how WOMEN emasculate men in relationships making her DRY for you (dark SEDUCTION revealed)
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Your entire video is an argument against wanting to attract women in the first place.
Thanks for teaching. Another excellent lesson.
This 20 year old supermodel blondie has been chasing me sayin she has only been with 2 guys then she talks about beating other women, cursing. Sadly she has had a bad childhood -- abusive mom, dad passed away, I talk about mom sisters family to get her in my frame. She sometimes orders me to buy her stuff. I stay in my gentleman frame, I tell her to do tasks with mom sisters to learn how to act in my presence and family. Her sisters are now approaching me too. Its sad how desperate American girls are for a gentleman to teach them manners etiquettes.
youre very smart casey, keep up the good work and vids coming. youre basically spot on with almost all of your points.
Can you say how to become an alpha male
I was at a party this weekend and a woman asked my girlfriend if she could introduce me to her. My girlfriends sexual interest went off the charts 😂
Had an ex that was into that kind of drama, one time I went to the gym with her and talked with a few women that are regulars at that gym about the exercise they were doing and form they display while doing that exercise, I have to say that my ex that wasn't touchy feely in public started touch WAAAAAAY MORE often after that occasion.
But I felt her interest going down steady when I didn't played those type of "games", and for that and her overall lack of comprehension of my needs, I have decided to finish it all for the lack of everything that a gf stands for.
You know what, this is amazing
If I’m feeling like spicing up my relationship I’ll get some random girl to do this, this is gold
Competition anxiety my friend lol
Every time I ignore Casey advice deeming them nonsense ""red pill" and start to be nice, loving, caring and spending quality time, chivalrous, and lavishing gifts, I got punished severely. So now I'm going full force using Casey advice and m winning.
Noo don’t fall for the advice its how to get with someone who doesn’t want u
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@TheAngelChristine unfortunately I really went through all the steps shown in the video. I knew Casey before starting to talk with this girl. She started to talk to me and also had a lot of initiative as I didn't show that much interesting at the beginning. Then I felt that I should give a little more attention, followed by opening myself more and creating routines. Final result: she went from a 10/10 interest till a probably 3 or 4 right now.
Anyway, I think this type of attraction is not the better one, but it is the one that will work the best with modern women. On first stages you'll find which type of woman she is, but I coped so now I'm paying the price
This makes me think: What if you WANT her to leave you? Then you should act super needy and lovinig. Voila mission accomplished!
But then u have to let her walk away thinking less of u. Good last resort tho
Yup..just do the opposite..lolol. I tested this. It works. Just start whining about stuff..lol
Yup I told a young woman on a date that I was having a great time with excitement and happiness on my face.. You should have seen her face change to total disgust
Wait, does this seriously work? Does it make woman not want me?
@@maxstrike3022 According to the influencers, the best way to get rid of a GF is to constantly hug her and give her compliments.
This guy is dropping knowledge that should be taught at a University course. He's leveled up his content and delivery for sure. My only question Casey is why you are not making guest appearances on other podcasts, not necessarily redpill but get your name out there this knowledge is saving lives.
Now brother you know damn good and well these communist, feminist ridden universities won’t teach men gold like this 😂😂
I agree his last 25 or so videos have been straight up nuts. One thing I'd like him to give his opinion on is how dynamics with women change when women are either baby hungry or just had kids with a guy.
Bro. University is a game worse than the women playing this illusion. It's not there to make you successful, but a programmed slave to the man
These are teachings for the chosen few. Hoes still need the Betas for retirement and to raise our Alpha kids
This will never be taught by the communist backed universities and corporations. Its up to private commerce to reveal this info
After 35 years of dealing with women in marriage, girlfriends and just general friendships..............everything in this video is DEAD ON 100% TRUE!!!!!!!!!!! KUDOS TO YOU MR. ZANDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The golden age of youtube.
Attraction happens in the time spent apart. A girl should feel a steady amount of anxiety about what the hell you are up to when she isn't with you. Let her see your social media posts of you doing interesting shit and staying healthy and busy without her. Let her see the other women publicly commenting on your profile. They will only behave when they know they can and will be replaced and they know you will be more than fine without her. Great video once again Casey.
Putting all that effort into playing all those games just to attract women is next level simping
I don't care what the animals think about me. I'd rather pay a hooker than be in a relationship nowadays.
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449makes you really wonder how thirsty we truly are for some P that other men had. Like what on earth is wrong with us?
Looks like a womanizer who isn't serious, good way to get dumped guy 🤣 u just like causing toxic arguments so YOU can feel validated that she still likes u 🙄 _"OMG WHO'S THAAAAT CHICK HUH!?"_
Jelousy = she likes me crap
And u guys complain about toxic chicks? 🤨 really dude ? 🤣
@daviedood2503 bro, GOD blessed you with a brain, but unfortunately, you don't use it. If it was that simple, do you think channels like this would have a huge audience or a large following? Don't get a brain aneurysm from reading this, I think it would be too hard for you to comprehend
I've had partners that used sex to manipulate me, or reward me, for being a "good boy," doing her bidding. She also used sex to draw me in, con me into cohabitation... She played me like a piano... when sex became an emotional tool for her, I figured out it was time to leave. It was just too weird.
Yes, and in fact this is how about 85% or more of most of them actually are. They are literal "Succubi" and I will tell you the secret reason why. The majority of them are not visual. Women who are not visual, inevitably will end up using Sex as a Weapon to control and manipulate a guy. Only visual Women have honest sex drives and will want the sex as much as the guy does, provided the attraction is there and mutual, because she will not see sex as "doing a favor for the guy" since she will want it as much as he does and as the sex would be for mutual pleasure and sharing. Most sex that goes on today is not about pleasure or sharing whatsoever. It's a selfish act, and used to gain power, control, drugs, favors, or to help her feel better about herself / validation. I recently wrote a new article on this specific subject of what happened to you and how to identify and avoid such situations. My link is under my profile here on YT, very sorry to hear what happened to you. In my writings, I explain why they do these things and the warning signs to look for.
Wowww😮😮
It sounds like that girl didn’t care or like you that much. It sounds like she wasn’t crazy about having sex like that with you compared to you to her too. I don’t understand how a guy can want to have sex with me when we are on bad terms. I’m so turned off if I’m unhappy. Maybe your relationship was too based on sexual stuff ? (For you) or you’re a really sexual guy and that’s what you wanted from her.
They pretty much all use sex as a weapon or as bait and use it to control you in one direction or another - carrot and the stick.
i turned women down for sex before and they were like, how is this guy able to do that...wow....no way! its that powerful.
Did that to a hot blonde then I called her boyfriend to tell him to get a grip on the situation. She called me 2 days later with..."why did you have to tell him?"
@@johntim3491Banging her would not match the satisfaction you got from doing that.
@@johntim3491 I say introduce her boyfriend to Casey #MBT, do not tell him his girl belongs to the streets, unless you guys are friends. You dont know her reasons -- maybe boyfriend is abusive or maybe she is abusive. If she breaks up with him if you like her go get her.
Cause she's for the streets
I did this in Thailand with a German girl recently. Should’ve seen the look on her face
This dude says some really really good stuff. This is how I lost my 2 yr relationship. By basically being weak and reactive. It’s never too late to learn
Somebody has to teach you to not be weak????
@@kocs98in todays world unfortunately you do. Weakness is rewarded
In other words, dont chase her,dont say you love her and every time she asks a question don’t answer. If she is looking for permission to do something the answer is NO.
Got it.😂👍
What you describe is only how you fake it.
A woman can feel you love her even if you don't say it.
And she can feel you don't even if you say it.
To me it all comes down to an inner work on your emotions. As it exists a physical training helping you to strenghten your body,
There is an inner training helping you to be free from your emotions and to strenghten your will. Of course being witty, socially calibrated, etc, helps, but I believe this is the most important discipline to have...
The solution is to not get attached to a chick or anyone or anything that you're going to inevitably lose at some point, plain and simple
You will get attached no matter how much u resist just be masculine
If you’re not attached why care about getting their attraction in the first place
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449cognitive dissonance. They can’t have a woman of real substance so they play these games with immature women
you can only resist attachement if you have other options going on parallely@@bigbear-pp5on
@@bigbear-pp5on Exactly. Attraction and such is kind of like drinking, @oscargonza2748 -- we can enjoy it, but we have to have our wits about us and not get shit-faced on love every day..
I am almost 60. Where were you when I was a younger man, Casey? You have a deep insight and wisdom it's taken me a lifetime to learn. All young men need to hear what you have to say.
God barely started to pour His Wisdom and Knowledge onto His Children very recently, that’s why you all didn’t have this information before. The Dam is Breaking and Humanity will soon KNOW ALL
@@Imcarlosmontana Excellent Comment and such the truth! We're only in the very beginning stages of it.
@@prussiansocietyofamerica Correct. God Bless You My Brother in Christ 🙏🏼
@@ImcarlosmontanaYep. Waiting for the end of the Matriarchal system completely. Corporatism has to go.
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Conclusion: do not desire, hold hands and show affection to psychopaths, be mysterious and not boring - psychopaths don't like it. Follow this + 67 other steps - and the psychopaths MAY sleep with you. Be disciplined young men.
Have u thought about the significant increments in psychopathic and narcissistic behavior in today’s society? U come off massively outdated on the dynamics of the current dating market of 18-29+. Perhaps u date seniors.
Putting all that effort into playing all those games just to attract women is next level simping
@@Mrjunkyarddog44 No I'm not outdated. Only psychopaths screen other human beings this much and you know it - and then people like u label it as "female nature". Clown.
@@Mrjunkyarddog44no he just speaks facts. It's always been there but the Internet allows it to be shared on a massive scale. It's seen more is all.
It's just pathetic not to hold a chicks hand bc of XYZ don't say she's pretty bc ABC reasons etc 🙄
@@Mrjunkyarddog44 They're control freaks - can't handle rejection - want to be loved and admired - uses s3x to get what they want or withhold it to punish bad behavior - never satisfied - shallow - treat higher status powerful people better than others - uses warpaint to cover who they actually are - manipulation experts - competitive 24-7 and jealous. All the ingredients for psychopaths .
If you manage to get into a relationship with a gyal, the main question that will go through their heads 24/7 is: Is he the best I can do?
For those of us who have turned into every one of the last say 30 videos and watched them all beginning to end, but have ALSO been out in the field making every mistake you have outlined for years on end, it's hard to express in words how accurate and relatable every one of these videos is and it's basically magic how all of this stuff ends up fitting together like God damn puzzle pieces. I've started utilizing all of this stuff after you've gone on this GOAT tear and I've immediately seen dramatic improvements in results
Curious, what different results are you seeing?
@@gregh2880 so before, I was having a ton of one-and-done first dates where I would never see the girl ever again. Now, on first dates they've consistently been ending in make outs or blow jobs and the girls are down to hang out 2nd and 3rd and 4th times etc all the way to sex. Also, I've gotten to the point where I'm pretty consistently leaving with women from clubs/bars/concerts where before I would just grab numbers and then get invariably ghosted
@@gregh2880 now that it's been a couple weeks, want to add more: chicks are now texting me first, trying to work out plans to see me, and I even had a girl buy a sexy new set of red lingerie to wear when coming to see me...which is something casey had mentioned in one of his past vids. Shit is crazy how this stuff actually starts playing out once these principles are applied
@@gregh2880 genuine interest and respect
Well said!!! Agreed!!!
This guy has single-handedly saved my relationship. I have been watching him for about a year and I've learned so much from. It was crazy as that I'm not even bad with women, I consider myself somewhat to be good with women I'm a moderately attractive guy but we all have our struggles. Thank you so much!!
Can we take a moment to show Casey some appreciation 👏
I've been missing for 3 months…
I've just started posting videos on my UA-cam channel again.
Thank you for supporting my journey.
We got this men.
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This rang a bell in my head. Every relationship I've been in that lasted a long time I was genuinely not interested in the girl. Imagine how amazing it would be to apply these rules to a relationship with a woman you actually want.
It goes both ways, i always dis my best for a guy, wanted always make him know how much I loved and in the end, he cheated on me. I
Men, NEVER argue with a woman, because if you do, you've already lost the fight. How, because all things are within a football field of emotions, and goal posts will be changing all over the place. How to defeat a woman in an argument, shut the fuck up, let her finish, ask, Are you Done Yet? Now walk away in silence. Now it's time to use the logical mind, and seriously study Stoicism. Again, Thanks Casey and to all the guys on this platform.
Will that lead to sex How and when?
1000% accurate. Weak men will make excuses that this isnt true.....youll be back to watch this video when your relationship crumbles due to you pitting her on a pedestal
At my wedding I'll make sure hate and despise is used instead of love and cherish.
This dude NEVER miss… spot on……
Hard to tell who is dressed as a Witch And who is a regular lady This halloween day🧙🏼♀️
They all witches... Just haven't magically "poofed" into existence yet 😂😂😂
"She doesn't need a hat,or a broom.If she embodies the idea."
Dude I'm workin in bars... They are hardly wearing anythin.
Have a nap and tomorrow will be clearer
Never hard to tell
I wish someone would have told me this years ago. I wasted so much time over committing to women that would like you said lose interest almost overnight. The most consistent sex I had was with a girl I went to HS with that I wasn't really that into. She would want to have sex with me any time I was around her, begging me to come over. I developed the masculine frame naturally after all of these shitty relationships & I was shocked at how women view me, approach me, because I don't act like the 100 other guys that fall head over heels and become sold after knowing a girl for 2 weeks.
Any time a woman uses intimacy as a weapon / leverage, it's time to leave. The relationship is done. Don't tolerate the disrespect.
Man, this video really struck me hard. I’m in a relationship with my girlfriend for three months and as soon as I committed to her three weeks ago, things have felt a little bit uncertain. We have been having s3x Generally with the same frequency however, I seem to be the one initiating it more often. Also, with text messaging, she seems to be more distant and not as affectionate. I still think this relationship can be saved, and what I’m going to do, is pull back and match her energy with similar disinterest and start dating other women to keep myself occupied. It’s unfortunate that Casey is right that we are being punished for good behavior and giving the woman exactly what she wants but once women get what they want, they lose interest then they move onto the next guy and the cycle repeats itself. It’s such a sick demented mentality but you can’t change what is ingrained into their DNA?
It's not in their DNA .... it's not nature's judgement on you so relax. It's her personality disorder. Read NPD and BPD and tick all the boxes of diagnostic criteria....entitlement/lack of empathy/lack of responsibility/need for attention/need for stimulation/chasing status/dysfunctional personal relationships etc. etc. Cure..... Don't play .... at all. Your work is finally not being a moth attracted to fire.
Good luck brother, you got this
@@johntim3491 Thanks john tim. That is what I suspected.
She sounds like some two-a-penny idiot. I would move on to other things, including dating other women, and use this girl as a pump and dump, if anything at all.
Not punished for good behavior - she is just using you and it’s becoming apparent
About the keeping her wondering about you, in my opinion the explanation is darker than what Casey said. I believe that they get more attracted because it makes them think of you, this builds neurons in her brain, the more she wonder and thinks of you. This makes her invest interest in you without even realising. It becomes in her subconscious.
You might be right. I got really attached to a girl in the past and I was even having dreams about her and thinking about her 24/7, crazy stuff
Ding ding ding.... always make them invest in whatever way possible
Unconscious. There are three mind layers: Conscious, Subconscious and Unconscious.
I've personally seen all of these dynamics play out in real life. I am extremely fortunate to have an older sister + i saw these behaviors early on (i was sleeping with multiple chicks weekly at age 17-18) and i can guarantee this is all true. All of it. Casey is a boss for letting it out and potentially sacrificing his own reputation by telling these inherent truths to the public. The masses really do not like this type of content, but it is becoming more and more necessary as the days go on. Bravo Casey.
What a concise and great post.
This coming from a 58 year old man that’s been through ALL their games and BS.
"i was sleeping with multiple chicks weekly at age 17-18" 🤣😂🤣
Same I caught on early because of listening to my sister, mum and aunty have these conversations about how they were with men. The only girls who came back after a breakup were the ones that knew I was cheating.
@@chilledchadwas your behavior different with the girls who came back vs the girls who didn’t (apart from the cheating)
@@forgetaboutit192 you dont have to believe me boss lol, i could care less. my notch count speaks for itself. High school was crazy times.
this guy is so right. it's not that the woman doesnt like you anymore necessarily, it's more that the dopamine/emotional hit that she used to get from your attention lessens with time.
then unfortunately, women can't help it if they suddenly start craving that new excitement/dopamine hit from a new guy. This isn't even for just people in romantic entanglements, but friendships as well. Girls/women can't seem to help the fact that they even push pull with male and female friends as well.
Emotional interest is not the same as Genuine Attraction and interest for someone. The Former is always temporary, only the Latter is lasting.
this stuff is a serious eye opener!! I have been dealing with my marriage so wrong for so long!!!! This is one hell of a learning experience in learning women behaviour
This guy does a great job But if you can genuinely not care, realize pretty women are all over. As you get older you realize how interchangable they really are. Focus on your fitness and your goals and purpose, you wont have any of these problems. Being indifferent and willing to walk away, is a super power in relationships
Ive been following this guys advice and at first it blew up in my face but slowy ive been noticing she has become more level minded but guys please dont ever let any women catch you slipping i rather be a tyrone than a simp.
Casey is spitting truth...Focus on yourself, Levelled up, cool, confident, masculine, nobody's fool, get on with your own life, your own Man...enjoy it
It’s amazing that my ex lady stayed with me for as long as she did. I broke every rule. It feels good to know that I was doing everything wrong. Means there’s room for improvement
so after 15 years i still have to ignore her , what a way to live
Unbeliveable, yes.
Me and my ex broke up after our daughter passed......never, NEVER cry in front of your wife or girlfriend. Your relationship will not recover.
Thats a tragic man. Im sorry for your lose
Sorry to hear about your daughter. Losing a child is extremely traumatic and could be the reason for separation as it’s very difficult to cope with. There’s nothing wrong with crying in front of your woman though, especially when it comes to traumatic situations like this, it’s normal and expected. I personally know two couples who lost children, they’ve been through a lot and have seen each other in their lowest, they’re still together and have more compassion and respect for each other from my observation.
@@minntzu I'm not a crier. 8 years together and I think that's what broke the camels back.
@@brianc9374 Idk man losing a child can destroy a relationship. Personally, I had a 6-month-long relationship die because she got pregnant and decided to have an abortion. Never cried in front of her but she said she couldn't continue being around me because it brought back a lot of painful memories and guilt.
On the flip side, I bawled my eyes out while on stage giving a speech for my aunt's funeral, while my old girlfriend was in the audience. She was still crazy about me after that and I actually ended the relationship because I didn't see myself having a family with her.
The point is, be careful with hard and fast rules from people who don't know anything about your life. You should be aware that it's a possibility that a woman will leave you if you show emotion.
But in my opinion, who fucking cares. I don't live my life to please women or appease their nature.
Sorry man,you loved your daughter that was why you cried; you wife show-casing ill attitude just because you cried for the lose of your daughter( a human being ) shows she is the devil's incarnate and shouldn't be in your life. Peace.
I thought the video I saw about 2 weeks ago was your best work but after your disclaimer and me hearing key points married men make this is “Now” your best work “Ever”! Rock on Casey. 🙌🏿
If she does this, do yourself a favor and wave goodbye. A long-term relationship cannot exist with an endless loop of short-term relationship games, nor should she test you once committed. That is her loss, and a guaranteed groundhog day existence.
Right , can't play mindgames whole life
Great comment. If she starts to play games, bye, if she uses s3x as a weapon, bye. We don't have time for female nonsense because they can't understand normal thinking...
Everything you said on this video I have went through and it’s unbelievably true. I need to keep hearing the things Casey says because he has 💯 facts in all his videos. Thanks for putting time to help us guys who are unaware of these things about women. I got emasculated for past 13 years and I kept making sane mistakes. Sex withholding for long time and nasty towards me( only me) wish I could talk to Casey one on one
Casey , what you're teaching is leveling the playing field , actually re-installing the Male's level of power to the advantage, BRAVO!!!
its really frightening to see what a cruel place life is.
As a nearly 60 year old man I wholeheartedly endorse this young man's content. But keep in mind that "exiting" in this context for married men often manifests itself as a dead bedroom or duty sex, not necessarily actually leaving the relationship.
your generation had to sacrifice themselves for us to learn this. Since women started exposing themselves bigtime
Thank you Casey for reinforcing what I doubted, and helping me sleep at night. I can now forensically spot all my mistakes which in itself is very euphoric. Yes, euphoric. It’s far more traumatic to be dumped and not know the reason why, and here all the reasons are presented in a few of your whiteboard vids. Can’t thank you enough. I sort of knew this knowledge before from watching rsd Tyler’s “the blueprint” but those guys would really drag it out… Better than nothing I guess … This summer I started doubting it because I found being bluepilled/naive and have a few girls lined up to get me halfway there, but then I focused on just her… bored her by becoming predictable. I learned the hard way that if you want to be with a hot girl “out of your league” for longer than the summer, you have to be so so solid and never forget that the game is ongoing and if anything gets a little harder as you can’t do it over text anymore 😅
Dude, I dont even know how to thank you. You just explained in full detail why my last relationship was bound to fail. I understand now so clearly what went wrong. Attraction disappeared because I was too predictable, spending too much time with only her and getting into her frame. It makes so much sense. Thank you, thank you. This video is gold.
I must say this is genius. Tested on my own life scenarios
If I even get a hint of combative behavior, I politely show them the door and tell them to enjoy the day. Case closed.
ME too.
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You’re a genius in this department for real Casey
They decrease the sex then beg for you to spend more time. Then when you spend time your just sitting there insanely bored dreaming of the next time you’ll get some buns. It will make you absolutely miserable. My ex use to crack jokes about how I’m not getting any tonight. I use to try to play it cool like her jokes didnt affect me but it was absolutely killing me on the inside. Then she would always say why don’t I open up to her. This ish is deep. Absolutely insane
Should’ve confronted her about those “jokes”, maybe she wouldn’t be an ex if you communicated problems openly and worked on solving them
She views you as a guy incapable of getting sex outside your relationship. Always keep options and side pieces. She must always have the fear of you smashing other women. In social settings, go joke with other hotter women and tease them infront of her or just strike funny and cocky conversations with other attractive women so she knows your ability to hook up with other ladies. Also, tell her you want to go boys trip to DR or Spain or Vegas or Thailand. Be direct and assertive.
@minntzu. Nice try.
I would have literally gone out and had sex with another chick right then and texted her after to tell her she was wrong lol this only happens when they know that you don’t have p*ssy one phone call away. Competition anxiety keeps them loyal.
Shoulda put ur foot down
When i wasnt interested, sex was there all the time. I then committed and was punished for good behavior. Exactly. This is whats happening to me. Inverse relationship makes Jack a dull boy.
Don’t get angry… 😂 Jealousy is an extension of the Ego. If you treasure your freedom, respect hers in the same manner. 🙏😊
100% correct. Been married since '98. People always ask how I do it lol. Listen to this man right here. Daily work to not give 100% of ur self only 80 to 90% cuz u need 20% of self to walk away. Be happy 1st not make everyone else happy 1st. Get comfortable being called "azzhole" while everyone's way nicer now
Truth. Wish I knew that years ago
the man we've all needed for ages
Casey i understand what yoiur saying your basically saying Don't be a simp, for women. I agree i have found the right woman where I don't have to do any of this stuff why you may ask, ??? . when you meet the right woman , you really don't have to work hard and put too much effort in , not because your not bothered its beacuse you are both suited to one another, it just works naturally without simping.
Can we just safely assume that women are hardwired to shoot themselves in the foot and then blame men for the outcome ?
Oh he spits nothing but FACTS! I learned this in my mid 20s. Once you learn this and you know how to act around a woman, how to treat a woman… you can have as many of them as you want. You can make them do whatever you want lol. It’s pretty awesome!
I’m shaking my head 🤦♀️
Dude is going unconscious and spitting facts
This is exactly why marriage jokes exist. We let it happen by just wanting to please them and not piss them off. Such a mistake.
When Casey speaks on you watching your relevance in her life systemically decline until she figures the inner you out and rejects you on every level, this is all facts… I’ve lived this and I surmise many of us have shared this same reality of diminishing affection by our women. Leading me to question myself, my actions and romantic love itself .
Out of all the forms of love, romantic love is the verbal business agreement of them all, I.e the weakest link. I refer to it as “Strong like” . As far as I’ve researched, “true love” is unwavering and unconditional. Romantic love isn’t . Keep sharing this very necessary knowledge Mr Zander 🙏🏾
“Falling in love is an organic biological psychosis the purpose of which is to keep two individuals long enough together to guarantee pregnancy to happen and for the care of the child long enough for the child to survive. - Franco (psychologist)
Anything else we attribute to “love” beyond this biological process is our own societal programming/Disney fairytale wishes and idealistic brainwashing. It’s taking me a long time to accept this and keep things in proper perspective. We are animals operating in our own self created delusions in a way. Love is and feels great and we all want it. But we need to keep our heads around what’s going on and why. Otherwise it can potentially destroy us.
Casey Z. is truly gifted by the Most High to be a light to men trapped in darkness. Keep him in your prayers. This is a good dude!!!!
This is gold. I discovered this over a 12 year relationship. Heed this, young men.
Just got dumped. 12 year long relationship. At the end she said I was more like a brother to her. I didn’t get it but I get it now. I lost myself and I lost my masculinity in the process so she kept being less and less attracted to me
Basically the repeated theme is women only love what you give not you
Neediness is a turnoff in any relationship.
Casey, youre content is turning me into a heartbreaker. Its so easy. So fucking easy. But is this what my soul wants?
No but it’s what ya heart needs
11:25 discussing sex dropping after getting into a committed relationship. True. But keep in mind both parties lose enthusiasm for sex as kids and further responsibilities come along. But I agree with the general theme. As for dead bedrooms, oh boy they are everywhere and its very sad
Under this guy’s theory, you should never show any interest, never try and kiss them, never initiate holding her hand, never have a routine, and never do anything nice for a girl. My wife left me because I did exactly this. I was a workaholic who didn’t show enough interest, didn’t spend enough time with my wife and never initiated sex. The lesson is there is a happy medium between being completely aloof and being an utter simp. You absolutely do have to be nice, kind, show interest and make your lady feel special…BUT as a guy you have to make sure to have your own life independent of hers, and never put up with her shit tests and tantrums. That is the compromise that works.
The youtuber’s advice only works if you are extra high value. Otherwise you need to give someone to a girl.
How did you manage to marry her? By only working? Or you were doing something else on start of relationship, right?
And it's not about never initiate. You as a man should take whatever you want whenever you want. But not because "ooohh I sooo love you and want to be with only you my whole life", but because I'm a man and I want THIS, NOW.
@@troobix_s When we met we clicked instantly, similar backgrounds, super compatible personalities, we became instant best friends. But she was very emotionally needy and I was laser business focused and those two factors pulled us apart. Now I wish I had less money and her in my life...but on to wife #2 I guess!
@@Chestrkwll1 okay, good luck! Don't make the same mistakes, bro.
Part about saying No being like a dad is so spot on. This is so deep
It’s true, going through this right now, she completely changed
Bro is firing one video a day now. Casey in beast mode.
Omg your a genius. I tried your techniques and I have to say, implemented correctly and consistently, they have literally worked for me. Been married 28 years. And I got her back like we just met.
I unironically feel like I’m the one showing this behaviour with my girlfriend. I’m the one who gets bored easily, I’m the one who’s arousal dwindles after more time spent and I’m the one who starts to act disinterested and rude
And that's why she's still with you. If you start behaving perfectly it will be over.
I can't really blow her mind in bed when my arousal is gone lol. It would definitely not be over. You're oversimplifying things.@@adamman8874
Salute to this man..... He has completely turned the tables round....... I feel completely different with my GF now since last 2 days.......
3.5+ years and shes gone dry the last 6 months. So because shes gone dry for me, im dating two different women who are super wet for me. Her loss. Not mine.
Had this guy been staying in India.... I would had traveled in train to meet him personaly to gift him flowers to bring prosperity in my deserted life... Tysm........
Thanks Casey. Gaining alll this knowledge on the game has helped immensely with correcting my nice guy patterns and learning what to do to counteract these interest tests. And you making eye contact with the screen makes it feel like your a big brother or older homie i never had there to keep my head up and not get down over these survival creatures known as women.. means alot to my mental health man. So i just like to say thanks again bro, you deserve big props for what you're doing with your channel and mbt
“It will bend the reality of your mind” 😅 Nothing but FACTS
Your knowledge level is way above most Psychology Professors in the universities.
A woman never exited my life. They just had behavior after a while and I had to get rid of her
Casey is a relationship jedi master
i like my tranquillity and my routine, i love enjoy free time with no drama and no lies. the more i dive into your channel the more i realize that i don't want to deal with any of that, is not that one is not capable, is really that i don't want to, its stupid.
You young guys out here today NEED TO LISTEN to my man right HERE!!! I'm 55ys old, never in my day did I know anything about this female nature shit, but I lived through it, and I have to say, If ya'll can't learn anything from this young brother, yes, I'm a black man, and I called him a brother, you are going to be up shit creek with these modern day women today. Women out here mess up with this love shit pretty much in a way that when a guy want them draws and get them, he's gone. So the same way we sacrifice our heart, love and mind, once she has that, you are done. And please learn to use that word NO!!! Trust me, it works wonders. Again, thank you Casey.
None of this is guaranteed in modern American marriages. Change the laws that incentivize divorce.
Its nuts , im 36 and still discovering some parts of the "ilogical" mentality of women .Thank you for your knowledge Casey
Bro you have the best break downs, doing gods work lol
Uncle C restoring masculinty and thus healing the world as per usual
Your teachings make sense. Please continue 🙏
I just had to comment on this video...this knowledge is priceless...i swear he's describing my life in his videos..everything is bang on. I never could imagine what the hell am i doing wrong...and i admit that probably i would have never figured it out myself. Thank you man, really appreciate it.
I think the core thing you are doing wrong is dating a women , who isn’t into you. Shes not into you for you but maybe you’re money or your time or whatever it will be. There’s women out there who can appreciate you. Women don’t withhold sex from you they just don’t care to do it with you because they’re not that into you
Seen that, been there. This video is a 12 out of 10.
And all this time we thought we were dating the wrong woman. No. This is woman’s nature.
I’m in for your lessons now for a week and I bet you are the real deal.
CaseyZander, you always speaks as if I told you everything about my dating life……You spit 🔥 🔥 🔥man💪
Casey you should write a book. I havent seen even the PUAs or the Red Pill guys go so deep psychologically into a woman's psyche. The mental models you have built those are very helpful to the generations of men coming after us.
When’s the book coming Casey? 🔥🔥🔥
They ride chad now 🤣 you got me dead asf bro
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Most women will eventually get tired of relationships and leave so do yourself a favor by not putting her on a pedestal and enjoy your life, that way when or if she leaves you are in a solid frame of mind.
When she goes from a 9 or 10 in interest to a 7 or 6 I'm pulling away and may even tell her this isn't working for me like I thought. No to her is spot on and it's a full stop even when she gets all pissed off, because I don't put up with that. Yes we may not agree all the time but to get pissed and go off on me sorry, next if need be. You just have to have "I don't need you" attitude even though in your heart you want her long term. You do things nice for her on your terms and out of the blue. Got to keep her on her toes and DO NOT reward bad behavior wanting to win her back because you think you did something wrong. She will even tell you your insecure or to jealous but that's the play sometime when you say NO. Don't fall for it. It happened to me and I lost a 25 year marriage. I was kissing up to her doing all kinds of things to win her love and it don't work guys. I didn't know these things as crazy as that sounds.
This needs to be taught to young men! Seriously! If it wasn't for UA-cam I would still be the boring nice guy.
Dating , yes. But when married that can create choas by just staying out til 3am..
It's so over in so many ways, it's tragic how people mistake long term relationships with love or sexual attraction. She will never need you. Have fun but never forget you're a slave.
So if a woman is disgusted by a dude being in love w/ them, wtf is the point??
The point is, if you're in love with her then she has to feel the same way for you for it to work, if not then why are you falling in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings? wake up, bruh