talkin’ black manhood: patriarchal masculinity, homophobia, and intimacy
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- Опубліковано 27 лип 2024
- this video is inspired by bell hooks, terrence real, fd signifier, khadijah mbowe, and many others.
00:00 intro
01:29 gender expression
06:15 patriarchal masculinity
37:01 homophobia
53:10 intimacy
57:49 what is a man?
01:03:48 outro
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This is definetly one of my top favorite videos of all time. I always have been struggling alot with my masculinity, and the way society and my family expects to perform it. And honestly, I hate it! I'm tired of having to conceal my emotions, and to not cry in pressuring situations, and being told you're "acting like a little girl" for doing that. I always wanted to show more of my legs because I like that. I like wearing briefs, short underwear, and short shorts, but I've been banned and told not to wear that, because those are "girls shorts and underwear". And sometimes I envy men who I see walk and do things that go against the traditional norms. It makess me so envy, especially when i get criticized for doing the things they do, it sometimes makes me want to say mean things to them, but I learn to control it, because I'm just projecting my struggles onto other people for no good reason. We should just abolish gender norms and let everyone express the gender they want to express.
In.fucking.deed.
ur channel has been so non stop consistent lately with the efforts and vibes that your videos are full of. u can pretty much entertain me by talking about literally anything at this point
Thank you so much. I appreciate that truly. I try my best.
Watching your videos make me feel I am hearing a human and not a robot , much love man❤
Thank you for the support. It’s too many robots on this platform.
I understand you ment this for black masculinity but as a latino I resonate with what you said. Theres alot of parallels between our communities when it comes to how we're taught to express our masculinity and its origins. Great video, got my sub❤👍🏼
Indeed. There definitely is. I feel like latinos are the only ones besides black people who will truly get what I mean cause there’s lots of similarities to how we’re looked at, taught to be men, and how we’re socialized. I appreciate your support man. Thank you so much.
love these types of conversations imma come back as soon as i have the time to watch it in full
Let me know when you do.
been watching since u first started and i came to the same conclusions after all this time of thinking the same way lol. fye video keep it up bro 🤙
Thank you. And god bless.
genuinely great video, it’s honestly the same for me
Thank you. What is the same for you? Explain.
Most of my life I thought I knew what a man was. Of course you had men who were harmful, but I thought of those as bad men. But in recent years I released that some of those masculine traits we try to feed into young boys are actually harmful. As I grow up I'm starting to realise the kinda man I wanna be, and how my ideal version of myself might be seen as falling short in some aspects. My father was always there, but I find myself adopting traits from my grandmother and step mom because good communication and empathy were the support I needed most growing up. The healthy option as a person is a mix of masculine and feminine traits, but one of the biggest insults you can hear is being called a "feminine man" or "masculine woman". Its like getting punished and made fun of for being a version of yourself you can be happy with.
And it’s just sad. You can have certain things you do, certain beliefs, and ways YOU do things. And in result, you can get punished, called gay/feminine, get bullied, and all these things cause you are LITERALLY BEING YOU and they aren’t. It’s so sad.
Do some pushups g
Thanks for hate watching and taking your time out of your day to comment. Your support is appreciated.
@@dashawnmarvelle All jokes aside i’ll listen to the video next time at work