As women we have to stop giving that relationship access if the man say I don’t want a relationship. We have to set those boundaries so they won’t continue to do whatever they want
@Decorlos it's about quality, not quantity especially at 50. That goes for men and women famous or not. Access still doesn't mean quality their are plenty of gorgeous women and handsome men with careers and 6 to 7 figure earners that still ain't about ish out here. He's still out here crying about finding a wife and having kids so something isn't adding up. Fame doesn't always mean happiness a immature man can run through tons of women. Takes a real king to protect, nuture and raise a family.
@@MCthespeaker again easy for you to say when you're not in his shoes you can't speak on a experience that you never experienced fame i would assume for a man brings many problems and one of those problems is woman he's not crying about anything he's letting people know he's not ready yet which is better than alot of dudes famous or not lying to the woman they are involved with I'm sure he doesn't have no issues with finding a wife
You can only play the “we just friends” game for so long. Someone will catch feelings eventually. So when we know a woman is catching feelings we continue to engage even when we know the vibe has changed
@@tatianadaniel3569 you’re right! That would be the right thing to do. However, the more convenient thing for guys is to get the benefits and then revert back to the original “we just friends” conversation when this “we just friends” situation ship is getting in the way of engaging with other potential situationships.
@@user-kb4vz9yv9w And that is NOT the marker of a leader. So how can men be upset when women "follow" the bad behavior of mind games that the "leaders", themselves, play??
@@tatianadaniel3569if he's not ready for a commitment and you as a woman made it clear commitment is your goal. Run don't walk away. I don't know about leader because I put no one in this day and age on a pedestal that high.
@@MCthespeaker I agree with you 100%. I would *never* be with a man who doesn't want marital commitment, particularly with me. However, I do believe in calling out the error and hypocrisy in men's "leadership". It is impossible to "follow" them when they think it's okay to make decisions they would *not* want us to make.
Ladies in the words of Lauryn Hill.... "IT COULD ALL BE SO SIMPLE"... If you stand on YOUR principles, wants, needs etc and you have firm boundaries as soon as any man comes in your playground with rules or intentions you not cool with....DON'T ENGAGE! A damn coffee date will tell you that....we spend too much time wasting our lives on simple shit....and I know from experience
As women we have to stop giving that relationship access if the man say I don’t want a relationship. We have to set those boundaries so they won’t continue to do whatever they want
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I can respect upfront honesty. I have a saying l just love when it comes to dating. I rather you punch me with the truth than kiss me with a lie.
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Accountability for our own peace. I ❤ it. I’ll be using this phrase
Getting it all out at still 50 is diabolical bro.
It's so many men in their 50s & 60s out here still getting it all out. Crazy
If you never walked in his shoes you wouldn't understand
David banner is not some average Joe getting it out he's famous so he has access to woman that we could only dream about keep that in mind
@Decorlos it's about quality, not quantity especially at 50. That goes for men and women famous or not. Access still doesn't mean quality their are plenty of gorgeous women and handsome men with careers and 6 to 7 figure earners that still ain't about ish out here. He's still out here crying about finding a wife and having kids so something isn't adding up. Fame doesn't always mean happiness a immature man can run through tons of women. Takes a real king to protect, nuture and raise a family.
@@MCthespeaker again easy for you to say when you're not in his shoes you can't speak on a experience that you never experienced fame i would assume for a man brings many problems and one of those problems is woman he's not crying about anything he's letting people know he's not ready yet which is better than alot of dudes famous or not lying to the woman they are involved with I'm sure he doesn't have no issues with finding a wife
Men make stuff so difficult - yall want the car but don’t and the car note … it never makes sense
People not just men or woman want what dont want them and run from what they really need.
Actions and words are equally important.
jessie looks cute in green
I really want her to stop using the word women incorrectly...
This was great! Wish it was longer.
You can only play the “we just friends” game for so long. Someone will catch feelings eventually. So when we know a woman is catching feelings we continue to engage even when we know the vibe has changed
So isn't the solution to: Exercise integrity and STOP engaging with that woman?
@@tatianadaniel3569 you’re right! That would be the right thing to do. However, the more convenient thing for guys is to get the benefits and then revert back to the original “we just friends” conversation when this “we just friends” situation ship is getting in the way of engaging with other potential situationships.
@@user-kb4vz9yv9w And that is NOT the marker of a leader.
So how can men be upset when women "follow" the bad behavior of mind games that the "leaders", themselves, play??
@@tatianadaniel3569if he's not ready for a commitment and you as a woman made it clear commitment is your goal. Run don't walk away. I don't know about leader because I put no one in this day and age on a pedestal that high.
@@MCthespeaker I agree with you 100%.
I would *never* be with a man who doesn't want marital commitment, particularly with me.
However, I do believe in calling out the error and hypocrisy in men's "leadership".
It is impossible to "follow" them when they think it's okay to make decisions they would *not* want us to make.
Timing couldn't be worse 4 Joc eh 😅
Ladies in the words of Lauryn Hill....
"IT COULD ALL BE SO SIMPLE"...
If you stand on YOUR principles, wants, needs etc and you have firm boundaries as soon as any man comes in your playground with rules or intentions you not cool with....DON'T ENGAGE! A damn coffee date will tell you that....we spend too much time wasting our lives on simple shit....and I know from experience
Really enjoyed this conversation
Where's Part II?
This was dope ! 🔥
This is so true
Just pay for it an goneboutbyour business. Don’t lead nobody to a dead end.
You can’t treat a woman like y’all in a relationship an expect her not to catch feelings. no matter how much you communicate what you want.
If you over 40,financially good an you ain’t married then you ain’t gone get married