I Blame My Brother For My Other Brother's Death But His Kids Want Me In Their Lives - Reddit Stories

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  • @Tailstraw_xD
    @Tailstraw_xD 11 місяців тому +106

    The absolute audacity to drive your own brother to take his own life and then bring the harlot you did it with to his funeral. The worst pit of hell awaits those brother killers.

  • @heenagidwani3696
    @heenagidwani3696 3 роки тому +1340

    Pete is a person who is highly responsible for Jake's death but more than pete it's their parents who played a big role in their son's death. How can someone be so blindsided that you can't see your one son suffering mentally and physically. Horrible parenting. Anna has no loyalty so not shocked that she got cheated on.

    • @kratkartan1486
      @kratkartan1486 3 роки тому +114

      I think their son's death was a slap in the face and they realized Pete was FAR from being the golden child they thought he was, and that's why threatened to cut that ass off if he put Jay's daughter up for adoption, as if Cathy was Jay's, they didn't want to lose that last piece of him. I would also explain why they tried to contact OP a few times.

    • @heenagidwani3696
      @heenagidwani3696 3 роки тому +89

      @@kratkartan1486 but it still took their son's death to open their eyes. And it isn't an excuse for what have happened though it is good that they tried to protect their granddaughter and didn't turn blindeyes to their GD

    • @dabdabthethird2410
      @dabdabthethird2410 3 роки тому +51

      I think Pete was the fire that burnt his self esteem up but the parents where the coals that made that easy to do

    • @heenagidwani3696
      @heenagidwani3696 3 роки тому +8

      @@dabdabthethird2410 True.

    • @squirrel670
      @squirrel670 3 роки тому +17

      @@heenagidwani3696 they aren't excusing, just an explanation of them being so bad they only realize after their other son is pushed to suicide and why they would act different. I didn't see any excuses.

  • @noneedtoknow07
    @noneedtoknow07 3 роки тому +325

    Oh man the fact that Cathy existed must have drove Pete insane. Child of his brother who died and a constant reminder why OP want's to kick his ass, the fact she's not his even though they were cheating the entire relationship, and the fact once again she has those green eyes that makes him the odd one out amongst his siblings. And he couldn't have gotten rid of her.
    Just imagine this asshole for twenty-one years had this girl looking at him with those green eyes she got from his brother. And he couldn't do anything to her or he'd finally face consequences. I don't mean to dehumanize her or anything but this has to be a form of karma.

    • @HasufelyArod
      @HasufelyArod Рік тому +19

      The child is not guilty, so to speak and the child eventually become and adult and will receive the whole story

    • @kashiialcuin1688
      @kashiialcuin1688 11 місяців тому +19

      It seems like Pete started questioning whether or not she was his when she was born and especially if his other kids didn't end up with green eyes smh... Pete just sucks

    • @Peaceful3arth
      @Peaceful3arth 7 місяців тому +10

      They do say that the eyes are the window into the soul.
      His brother may have taken his own life, but his soul never left, instead it burned as brightly as ever, refusing to be forgotten, reminding Pete of his mistake until he dies.

  • @fcold9402
    @fcold9402 3 роки тому +568

    And after getting to the end of the story, i am sad. Sad for OP, the dead brother, and the daughter that was raised with crap parents.

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 3 роки тому +22

      Same

    • @joaolima7131
      @joaolima7131 3 роки тому +33

      The least Pete should have done was to take care of her if he really was remorseful, but as OP said it, he is still a POS, there is a special place for people like that in hell

  • @dinovoldo544
    @dinovoldo544 3 роки тому +499

    I could just imagine OP during the funeral, 6 dudes holding him back as he tries to rush Pete , him yelling “next time I see you, I’ll kill you!” And really mean it.

    • @DrownedInExile
      @DrownedInExile 3 роки тому +43

      "I ever see you again, you'll be joining Jay!"

    • @joaolima7131
      @joaolima7131 3 роки тому +94

      @@DrownedInExile Jay is in heaven, Pete would go straight to hell

    • @DrownedInExile
      @DrownedInExile 3 роки тому +3

      @@joaolima7131 If only such things were real. I'm sorry there isn't a hell for Pecker-Pete, Arsehole-Anna, and the enabling parents to go to.

    • @thatwaffleguy4958
      @thatwaffleguy4958 3 роки тому +10

      @@joaolima7131 straight to hell. Bottom layer. No, boiler room.
      Elbow-dropped into hell by God, Superman punched by every angel and demon on the way down, and suplexed through the floor of the bottom layer of hell by the devil.

    • @harrisondejoux8520
      @harrisondejoux8520 2 роки тому +48

      @@thatwaffleguy4958 the deepest pit of hell is especially reserved for betrayers

  • @khaavren3
    @khaavren3 3 роки тому +142

    That poor kid! 20 years of being the unwanted kid living with a dad who was forced to take care of you.

  • @Foxceptional
    @Foxceptional Рік тому +25

    The four of them deserve no rest in this life. Pete, Anna, and the parents all psychologically tormented someone they were supposed to love in a way he could not handle. His existence during that time must’ve been the worst torment imaginable.

  • @FredRated1967
    @FredRated1967 3 роки тому +85

    Earlier in the story when OP was recounting how the parents would make excuses for Pete, and after he hit that growth spurt of his, I would've started mocking the parents' excuses.
    For example, when after Pete got a bad grade and they said the teacher is against him, OP could've come back with, "Have you ever considered that the f*cker's just stupid and lazy? And a little b*tch who needs mommy and daddy to fight his battles?"

    • @kashiialcuin1688
      @kashiialcuin1688 11 місяців тому +6

      Can't talk to your parents like that but he should have for sure said that to his brother 😂

  • @troubleinthevalley5884
    @troubleinthevalley5884 3 роки тому +219

    Man when he started crying and apologizing to Cathy, I started bawling lol. I hate Pete. As soon as she mentioned 23 and Me I knew where this was going. Just sucks Jay never Cathy was for sure his daughter. Maybe he'd be alive for her at least

  • @owl7072
    @owl7072 3 роки тому +911

    It's the way Pete and Anna had the audacity to show up to the funeral, especially if they knew that what they did was the final straw that led to his death. I would have reacted exactly like OP did and told them to leave on top of that. I don't care how "close" they were, which they clearly weren't judging by their actions and what little respect they had for him if they were willing to go behind his back like that.

    • @보모
      @보모 3 роки тому +37

      *some people you just want join for a sip by the fire…* _the fire being their bodies_

    • @khaavren3
      @khaavren3 3 роки тому +47

      You know, they probably had convinced themselves that they had nothing to do with it. And having gone through that mental gymnastics, why not attend his brother's funeral?

    • @fr0stb1ght34
      @fr0stb1ght34 3 роки тому +24

      Yeah, no, yeah, they got off light in my humble. Lucky for them no guns were around because if I'm in OPs shoes there woulda been a murder at a funeral I promise you. Truth be told most likely than not, more than one. But that's jus' me.

    • @kitsumekat
      @kitsumekat 3 роки тому +13

      @@fr0stb1ght34 hey, a 2-for-1 special and a win-win.

    • @fr0stb1ght34
      @fr0stb1ght34 3 роки тому +23

      @@kitsumekat maybe even a 4 for 1 bcuz the way mom & dad handled the situation, well they ain't necessarily safe either. IJS

  • @jimmyanngladfelter9659
    @jimmyanngladfelter9659 3 роки тому +223

    Wow, just wow. I hope OP and his niece continue to get to know each other. OP's parents and older brother are the WORST!!

    • @audreym3908
      @audreym3908 3 роки тому +18

      Don't forget Anna

    • @justindai8401
      @justindai8401 3 роки тому +9

      Yeah id say ops parents have gotten a little better and grew a spine but idk

  • @Mimikinn
    @Mimikinn 3 роки тому +351

    When I first heard this story, I had wondered if the eldest child was Jay’s kid. I’m glad it was true and that OP got a little piece of his brother back. And while he may have missed the start of her life, at least he gets to be there for the rest of it.

    • @MusicalRomancegrl
      @MusicalRomancegrl Рік тому +1

      I agree that the parents were in the wrong, but I’ll say this-you’d be surprised by how much parents can miss. My own mother was very attentive and loving but even she didn’t see the warning signs in me until it was almost too late.

  • @Mimikinn
    @Mimikinn 3 роки тому +129

    I hope Pete’s bio kids resemble OP and Jay more than they do their parents. It would be a just reward for the family to be constantly reminded of the son/brother they killed (Jay) and the one they betrayed (OP).

  • @searchfield
    @searchfield 3 роки тому +66

    I cried when he said "It feels like I got a little piece of Jay back" 😭❤️

  • @BIGEAGLEDUDE
    @BIGEAGLEDUDE 3 роки тому +391

    This is one of those situations where Cathy will most likely have the healthy relationship with you but her half-siblings or basically her brother cousin sister cousins are pretty much going to wants a piece of the pie. Especially since you have a much better relationship with your other nieces and you're starting to have a more healthy relationship with Kathy. And you better be prepared for Anna to try again contact with you because she will at some point

    • @LaineyBug2020
      @LaineyBug2020 3 роки тому +59

      Ya, that b is totally going to want to punch that last hole on her family discount card...

    • @selenasimpson9799
      @selenasimpson9799 3 роки тому +5

      M

    • @lightwork11
      @lightwork11 3 роки тому +23

      I hope that Cathy's half-siblings are not like their father.

    • @Angelictigerjin
      @Angelictigerjin 3 роки тому +3

      @@lightwork11 i hope so too,but their Dad's a POS and Their mum is a POS so you learn what you see,I bet those boys are bullies and I bet they Bullied Cathy too and their dad encouraged them too.

    • @nela3986
      @nela3986 2 роки тому +4

      Anna? Lol. No way.

  • @CuriousRegard
    @CuriousRegard 3 роки тому +277

    I'm not crying you're crying. This was a sorrowful but sweet ending.

    • @amberbrown5886
      @amberbrown5886 3 роки тому +17

      I swear somebody brought some onions in here 😭

    • @reggiebrown4911
      @reggiebrown4911 3 роки тому +8

      @@amberbrown5886 and just started choppin....like wtf

    • @amberbrown5886
      @amberbrown5886 3 роки тому +4

      @@reggiebrown4911 😂😂

    • @VanityDivined
      @VanityDivined 3 роки тому +3

      Ok, I was looking for this comment before I made a copy.

    • @goawayleavemealone2880
      @goawayleavemealone2880 2 роки тому +4

      It's a fabulous ending, to an unfortunate and horrible story. I'm so glad OP got a little piece of his brother back and that Cathy has an uncle who will cherish her in a way her stepfather never will.

  • @MorganVsTheInternet
    @MorganVsTheInternet 3 роки тому +52

    I’m so happy that op get to meet Jay’s daughter and that Cathy gets to learn about her dad from the man who know him best.

  • @ian7064
    @ian7064 3 роки тому +204

    Tbh who cares about the other siblings? Cathy is the most important one. If the other siblings find out about OPs money, they're gonna pester him for some of it

    • @squirrel670
      @squirrel670 3 роки тому +44

      Just because their dad is trash doesn't mean they are.

    • @jupitersnoot4915
      @jupitersnoot4915 2 роки тому +15

      @@squirrel670 the apple never falls too far from the tree.

    • @thecubemasterxiii4209
      @thecubemasterxiii4209 Рік тому +9

      @@jupitersnoot4915 yeah because op is like his parents

    • @TonksRules
      @TonksRules Рік тому +6

      @@jupitersnoot4915 That's not true at all. I find though that does happen at times...it can also be common for the pendulum to swing dramatically the other way. An example I know personally is someone who was raised with a hoarder...became so obsessed with avoiding it they would barely put anything around the house at all. I do feel though that most of the time it's one or the other. You either follow the example or are the opposite. Also though nature plays a role nurture does a crap ton too...by that logic Cathy would be terrible as she has a terrible mom and was raised by a scumbag man.

  • @ninirossau2304
    @ninirossau2304 3 роки тому +23

    I know what Cathy wants. not ops money but the love and emotionel support a loving father figure can give.

  • @angelamartzen7499
    @angelamartzen7499 3 роки тому +153

    A happy ending but also sad honestly to think that OP and Cathy could have both lived more happily if it was revealed from the beginning that she was Jay's daughter. OP said that if he had known then, he would have adopted her. OP would have been happy to have raised Jay's daughter instead of shitty Pete and Cathy would have known the truth about her father from the start (because I'm sure OP would have told her the truth) instead of her having to live with a "father" that doesn't even care about her, wanted to abort her, and was the reason for her real father's death. Man it would have been such a better life if everyone had known that Jay was her real father... but oh well, what's done is done, it's in the past, now at least OP and Cathy can begin a new Uncle/Niece relationship that would have never had a chance if not for that DNA test.

    • @jamainegardner4193
      @jamainegardner4193 2 роки тому +8

      I'm pretty sure in that timeline the parents would've tried asking around and OP would've said "you are responsible for her dad's suicide you don't *get* to come near her.

    • @lorisewsstuff1607
      @lorisewsstuff1607 Рік тому

      Both of her parents are selfish pieces of crap. Her dad would never admit his first born was actually his brother's child. Her mom wouldn't say it because he would kick her out and refuse to pay child support for Cathy. I hate what they did to Cathy but I'm glad their marriage went sour. They deserve to be as miserable as they make other people.

  • @audreym3908
    @audreym3908 3 роки тому +51

    I heard of the OG story but not the update and wow! I feel so sorry that Jay wasn't able to meet his daughter, but glad that OP got some kind of closure with meeting Cathy. Hope they can keep their uncle/niece relationship and maybe him seeing his other niblings, if they want to of course.
    Both Pete and Anna can go rot in hell for all I care.

  • @thecrowfather1919
    @thecrowfather1919 Рік тому +23

    I once was tasked with reading a famous story called an inspector calls. This line stuck out to the here. "And though he made her happy for a time he also contributed to her death, each one of you helped to kill her". This line is how I feel about this

    • @bodnica
      @bodnica Рік тому +1

      I remember this line!

  • @1775LostOne
    @1775LostOne 3 роки тому +72

    Wow! I'm glad OP has a piece of his brother back! Now I have to go tell the onion ninjas to stop cutting onions in my house 😭

  • @Azulakayes
    @Azulakayes 3 роки тому +36

    Am so happy OP got a bit of Jay. Cathy will be a blessing to him.

  • @craftressc3701
    @craftressc3701 3 роки тому +104

    This post broke my heart when I heard it. It's just crazy how parents took no responsibility happening to the younger brother. I understand the older brother was a A-hole, but I blame the parents for that.

    • @Shuichisaihara5499
      @Shuichisaihara5499 7 місяців тому

      Breaks my heart even more than the petty cousin who SA (implied by therapist) the op’s wife while op was in jail, gaslit her in her fragile state, tried to turn his SA baby against OP, then got what he deserved after OP angrily ended the marriage on the girl’s quincenera. The guy was a monster and hypocrite, and destroyed a marriage just because he was entitled to a life his “Worthless gangbanger cousin” had. Worst of all, Monster cousin was a priest

    • @ShokoraDeLeon
      @ShokoraDeLeon 7 місяців тому

      @Shuichisaihara5499 Wrong video lol. This is the Marisol story, good story though.

    • @Shuichisaihara5499
      @Shuichisaihara5499 7 місяців тому +1

      @@ShokoraDeLeon I know. I was saying this breaks my heart more than that one

    • @ShokoraDeLeon
      @ShokoraDeLeon 7 місяців тому

      @@Shuichisaihara5499 Sorry, I misread! But I do agree. I'm so happy for OP though to have a piece of his brother back. I hope that their relationship grows with great love.
      Screw the parents, the brother and the ex...

  • @adolphesax1982
    @adolphesax1982 2 роки тому +15

    I think Jay is smiling in heaven. He can be very proud of his daughter.

  • @ChaoticNalilitoMC
    @ChaoticNalilitoMC 3 роки тому +114

    I remember when this story got posted, glad to know there's an update!

  • @keikibeckman1750
    @keikibeckman1750 3 роки тому +21

    This one got me choked up as I can relate to this guy. I lost my only sibling 2 years ago (not for the same reasons) very suddenly and all I have left of him is his three amazing sons. I can feel my brother's hugs when I hug them, hear my brother's laugh when they laugh, and see my brother's smile when they smile. The loss of my brother was extremely hard on the family but those boys make it a little easier to handle.

  • @Orbitalmercury
    @Orbitalmercury Рік тому +15

    Man I started crying too when that dna news came out though I had suspicions Cathy may have been jays kid.
    That Anna is doubly guilty for what happened to jay. If she hadn't been cheating he'd still be alive and enjoying being a dad but Anna had to cheat and then robbed him of a daughter. Hope Anna suffers miserably for the rest of her life as she's guilty of cheating and jays passing.

  • @phoenixascending4875
    @phoenixascending4875 3 роки тому +82

    My heart absolutely breaks for OP, and for Jay. A man has to be the lowest form of scum to to do what Pete did to Jay. And for the parents to support Pete and tell Jay to “get over it”? They’re responsible for Jay’s death too. I hope they carry that guilt with them for the entirety of their lives. I’m glad that OP has Cathy, his beloved brother’s daughter. I hope they build an amazing relationship, and that they can help each other heal.

  • @CensorshipVictim
    @CensorshipVictim 3 роки тому +86

    I'm sorry, I would have beat the brakes off of the older brother and the cheating ex-girlfriend for having the nerve to show up to the younger brothers funeral. But, that's me.

    • @Ando1428
      @Ando1428 3 роки тому +17

      That was him too. But his family stopped it. Plus if he did that to Anna he would have killed cathy.

    • @CensorshipVictim
      @CensorshipVictim 3 роки тому +4

      @@Ando1428 I'm didn't say kill anyone

    • @frostfang7906
      @frostfang7906 3 роки тому +5

      @@CensorshipVictim that's the problem, Anna was still pregnant with Cathy so if he beat Anna he could've killed Cathy while she was still in the womb

    • @CensorshipVictim
      @CensorshipVictim 3 роки тому +3

      Your focusing on the wrong thing.

    • @Rage_Harder_Then_Relax
      @Rage_Harder_Then_Relax 3 роки тому +7

      @@frostfang7906 He wouldn't have done anything to her. It was his brother who instigated the whole thing, knowing he was in love with her...as well as the parents

  • @shadowfoxx5317
    @shadowfoxx5317 3 роки тому +315

    As soon as he mentioned the green eyes so similar, I had a big hunch that there was more to her DNA than happenstance of the gene jumping past Pete.
    "It feels like I got a little bit of Jay back.'
    I choked up right then and there with the hugest tug on the heart strings. Jay will be alive every time OP sees those green eyes..
    I'm not crying - you're crying! Ninjas are cutting onions! My eyes are performing a matinence flush out because I had grit in my eyes.. 😣😫😭😭
    I wish those two beautiful people all the happiness in finding a solace shared, a piece of the family coming back together.

    • @LadyCeag840
      @LadyCeag840 3 роки тому +16

      The update was bittersweet, in a good way!

    • @patriciaboies8298
      @patriciaboies8298 3 роки тому +5

      Perhaps OP and Pete are half brothers....

  • @moufdoudi1913
    @moufdoudi1913 3 роки тому +19

    I cried i really cried when he said he get his brother back ohh god it's so sad and so beautiful all the best OP all the best

  • @lightwork11
    @lightwork11 3 роки тому +8

    If I feel any emotions during Reddit stories it's usually relief or anger. This is the first time I cried. The revelation about Cathy being Jay's daughter was completely unexpected. I usually figure these things out pretty fast! There is sadness that Jay missed out on knowing his daughter and happiness that OP has a part of Jay in his life. The best to both OP and Cathy.

  • @Confession68
    @Confession68 3 роки тому +15

    I absolutely cried at this story! 😭 I'm so glad that they're in contact now. It's bittersweet!

  • @Sorchia56
    @Sorchia56 3 роки тому +27

    No need for a meet up with the rest. Wishing you and Cathy all the best.

  • @jeanipin3430
    @jeanipin3430 3 роки тому +20

    Would love to know how they got on after this, it is very emotional and do hope their relationship blossoms. The poor lass deserves to have her uncle close as he was with his brother, her father. Wish them all the love in the world

  • @moosecat
    @moosecat 3 роки тому +12

    I'm glad OP got to meet Jay's daughter.

  • @Tammohawk1
    @Tammohawk1 3 роки тому +15

    There is no way I would have allowed my other son to bully my younger son. My sons are 4 1/2 yrs. apart and they are the best of friends.

  • @lilianapruitt155
    @lilianapruitt155 3 роки тому +13

    Ah man.. my heart raced with excitement.. soon as I heard that Cathy IS Jay's daughter, I'm all air fist pumping 💪😉 I'm SO glad everything's going well for Op. Thanks for an entertaining upload Lost Genre.

  • @HeoBaby24
    @HeoBaby24 3 роки тому +16

    The fact that she jays daughter and he didn't know just suck Even worse he missed out on having a daughter!
    I literally had to pause the video

  • @LaineyBug2020
    @LaineyBug2020 3 роки тому +15

    Omg, I saw the last line of one screen before his narration got there and started bawling 😭😭😭😭😭
    I wish I could like the video a million times!

  • @suzygarcia4300
    @suzygarcia4300 3 роки тому +11

    That was such a beautiful sad story. Glad he got his little brother back by way of his niece.🥰

  • @jupitersnoot4915
    @jupitersnoot4915 2 роки тому +15

    Poor Jay died believing his baby girl wasn't actually his...I'm so angry and heartbroken, this one really got to me

  • @gostavoadolfos2023
    @gostavoadolfos2023 Рік тому +2

    Rest in Peace sweet Jay, this story made me so emotional 😢😢😢

  • @Whykickamoocow
    @Whykickamoocow Рік тому +5

    Oh wow. I rarely tear up listening to these stories but that got me. I was really hoping OP had the chance to smash his elder brother but I'm so happy for him and his young brothers daughter to finally meet. I wish them both the very best

  • @snowflakeslayer4354
    @snowflakeslayer4354 3 роки тому +18

    Stay no contact with all of them because you do not need any of this shit in your life

  • @ljh5141
    @ljh5141 3 роки тому +8

    Wow! Crying bitter sweet tears at the end. I hope that OP and Cathy can have a solid long term relationship. 💕😥🤗🤗

  • @pauletteandvincentforbes8806
    @pauletteandvincentforbes8806 3 роки тому +18

    HOLY CRAP!!!!! My first reddit story that has MADE ME CRY!!! LOL.

  • @rebeccasimpson9366
    @rebeccasimpson9366 3 місяці тому +1

    I'll never understand this awful favouritism from parents and im azed how common it seems to be. When i have children i vow to treat and love them equally.

  • @adamgreyskul678
    @adamgreyskul678 3 роки тому +15

    I can't imagine a sibling doing that. More than that I can't imagine them living to tell the tale after showing up at the funeral, I'd have been holding a smoking gun before I'd even registered it.

  • @DamienSlayer666
    @DamienSlayer666 2 роки тому +5

    Not going to lie this story deserves a spot as a good story. This is a reason I subscribed to your channel because the stories you pull arnt boring and told as a storyteller would emphasize and elevate with emphasis!

  • @fcold9402
    @fcold9402 3 роки тому +8

    The start of this story made me angry. I could imagine myself in OPs shoes when older brother walks in with the sl*t (and i never use that word). I could see/feel myself threatening to kill the brother and the wh*r* and telling anyone that made excuses for them that they were dead to me. The anger is justified. Idiot boy cheats with his brothers girlfriend which causes brother to end it and then the cheaters show up together? How can anyone forgive that?

  • @ltyler01
    @ltyler01 3 роки тому +8

    Great heartwarming ending to this story. Thanks LG.

  • @dennisvicarth6823
    @dennisvicarth6823 Рік тому +3

    Ngl I'm waiting for that fateful update "sorry it took a long time to update, just wanna tell you guys that i un-alived Pete".

  • @NomdePlume337
    @NomdePlume337 Рік тому +2

    As soon as I heard that the daughter was actually the daughter of the dead brother I immediately started crying. I couldn’t imagine being in OP’s shoes. All that lost time he could have had with her if only he had known. I hope they form a relationship and have many happy years being in each other’s lives

  • @OllieRamone
    @OllieRamone Рік тому +2

    I hope that op rubbed it in his parents faces the few times they tried to make contact that they were just as responsible for Jay’s death as was Pete.

  • @tooth2887
    @tooth2887 Рік тому +5

    the story got another update, the post was leaked in the family and caused issues one where Kathy got disowned by Pete and a brother sided with him. she didn't care about Pete but her brother agreeing with him hurt her. family tried to get the sis to give out OP's info and she didn't then OP almost got completely cut out of Kathy's life because of the post until she actually read it due to OP's sister's kids telling her too and she forgave OP after that. OP is also now in contact with Kathy's sister and now things are better for them. also Pete wanted to put Kathy up for adoption but the parents said "do it and your cut off our money". they are also currently neutral in the drama making them into pariahs and kathy and her sister want OP to break no contact and talk to them. nothing after that as OP deleted his accounts I believe.

    • @Sc00by-d008
      @Sc00by-d008 Рік тому +2

      Do u have a link to that update I would like to read it

    • @tooth2887
      @tooth2887 Рік тому

      @@Sc00by-d008 no I don't, OP deleted his accounts, I can try to find the best of redditor updates post though.

  • @dorabarkley6335
    @dorabarkley6335 Рік тому +4

    This was a heartbreaking, sad story and yet there was a blessing at the end of the rainbow ❤ really was a good one

  • @lynettephillip2412
    @lynettephillip2412 Рік тому +3

    This brought tears to my eyes when he said that the child was his late brother's. I suspected as much!

  • @jakevex4198
    @jakevex4198 Рік тому +3

    Jay would be proud of his daughter I believe

  • @untiedshoelaces2588
    @untiedshoelaces2588 3 роки тому +19

    This is why I can't help but smile whenever the notification for a new video from this channel pops up. The follow-through on the stories are second to none.
    Keep up the good work LG.

    • @LostGenre
      @LostGenre  3 роки тому +5

      Wow, thank you United Shoelaces! Happy to know you enjoy my videos!

  • @cheekyweb8055
    @cheekyweb8055 3 роки тому +12

    Omg that ending though 😭

  • @farmakoxeris
    @farmakoxeris 3 роки тому +4

    15:58 The parents DID NOT grow a spine. It's just that the "grandparent instict" prevailed over the usual BS.

  • @strawberrymilk2007
    @strawberrymilk2007 2 роки тому +3

    "Let's move on to the next post"
    *proceeds to end the video*

  • @vejaigajai9110
    @vejaigajai9110 3 роки тому +3

    AM NOT CRYING. JUST GOT SOMTHING IN MY EYE

  • @rjshipp
    @rjshipp 3 роки тому +6

    Good story! Thanks for sharing it!

  • @mysterylovescompany2657
    @mysterylovescompany2657 3 роки тому +3

    Sounds like big bro is a real Pete-ce of shit.
    Good G_d, OP, I am so, so, inexpressibly sorry. I cannot imagine how much strength it takes to live with that sort of grief + rage, & not let it become your defining feature or dominate your life.
    Your niece will be lucky to have such a titan in her corner.

  • @JeanyyBee
    @JeanyyBee 3 роки тому +5

    Fun Uncle= FUNCLE

  • @janenorwood1614
    @janenorwood1614 2 роки тому +3

    Such a beautiful ending!!!! The rest can kick rocks

  • @axisdoesart4721
    @axisdoesart4721 3 роки тому +11

    I can't wait to see how this goes!

  • @robertbishop5158
    @robertbishop5158 Рік тому

    Thank you for this post a lot of channels
    Have posted the story but didn't post all
    The updates. I would like to say thank you for that, brings the story to a conclusion

  • @brendagriffin7925
    @brendagriffin7925 Рік тому +3

    Wow! What an awesome ending to a terrible situation. I lost my middle son and it will be 10 years on March 2nd. He wasn’t married and had no children. He was only 24. I would be so elated if I found out that he had a child we didn’t know about…..to have a piece of him wow. I do understand that it’s selfish on my part because that means a child would have grown up to never know their father. It would be bittersweet. 😢

    • @AnneKirk453
      @AnneKirk453 Рік тому +1

      I’m sorry 😢 for your loss

  • @angrypanda3939
    @angrypanda3939 3 роки тому +4

    Man I wish jay would have got to meet his daughter damn life is cruel sometimes

  • @anthonyschutz9623
    @anthonyschutz9623 Рік тому +3

    I would kill. No I'm not kidding. Pete would be dead, And Anna would get a permanent reminder

  • @joemeyer7718
    @joemeyer7718 Рік тому

    Wow! He had a piece of his brother. So happy for him.

  • @RyuClaudius
    @RyuClaudius 3 роки тому +1

    ahhhhh, these are some reasons why I don't like the concept of relatives.. only knocking on your door when there's money involved..

  • @wplains
    @wplains 7 місяців тому

    I can see Cathy becoming a sort of daughter to OP and inheriting all of his wealth.

  • @marshallwright9670
    @marshallwright9670 Рік тому +1

    sad for you and your brother . wish cheaters would think of the results of it . why family supports that in the family is unforgivable

  • @louellacharlton4425
    @louellacharlton4425 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks LG love the way you mix up different genres.

  • @Odd_Interaction
    @Odd_Interaction Рік тому +1

    S1: OP, why would you even want to start a relationship with your oldest brothers children? Imho, it sounds like a recipe for more trouble. Being in their lives will beyond a shadow of doubt it ups the odds of you having to beat Pete black and blue. Leaving you open for a visit from the local PD or even the bill (if any) for damages.
    At the very least the people you are NC will some how try to wiggle their way back into your life. With any luck there is a special level in Hels for Pete and Anna, and every other vile cheater.

  • @Luckyrider1958
    @Luckyrider1958 Рік тому +1

    if you meet the kids.. STRAIGHT UP tell em THE TRUTH!! Let the chips fall where they may.... let em figure out for themselves the kind of guy dad is.. AND mom.. do NOT talk Pete and Anna down yourself .. let the KIDS draw their own conclusions via the facts.

  • @dantoinettem6825
    @dantoinettem6825 3 роки тому +5

    Don't know how to feel... So much could have been avoided 😞

  • @ashlaraque4135
    @ashlaraque4135 2 роки тому +1

    Jay would be so proud of his baby girl!

  • @Ando1428
    @Ando1428 3 роки тому +4

    Damn one of you survived huh. Its what I thought when listening about Cathy.

  • @lia-chan8581
    @lia-chan8581 2 роки тому +1

    If I was Cathy and still got treated differently by Pete, I would want to be adopted by my uncle, to be honest. I wouldn’t want to live and have any connection to my father’s abuser and killer. If OP doesn’t have kids of his own, maybe he should look into that. If he would have adopted her when she was little, why not do that now? If they end up having a great relationship, I think that if adoption isn’t an option, putting her into the will would be a great decision. Looking out for your deceased brother’s daughter should be something OP should consider, if not financially, at least with advice and emotional support.

  • @kmaguire7161
    @kmaguire7161 2 роки тому +3

    This is the first time one of these stories almost made me cry. The feels when it turned out she was Jay's daughter. D=

  • @Erebus04
    @Erebus04 3 роки тому +4

    Bloody hell that is deep

  • @faeriefire78
    @faeriefire78 Рік тому +1

    I'm only a few minutes in. I don't usually get worked up (except maybe angry at people's nastiness, lol) but the story already hurts my heart. 💔

  • @gabinaarabia
    @gabinaarabia 3 роки тому +3

    I really enjoy you channel bc you give us updates or check for more info in the comments. Thanks!

    • @LostGenre
      @LostGenre  3 роки тому

      Glad you like them Gabi! Thanks for watching!

    • @JamesRichardson3rd
      @JamesRichardson3rd 3 роки тому +1

      @@LostGenre The constant updates are the main reason that I follow this channel. Other channels always seem to leave you hanging and wanting more. It can be frustrating not knowing what transpired afterwards.

  • @denisephillips9588
    @denisephillips9588 2 роки тому +1

    OP I am glad that you want to have a relationship with Jay's daughter it will be a long road a head of you. But at least you know that Jay had a kid. and this relationship can only get stronger as time goes by. Give her all the love that you can. Because really she is the only one you have left that is apart of Jay. I wish the both of you all the best in the future.

  • @sherlocksteve9109
    @sherlocksteve9109 3 роки тому +3

    If I was OP.. I would have thrown off anyone and beaten my brother up in a big way, parents' excuses or not. Pete and his wife should have not been there since he caused Jay's death. So I hope Pete and Anna live life with grief for what they caused.

  • @janeyrevanescence12
    @janeyrevanescence12 9 місяців тому +1

    RIP Jay…

  • @whattheelle360
    @whattheelle360 3 роки тому +6

    I’m petty so I would tell them everything from the get go.

  • @nyashahardley
    @nyashahardley 3 роки тому

    That is a horrible twist. The mom should feel guilty.

  • @SirBitingBen
    @SirBitingBen 10 місяців тому +1

    Damn bro, just listening to this makes we wanna jump up and punch sht

  • @NemFX
    @NemFX 2 роки тому +2

    Twist ending, the brother isnt dead, but the OP was, and we were watching the Sixth Sense the whole time~

  • @Xiuming_Day
    @Xiuming_Day 4 місяці тому +1

    OMG I'm crying 😭😭😭

  • @dorothyhunt9814
    @dorothyhunt9814 Рік тому

    I knew the niece was Jay's. Such a great story. Thank you

  • @15oClock
    @15oClock 3 роки тому +33

    Cathy isn't the same as her parents, any of them. If OP thinks any of them were or are going to take up a similar role in his life, he's playing with fire. When he chooses to love her, it better be because she's Cathy, not just because she's Jay's daughter.

    • @shawne7228
      @shawne7228 3 роки тому +11

      It will be because she's J's daughter. We would all be a fool not to realize that means something

    • @emerystheimmortal417
      @emerystheimmortal417 3 роки тому +11

      Are you drunk why would he not think of her as Jay's daughter do you have any niblings

    • @Jace76
      @Jace76 3 роки тому +8

      I think it will be a bit of both, yes he will want contact because of Jay, but he also says that she is super smart, and they had a great time talking and getting to know each other.

    • @raggarbergman
      @raggarbergman 3 роки тому +6

      How i intepretted it is that he saw his lost brother in her. But he also noticed her for the young woman she is.