Another sign: you don't give up on a relationship after a little fight Edit: when I said little fight I mean an argument that doesn’t involve any abuse and it’s over something relatively unimportant
I think that telling your partner when do you feel bad, angry, anxious etc. and trying to solve the problems together and trying to avoid what you can't change is the best way to create a healthy relationship.
1. You share comfortable silence. 0:57 2. You think about each other when you're apart. 1:25 3. You communicate with each other. 2:05 4. Your arguments makes you stronger. 2:44 5. You help build each other up. 3:42 6. You don't feel the need to cheat. 4:34 7. You set realistic expectations. 5:15
Yeah that was one problem with my ex. We both never wanted to upset each other, and even when we asked if everything was okay, we didn't say the truth.
Role playing is for the bedroom and that's the only place it is acceptable. Be real with eachother. Been with my man for 5 years now and we moved in together last year. We are so in love. Every passionate kiss still feels like the first and in those moments, we are the only people in the world
*My fiance was with me when I was broke and depressed and she's with me now with a job, a house and a car.* Her love was only dependent on the time and energy I invest in the relationship. It was never about money or having nice things. I hope every single one of you finds a love like that.
My boyfriend is now at the same situation and I'm positive that everything while be okay. But he is afraid about that he can't offer a good life and thinks that Ieave
We have almost 40 years under our belts. What has made it work for us are. #1 Trust. #2 Honesty. #3 Empathy. #4 No Jealousy. #5 Unconditional love. #6 Communication.
Unconditional love is somewhat tricky tbh, there is a thing that you expect your partner to do and you communicate those things to your partner, but somehow if they don't work on it or don't do it for you, you may feel quite distanced. And even if you chose to love them equally without holding any grudges, that resentment of your partner not doing something for you will build up, then somewhere love becomes conditional. And I feel little bit of conditional love is also fine, otherwise one only gets taken advantage of.
@@prashantiyer7 This maybe the case with 90% of what you described as conditional love. But you are forgetting the exception to the rule. There is always the exception of the rule and we are the exception to the rule. 40 years and working on another 40 god willing. If not realistically 25-35 as long as unforeseen circumstances.
#1 You share comfortable silence. #2 You think about eachother when you are apart. #3 you communicate with each other. #4 your argument makes you stronger. #5 #6 you don't feel the need to cheat. #7 you set realistic expectations.
#4. I can't argue about difference of 'religion' because for me, my spouse MUST be Christianity's follower, better said 'Jesus's follower'. You must be thankful I don't add 1 point: MUST be new christened baptism like in some churches.
My partner and I don’t argue, but it’s because we talk about what’s bothering us. If they do something that gets under my skin, I wait until I’m no longer annoyed or mad and talk to them about it. It’s an honest conversation, and together we find ways to work through whatever was bothering me. They do the same as well.
I feel like a healthy argument would play out like that. You two are obviously mad but instead of throwing pointless insults that'll get nowhere and only hurt each other, you try to find a middle ground.
I agree. I think every single person needs privacy and his/her own space, to cultivate personal passions or simply because sometimes you want to be alone
1. You share comfortable silences 2. You think about each other when your apart 3. You communicate with each other 4. Your arguments make you stronger 5. You help build each other up 6. You don’t feel the need to cheat 7. You set realistic expectations
i met my girl online about 6 months ago and pretty much instantly fell in love, we haven't met but i know when we do it's gonna be worth it. we have all these 7 signs and i know we'll get through anything. we're strong like that
Yea it was like that at first but it mine ended off for the reason that were was little to no control on my relationship. My girlfriend would yell and be disrespectful when things are going wrong and I would try to reason but as the more it happened the less energy I had to engage in the argument and more I was afraid to getting into one.
@@osse1n It was a joke. Edit: also things don't just find a way for example if I was a shut in I would never find love or friendship so everything that comes your way is product of your actions be it minor or major nothing is "meant to be" as you put it.
I'm about a month into a new relationship and I feel like the single most important thing is communication. It's only been a month so naturally I probably still have those rose-tinted goggle on, but I can say that this relationship really feels different because both of us can communicate honestly and openly with each other, and more importantly neither of us gets defensive or argumentative.
I know it's probably weird for a stranger on the internet to ask this a year after your original comment, but how has that relationship gone since then? I hope it's been great for you :)
Communication is soooo important, so many of my clients present with communication difficulties. When we finally sort that out together it really makes a difference in their relationships.
Hi Mary...have you ever helped a couple in which one is on the autism spectrum? (I'm that one.) I am in a sort of hell because I don't get the solitude I need to recharge. Human relating is absolutely draining for me. I have felt burnt out for 2.5 years now, and the meltdowns are getting worse. It's like we are living on different planets, speaking different languages. I don't know what to do.
@@lowca6457 Cmon bro. Just think how easy it would be if one were dead. Its literally going back to the place you were before being birthed; nowhere. Its, to me, such an ocham's razor that its not worth it because you're only living in the body you've been born into once.
HotDoge SWAG!! I been suicidal with near attempts, broke and depressed for 8 years but finally on a steady track for one hell of a comeback now i wanna be immortal
What if I feel like there's nothing to ever argue about with my girlfriend? We bring up things that are bothering us at times, and we talk it through. But we don't argue.
I guess that means that your communication is strong and that you guys are comfortable with each other. If you guys know how to address things that bother you without getting mad, then there's no need to argue because your communication with your partner is really good.
It's like this with me and my bf. I think most people think if you're not arguing, you're not communicating. But I think if you have really good communication you can discuss things without arguing. My bf and I also just get along so well it's very rare we disagree on anything in the first place.
If you love yourself, your love will last a lifetime. We are all born as pure love, if you learn to strip away the layers you have learned from parents, teachers and society you will find this again. When you are full of self love, you are able to overflow and love another. We are writing a book and this is a major pillar. We also just did a video on this....
What I appreciate about my relationship, is that even when we argued and angry at each other, we still cuddle to sleep no matter what 😂 it is not perfect, and I don't know if it will last a lifetime, but I'm presently happy and I am grateful for that.
I have a crush at work who I’m just getting to know, but we often gaze into each other’s eyes without saying anything and it doesn’t feel awkward at all. It’s actually kinda nice, like I already established some kind of connection with him. I hope we will have a good future together ❤️
I am extremely blessed to currently be in a relationship like this. Another important thing I believe is to be great full for them. Thank whatever higher power you subscribe to daily and just speak that energy into your life.
Having the same values and goals makes a relationship stronger too. My fiancée and I are in a long distance relationship and we talk about our future. What we want, our goals.. we want the same things. We also talk about things that bother us, we communicate, we support each other, we are happy with each other, we feel peaceful around each other and we feel like we can be ourselves around each other without being judged. A happy and perfect relationship is different for others though
Edit 2: He's since contacted me after ghosting me, explained everything. I'm no longer mad at him but I am never trusting him with my heart ever again. Edit: Most of this aged like milk. Not all of it; just the parts about him being my Heartmate... everything else I still stand by. -------------------------------- This is probably the most cliche statement ever but I speak from experience: Become best friends first. Virtually nothing changed between my Heartmate and I since we started dating. We have been basically flirting even before we were official and that's because we were so comfortable with eachother from being best friends. The only difference is the frequency and openness of our display of affection towards one another. Another tip is to take it slow, don't jump in with both feet like my Heartmate and I did the first time we dated five years ago. We hadn't seen eachother for years until I moved in with my mom and we just kind of fell in love HARD but it was too soon; he proposed to me not six months later and I never realized just how not ready I was. Long story short: We had to break up, we both had to grow, and now here we are as if we never parted ways and yet it's stronger than ever thanks to the time needed to mature. We've still got alot to learn but perhaps one day we'll be ready to be engaged again 😊
@@BortLoco Being friendzoned is only a thing when your feelings for someone are not mutual. But it's entirely possible, you just have to establish a connection first.
The second I wanted to talk with my friend about the beautiful time I had with my Crush yesterday I saw the Notification that this Video just came out...Coincidence?.... Most likely yes But it's still an encouraging Thought to have :D I love your Videos and they also have helped me in the past a lot. Thank you In addition to that the Community here is a lovely and heartwarming one and I'm glad to be a part of it!
*#1 thing to have a lifetime love for - is LIFE itself.* Appreciate the life, its all aspects, flow with it and everything else will follow as a bonus.
I actually had expectations set for a relationship in the past. And then I met someone just recently and almost every single one of those expectations was broken and I was shocked and amazed at how wonderful the relationship is. It changed my entire idea of love and I feel more free to express love as well!
All those signs were present in a past relationship and now we’re apart. I think about him everyday and I honestly can’t understand why he ended things. Feels like I now have an empty space that will never be filled again.
I kinda disagree with the arguments. With me and my girlfriend, we never really fight but that’s because of the Communication that’s important in every relationship. We never get to the fights because our conversations iron everything out. Everyone gets scared that me and my girlfriend are faking our relationship when I say we don’t fight, but we don’t hide thoughts that could start fights from each other. Like when she realized some crucial things about herself and she told me she wanted to bottle it all up. She didn’t because she values me more than hiding it and pretending it isn’t there. She just mentioned it and we talked. Nothing escalated. Arguments shouldn’t really need to happen in my opinion
Arguing by default doesn’t mean screaming and fighting, it just means disagreeing on each other’s opinions, which in this case you talk it through straight up and therefore it’s a healthy argument, like a peaceful debate. I think this is what they mean by arguing
its the same with me. its not necessarily that we agree all the time, just we talk about the issues we are having before it gets out of hand. we have had one big argument, and i know neither of us want that to happen ever again. everything should be constructive, because youre not working against one another in a relationship, just trying to make it the best it can be.
@@bohlalemtati5622 it isn't an argument, it's a conversation. No we aren't together anymore, but that had nothing to do with our communication, more like she stopped showing that she valued me. I am dating someone else now and we also don't really fight. My current boyfriend says when people fight there's usually an element of winning the argument. He doesn't fight because he doesn't see any value in winning arguments, so again he just talks to me. And vice versa, if something happens that upsets me I always just mention it and he always thanks me for just saying it because fighting your way thru it doesn't always work for everyone. It's a discussion because we are both expressing our ideas without shutting each other out
I've just realised that this is what most of my relationships look like (and I don't mean romantic relationships only) from my perspective - when I like someone, I care about them, tell them what I think just so they know what do I expect from them. I have comfortable silences with them and all that stuff. The only problem is that that's only my perspective and people don't usually feel the same way about me. It's just like I think everyone deserves full love and understanding but when I finally get that, I'm so scared that it's just temporary that I mess up everything.
Communication is so important. I’m a very good listener and find myself being the ear most people at work need to vent on their heart troubles. I cannot count how many times I think “you shouldn’t be telling me this, you need to tell your partner”, particularly to the people who have been in their relationships for 4+ years !! Communicate - and not in an attacking way that leads to fights. Calmly say what you feel, and then listen to what your partner has to say. You must put yourself in their shoes in order to understand. It’s necessary.
Psych2Go Yes, definitely! I think communication can always be beneficial, I just believe that when it comes to issues or mattes of the heart that are in serious correlation to your level of happiness then it’s just as important to make sure you are saying this to the person who also needs to hear it the most.
My girlfriend and I had a few communication hiccups early, but we've established that we need to be honest with each other. I don't like being wrong, or needing to change my ideas, but given time I can accept it. I hope everyone can find a loving and whole relationship.
Hell yeah, I got the communication check mark. And on the topic of arguments, the only reason me and my partner haven't had one ( yet ) is because of there's something bothering us from the get-go, we have to say whats wrong and prevent resentments and that's the logic we both have when we disagree on something and then we figure out how to make it so we're both happy! But thats kinda way we haven't argued in a sense.
Amazing! We have the same concept as you. We're incredibly honest with each other - and that's what I love about us. This prevents things overflowing right from the start. You're on the right track!
@@TheKubbas Good! plus arguments give me really bad anxiety ( seeing as I've heard family members arguing a lot) and would rather just avoid it as best as I can.
Listening to eachother. Also compromising and working together while still being two separate people with their own lives, friends, dreams etc. Having goals as a couple as well as individual goals.
Trust, communication and understanding. My heart really opened up when I found my soulmate over 7,000 miles away. I never thought I would of been in a long distance relationship. 😅
This is so true of me and the guy that I like. He's always helping and loving, and I do the same right back. We don't really argue, but we definitely talk through important things and communicate well about serious topics. And bonus, he loves me, so it all works out. Even though it's not always easy, the past two years have been the best of my life!
I know I am still pretty young to be in a relationship and that most people who have one at this age don’t last long, but I feel like ours will last for long. I’m best friends with my boyfriend. I can act like a kid around him but when needed we can both be mature with each other. I constantly can’t stop thinking about him and we both help each other up when we feel low. I hope everyone finds someone eventually.
Being in my marriage, I never thought I’d love trombone music but darn it, he’s an awesome trombone player! I totally dig it when he practices. And he loves it when I knit! Granted, both of us can’t pick up either of these skills from each other but we can appreciate the heart that goes into each of them.
According to this video my relationship should have lasted a lifetime.... but we were only together a very short 6 months before he passed away from heart problems. 😭😭😭 It would have lasted though. I knew before watching this. We were robbed of that. 😥
in my relationship we do not argue, we voice our opinions when we get upset and we work together to overcome the problems. we’re on the same team we’re not against eachother!
I'm a japanese in a long distance relation ship with an american girlfriend. At first it seemed so daunting that we're over 7000 miles away, but I see these signs in our relationship! Thanks for re assuring me that we're in a great relationship 😁
Here’s something for the couples who don’t argue, like my boyfriend and I; Just because you don’t argue, doesn’t mean you’re being fake. It’s okay to literally have nothing to be mad about with eachother, or if you are, have a civil conversation about it. Insulting the other person in a fight is not okay. Yeah, we can disagree on really dumb things, but it is never a heated arguement. We find middle grounds and ways to improve what the problem originally was. And sometimes we’re only upset because we want affection from the other person, and once we tell eachother that, everything gets better. Like, obviously we know we love eachother, sometimes we just need a little boost of confidence. Of which, both of us have no problem providing. It’s okay to ask for help, guidance, and even support. Just don’t do it constantly, that’s when it gets unhealthy. If you rely on someone 100%, you need to take a step back and retrace your steps. Relationships are built on trust, not availability. If you have a reason to actually insult your significant other, theres something you really need to work out. Miscommunications and misunderstandings are the worst, which is why it’s important to state what you are and are not comfortable with in the first place. Never disrespect the other party’s boundaries. And you don’t have to spill every secret ever to them, either. Just make sure they know when you’re upset when you can talk about it civilly. If you’re too mad to think rationally, you need time to cool down. And thats okay, and your partner should respect that.
Thank you very much, this video really helped me. I'm in relationships with one special guy, but I had very hard times tell him that I love him and after I did it I was still scared.... But now, when I saw this video, I realised... We do every single one of these things. And I guess we do and will do much more. So thank you ❤️
One of the most important things I realised throughout my relationship, is that both should be able to listen, give in and say sorry! It's ok to be misunderstood sometimes, people are diferent, even soulmates! The important thing is being so sure about one's personality and traits that no argument can really damage the couple! When someone values you for who you are and are willing to help you through life, by your side, there is nothing in this world that can put out this fire. Not even death, as I believe! 🌹The true one will never leave your side!❣️ ❤️The true one will come naturally!💕
And accepting your partner the way they are instead of changing them into something they are not... Each person is special in their own way, so the best thing one can do to their partner is to accept and love them the way they are ❤❤❤
I'm getting married in 44 short days. My fiance and I are a lot like the relationship you just described and I just feel like we're meant to be. Like God gave him to me ☺️. Also as a student graphic designer, I love how you made the couple in this video complementary colors.
Communication, and a lot of patience. We can’t ever truly be in each other’s heads, so communication. And yet, being frustrated by the other person, either when miscommunicating or they are seemingly being slow to understand, can be rough. Patience is really the key, to me.
Being able to be 100% honest and open about any thoughts going throughout your mind, combined with both of you being able to understand eachother on even the smallest of details as if you feel how you 2 click together
I agree that communication is very important. Following the NEED and desire within eachother to stay together and also work as a team and fight every obstacle that comes in the way of Us being together! I love the animation, especially the colours!!
Narcissistic parenting has been already covered, but how to stand up to them has not been covered yet (or at least I dont think... haha) I hope this helps ^_^
Been for 5 years in a long distance relationship with my significant other that I met 9 years ago & lived together for 4 years beforehand. It got harder year by year - almost soul crushing...finally after all those years by end of next month she will come back and stay with me.
Wow this entire video described my relationship with my partner we’ve been together for 3 years and we have three kids together he’s my best friend and partner in crime. I love him immensely and we consider each other’s soulmate. Lots of patience and dedication. Love and understanding. Meeting a great person is possible.
Advice for everyone getting into a relationship, don’t rush it, be friends first, if you rush into it it can sometimes be awkward and weird, if you become friends and become comfortable with eachother then you can decide if you really want a relationship (worked for me)
Seems like my Partner are going to have a happy ever after... We both think, that its dumb to not argument with each other. Well, its better not argument in heat, but you have to speak out whats going on inside you, even when your going to cry! I hope for everyone to find someone whos supportive and positive, when you are negative to keep you up! (Thats something that just makes every Problem better to solve...)
Who here has a loving relationship with food? Comment below. lol.
Ramen!
Meeee
I just love Pizza mmmmm it is so tasty
Me
Meeeeeeeee
Who is watching this hoping the relationship they are in lasts forever
Yes...
wait how did you-
Nah, _longer_ than forever
You
I don't even have a relationship
Another sign: you don't give up on a relationship after a little fight
Edit: when I said little fight I mean an argument that doesn’t involve any abuse and it’s over something relatively unimportant
Golden Lion39 my name is Alexander Hamilton
Phyco Girl XXX and there’s a million things I haven done.
Yee Yee Sauce but just you wait just you wait
How about a fight that leads to a mental breakdown and an acute heart attack?
Phyco Girl XXX as a kid in the Caribbean i wished for a war
I think that telling your partner when do you feel bad, angry, anxious etc. and trying to solve the problems together and trying to avoid what you can't change is the best way to create a healthy relationship.
Communicating yourself is super important! We agree :)
@@Psych2go "Communication is the best solution to any confusion"
Ziemniaczys 😀
Number 1 thing people can't change: their past. Avoid it and don't let it affect your relationship.
@@ShinyPantssss but sometimes you have to talk about it and let it go rather than trying to forget.
1. You share comfortable silence. 0:57
2. You think about each other when you're apart. 1:25
3. You communicate with each other. 2:05
4. Your arguments makes you stronger. 2:44
5. You help build each other up. 3:42
6. You don't feel the need to cheat. 4:34
7. You set realistic expectations. 5:15
Thank you ❤️
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Thank you helpful person! Just what I was looking For!
Deez
*_I wish you all a Lifetime of Love!
Amen
You too
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Same to you!!
*7 Signs Your Love Will Last a Lifetime:*
1. You're both Vampires
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That was a good one😂👌
2. Make sure that love will not be broken by a werewolf
Gerard Way and Frank Iero?
They are vampires
Duchi sounds like a film starring Tilda Swinton.
Having no arguments at all means that both partners are definitely not being real with each other. And role playing can never last a lifetime!
SAAAAAAAME
So you fight with your partner?!?!
Having different opinions at times doesn't mean they have to argue tho, some people just work and interact together differently
Yeah that was one problem with my ex. We both never wanted to upset each other, and even when we asked if everything was okay, we didn't say the truth.
Role playing is for the bedroom and that's the only place it is acceptable. Be real with eachother. Been with my man for 5 years now and we moved in together last year. We are so in love. Every passionate kiss still feels like the first and in those moments, we are the only people in the world
*My fiance was with me when I was broke and depressed and she's with me now with a job, a house and a car.*
Her love was only dependent on the time and energy I invest in the relationship. It was never about money or having nice things.
I hope every single one of you finds a love like that.
Your Favorite Lifecoach That's awesome. I hope your relationship lasts long
Congrats!!
My boyfriend is now at the same situation and I'm positive that everything while be okay. But he is afraid about that he can't offer a good life and thinks that Ieave
That's amazing. I hope your relationship lasts forever
@David Hume Wow really?
We have almost 40 years under our belts. What has made it work for us are. #1 Trust. #2 Honesty. #3 Empathy. #4 No Jealousy. #5 Unconditional love. #6 Communication.
That is beautiful, thank you for commenting !!!!
Unconditional love is somewhat tricky tbh, there is a thing that you expect your partner to do and you communicate those things to your partner, but somehow if they don't work on it or don't do it for you, you may feel quite distanced. And even if you chose to love them equally without holding any grudges, that resentment of your partner not doing something for you will build up, then somewhere love becomes conditional. And I feel little bit of conditional love is also fine, otherwise one only gets taken advantage of.
@@prashantiyer7
This maybe the case with 90% of what you described as conditional love. But you are forgetting the exception to the rule. There is always the exception of the rule and we are the exception to the rule. 40 years and working on another 40 god willing. If not realistically 25-35 as long as unforeseen circumstances.
#1 You share comfortable silence.
#2 You think about eachother when you are apart.
#3 you communicate with each other.
#4 your argument makes you stronger.
#5
#6 you don't feel the need to cheat.
#7 you set realistic expectations.
Blessing Ogbomo #5 You help building each other up
Amen
Thanks!
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#4. I can't argue about difference of 'religion' because for me, my spouse MUST be Christianity's follower, better said 'Jesus's follower'. You must be thankful I don't add 1 point: MUST be new christened baptism like in some churches.
My partner and I don’t argue, but it’s because we talk about what’s bothering us. If they do something that gets under my skin, I wait until I’m no longer annoyed or mad and talk to them about it.
It’s an honest conversation, and together we find ways to work through whatever was bothering me.
They do the same as well.
I feel like a healthy argument would play out like that. You two are obviously mad but instead of throwing pointless insults that'll get nowhere and only hurt each other, you try to find a middle ground.
same
That’s good advice - to tackle it when you are no longer angry about it - and can be more objective. 👍🏼
This!!!
this works so well !!
I think that the one that makes lasting relationship is mostly communication
Xox Wolf agree!
Yes!!
It's so important!!!
communication & comprehension
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a tip: dont be around eachother ALL the time. People need distance somtimes.
Btw: that why my first relationship ended, i was around them ALL THE TIME
Nynke Frijlink yep, agreed. 🙌
I agree. I think every single person needs privacy and his/her own space, to cultivate personal passions or simply because sometimes you want to be alone
them?
It's not necessarily a fact!
It's what you prefer it could also be the other way around.
It's all a thought
@@diegojesusespinozafrancia4984 Privacy for him/her even tho we broke up.
1. You share comfortable silences
2. You think about each other when your apart
3. You communicate with each other
4. Your arguments make you stronger
5. You help build each other up
6. You don’t feel the need to cheat
7. You set realistic expectations
i met my girl online about 6 months ago and pretty much instantly fell in love, we haven't met but i know when we do it's gonna be worth it. we have all these 7 signs and i know we'll get through anything. we're strong like that
it's all worth it already 🥺 it's you and I forever 🥺 I love you so much
@@ryleebrough4 i love you more than anything 🥺❤️
@@realayrtonmusic more than anything, always 🥺❤
My love will last a lifetime
because i'll never have one
**sobs heavily**
Not true buddy,the right person for you will arrive at right time😊....
You're in the comments of every video I watch :')
What?
Zuzu rbc and wbc can be inlove right? i dont watch much cells at work.
Wiser words have never been spoken uwu
Love is healthy when you can *CONTROL* your arguments.
Indeed. Arguments are part of a healthy relationship if it can be a learning experience for both sides.
Yea it was like that at first but it mine ended off for the reason that were was little to no control on my relationship. My girlfriend would yell and be disrespectful when things are going wrong and I would try to reason but as the more it happened the less energy I had to engage in the argument and more I was afraid to getting into one.
Press ctrl... omg
*What's meant to be will ALWAYS find a way.*
You should become a person Who writes poets
So I'm meant to be alone?
@@jotatori3773 Aloneness is a perception. If you believe that, you will be that.
@@osse1n It was a joke.
Edit: also things don't just find a way for example if I was a shut in I would never find love or friendship so everything that comes your way is product of your actions be it minor or major nothing is "meant to be" as you put it.
Again the same person!
I'm about a month into a new relationship and I feel like the single most important thing is communication. It's only been a month so naturally I probably still have those rose-tinted goggle on, but I can say that this relationship really feels different because both of us can communicate honestly and openly with each other, and more importantly neither of us gets defensive or argumentative.
I know it's probably weird for a stranger on the internet to ask this a year after your original comment, but how has that relationship gone since then? I hope it's been great for you :)
Communication is soooo important, so many of my clients present with communication difficulties. When we finally sort that out together it really makes a difference in their relationships.
Hi Mary...have you ever helped a couple in which one is on the autism spectrum? (I'm that one.) I am in a sort of hell because I don't get the solitude I need to recharge. Human relating is absolutely draining for me. I have felt burnt out for 2.5 years now, and the meltdowns are getting worse. It's like we are living on different planets, speaking different languages. I don't know what to do.
*Loving LIFE is the most honest emotional expression there can be*
Always there, always by your side, always...
Lol, you are that guy from Zuniga channel
...to the suicide.
@@hotdogeswag261 suicide is not a solution.
@@lowca6457 Cmon bro. Just think how easy it would be if one were dead. Its literally going back to the place you were before being birthed; nowhere. Its, to me, such an ocham's razor that its not worth it because you're only living in the body you've been born into once.
HotDoge SWAG!! I been suicidal with near attempts, broke and depressed for 8 years but finally on a steady track for one hell of a comeback now i wanna be immortal
What if I feel like there's nothing to ever argue about with my girlfriend? We bring up things that are bothering us at times, and we talk it through. But we don't argue.
I'd like to know as well. I'm single but I'd still like to know.
I guess that means that your communication is strong and that you guys are comfortable with each other. If you guys know how to address things that bother you without getting mad, then there's no need to argue because your communication with your partner is really good.
If you ever do, it is normal. It should not mean you should end things right then and there.
I'm the same with my boyfriend. If there's anything bothering us we confront it ASAP and work through it together.
It's like this with me and my bf. I think most people think if you're not arguing, you're not communicating. But I think if you have really good communication you can discuss things without arguing. My bf and I also just get along so well it's very rare we disagree on anything in the first place.
If you love yourself, your love will last a lifetime. We are all born as pure love, if you learn to strip away the layers you have learned from parents, teachers and society you will find this again. When you are full of self love, you are able to overflow and love another. We are writing a book and this is a major pillar. We also just did a video on this....
What I appreciate about my relationship, is that even when we argued and angry at each other, we still cuddle to sleep no matter what 😂 it is not perfect, and I don't know if it will last a lifetime, but I'm presently happy and I am grateful for that.
Im single yet watching this as if I've been in a long term relationship
Oof same
Lol yes-
Single for 17½ Years
I've been in a long term relationship but I'm single now lol...😭😭😭😭😭
lol same
I have a crush at work who I’m just getting to know, but we often gaze into each other’s eyes without saying anything and it doesn’t feel awkward at all. It’s actually kinda nice, like I already established some kind of connection with him. I hope we will have a good future together ❤️
I wish you all the best :)
Hopefully he comes up to you to go out for lunch or somewhere to have fun :)
how did it go?
Hey how are things now? Did you confess?
Updates???
Mutual respect. How can anything last without it.
I think a perfect happily ever after, is being in an understanding relationship and being able to tryst one another even during the worst of moments
I am extremely blessed to currently be in a relationship like this. Another important thing I believe is to be great full for them. Thank whatever higher power you subscribe to daily and just speak that energy into your life.
Who’s single and still watching this ✋
Edit:thanks for the likes guys I never got so many likes thank you so much
I'm sure by tomorrow, you will have at least 100 + likes on this comment.
Meeeee
I am honored to be your 69th like
@@Psych2go it's gonna take lesser time than that. Lol.
Hahahaha!!! Me!
This channel is my secret weapon in life now.
I'm glad this channel exist. Everyday I feel a little bit confident in myself thanks to you guys.
Well my love will last a lifetime.
**an unlimited warranty anime body pillow**
Yes my Zero Two pillow has no complaints with me and I have no complaints with her.
Jelly B How wonderful, I’m so happy for you guys! 😊
SAL_ t wholesome
What are they, and where can I get one!
Having the same values and goals makes a relationship stronger too. My fiancée and I are in a long distance relationship and we talk about our future. What we want, our goals.. we want the same things. We also talk about things that bother us, we communicate, we support each other, we are happy with each other, we feel peaceful around each other and we feel like we can be ourselves around each other without being judged. A happy and perfect relationship is different for others though
Edit 2: He's since contacted me after ghosting me, explained everything. I'm no longer mad at him but I am never trusting him with my heart ever again.
Edit: Most of this aged like milk. Not all of it; just the parts about him being my Heartmate... everything else I still stand by.
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This is probably the most cliche statement ever but I speak from experience: Become best friends first. Virtually nothing changed between my Heartmate and I since we started dating. We have been basically flirting even before we were official and that's because we were so comfortable with eachother from being best friends. The only difference is the frequency and openness of our display of affection towards one another.
Another tip is to take it slow, don't jump in with both feet like my Heartmate and I did the first time we dated five years ago. We hadn't seen eachother for years until I moved in with my mom and we just kind of fell in love HARD but it was too soon; he proposed to me not six months later and I never realized just how not ready I was. Long story short: We had to break up, we both had to grow, and now here we are as if we never parted ways and yet it's stronger than ever thanks to the time needed to mature. We've still got alot to learn but perhaps one day we'll be ready to be engaged again 😊
RoseOfTheNight4444 I absolutely love ur story, u were obviously meant to be
Becoming best friends first is like saying you should be in the friendzone first. I actually didn't know it was possible to get out of there. lmao
@@BortLoco Being friendzoned is only a thing when your feelings for someone are not mutual. But it's entirely possible, you just have to establish a connection first.
@@nicolawalker6402 Awww, thank you so much! 🥰
my bf and i were friends beforehand and now i feel like he is my best friend more than my lover... is that normal?
The second I wanted to talk with my friend about the beautiful time I had with my Crush yesterday I saw the Notification that this Video just came out...Coincidence?....
Most likely yes
But it's still an encouraging Thought to have :D
I love your Videos and they also have helped me in the past a lot. Thank you
In addition to that the Community here is a lovely and heartwarming one and I'm glad to be a part of it!
*#1 thing to have a lifetime love for - is LIFE itself.*
Appreciate the life, its all aspects, flow with it and everything else will follow as a bonus.
Nice, this is so true!
So true man
I actually had expectations set for a relationship in the past. And then I met someone just recently and almost every single one of those expectations was broken and I was shocked and amazed at how wonderful the relationship is. It changed my entire idea of love and I feel more free to express love as well!
All those signs were present in a past relationship and now we’re apart. I think about him everyday and I honestly can’t understand why he ended things. Feels like I now have an empty space that will never be filled again.
Oh my
I kinda disagree with the arguments. With me and my girlfriend, we never really fight but that’s because of the Communication that’s important in every relationship. We never get to the fights because our conversations iron everything out. Everyone gets scared that me and my girlfriend are faking our relationship when I say we don’t fight, but we don’t hide thoughts that could start fights from each other. Like when she realized some crucial things about herself and she told me she wanted to bottle it all up. She didn’t because she values me more than hiding it and pretending it isn’t there. She just mentioned it and we talked. Nothing escalated. Arguments shouldn’t really need to happen in my opinion
Corrine Berry are ya still together
Arguing by default doesn’t mean screaming and fighting, it just means disagreeing on each other’s opinions, which in this case you talk it through straight up and therefore it’s a healthy argument, like a peaceful debate. I think this is what they mean by arguing
But you guys do argue arguing doesn't always mean fighting and screaming
its the same with me. its not necessarily that we agree all the time, just we talk about the issues we are having before it gets out of hand. we have had one big argument, and i know neither of us want that to happen ever again. everything should be constructive, because youre not working against one another in a relationship, just trying to make it the best it can be.
@@bohlalemtati5622 it isn't an argument, it's a conversation. No we aren't together anymore, but that had nothing to do with our communication, more like she stopped showing that she valued me. I am dating someone else now and we also don't really fight. My current boyfriend says when people fight there's usually an element of winning the argument. He doesn't fight because he doesn't see any value in winning arguments, so again he just talks to me. And vice versa, if something happens that upsets me I always just mention it and he always thanks me for just saying it because fighting your way thru it doesn't always work for everyone. It's a discussion because we are both expressing our ideas without shutting each other out
My love lies with Psych2Go so I hope that lasts a life time. Good video to watch at 6AM because *_REAL_* love lifes are for cool kids
I assure you I am nowhere near cool ;v;
I've just realised that this is what most of my relationships look like (and I don't mean romantic relationships only) from my perspective - when I like someone, I care about them, tell them what I think just so they know what do I expect from them. I have comfortable silences with them and all that stuff. The only problem is that that's only my perspective and people don't usually feel the same way about me. It's just like I think everyone deserves full love and understanding but when I finally get that, I'm so scared that it's just temporary that I mess up everything.
Communication is so important. I’m a very good listener and find myself being the ear most people at work need to vent on their heart troubles. I cannot count how many times I think “you shouldn’t be telling me this, you need to tell your partner”, particularly to the people who have been in their relationships for 4+ years !! Communicate - and not in an attacking way that leads to fights. Calmly say what you feel, and then listen to what your partner has to say. You must put yourself in their shoes in order to understand. It’s necessary.
Great advice Lindsey! :) Thanks for sharing! Do you think it helps people to talk to someone outside of their relationship as well?
Psych2Go Yes, definitely! I think communication can always be beneficial, I just believe that when it comes to issues or mattes of the heart that are in serious correlation to your level of happiness then it’s just as important to make sure you are saying this to the person who also needs to hear it the most.
My girlfriend and I had a few communication hiccups early, but we've established that we need to be honest with each other. I don't like being wrong, or needing to change my ideas, but given time I can accept it. I hope everyone can find a loving and whole relationship.
*laughs in single forever*
Hell yeah, I got the communication check mark.
And on the topic of arguments, the only reason me and my partner haven't had one ( yet ) is because of there's something bothering us from the get-go, we have to say whats wrong and prevent resentments and that's the logic we both have when we disagree on something and then we figure out how to make it so we're both happy! But thats kinda way we haven't argued in a sense.
Amazing! We have the same concept as you. We're incredibly honest with each other - and that's what I love about us. This prevents things overflowing right from the start. You're on the right track!
@@TheKubbas Good! plus arguments give me really bad anxiety ( seeing as I've heard family members arguing a lot) and would rather just avoid it as best as I can.
Listening to eachother. Also compromising and working together while still being two separate people with their own lives, friends, dreams etc. Having goals as a couple as well as individual goals.
Trust, communication and understanding. My heart really opened up when I found my soulmate over 7,000 miles away. I never thought I would of been in a long distance relationship. 😅
This is so true of me and the guy that I like. He's always helping and loving, and I do the same right back. We don't really argue, but we definitely talk through important things and communicate well about serious topics. And bonus, he loves me, so it all works out. Even though it's not always easy, the past two years have been the best of my life!
Yeah, my bed and I's relationship will definitely last forever.
I know I am still pretty young to be in a relationship and that most people who have one at this age don’t last long, but I feel like ours will last for long. I’m best friends with my boyfriend. I can act like a kid around him but when needed we can both be mature with each other. I constantly can’t stop thinking about him and we both help each other up when we feel low.
I hope everyone finds someone eventually.
More like "Signs My LACK OF Love will Last a Lifetime"
Same
One of the most important is trust with deep understanding 💕
Being in my marriage, I never thought I’d love trombone music but darn it, he’s an awesome trombone player! I totally dig it when he practices. And he loves it when I knit! Granted, both of us can’t pick up either of these skills from each other but we can appreciate the heart that goes into each of them.
I'm afraid of a broken heart..........that's my biggest fear😤
eh, get your heart broken at least once
We achieved all the signs and yes, we are building our “ever after lifetime relationships ” every single day... never thought I could ever be so lucky
According to this video my relationship should have lasted a lifetime.... but we were only together a very short 6 months before he passed away from heart problems. 😭😭😭
It would have lasted though. I knew before watching this. We were robbed of that. 😥
I'm so sorry for your loss.
LMAO you didn't care
Gangsta James shut up
@@godistoogood6362 fuck off
That must've been horrible, Im so sorry for your loss
in my relationship we do not argue, we voice our opinions when we get upset and we work together to overcome the problems. we’re on the same team we’re not against eachother!
Hay un hombre con el que me gustaría que contactes y que me ayude a restaurar mi matrimonio en solo 2 días...
Ponte en contacto con él ahora en WhatsApp y su nombre es Wilson Thomas, ese es el nombre del hombre poderoso, ok número de WhatsApp: +2347041592580
I'm a japanese in a long distance relation ship with an american girlfriend. At first it seemed so daunting that we're over 7000 miles away, but I see these signs in our relationship! Thanks for re assuring me that we're in a great relationship 😁
Amazing how you posted this a day after my "break up" with my best friend. Thanks universe for crippling me once more
66ft66
Here’s something for the couples who don’t argue, like my boyfriend and I;
Just because you don’t argue, doesn’t mean you’re being fake. It’s okay to literally have nothing to be mad about with eachother, or if you are, have a civil conversation about it. Insulting the other person in a fight is not okay. Yeah, we can disagree on really dumb things, but it is never a heated arguement. We find middle grounds and ways to improve what the problem originally was. And sometimes we’re only upset because we want affection from the other person, and once we tell eachother that, everything gets better. Like, obviously we know we love eachother, sometimes we just need a little boost of confidence. Of which, both of us have no problem providing. It’s okay to ask for help, guidance, and even support. Just don’t do it constantly, that’s when it gets unhealthy. If you rely on someone 100%, you need to take a step back and retrace your steps. Relationships are built on trust, not availability. If you have a reason to actually insult your significant other, theres something you really need to work out. Miscommunications and misunderstandings are the worst, which is why it’s important to state what you are and are not comfortable with in the first place. Never disrespect the other party’s boundaries. And you don’t have to spill every secret ever to them, either. Just make sure they know when you’re upset when you can talk about it civilly. If you’re too mad to think rationally, you need time to cool down. And thats okay, and your partner should respect that.
Anyone else watching this even though you are not in a relationship 😂
I’m watching this after my ex girlfriend broke up with me, but still flirts with me.
Confused af.
Me 🙌🏻😂
Jedi aren't allowed to love.
@@AlexFarleyMusic
And in spite of this, Anakin and Obi-Wan are perhaps the greatest Jedi to have existed.
Thank you very much, this video really helped me. I'm in relationships with one special guy, but I had very hard times tell him that I love him and after I did it I was still scared.... But now, when I saw this video, I realised... We do every single one of these things. And I guess we do and will do much more. So thank you ❤️
Communication and honesty is the key.
Never clicked something so fast
Yes i am also under 10 views
OP Ground Zero 2.0 😀
Thanks you! For this.❤️
Me and my love will truly last forever, I just know it🙂
As long as me and her communicate a lot with each other ❤️
Trust is essential for a lasting relationship. Communication is key!
One of the most important things I realised throughout my relationship, is that both should be able to listen, give in and say sorry!
It's ok to be misunderstood sometimes, people are diferent, even soulmates! The important thing is being so sure about one's personality and traits that no argument can really damage the couple!
When someone values you for who you are and are willing to help you through life, by your side, there is nothing in this world that can put out this fire. Not even death, as I believe!
🌹The true one will never leave your side!❣️
❤️The true one will come naturally!💕
And accepting your partner the way they are instead of changing them into something they are not... Each person is special in their own way, so the best thing one can do to their partner is to accept and love them the way they are ❤❤❤
Love waking up to this adorable animation ♥️♥️♥️ Have an amazing day, everyone! ✨✨✨
Awwwwww thank you!. Looking at your username, looks like you found me. ;)
I'm getting married in 44 short days. My fiance and I are a lot like the relationship you just described and I just feel like we're meant to be. Like God gave him to me ☺️.
Also as a student graphic designer, I love how you made the couple in this video complementary colors.
How are you guys doing now tell me I am curious.
@@gamerwithnoobskill7660 Absolutely fantastic 😊 we're about to celebrate our third anniversary and move into a new home
@@zero-chan1830 oh I am happy for you.
@@zero-chan1830 BTW I wanna know that how much time you guys dated each other before marriage.
@@gamerwithnoobskill7660 two of three years
WoW.. The views counter went from 4 views to 1.3k by the time i finished watching the video
😲
Damn
Communication, and a lot of patience. We can’t ever truly be in each other’s heads, so communication. And yet, being frustrated by the other person, either when miscommunicating or they are seemingly being slow to understand, can be rough. Patience is really the key, to me.
Being able to be 100% honest and open about any thoughts going throughout your mind, combined with both of you being able to understand eachother on even the smallest of details as if you feel how you 2 click together
Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for watching!
great, now I need a relationship
Me and my boyfriend have the middle 5 signs for our relationship, I think this really will help me narrow down some things. 👍🏼
I agree that communication is very important. Following the NEED and desire within eachother to stay together and also work as a team and fight every obstacle that comes in the way of Us being together!
I love the animation, especially the colours!!
Been with the same guy for nearly 20 years. Very happy. Good. ❤️
Thank you for sharing❤️❤️❤️❤️
Laveena Makhaik ♥️♥️♥️
@@NenaLavonne 😇😇😇
tough when u had all these things but they still dont want u
Can I pls request “Signs that you live with a narcissistic parent and how to stand up to them”
Narcissistic parenting has been already covered, but how to stand up to them has not been covered yet (or at least I dont think... haha) I hope this helps ^_^
We can definitely get into that! Stay tune!
Psych2Go omggg THANK YOUUUU *cries happy*
Me õ_ò I know, but there’s some things on the other vid about that topic that doesn’t exactly makes me feel the same. Just sayin
(mY opiNIOn)
yes, agreed!
I needed this, not gonna lie. I’m starting in a relationship, and I’ve wondered a lot if it will last for as long as I want it to.
Honestly, staring into the eyes of my special one is what I look forward to at the end of the day.
You're obsessed with love in your couple of recent videos.
Me: *Watches this video*
Me at the end of the video realizing that my partner and I qualify on all of these: *smiles intensively*
I've never thought about cheating!
Oh I guess you do need to have an actual relationship for that don't you
i can definetely agree on "communication", that's a huge and important factor for a healthy and lasting relationship 🥺
Been for 5 years in a long distance relationship with my significant other that I met 9 years ago & lived together for 4 years beforehand. It got harder year by year - almost soul crushing...finally after all those years by end of next month she will come back and stay with me.
For me, I know that my marriage will last forever because me and my husband loved God first. One for each other and both for the Lord. ❤😇
Hope everyone's having a good day and finds their partner
Golden Lion39 I love your pfp
Love this video UwU
Cause i did find the one
KaeXD2180
I truly believe I did as well.
@@QuietChaos1996 oof
Wow this entire video described my relationship with my partner we’ve been together for 3 years and we have three kids together he’s my best friend and partner in crime. I love him immensely and we consider each other’s soulmate. Lots of patience and dedication. Love and understanding. Meeting a great person is possible.
Advice for everyone getting into a relationship, don’t rush it, be friends first, if you rush into it it can sometimes be awkward and weird, if you become friends and become comfortable with eachother then you can decide if you really want a relationship (worked for me)
Seems like my Partner are going to have a happy ever after...
We both think, that its dumb to not argument with each other. Well, its better not argument in heat, but you have to speak out whats going on inside you, even when your going to cry!
I hope for everyone to find someone whos supportive and positive, when you are negative to keep you up! (Thats something that just makes every Problem better to solve...)
How are you guys doing now.
@@gamerwithnoobskill7660 still dating~
I’m 25 and I have never been in a relationship. Why am I watching if my relationship will last for ever???
„you share comfortable silence with each other“
haha no we are both just damn shy introverts who cant start shit😔👌🏻
The feeling when you and your loved one fill everything to be together forever ❤
Communication, arguments, no resentment , build each other up from scratch, you trust each other and stay connected
1-You're playing a date simulator where there's only you.