You're not a psychiatrist, but the motorcycle is. "Maaann I'm having a hard day"....'vroom vroom' ..."You're right motorcycle, life IS better in the fast lane!"
Yes. Got my license almost 6 months ago, got my bike a month later. Developed a certain level of confidence for the next month, went on a group ride. Made and still making tons of friends. If you go to a group ride and walk up to every person and say hello, they become friendly faces that are enthusiastic to see you the next time. If you don't know what to talk about at the start (like I didnt), just ask what they ride and let them talk about their bike. Get to learn about bikes and watch someone talk about their pride and joy. Definitely cures it for me.
I'm hoping one day all us autistic people can form our own world together. They will never except us being who we are. I think we see the world clearly it's normal people that have it wrong. I keep getting told to be myself but seriously the world doesn't except me being myself or the pretend version trying to please people.
@@chrishart8548 I appreciate you for being open about this. Personally, I always treat everyone the same but I still want to know, what are some ways that I can continue to ensure that I treat everyone, including people with Autism, the same?
Obviously you can't just be who you are. You have to conform to some norm. For example, do not shout in library just because you're autistic. At least that is what I stereotyped of autistic people. I wish they have more have self control. Having said that, training your social skills can be helpful to be more accepted in community. I said training because I believe it is a skill, not a talent. Just speaking from personal experience, I was a very unconformist guy who learned some social skills. Hope you can thrive and get ahead in life... peace..
@@OneTwoFf "At least that is what I stereotyped of autistic people. I wish they have more have self control." is crazy. The Good Doctor was a mistake. 💀
this helped me man. im an 18 year old kid thats been obsessed with bikes for the past 3 years. i graduated this summer and have started working hard just to get one. one of the reasons is bcs of everything i have going on in my head. when im in my car going 100+ i forget everything as cringe as that sounds so i can only imagine what a bike could make me feel. youre right tho, all the bag of problems will be waiting for you right when you come back.
A bike for me was worth every penny. You have to respect the bike, though it's not like a car, they are called death machines for a reason. If you ride normal, they are probably safer than a car, though. I really just wanted to recommend that you buy a used beginner bike rather than buying new or a big CC bike. Buying new for your first is a waste of money. Buying big is a steep learning curve. You can upgrade when you're ready, but if you don't start smart, it will take you longer to upgrade. I spent three times more on my 390 Duke than my VFR. The VFR is king.
@@nonyabusiness4151 so true. Start with something nearing it's end and nothing flashy. Don't try to make a fashion statement with your first bike - you're going to embarrass yourself and waste money. If riding is for you then you won't care if your first bike and gear is trash you should be having an absolute blast.
I hope you don’t mind but I want to share a quick opinion. I haven’t had the best childhood. I have had to fight bullies and eventually isolated myself. I’m still much of a loner to this day. Motorcycles saved my life! It has given me the confidence to actually make friends and meet new people. You have a point when you mention that you may regress into the feelings of loneliness when you aren’t in the bike. Keep this in mind; you still have the passion that you can talk with others about and still meet new people even when not currently riding.
I had alot of problems coming to my way too. My ex-gf cheated on me, took my whole house, car, belongings and so on. We have 1 child together. Even though im his father, she won't let me see him on my own terms. I only see him 4 days a month. Took legal actions with my lawyer which already took 2 years of my life and it's still not settled. During that time, my dad had cancer and he passed away within 2 months after discovering it. Life has been harsh on me.. My soul kinda died and everything was unfair. However, I never gave up, im fighting for custody for my kid. During these years i became a typical "heartbreak" gym warrior, and worked hard every day. Physically, im very fit now. It's like i'm taking my youth back. I also took motorcycle lessons and bought my first motorcycle, an Yamaha Tracer 900 GT from 2018. I'm having a blast on it. Like you said, driving a motorcycle doesn't cure the whole problem or situation, but it does help abit. I having a sense of freedom and slowly i'm turning my life into a better situation. I believe one day that everything going to be alright. But everytime i feel a little bit of sad or lonely, i just grab my bike and just drive where ever the winds take me. I know for a fact that at least my iron horse won't cheat on me.
@@ssjhai prayers for you brotha. Times like this are never easy to go through. I’m also sorry to hear about your father and your situation in general 🙏🏾
I am going to see a used motorcycle tomorrow, and the advices that you gave made me think about it, and it's something that I wanna try out and hopefully make friends with the bike
I needed this just had a small injury while riding my motorcycle but it made me realize how grateful I should have been before the accident. I’m learning so much and appreciating being alive.
@@johnnybriceno7481 I’ve been there before too. It sucks but like you said, it’s the best when it comes to being alive and staying appreciative. Get better soon man 💪🏾
For me, motorcycles have been a crutch and I've gotten too far lost in the hobby. I have 3 bikes and for a few years now all I've thought about was the hobby, then suddenly I look up and I'm well into my 30s and still single. Lot of guys say that riding is therapy, but to me it's just escapism. To truly feel fulfilled you need to focus your energy directly on improving the areas of your life you're not happy with.
You can also say that about video games. Thats what I did fir all these damn years sit and play videos game right after work and all weekend. Just a cycle of sitting home and wasting time. Now I'm almost 30 and just now starting to go out more especially going on ride outs with my bike to meet more people. I used video games to escape trauma and current in life situations.
Same here but there's so few things I've loved like riding I try not to beat myself up about it. You can say the same thing about gym culture. After a certain point it is escapism, not self improvement, and you're not single because you cant press two plates for reps.
To me it can. I’m 28 with a fiancé and a 3 year old. I cut my bad influences out of my life over the last 6 years. I only have my parents, brothers and fiancé & kid in my life. But I do have a 17’ WR450 supermoto and an f80 m3. So when I get a little “lonely” I just wait for my girls to sleep and run out for a drive or ride. Helps me a lot and makes me not regret changing my life for the better. One day I’ll look for some friends with bikes etc but honestly I’m just focused on being a dad now. Works for me. May not for you.
@@F80mthree wow love this man. I’m 26 and married with no kids yet. This will be helpful for me when that time comes. Good to know that riding still helps as well
@@chillwithkeadefinitely does. Honestly we’re not old at all but we’re at the age where if we want to be successful long term like others we need to focus on ourselves and not others. That’s what pushes me through the days now.
Three years ago i went through a separation and mentally, i wasnt feeling well at all. i went from being a family man who got to spend every day with my beautiful daughter, to only getting to be with her every other week. the weeks my daughter lives with me i feel great! I sleep well, i look forward to coming home from work and picking her up from daycare, I'm just happier and overall more energized. but the weeks she stays with her mother, i am nothing but a shell of a man. I dont find joy in anything, i dont sleep and i kind of just drag myself through my lonely week. this is kind of weird because i have friends and family that i am close with, so i am not lonely in the sense that i dont have anybody. I find that while i am out riding my bike, my brain is too busy to think about how much i miss my daughter and how empty my home feels when she is not around. Does a motorcycle cure loneliness? no, but it redirects your focus and acts as an escape from your own mind, which makes life a little less painful, even if its just for an hour or two. I wrote this before finishing the video, so i dont know if i might be saying the same stuff you do in the video. i'll finish watching now :)
Also im 33 and only been in 2 and a half relationships ive been single for 10+ years , i have NO ISSUES being and spending time all alone , gotta love yourself first , you should be thr first one to lovr you the most and once this is done , spending time with your self is always a good time and easy , HOW I MANAGED to make it easier is that im a "leader" in the meaning that i like to do and go wherever i want and whenever .. but when with friends or in a group you gotta follow friends/groups and most of the time what the friends group want is not what i would of done yknow. EDIT: and when i am alone i can go WHERE TF FK I want whenever i want and i can do anytjing i want , eat anything i feel like . DO ALL THE THINGS YOU LIKE in one day . Let me tell ya life alone will get better , cause all us single/lonrly people got WAY MORE TIME to accomplish OUR OWN dreams and goals etc. 🖤 keep on going lonewolfs , being "alone" isnt bad at all 🐺🖤
@@chillwithkea i have discovered all of thia recently .. in my last 1-3 years .. when i hungout with friends i noticed i always wanted to do something else or go somewhere else.. i like to do and go where i want whenever i feel like it . And same apply's to all the previous things said . , see how i see it , find more things you love and fullfill your day so your saying when u get off the bike the problems come back , well as soon as you get off the bike go attend to something else u love , when im done riding i go take care of my dogs , then all my reptiles , my days are FULLFILL of things i love .. i dont have time to think abt anyproblems so i just solved them right away (when possible) Edit: i could talk about this for hours .. cause ive been thru every "stage" of alone or "lonely" but im now "content" being alone , im planning a trip to singapore soon ( all alone , will be an amazing experience and growth/learning experience , i wouldnt experience the same with a group of friends we would just go out and party)
@@Mxlch999 “As soon as you get off the bike go attend something else you love.” Wow I just got an ultimate life lesson here reading your message. I really appreciate you taking the time out. I’m definitely gonna take that advice for myself as well. It’s incredible the life lessons you learn from everyday challenges. You can be a victim or take accountability. Also, enjoy your trip!
@@chillwithkea i hope it helps you see your day to day differently and from my point of view , when u have so many things you love in this life (you even mentionned it in yiur videos theres so much to do) well fill your day full of these things to do.. nowadays i wish it had more than 24hrs in a day LOL i dont even have enough time to do all the things i love in a day 🤷🏻♂️😂🖤
It definitely gets your dopamine level high....... I dont hang with a big crowd like I used to ( girl drama) so riding keeps me satisfied. Great vid Kea.💖💖
you two should meet and ride together then? haha I trying to avoid loneliness is very related to trying to achieve happiness. Try to be content instead of chasing happiness. Try to be content instead of avoiding loneliness.
Everyone will experience true and utterly pure loneliness…don’t prolong it…the reality is everyone is lonely despite how much they try to show they are not…I found a community of lonely men in the motorcycle community and thts good enough for me
It’s takes you out of the loneliness for the moment..in the end I think it makes mr feel a little bit more lonely actually because I ride by myself and work on it by myself
I clicked on this expecting something different but wasn't disappointed you definitely earned a sub with yhis one. You're right tho because I got the cool car and been looking at bikes but none of that cures it, im not truly alone because ive got a great friendships but that want for a significant other is still there and honestly my biggest issue is just learning to be more patient in relationships. Also going to the movies alone isn't weird ive done it 3 times out of boredom lol
I definitely appreciate you watching and your support. Even though your biggest issue is being patient in relationships, you're aware of it and can build from there. And I agree about going to the movies alone isn't weird! lol You'd be surprised how many people are scared to go by themselves.
@@chillwithkea you're absolutely right, first step is being patient with myself. My recommendations have been on point lately I appreciate finding your content like I did (that UA-cam magic lol) I've seen top gun, alien Romulus and now transformers one all in theaters alone, all great movies I recommend them
First person I've come across that has understood that alone and lonely are such vastly different things. How being alone is a very healthy state of mind because you are able to simply be with yourself. I know far more people who can't stand being in their own company than those who can. If you wanna get jiggy with it, look at the word. Alone - all-one, one with the universe. Now tell me that ain't some psychedelic shit :>
@@chillwithkea Are you sure being alone is something one must find a way to be content with? To me it doesn't seem like something I need to work on feeling happy with. Alone to me is a state of healing and re-centering. Its a feeling of belonging to the world and the world belonging to you(in a non-narcississtic way).
@@Neeko90 great question. No I don’t thing people should be content with being alone. I think being alone has incredible benefits for the same reasons you listed. But being content with being alone and staying alone is not good. As human being that are sharing this beautiful world together, we should always be open to the idea of new relationships. Anything in excess is a liability. You need a healthy amount of being around and with people, being to yourself and trying all things. Being a long is great for healing. Loneliness is what you DON’T want to keep feeling on a consistent basis. That’s detrimental to your mental health.
62 married 35 yeara in loveless marriage. If i hadnt bought a wrecked 750 gsxr back in 2010 she still with me but shes got 01 1200 bandit s motor in the frame if i skiped the bike think i would checked out long time ago i feel alive when I'm on it.
@@chillwithkea Hopefully you find out your both compatible you know everything about each other. You don't find out later either one of have a vice. Gambling Sex Drug prescribed or street. A Horder That's my wife and you enjoy seeing being with each. Like when you come home to your dog It's always happy to see you. I kinda had heads up when dating my wife she was living with her parents in their house. It had a lot of stuff clutter in it. Sex she wasn't good at. At all but I thought We can work on that she had only one prior relationship. She loyal as hell. That's why I picked her. I'm still with her we have son who's has autism can't function around people he doesn't know lives at home with us. As I said my son her have the Horder gene. Beautiful,130 year old farm house I restored 25 years ago is a seen from Horder now .I live out back in my reto 1980 30' Kings Highway motorhome. The Brady Bunch of motor homes it's as neat as a pin. You can't predict how things are to turn out. Just gotta roll deal with it. There's 2 quotes I tell myself when I step on that fresh pile dog shit. Get pissed off that it happened. Brian it could be worse You could be in a Turkish prison. The other one goes. The past is ancient history. The future is just a mystery. Today. Is a Gift. That's why they call it the Present. Choose well and wisely .Peace brother.
I had a "teddy ruxpin". Later when I was about ten, I ripped the tapedeck outta that guy and used it to record my guitar and write songs. Solo is not so bad.
No, but it enhances the experience finding the most solitary places to contemplate and ponder I’ve realized you can’t escape self dissatisfaction but riding a motorcycle in the moment takes your mind off of it, maybe I’ll start a channel to help ease the anxiety….maybe
... In my case if the bike looks fantastic It really helps And the way you look on it.... Also making tons of pictures and videos about your bike Pictures of you on it videos of you on it..... And using your bike To spread a message Of whatever you're into
@@chillwithkea ua-cam.com/video/C7e1vmHdD6I/v-deo.htmlsi=cgOWE7oz1iYkM9pE Ksunemoto inspiring everyones , he did saves people from deppressing and loneliness..you should try ride at late midnight too, man..be safe and take care ❤️
I think motorcycle has some therapeutic properties. Having said that I fear the day of motorcycling are over because of goverment making them un-affordable. Maybe have to resort to cycling in the future. 😅 I am from 3rd world country, and currently have 110cc, 8.9 horsepower motorcycle without clutch. I wish to buy a clutched motorcycle very soon to master the art of riding motorcycles. In my country everybody uses motorcycle and it can be daunting to drive clutched motorcycle.
@ClickingAround There is incentive to reduce carbon emissions. We're pushed to use public transport. Currently there are rumors of increased fee of parking, required 3PL insurance, banning of ICE vehicles by 2050, etc. The current law is to have taxation for certain types of motorcycle, > 250cc motorcycle is taxed 60%, and > 500cc motorcycle is taxed 120%
I wouldn't go as far as "cure", but if I ran the FDA I'd approve them as "treatment". Besides - you get to meet so many awesome people when you're on one 😉
Love your attitude. I don't ride, but do you think motorcycles could help you find community through a shared interest? I hear people talk about how there's more comradery, how bikers wave at each other, etc. Plus meets and group rides. It sounds like a hobby through which you can cure loneliness, even more so than cars.
@@jonathandoe69 definitely appreciate that Jonathan! Motorcycles can 100% help with community and shared interest. He met one of my closest pals of 4 years now through motorcycling. Motorcycles brought us to meet but now we’re friends outside of motorcycles, if that makes sense. When a biker is on the side of the road, another bike will typically pull over no matter what style of bike they are riding. It’s a great community for sure.
The motorcycle always fixes the problem. Been riding since I was 10. I am 53. I am incomplete without a bike. Women lie. Bros lie. A motorcycle will give you back what you put in to it. Take care of it, you will ride for life.
Bought a bike the day after my girlfriend left me thinking it would just take away problems and it definitely takes all those thoughts away when youre on it but absolutely as soon as you get off that bike your problems are still there waiting never agreed with anything more in my life
Man 😂 you’re funny really. I am just laughing at your comment. I have a 2020 car600rr. I ride it everyday but feel the say way that you explained in your comment. Your problems come right back just when you get off the bike.😀😆😁🤣😄.
Grom - Just drop in to local shops Doesn't change much.......... I have a lot more fun making videos for UA-cam than driving the bike... Unwoke videos.... And then of course standing on corners next to my bike holding up signs To put a stop to the woke mind virus....
@@chillwithkea I don’t have, never have, but lately it’s been a tremendous itch to get one. I’m 48, just bored really and something inside says this will be a good healthy hobby.
@@chillwithkea I’ve been watching so many videos on mid sport bikes. They’re the most interesting to me. Although, even if I had the skills to ride a liter bike I don’t think I’d get one because it doesn’t seem practical for my needs. With that being said, I have my heart set on the CBR650R.
@@Sqippy You’re right though. It’s a very bad helmet. Cheek pads are loose from the factory, and noisy. I’m gonna upload a video soon of the new helmet
Came for the gsxr, stayed for the wisdom…Appreciate you sharing these things brother, be safe out there
@@yeeowster definitely appreciate your support brother. Likewise
You're not a psychiatrist, but the motorcycle is.
"Maaann I'm having a hard day"....'vroom vroom' ..."You're right motorcycle, life IS better in the fast lane!"
Yes.
Got my license almost 6 months ago, got my bike a month later.
Developed a certain level of confidence for the next month, went on a group ride.
Made and still making tons of friends.
If you go to a group ride and walk up to every person and say hello, they become friendly faces that are enthusiastic to see you the next time.
If you don't know what to talk about at the start (like I didnt), just ask what they ride and let them talk about their bike. Get to learn about bikes and watch someone talk about their pride and joy.
Definitely cures it for me.
I love this brotha. I agree with this for sure 💯
no i got back on a bike and im still as depressed, lonely, and autistic as ever. i can just go zoomies now.
@@scooter1748 stay up brother
I'm hoping one day all us autistic people can form our own world together. They will never except us being who we are. I think we see the world clearly it's normal people that have it wrong. I keep getting told to be myself but seriously the world doesn't except me being myself or the pretend version trying to please people.
@@chrishart8548 I appreciate you for being open about this. Personally, I always treat everyone the same but I still want to know, what are some ways that I can continue to ensure that I treat everyone, including people with Autism, the same?
Obviously you can't just be who you are. You have to conform to some norm. For example, do not shout in library just because you're autistic.
At least that is what I stereotyped of autistic people. I wish they have more have self control.
Having said that, training your social skills can be helpful to be more accepted in community. I said training because I believe it is a skill, not a talent.
Just speaking from personal experience, I was a very unconformist guy who learned some social skills. Hope you can thrive and get ahead in life... peace..
@@OneTwoFf "At least that is what I stereotyped of autistic people. I wish they have more have self control." is crazy. The Good Doctor was a mistake. 💀
this helped me man. im an 18 year old kid thats been obsessed with bikes for the past 3 years. i graduated this summer and have started working hard just to get one. one of the reasons is bcs of everything i have going on in my head. when im in my car going 100+ i forget everything as cringe as that sounds so i can only imagine what a bike could make me feel. youre right tho, all the bag of problems will be waiting for you right when you come back.
I definitely feel you on that man. When you get your bike, it will be hard to stay off of the throttle. Take it easy and respect the bike for sure
A bike for me was worth every penny. You have to respect the bike, though it's not like a car, they are called death machines for a reason. If you ride normal, they are probably safer than a car, though.
I really just wanted to recommend that you buy a used beginner bike rather than buying new or a big CC bike. Buying new for your first is a waste of money. Buying big is a steep learning curve. You can upgrade when you're ready, but if you don't start smart, it will take you longer to upgrade.
I spent three times more on my 390 Duke than my VFR. The VFR is king.
@@nonyabusiness4151 so true. Start with something nearing it's end and nothing flashy. Don't try to make a fashion statement with your first bike - you're going to embarrass yourself and waste money. If riding is for you then you won't care if your first bike and gear is trash you should be having an absolute blast.
I hope you don’t mind but I want to share a quick opinion. I haven’t had the best childhood. I have had to fight bullies and eventually isolated myself. I’m still much of a loner to this day.
Motorcycles saved my life! It has given me the confidence to actually make friends and meet new people. You have a point when you mention that you may regress into the feelings of loneliness when you aren’t in the bike. Keep this in mind; you still have the passion that you can talk with others about and still meet new people even when not currently riding.
It’s not a cure but it damn sure will get you through it
I had alot of problems coming to my way too. My ex-gf cheated on me, took my whole house, car, belongings and so on. We have 1 child together. Even though im his father, she won't let me see him on my own terms. I only see him 4 days a month. Took legal actions with my lawyer which already took 2 years of my life and it's still not settled. During that time, my dad had cancer and he passed away within 2 months after discovering it. Life has been harsh on me.. My soul kinda died and everything was unfair. However,
I never gave up, im fighting for custody for my kid. During these years i became a typical "heartbreak" gym warrior, and worked hard every day. Physically, im very fit now. It's like i'm taking my youth back. I also took motorcycle lessons and bought my first motorcycle, an Yamaha Tracer 900 GT from 2018. I'm having a blast on it. Like you said, driving a motorcycle doesn't cure the whole problem or situation, but it does help abit. I having a sense of freedom and slowly i'm turning my life into a better situation. I believe one day that everything going to be alright. But everytime i feel a little bit of sad or lonely, i just grab my bike and just drive where ever the winds take me. I know for a fact that at least my iron horse won't cheat on me.
@@ssjhai prayers for you brotha. Times like this are never easy to go through. I’m also sorry to hear about your father and your situation in general 🙏🏾
I am going to see a used motorcycle tomorrow, and the advices that you gave made me think about it, and it's something that I wanna try out and hopefully make friends with the bike
@@joaorafaelmachado5740 Major congrats on the new bike in advance! I’m glad that this advice helped brotha. Thanks for tuning in 💪🏾
Good lucky buddy and ride safe.
I needed this just had a small injury while riding my motorcycle but it made me realize how grateful I should have been before the accident. I’m learning so much and appreciating being alive.
@@johnnybriceno7481 I’ve been there before too. It sucks but like you said, it’s the best when it comes to being alive and staying appreciative. Get better soon man 💪🏾
@@chillwithkea Thank you bro means a lot 🙏
For me, motorcycles have been a crutch and I've gotten too far lost in the hobby. I have 3 bikes and for a few years now all I've thought about was the hobby, then suddenly I look up and I'm well into my 30s and still single. Lot of guys say that riding is therapy, but to me it's just escapism. To truly feel fulfilled you need to focus your energy directly on improving the areas of your life you're not happy with.
“To me it’s escapism”. Damn that’s deep brotha
You can also say that about video games. Thats what I did fir all these damn years sit and play videos game right after work and all weekend. Just a cycle of sitting home and wasting time. Now I'm almost 30 and just now starting to go out more especially going on ride outs with my bike to meet more people. I used video games to escape trauma and current in life situations.
At least it’s not meth. That’s escapism, I went through that. Functional addict.
Same here but there's so few things I've loved like riding I try not to beat myself up about it. You can say the same thing about gym culture. After a certain point it is escapism, not self improvement, and you're not single because you cant press two plates for reps.
@@ClickingAround I couldn’t agree more.
To me it can. I’m 28 with a fiancé and a 3 year old. I cut my bad influences out of my life over the last 6 years. I only have my parents, brothers and fiancé & kid in my life. But I do have a 17’ WR450 supermoto and an f80 m3. So when I get a little “lonely” I just wait for my girls to sleep and run out for a drive or ride. Helps me a lot and makes me not regret changing my life for the better. One day I’ll look for some friends with bikes etc but honestly I’m just focused on being a dad now. Works for me. May not for you.
@@F80mthree wow love this man. I’m 26 and married with no kids yet. This will be helpful for me when that time comes. Good to know that riding still helps as well
@@chillwithkeadefinitely does. Honestly we’re not old at all but we’re at the age where if we want to be successful long term like others we need to focus on ourselves and not others. That’s what pushes me through the days now.
Three years ago i went through a separation and mentally, i wasnt feeling well at all. i went from being a family man who got to spend every day with my beautiful daughter, to only getting to be with her every other week. the weeks my daughter lives with me i feel great! I sleep well, i look forward to coming home from work and picking her up from daycare, I'm just happier and overall more energized. but the weeks she stays with her mother, i am nothing but a shell of a man. I dont find joy in anything, i dont sleep and i kind of just drag myself through my lonely week.
this is kind of weird because i have friends and family that i am close with, so i am not lonely in the sense that i dont have anybody.
I find that while i am out riding my bike, my brain is too busy to think about how much i miss my daughter and how empty my home feels when she is not around.
Does a motorcycle cure loneliness? no, but it redirects your focus and acts as an escape from your own mind, which makes life a little less painful, even if its just for an hour or two.
I wrote this before finishing the video, so i dont know if i might be saying the same stuff you do in the video. i'll finish watching now :)
Also im 33 and only been in 2 and a half relationships ive been single for 10+ years , i have NO ISSUES being and spending time all alone , gotta love yourself first , you should be thr first one to lovr you the most and once this is done , spending time with your self is always a good time and easy , HOW I MANAGED to make it easier is that im a "leader" in the meaning that i like to do and go wherever i want and whenever .. but when with friends or in a group you gotta follow friends/groups and most of the time what the friends group want is not what i would of done yknow.
EDIT: and when i am alone i can go WHERE TF FK I want whenever i want and i can do anytjing i want , eat anything i feel like . DO ALL THE THINGS YOU LIKE in one day . Let me tell ya life alone will get better , cause all us single/lonrly people got WAY MORE TIME to accomplish OUR OWN dreams and goals etc. 🖤 keep on going lonewolfs , being "alone" isnt bad at all 🐺🖤
@@Mxlch999 wow I love this!! That’s what it’s all about 💪🏾🙏🏾💯
@@chillwithkea i have discovered all of thia recently .. in my last 1-3 years .. when i hungout with friends i noticed i always wanted to do something else or go somewhere else.. i like to do and go where i want whenever i feel like it . And same apply's to all the previous things said . , see how i see it , find more things you love and fullfill your day so your saying when u get off the bike the problems come back , well as soon as you get off the bike go attend to something else u love , when im done riding i go take care of my dogs , then all my reptiles , my days are FULLFILL of things i love .. i dont have time to think abt anyproblems so i just solved them right away (when possible)
Edit: i could talk about this for hours .. cause ive been thru every "stage" of alone or "lonely" but im now "content" being alone , im planning a trip to singapore soon ( all alone , will be an amazing experience and growth/learning experience , i wouldnt experience the same with a group of friends we would just go out and party)
@@Mxlch999 “As soon as you get off the bike go attend something else you love.” Wow I just got an ultimate life lesson here reading your message. I really appreciate you taking the time out. I’m definitely gonna take that advice for myself as well. It’s incredible the life lessons you learn from everyday challenges. You can be a victim or take accountability. Also, enjoy your trip!
@@chillwithkea i hope it helps you see your day to day differently and from my point of view , when u have so many things you love in this life (you even mentionned it in yiur videos theres so much to do) well fill your day full of these things to do.. nowadays i wish it had more than 24hrs in a day LOL i dont even have enough time to do all the things i love in a day 🤷🏻♂️😂🖤
@@chillwithkea anytime , if u wanna we can exchange a social to talk bikes and life , i alwaya love a good talk with fellow loner rider hahah
It definitely gets your dopamine level high....... I dont hang with a big crowd like I used to ( girl drama) so riding keeps me satisfied. Great vid Kea.💖💖
@@asiaboo1682 all facts! And I don’t blame you. I stay to myself when I ride a lot due to a crash happening so often in groups. Thanks! 💯
No one is ever truly lonely but it takes alil time to find urself but wen u do it will all change
@@jermaineogarro2124 absolutely 💯
hell nah, ive got a bike and im still lonely as shit dawg
I feel you on that my guy
you two should meet and ride together then? haha
I trying to avoid loneliness is very related to trying to achieve happiness. Try to be content instead of chasing happiness. Try to be content instead of avoiding loneliness.
I been enjoying my own company since the playpen bro. Parents just doing their thing, forgot about the baby for a while, meanwhile I'm just chillin.
Everyone will experience true and utterly pure loneliness…don’t prolong it…the reality is everyone is lonely despite how much they try to show they are not…I found a community of lonely men in the motorcycle community and thts good enough for me
I ride motorcycles too. But I love riding my bicycle more.
It’s takes you out of the loneliness for the moment..in the end I think it makes mr feel a little bit more lonely actually because I ride by myself and work on it by myself
@@ghuether0 that’s deep man
I clicked on this expecting something different but wasn't disappointed you definitely earned a sub with yhis one. You're right tho because I got the cool car and been looking at bikes but none of that cures it, im not truly alone because ive got a great friendships but that want for a significant other is still there and honestly my biggest issue is just learning to be more patient in relationships. Also going to the movies alone isn't weird ive done it 3 times out of boredom lol
I definitely appreciate you watching and your support. Even though your biggest issue is being patient in relationships, you're aware of it and can build from there. And I agree about going to the movies alone isn't weird! lol You'd be surprised how many people are scared to go by themselves.
@@chillwithkea you're absolutely right, first step is being patient with myself. My recommendations have been on point lately I appreciate finding your content like I did (that UA-cam magic lol) I've seen top gun, alien Romulus and now transformers one all in theaters alone, all great movies I recommend them
im not lonely im just alone
First person I've come across that has understood that alone and lonely are such vastly different things. How being alone is a very healthy state of mind because you are able to simply be with yourself. I know far more people who can't stand being in their own company than those who can. If you wanna get jiggy with it, look at the word. Alone - all-one, one with the universe. Now tell me that ain't some psychedelic shit :>
@@Neeko90 wow I love this. I’d have to agree for sure. Being a long and being content with that is the hardest for most people.
@@chillwithkea Are you sure being alone is something one must find a way to be content with? To me it doesn't seem like something I need to work on feeling happy with. Alone to me is a state of healing and re-centering. Its a feeling of belonging to the world and the world belonging to you(in a non-narcississtic way).
@@Neeko90 great question. No I don’t thing people should be content with being alone. I think being alone has incredible benefits for the same reasons you listed. But being content with being alone and staying alone is not good. As human being that are sharing this beautiful world together, we should always be open to the idea of new relationships. Anything in excess is a liability. You need a healthy amount of being around and with people, being to yourself and trying all things. Being a long is great for healing. Loneliness is what you DON’T want to keep feeling on a consistent basis. That’s detrimental to your mental health.
yea I agree it can calm loneliness
This was a great motovlog man!!
Thanks for your support brotha!
62 married 35 yeara in loveless marriage. If i hadnt bought a wrecked 750 gsxr back in 2010 she still with me but shes got 01 1200 bandit s motor in the frame if i skiped the bike think i would checked out long time ago i feel alive when I'm on it.
Wow 35 years. I’m glad that you bought the 750. Having the 1200 Bandit motor in it has to be dope. What advice can you give me on marriage?
@@chillwithkea Hopefully you find out your both compatible you know everything about each other. You don't find out later either one of have a vice. Gambling Sex Drug prescribed or street. A Horder That's my wife and you enjoy seeing being with each. Like when you come home to your dog It's always happy to see you. I kinda had heads up when dating my wife she was living with her parents in their house. It had a lot of stuff clutter in it. Sex she wasn't good at. At all but I thought We can work on that she had only one prior relationship. She loyal as hell. That's why I picked her. I'm still with her we have son who's has autism can't function around people he doesn't know lives at home with us. As I said my son her have the Horder gene. Beautiful,130 year old farm house I restored 25 years ago is a seen from Horder now .I live out back in my reto 1980 30' Kings Highway motorhome. The Brady Bunch of motor homes it's as neat as a pin. You can't predict how things are to turn out. Just gotta roll deal with it. There's 2 quotes I tell myself when I step on that fresh pile dog shit. Get pissed off that it happened. Brian it could be worse You could be in a Turkish prison. The other one goes. The past is ancient history. The future is just a mystery. Today. Is a Gift. That's why they call it the Present. Choose well and wisely .Peace brother.
I had a "teddy ruxpin".
Later when I was about ten, I ripped the tapedeck outta that guy and used it to record my guitar and write songs. Solo is not so bad.
Jesus Christ can cure loneliness!
@@Peyton-cw2tw amen! 🙏🏾
No, but it enhances the experience finding the most solitary places to contemplate and ponder
I’ve realized you can’t escape self dissatisfaction but riding a motorcycle in the moment takes your mind off of it, maybe I’ll start a channel to help ease the anxiety….maybe
@@Studmuf-Rockin wow this is the one! I might have to take that advice brotha
Yes it does!!
... In my case if the bike looks fantastic It really helps And the way you look on it.... Also making tons of pictures and videos about your bike Pictures of you on it videos of you on it..... And using your bike To spread a message Of whatever you're into
I ❤ riding my supermoto alone around 3:00am , its peaceful and mind freedom..inspired by Ksunemoto, believe me,man..its therapy
@@sixdays_26 love this brotha 💯
@@chillwithkea ua-cam.com/video/C7e1vmHdD6I/v-deo.htmlsi=cgOWE7oz1iYkM9pE Ksunemoto inspiring everyones , he did saves people from deppressing and loneliness..you should try ride at late midnight too, man..be safe and take care ❤️
I think motorcycle has some therapeutic properties. Having said that I fear the day of motorcycling are over because of goverment making them un-affordable. Maybe have to resort to cycling in the future. 😅
I am from 3rd world country, and currently have 110cc, 8.9 horsepower motorcycle without clutch. I wish to buy a clutched motorcycle very soon to master the art of riding motorcycles.
In my country everybody uses motorcycle and it can be daunting to drive clutched motorcycle.
@ClickingAround There is incentive to reduce carbon emissions. We're pushed to use public transport.
Currently there are rumors of increased fee of parking, required 3PL insurance, banning of ICE vehicles by 2050, etc.
The current law is to have taxation for certain types of motorcycle, > 250cc motorcycle is taxed 60%, and > 500cc motorcycle is taxed 120%
Loneliness is like a great curse, I feel happiness only when I take drugs..
Really loved that you talked about some serious topics🫡
@@something636-rr definitely appreciate it! That’s what it’s all about 💯
I wouldn't go as far as "cure", but if I ran the FDA I'd approve them as "treatment". Besides - you get to meet so many awesome people when you're on one 😉
Treatment, I like that! That’s very true, you meet a ton of cool people on bikes 💯
not really, i found out after buying a motorcycle. At least it feels good zooming though traffic
@@DiegoChulo69 100% agree
Love your attitude. I don't ride, but do you think motorcycles could help you find community through a shared interest? I hear people talk about how there's more comradery, how bikers wave at each other, etc. Plus meets and group rides. It sounds like a hobby through which you can cure loneliness, even more so than cars.
@@jonathandoe69 definitely appreciate that Jonathan! Motorcycles can 100% help with community and shared interest. He met one of my closest pals of 4 years now through motorcycling. Motorcycles brought us to meet but now we’re friends outside of motorcycles, if that makes sense. When a biker is on the side of the road, another bike will typically pull over no matter what style of bike they are riding. It’s a great community for sure.
Thanks for sharing brother
Ride safe
@@Zoro-R11 no problem brotha, thanks for your support. Likewise
yes
The motorcycle always fixes the problem. Been riding since I was 10. I am 53. I am incomplete without a bike. Women lie. Bros lie. A motorcycle will give you back what you put in to it. Take care of it, you will ride for life.
@@vincentmerkel2632 love this brotha
I don't care about loneliness. I'm content but I still want a bike. But I need a car first.
one step at a time, keep it up!
no , it can't . but yes , it can
@@HigherRPMs basically lol
happy birthday bro
@@synargy460 definitely appreciate you! 💯
You sound like that one guy from Family Guy who wears a vest, wears an earring, and has a mustache.
Great topic
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Update I bought the Ducati sport classic
Congrats!! How do you like it!?
@@chillwithkea needs work I’m doing a rebuild series on my yt but I’m waiting on parts
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Bought a bike the day after my girlfriend left me thinking it would just take away problems and it definitely takes all those thoughts away when youre on it but absolutely as soon as you get off that bike your problems are still there waiting never agreed with anything more in my life
Man 😂 you’re funny really. I am just laughing at your comment. I have a 2020 car600rr. I ride it everyday but feel the say way that you explained in your comment. Your problems come right back just when you get off the bike.😀😆😁🤣😄.
No it doesn't, just helps to go out but once you are back home it comes back around
100% agreed brother
I’m gonna tell you rn the only cure for loneliness is a Ducati sport classic is the answer recreate the tron legacy with the shawty trust
@@officialthet I’d love to have that bike
@@chillwithkea
Me too man I’ll buy one 1 day
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No, but riding it to the casino and gambling will, so yes.
Talk about a good time lol
nah these algorithms are starting to scare me a little.
@@cxwrld ha why you say that?
Nope!!!
Awwww yyeeaaah 🤘🤙
@@FlannelGuyFive you already know 💪🏾💯
@@chillwithkea great words spoken in this vid brotha 🤙
@@FlannelGuyFive definitely appreciate it man, just trying to help 💪🏾
Suscribed!!
@@ManuBrightside thanks for your support! 💯
@@chillwithkea thanks bro! You’re motivating me to get my first sportbike
Grom - Just drop in to local shops Doesn't change much.......... I have a lot more fun making videos for UA-cam than driving the bike... Unwoke videos.... And then of course standing on corners next to my bike holding up signs To put a stop to the woke mind virus....
So the answer is to never get off the motorcycle. Got it
@@American_Devil ha pretty much
@@chillwithkea I don’t have, never have, but lately it’s been a tremendous itch to get one. I’m 48, just bored really and something inside says this will be a good healthy hobby.
@@American_Devil I definitely agree. It’s a great hobby and will help take your mind off of things. You know what kind of motorcycle you would want?
@@chillwithkea I’ve been watching so many videos on mid sport bikes. They’re the most interesting to me. Although, even if I had the skills to ride a liter bike I don’t think I’d get one because it doesn’t seem practical for my needs. With that being said, I have my heart set on the CBR650R.
Not with a Ruroc it won't
@@Sqippy wait until you see my new helmet lol
@@chillwithkea yes please anything but the Ruroc. Idk why I just hate it
@@Sqippy You’re right though. It’s a very bad helmet. Cheek pads are loose from the factory, and noisy. I’m gonna upload a video soon of the new helmet
Not a therapist or a psychiatrist, but you sound like one hell of a dude to have in your corner.
@@TheStonedAge Wow I definitely appreciate that man. I just try to make the world a better place with these videos
Oh yeahhhh better believe it does
Definitely doesn't. I've owned 8 motorcycles. I am a lonely mfer. It doesn't hurt. But it definitely doesn't cure loneliness.
Wow 8 motorcycles. That’s definitely wassup! And all facts brotha.
Gen 1 Ninja 250, GSXR600, CBR900,
Gen 2 Ninja 250, Ninja 636, DRZ400SM, Honda Grom, and currently ride Gen 1 Street Triple R675
yes