Don't Force It, Let It Happen Naturally
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Good video brother 👍
Will there be a collaboration between LFA and The33Secrets
@@piyushmore1166 that would be awesome
i want you in a live interview
Daaaamn my favourite UA-camr comments my other favourite UA-camr
This video went from dating advice to real world shit in the blink of an eye. The quality of these videos is growing exponentially.
Apart from having one loyal woman, you need brothers to have your back as well. LFA is a true brother in all this chaos, so make sure to LIKE this video and show some support.
I already know this won't get as many views as "5 texting mistakes men make that make them look like s!mps" but at least it has meaning to it.
He’s speaking real shit, if ppl can’t appreciate that than that’s them. I’d prefer value then views any day
@@LFA That's because you have higher quality videos than the clickbait titles. It says more about your character if you aren't going for the views, but rather for the meaning.
And as a result, you've got a brother in IL.
@@treexkzknaxkz I can't argue with that, brother!
@@daveyjones9699 The same can be said for the music we listen to there's alot of filth and bs garbage being advertised instead of the music with good messages and talent in it in that case guess I guess society we live in today favours stupidity and dumbness more than intelligence and talent guess if you wanna be a successful musician in todays day and age you dont really need any talent to get famous from what we've seen in the past decade honestly its pretty sad that its like that but it is what it is sorry to say!
The hero we need but don’t deserve. The fact this guy isn’t at 1 mil+ subs is a reflection of how misplaced society’s values are. I look forward to the day I see him hit it.
Totally agree. His channel is underrated.
LOL delusional
@@namelesssnitchy yeah yo momo though
this is the message that guys need. the ones that find “love” too fast, the ones with one-itis. sex is not gonna complete you. you complete yourself, then you enjoy yourself with someone who enjoys you. what’s a one night stand but a waking up to a broad u don’t plan on talking to and a night to spend on yourself. don’t waste your time. that’s one of the greatest treasures of life, and to think some people waste it on bm’s and bd’s and meaningless sex and women who can’t love themselves. love yourself first, THEN fuck someone worth it.
This comment must be Jesus the way its nothing but truth.
That's the most valuable lesson I taught myself from my own mistakes let everything happen naturally forcing anything will just make it fall apart in time.
The realest manosphere video in 2021!
Man that was one of the best. Like "what is life" it's the age old question? It's like you say, what my my dad would say "Life is like a garden, you reap what you sow" In other words what you reap is the work you have done on yourself. Not just PUA stuff....
Facts bro one thing about this life is hard work almost always pays off
I agree brother.
What a great video man 💯
So true man, pick up artist shit is poison to a man trying to find a real connection. Getting laid tons of times is nothing but procrastination
It can be good for guys to learn the basics, and get some confidence interacting with women. But I agree, casual sex is poison for your soul and sometimes your body, too.
Damn this is beautiful especially from 12:50 to 13:26. Especially during this social media era, where good is never good enough.
Sir I have been following you since last two years. I have been through hell during covid. But I am happy I am alive and thankful to all those who were there, the network you talked about indeed came to the rescue. My friends juniors seniors lost their mothers and fathers, few months ago they were enjoying holiday with them and now they are gone in no time. A lot of people whom I knew really well are no more they include teachers friends neighbors. There were no medical supplies shops closed total lockdown, I was shit scared about my mom and dad about covid, it's Complications. I feel every word that you just said in this video. I had accepted that fact that time had come, only God knows how that whole month and recovery period was for the family. Now recovered and pursuing my masters. Am Getting published and and strengthening the same network you talked about earlier more than ever. Cheers to the knowledge you share. Now the purpose of my life is to ensure no one goes through what me and people around me endured in India. Sending lots of love and prayers to you sir, be safe. Keep on rocking, the world needs more like you.
Yo LFA, thanks again for helping me, us yesterday. You’re a real one.
Great topic and excellent phone call. Stay Up Bro!
This is the best advice you could ever receive. It totally shuts down all the Pick up nonsense videos out there! :D
LFA you have no idea how therapeutic this video is, thank you. We all needed this amongst the usual red pill nihilism.
Shhhhhh! Just let it happen brother, dont struggle - Sun Tzu
Man, this is the exact kind of videos i want to see. When I clicked this I thought it was fully on dating advice - which i don't care much about - but I'm ill and bored so i watched it, and now I dont regret it at ALL. Thanks!
Dude just speaking from the heart. What he’s really thinking. Love it. Just so happens, I think like this as well
Paralysis by analysis is so real in the "dating" game. Simplicity truly is brilliance in every avenue of life.
Best piece of advice ever
There's definitely a lot more to life. Deeper and more meaningful.
14:20 Any woman can learn how to cook, clean, and provide time in the bedroom. Not all can be faithful and care about you unconditionally like LFA’s Aunt did for her husband
She either has it naturally or she doesn't
This video came at the perfect time for me today honestly, best piece of advice I’ve heard in a while.
Hey LFA... your Transcendence through your videos are beyond Human nature. Your on your way up to enlightening the masses by your way of understanding yourself more in a world of madness. Your progression is visible with every video you post. Hats off to you and your message.
Great advice brother, most of man forced to be a man and alpha, but this ain't work or work for short period of time, most of guys in PUA that i know are unsatisfied and incomplete.
In other side, don't be yourself , be the best version of yourself.
Of course, they are full scale degenerates.
Great video. The story of your aunt’s husband reminded me of the countless young military wives whose husbands came home from war maimed, amputated, paralyzed, etc. and they in turn sacrificed their lives (in a manner of speaking) staying by their sides, taking care of them full time, etc. The “black pillers” need to be reminded of that. There are quality young women out there. They are a dying breed, but they’re out there.
Military maybe isn't the best example. Military wives are mostly known for being absolute cheating whores, even encouraging each other to cheat on their husbands while they're deployed. There are good ones, sure, but on the whole they're one of the worst groups of wives out there.
But yes, there are lots of good women out there if you can find them.
Loving the more philosophical approach to the videos. I'm at a very similar stage in life.
Love this ! Be yourself guys ; if you see an attractive woman that has the values you’re looking for and potentially a connection , get to know her , set a date . It’s that simple. If she gives you the run around, then apply these techniques of go no contact becuse maybe she will come to her senses and see you’re not weak and that you had genuine interest. So go with your gut feeling, if she don’t reciprocate, move forward, that’s it. Any other way you’re clearly being a weak man and not on your purpose and goals! Stay strong men
Really love your new uploads LFA. You're the father/brother/friend that we didnt know that we need in our lives. God bless you and continue to be a good person.
It's good to actually see you also growing with the past couple of years and how you share your opinion and we can see that you are genuine because you are not preaching the same everytime like most of the dudes. you rely on your life experience and it always feels like having a talk with our older brother
It's good to see you don't follow scripts or theory you saw on books but you actually use your life experience to share your opinion, I guess that's why people follow you
I remember picking up the guitar two years ago at first it was painful little did I know that it was part of a process that one needs to build a calouse to get good at it! The same thing with life, in general, the things worth having takes time!
Thanks for spreading the right message. This video needs to trend majorly.
I’m going through a low right now. I appreciate this video a lot, LFA thanks, this meant a lot to me :)
"Best LFA video ever"
I'll up that and say one of the best vids on YT. I wish he would make more like this one.
I agree man. I've watched several pickup artists and I've absorbed info. Sometimes I feel like a robot. Don't get me wrong some guys are better at picking up women then me. With that being said I think we all need to be who we are with no limits
Great content LFA! Also, the only way someone is happy is by being comfortable in your own skin. That said, screw what everyone else thinks. Do you, be you and everything else will fall into place.
Bro, I’ve been following your channel since 2017/2018. LFA’s character development is awesome to see. 💪🏻
LFA is the real deal, he should have more subs than other red pill BS channels....
Go to the bs RedPill channels and try and get people to watch LFA's videos instead, brother.
that was dark, real, but dark. Seems like you might be going through a moment of enlightenment. I enjoy your videos, keep it up.
I like the real shit u kickin here...
damn, that guitar analogy 😂🤌🏽 instantly liked
Much Love brother
This one came straight through the ether. We make eachother strong when we show strength. Real recognize real. Thank you for being you.
A man who has had his fill of the buffet cannot convince the starving man that there's more to life than the buffet.
Only once the man has ampley sampled the buffet can one appreciate the finer things in life, like ala carte filet Mignon. (And actually meaningfully connect to the mignon)
Wow well said!
There's some truth to that. However, I still don't think it's neccesary to go through every experience just to find out for yourself. Sometimes there's enough evidence to just decide beforehand 'yeh, I don't need to do that'. Especially with the Internet. But yeh, you're right, sometimes you do need to find out for yourself.
There's hiring signs every where I go , I even had somebody put a hiring will train sign on my windshield. , I noticed I was running into a lot of talk show hosts talking how the future is going to get real bad , it's like how do they know ?
They just talk all kinds of negativity and then others pick it up and do the same.
There has always been bad stuff going on in the world.
The world is changing but just adapt.
Look at the Buddhist monks , they live without jack and are happier then 90% of the population , the Amish too!
I agree. Economy is booming in my area. If anything, businesses can't find enough workers. Everybody is hiring and paying good wages. Real estate is through the roof, which sucks for renters, but if you have property you're doing great. Gas and food prices are high, but so are wages, generally.
People have been predicting the "coming collapse" for 40 years and none of their predictions have been anywhere close to true.
Rather have dollar than four quarters. More value to that dollar than each individual quarter.
Yes, correct be comfortable, truth yourself and have people who have your back. Another reasonable educational LFA 👊💯
Well said bro
@@LFA Appreciate it bro
This is a great video and is showing facts. Because I've made this mistake of rushing someone for dating and stuff and all it does is distance the female from you. But I found taking your time, and being a companion it creates a bond and builds more attraction and a spark and then eventually it'll come naturally. Worked like a charm for me.
This is such great advice, bravo! Finally a man with some sense. As a women, I totally agree with you 100%. This advice can also be applied to women too. You want to be with someone who likes you for you not what you pretend to be.
Agreed.
Thanks LFA
I have always been myself and never put on an act to fit in or get a girl. Friends and girls came naturally to me, and they were quality people also.
I'll be honest. I don't click the like on videos because I would go on a liking spree because like anyone else on here, I watch a lot of videos and many end up being good content which would make me end up mimicking those who end up addicted to UA-cam, spending hours daily on it. But this.....I was moved to like this.
Blake, you've shown me that all these movements from Red Pill, to Black Pill, MGTOW just aren't necessary. They all have this notion that you need to be better, you need to win, you can't let women take advantage, etc. And while that's great to build upon, they also do not support "one-itis."
In reality, "one-itis" is actually what we should be after. Because aside from the sex, the cars, the money, and the job......there is but one thing that easily weeds out everyone else and is the true test of the human being: crisis and hardship. Yes, money can ease the blow that someone with less money might take. But as you said, someone who has your back through thick and thin is worth more than even 10 10's.
i heard this phrase about playing music: "you gotta first learn to play by all the rules. After that forget it all and do your thing". I think it applies to anything in life, i think you gotta learn about all them "color pills" before being yourself
A long-lasting marriage and children are the things that really fulfill you in life. PUA stuff is for boys playing around, MGTOW is for boys too scared of life to live. Real men are husbands, fathers, and grandfathers. If you get to the end of your life and have no family, you're not an "alpha," you're a failure.
You know what an "alpha male" actually is in the animal kingdom? He's the father of a family. Simple as that.
Boom! I agree 👍 good video 👌 it was on point
This is pretty much the way to go for long term happiness in a relationship. Even though you are unlikely to meet "the one", by being yourself you go with quality of quantity. You might get a few chances a week/month by doing the PUA stuff and you might even only get a few chances a year by being yourself. However, the latter offers a much better starting point for building something meaningful.
In the end you gotta choose what you value more, but I think building a relationship on a fake PUA persona is a recipe for disaster.
'The Game' is a good example of just how much of a recipe for disaster that fake PUA persona can be.
When the shit hits the fan, I watch LFA and get my shit done
"Remember that you ought to behave in life as you would at a banquet. As something is being passed around it comes to you; stretch out your hand, take a portion of it politely. It passes on; do not detain it. Or it has not come to you yet; do not project your desire to meet it, but wait until it comes in front of you. So act toward children, so toward a wife, so toward office, so toward wealth."
― Epictetus
Natural is the way to go!!
loved this after the first minute, i've been guilty of trying to make it happen instead of building chemistry. by adding someone on fb instead of bumping into them and talking. probably scared her away. i was actually thinking about my fuckup an hour before i saw this video
Glad you're awake and aware of the truth bro. I'm a hardcore Trump Patriot and truth seeker. This is one of my favorite videos you've made. Keep sharing truth and keeping it 💯 🇺🇲
Thats an oxymoron. Trump is one of them
You're duped believing in the left or the right ,your mind is stuck their
Wow! Wisdom right here! You have evolved and grown to a new level! Much respect!
What is said is true , sleeping with a lot of women just for the sake of it won’t make u happy in and of itself, however it’s the only path to gain abundance and move forward in a more spiritual place. If u are in ur 20s and all u think of is sex, just ignoring it will not really help you because u will grave for it one way or another in the end. Instead if u go through that process and realize by unself what’s the point, only then u are able to move forward with ur life and work on other aspects
Great video! Great advice! Currently in the throws of facing the dilemma of being myself when I have lacked the confidence and have had a mental handicap for so long that has weighed heavy on me and limited me in the dating pool. Thanks for the encouragement! Enjoying your videos. Keep up the great work!
LFA is the real deal now🙌🏻
Your videos are the absolute best. I love your perspective
Be yourself 👍 true 💯
"Is it just me, or is it getting crazier out there?" - Arthur Fleck
I appreciate your content and the fact that its not all about women. With all the current bs hitting the fan, there are so many other more important issues that need to be discussed
Shout out to the algorithm for this one!
One of the realest man living thank god for this channel
I pressed play and had a good day 😌
I had no idea how much i needed this thank you!
I absolutely loved this message! So much maturity in this compared to other content!
That one person who has your back. That should be the goal. Keep doing the work until you get there. Good job. Keep putting it out there brother.
Amazing video.
Yes. You are a great teacher. I always liked your videos, keep it up
Valuable. Thanks
Wow that was great again. Thx again and greetings from Germany.
this is amazing man
A six that you have chemistry with and true connection is actually a ten, and should be the most beautiful thing youve ever seen
Good video 💯
This is a solid video brother. We are getting even closer to SHTF and I’ve been aiming to find someone meaningful in life. With that said, crack open a bible. This is all prophesized. God bless!
Best LFA video. been a fan for 2+ years.
I can tell you read the book. I like talking about this stuff. It is all very real
Appreciate the perspective. I've gained a lot of insight from the legit red pill community, but at the same time, they don't have all the answers either...everyone's just trying to figure stuff out as we go along.
I've been struggling with this a lot I keep finding myself comparing myself to others that are lower than me in terms of intellect attraction you name it have meaningful relationships and many friends and I struggle to find out why and end up hating myself for it
This is very good stuff, you know truth and experience when you hear it.
Best L F A Ever watch and listen Over and Over guys Man to Man don't get no better than This
Great channel ! 💫👍
LFA has the best like to dislike ratio in the manosphere.
I really needed this, I appreciate it man. I hope everyone watching this vid gets the same value as i did.
This is wisdom crying out in the street👍🏾
aeroplane spying on your video lolll
Love how u saying every day you wake up to drama as there is helicopter flying over and sirens 🙂
"Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times". - Stefan Arnio
Being yourself takes a lot of inner strength.
Great vid
Man i love your content
agree 100% , i have been commenting in this way everywhere last year
This came at the right time. Thanks man.
This video is actually game changer. If u wanna play mind games with chicks, they will beat you, that's their game. Thx LFA
Damn, what a video
This man,Is actually the best coach,He is sincere,doesn't give advice to make people happy,He is always on point...🤝
It’s a helicopter. Oh it’s a plane. There is always something in your videos that cracks me up