How I Can Assume What My Deaf Boyfriend is Saying
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i met a boy who’s deaf at my school and i’ve seen him around a lot with his interpreter and today i actually signed with him and had a conversation! i used to watch you guys a lot and learned a lot from you both and i’m happy that after like over two years of watching signduo and four years of learning i was finally able to hold a conversation and actually sign with someone!! it was so exciting and i just wanted to share with you guys :)
It's called an interpreter not translator
Robert Nicholson Is there a huge difference? Similar enough, especially for casual use lol
@@banyvillarreal8143 maybe there is a slight difference bc ASL 'translator' feels like someone who is giving direct translation from one language to the other word for word, but I find that it's very hard to directly translate ASL to English & vice versa because of different sentence structures and the underlying meanings (honestly for most language interpreting). Which is why ASL 'interpreter' feels more accurate since they have to interpret both ASL and English and convey in the other language without losing the core message that person is trying to convey. That being said, I don't think a lot of people mind it being used interchangeably anyways haha
I’m ur 1000 like person
That's really cool!! Who knows you two may end up dating for 8 years and starting your own hearing and deaf couple videos. Just hopefully you won't make everyone wait for so long. 😐 I'm looking at you Ryan! Get with it!! Where is the ring at?!?!
I surely am not gonna forget how to sign “communicating” after this video haha!
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I’m trying to do three things at once.
1. Watch your facial expression and look for any mouthed words.
2. Watch your signs so I can learn.
3. Read the captions, quickly, and look at your expression and signs.
Same
I’m trying to multi task as well hahah
^this exactly!
me too! It is so hard to follow, I'm like "you need to be a super hero to speak deaf!". 😲😂
I lowered the speed a little to 0.75x
The way Java is just sleeping/leaning her head on Ryan’s chest 🥺 she’s such a daddy’s girl hehe
Such a sweet pup
And I loved Ryan’s little laugh. Sorry, I’m a bit late to this video 😅
I liked the story about how Ryan thought you were mad because of your facial expression. It is a good reminder for those of us who are learning sign language. And I would love to hear the story that you mentioned about explaining later, as someone who wants to be an interpreter!
Aliciana Nyberg I’ll make sure she explains! lol
my sign language teacher one time asked the class if we liked cake and i didn't even sign anything I just looked annoyed because of something someone had just texted me
and my sign language teacher immediately interpreted it in that I had a very deep hatred for cake because deaf people use their facial expressions so much
(for example for questions without explicit question words you just raise your eyebrows)
Omg maybe MY facial expressions are what’s making my husband think I’m mad when I’m not! Lol 😆
The love in their eyes for each other is really soothing to watch 😭❤️
"Sign for me" because you're holding java and can't show run and run is the cutest moment :)
One thing I learned quickly when I met my boyfriend, was that he can’t tell when I’m being sarcastic. So I would say things and he would think I’m being serious at first. Now he’s used to my sarcasm and can tell most of the time. And it’s also crazy because sometimes we don’t even have to communicate, he will know what I’m trying to say just by my eyes/facial expressions.
Kace face 😂😂😂
Kace face laughing hard because I know exactly what you and your BF are going thru. Same thing happened with me and Ellen
Sign Duo haha! It’s funny because I’m so sarcastic and he takes conversations so seriously. So we had to work on that. But for awhile i always had to remind him that I was just being sarcastic and that everything’s fine 😅
Lol is there a way to add a sign on the end or beginning of the conversation to indicate sarcasm (kind of like a deaf name, something personal to you to indicate it)?
Recently found your guy’s channel and honestly I’m SUPER hooked, I could binge watch your vlogs all day 😂
brandon glad our videos are binge worthy 😁😂
I’ve gotten to the point in my learning where I don’t need captions anymore ! Love you guys 🤘🏼
valeria delgado congrats! Great job
how long did it take you to get to that point? i would like to start learning but am a little intimidated :)
caitlyn I took one class this semester of asl 1 ! That’s were I learned most of my rules and vocabulary . But I aslo look at videos on UA-cam . Next semester I’ll be moving to asl 2, kind of nervous but don’t be scared girl ! If you have the chance learn it ! It’s so much fun ☺️
@@valeriadelgado62 wow, im going into my second semester of asl 3 and still struggle with enough of the signing that i need the captions
Hopefully I can get to that point as well!
That bit about facial expressions being tone of voice of deaf people is soooo interesting. I’ve noticed that deaf people are usually very expressive with their faces but I never thought of it that way before.
Java is so adorable, I love how she just doesn’t care that she’s taking up Ryan’s arm and chest 😂
I am hard of hearing. I can hear a little with out my hearing aids. My boyfriend is hearing. We know each other very well. When we go to bed and i can't see him. I can feel him. If i say somthing funny. I can feel him laughing. If he say somthing it take a while to know what he says or I just repeat what he says. It more feeling him knowing if he awake or talking or what ever going on. During the day. If we are out and about. I can't all ways hear him. Just looking body language and reading lips. We know each other really well. That we don't even have to talk. And knowing what each thinking or what we want to do. If you blindfold yourself just be with you your boyfriend or girlfriend. You know there touch. ( sad,mad,love,happy or they just need more love or hugs). If you plug your ears. You can see there body language and face expression. I can look at my boyfriend and we don't say one word. I know if he is tires, what go go, just not happy or if he is happy. If he comfortable or not. I can see it. If you know your boyfriend or girlfriend really well you don't have to say a word. It like having a baby you know what they want or needs. They can't talk or can't like that good. Or you know someone that can't talk at all. You been with them long enough to know what they wants or needs. Or how they feel.
Kate Hammond to funny haha
I want to know the experience! I just aced my first sign language class and I feel confident understanding the teacher and my peers and you two but there is a deaf family that comes into my store and I can never understand them. Luckily they’re very patient and kind to me.
Kaitlyn Gilchrist sometimes just have to get used to certain signing styles. Sign language is my primary language and sometimes I don’t understand deaf haha
Thumbs up for ELLEN to make the video about the HUMBLING EXPERIENCE!
Java’s getting so big!
Faith Alexandria she is growing way too fast 😅
I have a question. When Ryan reads, does he “hear” the words in his head like a hearing person does? Not all the time, of course.. we look at words all day and don’t “hear” them, but for example when you’re reading a fiction novel and the narration is in your head.
tiffo this is a good question!!
I watched a BuzzFeed video with 2 deaf people and they said their "inner voice" was sign language.
Sign language written out when you’re learning it in a class setting is so much different than English, that’s why it’s considered its own language and there are different variations of it
I've heard a little about this- basically, your 'internal voice' is used for a lot of things- remembering things you've read earlier in a paragraph/book, formulating your thoughts, processing emotions, etc. It's actually a vital part for many parts of your internal processing. Deaf people's internal voice tends to be in sign if it's their first language or the language they feel is their voice. Obviously this varies if they grew up hearing and became deaf, or if they are partially able to hear, etc. If they never learn sign, and can't hear enough for their speaking voice to feel like 'their' voice (if that makes sense), they may not have an internal voice and can suffer in some of the areas the voice is used for, most notably reading long texts and remembering as they go. Hope that helps!
I’m profoundly Deaf from birth and I can confirm that we can ‘hear’ the word in our head whilst reading (It varies with Profoundly Deaf people). When people speak whether we hear them (in my case with my hearing aids) or only lip read (or both) we associate the word we read to what we have perceived it as either via hearing speech and/ or seeing sign language! It all depends on factors such as; our learning opportunities (speech therapy & school), how hard we’ve worked to be able to understand, hear and use the English language & literature to a reasonable/ good level, family background (beliefs & culture) etc so it really does varies. Hope this helps! 👍
I might be alone in this, but I would LOVE a video on how Ryan learned to mouth words when he was younger! I can't even imagine how a speech therapist would approach that when the student can't hear the sounds that the letters make... Was it very difficult to memorize the mouth positions for different sounds without having that context?
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they're. so. cute. 🥺🥺🥺
Spill the beans on that humbling experience.
When Ryan said "I run this" I put my tail between my legs. 😂 He's so low key dominant. 😂
Right?
Watching this channel gives me so much joy and makes me smile so so much!
Fightingfox 83 glad it brings positive vibes to you!
I wonder how challenging it must be for deaf people with autism, because my family has a history of autism and they struggle with understanding a lot of non explicit context
Just noticed that I can understand what Ryan saying just looking at his lips movement (like lipreading) and even(sometimes) hear his voice (even if he's not speaking, just the way he using his lips, air noises???), so when I'm reading subtitles and looking at his lips at the same time and it just complete his speech perfectly. I'm not the only one?
(I hope you understand)
Love you guys, and so proud of you two. Keep going!
I love how Java has her head on Ryan’s chest most of the video, undoubtedly, listening and feeling his heartbeat. Very good points on communication, love your explanation of your experiences. If Ellen wants to share her story, we will listen with open minds and hearts. 🍃💞🍃
Java is deaf tho...cant hear the heartbeats
Lol that turning off the light thing happened with hearing couples too because when your tired tone of voice can be really off too 😂
You guys are the most in love couple I've ever seen. It's amazing how you two vibe.
I don't know aslfluently for when I'm watching deaf people sign I understand them completely because it's almost like you have to have common sense or an imagination to imagine what they would be saying if they were using word with a voice! I get really frustrated when I'm trying to communicate back because I don't know all the signs but I'd make them up as I go and most of the time they can understand me because we're on the same topic!!
I noticed that Ryan drives most of the time. I'm just wondering, do you feel confident driving alone? Since you cant hear other cars honking or can't hear ambulance or police sirens?
Btw, love your videos, very informative! A fan from the Netherlands :)
Je hebt geen gehoor nodig om te kunnen rijden. Als de politie aankomt of de ambulance hebben ze naast de sirene ook het licht aan. Mensen die doof zijn, zijn vaak heel erg visueel ingesteld dus als er bijvoorbeeld politie aankomt zien ze al van ver van te voren het licht al voor dat de 'gewone' mens het geluid heeft gehoord. Vaak rijden mensen die doof zijn veiliger dan mensen die horend zijn aangezien ze geen afleidingen hebben zoals de telefoon en de radio die keihard staat. Zij hebben aandacht voor het verkeer en wat er om zich heen gebeurd.
They made a video on this. Idk if the video was out when you asked this question.
Edit: the video was not out when you asked the question.
Edit: Here is a link to the video: ua-cam.com/video/0-mamQEMxzc/v-deo.html
I love that you guys are Sign Trio now 👍🏻😁
I don’t mean this to be rude or anything but I get major ASMR when Ryan is signing and mouthing words
This just made my whole day!!
you guys are the cutest and give such a comfortable vibe to the video as if im sitting with u guys
Please make that video! Also I LOOOOVE Java being so cuddly!!!!
I just started watching you guys and have felt so motivated to get back into ASL. Also, The way Java is leaning is adorable. Haha. You guys are such an inspiration and an amazing couple and I wish all the best for you.
You were in my suggestions, and I’ve been binge watching y’all. Such a cute couple & so educational for people like me who knows nothing about anyone who is deaf. ✨ subscribed!
learning ASL for the first time, and I knew I wanted to be intentional about the language as well as the culture. Your channel's added context related to deaf culture really helps! THANK YOU.
I am hearing, I picked up some sign from an interpreter friend a few years back. I now have a deaf coworker and just watching your videos have helped me remember more signs and practice! This has helped our communication at work and I’ve seen her open up so much🤟🤟🏼
In most cases, it's really very frustrating for me to communicate with hearing people because often times they talk to fast and I say to them, "Whoa! Slow down please. I can't understand what you're saying," and try to let them know that I'm hard-of-hearing. And sometimes they get rude about it and say something like, "I don't have time for your silly games," and left me thinking, "What? What did I do wrong? Why is he or she treating me like that?"
i’ve been watching your videos for about 2 years and everytime i watch i always try to learn at least one word. its helped me so much. i’m of course not fluent but i’m able to communicate with the deaf. Ryan And Ellen thank you both so much please do not stop what you’re doing. love you both.
I just subscribed today & I’m thrilled to have a new video to watch already! I’m a freshman in hs & learning ASL. This is the first year my school’s offered ASL as a foreign language, and I’m in love with signing! My teacher is deaf, so for an hour and five minutes every week, I’m completely immersed in deaf culture as my teacher doesn’t let us talk, only sign. I plan to learn as much ASL as I can & I might even want to become an interpreter! Your channel is amazing, & I’m learning a lot from you two! ❤️❤️❤️
I think this is a great video not only because it’s so eye opening to the complexities of signing and communicating with people with different languages but also just about communication in relationships. Absolutely beautiful
That makes so much sense. I find myself looking at your body language and face more in thr videos because I've already read the captions and I'm looking to see how you're expressing those words 😊
Look forward to watching the video about that "humbling experience" you mentioned!
Thanks for your channel, I love it so much!
Such an informative video! Thank you for sharing! My brother and his girlfriend are learning sign language and they’re learning so fast! They love it! It’s great that we can communicate through sign language now! I introduced your channel to them and they really like watching videos where you teach signs. They really enjoyed where Ryan taught how to sign Numbers 😁
So curious on that experience you’re talking about! I definitely learned a lot watching this, it’s not only about the signs but more of everything put together!! Love you guys xx
You guys are so amazing! I love your videos, and I'm so happy to see Java healthy and growing!
Aileen Christine thanks for the support!!
I just love how authentic your videos are♥️
Nicole Tejera 😁❤️
I dm'd you guys a very similar question about this on Instagram a few months ago, so I'm really happy that you guys made a video about this. :) Thank you for your content! Not only are your videos educational in the language aspect, but super helpful with learning cultures and daily lifestyle customs.
It's amazing the level of understanding and communication you guys have with each other. I know so many hearing couples who don't communicate nearly as well with one another. You guys are relationship goals!
I am happy you made this video. Even though this was to answer a question someone else asked, but you also answered the question I asked from your last video. Thank you and your dog is so cute.
Such a great conversation about communication in relationships. I think I get tons of important things from all of your videos and this one did not disappoint. ❤️
This warms my heart man she is a real one 💯🙏
Yes make a video about your experience please! I love watching your videos because I’m learning at the same time. ❤️
I love that your beautiful relationship is at the foreground of all your videos and sign language is just integrated into it. More than just sign language, you’re showing us that communication is more than speaking and furthermore, how vital it is that as human beings we find ways to understand one another. You’re relationship is a great example of how WE CAN reach the point of understanding one another even if you don’t know the language or culture, it’s the genuine interest in someone that makes for a safe place for us to educate ourselves and become better human beings. Best to you both! 💕
I LOVE you guys! I will be honest, when I first stumbled upon your channel I had a lot of assumptions - some not very respectful - about your relationship. But I basically just binge watched ALL your videos and have learned so much about the Deaf community and gained such an appreciation for your relationship outside of the hearing/deaf aspect. You guys are SUCH goals. Don't ever quit making videos, I need to live my love life vicariously through y'all
I’m so glad I found this channel! I would love to learn more sign language and this helps so much! Thank you thank you!
You guys are the cutest couple! I love you guys! I love that you spread awareness about deaf culture and using sign language. Sometimes I use these videos to learn ASL. You guys have inspired me to try and learn ASL so that I can be an interpreter or just to communicate with someone who is deaf/mute.
Really interesting video,you guys are really great teachers. It’s nice to have both of your perspectives. Thanks for sharing with us 😺👏🏼
I'm mostly impressed that you can spell and reading spelling that fast! If someone tells me the spelling of a word verbally, I really have to think about what the word is and literally pretend to write it down. It would take me forever. Very cool!
I am so glad one of your videos was on my recommended videos list. I had forgotten why I loved learning sign language in high school. Thank you , both of you so much. I am going to start to relearn sign language now because y'all reminded me how much I love ASL.
You guys are such a great example of what a great resource youtube is!! These videos are so enriching beyond just learning signs! And again there is miss java being the most adorable 🐶
The way the dog rests on Ryan's chest. So cute
These videos are so helpful and a great supplement to my ASL class! I'm taking the 2nd level class next semester. Love you guys!
Dying to know the story that humbled you! Please and thank you! :D
Question: I am a server. Is it annoying or appreciated if I try to do some signing to communicate- knowing only very basic signs? What are your suggestions, both in your own experience, for approaching and trying to be social when communication is very minimal??
Not related to your question but related to you being a server. In one video, they mentioned how servers always hand the check back to Ellie, even though Ryan was the one who gave his credit card to them. So just hand it back to the deaf/HOH person if they were the one paying.
@@fierossk9239 oh, yea. That would be rude on 2 accounts. I was taught to read the name on the card and hand it back to the appropriate person. Tho.... One time a man was named Kim and I didn't know who to give the card back to.... Lol
(A decade ago, I was taught to hand the check to the male- always.... But times have changed in that aspect)
@@Stranger_Strange_Land I by no means know anyone who is deaf/HOH, but I think they would probably appreciate it if you used some basic signs to communicate. Or, you could (as they mentioned in another video) ask the hearing person/interpreter (if there is one) to interpret what you’re saying to the deaf/HOH person, but maintain eye contact with that person, not the interpreter.
You both are an inspiration. I would love to pursue someone who is deaf but I’m afraid. Watching this video gives me hope.
Ryan sounds so wise! Great video guys
What was that humbling experience!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Explain!!! 😫😫😫😫😫🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😂😂😂😂😂
I love this video so much! The way you look at each other leaves me speechless!❤
Awwww the dog loves daddy !!!!! Intresting video 👌
Okay-I’m Autistic, and REALLY want to learn sign (partially because of my autism, I have mute periods), but all the talk about the importance of eye contact and facial expressions and everything makes me so nervous because that’s exactly what I’m terrible at in communication, due to being Autistic. So the part about interpreters showing up early and how normal it is that signers have to take a moment to get used to a stranger’s signing style is SO relieving to me. I can’t even say how much that calmed me down!
Not only am I learning so much about you two, but I am also learning sign language! You two really inspire so many. ♥️🤟🏼
Watching you guys is so much fun, I 🤟 you!
Thank you so much for this video. I understand better now. The examples you both gave were so informative. Thanks again.
TMW W glad it was helpful!
I’m an ASL 2 student and going to ASL 3. I watch your videos daily and making a lot more friends who sign and Completely agree how it’s not just about the signs but everything else as well ! You guys are great 👍🏼
Ooo yes I want the humbling story if it’s not up already!
You guys have some amazing relationship advice!!!!!!!!
Omgosh absolutely love you guys 🤗 ❤️ your videos are very informative thanks a lot for educating us 👍🏻 👏
Im ready for the story video!
you guys are the only reason why i am learning sign language. i want to understand wat u guys are saying in the vids without captions 😊
That’s the Tustin market place! That’s so cool that you guys are so close to me. I took ASL for 3 years in highschool and have started to forget it since I have nobody to practice with. When I use to work retail I’d use it to speak to customers who were deaf and I lovedd being able to lend a helping hand to them. I wish I had somebody to sign with !
Why did I just find this channel randomly? Why didn’t I find it sooner? In the few hours I’ve been catching up on their lives, the dog has grown. I’ve learned ways that could end fights for any relationship I have, and I am happy they have been together for so long. So many questions and thoughts with this channel ❤️
These videos at amazing just more proof that love has no boundaries 🥺🥺
I don’t know any sign language (yet) but watching your videos just shows the love between you two, and it’s amazing how comfortably you two communicate! You really inspire me to educate myself on the deaf community, and to learn sign language, whether that’s Dutch Sign Language (where I live), Finnish sign language (where my family’s from), ASL (for international communication), or Japanese Sign Language (I’m a Japan Studies major). Please keep on going, you guys are so fun to watch!
Hi!! I’m a kindergarten teacher and my kids are learning how to sign the songs Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer and Silent Night to perform at our Christmas program along with our other songs. They are loving it and having so much fun learning the signs! Love your channel!!
I 💜your videos. I am deaf in one ear and partially deaf in the other. You guys are so inspiring and I have convinced others to watch your videos so they can start knowing and understanding sign language. Thank you for helping me and my friends. 💜💜💜
Samantha Wickey of course, thank you for the support!
Hey! It's been a while since I've watched one of yall's videos (I need to turn my notifications on lol) but I love seeing the connection you guys have! The way you too look at each other made me smile throughout the whole video I've missed seeing how happy yall seem! thank you for posting you guys are doing a lot to open the conversation up about so many parts of hearing and Deaf/HoH relationships🤟🏼❤️
You guys are beautiful inside and out!!!💚💚💚💚
Enjoyed watching this! I know some ASL because my Mom taught me since she used to teach at the school for the deaf.
I love watching your videos so much they are so Inspirational
Love you both so much! Thank you for opening my eyes to your world. Learning to be more educated on different levels!
Leslie Flores thanks for the kind comment and the support!
That video was super interesting! Thank you so much, I am learning a lot because of your videos. 😁👍🏼♥️
Question for Ryan: are you ever scared because of your deafness? Or have you before? For example, while driving a car you can’t hear what is happening around you.
And I’m in love with your videos😍 It’s very interesting to hear how you communicate with each other. You are such a cute couple😍😍
Yes please tell about the 'humbling experience' you said you would maybe a video about! :D
This was awesome! Is it exhausting trying to learn other people language when you have interactions with other deaf people for the first time or so? just because you have to focus on body, sign etc all at the same time?
Love how authentic and genuine you all are! My new favorite channel
I know that this is HIGHKEY un-relatable to all my deaf and hard of hearing peeps but y’all’s videos are straight up ASMR. (Sounds that are nice and pleasing, kinda like the sound equivalent of feeling a soft blanket or popping bubble wrap!)
I love your content, wow. This is beyond amazing, and I appreciate, and respect everything the two of you are doing. Keep up the good work!! ❤
I’m learning ASL 1 right now and sometimes it gets confusing, but somehow it actually really helps seeing it used in conversation. So, thanks guys!
I’m so happy I came across your channel! My daughter is hard of hearing, with progressive hearing loss. We are learning ASL as a second language as a family. Also, she LOVES Java and is now asking for a deaf dog (her school interpreter also has a deaf dog).