wearer (I do different styles and colours!) I definitely notice the greys are more ageing. Not that I don't like grey (matched to the right outfit) but I definitely think there's a point in our age at which it becomes harder to make it appear glam and not just old! Many in the wig community suggest we up our makeup when wearing greys (ie a bit more blusher, brighter lippy etc). I 100% get the most compliments when wearing my pale blonde shoulder length slightly wavy style with layers shaping my face. It takes years off but is just not practical for every day. I was a natural blonde in my youth so I think that's part of it. I'm most comfortable in a transitional blonde and light grey blend which is exactly the colour of my bio hair (what's left of it!). In my opinion what we definitely need to avoid is going too dark as we get older - that can be really ageing.
Maybe go platinum 👌
"Susie,leave your hair alone do you really care what other people think?? As in that famous film "I couldn't give a dam my dear!! I certainly couldn't!! Love jack's picture too. Thanks for the vlog have a good week ❤️🙏🏴
Hi Susie, I think your grey hair is lovely. I was thinking if you fancied a change, have you considered growing your fringe out or longer and trying a different parting? You look fabulous when you have a quiff or brush your hair off your face. Looks stylish and glamorous and gives you more hairstyle options ❤
I totally agree, Gemma. Suzi has such a lovely face and very few wrinkles and looks fabulous with her hair off her face.
Thank you. x
I loved this video. Your vacation looked relaxing and peaceful. Your skin is beautiful. Please let us know again your products, routines, and procedures you use. Also I would love to see all your jewelry. The white shirt looks good on you. I’m 70 and still dye my own hair. I’ve tried many times and I look so blah and washed out when I look at myself. I am not against grey hair, but for right now I’m still coloring. I wish I could go to a salon to do it, but not able to afford that. Maybe one day it will come where I won’t care. Thanks for the No 7. As I’m writing this you are showing products. Thank you. I look forward to your future videos. ❤️
Suzi, I'm a 56 year old hairdresser and love your hair, I have clients that have their hair stripped to get the colour you have and it never looks like a true natural lovely grey. My hair is dark/mid natural brunette and is long, I have tiny silver strands in it so its definitely going to be true salt and pepper within 18 months and you know what, I don't care. I dress how I have always dressed, this is me and stuff what anyone else says. Wear your lippy, your fantastic clothes and if you need a change just have some low lights to break your grey up, or have some flashes of colour, blue always looks nice as a statement!! I think you are fantastic!
Thank you so much lovely! xx
Your hair looks fabulous gray u have beautiful skin don't loose your confidence that's what empowers u n reflects so the fact u were feeling was coming through probably why woman offered her seat keep rocking your gray hair 😎👍
I’m 69 and once a month I get my hair done. Not having grey/white hair makes me feel better and fresher and younger. It would suit you maybe to have some blond streaks put into your hair. Give it a try, it always will grow out if you don’t like it.
I love watching your vlogs Suzi…you’re an inspiration. ❤
Your gray hair is beautiful...jealous! Have you ever tried Laura Mercier.....it is my saving grace and minimalist as it is French. Very natural look and would be great with your lovely skin
Thank you for the lovely compliment on my hair. Yes I have tried Laura Mercier but not for a very long time time. I’ll have a look, thank you. x
Love you Suzi!1
Lovely video.
Love your gray hair. Would love to hear your diet.
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I love the grey
Lovely portrait of Jack ❤ I dye my hair, I’m not ready to be grey yet!
I love your hair Suzi. x
My daughter lost her dog a short time ok and both them and me miss him so much so know how you are feeling. I’ve left my hair to go grey and do find I look paler but just need to put a little bit of make up and blusher on and hey presto look ok again. Your hair looks lovely so don’t go changing it 😁
Thank you Suzie! I'm sorry to hear about your daughters doggy, sending hugs to you both xx
Hi Suzie- love your grey hair and I think it enhances everything you wear. Grieving takes time, be kind to yourself and fondly remember Jack and the comfort and the wonderful memories he provided. I agree a new picture frame and mat maybe in order. You’ll know when you see it. You are a great inspiration to us all, so soldier on girlfriend. Have a happy week ahead😊
Thank you Linda, what lovely words. x
You are really inspirational and there’s no way l thought you were 75. ❤
Oh wow! Thank you so much lovely! xx
Oh Suzi, sending you so much love. ❤xx
Well Suzy,You have brightened my NZ Autumn morning❤ x
Love your hair both ways xx
I think grey hair washes out the ski makes people look older.Their are colours now using natural pigments of several different colours which would be fantastic.In the end up to you it's on your head and what you feel most comfortable wearing .Love S
I’m 73, and was a hairstylist, and love to mess with my hair. Play with it, have fun! There are rinses, Demi permanents, tinted shampoos and conditioners, and yes it’s beautiful as is, but have fun with it darling❤️🥰😎
Thank you Karen! xx
I’m going silver and have had to change my make up to more pink based as my old make up just doesn’t go x
Lovely day here hope you had a nice time away 😮
Thank you for bringing us along on your trip...I loved seeing everything...I look forward to your future plans and looking at new places to live...Enjoy your week
Love a what you eat in a day Suzi and I think you and your hair colour are fantastic. Xx
I'm with youmon them frame, it doesn't do Jack justice,definitely change it. I'm not a happy bunny either,my health is better than it has been for some years ( except the sweating I've now seen my gp and waiting on blood test results) butmothers wise well. But with me it's where I live, I really miss living in Lewes,and it's top of my list to move back down there as soon as I can, as I have all my family and old friends in Lewes and surrounding area,so as you say its important to be close to them as we get older. I like your hair colour ,and it's such a pain to keep doing ones roots, I'm 61 in June and still have blonde hair, with dark roots,with a little grey, and I do a couple of times a year just lighten my hair all over, but I'm beginning to not worry to much, and maybe as your thinking something a bit more fun for the summer, and why not. White is really food on you,as well by the way. Keep well and here's to the new chapter thatsmabout to unfold in the near future. ❤