How A Parent May Unintentionally Alienate Their Child

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  • Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
  • A mom claims her 18 year-old daughter was kidnapped by her survivalist boyfriend - but her daughter says she chose to leave on her own. Dr. Phil tells the mom how her behavior may be alienating her daughter.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 293

  • @thealchemistdaughter3405
    @thealchemistdaughter3405 3 роки тому +907

    Is this not the same woman who falsely accused her daughter s father of sexually abusing the daughter, then under a lie detector the father was found to be innocent and the mother lying?.. Surely no one is so cruel.

    • @rachela2659
      @rachela2659 3 роки тому +128

      Same one. I just came from that video.

    • @alanaprimar9339
      @alanaprimar9339 3 роки тому +40

      Yep 100 percent. Same insane sounding mother

    • @juliecrandall3352
      @juliecrandall3352 3 роки тому +59

      Very weird she was on two episodes.

    • @kira14374
      @kira14374 3 роки тому +26

      @@juliecrandall3352 and she wear same dress lol

    • @elisemichaels1198
      @elisemichaels1198 3 роки тому +4

      Ahhh yes it is.

  • @jd13dox
    @jd13dox 3 роки тому +366

    She is gaslighting and manipulating her daughter so hard. It's chilling.

  • @hannahmott2205
    @hannahmott2205 3 роки тому +311

    She’s screaming at her daughter about - basically what a failure she is - because supposedly she “wrecked the family”. This mom is so not worth the daughter’s time.

    • @elisemichaels1198
      @elisemichaels1198 3 роки тому +4

      Nor her audience, she is a whole lotta leave alone.

    • @VOLTRON999
      @VOLTRON999 2 роки тому +3

      what i think is that her boy friend has a bad aim for her daughter , this girl must be given to her real natural father

    • @VOLTRON999
      @VOLTRON999 2 роки тому +1

      hannah another thing is that islam has got solution to all these problems so i personally think that you must accept islam most importantly prophet mohamed has been prophesied even in bible as well

  • @elisemichaels1198
    @elisemichaels1198 3 роки тому +207

    Advice for becoming a mom - DO NOT be like this one!

  • @RazzleDazzle234
    @RazzleDazzle234 3 роки тому +452

    She is 18. She is allowed to live with whoever and live wherever. They are making it so much worse.

    • @naturelover9385
      @naturelover9385 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly! That should have been the title for the show.

    • @princesslouisaano-ampofo8116
      @princesslouisaano-ampofo8116 3 роки тому +4

      That's the problem I have with US kids ..m you're 18years so what ? You still growing u have to be under the supervision of your parents ... that's why most kids end up in bad company ...

    • @notspam3523
      @notspam3523 2 роки тому

      @@princesslouisaano-ampofo8116 I don't know if you watched the rest of the episode but it turns out the mother was lying to her daughter about her biological father molesting her when she was a toddler just to get back at him so in that case the mother and the stepfather are probably the worst company you can keep around and matured enough or not but legally she's an adult and the best things you could do is leave p

  • @Juliana-se7fi
    @Juliana-se7fi 3 роки тому +258

    My mother is just like that. Constantly blaming stuff on me when I have nothing to do with it. Currently saving up money to move away from her😀

    • @ZA-lw6jm
      @ZA-lw6jm 3 роки тому +15

      Wishing you the best & safest journey. 💕

    • @chillycoldchomper9389
      @chillycoldchomper9389 3 роки тому +9

      Hope you make it🎈

    • @KupKate215
      @KupKate215 3 роки тому +6

      Good luck! Maybe your mom will find you a guy to run away with too!

    • @BobBob-ru4bp
      @BobBob-ru4bp 3 роки тому +4

      Hopefully if you ever start a family, don't become like your parents

    • @Vince-lq3ve
      @Vince-lq3ve 3 роки тому +4

      Your mom's life ended up where it is now based on the sum of her actions throughout her life. She believes that you should take exactly the same actions as she did if she likes where she is now or exactly different actions if she is not happy where her life is. It's all fear for her (though it is love, too). Tell her you get it, that you understand that she is afraid. Tell her that five years from now you'll both probably see things the same. In the meantime clean up your room!

  • @GhostRider-hy9zt
    @GhostRider-hy9zt 3 роки тому +214

    I feel so bad for this girl, she’s been through so much

    • @peasant7214
      @peasant7214 3 роки тому +4

      I think its staged. she came in two different episodes for two different reasons.

    • @GhostRider-hy9zt
      @GhostRider-hy9zt 3 роки тому +7

      @@peasant7214 I get that, but it’s usually the same person with a lot of issues when that happens.

  • @SaucyYeeks
    @SaucyYeeks 3 роки тому +371

    That’s like saying spoons make people fat 😂

    • @aimeekincaid5798
      @aimeekincaid5798 3 роки тому +2

      Ctfu

    • @SykelGames
      @SykelGames 3 роки тому +2

      That sums it up.

    • @pinkrainbowkennelz1640
      @pinkrainbowkennelz1640 3 роки тому +6

      Spoon didn't make me fat it just made me gain a little weight I'm trying to figure out how it got in the ice cream
      😮😜🤣

    • @SaucyYeeks
      @SaucyYeeks 3 роки тому +3

      @@aimeekincaid5798 ok Amy

    • @summern3064
      @summern3064 3 роки тому +6

      That was the best part 😂😂

  • @bloogi9618
    @bloogi9618 3 роки тому +48

    “look what you’ve done to the family” imagine saying that to your daughter who’s an adult

  • @notpage
    @notpage 3 роки тому +61

    shes not going to want to come back if theyre saying "look what youve done to the family" wtf

    • @ashleygilliland4331
      @ashleygilliland4331 3 роки тому +3

      It’s not what she did. It’s why the mother did. She’s so toxic & cruel that it really does show.

    • @naturelover9385
      @naturelover9385 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah, way to through some guilt on the young woman and mess her up even more. She is 18, legal to move out, get over it.

  • @stygianphantasm8761
    @stygianphantasm8761 3 роки тому +58

    Can you imagine how the father must feel after he passed the polygraph and the mother failed? I hope he's close with his daughter now and I'm glad the Doctor Phil show decided to turn on the comment section on these clips because it was ridiculous to have them turned off

    • @BlaacHollow
      @BlaacHollow Рік тому

      It's ok that the mom failed the lie detector. Stupid Jesus is on her side.

  • @liamina3563
    @liamina3563 2 роки тому +47

    This mom has the audacity to tell her daughter that she "ruined the family" when the mom literally brainwashed her daughter into believing she was abused from an early age by the father, causing deep trust issues and trauma in the daughter and ruining the father's name. Disgusting.

  • @actualking1002
    @actualking1002 3 роки тому +319

    I've got more degrees than a thermometer lol

  • @theatremutiny
    @theatremutiny 3 роки тому +32

    First thing I noticed is the mom has the logic of a bully and her boyfriend aint no better. They deserve each other. Such bad people

  • @callumjames2865
    @callumjames2865 3 роки тому +37

    why r they guilt tripping her she’s 18

  • @user-kj3rd7sg5r
    @user-kj3rd7sg5r Рік тому +5

    The mother should have charges brought on her for telling her daughter that the father molested her when that was not true that's an even worse form of abuse

  • @patkerr8054
    @patkerr8054 3 роки тому +17

    That poor girl -her Mother lied about her Father sexually abusing her so he was cut out of her life and now she is making up stories about her boyfriend trying to cut him out of her daughter's life. There is a difference betwee a protective parent and a parent who is prepared to lie and emotionally hurt their own child to control her.

  • @bjulia_kezi
    @bjulia_kezi 3 роки тому +20

    So this mother lied to her whole family and spoiled it.. and blames everyone else about it.

  • @burlykim132
    @burlykim132 3 роки тому +77

    “That’s like saying spoons make people fat”. Lmao. I think the mom doesn’t like that this young man is smarter than her and telling her daughter the truth about her mother.

  • @chy2807
    @chy2807 3 роки тому +29

    These people are so toxic to that girl

  • @camkarting13
    @camkarting13 2 роки тому +12

    “That’s like saying spoons make people fat”😂😂😂 I dropped my phone laughing so hard

  • @juliecooper3989
    @juliecooper3989 2 роки тому +21

    She doesn't want anyone to love her daughter but her,I'm surprised Dr phil entertained this after her getting caught lying about the girls father...this woman is evil.

  • @Shrxxmy
    @Shrxxmy 3 роки тому +95

    It seems like the parents are 100% blaming their daughter and her boyfriend but haven’t even taken a look at themselves and what they’ve done to make her daughter go about things the way they did. Not saying her daughter is 100% innocent but it’s like??? Really??

  • @pazzarockful
    @pazzarockful 2 роки тому +7

    I haven’t even seen what this whole story is about but just the way the mum says “you’ve wrecked this family, grandpa… the kids…” she’s manipulating the poor girl!!

  • @leealderson3893
    @leealderson3893 Рік тому +3

    The boyfriend knows what the mother and stepfather are like, poison

  • @the-finn
    @the-finn 3 роки тому +13

    This mother is a guilt tripper. She is the 1 who created this situation yrs ago!

  • @colleenshea2293
    @colleenshea2293 2 роки тому +8

    The boyfriend seems more together than any of these family members

  • @monkey7707
    @monkey7707 2 роки тому +3

    that girl needs to get FAR FAR away from her mother

  • @jamesbyrne9312
    @jamesbyrne9312 Рік тому +2

    I hope the daughter reconnects properly with her real father.

  • @HOLE9YARDS18
    @HOLE9YARDS18 3 роки тому +77

    Spoons make people fat xD omfg lol

    • @skypope9110
      @skypope9110 3 роки тому +2

      I died at this too 😂😂😂

    • @Juliana-se7fi
      @Juliana-se7fi 3 роки тому +3

      I SCREAMED

    • @aimeekincaid5798
      @aimeekincaid5798 3 роки тому +2

      Rotfl ctfu im dead

    • @raqh9
      @raqh9 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @taylordawnn
      @taylordawnn 3 роки тому +3

      LOL he did have a good point 😂😂

  • @j.103
    @j.103 2 роки тому +6

    It always amazes me how awful some parents are. Maybe if the household wasn’t so toxic these kids wouldn’t want to leave.

  • @lhmccracken
    @lhmccracken 3 роки тому +2

    Why does this lying Mother who FALSELY ACCUSED daughter’s biological father of SA, still have custody of ANY CHILDREN????

  • @jameswedlock9396
    @jameswedlock9396 3 роки тому +10

    sand paper the butt on an alligator? 😭

  • @JulieannsSerenity
    @JulieannsSerenity 3 роки тому +5

    It’s terrible, the way her mother treats her daughter. To blame her about ruining the family? How dare she? She’s the adult,! And this mom is yelling at her daughter for all the problems in the family? What, did she come out her mother’s womb specifically to cause dissection among the family members? Isn’t that just about what she’s saying? Unbelievable.

  • @johnnispeling5633
    @johnnispeling5633 3 роки тому +9

    The “mother” is the core of the evil in all of this! Classic facts in divorced families.....

    • @elisemichaels1198
      @elisemichaels1198 3 роки тому +1

      Unfortunately it happens all too often. 😕 head cases.

  • @jessann9949
    @jessann9949 3 роки тому +2

    Wowwwww this woman again?!? Hasn’t she done enough damage to her daughter already?

  • @jameswedlock9396
    @jameswedlock9396 3 роки тому +27

    “i don’t get your daughter drunk, that’s like saying spoons make people fat”

  • @Dee-ur1hk
    @Dee-ur1hk 3 роки тому +6

    WOW!! The parents are ridiculous! So sad!!

  • @BabyBearRudy
    @BabyBearRudy 2 роки тому +3

    Imagine how much better off the daughter would be if she was raised by the father

    • @kellyh4617
      @kellyh4617 8 місяців тому

      💯 much better off. That mother is a narcissist! She's evil!! That young girl wouldn't be messed up ans she would of had a good life if her father raised her!. I hope karma comes round to that mother she's ruined her daughters life and her fathers life!. She's EVIL. it's infuriating to even watch.

  • @Fearless-Hyena
    @Fearless-Hyena 3 роки тому +17

    lmaoo id stick my head in the blender too

  • @etherealdepths
    @etherealdepths 3 роки тому +5

    when will parents take responsibility for the part they’ve played? the smallest thing can make your child feel unloved. instead of blaming her, why not figure out why she got distant?

  • @wyattaycock1830
    @wyattaycock1830 3 роки тому +7

    Thats like saying spoons make people fat, that was when i died of laughter lol😂😂

  • @dhanmatidookran5501
    @dhanmatidookran5501 Рік тому +2

    Why is that woman not in jail by now ?

  • @TheCemuccia
    @TheCemuccia 3 роки тому +6

    I wish Dr Phil would do more updates. I can rarely ever find anything on guests. Especially the crazy teens who get sent to programs.

  • @burlykim132
    @burlykim132 3 роки тому +11

    I can’t believe Dr Phil didn’t call this mother out on her emotional extortion.

  • @phoenixashe7174
    @phoenixashe7174 3 роки тому +3

    Omg the mother gaslighting ..🙄

  • @thatguyjoe007
    @thatguyjoe007 Місяць тому +1

    Stepfather is behaving like a jealous boyfriend.

  • @lovelife5788
    @lovelife5788 3 роки тому +15

    The bio father is disrespectful and awful, but they try and tear him to shreds while his patiently waits his turn? Say no more 🙄🤚

    • @maianhnguyen5419
      @maianhnguyen5419 3 роки тому +6

      Really? I saw another video and it did tell that the bio father is not that bad. It seems like problems are from the motherr

    • @_abby_g
      @_abby_g 3 роки тому +12

      That’s the step father. The biological father isn’t in this video.

  • @katinadreamer79
    @katinadreamer79 3 роки тому +4

    You had your 18 yrs. Now let her use what you taught her

  • @ayomikunawoseyi5226
    @ayomikunawoseyi5226 2 роки тому +1

    Narcissism in full display...

  • @patience5254
    @patience5254 2 роки тому

    That’s like saying spoons make people fat🥄 GO OFF 🗣👏🏼👏🏼

  • @G-MONEY1996
    @G-MONEY1996 2 роки тому

    My mother did that to me and my sister a little, thank God she and I have our own homes now.

  • @7oriole7
    @7oriole7 3 місяці тому +1

    Thet young man should look at the mother real close. He should decide if he could ever live with that mother cause that is exactly what the daughter is going to be like. Run, run, run young man.... as fast as you can.

  • @zububaflu3172
    @zububaflu3172 2 роки тому +2

    Dr Phil is just naturally amazing

  • @kylemossi
    @kylemossi 2 роки тому

    1:34 This is basic body language, her mouth says "You're right." But her shaking head says "No you're wrong."

  • @robertnieten7259
    @robertnieten7259 Місяць тому

    She wants her daughter to herself, period !

  • @propheteyebert7063
    @propheteyebert7063 2 роки тому +2

    Next episode with her: "Woman sues spoon company"

    • @bwghall1
      @bwghall1 2 роки тому

      expected to win.........................Lol,

  • @beckybratton7515
    @beckybratton7515 Рік тому +1

    What kind of mother blames her daughter for what the mother is doingc

  • @lynnford412
    @lynnford412 3 роки тому +2

    If your children run away from home or do drugs, it’s not them. Its not school, its not their friends, its you. There’s no one else to blame. Just you.

    • @TiveTobo
      @TiveTobo 2 роки тому

      Very close minded individual you appear to be.

  • @jayman6905
    @jayman6905 2 роки тому

    Nothing unintended by the mother to manipulate the child here. It's criminal on the mother's part

  • @nederbelg2
    @nederbelg2 2 роки тому

    When Dr. Phil said the first "you" at 1:53, I thought he was going to do a Bill Cosby impersonation

  • @DubuKkura
    @DubuKkura 2 роки тому

    The mother should have had a puppet instead to control, not a living person and the way he brainwashed her to control her is disgusting

  • @beholdthegriffin5488
    @beholdthegriffin5488 3 роки тому +1

    This clip is full of great sayings

  • @vision3691
    @vision3691 3 роки тому +1

    Some people thrive and live on drama.

  • @Fearless-Hyena
    @Fearless-Hyena 3 роки тому +22

    spoons make people fat . after that the mom grew into a blimp and took off

    • @envyy5914
      @envyy5914 3 роки тому +3

      Yo wtf man 😂😂😂😭

    • @NikkiAkaNlg
      @NikkiAkaNlg 3 роки тому +1

      Just like in Harry Potter..

  • @oliviamickovski4374
    @oliviamickovski4374 2 роки тому +1

    I don’t like the mother! She lied through her teeth to her daughter about her real father for all her life! Wow man,talk about being vindictive and evil!

  • @indigo2322
    @indigo2322 3 роки тому +2

    so many burns, I love it

  • @plaintalk186
    @plaintalk186 2 роки тому

    Isnt this the same lady who said her 1st Husband molested her daughter and he was found innocent after the polygraph... now she is complaining about the daughter... and the daughter herself was mean to her biological father... smh...

  • @blablabla3515
    @blablabla3515 3 роки тому +2

    I had a goosebump after a piss then my finger hit the subscribe button, i just let the destiny follow his course, you get that, so i didn't took it back after that, and plus it was a nice way to subscribe to doctor phil's channel lmao

  • @jaredhonegger9918
    @jaredhonegger9918 2 роки тому

    That little man is smart. Probably better for the girl than the girls mother.

  • @naturelover9385
    @naturelover9385 3 роки тому

    "Look what you've done to the family". Really?!! She is 18, an adult, who has the right to move out. Why put that guilt on the young woman?

  • @Fesal_the_don
    @Fesal_the_don 3 роки тому +2

    Ok now i understand who manipulating the daughter here! The mother is really f-ed up!!

  • @SyrinoxNight
    @SyrinoxNight Рік тому

    The daughter’s life just started.

  • @santiagopena1251
    @santiagopena1251 2 роки тому

    Start by taking responsibility..!!!

  • @kalliemorton5435
    @kalliemorton5435 2 роки тому

    She's 18! Back of crazy parents

  • @mcurrent44
    @mcurrent44 2 роки тому

    Like mother, like daughter

  • @korbinm1
    @korbinm1 3 роки тому

    "Look what you've done to your family"

  • @nightwand1742
    @nightwand1742 2 роки тому

    "that's like saying spoons make people fat"😆😆

  • @jimmorrison4ever529
    @jimmorrison4ever529 2 роки тому

    “That’s like saying spoons make people fat,” lmaooo

  • @the-finn
    @the-finn 3 роки тому

    This girls got a chip on her shoulder. The way she treats her father after he proved himself was hurtful. I understand if not for mom this wouldn't be happening. Mom's will regret this, what she did was abuse, once everything sinks in she will be angry with her and her lies

  • @globe2555
    @globe2555 2 місяці тому

    Spoons do make people fat if they are in the wrong hands.

  • @PrettyLittleSoulEater
    @PrettyLittleSoulEater 2 роки тому +1

    "That's like saying spoons make people fat..."
    It is it really is tho...

  • @Dnalalall
    @Dnalalall 2 роки тому

    That's like saying spoons make people fat I'm dead

  • @TheeGoose
    @TheeGoose 2 роки тому

    "That's like saying spoons make people fat" lol 😆

  • @narutoanime7338
    @narutoanime7338 2 роки тому +1

    The mom though c'mn😵😵😵😵

  • @abbigailshelton3269
    @abbigailshelton3269 Рік тому

    I feel for her I have been in this situation

  • @fredinthemix
    @fredinthemix 3 роки тому

    Didn’t know hippos could talk.

  • @ChantelMariesStories
    @ChantelMariesStories 2 роки тому

    Guilt tripping her daughter she wants her daughter to raise her kids.

  • @PrinceOfMixes
    @PrinceOfMixes 3 роки тому +2

    Lol ''look what you have done to the family''
    i think the mother didnt understood what being a mother means.
    That my opinion

  • @tomtom9267
    @tomtom9267 3 роки тому

    "look what you've done to the family" mom is more interested in guilting her daughter AKA hurting her daughter just like she did her father crazy psycho path people should not be allowed to have kids for real

  • @betterbetty3542
    @betterbetty3542 3 роки тому +1

    There was nothing unintentional about how she alienated her children.

  • @alexistrebexis3195
    @alexistrebexis3195 2 роки тому

    Isn’t it obvious to the daughter that her mom is a giant liar? And she lies when she wants to get her way.

  • @asafnaama
    @asafnaama 2 роки тому

    3 years later the same girl is Jessica the 22 year old homeless stripper.

  • @angiemetcalfe7210
    @angiemetcalfe7210 2 роки тому

    Sorry if this upsets anyone but these have got to be actors. It's literally the fourth different story I've seen them involved in

  • @gmanette188
    @gmanette188 Рік тому +2

    Lady is sick

  • @katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364
    @katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364 3 роки тому +3

    So if these are the same people from the video I just saw tell me the girl isn't all messed up because the mom messed her head up at the gate

    • @elisemichaels1198
      @elisemichaels1198 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly why the daughter has issues; although she seems be doing better than most would, considering her mother and stepfather are wingnut dingbats.

    • @katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364
      @katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364 3 роки тому

      @@elisemichaels1198
      I know...right
      Lol

  • @amberlynleclerc1200
    @amberlynleclerc1200 2 роки тому

    That mother is hugely manipulative

  • @GhostRider-hy9zt
    @GhostRider-hy9zt 3 роки тому +2

    Apparently if you drunk and smoke weed means you practice witchcraft according to that mother lol

  • @Gibgdc
    @Gibgdc 2 роки тому

    SHAME ON THE MOTHER!

  • @kenculliton4212
    @kenculliton4212 2 роки тому

    This is what happens when a man is accused of sexual misconduct but when it come to a woman whole different story