If I were the guy, I would do the following. Instead of bitching about her ex, I would be silent when she mentions him, then I would leave and say: "Call me when your relationship with your ex is actually over."
@@VoiceOfThe Yes. The woman referred to in the video probably ended the relationship. Many make the mistake by giving the man an ultimatum only for it to backfire. The man walks away for good. That makes the “alpha widow” syndrome even stronger.
They all do that; it's a test. Females don't care about respect. How you react is the only important thing to focus on. Indifference is a great weapon.... but sometimes walking away, as mentioned above, is the only remedy indeed.
Woman I dated earlier this year just couldn't keep quiet about her ex, even starting on our first date (15mins in actually, and I crossed my fingers she wouldn't be "one of those"). Slept with her on the 2nd date, tons of sex afterwards too. I never once felt jealousy, but it became obnoxiously annoying. I'm not interested in hearing about what she did with her ex, I'm interested in her and what we can do together. Ex talk = baggage talk. I never bring up past relationships, and even if I'm specifically asked I keep it very brief. I asked her how it would make her feel if I'd fling my exes and sexual conquests. Obviously she didn't like the thought of me with other women. Screw that insecurity accusation for men, and I don't care if that how a low value woman perceives me. This is a boundary for a mature couple to respect, both ways. She can book a therapist to waterfall about her exes. I'll gladly look for someone else who is more secure and future focused.
right in time, I was jealous of the things they did together and also, I couldn't tolerate the fact that she refuses to do those things with me. But I'm overcoming it by making myself realise that I'm way better than him and I could get more than him
Man dont take it as a challenge against him is the wrong place to start. If a woman thinks about her ex with you on board is flagrant disrepect. Ditch her she is not for you. Dont hesistate you will regret latter, mark my words
Chick broke up with me like a week ago, took my name out of her bio, but left a pinned post of me and her up and the caption still says we're in a relationship and s***, the week leading up to it she was getting more masculine and being a bitxh while I was being nice and trying to hang out, I just blocked her on everything a few days ago, she was going hot cold hot cold over text and it's just too disrespectful she lost texting me privileges
She stills loves the guy. He’s dealing with a female in a rebound relationship. It’s not going to work out and it’s best to have a talk with her and tell her she needs more time to get over her ex. Just break it off.
the best advice love this guy if i had any money i would buy his book in an instant i am stuck wiht this short videos but thats not enough for the whole picture how you should act in all those situations great job very profesional woul love to hear his opinion if you are stuck on one person and you cant get over her for years i know the basics your familiy friends gym travel is there anythig more once again great job if these video is possible love to see it
For Me The Retroactive Jealousy was a bit different, The Girl was not even testing me, actually she was giving me whatever I was asking, but the only fact she had an ex was triggering me, and also even if I was not trying to think or ex was not saying anything, i was thinking she can be in this place with her ex, or any other place, it is a very bad situation, she was giving me everything but because of a lot of emotions not only rj i was not accepting them, so its not about not giving me things its all about the emotions that are getting triggered at that time.
The thing is whenever I was doing something like a position of sex, the very fact she has also done it with her ex was triggering me, and that thing the trigger was very bad, it was creating a lil bit of stess also, which was not good. Its a very tricky situation, and if i was going out of away from that trigger things were all right. It was bringing a lot of other emotions also.
If I were the guy, I would do the following. Instead of bitching about her ex, I would be silent when she mentions him, then I would leave and say: "Call me when your relationship with your ex is actually over."
Her ex made her an “alpha widow.” He will live rent free in her mind for the rest of her life. Women break rules for alphas and make rules for betas.
Question:
Can you still have alpha widowed her if you took her virginity and imprinted upon her, but, she ended your relationship?
@@VoiceOfThe Yes. The woman referred to in the video probably ended the relationship. Many make the mistake by giving the man an ultimatum only for it to backfire. The man walks away for good. That makes the “alpha widow” syndrome even stronger.
@@andywatson8225 All of your points are spot on. Well done Andy
@@VoiceOfThe absolutely taking her virginity is probably one of the most imprinting things on women
The bulletproof is Abundance mind-set, don't fear of losing her knowing you can replace her at any moment.
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She still likes her ex , but he can fix it if he leaves.
She shouldn't be throwing an x in his face... She is not for him.
Facts. It's a matter of respect. If she does that, she doesn't value you nor respect you. Get rid of her asap. Walking away is the only remedy.
They all do that; it's a test. Females don't care about respect. How you react is the only important thing to focus on. Indifference is a great weapon.... but sometimes walking away, as mentioned above, is the only remedy indeed.
@@alex-p Perhaps it's time to flip the script... "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."
Never pay for something someone else had for free....
Chris you deserve an award for the work you do!
Woman I dated earlier this year just couldn't keep quiet about her ex, even starting on our first date (15mins in actually, and I crossed my fingers she wouldn't be "one of those"). Slept with her on the 2nd date, tons of sex afterwards too. I never once felt jealousy, but it became obnoxiously annoying. I'm not interested in hearing about what she did with her ex, I'm interested in her and what we can do together. Ex talk = baggage talk. I never bring up past relationships, and even if I'm specifically asked I keep it very brief. I asked her how it would make her feel if I'd fling my exes and sexual conquests. Obviously she didn't like the thought of me with other women. Screw that insecurity accusation for men, and I don't care if that how a low value woman perceives me. This is a boundary for a mature couple to respect, both ways. She can book a therapist to waterfall about her exes. I'll gladly look for someone else who is more secure and future focused.
Very good advice. Act like the prize. The prize doesn't worry about what came before.
right in time, I was jealous of the things they did together and also, I couldn't tolerate the fact that she refuses to do those things with me. But I'm overcoming it by making myself realise that I'm way better than him and I could get more than him
Man dont take it as a challenge against him is the wrong place to start. If a woman thinks about her ex with you on board is flagrant disrepect. Ditch her she is not for you. Dont hesistate you will regret latter, mark my words
Guy don't compare yourself with her ex,,, you're better than that
@@albertoesperanza4394 It's been 10 days already. I ditched her for the good.
@@mystykalmn4434 Of course man, thanks!!!!!! :)
If he's breaking down in tears in front of her over something like this it's probably already the beginning of the end
Chick broke up with me like a week ago, took my name out of her bio, but left a pinned post of me and her up and the caption still says we're in a relationship and s***, the week leading up to it she was getting more masculine and being a bitxh while I was being nice and trying to hang out, I just blocked her on everything a few days ago, she was going hot cold hot cold over text and it's just too disrespectful she lost texting me privileges
She stills loves the guy. He’s dealing with a female in a rebound relationship. It’s not going to work out and it’s best to have a talk with her and tell her she needs more time to get over her ex. Just break it off.
the best advice love this guy if i had any money i would buy his book in an instant i am stuck wiht this short videos but thats not enough for the whole picture how you should act in all those situations great job very profesional woul love to hear his opinion if you are stuck on one person and you cant get over her for years i know the basics your familiy friends gym travel is there anythig more once again great job if these video is possible love to see it
Here is the only solution you need to stop suffering from Retroactive Jealousy:
DO NOT GET ATTACHED.
You don't care, their past doesn't hurt you.
Don't fall in love? This isn't usually a voluntary thing.
For Me The Retroactive Jealousy was a bit different, The Girl was not even testing me, actually she was giving me whatever I was asking, but the only fact she had an ex was triggering me, and also even if I was not trying to think or ex was not saying anything, i was thinking she can be in this place with her ex, or any other place, it is a very bad situation, she was giving me everything but because of a lot of emotions not only rj i was not accepting them, so its not about not giving me things its all about the emotions that are getting triggered at that time.
You can't change her behavior but
You can change your behavior
Hmm, emotional men 🤔
For me ex has no part in my life
The thing is whenever I was doing something like a position of sex, the very fact she has also done it with her ex was triggering me, and that thing the trigger was very bad, it was creating a lil bit of stess also, which was not good. Its a very tricky situation, and if i was going out of away from that trigger things were all right. It was bringing a lot of other emotions also.
Focus on yourself women are disrespectful, distraction,