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Your the woman your going to do what your told are your gonna be replaced

Big facts!!

Cookie.. as I listened to your story I had to give thanks to God for His faithfulness . I was moved to tears and smiles as you spoke about how God is moving in and thru your life. Continue to live by faith no matter what the facts are. God bless you

😂😂😂😂😂 no.

I knew an elderly couple that went to separate churches. They'd go to each other's churches on special occasions

Just shows nomatter how much money u have they r just like us and no one is immune to the tribulations of life

Yikes, I'm glad I didn't make decisions like that when I was younger

I saw an old video about Kareem Hunt. Loved it and so glad to see you are still doing podcasts. I have prayed for Kareem since he left the Chiefs and I believe God answered my prayers....and not just because he is back with the Chiefs although that is awesome but because I believe God will use that young man. Thank you for looking for the positive and being real. God Bless

So proud of her for telling her story ❤ She will recover in Jesus name ❤

God is so faithful. To everyone judging her, it’s only because you guys haven’t experienced what it is that she actually went through and how the situations were presented to her. We can stand in faith and believe that God is doing a mighty and even accelerated work in our lives, especially when we’re living for Christ and serving Him with clean hands and a pure heart. I relate because I was fooled too. Irrespective of it all, God is and will continue to be in control. I’m the ex wife that she referred to. The Lord allowed for her to pop up on my phone as a Facebook friend suggestion. I wondered who she was and remembered that the woman that my ex had been engaged to was named Kristin. I asked my son if the person in the notification was her and then after him confirming her identity, I reached out. I was curious to know why he left the relationship because we had court coming up and I wanted to know if he had gotten violent with her or if any of his known negative characteristics were the cause. He made it seem like he just wasn’t feeling it, had a change of heart and was breaking off the engagement. I prayed about it prior to the friend suggestion ever coming through. I prayed for us to somehow be connected, and that fb notification was ultimately how I was connected to her. Prior to that, we weren’t friends and knew nothing about each other on a personal level at all. At that time was when I reached out. She sent me what she mentioned in this video. We spoke and I explained to her that I wasn’t surprised about anything that she had shared. This is his MO. He is severely mentally ill and was on meds and abruptly stopped taking them. It’s unfortunate that he did what he did to her, following all of the turmoil that he took me through, but all we can do is continue looking up to Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith. He will continue to do a perfect work in us and in the end His name will be glorified through her and even my story. My heart truly goes out to this young lady. She has my full support and I really pray Gods best for her and her unborn. Her message is highly inspirational. I pray that it reaches and helps so many others. Great video! Keep up the good work!

It’s beyond sad how religion - a HUMAN thought not God - brainwashed ppl especially girls and women. The desperation that leads to unhealthy relationships is wild. So sad 😢. Break free of your social conditioning. God is real NOT religion - especially the religion of ppls captors and oppressors.

May God continue to heal her 🙏 ✨️...That too shall pass...also this is a cautionary tale to us women...take time because time reveals a mans intentions

LADIES. why y'all in a rush to get married or in a relationship? take your time. time will show you everything you need to know

There are TOO MANY RED FLAGS in this story from the very beginning to believe someone can be fooled this badly!!!!

To be fair, the topic of colorism in the black community is just a point of observation and discussion and only actionable in your own life. But if you bring it up you'll probably get a history lesson

AND living in an air bnb?Lots of red flags!

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Men are always more likely to get remarried. They need the help.

She had difficulty conceiving. She tried and it didn’t happen. There’s nothing to regret.

Don't we all have regrets about one thing or another? Why are we as a public so hyper focused on this particular topic?

1:21:07 recovery journey ❤️‍🩹

I’m quite sure it was not the daughter rejecting the father…rather the father unintentionally abandoning the daughter and then the daughter rejecting the father. Stop defending men who dont take their rightful place

See the thing with these women is that they saw something in these men to give themselves too an to want to get married but they choice to live in these modern ideology that they gonna drop a slipper an a prince gonna pick it up an save them. No Cinderella was a kind heart, loving person an had feminine charm an yeah a prince seen those traits in her. But as you can see modern women whose choose to be arrogant thinking they deserve anything just because they are a women is basicly a mental lie they tell themselves. No body deserves anything! men or women. Looks means nothing because it fades, earning money mean nothing when u just waste it, having fancy thing means nothing when all u can do is stare at it. People need GOD an JESUS CHRIST guidance to be to learn what it means to love actually is.

What were the important questions that ya'll asked up front??

You might want to read the stats on second marriages; there's an 85% fail rate (50-60% for first marriages) and they typically last about half as long since people are unwilling to stick around when things start to fail. Men typically remarry much faster than women, and most people, men and women alike, really don't do the hard work to figure out what failed in the first marriage and how did they contribute to that. So if a marriage makes it, it MiGHT be happier, but most will not make it. Ex-Marriage Counselor for 16 years.

Concerts?! Dinner?! Those are reserved for the dating EXCLUSIVELY phase. Bowling and movies are fine, but NOT for a first date. Those are second or third date activities. Movie prevents you from talking and getting to know each other in person.

If you are a believer, there should be NO second marriage UNLESS the marriage ended due to sexual immorality. That said, studies say 2nd marriages are easier because of the removed responsibility and mistakes made with finances and child rearing. But again BELIEVERS 2nd marriages are for the world.

Sad....modern women not knowing there purpose

Exactly this how people are supposed to date I get to know each other for a few days and have sex and a baby show and then start getting crazy. This needs to be a national anthem.

I’ve never felt this way. I give compliments etc without thinking twice. I hate that others have this experience.

Thanks you sir!!!!

I grew up in America Generation X and haven't a clue of what you're talking about. Most Generation X are Principals, lawyers, teachers, doctors, own their own business, the movers and the shakers, (in black communities) and yes we have activist, preachers, comedians, sportsman like basketball players, etc. etc. The group you're describing sounds like the BABY BOOMERS that's all I heard the BABY BOOMERS say the group that Sheila Jackson Lee came from about blaming slavery and Jesse Jackson. So I have no idea what Generation you're talking about. Maybe you mean millennials b/c most Generation X died during the Guf War and other Wars in the 1990s. That's why our group is usually the most ignored group b/c there's very few of us so the Millenials and other groups took our place. But we are REALISTIC our group and know that we're very ambitious and if we don't get any further then like a BA or MASTERS OR PH.D etc. usually it was due to circumstances occurring in life beyond our control but that wasn't due to just racism it could be anything. Because life is just life. You're the only one I've heard say this about Generation X b/c most people don't have that view of us b/c they haven't seen that description in most of the group.

The gen X people that you know are different from the ones I know. I'm gen X, and the ones I knew were not full of excuses. We went out and achieved. We behaved in school and respected our teachers. We knew the value of education and used it to better ourselves. I'm from the Caribbean, so it may be that the gen X there behaved differently from the ones in America.

You can't take responsibility for a broken system.

you need to get a blood pressure monitor you getting to that age

Nope!! I don't agree. Im gen x and my friends and cousins all did and do what we have to do. Went to school, work, took care of families. Please don't make generalizations. Every generation, race, culture has people who don't own up or make excuses. This is your experience.

Them YO PEOPLE.

Black women are not pushing black men, anywhere, that they didn't already want to go! Stop gaslighting black women for YOUR choices, black men . We know if the title was different and black women said, black men are pushing black women into the arms of whyte men, black men would have a fit.

Tbh im Gen X born 1978 I never had that mentality nor did my peers…but some in my neighborhood did have that mentality but they got that from the older generation though… and some even that are millennials have that mentality as well if they are impressionable….

People better learn quick how to fend for themselves, because the free money is coming to an end. There will be no more complaining for more money. Nobody wants to hear complaining. You better have something to offer in the near future, because being lazy and relying on victimhood will not work.

Maybe you just come from a wack family.

Gen X was one of the first generations to mix friends and family ...I have a family full of Gen X and not one ever blamed a white person, NOT ONE! , you know why? because more than half of them are friends with or dating or marrying interracially. I have friends who are white (been friends since the 80s), my cousins and siblings have long time friends of all races. Most Gen X don't care about that stuff unless they were amongst those who were raised with a racist woe is me mindset.

F the election don’t change anything. Gen x here we been thru worst we keep on ticking and laughing

First of all it's your family that didn't break the generational curses! You need to start there! Coming from an Xer. Please don't go there. Your generation are wannabes, because their parents weren't!

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And by the way. It was Generation X members who founded almost all of the social media that you millenials can't live without.

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Dude bye! Millenials whine about everything. Half of y'all still living in our Gen X and Baby Boomer basements.

Also your analysis of the statements made by your family member makes no sense because colorism is the result of slavery and whites treating the lighter skinned blacks better than the darker skinned blacks and unfortunately we internalized that. Your family member was stating a fact and doesn't mean he is not taking accountability for his own actions. Here in south Louisiana, especially in New Orleans, I have seen many lighter skinned blacks look down and treat darker skinned blacks like they less then them. I have seen myself being treated better because I am lightskinned. I don't see how stating a fact means he is not taking responsbility for his actions. Logically that makes no sense. We don't make excuses. We work hard! Growing up without the overload of information that is present now we had to work hard because things weren't at our fingertips like it is now.

As a member of Gen X I 100% disagree. I grew up dirt poor. Excelled in school despite coming from a situation that would break most. Got a college education and I am currently a working professional. And you know what! I didn't blame anyone for my situation despite my baby boomer parents being drug addicts who refused to get regular jobs! How many people from generation x do you know because my fellow gen x members are some of the most hard working individuals I know. Many of us raised ourselves while our baby boomer parents weren't home. We had to wake ourselves for school and when we got home no one was there and we had to feed ourselves. That is why we are called the latch key kids. We grew up without internet. We had to learn how to obtain information in an analog world. If anything, some of you millenials are some of the most entitled individuals I ever meet who expect the world to provide for you without you putting in the work to better yourself. And you know why that is? Because unfortunately your Gen X parents didn't want you to have to work so hard for everything like we did so they gave you everything but it crippled some of you and made yall lazy! My millenial nephew says he shouldn't have to pay bills and just live with someone else. Don't come for an entire generation when you don't know everything about us or know what we went through by having baby boomer parents.