Black women have had a different experience than other races of women...black men haven't had the same experiences as other races...it effects each differently and having an attitude being strong minded is key to survival you as black men call it disrespectful to talk the way we do but at the same time you want black women to understand and accommodate what you go through in society give you peace and respect that you feel you don't get outside the home...but what about black women she is the lowest of women on the totem pole and black men are the first to hit us like we not any good as women....have you ever asked a black woman what she goes through or have gone through...have you ever thought to just hold her..tell her you got her and mean it...black women go through and have gone through things she couldn't even tell black men because to do so could cost a black man his life...black women have worked beside and with black men since slavery...she worked thats not new for black women....she was the maid, housekeeper, nanny for those sahm....most of those women taught their daughters to be strong, to stand up for herself because she couldn't always count on a black man not because he wouldn't but because in most cases it could cost that man his life...black men you see that attitude as disrespect instead of the protection it was or is in most cases...show black women you can be her peace..she can be that soft feminine woman that she has never been allowed to be.....js
@lifecoachingbymel No...I was raised in a middle class family that had a mom and dad in the home both from the south its manners and how I was raised but
Thanks for answering that. I find it curious that in everything that you mentioned in your initial comment, you didn’t mention the effects of being raised in single parent households. You were raised in a household with two parents and you credit that as the reason in which you don’t behave in that manner. Shouldn’t we promote your environment as the way to correct this behavior for the next generation rather than list every reason known to mankind for why they possibly may behave that way. Everyone acknowledges that the problem exists, but no one is providing tangible solutions. Your family upbringing is the ideal solution. 🙏
Black women have had a different experience than other races of women...black men haven't had the same experiences as other races...it effects each differently and having an attitude being strong minded is key to survival you as black men call it disrespectful to talk the way we do but at the same time you want black women to understand and accommodate what you go through in society give you peace and respect that you feel you don't get outside the home...but what about black women she is the lowest of women on the totem pole and black men are the first to hit us like we not any good as women....have you ever asked a black woman what she goes through or have gone through...have you ever thought to just hold her..tell her you got her and mean it...black women go through and have gone through things she couldn't even tell black men because to do so could cost a black man his life...black women have worked beside and with black men since slavery...she worked thats not new for black women....she was the maid, housekeeper, nanny for those sahm....most of those women taught their daughters to be strong, to stand up for herself because she couldn't always count on a black man not because he wouldn't but because in most cases it could cost that man his life...black men you see that attitude as disrespect instead of the protection it was or is in most cases...show black women you can be her peace..she can be that soft feminine woman that she has never been allowed to be.....js
@@CJ-ub3rh Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Quick follow up question, are you saying that you are a black woman that speaks abrasively to black men?
@lifecoachingbymel No...I was raised in a middle class family that had a mom and dad in the home both from the south its manners and how I was raised but
That wasn't common in the late 80s and 90s....
Thanks for answering that. I find it curious that in everything that you mentioned in your initial comment, you didn’t mention the effects of being raised in single parent households. You were raised in a household with two parents and you credit that as the reason in which you don’t behave in that manner. Shouldn’t we promote your environment as the way to correct this behavior for the next generation rather than list every reason known to mankind for why they possibly may behave that way. Everyone acknowledges that the problem exists, but no one is providing tangible solutions. Your family upbringing is the ideal solution. 🙏
It's sad that some black women have that reaction...I would smile and react differently...its sad that most black women react that way....
Yes indeed. 🙏