‘Volatile’ Relationship or 'Abuse?' Dr. Charles Sophy Weighs In On Mother-Daughter Conflict
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- A mother admits telling her daughter she hates her. The teen claims mom kept her out of school to help care for her younger siblings and brings strange men into their home. A psychiatrist tells the mother it’s abuse.
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Dr. Sophy doesn’t f*ck around and I respect that
Anonymous Annie Me too. I respect this man for just shutting her down and putting the kids first.
Particularly with his hair colouring ☺
I love him 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Word!
I love Dr. Sophy on this show. He doesn't put up with any BS
I was a horribly difficult, mean, nasty, anxious child and teenager. My mom NEVER stopped loving me, she fought for me every day. I am so grateful for that woman. She gave me true, unconditional love. This woman has no business being a mother. I feel so sorry for the people with so much love to give who are unable to have children.
Related to this 10000%!!
I was terrible to my mother & she never gave up loving me! I’m giving my mom a huge hug & kiss when she gets home! This lady is horrific & disgusting.
Same here. I was a nightmare and I constantly apologize for it. Through it all my mother has always been supportive of me and always did her best. I'm very grateful
She doesn’t want this child for some reason
@@lunaxcatx being a teenager is THE HARDEST thing you will ever go through, as a baseline. You are leaving all you’ve ever known. Your brain, body, and body/brain chemistry are all shifting at such a fast rate, that your entire being is propelled through this entirely unexpected experience. It’s NORMAL to have a hard time!!!! Please don’t ever blame yourself for dealing with those feelings the only way you knew how hun! So happy to hear your momma was there, planted firmly in your life, to guide you through that difficult time. Go give her another cuddle, and let her know how much it means to you that she was always there❤️❤️❤️ I hope you all find nothing but happiness and peace ahead❤️❤️
I had a mother like the one in the show and unfortunately I can’t have kids so thank you
I felt sympathy for her a tiny bit, then it went away with “there’s nothing wrong with my other children.” And “I’m not gonna flip burgers”. Being too good to work an honest job is pathetic.
Watch the other vids and see why she deserves to get hate
Yep! She disgusted me with those comments too! A big cop out!
I am being genuine in asking, what made you feel, even an iota, of sympathy for this woman?
@@matthewfearne7810 I just felt her anxiety in the moment when she was being yelled at by everyone on stage. I have very high empathy. I’ve had to master being able to push down those feelings when I realize people bring it upon themselves without ever trying to do better.
"The issue is you" Thank you very much sir, keep it real! There is nothing wrong with a child. Parents should stop blaming their children for everything without looking to themselves first. Just because you birthed someone doesn't mean you are superior to them or can talk down to them. Look at how she is speaking to the doctors, with this sweet small innocent voice. Bet she doesn't use this voice with her kids
Look up narcissist
Of course shes jealous. Beautiful daughter, mature beyond her years. Shes got wonderful mentor/mom in the teacher. This mother can barely keep a job. The other kids rely on her because of the disabilities. The oldest is free to do what she wants. The daughter is trying her hardest. At this point does the mom even deserve a chance? What a terrible situation
Yes, she's jealous of her daughter. My mother was jealous of me and we still dont get along, age 63 and 90. I never married or had children and had to work full time for 35+ years. She had a wonderful husband, 3 high functioning, successful children, a 30 year retirement that included a lot of travel. Now she is 90 and lives with me as her caregiver. She's still jealous and miserable (jealous of what, who knows). Sorry stranger...but thanks for "listening."
You made the choice not to get married or have a family. Your mother didn't make it for you.
@@christopherduncan5276wow you really donT understand abusive women that manipulates there child holding them back with emotional black mail never judge a person with out knowing no every one has a choice
We are still thinking we aren’t good enough. My life mirrors yours. Except I am 54 taking care of my 75 yr old Mom. I do it because if she dies and I didn’t help her I would have so much guilt. We are everything our Mothers weren’t! Caring and Loving 🤷🏼♀️💕 do some traveling when she is dead. I have plans for New Zealand 🤣🤣🤣
@@janina8559 amen 🙏
@@maximum86 I literally got chewed out by my mom 3xs just today and then read her comment. I never had children of my own because I raised my sister 15yrs younger than me. I have been putting my life on hold practically my whole life. My mom is batsh!t crazy but I still do it because I couldn’t live with myself if I didn’t. So I do know exactly what this woman is going thru because I to am living it!
I love Dr Sophy,straight for the jugular!!! His honesty is so beautiful to watch,her crocodile tears is sickening,you're a pathetic monster of a mother!! That beautiful poor daughter and her other kids.
She's crying because she can't handle that's she's being exposed for what she is, a narcissist. They can't handle it when their perfect self image is destroyed. They live in fear of being found out that they aren't perfect.
@@babyhandgrenade4004 Exactly this. I love putting one in their place and then letting them stir
Last words from my Mom to me, "I hate you and I always did" I knew it from the time I was a toddler, born with a facial flaw, was crazy all my life from her constant put downs, "and words can never hurt me" would of rather had the sticks and stones. I am 67 now, still dealing with it. She passed when I was 35. Single, childless, wish I could of forgiven her when she was alive. All I could say after hearing that was " I know, I knew it all along, but, I loved you". When your main love source disses you, you are pretty much screwed. Friends have said to me stuff like " Wow, it's a wonder you did not turn out to be a serial killer." All by the Grace of God and great therapy and learning love of self as I am that I am still alive and pretty ok now. Really feel for this young lady and the creep Mom, too. Yikes. We destroy our own precious commodity. Our own children.
This woman makes my blood boil. Never ever in my life have I EVER heard any mother say that she “hates” her child. Everything about her is just horrid and she shouldn’t have any children. He hit the nail on the head-she’s definitely jealous of her daughter. What a piece of garbage.
Adrianna is looking at her like stop talking behind my back
Love Dr Sophy’s obvious anger at the mother from the onset. The smirk when Dr.Phil introduced him was like “oh snap! It’s about to go down!”
DR SOPHY IS THE FUC*IN* REALEST MAN ON THIS EARTH. I ABSOLUTELY ADORE HIM
Her daughter doesn't deserve an apology; she owes her daughter a whole list of apologies-and sadly, that’s not going undo the damage that’s been done.
Dr. Sophy is awesome. He doesn’t sugar coat.
The other children are in danger with this mom. She needs to get into some counseling before she hurts them.
As someone who dealt with a mother like this, thank you Dr. Sophy for calling her out, gives my child self some healing. Thankyou mate.
She's ABSOLUTELY jealous of her daughter!!! Her daughter seems to be everything she wishes she was!
These fake tears😩😒
"There's nothing wrong with this child the issue is you!" 👏👏👏👏
Dr.Sophy is absolutely awesome. "Are you jealous of her?" he saw right through that bad mother
"Burger flipping" is honest work and an art!
The created a whole movie about it… Actually 2.
"there's nothing wrong with the other kids" "My daughter takes the special ed bus"
Is something wrong with kids with disabilities? I dont think there isnt.
@@staticmations4764 there’s nothing wrong with disabled kids if you don’t consider being disabled a problem........
@@PolitiqlyIncorrect_ oh no no im not, I just saw this commdnt as taking the special ed bus is wrong. Its not a problem at all, I just read it wrong i believe
Clearly you missed the point. There's nothing wrong with ANY of them, including the girl being interviewed.
There is nothing "wrong" with being born different. However there is something profoundly wrong about judging said people as "wrong" though...
she doesn't mean that her kids aren't disabled. she means she actually loves those kids.
Dr sophy delivers it straight. It may be a hard pill to swallow, but that is how truth is !
Reminds me a bit of living with my mom as a teen. She admitted that she was jealous of me, she did seem to compete and though now she would deny she ever said that. In grade 10 she threatened to kill us both by stepping on the gas in her car and flooring it. I know what it's like to have a mental mother who plays the victim. Her mother hated her as well. I wish I could have a daughter so I could have the relationship I always wanted to have with my mother even if reversed but at least I'll get the opportunity to be a better mother to my son. With a mother like this it's like not having one at all. They will neglect you for their bfs, even if that means living alone at the age of 12 while your mother spends two weeks sleeping at her bfs place. Regardless how many times we had to move out in a hurry cause he was violent. Growing up with my mother was insanity and yet everyone backs her up, no one cares to validate the child's perspective because mother is always right. Glad that is starting to change and children are getting a voice. Pretty sure my mom said the same thing when I felt suicidal and depressed at 13-16, why don't you just do it. So yeah I know what it's like to have a horrible mother, the only thing is she would never admit this on public tv or maybe in general, she would always play the loving mother to others. Or tell people lies like I was spoiled or somehow blame me, so everyone is like poor her. Glad I have nothing to do with her. When I brought up the time she admitted she was jealous, I was now in my 20s and she said to me, what is there to be jealous of. lol! With a mother like her who needs enemies. Then there's the time she accused me of being a sociopath when I was in an abusive relationship with someone who probably was and they reminded me of her. Maybe she was projecting. Later on when I brought that up she acted surprised she ever said that. She once told me I was a difficult child, yet that couldn't be further from the truth. I was too perfect as I was raised to be her counselor, her slave, her everything. I always spent most of my work money on her which I came to realize was not the norm and most of my friends and other kids were not like that with their mothers. Enmeshed mothers are messed in the head and they treat you more like a spouse than a daughter. I wish I got away when I was 17 and never looked back. I went no contact one year, then spoke to her again and decided that no contact was the smartest thing to do as she gaslights, says things that happened never happened. Denies my truth and sounded envious of thinking her most violent ex really liked me when he abused me as well. Totally delusional. It's possible she is a narcissistic psychopath according to a counselor when I described her behaviors growing up.
As for this mother, she seems very depressed and for some reason she is putting the blame on this particular daughter. Maybe the other kids are not as attractive or have the qualities she does so she gets the be the black sheep, welcome to the club. The worst part is when you can't even confront your own mother because there is no remorse or empathy for you, they are forever the victim and never stop being damaging and hurtful.
I love how the Dr. sophy didn't hesitate to dig right into that lady. good for him
It's just sickening to see that woman play the victim
“and I’m not gonna go flipping burgers” yeah probably cause you’d eat them before they’re flipped lmao
She’ll make sure to keep the other children dependent on her the rest of their lives. Her self worth depends on it.
DUDE. SHE HAS BEEN CRYING THE WHOLE TIME. STOOOPPPPPPPP. you aren't the victim here. no one feels bad for you.
I love when Phil brings Dr. Sophy dude says the real, doesn't hold back keep it 💯
There are so many parents out there that are jealous of their kids and won’t admit they are the problem
Dr. Sophy coming right off the block with that heat!
I just don't understand why people want to go on national television and admit things like this. I feel for that child.
She’s never going to a job after this is posted, her lack of compassion has sealed her fate.
I wouldn’t want her working with my elderly parent.
"The issue Is you" 👌👏👏
Yup...it is jealousy. She is transferring her feelings of shame and low self esteem onto her daughter. Poor kid.
She is jealous of her daughter and is a “whoaa is me” type of person. Just the way she talks, she tries to talk soft and mousie, tucks her chin and looks up. She’s trying to paint herself so innocent and that she isn’t the problem. I’m so glad this DR didn’t hold back, I wanted him to lay into her more.
Dr. Sophy is the GOAT!! A man who knows what he’s doing.
So America doesn't have any healthcare or social care programs that support families with disabled children?? WTH??
We stan Dr. Sophy
Dr. Sophy to the rescue once again! I enjoy listening to him speak and hope the other people on the show listen because he’s goes straight to the point
She’s crying out of sheer embarrassment and shame that she’s on this show
She’s not going to go flipping burgers??? Seriously take those children away!!!!!
This situation is awful for the children but my heart just breaks for this woman. She is completely overwhelmed and hopeless. I don't think she sees a light at the end of the tunnel. It would be better for every single member of this this family if she lost custody temprarily and was provided counseling and job traing, and had a chance to get on her feet and stabilize before she could get her children back. So tragic for every one. But I really don't think she's a horrible person; just desperate, without hope, and despising herself and the public shaming is just incredibly destructive and does absolutely no good for anyone. She obviously already knows she's failing miserably.
“are you jealous of her?”
“no”
“I think you are”
lol
She works in a nursing home…yet she is incapable of loving her own daughter…how do you think she treats difficult patients?
Good for Dr. Sophy for being so blunt about it. She's the problem. She's only crying because she's getting called out.
Dr Sophy is an absolute unit
This Dr. hit it DEAD ON THE HEAD . SHE IS JEALOUS OF HER OWN CHILD
Dr sophy is a class act. I really like how he handles situations. A very intelligent man
Damn straight its abuse. I pray for that girls spirit
That mother is so totally JEALOUS!!
I was flipping burgers through the rest of my high school and college years. Have no regrets at all!! It got me through colleg
The mother is Scapegoating Adriana. She hates herself and is jealous of her daughter.
She won’t go flipping burgers but she doesn’t mind eating them.
LMAO
that was so outta pocket but i cant help but laugh lmao
He came in hot!!! Straight to the point yes. Everyone needs that kind of truth.
"Theres nothing wrong with the other children" omfg....that poor girl. I hope shes found healing and love and i hope her younger siblings have been safe under that witches roof
How can you hate your child it’s not normal not natural.
I lost my son last year that broke me and have two other boys and a baby girl , all you have is unconditional love for them . Love them more then your own life . If they do things wrong you teach them you stand by them no matter what .
This is such a sad situation, for them both - the daughter and the mother. I feel the mother has a lot of issues and sadly is taking out a lot of her issues on her daughter. I know the mother is clearly in the wrong, however when she teared, I really felt for her, because those tears are of shame and guilt knowing that how she treated her daughter is wrong. Had she not shed those tears, she truly would be culpable of complete cruelty and indifference, which really is the ultimate act of meanness.
I couldn't agree more with him. Why would a mother do anything like that to her children
Charles Sophy is a savage. Always throwing the hard pills straight, no jokes around 🤛👏👏👏👏👏✨
My mom is so jealous that I have a lot more of a figure than she does. She even admitted several times from the times. My sister she’s the same way but doesn’t want to admit that she’s jealous because I actually have a cute figure and she doesn’t. And not to mention with her being overweight didn’t really help her at all.
I always tell her “If you’re so unhappy about yourself then do something about it.” She always gives me excuses about her size and how hard it is being big. Which is why I’m always going to keep telling her “If you’re so unhappy about then do something about it.”
Dr sophy doesnt beat around the bush he goes straight to the point
Dr. Charles Sophy is my new favorite person!
This woman reminds me of my mother ... my mother also told me to kill myself and “get it over with” while I suffered from postpartum depression.
My mom did the exact same thing and blamed me for all her failures
“I’m not gonna go flipping burgers” a mother would do ANYTHING for her kids. You are not a mother.
That women can't stand her daughter making more of a success of her life than she ever will.
Just gotta love the Sophy Treatment
Thank god for her teacher.
she puts her other kids before Adrianna and that’s sickening. PUT EVERY CHILD BEFORE YOURSELF. not telling you how to parent but that’s despicable
i cant not believe she said this out loud “im not gonna go flipping burgers” homegirl worked at ARBYS i cant breath
Dr sophie gets straight to the point
Most hatred of others is externalized hatred of self
This woman annoyed me so much. How can you hate your child!!!! Shame on her.. Seriously. She plays the victim. Its ridiculous. She is wiping tears that aren't even there!! Shameful...
This woman should never be allowed to care for any patient EVER!
Damn this Dr Sophy doesn't beat around the bush. 0:28
"I'm not gonna go flip hamburgers" at least the burger-flippers have a job lmaoooo
Not everyone wants that job.
Yea I think is jealousy because if she was such a bad mom she would have hated her other children
Glad the teacher intervened. I’ve seen more maturity on teen mom.
My mom is exactly like her.. She treats me the same, compared to the rest, for the same reasons, but my mom's worse
i was very hateful to my parents when i was younger, hung with an awful crowd and did more then just smoke pot, and my parents have NEVER treated me like this or said the things this mother has said to & about her daughter. they absolutely love me and no matter what i'm their child. this women is disgusting it's mind blowing.
Why would the child go to a safe house if she’s not there? Wouldn’t the school just call?
OK I worked as a CNA ok in Texas. You have 3 shifts that you can work.
Morning 6am - 2pm
Evening 2pm -10pm
Or Graveyard 10pm - 6am
If she worked Graveyard she really could've done everything that needed to be done.
Every time I hear Phil try and talk up this child services guy I instantly think of Gabriel Fernandez and the complete and total failure the LA system is. Still appalled those case workers didn’t get charged.
Oh please Dr Phil and Dr Sophy, I pray to God you removed these children from this woman! 😮
Jealousy is exactly what it is!
dammmm Dr. Charles went straight to the point
“the issue is you”
“no..” LMAO💀
Raising three children on your own is no small task. I find it absolutely disgusting how little sympathy there's for this single mom. While completely unacceptable the things she has said and done to her daughter (and I also got the jealousy vibe), ultimately she is also a human being that needs help instead of everyone just ganging up on her like this.
Thank you Dr. Sophy he’s says it like it is..
Dr. Sophy be speaking FACTS.
Damn, that doctor was spot on from the start! This lady is disgusting inside and outside, and so envious of her daughter. Her daughter is more beautiful, kind, and not a constant victim.
I ♥️ Dr. Sophy ♥️♥️
This woman actually likes the attention regardless if it’s negative or positive.
“I’m not gonna go flipping burgers” well sometimes, we gotta do what we gotta do…
It isn't like she couldn't work afternoon shift or night!
My opinion is that the mother needs a lot of help, the daughter needs to continue to live with her teacher because she deserves to be in a healthy environment and I hope that the other children are taken away while she gets help and doesn't get the kids back until she can prove that she can be a good mom!!
I don’t understand how she’s crying the whole time when SHE did the damage. She’s so manipulative and hateful.
Yessss! I love this man!!!!!
To raise my kids, I would flip burgers if I had to.
This woman may have patience with elderly people but that doesn't mean she can neglect her own children insane behaviour!!!