@Nicki Swift ....Pat has a spirit of homosexuality, she tried to live with it, but it's a lonely place for a woman to be, when a man you're married to is on the down-low.
Nicki Swift imma say it again im glad that is remarried and he can be happy he has a child on the way pat may GOD CONTINUE WITH HIS MANY BLESSINGS FOR YOU AND YOUR NEW FAMILY STAY WITH JESUS AND STAY HUMBLE BE AND STAY BLESSED
The problem with this analysis is that you're only telling it from HER point of view! There are always two sides to every story, you can't accept everything you hear as gospel.
He was the Restaurateur, along with his brothers. But she was included in the business as his wife, then got too big for her britches. She hated having to share the spotlight with Pat, and hated that viewers connected much more with Pat than her. She’s sickeningly desperate for the spotlight, hence all the interviews and tv appearances. The way she talks about Pat in these interviews is rude and disrespectful to the man she was married to for 19 years, and father of her children. But I don’t think Pat has ever said a bad word about her. He’s quietly moved on, remarried and they are expecting a baby. When they divorced, they reportedly each got half of an approx $2M net worth. Pat can continue to be successful in the business without her, by she can’t do it without him. I predict within 20 years, Pat will Buy Gina’s share of their business, Pat will still be in the restaurant business, and probably worth $10M or more, while Gina will burn through her money, and fade into obscurity. She supposedly is still part owner of their restaurants, but hasn’t talked to him in 4 years? How does that work?
It's interesting how he has not gone public about this he just quietly moved on with his life got remarried and has a child on the way. Every chance she gets including on the dating show she was recently on she has to discuss what went on. If you moved on move on.
Husband silence has proven a lot...he's the good guy and the victim ....she's Mrs Boss and wanted the spotlite shining only on her...she's definitely proven that with here appearance on so many daytime shows.🤔🤔🤔
I wonder why Pat Neely has stayed silent regarding this...must be a guy thing...less apt to air feelings and dirty laundry out in public. Onscreen I found Gina to be somewhat abrasive and pushy. Pat seemed to be more likable. I just cannot take Gina’s word for it 100%.
Principe Raphael they broke up while they were in high school even though he was still in love with her. She married someone else and had her oldest daughter, the marriage was abusive and she left. She got back with Pat and they married each other before their daughter together was born, Pat is old school and she is more adventurous, she is a go out with girlfriends and travel type of woman, he's more of a let's stay in and watch movies up under her type dude. She didn't like that, especially after their girls got older. She was just on the Bravo show about dating/ finding love in Paris. My guess is Pat is heartbroken because you could tell that he really loved her, there is a video of him talking about dating and a new cooking show in the works for him. I wish him well, it's hard to lose someone that you've loved that long, only to find out they have no interest in you any longer.
He's being a gentleman. I'm sure he has some dirt on her but because he's a real man, he's letting her go & moving on. Meanwhile, she's roaming around Rome looking for love. Smh.
I said from the beginning this was fake! The over exaggerated affection seemed fake! I only watched the show a few times and when I did I said “ they don’t really like each other “ lol
Where is Pat's version of this story? Seems everything is all about Gina. Sounds like she had a mid life crisis. She lost 34 pounds and Pat lost 150 pounds(Gina). Good bye and good riddance.
for someone who didn't want to be in the spotlight she sure seems to be looking for it. And another thing he doesn't reach out to me is a joke, she never said that she reaches out to him either and last time I heard phones work both ways.
Emmy P GIRL! listen she is also on Bravo doing a show about finding love in Paris or Rome. She's the one that's speaking out about it. She was also married before Pat.
I saw them at the airport together some years ago headed to ATL, and she was jawing him off something serious. That's when I realized they didn't like each other.
I think Gina needs help . Seems like she doesn’t know what real love is because of the childhood she grew up in. Pat only says nice things about her and she doesn’t say anything nice about him. Gina personality seems very off to me.
Milagros Granados I believe that she is running her mouth so much because in actuality, she is feeling like the looser. The last kick of a dying horse.
YEAH, she was on a reality show called "To Rome for Love" that aired for a few months on BRAVOS network in maybe January, February and March of 2018. She played the hell out of the scorned woman victim card. Made it seem like she had been to hell and back with Pat during their marriage.
On the show they were laying it on too thick with the 'oh baby', 'yes baby' stuff, it did seem a bit phony but they pulled it off somehow, they had many fooled.
I don't feel duped at all. People gotta do what they gotta do. They had a show, I mean they couldn't do it while actin up and being nasty to each other. It's the food channel not wretched tv.
I sensed that it was something not quite right with the both of them every time I watched their show. It felt staged, fake. Just observing Gina, I could see she really didn't want to be there at all. So I'm not surprised that they split up.
BNL07604 😲😲 gurl spill the tea on what your mama said! What did she think of them exactly??? I love hearing what previous generations have to say about this generation, they're so much wiser than us.
My mom did too. She always said that were "putting on" for the cameras. I didn't see it. I guess we all was just eating it up especially when we rarely see black love on TV.
Neely's BBQ is a big part of Memphis Tennessee. I was surprised to hear about the split. I still go to the Neely's restaurants. I really like the food served there and I hope I wish the best for the both of them.
This isn't telling me what I want to hear. Okay, they broke up. Everybody knows that. I don't care that they were separated before they announced that they were getting divorced. Why is this video even up if you can't tell us why they separated?
This is ridiculous how could you give up 19 years of marriage and she say because she wanted to find herself girl bye smh! Marriage is a life time comment made before God that should always be taken seriously. Sad!
Tamara Clarke She said they tried counseling 12 times, she tried to leave 5 times, and that she hadn’t been happy for years. It sounds like she took her marriage seriously but it didn’t work out.
Have you ever been married? You can’t say what anyone should or should do just because they stood in front of some shyster with a book and said I do. The institution of marriage is tiered and pressurized in this country that steadily becoming third world, unforeseen life problem can cause a marriage to derail no one should be force to stay together because they made a promise to a Christian god that can’t seem to fix this planet and it inhabitants so that there aren’t problems in the first place. Marriage is a state institution that about money period.
I wasn't shocked, I couldn't stand to watch their show, they were too lovely dovey, It was didn't seem real to me. When I heard they slit, I was like, yup, I knew something was off. I wish them well and all, but only other time I felt off about watching people on tv was Demi Lovato, she too look just too help and her smile seemed fake and turned out it was. If you watch her now her smile looks real, not forced like when she was at teen.
If any of y'all ever watched the show,Gina always gave off a negative vibe.And she act childish all the time.And y'all see it was all about her as mentioned in this video.
QUIETSTORM 420 There's a LOT she isn't sharing. I can't help but feel betrayed. It's one thing to act like they're in love when they're in front of their children, but for National Television? I feel so lied to.
I no longer liked Gina after I heard of the split I felt she was fake like pat was a good husband to her like why would you do that to him her ass look terrible now
Some times men have effeminate energies from who they were raised around most, maybe not really gay. Guess I can understand y some think that- Look quickly at 0:13 Hand motions
Zachary Lavender its within that person if a person is not happy with themselves how can they make there spouse happy they are only thinking about number 1
Perhaps Gina finally grew tired of being Pat's beard. Not all gay black males believe in being flamboyant. Some are forced to hid their true sexual orientation out of fear of being ostracized by family and friends.
+Sheneitra Howard...it's true. They mostly had a business relationship by the time the show came around. Lucy said Desi was a great businessman but a terrible husband.
Just because he's being quiet/"taking the high road" doesn't mean he's the good guy. Keeping quiet might be in his best interest so his dirt isn't brought to light. He comes out talking smack and his ex might take it up a notch and be specific about what went on. As it is now she's being vague and maybe he wants it that way.
I was never fooled. It always felt fake to me. I couldn't even watched the show because of all the fake ' ooo baby this and ooo baby that.' It was too much.
I thought they were cute together. Obviously she’s still bitter because she’s still talking about the failure of her marriage to Pat and he has moved on remarried and has a child on the way.
Not saying that anyone's perfect, but it's funny how things work. Grass is only greener where you water it, and all that glitters is not gold. I guess she's learned her lesson, and has to live knowing that she took a big L. The second wife looks better anyway 😉
Never watched. What I do see here is some1 trying really hard 2 excuse her BS behavior. The less said the better. U fooled many & now trying 2justify it! As 4 that new show on Bravo, it SUCKS!!!
They fooled me. I believed all that syrupy, lovey dovey bullshit and while I rolled my eyes at it I still watched the show. When word came out they were getting a divorce I was surprised. The way it came off, he was the difficult one being mean on the set behind the scenes. I don't know if that's true or not.
Martin Warford - Gina belittled Pat alot close to the end of the show. She would come in late, hair all over the place. She told Pat on several occasions that he "talk too much." Talking was a big part of their show. She and her oldest daughter was very mean to him. Her leaving him was the Best.
I always thought they were so fake with all that lovey dovey cheesy mess in the kitchen. Not surprised at all when they split. That's life. If it's not working move on. Life is too short.
Wow I loved them what a shocker!! I think Gina looked so much healthier and beautiful her old self before she lost the weight and turned her hair orange! She was beautiful her natural way and cute and real!
I have much respect for Pat he never talked about Gina or the marriage she felt the need to put it all out there. I'm glad he kept quiet this in my opinion speaks volumes about Gina she went on a tour. I'm happy that Pat moved on quietly and was able to find peace and happiness with his knew wife and kids.
it's just amazing to me, and funny that all of this is Gina says this that and the other on every single Network television show kind of contradicts that she didn't even want to be on the show anyway. looks to me like she is the media hog
Whaaaat? Remember there is 3 sides to a story ( Her side his side and the truth. ) we're only hearing her speak about it. What I call '' the last kick of a dying horse''. How sinister is that. He just kept it quiet no publicity and moved on didn't want her to look bad. Well, surely everything isn't what it seems.
Sometimes folks just outgrow each other. It's not that they love each other less but paths via agendas change. So why not change with it? I pray they both find whatever is out there for them both. 😉
If you need to "WORK" on staying married to someone EVERY DAY, perhaps you're not right for each other. If it's a good fit, it doesn't need a lot of "work"💫
Wow!divorce or not! "Hate" should never be towards someone you had loved. But it takes the "Love of God" Even thru divorce.Sometimes it doesn't work bc it takes two willing hearts to do the right thing and to go in the right direction.They're not the only ones,celebrity or not.It takes two with Christ as the center But the two have to work towards the same outcome,not one.Tfs
Lolol, horseshit. It takes 1 and everyone else listening ever so keenly. My great grandfather had 3 wives and 2 houses the size of my high school. Lol. He believe in God, of course. He made sure his family believe in him first.
I feel like we need God first and I love God more than my husband. God is the head and the husband a d wife should be the two end points of a triangle. Satan killed that marriage dead. God can breathe life into it even if there is a prodigal spouse. However neither one seem to want the marriage. God wants us to love him he is true joy because people disappoint us. Jeremiah 17:2 No confidence in flesh...
I predicted their fall on the first episode Lmfaoo pat seemed like he wanted a man and will be happy with a man lover and Gina was always isolated and cold smh
You knew a couple that worked together and was around each. Didn’t have that much passion twenty four/ seven. Everyone needs a little personal space. Don’t be angry about it. Take what they were teaching with the food 🥘. Pray that they’re happy now....
I could tell by the look on Gina's face when Pat would smack that ass and saying "take that with ya..". She looked so pissed. I never took sides, but her voice was like nails on a chalkboard. I hope they're both happy living apart.
I dont want to be with my rich handsome famous husband who married me when I was fat & broke anymore because its not exciting ..booo hooooo...please , gtfoh Pat
I liked their episode when they deep fried a turkey. That was the best turkey I ever made. When I heard they were splitting I was like, “eh” and went back to my deep fryer
Not surprised. She allowed him to take care of her daughter from a previous marriage. She was looking from the spotlight. As she said don’t look for mom and dad to take of you. Disgusting! I’m glad Pat moved on with a family. Gina is where?????
Wait, she walked, but expected him to reach out? He has remained silent, she can't whine enough. Doesn't take a genius to figure this out! She road the wave to fame - took the money while living the lie; now wants to play victim? NO!!
Discovered this couple on tv one Sunday morning and was blown away by the delicious looking food, but then I began to get the same vibe I got from watching "Jon & Kate Plus 8". Kate would "snipe" at Jon who I considered to be very hen-pecked. For a mature couple, I found the Neely's brand of affection to be tooo cheesy and disingenuous. I soon stopped watching both shows because they irritated the hell outta me.
THIS WAS ONE OF MY FAVORITE SHOWS BACK THEN .. ALL THAT LUBBY DUBBY SHIT ..I KNEW IT WAS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.. CAUSE SHE USED TO HAVE AN ATTITUDE ROLLING HER EYES AT HIM ALL THE TIME ...LOL
They made me feel SO positive about a TRULY happy marriage when I watched their show!😮😕...now to realize it was all just a bunch of BS...really disappointed!!😢
I have to honestly say I thought they were fake. I never bought into any of it. It really did not seem genuine. It seemed as though the two were trying to hard.
She said she wanted to cocoon herself and never wanted to be a part of the show, but then she went on to appear on shows like Oprah and went public trying to tell her story. What about the man's side of the story?
What's your opinion on Pat and Gina?
@Nicki Swift ....Pat has a spirit of homosexuality, she tried to live with it, but it's a lonely place for a woman to be, when a man you're married to is on the down-low.
This is absolutely correct. I worked an event with him in 2014 and he made an ass of himself making advances towards other men.
info wait is he gay
info does the new wife knows he on down low
Nicki Swift imma say it again im glad that is remarried and he can be happy he has a child on the way pat may GOD CONTINUE WITH HIS MANY BLESSINGS FOR YOU AND YOUR NEW FAMILY STAY WITH JESUS AND STAY HUMBLE BE AND STAY BLESSED
Being a gentleman doesnt make Pat gay, its called respect, southern hospitality and being the definition of a classy man
This is an example on why a person shouldn't envy another person's relationship. We don't know what really goes on behind closed doors.
Regina Davis so true
Regina Davis Truth because I found myself having envy towards their seemingly loving relationship. Smh
This is what I have always told my kids, what is More important is how you are being treated when you both are alone 👍🏾!
Truth
Exaactly.
The problem with this analysis is that you're only telling it from HER point of view! There are always two sides to every story, you can't accept everything you hear as gospel.
That's what I was thinking; I want to know what Pat has to say.....
Vincent Slone three sides, your side, my side and the truth
I disagree. 3 sides to every story. Yours, mine, and the facts in between. Therein rests the truth. I am qualified as i come from a broken home.....
Yes, I was wondering what did he have to say? She was so negative, but no input from him?
Exactly
After she milked his family for all its worth she was ready to go, she was annoying any way, Pat carried the show to me.
Nikia Clifton - I agree
He was the Restaurateur, along with his brothers. But she was included in the business as his wife, then got too big for her britches. She hated having to share the spotlight with Pat, and hated that viewers connected much more with Pat than her. She’s sickeningly desperate for the spotlight, hence all the interviews and tv appearances. The way she talks about Pat in these interviews is rude and disrespectful to the man she was married to for 19 years, and father of her children. But I don’t think Pat has ever said a bad word about her. He’s quietly moved on, remarried and they are expecting a baby. When they divorced, they reportedly each got half of an approx $2M net worth. Pat can continue to be successful in the business without her, by she can’t do it without him. I predict within 20 years, Pat will Buy Gina’s share of their business, Pat will still be in the restaurant business, and probably worth $10M or more, while Gina will burn through her money, and fade into obscurity. She supposedly is still part owner of their restaurants, but hasn’t talked to him in 4 years? How does that work?
It's interesting how he has not gone public about this he just quietly moved on with his life got remarried and has a child on the way. Every chance she gets including on the dating show she was recently on she has to discuss what went on. If you moved on move on.
Pooh Bear True
Oh selling another woman a dream??😂🤣😂🤣
This is nonsence to even present this BS on social media, enough is enough.
Husband silence has proven a lot...he's the good guy and the victim ....she's Mrs Boss and wanted the spotlite shining only on her...she's definitely proven that with here appearance on so many daytime shows.🤔🤔🤔
She’s probably hurt . He probably cheated .
Damn she looked better before the weight loss
I do agree she looked better with more size. Skinny is not for everyne please!
BOSSHAWG434 I agree
I think that she looks better after.
I need her to divorce that wig and hair color....
Doagae Porbeni I know that’s right! 😩🙄😐🤗😲😲😲😲🤭🤭😆😶
Ikr lol
Yes lord!
Yesssss I wish she would it makes her look older
Doagae Porbeni. 😂😂😂😂😂
I wonder why Pat Neely has stayed silent regarding this...must be a guy thing...less apt to air feelings and dirty laundry out in public. Onscreen I found Gina to be somewhat abrasive and pushy. Pat seemed to be more likable. I just cannot take Gina’s word for it 100%.
Principe Raphael they broke up while they were in high school even though he was still in love with her. She married someone else and had her oldest daughter, the marriage was abusive and she left. She got back with Pat and they married each other before their daughter together was born, Pat is old school and she is more adventurous, she is a go out with girlfriends and travel type of woman, he's more of a let's stay in and watch movies up under her type dude. She didn't like that, especially after their girls got older. She was just on the Bravo show about dating/ finding love in Paris. My guess is Pat is heartbroken because you could tell that he really loved her, there is a video of him talking about dating and a new cooking show in the works for him. I wish him well, it's hard to lose someone that you've loved that long, only to find out they have no interest in you any longer.
He's being a gentleman. I'm sure he has some dirt on her but because he's a real man, he's letting her go & moving on. Meanwhile, she's roaming around Rome looking for love. Smh.
Principe Raphael I agree with you.
Dollydagger Lioness he is now remarried with a baby on the way. So I think he did find love. Good for him.
Principe Raphael THANK YOU
I said from the beginning this was fake! The over exaggerated affection seemed fake! I only watched the show a few times and when I did I said “ they don’t really like each other “ lol
Purpose Driven Yes!, too many 'oh baby, yes baby', too phony.
Pat done moved on a new wife and baby on the way!
Andrew Nehemiah and he hadnt talked to her in 4 years
Pat foolhardy, still
Good for him!!
Where is Pat's version of this story? Seems everything is all about Gina. Sounds like she had a mid life crisis. She lost 34 pounds and Pat lost 150 pounds(Gina). Good bye and good riddance.
schs1977 that’s not right, but it sure made me laugh.... 😉
for someone who didn't want to be in the spotlight she sure seems to be looking for it. And another thing he doesn't reach out to me is a joke, she never said that she reaches out to him either and last time I heard phones work both ways.
Emmy P GIRL! listen she is also on Bravo doing a show about finding love in Paris or Rome. She's the one that's speaking out about it. She was also married before Pat.
Emmy P it’s about the money 💰 she’s money hungry
Dollydagger Lioness she might get brunt
Dollydagger Lioness she was?😲
Neither need to reach out to each other at this point unless they want to...The kids are grown and he's remarried with a baby..Reach out for what
She looked better when she was thick
with two 'c's my dude
Maybe wanting to be healthier and more fit played a role on her deciding to lose weight. She's pretty sure there way.
I loved
Pat, and so happy he remarried and has a new baby ... his wife is gorgeous and I'm so glad he's found happiness again!!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏿👍🏿
I saw them at the airport together some years ago headed to ATL, and she was jawing him off something serious. That's when I realized they didn't like each other.
I think Gina needs help . Seems like she doesn’t know what real love is because of the childhood she grew up in. Pat only says nice things about her and she doesn’t say anything nice about him. Gina personality seems very off to me.
Milagros Granados I believe that she is running her mouth so much because in actuality, she is feeling like the looser. The last kick of a dying horse.
Milagros Granados Im glad someone else agrees with me she was throwing him way under the bus
YEAH, she was on a reality show called "To Rome for Love" that aired for a few months on BRAVOS network in maybe January, February and March of 2018. She played the hell out of the scorned woman victim card. Made it seem like she had been to hell and back with Pat during their marriage.
Gina was OK during the filming days. Now she's plain ugly, she needs surgery to correct that mouth of hers...it's moving funny when she speaks
I agree
On the show they were laying it on too thick with the 'oh baby', 'yes baby' stuff, it did seem a bit phony but they pulled it off somehow, they had many fooled.
fooled? uh your watching television. every time you turn the it on your being fool it all make believe.
I was not fooled he is gay .
They had me fooled. They did a great job on that show though. I loved watching it.
It’s something about Gina I didn’t like smh lol
I don't feel duped at all. People gotta do what they gotta do. They had a show, I mean they couldn't do it while actin up and being nasty to each other. It's the food channel not wretched tv.
Kassie Mitchell 🤣🤣🤣 I agree, but imagine if it had gone down like that. I’d hate to see what would have happened if veggies needed to be chopped! 🔪🔪
Finally, someone with a common sense comment! "The cameras are rolling!"
afro curly girl that s rite
I sensed that it was something not quite right with the both of them every time I watched their show. It felt staged, fake. Just observing Gina, I could see she really didn't want to be there at all. So I'm not surprised that they split up.
My mother saw right through them.
BNL07604 😲😲 gurl spill the tea on what your mama said! What did she think of them exactly??? I love hearing what previous generations have to say about this generation, they're so much wiser than us.
Ashley Campbell Wish I had more to tell you other than "she thought they were fake", but that's all she wrote.
My mom did too. She always said that were "putting on" for the cameras. I didn't see it. I guess we all was just eating it up especially when we rarely see black love on TV.
Lady T Yeah, it was just waaay too much, especially over food.
Many people can see right through all that phony "we are madly in love" act that some people put on. Ain't no wisdom like old wisdom.
She looked better with the weight on her.
Neely's BBQ is a big part of Memphis Tennessee. I was surprised to hear about the split. I still go to the Neely's restaurants. I really like the food served there and I hope I wish the best for the both of them.
lol serve up a banana
Wow! I always heard there were issues! I could tell that the mother in law didn’t care for Gina on the show. It was extremely obvious!
I said the EXACT same thing! I could tell the mother didn't like her either. Gina is a mess! She was way too extra on the show. I like Pat!
Yes! She seemed to be too much!!
Krissy InThe30s I saw the same thing. I always said his mother was not feeling her at all. My brother used to always say they looked fake.
Tasha k
This isn't telling me what I want to hear. Okay, they broke up. Everybody knows that. I don't care that they were separated before they announced that they were getting divorced. Why is this video even up if you can't tell us why they separated?
This is ridiculous how could you give up 19 years of marriage and she say because she wanted to find herself girl bye smh! Marriage is a life time comment made before God that should always be taken seriously. Sad!
Tamara Clarke She said they tried counseling 12 times, she tried to leave 5 times, and that she hadn’t been happy for years. It sounds like she took her marriage seriously but it didn’t work out.
Tamara Clarke Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Doesn't mean she's going to go straight to the flames. Haha
kinni marriage is get what ever you put in....so if she really wanted it to work and really put in the effort it would work through Jesus Christ.
Helen Grigsby she made a vow before God and said for better or for worst until death due them part....so ask God
Have you ever been married? You can’t say what anyone should or should do just because they stood in front of some shyster with a book and said I do. The institution of marriage is tiered and pressurized in this country that steadily becoming third world, unforeseen life problem can cause a marriage to derail no one should be force to stay together because they made a promise to a Christian god that can’t seem to fix this planet and it inhabitants so that there aren’t problems in the first place. Marriage is a state institution that about money period.
I wasn't shocked, I couldn't stand to watch their show, they were too lovely dovey, It was didn't seem real to me. When I heard they slit, I was like, yup, I knew something was off. I wish them well and all, but only other time I felt off about watching people on tv was Demi Lovato, she too look just too help and her smile seemed fake and turned out it was. If you watch her now her smile looks real, not forced like when she was at teen.
I felt the same way when watching their show, it was too forced / all extra
Helena Baggs I felt the same
Me too....they was waaay too into each other on tv. It just didn't look genuine.
Helena Baggs I said the same thing. Too much lovey dovey going on.
If any of y'all ever watched the show,Gina always gave off a negative vibe.And she act childish all the time.And y'all see it was all about her as mentioned in this video.
Gina is full of crap
QUIETSTORM 420 There's a LOT she isn't sharing. I can't help but feel betrayed. It's one thing to act like they're in love when they're in front of their children, but for National Television? I feel so lied to.
I no longer liked Gina after I heard of the split I felt she was fake like pat was a good husband to her like why would you do that to him her ass look terrible now
mack smith Wait. Did you live with them?
Verde Lane no just my opinion
QUIETSTORM 420 YESS she's SO EXTRA Acting
I was not duped - they always seemed phony to me
I always thought he was gay
Bee Silva Yes, he gave me that vibe too.
Bee Silva so did I. 🤷🏾♀️
girl yes or a little too much feminine energy for her
Yup, women are always quick to judge a man as gay, but be the main carpet munchers. That's why minority women be broke, lonely, and bitter as fuck.
Some times men have effeminate energies from who they were raised around most, maybe not really gay. Guess I can understand y some think that- Look quickly at 0:13 Hand motions
I really miss these two!
Oh, shut the hell up. You were probably living vicariously through them..sad
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+Misty Nights
VICTORIA PERRY-You tagged my name because?
Pink Scoop News so do I loved watching them cook
Misty Nights Your comment was so rude and unnecessary. I feel bad for mean-spirited people like you
What do you do with 19 years of marriage? You don't wake up and decide, "I no longer want to be married to this person." Interesting....
Zachary Lavender its within that person if a person is not happy with themselves how can they make there spouse happy they are only thinking about number 1
Yes u can lol
ms. howard the way i see it marriage is serious and only the serious minded and those who take commitment woth HONOR SHOULD APPLY FOR THE POSITION
Perhaps Gina finally grew tired of being Pat's beard.
Not all gay black males believe in being flamboyant.
Some are forced to hid their true sexual orientation out of fear of being ostracized by family and friends.
Ms Temptation..what makes you think he's gay?
It was like finding out the truth about Lucy and Desi again. 😃
Christian's Grandma 😳 what was the truth about Lucy and Desi??? I loved them!
Sheneitra Howard That while on the show, they were really having problems in their marriage.
Christian's Grandma oh ok never woulda guessed that either.
+Sheneitra Howard...it's true. They mostly had a business relationship by the time the show came around. Lucy said Desi was a great businessman but a terrible husband.
I absolutely use to love their show. Unfortunately it didn't work but that happens. I wish them both the best.
Just because he's being quiet/"taking the high road" doesn't mean he's the good guy. Keeping quiet might be in his best interest so his dirt isn't brought to light. He comes out talking smack and his ex might take it up a notch and be specific about what went on. As it is now she's being vague and maybe he wants it that way.
Good take on that Martin, very good. That is more likely the truth too.....😒😒
Or i culd actuall take it@face value. Hw do u make and push a different narrative from nada?
Culd just say anything i think&run with it. Life. 4the birds
@Martin Warford u hit the nail right on the head!!!
Exactly Whatever happened was absolutely devastating and almost took her out of the game😏She lost to much weight to fast! Wow
I was never fooled. It always felt fake to me. I couldn't even watched the show because of all the fake ' ooo baby this and ooo baby that.' It was too much.
I thought they were cute together. Obviously she’s still bitter because she’s still talking about the failure of her marriage to Pat and he has moved on remarried and has a child on the way.
Not saying that anyone's perfect, but it's funny how things work. Grass is only greener where you water it, and all that glitters is not gold. I guess she's learned her lesson, and has to live knowing that she took a big L. The second wife looks better anyway 😉
Never watched. What I do see here is some1 trying really hard 2 excuse her BS behavior. The less said the better. U fooled many & now trying 2justify it! As 4 that new show on Bravo, it SUCKS!!!
They fooled me. I believed all that syrupy, lovey dovey bullshit and while I rolled my eyes at it I still watched the show. When word came out they were getting a divorce I was surprised. The way it came off, he was the difficult one being mean on the set behind the scenes. I don't know if that's true or not.
Martin Warford - Gina belittled Pat alot close to the end of the show. She would come in late, hair all over the place. She told Pat on several occasions that he "talk too much." Talking was a big part of their show. She and her oldest daughter was very mean to him. Her leaving him was the Best.
That is not true. How did it "come off" that way???
I always thought Pat was gay. He seemed more feminine than his wife.
strawberry tiger? .....hmmmmmm?????🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Strawberry Tiger No, she just seemed more manly.
He's just an Empath. He got remarried and is expecting a baby soon.
Strawberry Tiger lol
Strawberry Tiger I as well. Just too creamy for me.
I always thought they were so fake with all that lovey dovey cheesy mess in the kitchen. Not surprised at all when they split. That's life. If it's not working move on. Life is too short.
mdooms76 Yes, they were laying it on too thick.
They seemed way too chipper on their show... However I was shocked to see they split ..
Wow I loved them what a shocker!! I think Gina looked so much healthier and beautiful her old self before she lost the weight and turned her hair orange! She was beautiful her natural way and cute and real!
Wow. I use to love them. That's why I say never say marriage and couple goals you never know what goes on behind the scenes
I have much respect for Pat he never talked about Gina or the marriage she felt the need to put it all out there. I'm glad he kept quiet this in my opinion speaks volumes about Gina she went on a tour. I'm happy that Pat moved on quietly and was able to find peace and happiness with his knew wife and kids.
it's just amazing to me, and funny that all of this is Gina says this that and the other on every single Network television show kind of contradicts that she didn't even want to be on the show anyway. looks to me like she is the media hog
I miss both and their cooking they just seem so happy its so sad
If people didn't see it it was only because they didn't want to see it. I would constantly tell my wife it seemed fake.
Well it is what it WAS!!! Dispite their private life I liked them on screen. They’re recipes are fantastic!
I feel some type of a way about her spilling all the bad tea on their relationship and he is completely silent! FOH
Charletta Ramono Bc Pat isn't thinking about this woman, lol. He just remarried and has a baby on the way.
Charletta Ramono Some people are just private and are known to keep their private lives just that'' private. ''
Hazel Eyes no such thing in the "public" eye👁
Charletta Ramono That's exactly my point.
Charletta Ramono Silence is Golden...speaks volumes at times
The few times I watched their show I saw contempt & repulsion from her every time he tried to touch her.
She looked younger with the weight on her!!
I saw Gina on another show filmed in Rome. She appears to be happier. I wish both of them well.
That's why I stop watching because it was fake to me
Whaaaat? Remember there is 3 sides to a story ( Her side his side and the truth. ) we're only hearing her speak about it. What I call '' the last kick of a dying horse''. How sinister is that. He just kept it quiet no publicity and moved on didn't want her to look bad. Well, surely everything isn't what it seems.
Hazel Eyes not true. Everybody doesnt lie or stretch the truth. U might, but some tell the truth even if it makes them look bad
I always new they were fake on that show you could see it plain as day
It's always the Man Fault Women NEVER take responsibility for a Failed Relationship are Marriage. Again... It's ALWAYS the man Fault.
Some food and drink are just too sweet too enjoy and soooo are the Neelys.
ur mom lol
I’m so proud of the Neely ‘s . Putting Memphis on the map
They used to make me sick with faking like they liked each other,I'm glad they're divorced and I'm glad Pat never calls Gina
I don't like it she looks real evil
one two her husband was just waiting for her to fail
lol yeah i know
Proof of the old saying,if it looks too good to be true,it ain't.
She doesn't look right with all that weight gone
Sometimes folks just outgrow each other. It's not that they love each other less but paths via agendas change. So why not change with it? I pray they both find whatever is out there for them both. 😉
I miss them!!Fake or not a lot of people on food network can’t match there authenticity and chemistry on camera!
If you need to "WORK" on staying married to someone EVERY DAY, perhaps you're not right for each other.
If it's a good fit, it doesn't need a lot of "work"💫
Wow!divorce or not!
"Hate" should never be
towards someone you had loved.
But it takes the "Love of God"
Even thru divorce.Sometimes it
doesn't work bc it takes two willing
hearts to do the right thing and to
go in the right direction.They're not
the only ones,celebrity or not.It takes two with Christ as the center
But the two have to work towards the same outcome,not one.Tfs
PhairfullyMade agreed
PhairfullyMade that's right we can't do anything right without God
Lolol, horseshit. It takes 1 and everyone else listening ever so keenly. My great grandfather had 3 wives and 2 houses the size of my high school. Lol. He believe in God, of course. He made sure his family believe in him first.
I feel like we need God first and I love God more than my husband. God is the head and the husband a d wife should be the two end points of a triangle. Satan killed that marriage dead. God can breathe life into it even if there is a prodigal spouse. However neither one seem to want the marriage. God wants us to love him he is true joy because people disappoint us. Jeremiah 17:2 No confidence in flesh...
Bo Jackson if he believed in God then he would only have one wife. I guess he believed in a different kind of god.🤷♀️
I predicted their fall on the first episode Lmfaoo pat seemed like he wanted a man and will be happy with a man lover and Gina was always isolated and cold smh
when she was thicker, she looked like Phaedra. when she lost a bit of weight, she looked like Kandi. lol
Me and my g ma used to watch them all the time😔! Now I been watching her on To Rome For Love😐!
she seems so desperate on To Rome For Love...all of those girls are>
Always nice when your wmn cares more about her health& appeal when not with u. Fellas if u gettin married, idk y
You knew a couple that worked together and was around each. Didn’t have that much passion twenty four/ seven.
Everyone needs a little personal space. Don’t be angry about it. Take what they were teaching with the food 🥘. Pray that they’re happy now....
STILL no word of, SPECIFICALLY, why they “Hated” each other. Infidelity?
I could tell by the look on Gina's face when Pat would smack that ass and saying "take that with ya..". She looked so pissed. I never took sides, but her voice was like nails on a chalkboard. I hope they're both happy living apart.
I dont want to be with my rich handsome famous husband who married me when I was fat & broke anymore because its not exciting ..booo hooooo...please , gtfoh Pat
He was crazy about her and she couldn’t stand him.
I NEVER believed they were happy. All that honey, sweety stuff. Besides Gina always looked pissed, and forever rolling her eyes at him.
I want bothered by them divorcing, I was bothered by the loss of a great show.
She was the shadiest!🙄
I liked their episode when they deep fried a turkey. That was the best turkey I ever made. When I heard they were splitting I was like, “eh” and went back to my deep fryer
Not surprised. She allowed him to take care of her daughter from a previous marriage. She was looking from the spotlight. As she said don’t look for mom and dad to take of you. Disgusting! I’m glad Pat moved on with a family. Gina is where?????
Wait, she walked, but expected him to reach out? He has remained silent, she can't whine enough. Doesn't take a genius to figure this out! She road the wave to fame - took the money while living the lie; now wants to play victim? NO!!
Whenever couples are waaay to trying to hard to look like the perfect couple (social media included)...that’s when u know it’s fake
I never liked them because they seemed phony. Heard she left because she was tired of being his beard
I used to love watching them,She looks great though😍❤️
Discovered this couple on tv one Sunday morning and was blown away by the delicious looking food, but then I began to get the same vibe I got from watching "Jon & Kate Plus 8". Kate would "snipe" at Jon who I considered to be very hen-pecked. For a mature couple, I found the Neely's brand of affection to be tooo cheesy and disingenuous. I soon stopped watching both shows because they irritated the hell outta me.
I couldn't tell that there was trouble in paradise. It was a shock to me. But the truth is nothing really shocks me much anymore.
Well I found out more reading the comments then the video...thanks guys!!
No one will love Gina like pat I know wish she never made that mistake. You never miss what you have until It's gone
L Graham = Pat Neely
@@heressammy9796 😁😁😁😁🤣
I was watching the show knowing something was going on. Just couldn’t put my finger on it.
THIS WAS ONE OF MY FAVORITE SHOWS BACK THEN .. ALL THAT LUBBY DUBBY SHIT ..I KNEW IT WAS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.. CAUSE SHE USED TO HAVE AN ATTITUDE ROLLING HER EYES AT HIM ALL THE TIME ...LOL
I honestly thought he was gay.
They made me feel SO positive about a TRULY happy marriage when I watched their show!😮😕...now to realize it was all just a bunch of BS...really disappointed!!😢
I used to watch them faithfully but it all seemed so fake with the touchy touchy stuff it was so clear it was just for tv now it all came out
I have to honestly say I thought they were fake. I never bought into any of it. It really did not seem genuine. It seemed as though the two were trying to hard.
This is a very one-sided exposé. It totally excludes Pat's perspective of the relationship.
She said she wanted to cocoon herself and never wanted to be a part of the show, but then she went on to appear on shows like Oprah and went public trying to tell her story. What about the man's side of the story?
I never watched the show but marriage is work. And it takes effort and time. Add celebrity to it and its even harder. Hope they both find peace.