BLAKE LIVELY IS MESSY…(it ends with us drama)
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- It Ends With Us came out this week and fans aren't happy with the way Blake Lively is handling her interviews about the film and many suspect there may be some drama going on behind the scenes with the cast...
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Blake wanted this to be her Barbie moment, Justin wanted to highlight the reality of DV. Blake has used everything she can to draw attention and talk about HER brands and HER husband's movie, Justin has only shared DV links and recovery supports. Money speaks and everyone else is listening to the actual conversation going on.
This gives me the sense that Justin knew this wasn’t going to go well and is preparing for a wave of criticism with the lawyer things. Idk tho. I feel bad for him. Blake and Ryan are rlly that annoying rich married couple who are so out of touch with reality and think they are so hilarious. Blake looks like a woman who’s been able to get away with everything her whole life bc she’s white, blonde and hot. I bet she drinks wine with her friends and complains about her children and husband and has a “live laugh love” sign. Just bad vibes.
@@thebob723 I get she wants to support her husband but he literally is Ryan Reynolds, lol. He does not need promotion
Same
good, now say that to her face
This! Especially with all the outfits for each movie premiere red carpet! Yes, other actors and actresses have done it, but a movie and story about domestic abuse and you focus on flowers as the theme?
For anyone who doesn't know, Colleen Hoover attempted to cover up her son's SA allegations.
Excuse me?..
Wow Ty for educating boost this yall,
@@gravitystoner14 Yup. It's ironic isn't it?
@@Iamliterallythatgirl Yeah, this and her poor writing skills is why no one likes her in the literary world.
Wait, what?!
Lowkey it gives me ‘I didn’t read the book I read the google summary.’ You can see who clearly cares more about the movie and what it represents.
Exactly!
😂😂😂😂
Blake is a narcissistic person. Everything has to be about her. Her husband is no better
No desire to see this movie now.
Yes!
@@irishelfand2232 If she wasn't attached I might have been curious but even if this mess didn't exist, I could never sit through a film with her in the lead. I just can't take her seriously as an actress.
Black is doing a terrible job promoting this movie. Wanting to make it about women's empowerment only, talking about the wardrobe repeatedly, wanting to make it a Barbie movie moment all while ignoring the real message that's so misleading, and on the other hand, pushing Justin away like that is so unprofessional and weird.
in the other interview where the interviewer complained, Blake did NOT want to talk about wardrobe tho
@@isla7blue are you defending her? Cause she clearly does not care about the movie she pretending that it’s all unicorns and flowers but it’s about dv and it makes it seem she’s mocking dv which is insanely inappropriate especially her trying to have a “Barbie and Oppenheimer” moment
im weakkk i thought u was talking about jack black 😭
@@Some-t2o I think she does not know what DV is, and maybe she'd rather not try to explain something.she has not experienced.
I do not know how she got the role, how it was pitched to her and even like... how she thinks this even relates to Barbie
She seems a bit sheltered and it appears that her life mostly revolves around her family life, nothing wrong about that. She usually does her research when taking a role but I do not know what happened this time around. She looks uncomfortable with press
She is quite a bubbly person but this movie has nothing bubbly about it, maybe that is why it clashes. Honestly I have not read the book but I ve seen some comments and description of the story, I do not know if she was fit for the role - you might say a good actor always knows how to work around the character the story, the message and I agree. Maybe we need to see the movie to see how she does, but I would also understand if the detachment she shows drives people away this time
Cannot help myself, however seems a bit innaporpriate her behavior during an interview. Her body language says it all. "I am the diva and the boss here..."
I think she lacks the depth to talk about it.
It’s like.. lights are on but no one’s home. She’s so lucky she hasn’t been through DV. She can’t even stand to talk about it
@@Kylie-playsroblox exactly! she could have at least picked up a book
Well said
Yeah. She’s been famous for most of her life. Even if we don’t think she’s a BIG time actress like say, idk Angelina Jolie in her prime…Blake still has been in the spotlight a long time. She also comes from a famous family, so she grew up with money. I doubt she’s ever really experienced anything that could make her relate to her fans, or on such serious topics like this.
Hopefully all this bad press will make her do some soul searching
Don't forget she's literally trying to sell a shampoo line and it's more important to her.
The way she treated the interview was crazy lmao. Blake is annoying
It’s the new J-lo movie
Fr I was like hold onnn is she high not weed high I mean pill high
@@mexican4721 bro fr
She can’t act is and is incredibly boring. She’s a pretty face, nothing more 🤷♀️
Make ryan Seem like A Saint .
Justin seemed to be the only one taking this movie seriously this shouldn’t have been advertised as some cutesy romcom drama that you should “grab your friends and wear your florals” to. Blake should’ve done more to discuss what the message of the movie was instead of just talking abt wardrobe and what not. It seems everyone in the cast and the author are on her side because she has money and fame which doesn’t surprise me.
right? I can't believe people are calling him misogynistic for nothing. He seems to care more about womanhood n dv more thn all the women in the movie .... that's is so sad !
@@gloriahota Well, obviously. Blake just wants to sell her shampoo. A domestic violence movie doesn't do that.
She's mad at him for being honest. 😅 And she even let Ryan Reynolds rewrite the script WITHOUT the writers knowledge or permission. And she has a different cut of the movie.
So yeah... Justin Baldoni is acting like a saint considering he had his movie (and script) stolen by a co-producer who shouldn't have been able to do that. She used privilege.
It’s their ticket to Taylor Swift
my complete perspective of blake is down the drain.
Just because I am petty, but anyone remember her wedding was on a plantation in South Carolina, as in slave plantation ?
And her life style company, where she marketed Southern Belle, pre-civil-war aesthetics? And that she called that company „preserve“ even?
Like does that woman have any sense for other peoples suffering, or is it cute appearances in her mind?
Same here..... WOW...
@@joecarom391 oh wooooooow. I literally had NO idea. Thank you for the info!!♥️♥️
@macpaige51790 I second you!! I am so glad my friend turned me down when I asked him if we could go watch this movie ( before l learnt about this controversy) and his response was, I DONT WANT TO WATCH BLAKE LIVELY!!
The fact that she promoted her hair products coming in one of the movie film meet ups-
I thought this was a rom com!! I’m a DV survivor!!! This could have sent me into a major PTSD episode!! Thank you Justin! For looking out for the survivors!! ❤
Oh yeah! I watched it knowing there would be DV scenes and it still triggered my PTSD. Makes me sad for all the people who are gonna watch this without warning and have ptsd.
Same! I had no idea what this movie was about until all of this behind the scenes came up. I am extremely glad I haven't seen it.
I feel like having a PR company called Crisis PR is a bad PR move in itself for whoever signs with you
what’s DV??
@@user-li1yu3sy9t domestic Violence, in this case a husband beating his wife
But side bar…
It’s nice seeing people’s ulterior motives get exposed. Blake and Ryan tried to recreate Barbenhemmier while being very insincere in their publicity tour. While Colleen went from being besties with Justin when the film was in its early stages of pre production, to icing him out so she could cozy up with Blake. These people thought they could be calculated in their moves and the real irony is, it looks like both Colleen and Blake are the ones who need a crisis PR firm and not Justin.
💯
She gave me incredible ICK in that interview! It was a great question. She is showing her ego. No thanks. I’ll pass on the movie because of her.
Her husband is a major smart azzes and I bet she is too... No thanks!!
You can still watch it but not in theatres or any paid sources where she can get revenues for it
I mean…how should she answer that? Is she now obligated to talk to individuals about their DV experience? Why would we put that insane expectation on a woman? Her response sucked but I don’t think it was a good question.
@Bobelsey11 You're absolutely right. People expect too much from actors. What's next, are we going to ask Tom Cruise how to help Gaza?
@@Bobelsey11I agree completely. I also agree just springing a question like that on her is kind of unsettling. But I think it would have been a better opportunity to just address it by saying she is not someone who can talk to everyone about it but to talk and find each other and maybe send a positive message of care to them.
I probably wouldnt have thought to say that on the spot but, if my reputation was on the line like hers I would want to reiterate that answer at a later time especially after all this bad PR
Blake was the wrong choice for this movie. Jessica Chastain would have been the best choice.
100%
@NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE Jessica is brilliant in everything she touches, and she would have nailed this role and the real message behind it.
@@JacintaGib she would have!! Big fan of her acting. She’s incredible with drama
my aunt was her high school drama teacher lol she’s apparently just as lovely in person.
@@agent606 that doesn't surprise me. She is such a beautiful actress. Margot Robbie could have been a better choice as well. She understands DV and how important it is that we say enough is enough.
Kjersti Flaa the reporter, is unable to have a child of her own. So when she congratulated a then 8 month pregnant Blake on her “bump/baby” Blake then says “congrats on your little bump” her response was just insensitive, Kjersti was not pregnant and unfortunately will never be. Of course, Blake didn’t know that about Kjirsti. But It just came off as quite mean.
It must feel like a bullet to Kjersti.
That was so rude.
A simple thank you is hard for her to say? I mean if you are that pregnant and another woman would congratulate you, what is offensive about it?
I really think she could have easily said, "Thank you, but I just want to focus on my performance and not my personal life." I saw a lot of people on FB defending Blake. But whether or not you think the reporter should have said it, Blake could have been far more gracious. It's clear the reporter meant no harm.
@@missmarie726 I think boomers are defending Blake because these "tea" videos are too much for their attention spans. 😅 Also they're not as morally correct as Gen Z and Millennials.
They don't understand our vocabulary and culture. They think "oh, Blake Lively is a woman being harassed by people, she must be a victim" but they can't think more deeply.
@@Angel_Auraamorally correct? Ba hahahahaha!!
Blake wanted a Barbie/Oppenheimer moment but didn’t realize It Ends With Us is Oppenheimer and Deadpool was Barbie 😂
💯🤣
Deadpool sucked nuts
Deadpool sucked
@@bradchevy1316 but the box office says otherwise. 💀
Literally 😂
I’ve read some of Colleen’s books and she makes abusive relationships seem “lovely” to be in. It’s sickening.
Yes she’s kinda problematic
@@lee-13kinda?
Yeah DV is something to not glamorize and unfortunately she have managed to do that
@@lee-13 she’s really problematic!
@@isysslepore72 so true! And I e seen fans of hers who’ve become so desensitized to it that they think it’s cute. And that’s scary
As a DV survivor, this is so dangerous ! Trigger warning exists for a reason. She wanted to have a barbenheimer moment with her husband so she did promotion for the film like it was the barbie movie. Thank god ppl were talking about it on her comments on IG as well bcus I took a break from Tiktok and would’ve went to watch it bcus of the videos I saw on her page. The flowers, the outfits, them cooking, laughing, playing games etc… I would’ve never guessed. Saved me from a major PTSD episode.
the way she wore the copy of britney’s dress at the premiere? WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK. i get it being inspired by her fashion, her outfits were indeed iconic. but deliberately choosing a dress of a well-known abuse victim, who has been suffering for ages, for the promotion of a DV movie is just unbelievable.
@@peculliarI didn't know that, OMG How F-IN Gross!!!
@@peculliar It was her ACTUAL dress which is even worse 😭 she could’ve wear it if she talked AT ALL about the message, about wanting to empower and show love to Britney but nada. Just flowers, haircare and outfits
@@SarahMary123 yeah, that would’ve been a better idea, but she obviously didn’t consider that so it was just a shockingly tone deaf choice. instead she pulled a kim-k merylin monroe stunt
She somehow doesn't understand her movie is Oppenheimer in this scenario, and Deadpool is Barbie. This woman seems like a dumb 🐕 through and through.
as someone who lost a family member to dv i feel like it’s really weird and upsetting that this movie is being marketed as some sort of cutesy romance movie with not a lot of clues to the plot, when its a really dark and triggering subject. i feel like ppl could be misled to watch it not knowing and could be really affectwd by the subject matter
I’m so sorry ❤️
@@TeaSpill thank you🩵 thankfully its not as painful anymore as it was at first. but because of what happened i’m very passionate to speak out against DV and help those who are or have been affected in some way by it. which is why this book/movie not being totally clear about the subject matter bothers me so much 😞if you read the synopsis on the back cover it doesnt allude to DV being a theme, it just makes it sound like the main character is hurt by heartbreak or something, not abuse. it’s unclear to the point where unknowing victims can come across this and be seriously triggered
😢
The book is based on the authors mother and her abuse. I’m so sorry for your loss
Exactly someone who had DV might go to the movies and think they are watching a rom com and then the scenes pop up so the person will be triggered and maybe they weren’t ready to see all that ..
Blake doesn't have a clue about DV. She didn't do her homework. She lives in a bubble.
Initially agreed... until 10:35 (saw this previously & THIS comment nails it.) made me wonder if she IS in fact removed from this sad reality for too many women. Bc the way she distances herself from the questions is also saying something but I can't say what I don't know. Ryan Reynolds has a toxic vibe and his insides are pouring it out as he ages. Often what occurs with age, your true self is exposed and it's visible. Not all, my grandmother was nasty but aged like fine wine. I'm not age shaming lol I know someone will skim and harp on this. He just looks from the inside out like a monster. Blake on the other hand. Stuck up, self righteous cool girl parrot wife of this guy... just my musings
She lacks empathy
I thought the same, she is not professional, she didn’t take time to investigate and read about the real topic, thats laziness
Good for her
I’m a DV attorney and DV is still a huge issue in our society. It takes the average survivor 7-8 tries before leaving an abusive relationship. The time when they leave is also the most dangerous times in their lives- there are some cases we refer to as hm, because there’s a high risk of mortality. I appreciate Justin Baldoni trying to raise awareness- I dislike Blake more and more with each interview I watch. The book/movie is not about DV? Oh, but it is whether Blake likes it or not. What a waste of a platform.
@@danifaja87 Just wanted to reach out and say I appreciate you for the job you do🙏 it’s so important. My sister only tried to break up with her abusive bf 1 time before he snapped on her. None of us knew what was happening. Knowing that people dedicate their lives to helping and defending DV victims makes my heart warm. I hope anyone suffering from abuse can be safe
I hate that we have to use code on youtube- i dont know what hm means - is it hOmicide?
I think its just High Mortality @@zoekrishel6677
So well said
Thank you for telling us that because I knew some people lose their lives to it but not to a big extent. And especially if you have kids or if you are a woman and pregnant it's harder to leave and then you have even more to worry about. But thank you for doing your job and helping people, I appreciate you. 🙏
Blake and Ryan are kinda giving family blogger vibes; always ready with the smiles, pushing product 24/7, self congratulatory - it all feels forced and it’s too much
Vlogger*
I used to be a big fan of him, now after seeing his and his wife’s Blake out of touch and idiotic behavior I have lost all respect for him😢
Idk if I'm just a hater, but writing an erotic novel to raise awareness about domestic violence feels like an absurd decision
It’s weird but since J Baldoni bought the rights for the book and has been an advocate against DV for years I think he wanted to use the hype of the book to advocate for the victims, and if you see him on the press tour that’s what he has done, and I guess that’s where « the creative differences » between him and BL have started. Apparently according to insiders she has hired behind the director’s back ( JB) her own editing team and done her own cut of the movie ( she is one of the producer of the movie ) which was presented at screen tests but was ultimately not chosen by the public !
@@nad0862 exactly! god it reminds me of Michael Ende. 😢
YES
I agree with your statement but I wouldn't call this an erotic novel. More just a romance novel about domestic violence which is still absurd. ♥️
Blake be like: ✨💅surprise! It’s a DV movie!💐🥰
I mean there’s this great thing called google
@@SunshineBarbie-sv4bi One thing about you Blake fans us that y'all lack SO much critical thinking lol
😂😂😂 don't forget to buy my alcohol brand to overcome the shock
@@stephanieramadhar9585I’m not even a Blake fan but have never even gone to see a movie purely based on the press release I actually read about the plot, because guess what you are responsible for the media you consume. Not the actress who yall want to force to be an advocate about something she may have never experienced and therefore feel uncomfortable to talk about.
@elenitsagari8408 She shouldn't have been in the movie then. If you're as deep as a puddle don't be in a movie that covers heavy topics lol no one is forcing her to be an advocate we were just hoping she wasn't this much of a dunce
I feel like Justin saw the book for what it was- domestic violence whereas Colleen and Blake wanted the book to be about a beautiful woman with a man who loves his wife so much that he’s willing to become violent, obsessive, and abusive. And they think that women like that… unfortunately, Colleen and Blake may not have the depth to understand the toll emotional manipulation has on the psyche. So the way they’re viewing all of it is just… romantic.
It's wild that a third party has a greater understanding of one of the main themes of a book than the author. Hoover and Blake are both so...weird. Let's just call it weird.
Colleen actually wrote in the wnd of the book that this story is about her mom so i don’t understand how she could make this all so „cutesy“ i read the first book and i was bawling my eyes out . I remember it was 3 in the morning and i had to trxt my mom that i love her and that i am so sorry she had to go there all of it because the book described my moms life .. the part where the mom is talking to the character and she tells her why she didn’t leave etc i was bawling sooo bad i was choking on my tears in my head it was as if my voice that oh shit thats my moms life .. i cried .. ( i am sorry for my bad English)
Apparently all of her books glamorize these problematic relationships and as much as women want to present as not being in support, her books on goodreads all have above 4 star rating...honestly no wonder people sometimes call women out for double standards and hypocrisy, it seems the hooks of "bad boys" hasn't gone away even in this seemingly ultimate feminist era, quite disappointing tbh
@@cynthiapolin7485 Yes, she did base the abuser after her father. Even went online to say how her father beat her mum until he broke the bones in his hand.
Only for her to put him in the acknowledgements(?) and say that she loves her dad and how much he'd love this book...like what?
She is SO tone deaf.
So true …❤😢
I'm sorry but Blake talking sounds so dumb, "I'm a Virgo"? DUDE WTF? All she did is talk in circles💀
I agree! Blake Lively is a NARCISSIST and all she does is make everything about her and talks about herself!!! SHe is fuckin BAD BREATH is what everyone is saying too! Her and her husand are SO GROSS!!! FRAUDS
and her "can't be bothered" posture in that interview lounging on a sofa for a movie with such a significant theme, comes off as rich girl "better than you" in general
@@AA-iy4gm if you're a "producer" then behave like one, her talking so casually about stuff in that posture is shit🗿
Because she has narcissist personality disorder and her behaviours are merely symptoms of confirmation. She is revolting.
@@AA-iy4gmyou are so right, She lives in a bubble and does not seem very bright or caring😮
I've seen a theory floating around that Justin Baldondi has probably been the first person not to put up with Blake’s shit which is what could have started the rift, while the rest of the cast is clearly on her side. It makes the most sense.
Justin Baldoni takes his projects very seriously so for someone to come onto set and try to control something he got the rights for is crazy and entitled. Especially having her husband rewrite a scene. It's so strange that this is the first cast to have issues with him well the cast from Jane The Virgin and Five Feet Apart (his project) loved working with him. It doesn't take logic that the cast and author would side with the power couple.
Excellent point
Exactly! Had the roles been reversed and this was Blakes project and Justin came in and trail blazed his storyline, I can’t imagine how poorly she would react. He’s handling this with grace, all things considered.
I feel as though she initially tried to get close with him to make changes, and when he put up boundaries and told her no that’s when she started alienating him. She does not understand what it’s like to live in a world where you can’t get your way.
That’s exactly what I thought to! How come she doesn’t act like this when working with woody Allen and the other movies she’s been on? Most likely, she felt Justin as an actor and as a figure in the industry to be beneath her. Also a narcissist with this superior complex will always think the people around them are dumb so she prob thought her ideas were better than Justin’s and didn’t like that he felt he could say no to her. Just look at the way she treated that interviewer. She’s just not a good person. She thought she was indestructible. It’s great to see the downfall of a bully
I think it is less about being on her side and more about being intimidated by her connections starting with Ryan and TSwift.
@@jennwelch943you guys got it all mixed up she’s paying for most of the movie it’s basically her movie he has the rights to it but the movies being made because of her money
The ick I got when I first saw Ryan Reynolds's promotional video for It Ends With Us. I was like, "why are you joking around? Isn't this movie about dv?" Not to mention that I was confused over why Ryan was advertising this movie since it's not his movie. My respect for him went wayyy down the drain after that.
real. he just had to ask about his wife's costar's ass in a movie about dv/da 🤨 disgusting and unsettling. if someone asked blake about her ass even as a joke, they wouldn't be thrilled by it 🙄
I though it's about Rom-Com movie, as the first interview i saw was where Hugh, Ryan and his mom in it. So i was surprised when i found out the movie is about domestic violence.
Same. Had no clue it was about DV.
Also that mean girl vibe is strong with this one. That interview where she felt it was fine to be disrespectful to the interviewer was an absolute mask off moment. Now I look at Reynolds and can’t help thinking birds of a feather…
Thats what happens when people over inflate celebrities ego’s and stardom. People obsesses over those two because theyre “so wholesome”, and guess what that did; it lead to these people getting shoved in our faces with little to no media training on serious issues under the belief that they can do no wrong and that everyone will just be happy to see them.
why would you be confused about why he was advertising this movie? they're married, nothing surprising or confusing about a husband advertising his wife's movie
Blake and Ryan Reynolds doing too much for attention yet again. I live in Wales so I'm fed up with their shtick ngl.
She seems so egotistical and uppity I hate that I'm better then you attitude and that's the vibe I get from her...... Do you too.... ?
Remember how they had to apologize after they got caught having their wedding at a PLANTATION in the Deep South? 😒
@@terryblevins2516Yep!!
@@terryblevins2516 yes, “i’m rich and better than you” vibes
@@terryblevins2516 The vibe I'm getting is that it's all an act to sell a product, heck that is basically what Wrexham FC has become.
Are we about to see the downfall of Blake Lively… because it’s about damn time.
Is it really? I always thought she was hyped up (blonde, colored eye, subpar acting when i first saw her in gossip girl) but ppl really liked her so i assumed there was something about her i didn’t know
She's really only where she is because she married Ryan Reynolds and everyone seems to love him. Take him out of the mix and what do you have? C/B grade Television actress failing to make the jump to C/B grade movie actress.
@@nellie371Yea only saw her a few times because of Gossip Girl posters but I didn't know who she was. I learned her name after they got married.
She’s a bonafide nepo baby and ppl have short attention spans. She’ll be just fine 😂😂
@@nellie371she had a career and was well known before she even met Ryan try again pal
Remember back in 2012 when all the alligations of Blake being a mean girl to leighton meister came out? And were swept under the rug
We should revisit that
OH YEA
In the end, leighton won. Blake became a side character.
Ty! I wish Leighton wld expand on it but I think she's too classy. But the rumors of bullying by blake were certainly there
@@elizabethr4107i did not understand how they ended not being in good terms..but now i know why.
@@elizabethr4107totally agree. Leighton is so talented as an actress and singer.
4:00 never forget that a young Mariska Hargitay stepped WAY up to raise awareness, advocacy, and resources for SA survivors because people kept talking/writing to her with their stories as if she were actually Olivia Benson
This! I thought of Mariska Hargitay as well during all of this mess. Mariska Hargitay used her role to further educate herself in a difficult topic. It's not impossible for Blake to do the same.
Omg I remember that, genuinely made me cry when I heard that. I would've loved to talk with her, she seems like such a comforting and beautiful soul. She is a great example of someone who not only does her job with passion but realizes how it can affect the audience and she dealt with it afterwards. I love her.🩷
I think her mom lived through DV in one of her relationships (not Mariska's dad)too.
Mariska is a class act she hasn't just taken her role on the show as a job. She has stepped up and become a victims advocate.
This x 1000
I feel like Blake can be very rude and just stuck up. She annoys me tbh.
I thought it was so strange how they would not tell the sex or name of their 4 child until recently!
@@nedrademski4291 what’s the child’s name? And why did they take so long to announce it? They’re so weird. Lol
@@nedrademski4291cuz Ryan always wants to have a boy. Blake had 3 gals. Blake had pressure. Ryan not very happy. Finally Blake gave birth to a son. She feels like she’s a winner now, even displays a triumph demeanour during DV movie promotion!
@@queenielam9627 the sex of a child is a man's "business" since they are the ones donating an x or y... it's not Blake's doing in any case...
Colleen Hoover is gross
Sooooo this is all just ironic and perfect
I hate it ends with us in general because of its romanization of DV :/ also hate Blake for how she treated like reporter
It was such a hard watch..
@@TeaSpillit was like she was trying to jump on the bandwagon that other celebs did when they got legit rude questions
@@TeaSpillI’ve never seen a worse interview than that
Yea it’s was cringy to watch Blake need to apologize for that behavior before people stop supporting her projects
That reporter is also infertile. Makes it even worse
That was really cruel to do that to the interviewer. Bot even looking at her when she was talling. Awful behaviour.
Yes extremely passive aggressive bullying behaviour. She forgets her privilege depends on us normies and we can cancel her quicker than she can say bump the next time! B$$$h
All the fame and money just went over Blake and Ryan's head. They both think they are better than everyone. So entitled. Saw an old clip of Blake and Parker Posey her co-star in another movie being so unkind to another female interviewer. It could be triggering for people who had a similar experience being bullied in high school. I hope they both get cancelled big time!
Cancelled lmao. Karen much? 😂
Coho AGREES with Blake. She's probably why Blake has advertised it this way. Don't get me wrong, blake isn't in the right here, but we should be focusing on the very problematic author who has written MANY books similar to this that romanticize toxic and abusive situations (not to mention her brilliant line "we laughed at our son's big balls" like what the fuck???)
THANK YOU ❤ FINALLY it has taken way too long for me to see someone comment on how Blake clearly represents what Colleen wants. Colleen is a terrible representative author for DV, her work often glorifies verbal and emotional abuse.
Finally!! This is what I keep telling people. Colleen overall can’t tell a star of the movie and director what to do which is why Baldoni is talking about it. He’s a very wholesome wonderful person.
@@mariella2884exactly people ignore how she markets her books, all flowery and looking all pretty and light.
Exactly. This really seems a case of an author wishing she could maintain a firm grip on how her work is interpreted. He seems to have the sensitivity she lacks. It's an interesting situation; two women making light of a subject a man wants to treat with some appropriate gravitas.
@@Lagrangeify in my personal opinion, I just think because he’s known as Raphael from Jane the Virgin, a very beloved persona, and he also is very active in philanthropic movements, it’s best for his image that he speak up about it so that when women see him in another role they don’t only think about the abusive man he played.
It seems like she's bullying him out of his own movie! And that interview when she was pregnant was hard to watch! 💀
I have heard a lot of people say Colleen's books are trash and cannot write to save her life
Yes! Highly recommend Rachel Oates videos
They are right💀
OG gossip girl fans are not surprised
We all been knew that she was a mean girl back then and still is as it seems
I am glad people are siding with Justin. Blake is a total bully and it shows. Hope she never recovers from this faillure and that we never see or hear from her ever again.
Some tea for your consideration: Penn Badgley, who played Dan in Gossip Girl, and is Blake's ex boyfriend, followed Justin Baldoni.
That’s because they are both Baha’i. And he’s been on Penn’s podcast.
@@bumblebee7384 Both what now
@bumblebee7384 Wow, did not know that!
@@Angel_AuraaA religion called Baha'i.
@@prpr6731 yeap. And the only reason Lively’s fans call Baldoni a Zionist is because he has visited Haifa and Jerusalem in 2016. What they do not know is that all Abrahamic background religion including Baha’i do visit Haifa and Jerusalem if they can, as much of Abrahamic history shared between ranges of Islam, ranges of Christianity and ranges of Judaism was born in Haifa and Jerusalem.
Its easy to see how shallow Lively’s fans are, just like her.
Blake Lively did this to Blake Lively.
A privileged women with average acting skills she and her husband
Not having depths of a heart is sad ! I was abused ! Domestic violence is extremely serious ! I cried around the clock ! Walking on eggshells and all throughout covid every thing was shut down ! I was stuck and terrified. I now have Lupus , CPTSD and I finally have gotten out of and divorced ! Have a gun put to your head??? He would let the air out of the tires, he also, would unhook the battery to the vehicle ! I have been abused physically, financially, emotionally, mentally !!! Blake Lively had a platform and destroyed Domestic Violence !!! She is rude and self centered ! Taylor Swift and Margo ; she will never be them ! Sad day for Domestic Violence Abuse Victims and Survivors !!! I have nothing but I do have a heart ! ❤️
Just because I am petty, but anyone remember her wedding was on a plantation in South Carolina, as in slave plantation ?
And her life style company, where she marketed Southern Belle, pre-civil-war aesthetics? And that she called that company „preserve“ even?
Like does that woman have any sense of other peoples suffering, or is it all flowers and frills to her mind ?
Yes!! Idk why the media and the public buried that whole thing but I never forgot the plantation wedding and that southern belle photoshoot, that was disgusting
@@angelica8000can u give more details please?
It's super problematic and devoid of sympathy
Ohh wow
The plantation wedding, I was gonna shrug off. But with everything else it's giving ,"I miss the good ol' (confederate) days"
Nope. No. No.
never heard of that, wtf
I couldnt finish a book with a florist called Lily Bloom 😂
ALL THE CHARACTER NAMES ARE TOO ON THE NOSE LMFAOO
Lilly *Blossom* Bloom
How can you say “this is a story that covers DV but it’s not a movie about DV” when the movie/book itself is TITLED “It Ends with Us” ?????
Right?!
I think Blake was trying to say that it’s not DV that defines her character and that she’s more than just a one dimensional woman in the film, but her delivery was terrible. I’m not defending her actions at all bc I think this whole press tour has been skewed to focus on Blake lively instead of the film just trying to give benefit of the doubt.
This!!! I was like what are you talking about?!?!
*SPOILER***** The title is about her and her daughter though. It's not in relation to Ryle and Lily
So when a book just has a cover and a back page to promote it's plot, how did It ends with us communicate the core theme of dv when it came out
8:16 she has issue when she was asked about the clothes but during the press tour for it ends with us, the only she thing she talks about are her clothes.
4:17 I don’t know why this gets to me so much but apart from how dumb her response in this interview is, I hate how she’s sitting there on the sofa like it’s a Friday evening at her house and she’s chilling in front of the TV. I’ve never an actress or actor do that in an interview.. It shows to me that she thinks she’s the queen of the world and also, that she doesn’t take promoting the film and its heavy topics seriously.
I thought the same!!
A Mariah Carey
Thank you! I thought the same. Never saw someone sit like this so nonchalant! Really shows her character
Oh hello no, that interview was terrible. Blake is super rude, finally people notice it.
Aside from the major problem of blake promoting a DV movie as a light rom com let's also ask why colleen hoover is still getting books published when shes always been so problematic with her romanticising abuse, cheating, gaslighting and a lot of other stuff
She’s gonna keep publishing books bc ppl keep buying them
why it's getting published is a no brainer
but why are women still buying those books is the real question
Justin has been one of my favorite men in show business for a while now. He uses his platform for homelessness, medical conditions, men’s groups, and now DV. I wish we praised and idolized people like this more instead of giving our money to people who don’t care.
As a 6yr DV survivor I was excited for this movie and nervous how it would affect me. Now Idk if i want to see it. its obvious Blake has never experienced DV, doesnt even try to empathize with survivors. She's very tone deaf on the film. Yea we're more than the abuse but it fucking stays with you for life and its difficult to live through and dissociate from reality and be confused while feeling love/hate for your abuser. She pisses me off. The first time my therapist said the word survivor to me, I broke down. Justin understand the message, and I'm grateful to hear him broadcast the message of what we need to be talking about.
It’s a good movie but probably Now that you know what you just learnt about Blake you will probably not like it 😭
@@Linkingles It isn't though, it's max a 5/10. The movie is very flat, and surface level.
So many timeskips. Such odd choices in what to spend 2hrs and 10 mins of the movie on.
Odd dialogue, and really flat characters.
Anyone remember when this rag came out and it was in the height of the adult coloring book phase... and they had to pull a contracted colouring book collaboration once the public spoke up that a domestic-violence- themed-coloring-book wouldn't be a great look💀💀💀💀.... The tone deafness has been tone deafing from the beginning.
That’s wild 😂
what? is that for real? 😂 how do you even make a DV coloring book?
@@FruityHachi totally real 😭 i think it probably would have been a lot of flowers since the character is a florist, but we'll never know since as soon as colleen hoover announced it, there was such a huge backlash that she cancelled the project lol
It seems that Justin came in to this after interest in the book in 2019 with the best of intentions and the desire to portray and focus the movie around a serious issue: DV.
It also seems that once Blake took over the leading actress role, it changed.
And curious that Justin (a man) is taking the role and the responsibility more seriously than Blake (a woman) around the DV issue.
It’s embarrassing to see her promote her businesses and herself piggybacking off of this movie. And the casual, aloof interviews with Blake in them does not touch on DV at all.
If you didn’t know anything about this movie and only went off the promos, you could easily think it’s a RomCom movie. Totally bizarre.
I mean he HAS to take it seriously. He’d be crucified if he approached the promotion of this film with irreverence like Blake has.
@@missym877 respectfully asking, why do you think that is? Bc he is the director or bc he is a man? Or bc he is passionate for the cause- invested his money??
@@missym877That's true, but he also wanted to make this movie and went out of his way to do so. So if you're implying he only appears to care out of necessity, that's just false.
Blake Lively is a mediocre actress. She’s also not a nice person.
I think Blake and her husband both deserve each other. He thinks he’s very funny, which he’s not. She thinks she’s an amazing actress, over the top dressing, wants the attention on herself. Her star is fading fast
Most people find him funny. Hence why Deadpool is such a profitable franchise. Sounds like you're salty that nobody likes your favourite comedian Amy Schumer
Bruh hes funny bc of deadpool, not the other way around. Wade wilson is genuine an entertaining character who ryan Reynolds owe his peak to. Green Lantern flopped so hard he even had to made fun of his L in another franchise to save face smh
It looks like blake is the cover and Justin is the book 😂🙂
That’s how Colleen wants it!
he's professional while she not. she mean, bully and a professional victim.
Blake is just like T Swift. Both act like Snow White but in real life they are drama and a headache
Drama aside (it’s not easy, there’s a TON), I love how Justin’s been promoting both the movie and DV resources. Beautiful ✨
"I'm a virgo" had me losing it cause what
Lmfaoo as a Virgo I was cringing.
Shitshow book that made light of dv got turned into a shitshow movie that also made light of DV. *Shocker*
Blake gives very mean girl vibes!! Her over-the-top personality seems extremely fake and ridiculously annoying 😐
CoHo’s habit of romanticizing abusive relationships and being out of touch with these issues is something that’s always bugged me-I've read three of her books, so I know. But what really gets me is how Blake and the rest of the cast are handling this situation. Sure, it's great to say that "domestic violence doesn’t define a person," but that doesn’t mean we should just brush it under the rug. Recognizing the abuse is the first step; only after that can someone start to fight, move on, and find themselves again. It’s crazy that they don’t seem to get this-it really feels like they’re coming from a place of privilege.
And let’s not forget how the abuser in the movie is the one being pushed aside and painted as the bad guy in real life just because he disagrees with Blake. It’s like the roles are flipped in real life, and that’s just messed up.
well said.
She’s in her J-LOW era made me laugh so damn hard! SO TRUE
I've been in a couple toxic relationships and let me tell you, its NOT fun, not light hearted, its scary as heck!! I think movies like this are not accurate at all..its disturbing to me how these ppl think its funny?? WOW....
Same.. and I got out of one a couple of days ago.. with a very hard slap in the face, the first and the last time.. and before that very manipulative, gaslighting, narcissistic, made me think everything was my fault. After that very hurtful slap I came back to my senses and left.. it takes a lot of time to heal, I have a long way to go.. I’m thankful that it was a LDR..
@@s.d4252 Oh sweetheart I'm so sorry that has happened to you... It is the worst to get hit by the man that says he loves you especially.... Im am so glad you left, and yes he is going to buff the shizz out of you to come back.... Its always worse when you go back..... Stand your ground honey and he can take a long walk off a short pier!!!! Bless your heart, this will only make you stronger!! ❤ wishing you all the best!!!
The only good thing about the movie is that I heard about Justin who seems a genuine and thoughtful person. I hope he manages to escape from this bad taste mess and have a successful and meaningful career.
i genuinely thought it was a rom com about a man running a flower shop
I am so shocked rn. I’ve never read the book, and seen bits and pieces of the trailer. I legit thought this was a romantic movie and would have totally gone to watch it expecting one thing but getting something completely different
as a virgo, we don’t claim blake. and i’m not even into astrology like that
Somewhere JLo is breathing a sigh of relief. I thought i was the only one that found Blake insincere. I hated her speech about Ryan "running home". I found it poorly given & trying too hard to get a response
Yeah I wasn't expecting it to be Blake Lively the next downfall lol
Maybe I am off but her speech kind of felt narcissistic when it should have been highlighting Reynolds. It’s like she lingered on herself for a tad too long.
I have been waiting for someone else to say this! It seemed like she was trying to copy Amal Clooney when she made a heartfelt speech about George
@@user-oh2bl1gh2u Ooooh… I didn’t known that!
[scours interwebs for Amal Clooney speech]
@@3PeasInAPod2016 yes! I saw it on Instagram & everyone was like "it's so beautiful" but I found it insincere. I'm tired of mediocre people being idolized
Even the Barbie movie had an important message and Margot, Greta and Ryan were talking about it and spreading it. Not just talking about the outfits and the colour pink! Blake is so tone deaf.
Blake accidentally exposed taylor Swifts real personality. Their best friends and no way taylor isn't the same way. Their best friends because of their similarities in their personality, not their differences
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
The Pollution Queen. Could have such a positive impact for climate activism on her fan base. Chooses not to
birds of a feather flock together
I'm so glad someone is saying this so I can like it 🎉❤😂
I watched the interview… it felt like observing endless minutes of bullying.
Highly recommend Rachel Oates' videos about Colleen Hoover's AWFUL books
Thank you! I will look for her videos.
Thank you! I’m going to check the video out.
Any specific one? She has a couple.
@@AuroraR It ends with us and Verity🤢🤮
@@feliciasjoberg9886 Thank you!
Thats why Blair Waldorf has ALWAYS been my favorite...😁
Literally Same!
What I can say is that I feel bad for that beautiful Norwegian reporter.😢😢 they were rude to her.
As someone who has a degree in Literature, I’ll never ever read Colleen Hoover or any book/author that romanticises abuse and toxic relationships. I had the misfortune of reading a few sentences and paragraphs on social media and trust me, it’s horrible. Wattpad writers had better stories and writing.
she could've funded a different movie based on a romcom type of book if she wanted a barbie moment. this whole thing is crazyyy and totally changed my perception of her (i just found out about her plantation wedding too...)
'Lily Bloom'. That is all I need to know about Colleen Hoover 😅😅
Blake had already announced her pregnancy to the world and the interviewer reported she was 8 month pregnant. English is not the interviewer’s first language and idioms are often challenging in any second+ language. Lively didn’t display a single shred of grace or humility. This is who Blake Lively is at her core. She thinks this behavior is perfectly acceptable. As someone who loved watching Gossip Girl in high school (not really sure what else she’s been in…), I’m really disappointed to learn this about her.
As for her massive self-promotion through this movie, I’d assume she’s self-aware enough to realize she’s not exactly the best actress in her field and needs a few side hustles just in case those roles become even less frequent.
Did she get offended to the fact that she was pregnant and the bump was mentioned?
She also bullied princess Catherine with all the shit of “where is Kate?”
Seems like blake is being the bitchy main character.
How come she just blurted out “this is not abt domestic viol*nce, this is HER story” isnt that the book is about in the first place??
Blake in her Jlo era? Jennifer Lopez has NEVER dismissed the topic of DV. The exact opposite! “Enough” was a great film & JLo took the role & topic very seriously!
the movie Enough is so underrated, watched it so many times, my favorite DV movie alongside Invisible Man
@@FruityHachi both great films! 🙏
I didn't know Justin before but now I do. I'm so happy DV survivors have him as an advocate considering how awful Blake lively is
Try watching Jane the Vigin. A show with him
I'm just saying the author of the book is on Blake's side and I think she said that the movie should be advertised the way it is by Blake. I don't know that as a fact, but I'm just saying that is a possibility. When I saw the trailer I thought it was a romance movie. So the trailer seems to be a bit misleading as well.
Honestly I'm thinking coho is siding with the powerful side instead of the rightful side. Her being an opportunistic person and not being a moral person isn't surprising
Not the first time CoHo tries to sell her book by mislabeling her book as romance novel. So many people caught off guard by the Verity.
Because CoHo doesn't know the essence of what she wrote. She doesn't really understand, this book is only DV because she's based it off the real life experience of her Mum and Dad.
I know that because she's written Male Leads that R-word and SA the female and they end up together. And because the second book of this series litterally just puts the @buser as having complete unfettered access to the MC, no restraining order, he has a key to her home, or wherever she is most of the time, people invite the MC to go placed and neglect to tell her that her @buser is going as well- and she's fine with it.
CoHo doesn't understand DV. She just chanced upon this book.
It's funny to me that she complained about the wardrobe question, when she is the one who always talks about clothes even when the question isn't about it 😂
Everyone was obsessed with this girl years ago, I never understood the hype 😬
I don't either, probably her husband's popularity from Deadpool caused her to be liked too
btw, Alex is my favorite too :)
@@FruityHachithey liked her from Gossip girl tvshow
Fr I’m so sick of seeing her and her husband everywhere
Blake and Parker Posey were awful throughout that entire interview. They wouldn’t even look at the interviewer and were so snarky and condescending, especially with Blake’s weird comment about “congrats on your bump” and when you see the stank face Parker gave when the interviewer walked away at the end.
P.S... I dont like Ryan Renolds at all... He is a major jerk!! Really!! He tries to be funny but hes a smart azz..... Her hair care line....umm.....
He's funny in his movies at least 🤷♂️
Let her take lead because he was probably afraid of her. Blake's bump comment was such mean girl comment.and the men about the clothes. Very poor behavior!!!
Who would have thought that the woman married to Ryan Reynolds would be a terrible person...? Totally didn't see that coming...
4:11 she shouldn’t have made a joke here, but at the same time, this question is so inappropriate. She should have responded something along the lines of being pleased to bring this issue more mainstream, but she is not qualified to counsel, talk, or handle trauma and would suggest contacting these resources... the joke was poor, but the question was wildly inappropriate
Not Blake trying to emulate ScarJo, when being asked about her underwear and diet.
You were in a period movie sweetie, OF COUSE they will ask about the wardrobe. Mean girl behavior, alongside Parker Posey, who I thought her mean girl demeanor was acting... apparently not 😒
Honestly ever since the first Deadpool I've had a weird feeling about Ryan and Blake. Then when i watched A Little Favor I had this feeling that Blake was alot like that character in real life because she played it so effortlessly... now it's absolutely solidifying the feelings I had.
I've only seen her in Gossip Girl and always thought she's only playing herself, too.
Wow that interview was extremely difficult to watch... glad that was posted
i’d never be able to get myself to watch or read it ends with us. The rest of the cast could’ve easily educated themselves on the reality of DV. They could’ve brought so much good awareness to this topic. Press should’ve been all about resources, support and love for those who suffer. It’s a slap in the face for it to be so romanticized and taken lightly
As a DV survivor, I am so disappointed at the way the women in this movie have let us down,
As a DV survivor who didn't read the book, i appreciate the research done and the awareness spread.
Ugh THANK YOU for covering this, I’ve been so lost 🤣