I think this song resonates with so many other issues. I am a Black woman that has never felt welcomed or accepted by other Black women. People have an idea of what “blackness” is and I don’t meet the criteria. High school was miserable for me as well as much of my early adulthood. I was very lonely! In my late 20’s while in grad school I decided two peas in a bucket... eff it! I am unapologetic eccentric and unique. I love it!
i don’t have the strength to act cool we all lose ourselvs for a while sometimes 👏 O N E 👏 P A G E 👏 O F 👏 T H E 👏 B I B L E 👏 I S N T 👏 W O R T H 👏 A 👏 L I F E 👏
God loves you. As long as you have Jesus in your heart, You'll be accepted with open arms into heaven. Just a simple "Jesus I need you, Please come into my heart." Will welcome him in. He will change you in tiny ways to make you the way he wants you to be. (not saying being LGBTQ+ isn't what he want you to be) He loves everyone unconditionally.
To anyone who needs to hear this: You are loved. You are supported. Keep fighting. It will get better, just keep going. One foot in front of the other. I wish you all the best.
That awkward moment when you're actually a trans person with a uncle John who's transphobic and your grandma actually has heart problems and might not make it if she hears really stressful news.
I have transphobic parents and my memaw has a lot of issues and my granny has high blood pressure and blood sugar. All of them talk bad about transgenders and I hate it. Why wont they accept that their opinions aren't needed for everything. I'm alastor and I go by he/him pronouns but to them I'm she/her and felicity(I hate this name on me)
@Alastor Griffith i got a transphobic family n i hate it, too :/ i won't say my deadname, but i go by Eden. My pronouns are he/him/they/them.🖤we'll get through this! :)) take care, Alastor.❤n remember that YOU ARE VALID.🖤❤
@@revalisfeathers9531 It means it takes the whole village and everyone to make a child feel completely safe and grow in a healthy environment. So the lyrics “There’s something wrong in the village,” is implying there are people who are not accepting and comforting creating an unsafe and unhealthy environment. Back to “It takes a village to raise a child,” those who are not as accepting and comforting will impact the child and their growth signifying “It takes a village to raise a child.”
1 page of the bible isnt worth a life _1 page of the bible isnt worth a life_ 1 PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISNT WORTH A LIFE *1 PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISNT WORTH A LIFE*
Exactly! Even if it's a phase, everything we do can be a phase, life is full of phases and that is normal. I used to think I was lesbian, now I'm a proud pan man =)
.... I cried. I'm a trans boy ftm and just... I needed this song when I was 7 and knew I couldn't possibly be a woman. Here I am, less than a week away from getting bloodwork and consulting about starting testosterone and just... This song. It's making me cry it means the world to me holy shit. I'm so thankful it exists and I just hope some other trans boys can listen to this song and know it's ok. You're going to be whoever you want to be and nobody has the right to stop you. It's them, not you, and you're so brave.
I'm crying happy tears for you, I'm so glad your starting t soon. I'm nb and can't wait to get my chest binder so I can continue transitioning appearance wise, I wish you the best and I'm so happy your finally able to become your truest self 💖💖
I hate how some people have the audacity to say, “I don’t care about my child’s gender,” up until they kick Jessica out, just because she was born a Justin.
Me: Oh, this song looks decent Me after listening: W h y a m I c r y i n g But seriously, I’m ftm in a religious, transphobic, and homophobic family and this song really speaks to me. EDIT: I came out as bisexual to my parents (on accident) and they think it’s only a phase. They also said that I’m not allowed to be trans (they don’t know). And it turns out I’m actually nonbinary, which they don’t think exists. It sounds bad but I’m looking forward to the day I graduate and move out so I can finally be myself.
im in the same boat as you, we'll get through this. my @ on instagram is @shynanny_ if you ever need to talk, just tell me before you add me because i wont accept it.
As someone who is a practicing Christian and a proud bisexual: I am so sorry my fellow believers are so cruel. You are perfect the way you are and the people who truly care about you see that ❤️
As an atheist I find it disgusting that people put the blame on every single Christian, I'm glad you can practice your religion and feel comfortable in your own skin.
As a transboy, this song means a lot to me. This is the first time I've listened to it, and about halfway through I started crying. I'm so happy this exists
I'm not transgender, but I love this song so much. It shows unity and strength, and one overcoming hate and disapproval to become who they are. That message is one everyone should hear in their life. It helps me stay strong. And to all of you who are suffering right now, for whatever reason, *Stay Strong, Beautiful Hearts
• Phoenix • well you can be my family, this comment was made a while ago but if your still having trouble I can be your family,, it’s not much but I’m pretty sure I’m nb (all pronouns) and bi ace💕
Bree aw thanks💕 I’m sure your a great perosn too and if your ever having trouble or just need to be with someone feel free to join my family💕 I’m on a teenager and not out but I like to help
picolas cage, Can I join? I may not be trans but I am bisexual in a family of homophobes. I just think that people should be loved no matter who they love. Thank you and you seem like an amazing person💗
"We'll i've been there sitting in that same chair whispering that same prayer half a million times" As a christian i dont even remember how many times i've prayed to be straight.
I have religious trauma, I don't hate christianity but it definitely makes me more distant to it, I've prayed and tries so hard to being a straight girl but I can't force it out, no one can force feelings out of someone, I have the gay gene, I have the transgender gene, I can't change even if I wanted to, no one can change me ever. If anyone tried they'd fail miserably, I'm not sorry for being out and proud for being transgender and gay.
“You can’t tell Grandma cause her heart can’t take it and she might not make it” my grandma is so loving and kind to me that if she knew the things my mother said about who I am, my gran would tell me to never go back to her
I like to listen to this song every time my parents are being particularly transphobic. Reminds me I'm not alone and that other people have survived this situation and I can too.
"One page of the Bible isn't worth a life" Leelah Alcorn, I'm so sorry that you had to go. This June will be another month of pride that you should have been able to see. I hope the souls of everyone who has lost the battle to society have found peace, knowing that they made an impact on us all.
To all the people who have taken their lives because of transphobia/homophobia, May you find the peace you were denied in life. And to the people considering it, You’re worth so much more than you realise. It gets better, it genuinely does.
"One page of the bible isint worth a life" I got into an argument with my mom about this what is more important a pice of paper or a life a life is more important
God loves you. As long as you have Jesus in your heart, You'll be accepted with open arms into heaven. Just a simple "Jesus I need you, Please come into my heart." Will welcome him in. He will change you in tiny ways to make you the way he wants you to be. (not saying being LGBTQ+ isn't what he want you to be) He loves everyone unconditionally.
No to be "that guy" but technically it's several pieces of paper, because there are several bibles, bu I agree that no amount of paper is worth a life.
"One page in the bible isn't worth a life" *reads whole bible to search *doesn't find it *does find that God forgives EVERY "sin" and loves you no matter what *even big gayasses like me😅
EXACTY I get so tired of Christian's using their religion to justify homophobia they same that we are a sin if we're a sin we'll still go to heaven if we are save because Jesus died for the WORLD not some I'm a omnisexual christian and I'm afraid to live my truth because of others in my religion
Not to be rude or something but people looked into the whole gay thing and found out it's not a sin in any way just a problem with translating the bible
flynn tate I’m so sorry to hear that! Just remember to stay strong and that you are valid, no matter who you are. Don’t forget to love yourself. It is hard to be shut out due to who you are but try and stay strong, ok? Don’t stress to much, or it only makes it worse. You are deserving of all the love and support you need. I hope you do a lot better!
Though I’m non binary I relate to this song so much, I wasn’t allowed to cut my long hair short and for ages I was forced to wear girlie clothes and makeup. I showed this to one of my friends who is transgender and he cried so much and started thanking the artist for creating this song as he’s been having a really hard time with people making fun of him for being trans and this song has honestly brought some hope and sparkle back into his eyes.
One of the most painful things for a child to experience, is finding out the love from their family is conditional, that they would only be loved for what is wanted of them rather then who they are
Yesterday I had a dance competition and there was a dance under this song, and it was beautiful, the people had costumes with each color of the rainbow, I'm not usually emotional, but this song and dance hit, and I was sitting next to my crush who is a girl just like me, and all of sudden I started to tear up, and she noticed so she kissed on the top of my head, it was amazing and that dance was beautiful
i know im not trans but i grew up in a strictly christian home and i came out to my parents as bisexual recently and i just relate to this song so much and if u are trans u love u even if i dont know u❤
I'm nonbinary to and I was terrified to come out and you dont have to until you're ready just know that when you do it's amazing to get that stress off your shoulders and we love and support you
Speaking as a trans person here: This song really hit me. Sometimes people who are transphobic don't think about the things that person is going through on their own. For example, waking up in the morning and seeing someone who you were born as, but not who you were meant to be hurts. Dealing with the hate you get 24/7 hurts. Dealing with the dysphoria hurts. People forget that it was just as hard for that person to come out as it is for them to accept it. Now once again, I'm trans. I can assure you that if you go up to every trans person in the world, 99% of them would say that they hate being trans. Mainly because of the hate they give themselves. People sit there and think "Who am I?" Or "This isn't me!" And sit there and do things to their body to make themselves who they want to be. If you know a trans person and your transphobic, please keep in mind that the person who is trans is probably going through a lot and needs support. I'm sorry if this didn't make sense, it was kind of a large rant. Sorry!
I competely get what you mean, I am also trans I struggle with some of things you mentioned.. It's hard but us trans folks have to stick together and help one another, because we are all beautiful and unique in our own way. Speaking for everyone here, there is *nothing* wrong with you. ❤
@@mossash5884 I- thank you? Thank you so much for showing your support for people like us. It means so much, and I'm so glad that you look out for your friend. Thank you, and I hope you're having a nice day.
It's sad to realize how a song about drugs, boobs and women being treated as a piece of meat will be more famous than his song, even if this one can save life....
‘one page of the bible isn’t worth a life’ gives me shivers every time, sometimes brings me to tears. It’s an astronomically powerful sentence. And extremely true.
I'm out at the moment, but mum refuses to call me my preferred name and he/him and tells me it's just a phase or an identity crisis. Thankfully, she bought me a binder and my hair is short now, but the song still hits me hard.
I’m a straight girl, but I get all of you guys’ pain. Stay strong! You guys can do it!! I love you all endlessly!❤️❤️you guys are the most beautiful people out there.
I have this song on repeat now - at the start of the week I went to a child’s counselor for my anxiety- I decided to come out to them seeing as it’s what most my worries are based off . Yeah - they told my homophobic parents .. I wasn’t ready I’m only 13 . Now I know for sure they hate me . This song is basically one of the few things keeping me alive . Thank you so so much
hey mate, this must be a very difficult time for you, but dont give up. You can and you will find people that accept u for who you really are, if not now later in life. I just hope things are going better for you now, and dont forget that youre not alone.
Have hope. It's something every human being has a right to, don't let anyone take it away. We might be close, we might be thousands of miles apart, but I'm sending my support.
“Don’t dare, don’t you even go there. Cutting off your long hair, do as your told.” That hit hard, I’m gender fluid but I love short hair, so I cut my hair short, like ‘boy’ hair, my mom still complains about it... she still tries to convince me to grow it out along with my dad. To all trans people out there, I accept you and I am sending you all the love you need and then some because you deserve it, your valid and if you need a new parent I could always ‘adopt’ more kids 😊
Yes. I've never seen how you look, yet I know you look amazing with short hair. Keep on, this is a fight worth fighting. I'll be cheering on from my side of the world.
I cut my hair one year and my mom shouted at me and said I shouldn't do that my hair is the part and makes me beautiful and needs to stay long and she still has a go at me about it after two years. my hair has grown back but I still want it short
I can't stop crying. It's 2 am and I'm led I bed crying my eyes out. If you have never had to come out ... well ... just know hat is is really really really hard and his son helped me through all the hurt and pain I received of others
this song. i’m not trans, but as a lesbian living in a very conservative area, this song hurts a lot. i’ve come out three times to my parents over the past few years, and each time they’ve tried to talk it out of me despite my crying and pleading. it has yet to get any better but i know it will, it has to. i have a few people in my life who support me, and that’s what keeps me going. to my fellow lgbt (especially trans boys, who this song was made for) you matter so much and will get through whatever you’re going through
Thank you so much a lot of people just think I'm a tomboy and I just I haven't had a right time to tell my extended family and I just thank you for what you said
I told my friend that in trans ftm and they asked me why I don't want to come out. I don't know why or can't put it into words why I don't want anyone to know.
I kinda know how you feel I'm a closeted transboy who lives in Alabama but im only 11 so I can't move and again middle school in Alabama is a very homophobic place. But if history has proven anything it's that things will get better.
I'm not trans I'm bi but I relate to this so much and I'm just... Crying 2020 Edit: This is old, but funny story... my homophobic, textbook narcissist dad had my phone, and got a notification from a reply to this comment. I had to admit that yes, I'm bisexual and haven't been religious for several years. He outed me to my whole family, grounded me, took away my phone, said he wouldn't help my pay for college when the time came despite that I'd only just gotten my first job. My anxiety flared up, and my heart was reading for days at a time. He would not stop arguing with me. It was hell for a long time. It would be another year until I turned 18 and moved out. But I did. I'm 19 now, and I'm never living there again. Moral of the story, it gets so. much. better. Hang in there.
I did a lot of musically to this song but today this guy told me the song title I searched up then the music video said it can’t play on my country or whatever and so I looked at this then it made me cry As a trans boy with homophobic parents and pastor dad this vid made me emotional
I one played this song for my mother. She yelled at me. Told me if I even used a binder she'd disown me and I'd be on the streets. I live in a bad area, so I couldn't believe it. How could someone who loved their "daughter " so much could hate the enby person that I really am?
*"Don't dare, don't you even go there, cutting off your long hair."* Me: 😢😖That hit me personally and... T-T I didn't even know about LGBT people until 6th grade. I was sheltered and never was told. When I started puberty, I freaked out. I thought, "Nonono. This isn't me! I wanna go back to being flat-chested! NONONO STOP CHANGING!!! What is wrong with me. I am a girl, but... I don't like it anymore." I live with my grandma. My grandma isn't homophobic, she just isnt as open. When I told her I wanted to cut off my long hair to be guy-short, she freaked out and said, "NO! You are going to get a shoulder-length haircut and that's it!" Well a few months after that, my mom takes me to get my hair cut not super short but like maybe 5 inches long. I'm trans f to m but I am scared to ask to take testosterone, my mom won't buy me a chest binder, and I feel that if I come out to my school friends, they might not wanna talk to me cuz then I would be a gay transgender and I have overheard people randomly talk about, "If a girl becomes trans, but still likes guys, that's just stupid cuz they were a girl and now they wanna be a guy who likes guys?" And I have to hold it in because they don't know my thinking and mindset and if I said something they would know that I am a closeted trans f to m and I don't want that. I have one female friend who is pansexual who knows I'm trans, and she accepts me. When I came to school with short hair, she looked so happy for me accepting myself. Everyone else currently that I am just a tomboy cuz that is what I've told them. One person, who is one of my friends so I'm pretty sure it's a joke, but they always tried to put my hood over my short hair and say, "Its demonic." I know they're joking and I don't think they are extremely religious, but it truly hurts deep down. I wear boy clothes and I asked my grandma if I could get boy clothes for school and she said, "No cuz you are a girl therefore you dress like one." I smiled and said ok, while hiding my pain and disgust that I will have to wear dresses and girly things. I just... hate myself for having this cursed gender dysphoria and wanting to be a guy, acting and dressing like a guy, and my stupid 3 different anxieties that cause me to think everyone will hate me for being myself. Why couldn't I have just been born a guy?! Why did god have to do this to me?! DID HE WANT TO SEE ME SUFFER, KNOWING THAT FEW OF MY LOVED ONES WOULD ACCEPT ME THE WAY I AM IF I TOLD THEM?!!?!?! *I just wanna start over with the right body. Is that too much to ask?*
I'm sorry that you are in a position like that. Please know that you are valid and beautiful. You can and should do what makes YOU happy, it's YOUR life. Don't let other people hold you back. Life won't always be this hard, I promise. You'll find people who truly accept and love you the way you are and there are many ways to make you feel much more at home in your body. Sending you best wishes from Germany. Stay strong and keep shining 🌈❤💛💚💙💜
If no one around you supports who you are then you need to surround yourself with new and accepting people. Just know you aren’t alone and a lot of people are there for you even if you don’t know them
@@stingrae919 im sorry, it might be a typo but what's trigender? I've never heard it (that sounds like I'm trying to invalidate you, I'm not, i haven't heard alot of terms in lgbt and i genuinely would like to be informed about it)
yellow is pretty nice don’t worry about offending me, no one really knows what it is. Basically, I feel a connection to three different genders (male female and agender), and I decided to identify as trigender. However, I feel more toward male and agender when it comes to pronouns (so he/they). I just don’t identify as demiboy or bigender because I don’t feel comfortable with those identifications. Thanks for asking about it!
The first time I listened to this, I cried at "one page of the bible isn't worth a life." Ugh, this song is good. And the violin piano combo! I am such a sucker for good instrumental backgrounds.
try to get help, call psychologists, call hospitals, get on waiting lists if you are in a safe place. talk to your parents as soon as you dare to. when I was your age, I wasn't self assured enough to do something against my body. I now cry often cause I feel like it's already too late and for me, this is the worst part right after something else. especially when I realized I could get on the list without even telling my parents. when I called them, they didn't ask for anything, I probably am the only one who didn't know that you don't need permission from your parents to be on those lists but I regret calling them so late because I have to wait at least a year. I don't even have a therapist now and thinking about my future makes me cry. so change this part. call them right now, just ask, do something. do research. please.
i'm also 11 and relate to this. FTM. Mom is homophobic and transphobic, also abusive. I moved in with my dad, but haven't told him. He won't let me cut my hair, until his girlfriend is in town. On the... 22
Honey...now you're 12. Trust me! Hate will come from everywhere. Just don't waste your wonderful youth listening to other's shit! Just be you. Don't hide who you are. I'm not trans but I'm lesbian. Just be strong and be yourself. In your life, you are the only one concerned. You are the one to lose or win🙏💖🌈
I'm non-Binary and pansexual and my mom says "it's just a phase" And every time I overhear it I just cry.. For like 1/2 and hour and like.. They don't understand y I want my haircut or a binder.. Or anything else Edit: I'm actually trans ftm and gay actually I got my hair cut but my parents still don't except
Very like you pal: My parents let me cut my hair (or rather didn't entirely raise hell when I did without asking. I did rather well too) and SAID, I could socially transition (of course they say medically transitioning at any age would be devastating for me), but they flat out refuse to use my name and pronouns, because "they can't change like that" and I should accept that. Yeah sure I'll accept you not accepting me, thanks. And of course: a phase.
I'm also pan and nb with parents the exact same way. Let's all buy a house together. I'd be much better off with people who can understand who I am and don't want me to change everything
This song is so powerful. It applies to everyone who is different and unique. As someone who used to be a Christian but is now a Norse Pagan and a Witch, I feel this so deeply. I can't share all of myself with those around me. Especially where I live in the South. Only a few know. Stay true to you, and rise up. 🔥
I made a story out of this song: An elder (24ish) trans male on T is talking to a younger pre-t trans male (maybe 15ish) about how things will get better. The 15 yo thinks the 24 yo is amab because of how well he passes. Suddenly, the older trans male falls sick. Before he dies, he tells the younger one, "I've sat there in that same chair whispering that same prayer half a million times." The younger trans male ages, and he's now 20. He's been on T for two years. He finds a different pre-t trans male (about 13ish) and tells him what the oldest trans male told him before he transitioned. He tells the younger boy's religious and homophobic parents, "One page of the Bible isn't worth a life," after seeing the cuts on the younger boy's ankles. Eventually, the older male adopts the younger male
I gotta say, finally being told that there’s nothing wrong with me made me cry. I’ve been living only being told I’m a mistake and believing it, so hearing “there’s nothing wrong with you” means so much, regardless where it’s coming from
This hit so hard... I'm a cis female and I don't wanna be trans but I wanna cut my hair off and I don't feel like wearing makeup very often. I came out to my parents as pan and they said they were gonna try to pray the gay away and I can't tell my grandma because I'm afraid of her looking at me differently... My family is all homophobic and extremely religious (Christian). This song is so emotional to me for these reasons... it feels like the lyrics are about me
Stay strong and keep fighting you have got this and your parents only say this because they are trying to bring you down and I bet your grandma would love you The same grandma are the best and I'm bi and when I told my mom I was 13 and I'm 14 now she said I was a little kid but she still accepted me my siblings also accepting me but I don't think my mom wants me to talk about it but you are an amazing person don't care about what other people say they're just jealous of you because of how amazing you are I promise you you are loved 😍
I may not be trans but I am a biromantic asexual living with a homophobic and religious family. This song brought me to tears and it's comments made me realize just how many other LGBT+ people are in the same boat.
[Verse 1] No, your mom don't get it And your dad don't get it Uncle John don't get it And you can't tell grandma 'cause her heart can't take it And she might not make it They say, "don't dare, don't you even go there. Cutting off your long hair. You do as you're told." Tell you, "wake up, go put on your makeup. This is just a phase you're gonna outgrow." [Chorus] There's something wrong in the village In the village, oh They stare in the village In the village, oh There's nothing wrong with you It's true, it's true There's something wrong with the village With the village There's something wrong with the village [Verse 2] Feel the rumors follow you from Monday all the way to Friday dinner You got one day of shelter, then it's Sunday hell to pay, you young lost sinner Well I've been there, sitting in that same chair Whispering that same prayer half a million times It's a lie though Buried in disciples One page of the Bible isn't worth a life [Chorus] There's something wrong in the village In the village, oh They stare in the village In the village, oh There's nothing wrong with you It's true, it's true There's something wrong with the village With the village There's something wrong with the village [Break] [Chorus] There's something wrong in the village In the village, oh They stare in the village In the village, oh There's nothing wrong with you It's true, it's true There's something wrong with the village With the village There's something wrong with the village
This proves how cruel the world is. They don't judge people on personality, they judge people on the outside. Not the inside. It's very upsetting. And just so everyone knows, there's nothing with you. You are all beautiful the way you are and you do WHATEVER you want to do in your life
If the bible says its wrong, and people are shoving it in your face saying "THE BIBLE SAYS ITS WRONG SO I HATE YOU! YOU NEED TO CHANGE!" That definetly isn't worth a life. but the bible is full of other truths and life lessons on trusting in God. It's helped me through so much
people take the bible to literally, the bible is made to set a generalized understanding of how god progressed in history, it wasnt written by god himself, at the time people thought that was wrong so thats what they wrote
As a mom of two, this comment section breaks my heart. All of you hurt kids just looking for acceptance and love from your parents. And all of those parents failing so hard at such a simple job. If you ever need a mom, I'll be here for you. You are so loved!
I'm about to go to a christian youth retreat so I'm downloading this onto my ipod nano in case I need reassurance that being trans ftm/pansexual is okay :,)
Tonight me and my gf told our best friend we're dating and I'm currently crying because Idk what to expect and it hurts so much pretending not to be who I am with my family so if I have to pretend to my friends also idk what I'll do I'm so tired of the village being so hard and painful to live in....
Dont worry....im going through the same thing....my family dosnt except...... they wont let me cut my hair or use different pronouns....i try and tell my family every thing i can....but really how do u explain the way ur feeling....that ur trans....how do u explain that....i try my best but i think my family is hearing but not really listing....the only thing u and i can do is stay strong....♥️⚕🏳️🌈
Hi local Christian here, Also local agender For other noncis Christians You are wonderful Take care of yourself God made you special He still loves you
If the bible says its wrong, and people are shoving it in your face saying "THE BIBLE SAYS ITS WRONG SO I HATE YOU! YOU NEED TO CHANGE!" That definetly isn't worth a life. but the bible is full of other truths and life lessons on trusting in God. It's helped me through so much
I feel like this isnt supposed to be just about ONE thing. It can be about gay people and transgender people. It depends on the person listening to the song ☺
@@JadedPythonCorpse songs can be interpreted in different ways. Just because a trans dude was in the music video doesn't make it exclusively about trans people.
@@florencelont4638 Technically it is about trans people, specifically ftm, obvious from the lines "They say, don't dare, don't you even go there, cutting off your long hair. You do as you're told. Tell you wake up, go put on your make-up. This is just a phase you're gonna outgrow." When he says he's been there sitting in that same chair, I've always kinda heard it as 'he has been there, having to hide and deny his identity, being made to feel like he is in the wrong for who he is, because it is not accepted in his religion'. Aka, he's in the LGBTQA+ community, and that's why he understands. Anyways, I do feel like this song can and should be interpreted differently. If someone connects to the song but they aren't trans, than that's perfectly fine. While the first part is for trans men, the song in general definitely feels like it could be for the whole of the LGBTQA+ community.
This has been a support song of mine for a long time when I had no other support. And today, I'm going to sit down and talk with my (semi-accepting) parents about T with the therapist that diagnosed me with dysphoria. Soon, hopefully, this song won't be for the comfort but just a good listen. And I hope this for the rest of you too. ^^
Someone once told me that I had to wear a dress because I was a "girl." Well guess what? Maybe I don't fully identify as a "girl" what if I want feminine pronouns some days and gender neutral pronouns another? So what if a have a crush on a girl? I'm pansexual. I also don't fully identify as a girl! ALSO I GET TO CUT MY HAIR SHORT NEXT WEEK AND I'M SO EXITED!!!!!!!!! Edit: my hair is short and fabulous. I feel more comfortable in my body just by making that small change💖
My name is Abigail I’m not straight but I’m not gay........ I AM BISEXUAL AND DAMN PROUD OF IT. Cuz no matter what you say you can’t take my pride away 💖💜💙
I may not be trans but this song makes me cry every time, it's so powerful and I feel like the whole world should hear it. If you are trans and going through something hard listen to me....you may not believe it but you are loved, cared for, just be who you were meant to be, god wouldn't put u here to make you feel miserable, he put you here because you have a purpose, he knows that you are strong enough to fight these battles...trust me, he'd never hurt you....ever. No matter what anyone says, don't change u! Who u are is your ur meant to be. When I say don't change you I mean it in a since of don't let someone else change you, don't let them push you around and tell you ur not good enough because you are. Tho I don't know you guys I love you all from the bottom of my heart, I honestly do...I hope this helps a little ❤️❤️
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"A child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth"
Damn straight I will. I love arson.
@@SKaur-se3br ✊
@Isabella is here Do it. Put it on your wall.
Damn, I don't think ppl realize how true this is...
I think this song resonates with so many other issues. I am a Black woman that has never felt welcomed or accepted by other Black women. People have an idea of what “blackness” is and I don’t meet the criteria. High school was miserable for me as well as much of my early adulthood. I was very lonely! In my late 20’s while in grad school I decided two peas in a bucket... eff it! I am unapologetic eccentric and unique. I love it!
The amount of comfort this song brings me is ASTRONOMICAL
Ikr!
Ikr
Samee
YES
i can always tell who the tik tok stans are in these comments 😂
**CRIES**
**SLAMS THAT LIKE BUTTON**
**CRACKS THE GODDAMN SCREEN**
**BREAKS THROUGH THE FOURTH DIMENSION**
*GOES TO THE SPONGEBOB UNIVERSE*
This made me laugh so hard.
@@nojimmyprotested5834 wtf spongebob
“one page of the bible isn’t worth a life”
Say it louder for the people in the back
i don’t have the strength to act cool we all lose ourselvs for a while sometimes 👏 O N E 👏 P A G E 👏 O F 👏 T H E 👏 B I B L E 👏 I S N T 👏 W O R T H 👏 A 👏 L I F E 👏
ONE PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISN'T WORTH A LIFE
God loves you. As long as you have Jesus in your heart, You'll be accepted with open arms into heaven. Just a simple "Jesus I need you, Please come into my heart." Will welcome him in. He will change you in tiny ways to make you the way he wants you to be. (not saying being LGBTQ+ isn't what he want you to be) He loves everyone unconditionally.
And in the front
I love that
_"One page in the Bible isn't worth a life."_
*THANK YOU OMGMSMFNANDNANJD*
this is going to be my senior quote
why wasn't Santa embalmed cool fact that page was translated wrong it's actually about pedophilia not being gay.
Nutella | Ik!!!!! Like it's sad how misinterpreted the Bible is
why wasn't Santa embalmed ik and to even know what it really says you need to learn Latin
+Nutella or in hebraic, the language the Bible was basically written
To anyone who needs to hear this:
You are loved.
You are supported.
Keep fighting.
It will get better, just keep going. One foot in front of the other. I wish you all the best.
😍😍😍
Just LOVE.
Just GENDER.
were all just people.
We all deserve this
Thanks.
Thank you so much.
Thank you do much
Thank you so much
Thank you
That awkward moment when you're actually a trans person with a uncle John who's transphobic and your grandma actually has heart problems and might not make it if she hears really stressful news.
I hope she is doing well❤also, we're ALL in this TOGETHER. Society will change for the better, one day!!✊🏼🏳️🌈❤
I have transphobic parents and my memaw has a lot of issues and my granny has high blood pressure and blood sugar. All of them talk bad about transgenders and I hate it. Why wont they accept that their opinions aren't needed for everything. I'm alastor and I go by he/him pronouns but to them I'm she/her and felicity(I hate this name on me)
@Alastor Griffith i got a transphobic family n i hate it, too :/ i won't say my deadname, but i go by Eden. My pronouns are he/him/they/them.🖤we'll get through this! :)) take care, Alastor.❤n remember that YOU ARE VALID.🖤❤
@@edenink4003 I wish u the best of luck Eden
To you too, Alastor!❤❤
WHY ISN'T THIS SONG MORE POPULAR
Populorca honestly
For real though it should be on every radio channel cause damn ain't it the truth.
fr
Populorca transphobia that’s why..
True, but i love your pfp, i am sorry XD
my gay ass cant handle this. im not even trans but this song hits me in the feels every time i hear it
My people (I found a clique member) I love you, God loves you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Right like im over here crying and i ain't even trans
I FUCKING LOVE YOUR NAME! GAH
I’m trans and your comment means a lot to me /ftm/
Same and I finally found someone in the clique who enjoys this song as much as i do :)
I just got it. The saying "it takes a village to raise a child." I can't believe I didn't realize that.
I GET IT NOW IT SAYS 'There's something worng in the village"
Yeah, it's a very old saying, my favorite saying.
I don't get it I'm probably over thinking things dhjsjsds
@@revalisfeathers9531 It means it takes the whole village and everyone to make a child feel completely safe and grow in a healthy environment. So the lyrics “There’s something wrong in the village,” is implying there are people who are not accepting and comforting creating an unsafe and unhealthy environment. Back to “It takes a village to raise a child,” those who are not as accepting and comforting will impact the child and their growth signifying “It takes a village to raise a child.”
@@clairep.7957 oh I thought that saying was just talking about how hard it is to raise a child, so it takes a whole village to raise a child lol
I hope my mother realises that I'm going to be a boy no matter what.
*I'm not crying,you are..*
I feel the same way with my dad it will get better you are a man and I love you
same 😔
*NO IM NOT YOU ARE*
Yes I am crying.
WE ARE BOTH CRYING AND WE ARE BOTH VALID AND WE ARE BOTH HANDSOME!!!! DON'T DENY IT!!!!!!
1 page of the Bible isn't worth a life
1 PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISNT WORTH A LIFE
*1 PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISNT WORTH A LIFE*
YES THATS THE FUCKING TEA
1 page of the bible isnt worth a life
_1 page of the bible isnt worth a life_
1 PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISNT WORTH A LIFE
*1 PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISNT WORTH A LIFE*
That's the mothafuqin tea sis
Now say this to my mom that identifies as a karen-
@@goldbear2294 oop-
I hate when people say "it's just a phase" because even if it is, no one deserves to be invalidated.
Exactly! Even if it's a phase, everything we do can be a phase, life is full of phases and that is normal. I used to think I was lesbian, now I'm a proud pan man =)
Exactly...
@@katsukibakugou5979 BAKUGOU?!? What are you doing here?? I always knew you were trans! 🏳️⚧️
@@Joys...GRWM1 😞✋
Impermanent doesn’t mean insignificant, mom
To the person stalking the comments looking for acceptace: you're valid, you're loved, you're going to be fine, and dont you dare change.
🌈❤
thank you. this made me smile
Thank you one year later, it still brings hope and smile on my face
IM NOT CRYING YOU ARE
*this got me to come out of the closet.*
*thank you person*
.... I cried. I'm a trans boy ftm and just... I needed this song when I was 7 and knew I couldn't possibly be a woman. Here I am, less than a week away from getting bloodwork and consulting about starting testosterone and just... This song. It's making me cry it means the world to me holy shit. I'm so thankful it exists and I just hope some other trans boys can listen to this song and know it's ok. You're going to be whoever you want to be and nobody has the right to stop you. It's them, not you, and you're so brave.
Kaze chan hope your transition goes well!
I'm crying happy tears for you, I'm so glad your starting t soon. I'm nb and can't wait to get my chest binder so I can continue transitioning appearance wise, I wish you the best and I'm so happy your finally able to become your truest self 💖💖
i know it always had been hard 4 me as a trans boy ftm i can really relate to this song cause i went throe every thing that happened in the vid
Thank you....I needed to read your comment today
Congrats man
I hate how some people have the audacity to say, “I don’t care about my child’s gender,” up until they kick Jessica out, just because she was born a Justin.
RIGHT?!?! IT MAKES ME WANNA SLAP THEM! Also love ur pfp and name, we love Nishinoya, aka Horny Tornado
Same- |:v
She’s still Jessica no matter what
@@mrbowlparty6202 no, if jessica was born a justin then its justin no matter what
@@masapopovic9022 if jessica feels like a jessica, and not a justin, she is a jessica
"It takes a village to raise a child."
There's something wrong with the village.
Well, may I introduce you to the series called "Naruto"
Just check it out. I feel the things that the protagonist goes through.
Exactly
@@OuattaHand yeah... this could be an amv
and when the village is fucked up the kid gets fucked up
that's exactly what my brain went to.
Me:
Oh, this song looks decent
Me after listening:
W h y a m I c r y i n g
But seriously, I’m ftm in a religious, transphobic, and homophobic family and this song really speaks to me.
EDIT: I came out as bisexual to my parents (on accident) and they think it’s only a phase. They also said that I’m not allowed to be trans (they don’t know). And it turns out I’m actually nonbinary, which they don’t think exists. It sounds bad but I’m looking forward to the day I graduate and move out so I can finally be myself.
We love you. We support you so much
I hope you're okay. Homophobic families suck. 💙
you are so amazing and brave dont let anyonne tell you you arent
Hooray for homophobia. No but in all seriousness I got you no matter what
im in the same boat as you, we'll get through this. my @ on instagram is @shynanny_ if you ever need to talk, just tell me before you add me because i wont accept it.
Shoutout to anybody else who has to deal with “I’ll accept you as a tomboy, not a boy.”
Omfg, I feel that so bad.
Apparently I'm a "hardcore lesbian"
"You can be a masculine girl." -My mom, said multiple times to her transgender son
that's literally my entire family right there
Yeah that hit hard
bruh I felt this
As someone who is a practicing Christian and a proud bisexual: I am so sorry my fellow believers are so cruel. You are perfect the way you are and the people who truly care about you see that ❤️
Pretty much the same. Your bot alone my friend. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
Brooo same I am a Christian lesbian 🏳️🌈
As an atheist I find it disgusting that people put the blame on every single Christian, I'm glad you can practice your religion and feel comfortable in your own skin.
@@eggyo69 aww thank you so much! That really means a lot to me!
Im a Christian trans boy and pan and i feel so invalid in my religion but im learning to know that im not bad
As a transboy, this song means a lot to me. This is the first time I've listened to it, and about halfway through I started crying. I'm so happy this exists
Keep it to yourself
I just discovered this song on Spotify completely by accident and as a trans man this song has so much meaning to me
Me too man me too
i cried within the first five seconds oml
me too
"One page of the bible isnt worth a life"
*screams it for the world to hear*
“one page in the bible isn’t worth a life” LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK
*screams heard across the universe*
@@ihatewh0res69 I love your username
Trans Men = Men
Trans Women = Women
We‘re all humans and deserve to be treated nicely :)
YES. THIS I SHALL SUPPORT!
Edit: And may be a part of... Just mentioning.
Only one woman ☝️😂
@@rhonaldneitzel2410 ?
Finally someone says something great for the haters to see people will hate but be you - By a trans gay dude
EXACTLY. THATS IT. THATS THE TRUTH. NOTHING MORE OR LESS.
Also love ur pfp, we stan Kageyama Tobio in dis house!
"One page of the bible isn't worth a life" Almost started crying there
That line taught me how to cry on demand
Almost? How did you not cry there? Teach me your ways.....
I'm not transgender, but I love this song so much. It shows unity and strength, and one overcoming hate and disapproval to become who they are. That message is one everyone should hear in their life. It helps me stay strong. And to all of you who are suffering right now, for whatever reason, *Stay Strong, Beautiful Hearts
Sofi Ivanova me to
Awww this is so sweet
I fucking love allies
Same here
me too but I'm genderfluid
My two best friends are trans and I’m genderfluid, we’re also all kind of hated by our families...so this song speaks to us.
• Phoenix • well you can be my family, this comment was made a while ago but if your still having trouble I can be your family,, it’s not much but I’m pretty sure I’m nb (all pronouns) and bi ace💕
@@Batman-sr1ul I know i'm not the person you were referring to, but i want you to know you're a good person and i hope great things happen for you :)
Bree aw thanks💕 I’m sure your a great perosn too and if your ever having trouble or just need to be with someone feel free to join my family💕 I’m on a teenager and not out but I like to help
picolas cage, Can I join? I may not be trans but I am bisexual in a family of homophobes. I just think that people should be loved no matter who they love. Thank you and you seem like an amazing person💗
SparklingMermaid hell yeah, anyone welcome 🤠
“Well I’ve been there sitting in that same chair whispering that same prayer half a million times” gets me every time
"We'll i've been there sitting in that same chair whispering that same prayer half a million times"
As a christian i dont even remember how many times i've prayed to be straight.
I’m also a Christian but I’ve been having these feelings since I was 7
I have religious trauma, I don't hate christianity but it definitely makes me more distant to it, I've prayed and tries so hard to being a straight girl but I can't force it out, no one can force feelings out of someone, I have the gay gene, I have the transgender gene, I can't change even if I wanted to, no one can change me ever. If anyone tried they'd fail miserably, I'm not sorry for being out and proud for being transgender and gay.
“You can’t tell Grandma cause her heart can’t take it and she might not make it” my grandma is so loving and kind to me that if she knew the things my mother said about who I am, my gran would tell me to never go back to her
Tell ur gram. It's important that you tell people that care about who you are as a person these kinds of things.
I like to listen to this song every time my parents are being particularly transphobic. Reminds me I'm not alone and that other people have survived this situation and I can too.
YOU GO!!
Nice hermione pic
Same though
Same but I'm non binary
"One page of the Bible isn't worth a life"
Leelah Alcorn, I'm so sorry that you had to go. This June will be another month of pride that you should have been able to see.
I hope the souls of everyone who has lost the battle to society have found peace, knowing that they made an impact on us all.
Quit makin me cry this is so sad And yes may those people rest in peace
That's so sad... and I just stopped crying from the song... people deserve better.
not Leelah... I remember when she passed. may she rest in peace
To all the people who have taken their lives because of transphobia/homophobia,
May you find the peace you were denied in life.
And to the people considering it,
You’re worth so much more than you realise. It gets better, it genuinely does.
@@peacefulleopard8016 and if not you can wander out into the forest and become the local cryptid (or die trying but like i belive in you!)
"One page of the bible isint worth a life"
I got into an argument with my mom about this what is more important a pice of paper or a life a life is more important
As soon he said that I broke down
God loves you. As long as you have Jesus in your heart, You'll be accepted with open arms into heaven. Just a simple "Jesus I need you, Please come into my heart." Will welcome him in. He will change you in tiny ways to make you the way he wants you to be. (not saying being LGBTQ+ isn't what he want you to be) He loves everyone unconditionally.
Jesus loves everyone who opens up to Him. as long as you have Jesus in your heart, he will love you unconditionally.
No to be "that guy" but technically it's several pieces of paper, because there are several bibles, bu I agree that no amount of paper is worth a life.
not my life
"One page in the bible isn't worth a life"
*reads whole bible to search
*doesn't find it
*does find that God forgives EVERY "sin" and loves you no matter what
*even big gayasses like me😅
EXACTY I get so tired of Christian's using their religion to justify homophobia they same that we are a sin if we're a sin we'll still go to heaven if we are save because Jesus died for the WORLD not some I'm a omnisexual christian and I'm afraid to live my truth because of others in my religion
It never says gods peferct
@@danimontgomery576 not all do
I ACCIDENTALLY DISLIKED THIS I DID NOT MEAN TO OML 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Not to be rude or something but people looked into the whole gay thing and found out it's not a sin in any way just a problem with translating the bible
I just want my parents to accept me, but instead I cry at night listening to this song and dreaming of who I really am.......
flynn tate I’m so sorry to hear that! Just remember to stay strong and that you are valid, no matter who you are. Don’t forget to love yourself. It is hard to be shut out due to who you are but try and stay strong, ok? Don’t stress to much, or it only makes it worse. You are deserving of all the love and support you need. I hope you do a lot better!
You described me
"One page of the bible isn't worth a life" i say the entire bible isn't worth a life
Not all of the Bibles and all the other religious text in the world are worth a life
I AGREE 1000%
@@livgeherin7514 yes nothing is worth somone life.
ᴼⁿᵉ ᵖᵃᵍᵉ ᵒᶠ ᵗʰᵉ ᵇᶦᵇˡᵉ ᶦˢⁿ'ᵗ ʷᵒʳᵗʰ ᵃ ˡᶦᶠᵉ
One page of the bible isn't worth a life
ONE PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISN'T WORTH A LIFE
*ONE PAGE OF THE BIBLE ISN'T WORTH A LIFE!*
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ʟᴇᴛ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ʙᴇ ᴡʜᴏ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴀʀᴇ. ɪ'ᴍ ᴛʀᴀɴꜱɢᴇɴᴅᴇʀ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ᴡᴏʀᴛʜ ɪᴛ.
𝕀 𝕝𝕠𝕧𝕖 𝕪𝕠𝕦. 𝕀 𝕤𝕦𝕡𝕡𝕠𝕣𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦.
(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ Stay strong.. ♥
@@livgeherin7514 paganism is nice
Though I’m non binary I relate to this song so much, I wasn’t allowed to cut my long hair short and for ages I was forced to wear girlie clothes and makeup. I showed this to one of my friends who is transgender and he cried so much and started thanking the artist for creating this song as he’s been having a really hard time with people making fun of him for being trans and this song has honestly brought some hope and sparkle back into his eyes.
Yeah same I'm nonbinary and I too can relate a lot to this song :)
Ari Jayden same currently my dysphoria is really bad so I’m listening to this song to try to distract myself
@@Anonymous_Gambito me too
I don't really believe in non binary individuals but I'm willing to accept them into the trans community :)
damn I'm not a unicorn, Karen. All the same though, if you don't believe in me that could work in my favour.
As a Transgender man, whom can't come out to my family, this song really is a help to me.
Brian Hood just know there are more people who will support you than reject you ❤ stay true to you
I totally agree with you, I needed this.
win salad : I hope it helped you. Have a great night, get some sleep. :)
Stay Rad
clique?
Brian Hood thanks, you too ^^
This guy who hasn't cried in months is in instant tears, this is such a relatable song....
One of the most painful things for a child to experience, is finding out the love from their family is conditional, that they would only be loved for what is wanted of them rather then who they are
Yesterday I had a dance competition and there was a dance under this song, and it was beautiful, the people had costumes with each color of the rainbow, I'm not usually emotional, but this song and dance hit, and I was sitting next to my crush who is a girl just like me, and all of sudden I started to tear up, and she noticed so she kissed on the top of my head, it was amazing and that dance was beautiful
Awwwwwww 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈❤️
I had choreograph this song on pointe. It was difficult but truly beutiful.
Sounds like something right out of a wattpad.
@@1directionlarrylove332 probally is
I'm a trans boy with an uncle John WHAT
Wow... it must be awkward😶😶
BRO SAME, XD THATS SO WEIRD
A sign. There is nothing wrong with you! 💕
Wait but does Uncle John get it
GlitchPrince DOES HE GET IT
i know im not trans but i grew up in a strictly christian home and i came out to my parents as bisexual recently and i just relate to this song so much and if u are trans u love u even if i dont know u❤
Thank you.
That's just what I needed to hear rn.. 🙍💞
I know this was a year ago but
Thank you
Thanks
Thanks i needed that hope your doing good
I’m a closeted non binary but I really hate makeup and I want my hair cut short. I’m afraid to tell anyone except my very close friends.
Hey I get that! I'm genderfluid and I've felt it for a while but i admitted it to myself a few weeks ago, I've only come out to a few people :(
You don't have to tell anyone if u don't feel safe. I'm waiting until university to tell my family. 💙💙
I'm nonbinary to and I was terrified to come out and you dont have to until you're ready just know that when you do it's amazing to get that stress off your shoulders and we love and support you
hanako’s kidney don’t worry me to we can do it together-w-
Hey it's ok you have this whole supportive community and were all here for you 😁🌈
Speaking as a trans person here:
This song really hit me. Sometimes people who are transphobic don't think about the things that person is going through on their own. For example, waking up in the morning and seeing someone who you were born as, but not who you were meant to be hurts. Dealing with the hate you get 24/7 hurts. Dealing with the dysphoria hurts. People forget that it was just as hard for that person to come out as it is for them to accept it.
Now once again, I'm trans. I can assure you that if you go up to every trans person in the world, 99% of them would say that they hate being trans. Mainly because of the hate they give themselves. People sit there and think "Who am I?" Or "This isn't me!" And sit there and do things to their body to make themselves who they want to be.
If you know a trans person and your transphobic, please keep in mind that the person who is trans is probably going through a lot and needs support.
I'm sorry if this didn't make sense, it was kind of a large rant. Sorry!
I competely get what you mean, I am also trans I struggle with some of things you mentioned.. It's hard but us trans folks have to stick together and help one another, because we are all beautiful and unique in our own way. Speaking for everyone here, there is *nothing* wrong with you. ❤
hi you dont know me and im not trans but my best friend is and i just wanted to say i love you and thank you for being brave
@@mossash5884 I- thank you? Thank you so much for showing your support for people like us. It means so much, and I'm so glad that you look out for your friend. Thank you, and I hope you're having a nice day.
@@rambles5671 thank you
I have one thing to say FUCK HOMOPHOBIA(umbrella term)
Perfect song ever! This deserves more. Unfortunately it's not one of those famous singer's song.
*unfortunately this artist isn't as popular as some of the famous artists
he did a collab with Marshmello and its trending. i thought it would have more views.
It's sad to realize how a song about drugs, boobs and women being treated as a piece of meat will be more famous than his song, even if this one can save life....
Wrabel is such a beautiful human being ❤️🌈🙌🏻🙏🏻
‘one page of the bible isn’t worth a life’ gives me shivers every time, sometimes brings me to tears. It’s an astronomically powerful sentence. And extremely true.
This song is so amazing..as a closeted trans boy I'm so so happy this song is a thing. #LGBTQ🏳️🌈💙
Samw
This song speaks to me so much and I'm not even part of the trans of lgbtq
is that gerard way in your pfp
I'm out at the moment, but mum refuses to call me my preferred name and he/him and tells me it's just a phase or an identity crisis. Thankfully, she bought me a binder and my hair is short now, but the song still hits me hard.
I’m out as Pansexual but not out as gender fluid yet, scared of what they might say 😓
I’m a straight girl, but I get all of you guys’ pain. Stay strong! You guys can do it!! I love you all endlessly!❤️❤️you guys are the most beautiful people out there.
No u
If you mean also transguys, thank you
Thank you random nice human
I have a friend who I think is trans and she just doesn't know it yet. By the way... I'M GAY!
You are beautiful too. Don’t forget to include yourself. Thank you for the kind message, it means a lot
I have this song on repeat now - at the start of the week I went to a child’s counselor for my anxiety- I decided to come out to them seeing as it’s what most my worries are based off . Yeah - they told my homophobic parents .. I wasn’t ready I’m only 13 . Now I know for sure they hate me .
This song is basically one of the few things keeping me alive . Thank you so so much
Emma Warby thank you so much dude - you have no idea :)
hey mate, this must be a very difficult time for you, but dont give up. You can and you will find people that accept u for who you really are, if not now later in life. I just hope things are going better for you now, and dont forget that youre not alone.
STAY STRONG!!!! If you need help just comment here and we will talk w/ u!
🧡💛💚💙💜
Have hope. It's something every human being has a right to, don't let anyone take it away. We might be close, we might be thousands of miles apart, but I'm sending my support.
“Don’t dare, don’t you even go there. Cutting off your long hair, do as your told.” That hit hard, I’m gender fluid but I love short hair, so I cut my hair short, like ‘boy’ hair, my mom still complains about it... she still tries to convince me to grow it out along with my dad.
To all trans people out there, I accept you and I am sending you all the love you need and then some because you deserve it, your valid and if you need a new parent I could always ‘adopt’ more kids 😊
Yes. I've never seen how you look, yet I know you look amazing with short hair. Keep on, this is a fight worth fighting.
I'll be cheering on from my side of the world.
@@OuattaHand thank you
I’m glad you’re doing well with all that, at least you feel comfortable now! Don’t let your parents define you. Also I need adopting lmao
@@stopitgetsomehelp5252 welp I’m your new parent hello, you are beautiful and amazing 😊
I cut my hair one year and my mom shouted at me and said I shouldn't do that my hair is the part and makes me beautiful and needs to stay long and she still has a go at me about it after two years.
my hair has grown back but I still want it short
Holyshit! I'm crying right now. I'm trying not to cry but I can't. It's one of the most beautiful song I've ever heard. I love that song too much
i'm doing the same
Music Jordan x same
I can't stop crying. It's 2 am and I'm led I bed crying my eyes out. If you have never had to come out ... well ... just know hat is is really really really hard and his son helped me through all the hurt and pain I received of others
this song. i’m not trans, but as a lesbian living in a very conservative area, this song hurts a lot. i’ve come out three times to my parents over the past few years, and each time they’ve tried to talk it out of me despite my crying and pleading. it has yet to get any better but i know it will, it has to. i have a few people in my life who support me, and that’s what keeps me going.
to my fellow lgbt (especially trans boys, who this song was made for) you matter so much and will get through whatever you’re going through
Thank you so much a lot of people just think I'm a tomboy and I just I haven't had a right time to tell my extended family and I just thank you for what you said
I told my friend that in trans ftm and they asked me why I don't want to come out. I don't know why or can't put it into words why I don't want anyone to know.
I hope you will get a nice girlfriend
I kinda know how you feel I'm a closeted transboy who lives in Alabama but im only 11 so I can't move and again middle school in Alabama is a very homophobic place. But if history has proven anything it's that things will get better.
I relate to you, except I’m closeted and a non-binary lesbian.
As a pan girl this hit me in the feels. To my trans and non binary luvs out their, I'm so proud of you. Y'all deserve all the love in world!!
😢 I'm not crying you are
same
The line “one page of the Bible isn’t worth a life” gets me every time
I'm not trans I'm bi but I relate to this so much and I'm just... Crying
2020 Edit: This is old, but funny story... my homophobic, textbook narcissist dad had my phone, and got a notification from a reply to this comment. I had to admit that yes, I'm bisexual and haven't been religious for several years. He outed me to my whole family, grounded me, took away my phone, said he wouldn't help my pay for college when the time came despite that I'd only just gotten my first job. My anxiety flared up, and my heart was reading for days at a time. He would not stop arguing with me. It was hell for a long time. It would be another year until I turned 18 and moved out. But I did. I'm 19 now, and I'm never living there again. Moral of the story, it gets so. much. better. Hang in there.
Just to make clear, trans people can be bi too! :) s.o. has nothing to do with gender
Ignacio Salas González I know I was just saying I personally am not trans. 😘👌
Im bi too, me and my boyfriend (who's trans) were crying to this, he showed me this song
I'm bi
Katie same!
Being emo is a phase , being trans is not
W h y i s t h i s s o t r u e ? ?
Eclipse Phan Hey stop attacking me 😂
iTs nOt a pHasE mOm!1!1!1
It's not always a phase
@@shreya7673 ur user oml
I did a lot of musically to this song but today this guy told me the song title I searched up then the music video said it can’t play on my country or whatever and so I looked at this then it made me cry
As a trans boy with homophobic parents and pastor dad this vid made me emotional
Can u not even change ur name to Mitchell Mae bro
I one played this song for my mother. She yelled at me. Told me if I even used a binder she'd disown me and I'd be on the streets. I live in a bad area, so I couldn't believe it. How could someone who loved their "daughter " so much could hate the enby person that I really am?
[hug]
" There's nothing wrong with you❤
It's true"💛
Remember: you are important ,beautiful and loved.💙You are not alone 💚
You deserve all the love 💜
Thank you
I'm nonbinary. I may not be actually trans but I do relate to this song.
By definition, being Nonbinary is also trans.
Being a gender not pertaining to your original one given at birth. :3
@@_plastic_cactus I thought you said pretending I was finna say "hold up let's get to typing" thank you
D
Asanie Johnson im gay and crying :(
MIKAE why are you crying and do I know you not to be rude or anything
*"Don't dare, don't you even go there, cutting off your long hair."*
Me: 😢😖That hit me personally and... T-T
I didn't even know about LGBT people until 6th grade. I was sheltered and never was told. When I started puberty, I freaked out. I thought, "Nonono. This isn't me! I wanna go back to being flat-chested! NONONO STOP CHANGING!!! What is wrong with me. I am a girl, but... I don't like it anymore."
I live with my grandma. My grandma isn't homophobic, she just isnt as open. When I told her I wanted to cut off my long hair to be guy-short, she freaked out and said, "NO! You are going to get a shoulder-length haircut and that's it!" Well a few months after that, my mom takes me to get my hair cut not super short but like maybe 5 inches long. I'm trans f to m but I am scared to ask to take testosterone, my mom won't buy me a chest binder, and I feel that if I come out to my school friends, they might not wanna talk to me cuz then I would be a gay transgender and I have overheard people randomly talk about, "If a girl becomes trans, but still likes guys, that's just stupid cuz they were a girl and now they wanna be a guy who likes guys?" And I have to hold it in because they don't know my thinking and mindset and if I said something they would know that I am a closeted trans f to m and I don't want that. I have one female friend who is pansexual who knows I'm trans, and she accepts me. When I came to school with short hair, she looked so happy for me accepting myself. Everyone else currently that I am just a tomboy cuz that is what I've told them. One person, who is one of my friends so I'm pretty sure it's a joke, but they always tried to put my hood over my short hair and say, "Its demonic." I know they're joking and I don't think they are extremely religious, but it truly hurts deep down. I wear boy clothes and I asked my grandma if I could get boy clothes for school and she said, "No cuz you are a girl therefore you dress like one." I smiled and said ok, while hiding my pain and disgust that I will have to wear dresses and girly things. I just... hate myself for having this cursed gender dysphoria and wanting to be a guy, acting and dressing like a guy, and my stupid 3 different anxieties that cause me to think everyone will hate me for being myself. Why couldn't I have just been born a guy?! Why did god have to do this to me?! DID HE WANT TO SEE ME SUFFER, KNOWING THAT FEW OF MY LOVED ONES WOULD ACCEPT ME THE WAY I AM IF I TOLD THEM?!!?!?! *I just wanna start over with the right body. Is that too much to ask?*
I'm sorry that you are in a position like that. Please know that you are valid and beautiful. You can and should do what makes YOU happy, it's YOUR life. Don't let other people hold you back. Life won't always be this hard, I promise. You'll find people who truly accept and love you the way you are and there are many ways to make you feel much more at home in your body. Sending you best wishes from Germany. Stay strong and keep shining 🌈❤💛💚💙💜
@@DanaBanana94 Thank you. I needed that. ^-^
stay strong, stay kind, but most importantly stay trans cuz that's who you are! 😉 🌈💓💛💚💙💜🌈
If no one around you supports who you are then you need to surround yourself with new and accepting people. Just know you aren’t alone and a lot of people are there for you even if you don’t know them
I feel bad for you 😔
I'm a girl, and I wanna be a girl but I wanna be flat forever, I wanna be a flat girl. I pray for you 😔
I am a trans boy with an uncle john and no I don’t think he’s gets it
I dont know if i can laugh at this but I did! Im sorry!!
Wolf. kid56 I’m trigender leaning more toward androgyny and male and I’m in that situation too. It’s funny how close that hits!
@@stingrae919 im sorry, it might be a typo but what's trigender? I've never heard it (that sounds like I'm trying to invalidate you, I'm not, i haven't heard alot of terms in lgbt and i genuinely would like to be informed about it)
yellow is pretty nice don’t worry about offending me, no one really knows what it is. Basically, I feel a connection to three different genders (male female and agender), and I decided to identify as trigender. However, I feel more toward male and agender when it comes to pronouns (so he/they). I just don’t identify as demiboy or bigender because I don’t feel comfortable with those identifications. Thanks for asking about it!
CrazyCatLady no it’s totally ok I laughed when I made the realization lol. No need to be sorry
my sensible straight ass is actually crying
juliet 得 same
Tsunami Ocean ...how did u get to that conclusion
juliet dbs XD IM QUAKING
Tsunami Ocean this is late but I think they meant sensitive
Oh so some straight people have a heart! 😂😂 (kidding, sorry)
As a Transwoman, it makes me cry
rabakukken hatoyama I don’t see a lot of transwomen, but I love when I do, stay strong queen❤️❤️
Hug
As a human beings it makes me cry too babe😭💖
Stay strong sis
Stay strong! We love you sis♥️
The first time I listened to this, I cried at "one page of the bible isn't worth a life." Ugh, this song is good. And the violin piano combo! I am such a sucker for good instrumental backgrounds.
“One page of the Bible isn’t worth a life..” kinda outside sobbing lmao
I’m 11 and I’m crying cause this is me
Thank u
So much
You go man
{ Dount Draws Stuff } ♥️ ♥️ ♥️
try to get help, call psychologists, call hospitals, get on waiting lists if you are in a safe place. talk to your parents as soon as you dare to. when I was your age, I wasn't self assured enough to do something against my body. I now cry often cause I feel like it's already too late and for me, this is the worst part right after something else. especially when I realized I could get on the list without even telling my parents. when I called them, they didn't ask for anything, I probably am the only one who didn't know that you don't need permission from your parents to be on those lists but I regret calling them so late because I have to wait at least a year. I don't even have a therapist now and thinking about my future makes me cry. so change this part. call them right now, just ask, do something. do research. please.
i'm also 11 and relate to this. FTM. Mom is homophobic and transphobic, also abusive. I moved in with my dad, but haven't told him. He won't let me cut my hair, until his girlfriend is in town. On the... 22
Honey...now you're 12. Trust me! Hate will come from everywhere. Just don't waste your wonderful youth listening to other's shit! Just be you. Don't hide who you are. I'm not trans but I'm lesbian. Just be strong and be yourself. In your life, you are the only one concerned. You are the one to lose or win🙏💖🌈
I'm non-Binary and pansexual and my mom says "it's just a phase" And every time I overhear it I just cry.. For like 1/2 and hour and like.. They don't understand y I want my haircut or a binder.. Or anything else
Edit: I'm actually trans ftm and gay actually I got my hair cut but my parents still don't except
Ok well I'm pan and nonbinary too and that's EXACTLY WHAT MY PARENTS SAID COME LIVE WITH ME SO WE CAN CRY AND DIE INSIDE TOGETHER
Can I come too?
I’m also pan and non-binary but i haven’t came out as nb yet, am i still aloud to live with you guys too
Very like you pal: My parents let me cut my hair (or rather didn't entirely raise hell when I did without asking. I did rather well too) and SAID, I could socially transition (of course they say medically transitioning at any age would be devastating for me), but they flat out refuse to use my name and pronouns, because "they can't change like that" and I should accept that. Yeah sure I'll accept you not accepting me, thanks. And of course: a phase.
I'm also pan and nb with parents the exact same way. Let's all buy a house together. I'd be much better off with people who can understand who I am and don't want me to change everything
Everyone here is valid and deserves love, be it platonic or romantic. I wish everyone well and hope that your family and friends support you. :)
This song is so powerful. It applies to everyone who is different and unique. As someone who used to be a Christian but is now a Norse Pagan and a Witch, I feel this so deeply. I can't share all of myself with those around me. Especially where I live in the South. Only a few know. Stay true to you, and rise up. 🔥
I made a story out of this song:
An elder (24ish) trans male on T is talking to a younger pre-t trans male (maybe 15ish) about how things will get better. The 15 yo thinks the 24 yo is amab because of how well he passes. Suddenly, the older trans male falls sick. Before he dies, he tells the younger one, "I've sat there in that same chair whispering that same prayer half a million times." The younger trans male ages, and he's now 20. He's been on T for two years. He finds a different pre-t trans male (about 13ish) and tells him what the oldest trans male told him before he transitioned. He tells the younger boy's religious and homophobic parents, "One page of the Bible isn't worth a life," after seeing the cuts on the younger boy's ankles. Eventually, the older male adopts the younger male
i love this
Beautiful story
Thanks for the read, made my day.
awww I want all the details of this story. It sounds great
Damn. Even uncle john don't get it.
You commented like two months before this one. One mediocre hot take not enough?
apparently not
😂😂
Neither does freaking mom
GodDamn it uncle John, I thought you were cool
I gotta say, finally being told that there’s nothing wrong with me made me cry. I’ve been living only being told I’m a mistake and believing it, so hearing “there’s nothing wrong with you” means so much, regardless where it’s coming from
THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU hope that made you happy :)
You be you, and don't worry, be unique.
This hit so hard...
I'm a cis female and I don't wanna be trans but I wanna cut my hair off and I don't feel like wearing makeup very often. I came out to my parents as pan and they said they were gonna try to pray the gay away and I can't tell my grandma because I'm afraid of her looking at me differently... My family is all homophobic and extremely religious (Christian). This song is so emotional to me for these reasons... it feels like the lyrics are about me
Stay strong and keep fighting you have got this and your parents only say this because they are trying to bring you down and I bet your grandma would love you The same grandma are the best and I'm bi and when I told my mom I was 13 and I'm 14 now she said I was a little kid but she still accepted me my siblings also accepting me but I don't think my mom wants me to talk about it but you are an amazing person don't care about what other people say they're just jealous of you because of how amazing you are I promise you you are loved 😍
I may not be trans but I am a biromantic asexual living with a homophobic and religious family. This song brought me to tears and it's comments made me realize just how many other LGBT+ people are in the same boat.
[Verse 1]
No, your mom don't get it
And your dad don't get it
Uncle John don't get it
And you can't tell grandma 'cause her heart can't take it
And she might not make it
They say, "don't dare, don't you even go there. Cutting off your long hair. You do as you're told."
Tell you, "wake up, go put on your makeup. This is just a phase you're gonna outgrow."
[Chorus]
There's something wrong in the village
In the village, oh
They stare in the village
In the village, oh
There's nothing wrong with you
It's true, it's true
There's something wrong with the village
With the village
There's something wrong with the village
[Verse 2]
Feel the rumors follow you from Monday all the way to Friday dinner
You got one day of shelter, then it's Sunday hell to pay, you young lost sinner
Well I've been there, sitting in that same chair
Whispering that same prayer half a million times
It's a lie though
Buried in disciples
One page of the Bible isn't worth a life
[Chorus]
There's something wrong in the village
In the village, oh
They stare in the village
In the village, oh
There's nothing wrong with you
It's true, it's true
There's something wrong with the village
With the village
There's something wrong with the village
[Break]
[Chorus]
There's something wrong in the village
In the village, oh
They stare in the village
In the village, oh
There's nothing wrong with you
It's true, it's true
There's something wrong with the village
With the village
There's something wrong with the village
this should be pinned
@Charlie Jago if you wanna learn it you have to know the chorus and stuff
Its on the screen but thanks
Boi it's a lyric video lmao
This song keeps me strong on days when I can’t deal with the fact I was kicked out
I'm so sorry that happens to you that sucks.
I sm so very sorry i hope u find a new home dear
me too, hope it gets better for you :(
I’m so sorry. You’re so strong for being here right now. We love you
_Everyone in the comments sharing their FTM stories_
Me: **Wanting to comment about the fact that the background looks lit**
Ikr I love it
RIGHTT
well i've been there sitting in that same chair whispering that same prayer half a million times
i've never ever related more...
This proves how cruel the world is. They don't judge people on personality, they judge people on the outside. Not the inside. It's very upsetting. And just so everyone knows, there's nothing with you. You are all beautiful the way you are and you do WHATEVER you want to do in your life
_one page of the Bible isn't worth a life_
If the bible says its wrong, and people are shoving it in your face saying "THE BIBLE SAYS ITS WRONG SO I HATE YOU! YOU NEED TO CHANGE!" That definetly isn't worth a life. but the bible is full of other truths and life lessons on trusting in God. It's helped me through so much
I used to proudly call myself a Christian but I don't want to be apart of a couminity that encourages hate because of something you can't control
MOON SHATER sadly every community has those people
@@nikkinotes8813 yup there will always be bad eggs to ruin a coumunitty
people take the bible to literally, the bible is made to set a generalized understanding of how god progressed in history, it wasnt written by god himself, at the time people thought that was wrong so thats what they wrote
As a mom of two, this comment section breaks my heart. All of you hurt kids just looking for acceptance and love from your parents. And all of those parents failing so hard at such a simple job. If you ever need a mom, I'll be here for you. You are so loved!
I'm about to go to a christian youth retreat so I'm downloading this onto my ipod nano in case I need reassurance that being trans ftm/pansexual is okay :,)
Your Problematic FaveTM it is okay. You're amazing and valid, honey, trust me💕
A little to late, but its not wrong. You are completely in the right. Im sorry that you church makes you feel otherwise.
fricken memes you’re valid and we love you. Also nice pfp. I see dan
YES PAN FRIENDO.
fricken memes I’m in the same boat as you.
this is s good song! 13k viewers? really?. well not just the village... there's something wrong with this world!
Studio YoiBoyya The official one has 2.3M now
Tonight me and my gf told our best friend we're dating and I'm currently crying because Idk what to expect and it hurts so much pretending not to be who I am with my family so if I have to pretend to my friends also idk what I'll do
I'm so tired of the village being so hard and painful to live in....
Vic stay strong x
Dont worry....im going through the same thing....my family dosnt except...... they wont let me cut my hair or use different pronouns....i try and tell my family every thing i can....but really how do u explain the way ur feeling....that ur trans....how do u explain that....i try my best but i think my family is hearing but not really listing....the only thing u and i can do is stay strong....♥️⚕🏳️🌈
Hi local Christian here,
Also local agender
For other noncis Christians
You are wonderful
Take care of yourself God made you special
He still loves you
*One page of the Bible, isn't worth a life.*
If the bible says its wrong, and people are shoving it in your face saying "THE BIBLE SAYS ITS WRONG SO I HATE YOU! YOU NEED TO CHANGE!" That definetly isn't worth a life. but the bible is full of other truths and life lessons on trusting in God. It's helped me through so much
I feel like this isnt supposed to be just about ONE thing. It can be about gay people and transgender people. It depends on the person listening to the song ☺
No, it is about being trans
@@JadedPythonCorpse songs can be interpreted in different ways. Just because a trans dude was in the music video doesn't make it exclusively about trans people.
@@JadedPythonCorpse also Wrabel isnt trans but gay
@Professer SrirachaCake It can be interpreted as anything, trans, non-binary, agender, and so many others.
@@florencelont4638 Technically it is about trans people, specifically ftm, obvious from the lines "They say, don't dare, don't you even go there, cutting off your long hair. You do as you're told. Tell you wake up, go put on your make-up. This is just a phase you're gonna outgrow." When he says he's been there sitting in that same chair, I've always kinda heard it as 'he has been there, having to hide and deny his identity, being made to feel like he is in the wrong for who he is, because it is not accepted in his religion'. Aka, he's in the LGBTQA+ community, and that's why he understands. Anyways, I do feel like this song can and should be interpreted differently. If someone connects to the song but they aren't trans, than that's perfectly fine. While the first part is for trans men, the song in general definitely feels like it could be for the whole of the LGBTQA+ community.
This has been a support song of mine for a long time when I had no other support. And today, I'm going to sit down and talk with my (semi-accepting) parents about T with the therapist that diagnosed me with dysphoria. Soon, hopefully, this song won't be for the comfort but just a good listen.
And I hope this for the rest of you too. ^^
Update? How are you now?😁❤️
I'm a trans boy and Im crying so hard right now
I just wanna be accepted and be happy
We all deserve to be happy
We're valid and equal 😭❤️
"Don't dare don't you even go there cutting of your long hair, you do as you're told"
Oof...
*Crying in my closet(s)
🌈❤
There're are tears in my eyes every time I listen to this beatyfull song ❤
Someone once told me that I had to wear a dress because I was a "girl." Well guess what? Maybe I don't fully identify as a "girl" what if I want feminine pronouns some days and gender neutral pronouns another? So what if a have a crush on a girl? I'm pansexual. I also don't fully identify as a girl!
ALSO I GET TO CUT MY HAIR SHORT NEXT WEEK AND I'M SO EXITED!!!!!!!!!
Edit: my hair is short and fabulous. I feel more comfortable in my body just by making that small change💖
happy for you💞
❤️❤️❤️~3~
Nice.
Well I have no idea how to respond to that but... GLAD YOUR HAPPY:)
Say it louder for the ones in the back 👏👏👏👏
My name is Abigail I’m not straight but I’m not gay........ I AM BISEXUAL AND DAMN PROUD OF IT. Cuz no matter what you say you can’t take my pride away
💖💜💙
Yes. Go rule the world!
Go Abigail, don't let anyone get in your way, be proud :) Your comment is so encouraging.
And I’m proud of you!
Holy shit, this song gave me chills
It's so good wtf
It really is. 🙂
I may not be trans but this song makes me cry every time, it's so powerful and I feel like the whole world should hear it. If you are trans and going through something hard listen to me....you may not believe it but you are loved, cared for, just be who you were meant to be, god wouldn't put u here to make you feel miserable, he put you here because you have a purpose, he knows that you are strong enough to fight these battles...trust me, he'd never hurt you....ever. No matter what anyone says, don't change u! Who u are is your ur meant to be. When I say don't change you I mean it in a since of don't let someone else change you, don't let them push you around and tell you ur not good enough because you are. Tho I don't know you guys I love you all from the bottom of my heart, I honestly do...I hope this helps a little ❤️❤️
You could think this is "scars to your beautyful" in the first few seconds
"one page of the bible isn't worth a life" dang, this line freaking hit. the amount of people who would be okay if others heard this line.