QUIT MY $250,000 JOB after learning THIS about money
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This is something that I didn't realize about money. The moment I learned this lesson (through 10 words repeated to me on a phone call), it taught me everything I need to know about money and I quit.
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The best quote I have ever heard was "if you don't have your own plan, you are part of someone elses plan".
That hit hard son
What’s wrong with working for someone else
To be honest I don't think there's anything wrong in being part of someone else's plan, as long as you're aware of it and you've made that decision on your own
What's so bad about having no plan?
Wow. I envy your honesty and your courage. I am proud of your story.
"We don't buy things with money, we buy them with hours from our lives."
This is deeppp
That's how I price stuff. How many hours does this cost and how many hours is it worth?
Truth!!!
Truth 💯
Although, sometimes we buy things to save hours, too. I got a new mower and it's far more efficient than the one I got for free. The higher end paint and the 15 dollar Wooster cutting brushes help speed things up for me, too.
Higher quality tools get jobs done faster.
"I fear regret more than I fear Failure" - I just found your channel, thank you for being so inspiring!!
Yes, I love this quote. Powerful message.
Fear is:
False Evidence Appearing Real
99% will fail and will regret.
2 in 1 combo!
We read news in the media that doom and gloom is coming and we just accept it, doom and gloom doesn’t always have to be coming, I’ve read numerous success stories of people that are pulling off tremendous gains of up to $250K within weeks in this crazy market and I just want to learn how to achieve such figures.
Since the crash, I've been in the red. I’m playing the long term game, so I'm not too worried but Jim Cramer mentioned there are still a lot of great opportunities, though stocks has been down a lot. I also heard news of a guy that made $250k from about $110k since the crash and I would really look to know how to go about this.
There are actually a lot of ways to make high yields in a crisis, but such trades are best done under the supervision of Financial advisor.
Exactly why i enjoy market decisions being guided by a pro , seeing that their entire skillset is built around going long and short at the same time both employing risk management and market experience , been using a portfolio-coach for over 2years+ and I've netted over $3million in that time frame.
Impressive can you share more info?
Credits to 'Carol Vivian Constable' she has a web presence, so you can simply
It was your boss's error to find himself in the situation that he couldn't even let his associate visit a dying relative. What a failure as a lawyer, as a boss. What a failure as a human being.
But there are people that don't say no to this abusive behavior either. I am glad she did.
Yucky boss leave asap
Just proves the point that lawyers are bottom feeding lowlifes and they eat their young.
This is the only way of life that her boss knows. It's what he was taught by his bosses. He is only a cog in the machine, just like she was.
I wonder if she could have hired a paralegal to handle it?
The whole point of making money is to have freedom to do what you want in life. If you have to work every waking hour until the grave, it completely defeats the purpose.
💯💯💯
TRUE
Couldn't agree more
I worked for 2 Big 5 accountancy companies 20+ years ago as a tax lawyer. In short: horrible experience! 3 out of 5 of my room mates were burned out or were on medical leave and I remember saying goodbye to someone leaving the company almost on a weekly basis. Toxic, horrible work environment. But when you are young (20's/ 30's) you think that you have to "sell" yourself to get ahead, which is not true at all. Currently, I have my own small law firm. I help people, and I am appreciated. And I make enough money to buy my first home.
If more people realized this than those caught up in chasing their next elitist fix, the whole world would be a much better place.
whoa...can we chat? I just left big 4/tax law life. I'm happy to hear there is life after hell.
Good on you, this is what my partner is pursuing as a lawyer - to be in a position to help people who need it.
Sorry to hear about your grandfather. I’m sorry you missed those last hours. Thank you for sharing such a personal story. It was very brave of you to be so authentic and real. You learned a powerful life lesson. You are more powerful than the people you left behind trapped and dying in their gilded corporate prison. I hope the money is truly worth it for them. You have saved your soul and the best years of your life while you’re still young. You kept to your values. I believe your grandfather would be so proud of you today. I wish you the very best in life.
"I fear regret more than I fear failure".
As an aspiring artist these words hit hard. Thanks for the video! Liked and subbed :)
“No amount of money, ever bought a second of time” - Howard Stark
I quit a highly coveted job when I was 40, I’m 56 now and never regretted my decision. If I die tomorrow, I would be proud that I chose to have less money and more time to help others in the most meaningful way to me. So happy you made the choice and that you posted this VDO. ❤ from 🇹🇭
This is one of the most inspirational stories I've heard. You're helping people just by doing this video.
Her story is another example of why I hate when people say rich and successful people "just got lucky."
The words that changed my life direction were "Money is the drug they give you to forget your dreams". That hit me like a gut punch and motivated me to start my own business.
I love this 💕I wish you nothing but success.
This was one of changing quotes in my life too
@@mckell38 should be *salary :)
@@WanderlustingCouple yes and salary to follow lifestyle. Thanks for your advice im useing help like yours to plan and start a auto restortion business 👍
@@mckell38 All the best to you, Cheers!!! :)
I quit at 35 so I can spend more time with my husband, create memories, and focus on health. The day we paid off our house and became debt free that was it. You dont need millions to retire, invest but also focus on the now, because we dont know how much time we have. :)
That’s inspiring. Thanks. Advice on paying down a home?
@@Isabella-wo9bg yes, without IRAs we need 1700 to live comfortably here in the Midwest, we started going out to eat 1-2 times a weeks as a treat, we fund2 IRAs.. everything else is for whatever, possible bathroom renovation and may be going to the beach once a year, our son is 16 so we want to help him out with school as well
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I like this. Another way to retire w/o being an entrepreneur 👍
💯 debt and material things weigh you down and rob you of freedom
Investing in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment.
Big moving stochastics are not the secret to high returns. It involves controlling risk in relation to reward. Putting on the proper size and spinning your edge as many times as required to achieve your objective. That is valid for both day trading and long-term investments......
@@AstaKristjan I've been able to scale from $50K to $189k in this red season because my Financial Advisor figured out Defensive strategies which help portfolios be less vulnerable to market downturns.
@@IrenaDolinsek Who is your financial coach, do you mind hooking me up?
@@simonbad I happen to know Michelle Christine Parker, She has been my fin coach since 2018, no major losses has been recorded. Totally recommend her too.
@@IrenaDolinsek Oh found her! Looked up her full name and she was my top search. Thank you for this! Really appreciate.
Your grampa would be so proud of you and how much you're positively impacting a lot of people in need!! You have no idea how much this video touched me. I needed to hear this kind of message today. Thank you !
.when I decided to go to college I decided to stay local for my grandparents (they raised me). I passed on Berkeley because it was too far from me. I was a low income student and my grandparents didn’t speak english. On my second year of college grandma had a heart attack and we managed to help her. She had a slip next year and broke her hip and I was able to help her there as well. I took a job as a teacher for stability and soon after my grandpa had a stroke. I was able to help him as well. I will never regret staying close to them because it bought me more time with them. At the end of the day, no matter how much I was able to help them, it pales in comparison to the life they gave me. I needed them more than they ever needed me. Thank you for sharing your story!
Thank you for sharing yours! I’m so happy for you and I’m sure your grandparents are very proud ❤️
Almost cried. This is beautiful.
WOW! Totally respect you!
This made me cry! Albert, you are an awesome grandchild. I am sure your grandparents are proud of you. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thanks for sharing your story. So moving and wonderful grandchild you are.
I cried watching this. Biglaw shed off years of my health and I still shudder at the thought of how soul crushing that toxic environment is. Thank you for sharing your story and congratulations for taking back your time and your life.
I'm sorry for making you cry :( It sounds like you've taken your life back in your hands now. I'm proud of you!
Amen. What are you doing now?
Soul crushing.
Perfectly said!
Lesson number one. NEVER work for corporations..
Such a great message! Love the video.
Hi. I'm a 58-year old man who has been working everyday for the last 15 years. And this video has opened my eyes. I don't want to have regret. Thank you for so much for sharing your story. You can add another one to the thousand you have helped. You are so strong and amazing. Thank you so much
Erika, Great story. I also have a son who was in Big Law in DC. I was very proud of him when he landed this big law job but I am even more proud of him when he had the courage to walk away from a multi 6 figure salary to follow his passion. I know that most immigrant Asian parents push their kids to succeed at all cost but as an immigrant parent myself I can say that there is nothing more important than health and happiness for your kids.
“We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one.” - Confucius
Stay Based
❤️!!!
Deep!! I love it
Read this daily.
Wow!!!!!!!!
This is SO true. Thanks for sharing
For those of us in the legal world, this woman is a gem. Seriously. It's hard to explain what's she's been through without seeing it first hand, but this woman has worked countless hours to achieve a dream then had the balls to quit that job and pursue her own path. May her Grandfather Rest in Peace, I'm sure he's proud of her. And may she live in regret no longer.
My grandmother passed away and I missed out on the last few hours with her because of work... I empathize so much. Thank you for having the courage to share this. It helps me with my regret too. Your story is priceless to me 💞
You said it perfectly :as a lawyer who has been lucky enough to work laterally from the profession I can so appreciate this lady's sentiments. Lawyers tragically are slaves not to money but to status. Just tell any fellow lawyer 'if I had a chance to work for double the. Money as a bin man I would happily do so and watch their face'. I deploy this statement and instantly discover so much. The longer one stays in lawyer the more disappointed and regretful kindred spirits one meets.
A Quarter of a MILLION DOLLARS in a YEAR!!! Shut the FU@% up! When was the last time you gave your Maid a raise and tipped tour Barista!? Cry me a River! 60% of Americans live on $50k a Year! 50% under 30k! Get over yourselves!
Folks, it's an elitist attitude to think that only lawyers trade their time for money. That has become the "American dream" - the small business owner is rare. The majority of us work for corporations where we're just a number and if we don't like the 'abuse' well, don't let the door hit you in the a** on your way out.
@@timothyoherlihy5391 Folks, it's an elitist attitude to think that only lawyers trade their time for money. That has become the "American dream" - the small business owner is rare. The majority of us work for corporations where we're just a number and if we don't like the 'abuse' well, don't let the door hit you in the a** on your way out.
You are absolutely correct for walking away. When we sign on to our high paying jobs, we work for blood money. Our freedom to do what we want to do, what we need to do for our souls is more important than the money we make realizing someone else's bidding.
Your boss wasn't worth knowing. At least you figured this out young, I'm sure your grandpa would be proud.
“If you don’t build your dreams then someone else will hire you to build theirs.”
Such an important message and delivered so authentically. Got a bit emotional watching this - I'm sure your grandpa is super proud of the bold actions you've taken and I'm very happy for you. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏
It’s never enough and it is never appreciated. The loyalty is not reciprocated. I’ve heard the saying that if you are not building your dream that you are building someone else’s. True. Pace yourself. Save some of that time and energy for your own pursuits and building your own financial freedom. Erika is a gem and her message is so true!
Probably one of the best personal positioning statements I've ever seen. Way to speak your truth with courage, integrity, and honor, Erika. I have no doubt your Grandpa is extremely proud of you.
Thank you so much for publishing this video! There’s nothing worse than being controlled. Feeling like someone else owns your time is a horrible feeling when you simply need an inch
You're the best!!
I agree. I really enjoyed this video.
Tell me about it I just started working at a bank and it’s sucks I’m basically babysitting rich peoples money
Dude, she is a attorney. More or less she has more options. Don’t have this attitude if you are not in this caliber, you will be hungry and jobless.
@@BabyGirlRavenHahahaha this is so true @melissa
Thank you for sharing this personal story. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Your perspective on labor is refreshing. As broke as I am, I always put myself and family before corps I work for, and people call me "spoiled" or "lazy" for it, but stories like this let me know that I'm making the right decision. Your channel is so empowering and valuable. Thank you!
Thank you Erika. You are already helping people like myself by sharing this testament. We're told that there is a certain way to live life and be successful, but at what cost? It's refreshing to hear the way you speak about challenges in the world. Keep up the great work. It's very inspiring and practical.
"I fear regret more than I fear failure" - this is the true path to finding fulfilment. Success is inevitable if you keep working and learning from your failures. But lost time is lost forever.
You are so brave and inspiring! Wish you the very best ❤️
Well said! Thank you so much!
Not really you shouldn't fear anything since you should act so you don't leave regrets and failure is just a process to success no one can achieve success without failures along the way but no one talks about the failures usually only the achievements and success. That is why having your own job is the best, since working for someone means they own you for that amount of time to do a certain task. In reality we haven't changed from the slave system, it is a system with make up so people can't tell they are just slaves to it.
Regret is an awful thing
Money can be replaced. Time with your family/relative/friends can never be replaced.
👏👏👏🙏🙌👍
But all my friends are dead.
@@undeadblizzard Make new ones!
Money can also buy you more time with friends/family!
Erika, you’re an inspiration for everyone, and I’m so sorry to hear about the situation that happened with your Grandfather. Thank you for sharing your story!!
I'm suree you're grandpa would be sooo proud of you. I'm proud of you, you are soo brave to realize and confront what you want out of life. most people don't do that. You're actually making an impact and helping people thats amazing !! keep going. sending you lots of love.
I worked at Microsoft and was on call when my father passed away back home .. I can feel your pain and lover your why
I'm so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry!!! I feel your pain. 😭
*”Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is to relax.”*
-Mark Black
❤️
Amen
yep, that's when i do all of my best thinking!
Absolutely!
I love your story Erika and your message. I came from nothing and now I’m a doctor and own assets. A lot of my colleagues work for private companies or work abroad for lots more money. I choose to work in the NHS and serve the community. Be your why and stay human ❤
I found this video in a roundabout way, just as I was questioning my decision to take a promotion for a job I don't even like. I felt a lot of pressure to accept because it was "the next logical step" and now I'm miserable. No amount of money makes up for being too busy to enjoy life. You've given me a lot to think about and reflect on. Can't wait to see more.
$250k sounded like a large annual salary, until you said that it meant 100+ hours per week.
I felt the same way. Even Working for 40 hrs a week for $60k used to make me feel trapped.
...100+ hrs a week??? Hell no...omfg!!! so most all of that 250k is ot money.
Not to mention the government takes about 65-75% of that in income tax and social security
@@mg-by7uu 65% is ridiculously exaggerating
Ahh thats the catch. Wow. If 40-50 hrs, thatd be better.
This resonates with me and my experience in medicine. I went to medical school in my 30's, didn't come from a well off background, and worked extremely hard to become a doctor because I wanted to help people. I graduated during the pandemic, and believe it or not I found myself feeling morally drained and that clear vision of helping people in the way I envisioned became so much murkier. I am not sure what I want to do with my career at this point. I really appreciate you sharing your story, thank you!
I wonder how many people spend years and a ton of debt to get into a profession....only to question what they actually got into. It's sad. But how can you prevent it?
Hang in there. We need you.
@@johncollado3610 Thank you!
Congratulations! And all the best, hang in there!
come to the UK & work in the NHS. I am serious. pick an area and ring the local hospital. I don't know what training is involved but they'd be able to tell you....
Thank you Erika😘🤗 Love and hugs.
Please don't ever delete this video. I am sending this video to my teenager who needs to know upfront so they can prioritize what is important in life before it gets too late. I salute your courage to create this video🙋👮♀️
Wishing you the very best in all your future endeavors 👍🌹❤️
This brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful message. Thank you, Erika.
Me too.😢 I needed this encouragement. Thanks Erika.😊
"Regret implies you had the opportunity to do something differently but you choose not to." That really resonates. Congratulations on getting your priorities straight, and more importantly finding the courage to believe in yourself. Nice video!
No matter what we do, we will regret not doing the other thing and taking the alternate path.
Think carefully before we make a serious decision and find peace in the decision we have made
Originally came across this video earlier in the year when I (Em) was thinking about when I should quit my Big Law job. I found it extremely reassuring to hear you talk about issues like complacency and the pressure of doing what society wants you to do, all of which had been weighing on my mind. But what resonated with me the most was hearing you talk about fearing regret more than fearing failure - when you said that, I think that was the first time I consciously realized that I also felt that way. It helped give me the courage to finally quit my Big Law job to pursue something I'm more passionate about, and now that I'm out, I had to come back and comment to say thank you for sharing your story!!
Congratulations Em! I'm so proud of you and I'm sure you won't regret your decision.
@@Erika2 Thanks so much Erika, that means a lot! I'm sure I won't regret my decision either :)
We work for years to have , $1million while some people I know put thousand of dollars in some meme coins and they are millionaires.
I always wanted to trade crypto for a long time but the volatility in the price has been very confusing to me although I have watched many UA-cam videos about it but I still find it hard to understand.
How? I know it's possible, I would appreciate if you show me how to go about it
@@alexlees8697 .First understanding the financial markets and how it works then you need to know how to study the market chart. That's all you stand to when you start trade with a Mentor
I've been making passive income monthly from crypto for over a year but I prefer trading with the Help of Mentor or guide because it saves me time and reduces the risk of loosing.
@@WalterNRoark .Big pump's to you what a step you took. Please any recommendation from you! Need to start somewhere.
Erika, I thank You for all the valuable videos! I began investing at the age of 35, primarily utilizing my hard work, dedication and with the assistance of my financial advisor, Christy Val D'souza. Now at the age of 48, I am delighted to say that my retirement income has grown enough to take me through my later days in life. So don't hesitate to take action when you can. Remember, it's not about achieving wealth quickly, but rather about building wealth consistently and persistently.
That is exactly my point, you need the assistance of a professional in whatever investment you want to embark on. For me it is a lot safer that way.
Yes, just as I said, *CHRISTY VALLEN D'SOUZA* is the best stockbroker, investment portfolio manager and financial advisor I know. This is because I have tested her services firsthand. She has never failed me or anyone I recommended to her. She is very trustworthy.
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@@liamcarter5241 no risk no reward❤
Nobody on their death bed ever said "I wish I just could've got in a few more billable hours"
I quit my job 8 years ago. I come to the conclusion that time is very valuable and we don’t have a lot of it. I have friends that has a bit of a superior complex because they went to the traditional route. They went to college and got multiple degrees and work for corporate America. They are so proud about bringing work home that they post about it. Lol! My husband and I went the non traditional route. No college. But I we are so happy with multiple stream of income/ passive income. I get to stay home and raise our kids. My husband only works 20-30 hours a week. We have the freedom of time to go out and enjoy nature and the world. We try to see as many states and country as possible.
May I ask what kind of passive income you have?
How do you get money to survive?
Inquiring minds would like to know how
Guess we're just gonna be left hanging on what they do 😂
@@Victoria-eo1xp fr
Really incredible story. Same things happened to me when I started my career in NYC. I missed the last chance with my grandfather due to work and I’ll regret it forever. Like you, I learned the lesson early and never let a company own me again. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing Erika 🙏😇
It is very brave of you to share your heartbreak of losing your grandfather without being able to say goodbye 💔 And like others are saying on here, perhaps that’s what it took to save your life ❤️🩹 God works in mysterious ways ✝️
I know your grandfather is proud of you. You’re a true asset to society. Your videos are sooo informative, helpful and really fun! I love watching them 💖
Now that you’re on your own path and not working for those soul-less monsters anymore, you’re servicing people who actually appreciate you! 🤗 you are a gift 💝
Thank you for educating us with your wisdom, sharing your truth and inspiring others to assess what truly matters in this world 🌎 we love you!!! ❤️❤️
Worker: Your car is beautiful.
Boss: If you're determined and work hard for 5 years, I will buy me another one.
Sooo true!
it's all illusion. if i can't happily earn enough to buy a beautiful car, then that beautiful is not worth my happiness. i can only work pass 60 hours a week on condition that my work is part of my happiness.
Bitter truth
YOU, will buy me another one.
Hilarious….
This description of Biglaw is absolutely uncanny. It is not only the norm that you will sacrifice your own health and relationships in order to clock as many billables as possible, it is the expectation. There is no such thing as a family emergency, a holiday, a vacation, or a weekend. There are certainly outliers who are willing to make those sacrifices or manage to end up on a unicorn team, but I have yet to meet a lawyer who regretted quitting their Biglaw job. Best night of sleep I ever got was right after I put in my two weeks' notice.
Great work, Erika!
Thank you Blake!
I’ve loved you from day 1 but seeing this video just made me love you sooo much more. Thanks for sharing your story and being so authentic and care for the greater goods. You amazing ❤
Wow! I’m so proud of you for figuring this out at such a young age when most people barely have the strength to make bold decisions like this in their 50s!
You were brave to stay strong and listen to your instincts despite all the criticism from “colleagues”
Who is laughing now?? Lol you GO girl! We appreciate you!
Your grandpa is looking down on you smiling and proud of who you've become.
true
How he can look at her when he is dead
AMEN!!!
this comment had me crying a min :)
I am not a lawyer, but a doctor. I see this in my profession all the time, too. Somehow hard work and long hours are truly glamorized, you're totally right. I only took one week off of work when my youngest daughter was born--simply to prove I was as hardworking and tough as the men I worked with. I "quit" shortly after. I now work less than 30 hours a week in my own private practice. Much less pay for MUCH MORE FREEDOM and HAPPINESS! Thanks for this video.
Hi Amy, thank you so much for sharing! I'm so sorry to hear this but happy that you have your own practice now - congratulations! It's true. I can't remember if I mentioned it in the video, but I think a lot of the pressure I put on myself was to prove that I was equal to the men.
Hi Amy! I am interested in pursuing a career in medicine. May I ask what specialty you are in?
@@deutercoyg I’m board certified in anesthesia, but I now practice lifestyle medicine specializing in hormones and sexual health.
@@amygarza1571 sorry to hijack this convo but I also have a question. I am thinking about med school as well and anesthesia was something of interest. Would you recommend it?
@@amygarza1571 Really inspiring Amy. How long were you a practicing doctor before you started your own practice?
Thank-you for sharing. Having worked at a big law firm, I have witnessed the reality. I wasn't a lawyer, but saw and heard how life was. There's always going to be a fear of giving up on all you have worked for and that salary... that said, the possible regret of not trying something else and looking back knowing you never tried, well, that is a whole lot worse! Keep doing what you are doing and great video Erika 🥰
Thanks so much for sharing your story. It reminds me of my experience in law firm life. I, too, came out of law school making six figures at 26 and it was a big accomplishment considering that my parents, who were not college educated, immigrated to this country with three young children and several thousand dollars in their pockets. My moment came in year 4 when a partner came into my office, slammed the door, and proceeded to yell at me, dropping f-bombs because of a mistake I made. I wished I was brave enough to tell him that they didn't pay me enough for him to talk to me that way. But shortly thereafter, I decided firm life was no longer for me and I gave notice without another job lined up. A few days before I was supposed to leave, that partner asked me where I was going and when I said "nowhere," he asked if I would stay longer because it was very busy. I wish I could have captured the look on his face when I said "no."
I just quit my job. They announced it to my team today too. Feels unbelievable. Freedom. Weight off my shoulders like no other
It feels great the first week... Not so much later.
How are you doing?
He is probably bored depressed and hating that he quit.
@@msnzbody3712 bad mindset
@@msnzbody3712 bad mindset
Please don’t delete this video! I think this message is something people hear a lot but can’t hear enough. No B-rolls or over-use of fancy typography to keep your audience visually entertained - just a simple face-to-face message with your moving story because the topic matter is so relevant to so many people that a sit down is all it needed.
P.S. I’m sorry to hear about your loss and regret. It’s heartbreaking to hear how your boss (likely being puppeteered by his own boss) handled the situation knowing damn well that if he were on his deathbed, he’d want his family to visit. I hope you find peace in what you’re doing now and what a great way to honor your grandpa’s memory ❤️
You perfectly exemplify the wisdom of letting go and focusing on what's important in life. More power to you to be able to do that early on so you can do more for yourself, your health, and your family.
Jessica, I'm very happy you made this video post. You are right on target and I love the fact that you are seeking to fulfil your passion. Good luck to you and keep up the good work.
“20 years from now you’ll be disappointed by the things you didn’t do than the ones you did do” - Mark Twain.
The quote made me decide to pursue financial freedom.
“I fear regret more that failure” wow. I felt this so deeply. That line alone answers how I’ve been feeling about “living my life” without the guilt of not being too accessible and forgetting me.
So proud of you Erica! Your so smart and brave, you have a huge heart and I am so happy for you that things are going so well. Your parents have to be so proud of you too!
I went through something similar, and now that my kids are all grown I see how much of their young lives I missed and how much the money really didn’t matter. Thanks for sharing
Your grandpa would be so proud! You're inspiring people like me to quit our jobs and satisfy that hunger to use our skills and knowledge to support others and their dreams. 💛
Umm she could’ve actually quit and not been a baby and seen her grandpa
Sooooooo
He'd be proud that she didn't say no to her boss so that she could come spend the last hours of his life with him? No I don't think so in fact I think that this young woman is terrible and has terrible morals and that her misplaced loyalty to her job instead of her dying relative is one of the worst things I've ever heard
@@trinitywright7122 her grandfather would be super proud of her accomplishments, because if he can see her right now, she is what every parent would like to see in there children. She is smart, strong and overall very self centered in what she needs to donin her life. If i was her father i would applaud her all the way, and tell her she did an amazing job. You became better than me and that what it is all anout being better thAn your parents not like your parents. “Everything has a sacrifice in life for you to be able to conquer what the future holds for you.” Fear is your biggest enemy, if she would have stopped and turned the other way she would have seen her grandfather and lost her opportunity of a lifetime and her grandfather still would have passed away. I believe her grandfather would be really lroud of her. Im proud of her, and i dint even know her 🤷🏻♂️.
Grace. We all get to give ourselves grace. There are learning moments in life where we do something that we realize afterward didn’t work. This is how we grow. Thank you Erika for the courage you had in sharing your story with us. 💕
Quitting sometimes leads one to a much higher level. Just like when I quit my high paying position in order to take care of my mother who was hospitalized and was put into ICU. Guess what, when she was discharged and has fully recovered we were able to improve our family business and I was able to do multiple side hustles that enabled me to earn more than the job which I left.
How many more hours did you put in to the side hustles?
They keyword is "sometimes". There are no guarantees that simply going for it will lead to success. Afterall, there are many unsuccessful businesses. However, if you think you can fly, then there is a possibility that you can, so you owe it to yourself to at least try. If you fail, pat yourself on the back and acknowledge the fact that you got further than most people, because most people aren't willing to try due to the fear of failure.
Thank you for sharing! ☺
This video is a great lesson for everyone and an outstanding message that we should all take the time to listen to on a recurring basis. I love the confidence that the author has in her own potential. Very inspiring.
Absolutely amazing. You actually took that step of faith that most will never take. Yes, you're right, it's the fear of what people will say or think of us that prevents us from reaching our true potential. I applaud you. You are serving others instead of yourself. I feel very encouraged and motivated. Thank you
I was working on a project once and a team member of ours commuted in weekly from another city. His young son got really sick and was hospitalized. He asked his boss if he could fly back home and work from home so he could be close to his son... Our boss said to him "Is he really that sick?" and did not allow him to go home...
That's when you need to contemplate and start making life changing decisions.
Look what your grandpa did for you. He loved you and believed in you so much that his spirit catapulted you to become the real you! Beautiful.
That is the same thing I thought... he liberated her before he transitioned.
I felt the same way. 😭
Love this story. The insane thing about what your boss said to you is that what they pay you is pittance compared to what they make off of you. The markup on hours for lawyers and accountants at these big firms is gross. If you haven’t found already, I can guarantee by stepping out on your own you’ll make more than you ever did working for someone.
I commented a couple minutes before the end. But, yup, you massively surpassed what you were doing before. Wishing you the most success.
So proud of you! I wish i had your guts to do what I needed to do. But I’m working on it. Thanks for being the voice to affirm what I believed in.🙏
Impossible lesson to convey
Must be experienced
I work in the medical field. I feel your pain. This is what I learned. If you don't chase your dreams, someone else will use you to chase theirs. I am so sorry about your lost. Wishing you the best
Thank you for sharing! I love that - "If you don't chase your dreams, someone else will use you to chase theirs."
So true 🙌🏽
I wish I knew what my dream was.
@@apeacefulmcadory1627 this is real thing that no one talks about
Totally agree! I came to that same revelation &: quit working after retirement. I realized I was helping others to retire instead of following my dreams.
You have so much integrity and should be so proud. My father is a real estate lawyer and my 2 1/2 siblings are corporate lawyers. They seem to have skewed priorities. ❤ to you and blessings of prosperity and feeling fulfilled, always!
Thanks for sharing your story. It is very motivational but I'm really sorry that you missed saying goodbye to your grandpa. But I'm sure he would be so proud of you now.
I've wanted to start my own thing for a long time and it's fear and golden handcuffs in between my dreams. This was a little push, thank you 🎉
We become “golden handcuffed” is the most useful expression I heard this year. Thank you, Erika, you’re absolutely right.
Your grandpa would be proud that you learned this lesson and now have a fulfilled life. ❤
For years I needed this!!
Mahalo Nui Erika.
I pray blessings over you and your Ohana and everyone else who is watching this video and changing their life today!
Keep it coming E!
Thank you. I've gotten to the point in my life where my time means more to me then the money. The last couple summers I only work 4 days a week and im working on extending that for the whole year.
Whenever I feel guilty about being off from work I tell myself this "No one ever lies on their death bed and says "Gee I wish I worked more!"
Me to!
Thank you for this
My wife would she's a workaholic lol
lol right
@@tonyasanders6927 to where?
It took me 40 years to realize these things. But, it's better late than never! As a dad, though....your dad is going to be proud of you no matter what you do. When we're young, we worry about what others thinks, but now I'm older and a dad, i don't care what anyone thinks. It really has freed me from so much and allowed me to grow personally and financially.
Agreed😊
I love your bravery and ability to stand up for what you truly believe in and your honesty to let the world know what's important in life. Your GransFather has pride for you even though you may not see him, he knows what you've accomplished!!! Thank you and abundant blessings wished for you always!!
Thank you Erika, I needed to hear this to make the decision of dropping my corporate job and follow my dreams. Congrats on making an impact
incredible story and i’m very happy i watched this. i know i’m late but i hope you’re doing well
You're right on time.
changa!!! i see you
I’m a consultant and I flat out refuse to work beyond my hours without compensation. This or the highway.
I completely agree with you, what is your specialty?
@@Love-zh5ow influencer
Wow! This has never been my reality.
@@praveensg what kind of influencer?
How do you get people to pay you on time? I want to do a consulting job but I'm not sure were to start
Loved the video. Glad you took a stand and have good priorities. My experience is in healthcare and I would say time is not the most valuable resource. Being in “good health” is our most valuable resource. Many people are living with chronic illnesses like obesity and diabetes and still live “relatively” long lives but are miserable. I love watching UA-cam videos with people who lose a lot of unhealthy weight and say things like, “I didn’t know life could feel this good” and “I’m not out of breath after climbing a flight of stairs”. Those videos help reinforce the concept of (quality of life years). Sadly, too many people don’t understand or were next taught this and are now a slave in their own bodies. Glad you got out of that rest race and are focusing on truly helping others in a more personal level.
This is an important offering. You traded an impressive paycheck for a life of purpose and meaning. I think that your grandfather would be proud that you have the courage to live your values. Thanks for your inspiring message.
“I fear regret more then I fear failure”💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Facts 💯
Yes
From being unemployed to actually deciding not to take a 9-5 job, it has been more than a year now, I have never learnt so fast in life, the motivation is real. my body has never felt better
If you don't mind sir, what are you doing now?
@@volarex5311 hes homeless. jk
Lmao
I am now trading futures and stocks at home, at the same time, I am also a freelance PR consultant for different companies.
@@user-wi8vs4de9y what's trading futures?
A 100 hours a week is not a 250K a year job. Effectively you're making the same as a UPS worker. When you calculate the actual hourly rate you're working, it hits home.
😂😂😂 it IS a 250k a year job! It may not be that great but doesn't mean she's not making that per year. Also that would be about $48 an hour. UPS drivers make about $15 an hour.
@@SherrieHatch07 my metric is what do you earn for 40 hours a week. Overtime should not be included.
@@deejames9380 😵💫
Congratulations, Erika! That is some serious courage to walk away, and stop worrying about societal pressures. I consider myself extremely fortunate to be at the job I'm currently at. It may not be prestigious, and doesn't pay a lot, but it pays enough to cover the necessities of my simple lifestyle that still allows me to build a small savings. It's stable with benefits & retirement, but it allows me a lot of freedom & fulfillment without any stress. Though I feel the societal pressures concerning job titles, and material wealth at times, I still consider myself extremely fortunate that I'm not too concerned how other ppl see me. I admit, I used to be materialistic. But now that I've been set free of that mindset, the quality of my life has grown exponentially. Best wishes on Your endeavors!
You came up on my “Recommended” youtube search, I watched this video, and tears began to fall watching your video. I am not smart like you , but I understand coming from nothing and I’m still there, but I have hope that as I study and learn from you as well as others... I will make it. Thank you for sharing your “Why” to me💪🏾☝🏾👏🏾🙏🏾
I wanted to thank you for your comment. This made my day to read and I'm so happy that you could relate. I'm wishing you the very best in everything you do!
I'm a corporate lawyer and I've been planning to quit my job in a few weeks to do UA-cam full-time! Thanks SO much for being courageous in sharing your story and helping me realize that I'm not alone :) Congrats on remembering your "why" and building a life you're proud of!
I believe in you!
@@tristanshaffer4151 your timing is impeccable. Can't thank you enough for this right now, Tristan! ☺️
Yes! Happy you’re listening to your heart’s desires! The universe is with you no matter what! ❤️🍀😎☀️
@@ettab.7838 Thanks Etta!!! ☺️ I'm so grateful for your kindness and for the number of signs I'm receiving from the Universe telling me to do this 🥰 You're a wonderful person and I wish you so much happiness and fulfillment! 🙌 Whatever you're going through, you got this! 😎
Goodluck on your journey. I am going to sub.
Don’t regret what you could’ve done or should’ve said and don’t care what people think. You know what you did and that it was a good thing for you and that’s all that matters. Great video thanks!👍
Just when I started to think the whole world has gone mad, your story restored my faith in humanity.
Your story is very inspirational.
Thank you for sharing it & yes, your Grandfather would be proud of who you've become.
I know this video is a bit older but I am very sorry to hear this about your grandpa. I was once unable to take my kids to their great grandpa’s funeral because I was not allowed to leave work. I only made $15 an hour at that job but I had 3 kids to provide for 😞 I wish I could have left at that moment