It's Not Just Us - Our First Date

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024

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  • @allenuconn
    @allenuconn 2 роки тому +170

    The takeaway - I’m watching 2 people who genuinely LIKE each other. Not everyone in love truly likes their significant other. So freaking refreshing to hear how this all fell into place for you both.
    Please add a video that finally covers the 1st kiss! Don’t leave us hanging!

    • @VintageAmmoTim
      @VintageAmmoTim 2 роки тому +4

      Agree, I’d like to hear how the “first punch to the face” story ended!

    • @Matt_Wilson01
      @Matt_Wilson01 Рік тому +2

      Too many people in toxic relationships and think it’s normal, those toxic relationships there is no love, if you really care about someone you know when to walk away

    • @homealone5087
      @homealone5087 Рік тому +1

      How can you not like someone you love?

    • @trevorcole6360
      @trevorcole6360 Рік тому +3

      @@homealone5087 absolutely. i love my girl. but some days i dont like the little gremlin. just because you dont like someone in the moment doesnt mean two hours later that wont change. its ok to be mad or upset or not like someone. just dont hold onto it and give space for growth

  • @phillipwombacher9635
    @phillipwombacher9635 Рік тому +33

    As toxic and horrible as dating has become in the modern world hearing your guys story is like literally a breath of fresh air

  • @ChiloTarot
    @ChiloTarot 2 роки тому +56

    I’m so impressed that Shawn wasn’t discouraged by a right hook to the face 😂 Man was not to be deterred.

    • @Cas_anova
      @Cas_anova 13 днів тому +1

      For real, I would've never said another word to her. 😂

  • @TheGeneral_
    @TheGeneral_ 2 роки тому +282

    Katie showing up like a professional bowler while Shawn thinks he’s just going on a fun, get to know you type date is hilarious

  • @localbrew73
    @localbrew73 2 роки тому +563

    I'm diggin the new Shawn, brother so thrilled to see you so happy.

    • @aphysique
      @aphysique 2 роки тому +15

      Yeah dude deserves it

    • @colearmitage1000
      @colearmitage1000 2 роки тому +14

      100% Crazy difference just un his voice and personality! Can't wait to continue to watch him grow so I can possibly see how his treatment will help me also!

    • @aphysique
      @aphysique 2 роки тому +17

      @@colearmitage1000 his laughter is very contagious since going through his psychedelic experience..I'm so happy he found relief...

    • @colearmitage1000
      @colearmitage1000 2 роки тому +1

      @@aphysique You part of his Patreon?

    • @aphysique
      @aphysique 2 роки тому

      @@colearmitage1000 no am not

  • @danielsmith8674
    @danielsmith8674 2 роки тому +136

    Enjoying your life stories as a couple. Cried earlier listening to Shawn's psychedelic experience and now laughing at your funny moment. Thank you both for everything.

  • @ryansuchodolski68
    @ryansuchodolski68 2 роки тому +67

    I’m almost PISSING MYSELF LAUGHING right now hearing about Shawn getting dotted in the face while he was moving in for the kiss!!!! YOU TWO ARE THE BEST! I really like everything you guys do. Can’t wait til the next one even more now! 😉

    • @itstime5390
      @itstime5390 2 роки тому +4

      I read this comment before I saw it in the video and was still rolling even k owing it was coming. Awesome story.

  • @armyofshea7941
    @armyofshea7941 Рік тому +35

    Shawn and Katie, thank you for producing these. Other than the fact I am just straight military, nothing special, my story is eerily the same as yours. Unfortunately my Katie (Shar) just passed away from a Glioblastoma brain tumor. It was the best year of my life, and hearing you two banter about how your love blossomed is so therapeutic.

    • @alb639
      @alb639 11 місяців тому

      Ya know what I think totally sucks? We've gotten to this point, somehow, if you're not SOF you're nothing and I think that's pretty shitty even though I've never served. And then, there is something even worse than that. People act like if you're a Navy SEAL, but you aren't in DEVGRU, you're somehow not that badass. Friggin' media. Both MSM and social media have been the driving force behind this, equally. The less you know, the more inclined you are to think these things and I think it's insulting to the Men and women who wear the uniform.
      I didn't mean to jump on you specifically, but your words reminded me of something that's been percolating in this tiny brain of mine. I'm sure you were only pointing out that you weren't in an SOF unit. In my book, everybody who joins the military voluntarily and serves with honor has done something special.

    • @kevinbem226
      @kevinbem226 11 місяців тому +1

      Sorry to hear about your loss

  • @208SledHead
    @208SledHead 2 роки тому +54

    Shaved head looks good on you Shawn. Absolutely love this couple....Katie's adorable and a total rock star.

    • @208SledHead
      @208SledHead 2 роки тому +4

      I vote communication and how long it took to develop that trust in each other. Nothing is more important in a relationship than those two things. Is it easy for ya'll to compromise? Cuz to be honest, you both seem like very strong minded people which obviously isn't a bad thing, but I imagine it can be difficult at times?? Love the hell out of you guys....thanks for opening up the way you have!

  • @Dmb596
    @Dmb596 2 роки тому +96

    Psychedelic episode was your best material for me. Shawn thank you for being so real and unveiling things most people would be afraid to do. You guys are so darn cute together. I always look forward to Sundays because of you guys.

  • @zach1972
    @zach1972 2 роки тому +10

    Date 1: Shooting Range, Shaun shows up ready to down some targets
    Date 2: Bowling, Katie shows up reading to down some targets, and Shauns face
    Love this series!

  • @steveyboy7
    @steveyboy7 2 роки тому +31

    I’m a former first responder and your psychedelic episode helped me by realizing that most of the shit we go through related to anxiety and anger is in our heads and can be beat without meds. The most important takeaway is that I’ve been on acid reflux meds since 9/11 and when you said you didn’t have the need to take meds anymore it blew my mind. I thought my GERD symptoms were strictly related to foods. I now realize it’s mainly psychological. Thank you Sean so much for opening my eyes to this.

    • @fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied
      @fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied Рік тому +2

      Isn’t that revealing? I noticed this, throughout my life, with regard to my own stomach issues. It’s stress. How we manage our stress.

    • @murkstalinskitm5334
      @murkstalinskitm5334 Рік тому +1

      Isn’t the psychedelic substance a medicine in this situation? I’ve used MDMA therapy and I consider it a medicine and that doesn’t make it bad, it was great for me!

    • @numbernine3436
      @numbernine3436 Рік тому

      Also your gut controls much of your brain. Gotta get the healthy bacteria in synch or your entire system ( brain included) is thrown for a loop

  • @ff1047
    @ff1047 2 роки тому +6

    Shawn, let's hear the " Boss you cannot stand " story. Love the way you guys communicate.

    • @jasonmiller8477
      @jasonmiller8477 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah... Can't start out a great "this boss I can't stand" story and leave us hang like that!

  • @Dgreens
    @Dgreens 2 роки тому +20

    I love their dynamic. They’re so good for each other. Congratulations Shawn we’re all so happy for you!

  • @josephllinas2672
    @josephllinas2672 2 роки тому +18

    I love seeing Shawn happy man, gives me hope I'll find consistent peace myself.

  • @MrJasonricker
    @MrJasonricker Рік тому +3

    My wife and I used to say: " Friends first, lovers later..." You guys seem like great friends!"

  • @diane8036
    @diane8036 2 роки тому +6

    I was watching this on the couch with my morning coffee, hubby (20 years together) heard, leaned in and watched too. We were smiling and laughing, remembering our first date/kiss. Good times. Thanks guys.

  • @nubbletv3822
    @nubbletv3822 2 роки тому +2

    Katie came into the bowling alley with her full kit on lol. Ready for battle.

  • @MichelleAllen206
    @MichelleAllen206 2 роки тому +8

    The almost first kiss story is freaking hilarious!!! What a great story to tell your kids and grandkids someday.

  • @amwkarate
    @amwkarate 2 роки тому +13

    As always, great episode! About to be a married military man. Would love to hear the engagement story, the communication journey in marriage, etc. Thank you for sharing with us, cheers!

  • @chiefro7
    @chiefro7 2 роки тому +13

    The banter about who’s a more effective zombie killer is proof you 2 were meant to be.
    Lmao Great show, as always.

  • @maxchristensen256
    @maxchristensen256 2 роки тому +31

    Love these new video's ur doing with your wife

  • @rambo8999
    @rambo8999 2 роки тому +9

    Great story guys. Thank you for the laugh and real look in your relationship. I'm glad Shawn was tough enough to not let the punch scare him off. Here's to a long life of many more happy moments and plenty of laughs together.

  • @davidkitchen1025
    @davidkitchen1025 2 роки тому +9

    I like the chronological, but mostly enjoy getting to know you and your amazing wife. She and you are magnificent champions of life.

  • @JourneyMan100001
    @JourneyMan100001 2 роки тому +5

    The last episode on psychedelics was amazing dude. I don’t think I’ve ever listened to a 2 1/2 hour podcast in its entirety but I did with yours. Your ability to articulate things and communicate is impressive. I hope you put out much more of this type of content. I’d probably watch any convo between the two of you and it wouldn’t matter the topic to be honest

  • @andym6568
    @andym6568 2 роки тому +6

    Love the series guys! I like Katie's idea of switching it up every other episode. You guys always make me smile! Thanks!

  • @Rogueaviation
    @Rogueaviation 8 місяців тому +2

    These vignettes are awesome. They are such a great complement to the normal SRS podcasts/interviews.
    Thank you for sharing them with us.

  • @travismullins8230
    @travismullins8230 2 роки тому +9

    I bet it feels so fucking good to not give a shit about what people think and do the content you want to do. Feels more authentic and enjoyable.

  • @alanlawz
    @alanlawz 2 роки тому +6

    love the idea of mixing it up and i am truly enjoying this series, you both look so natural together a really great pairing. thank you both for the window into your life together.

  • @DG-jf4op
    @DG-jf4op 2 роки тому +6

    The chemistry just ooze’s off the screen bless you guys , do whatever you want these are great! 😂

  • @gmelectricllc5868
    @gmelectricllc5868 2 роки тому +8

    Love the personal banter between you guys..reminds me of my own relationship with my wife...Funny, simple, and authentic...have a great week....Can't wait till next weekend

  • @dauntewimbush1939
    @dauntewimbush1939 2 роки тому +5

    These videos are actually really great, and of course Griffin the main man just chillin and being an absolute boss.

  • @nangaleema
    @nangaleema Рік тому +5

    Wow! Loved seeing this slice of life! Beautiful scenery and two people enjoying their lives and each other. Wonderful!

  • @dowth3
    @dowth3 2 роки тому +7

    Such fun! Would love to hear first family meetings ... that's always good for a chuckle!

  • @BearIndependent
    @BearIndependent Рік тому +2

    These are great segments; thank you for sharing.

  • @williambassjr.5903
    @williambassjr.5903 2 роки тому +3

    I can't find a superlative worthy to explain my thoughts on this latest installment of "It's Not Just Us!"
    You guys are killin' it, and the best aspect of the aforementioned is that you somehow find a way to "One Up" yourselves with an episode as good if not better than the one prior, and that's not easy, nor in your case is it by accident!
    Major Kudos and Well Done!

  • @Dwightaroundyolips
    @Dwightaroundyolips 2 роки тому +10

    You guys are great. Great vibe. Great content. Keep doing what you're doing. It's important to have down to earth people out there posting stuff. It cuts through all the crazy people

  • @oldskolfromthenorth7763
    @oldskolfromthenorth7763 2 роки тому +4

    Good move filming at the creek. This VE has provided some great content. This first date vid in particular. There is no such thing as a perfect first date or engagement. Sometimes things just happen and God works out the rest. God bless you all.

  • @briangarrett5817
    @briangarrett5817 2 роки тому +9

    “That’s how I roll” priceless Katie that’s got to be the new Vigilance elite logo LOL !! I lov you guys!

  • @tracyleblanc5311
    @tracyleblanc5311 2 роки тому +6

    Whatever you decide to talk about will make me happy thank you. Much respect and kindness to you both. Have a great week.

  • @michaelmcelhinney691
    @michaelmcelhinney691 2 роки тому +6

    These videos are always hilarious, I don't think it matters what order, or what you guys talk about. They will be fun either way.

  • @NobodySVK
    @NobodySVK 2 роки тому +3

    Yeah do as she said 😉 can't wait guys. Was watching this channel since day one.

  • @FireCrow1961
    @FireCrow1961 2 роки тому +4

    Damn brother, you hit the lottery with this woman. Really happy for you guys.

  • @jasonrad9332
    @jasonrad9332 2 роки тому +5

    Still curious about the CIA boss and headphones. Good stuff.

  • @NCshooter1213
    @NCshooter1213 2 роки тому +12

    I really enjoy this. Watched with my wife and we had a good laugh. Sounds like some super memorable times yall had

  • @JadedGLORY2689
    @JadedGLORY2689 Рік тому +1

    Bro being able to laugh and communicate with your partner is so important in a relationship.

  • @Resoob
    @Resoob 2 роки тому +4

    Griffin peeing on the tripod. That's an alpha move, what a Chad. 😆

  • @JasonWorksAlot
    @JasonWorksAlot 2 роки тому +5

    Wonderful story, glad you both found your soulmates, and are using your experiences to bring joy to the listeners. I like the idea of chronological every other episode!

  • @jcijcijci
    @jcijcijci 2 роки тому +7

    My wife and I love watching these every week. Keep up the good work, dudes.
    For sure let’s hear about your boss at the agency…and yes, keep it chronological!
    #FukkinHooya

  • @truenorthadventures4474
    @truenorthadventures4474 2 роки тому +1

    You seem so much healthier and at peace Shawn. Loving the new content! Your psychedelic experience video was a game changer.

  • @rodneyault4297
    @rodneyault4297 2 роки тому +8

    It was good to see you and meet your wife! And nice yard 👍 Love the show Shawn. And the guests are GREAT! So this is my first comment ever, so it gives me pride and honor to comment on your show! Keep on Rockin Shawn, oh and Katie too!!!

  • @mjt7135
    @mjt7135 2 роки тому +5

    You two are great 💯 Love to hear more about how your relationship developed after Shawn got first kiss rejected. She was playing hard to get 🤣

  • @pauledwards9493
    @pauledwards9493 2 роки тому +4

    There's a vibe i get from you two of late and i'm liking it.

  • @adwlab8038
    @adwlab8038 2 роки тому +1

    Cracking up, vote to mix it up, keep us guessing by referencing things we don’t know about that happened. Stay smooth out there

  • @oso9809
    @oso9809 2 роки тому +3

    Holy crap! That first punch was a sign you met a live one.

  • @drewpaul9812
    @drewpaul9812 2 роки тому +1

    First "fight". I remember my wife and I's first fight, super dynamics! And we remember it fondly.

  • @andreasgrunewald929
    @andreasgrunewald929 2 роки тому +4

    Why do I love Griffin so much?

  • @Ohiostatebuckeye-ey6my
    @Ohiostatebuckeye-ey6my 2 роки тому +2

    Shawn and Mrs. Ryan, I loved this one. Great idea bringing Mrs. Ryan on some of your videos. You both enjoy your weekend. Keep the videos coming, please. 👍

  • @jorgejunco4907
    @jorgejunco4907 2 роки тому +4

    Great to hear your guys story. It reminds me of my wife and my first dates.

  • @JOECorsoNova
    @JOECorsoNova 2 роки тому +2

    Again, another awesome one! 🤛
    As far as content for your Sunday chats, I would like anything! You guys are awesome and seem very real, all the best guys, can’t wait for next Sunday!

  • @skepticalmom2948
    @skepticalmom2948 2 роки тому +8

    That was hilarious! 🥂 cheers to you both! You are so funny!

  • @jessiegarcia7894
    @jessiegarcia7894 Рік тому +2

    Definitely great story..... but would like to hear about the boss you couldn't stand and why

  • @tannerslays
    @tannerslays 2 роки тому +4

    Love to see the laughter and reminiscing of fun times! Looking forward to more videos from you both!

  • @TheRealBrandonMartin
    @TheRealBrandonMartin 2 роки тому +2

    Shawn, thanks for the dating advice, next time I go on a first date it will be the shooting range so I don’t have to talk too much, especially because my anxiety and I’m always so nervous so that would work out perfect👍🏻👍🏻😂

  • @fayenwolf
    @fayenwolf 2 роки тому +5

    Me and my wife are from South Florida (Pompano Beach actually lol and we've since moved to North Florida) so hearing you guys name drop Sample Rd and all these spots down there had us laughing in agreement like "yep!" Awesome episode, keep em' coming.

  • @MrEricturney
    @MrEricturney 2 роки тому +2

    I must be a big ol simp because these are some of my favorite VE videos! Keep ‘em comin

  • @garrettsmith3391
    @garrettsmith3391 2 роки тому +4

    These are great. You guys are awesome. Perfect little 10-30 minutes while I’m getting ready for work. Maybe have Shawn do a life interview with his wife and have her interview him. Like as guests. Ok I’m done. Sempra Fidelis.

  • @LucysMom1
    @LucysMom1 7 місяців тому +1

    Shawn & Katie are a riot. I don’t know either of them but I love them together.

  • @nobodybugger8180
    @nobodybugger8180 2 роки тому +6

    How’s the tripod smelling? Nice episode. I enjoy listening to these. A punching bag would have been another good gift to send after a failed first kiss.

  • @kl8455
    @kl8455 3 місяці тому

    She took the "1 in the kisser" to heart. Great story and glad y'all found each other.

  • @vigilantofstendarr6276
    @vigilantofstendarr6276 2 роки тому +3

    Hey it’s Griff! Long time no see,buddy.

  • @peterharmon7852
    @peterharmon7852 Рік тому +1

    This is beautiful. Makes me cry honestly.. thought I was making memories with my soulmate the past three years but found out she cheated on me a couple months ago. I’m falling apart. Didn’t know I could hurt this bad. I don’t know how I’m ever going to learn to trust again, I never in a million years thought my person would hurt me like this

  • @SwiftyMcVeigh851
    @SwiftyMcVeigh851 2 роки тому +9

    You two are great. The way she's laughing at the first kiss punch fest is funny AF ... whatever you two do with the content, is fine...it's all good shit.

  • @revans4774
    @revans4774 2 роки тому +2

    Happy wife ….

  • @SouthernJaeger
    @SouthernJaeger 2 роки тому +2

    That’s fucking hysterical. What do y’all think is the biggest mistake people make with relationships these days?

  • @DarkStarAlpha1
    @DarkStarAlpha1 2 роки тому +3

    Going through the experience you just went through really is a life changing experience and it’s a feeling you never forget and a feeling that you can always refer back to when you have challenges in life

  • @Austinfromcorncountry
    @Austinfromcorncountry 2 роки тому +2

    Loved the video! I'd love to hear more relationship stories like the first time you traveled on vacation together, any funny honeymoon stories, and stuff like that!

  • @col.cottonhill6655
    @col.cottonhill6655 2 роки тому +3

    I enjoy new parenthood stories. But the dating ones are very entertaining too. You guys seem like such a cool couple.

  • @HanningCordes
    @HanningCordes 2 роки тому +2

    Hoping you continue this series.. You have eluded to it on recent podcast episodes.. My wife and I are recently married and expecting our first child. Have a lot to relate to and your discussions are definitely something I look forward to hearing more of.

  • @FlyEaglesFly19111
    @FlyEaglesFly19111 2 роки тому +3

    That was the best John Maddon "Boom"...lmao! Another great family story. Oh man classic! Stay safe and be well. Thanks a ton for sharing and the needed laugh!

  • @Anybodyelse2294
    @Anybodyelse2294 2 роки тому +1

    Creek looks great in the background. It’s not just you, my wife and I laugh about goofy shit we’ve done. Keeps it fun

  • @Usicky12
    @Usicky12 2 роки тому +7

    dont worry about wrapping anything up early, we love to hear from you guys

    • @Jaycren86
      @Jaycren86 2 роки тому

      But it was smart they have left all us Wanting more 👍

  • @jamesdarbyii8620
    @jamesdarbyii8620 Рік тому +2

    At the very start, I genuinely thought that dog was a bear (or a cub in the least) just behind Shawn ... really great to see human resilience and great outcome.

    • @ruthbentley2090
      @ruthbentley2090 15 днів тому

      Looked like a wombat! (Aussie critter)
      🤡🐸🎶🦋

  • @john-martin
    @john-martin 2 роки тому +4

    Damn good video, keep them coming!

  • @nicholastudor934
    @nicholastudor934 2 роки тому +1

    I like the chronological order for sure! Now I want to hear how you recovered from the punch lol. Love these segments regardless what you choose. Welcome to Tennessee!

  • @roblebeau7169
    @roblebeau7169 2 роки тому +3

    You guys are just awesome!!! thank you so much 🙏 for sharing. Added some great laughs to a Sunday

  • @nicholassoper3211
    @nicholassoper3211 2 роки тому +2

    You two are so organic… love it.

  • @tamgsmith8077
    @tamgsmith8077 Рік тому +1

    I really love their story. Like she is a tough broad..knows how to bowl and shoot but she has an easy laugh. Great qualities in a person.

  • @debrabrow6379
    @debrabrow6379 2 роки тому +4

    You guys are awesome - Love the show, please keep the content coming!

  • @Tri-tipTim
    @Tri-tipTim 23 дні тому +1

    You guys have got to bring these back

  • @Jam-vj8ig
    @Jam-vj8ig 2 роки тому +3

    Love listening to you guys talk. Thank you !

  • @johnerwin8755
    @johnerwin8755 2 роки тому +2

    The show is awesome and the dog is a star Lolol and the show about the psychedelic is cool and Shawn you seem like you have improved ALOT brother great job

  • @terriparker6199
    @terriparker6199 2 роки тому +3

    Wanted to hear the story of the cia boss. Being real and taking it as it goes even if it ‘s off plan is the best……much love to you both……

  • @aaronschmidt169
    @aaronschmidt169 2 роки тому +2

    You seem a lot more relaxed and comfortable since your "trip" lol, all jokes aside I think it's awesome, im glad you found something to help bring more joy into your life.

  • @DarkStarAlpha1
    @DarkStarAlpha1 2 роки тому +3

    Love y’all and really happy to hear about your recent experience

  • @jeffbrooks7286
    @jeffbrooks7286 2 роки тому +2

    Ha! While you were relating the 1st kiss story about the punch, the UA-cam suggested video below yours was a Jonny Depp/Amber Heard news story with the title "I was not punching you, I was hitting you". Perfect timing.

  • @alejandres26
    @alejandres26 2 роки тому +3

    Your wife is cool sir, she likes to shoot guns! Not like most women who hate guns!

  • @krystalriley10
    @krystalriley10 2 роки тому +2

    Awww such a cute story. I love this new type of video setting its super chill shawn great job. I suggest more videos like this and you guys talking about anything

    • @krystalriley10
      @krystalriley10 2 роки тому

      If you did do stories like that, i think chronological order is the best👍

  • @Element-tu8jw
    @Element-tu8jw 2 роки тому +2

    Me and wife’s third date. Went to blockbuster. We split up to each pick out our own movie to surprise the other. I found one then walked over to her. I smelled the most horrible fart. I looked at her and whispered’WTF’. She pointed to the guy the next aisle over. As we’re walking away I quickly look back and catch her, red faced, trying not to laugh. I said ‘that was you!’ She said, ‘ that smelled like it had blood in it’. Weve been together for 20yrs

  • @countcoupblessings979
    @countcoupblessings979 Рік тому +2

    Now I wanna hear the boss you couldn't stand story