Still healing from my last relationship..

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  • Опубліковано 18 лис 2024

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  • @raoulduke6705
    @raoulduke6705 2 місяці тому +29

    I feel like this podcast is a good example of the toxicity of some of the ideas you follow. If somebody is the victim of abuse in a relationship, it is certainly not his/her fault. Victim blaming and being apologetic about abuse is, however, the logical conclusion of what you call the "Bashar formula". There is some merit to following your excitement but trying to explain the world with this simplistic formula will inevitably fail and is, at times, dangerous for yourself and people around you.
    As you will just dismiss this comment as hate, don't bother replying.

  • @sissy1764
    @sissy1764 2 місяці тому +6

    I am 3,5 years single now after my 8,5 years unhealthy relationship. Real healing incl. your own unhealthy habits needs time. But of course you can heal and learn from your Partners but they will mirror your unhealthy Habits until you solve it for yourself.

  • @annika_at_heart
    @annika_at_heart 2 місяці тому +32

    Sorry don’t take it the wrong way, but this is like listening to a child in the fog. Feeling nostalgia for the old times is just a process of getting older. It’s natural to look back with a smile when we think of the times where we enjoyed our life. If you jump to another relationship, not having to properly heal from the previous one it’s called a rebound. Using all the esoteric wisdom will not make it better. You shouldn’t get together with Faye, and she probably knows that, but maybe she also needs to take something out of this situation. I know you will take it as an attack, but think of it as being ahead of time, or able to predict the future. There are patterns that can be traced, especially if you have already experienced something like this. You will never feel 100% awake or safe in your body, because life is a spiral, not a straight line. You over-analyze things that should have been felt and let go. You cannot take someone’s karma, you can only delay him/her from learning a lesson. You have still a long way to go, but as soon as you stop focusing so much on yourself and start doing things from a heart center you can maybe avoid some of your karmic lessons. 🙌🏻🌀💫

    • @pvelsda
      @pvelsda 2 місяці тому +6

      From all the comments Ferdi receives, yours are the most insidious. A man shows his heart like this and, as woman with heart in your name, your response is to preach and subtly tear him down? To call him a child in the fog? And use him as a bucket for your contorted projections, disguised as teachings? Or to dismiss him altogether. All while saying “don’t take it the wrong way”??? He is the middle of an important journey. Leave him be. Direct your need to preach and teach into something healthy. Every comment I see from you holds this same energy. Do better. At least others are more honest in their intention for cruelty. And their intentions of making themselves feel better or more important by bringing him down.

    • @annika_at_heart
      @annika_at_heart 2 місяці тому +6

      @@pvelsda Hi Pavel, you must be his attorney? I have to look back and see what I commented exactly, but I can reassure you it’s all authentic and in the moment. So if a man shows his heart, I should also be allowed to respond wholeheartedly to what I read in between the lines. You shouldn’t focus too much on the words, but more on the energy, subliminal messages and the eyes. Do you think people who are publicly sharing on their social platforms don’t have any hidden agenda? It’s time to wake up, especially that we are in a very revealing times. Anyone who’s gone through any spiritual journey knows it’s a lonely path and often very misunderstood. When you are authentic, you are naturally going to be very polarizing. There will be people who will agree with you (you can see the likes under my comment) and people who will disagree, like yourself and others. Do you expect his comments to be full of love and light just because he is openly sharing something that may transform into something else next month? I’m sure he is happy there is still people who comment under his clickbait titles🙂 I am not being vulgar or aggressive, so maybe that is why you found it more triggering. This is how high frequency works, you either open to it, or it can trigger you. Don’t worry about Fredi, anyone who chooses to share his spiritual journey publicly is strong enough (vain enough) to take highs and lows. 💫

    • @pvelsda
      @pvelsda 2 місяці тому +2

      @@annika_at_heartThis was not an open invitation for you to try and teach me too. I do read between the lines and your comments are certainly not “high frequency”, as you say. They’re a need for importance masquerading as uninvited “teachings” without much real, tangible wisdom. As I mentioned, at least the more vulgar comments are more honest in their intentions to make themselves feel higher by putting down strangers on the internet.

    • @annika_at_heart
      @annika_at_heart Місяць тому +2

      ⁠@@pvelsdaso I sound like I am teaching, but he is not? 😂ok, that makes total sense😁He literally is upset that people don’t match his unique frequency and don’t support his chase for higher excitement( sex and cacao ceremonies) He reads the comments, pays for private sessions, so then he can go and recreate what other people told him, using other people’s words. That’s not an enlightenment, that’s copying. High frequency doesn’t necessarily mean “love and light”, because you respond to someone’s frequency not the words he say.

    • @pvelsda
      @pvelsda Місяць тому

      @@annika_at_heart I never said he wasn’t teaching, but this is *his* channel. His space. He’s just sharing what he’s learning, his journey, how it all applies to him. Now when it comes to you, you are a seemingly intelligent middle aged woman that is for some reason choosing to visit this young man’s channel, coming to his space, watching all his videos and using them as a space and opportunity to dump your misdirected teaching energy? That I’m guessing you don’t have a healthy channel for, so instead you bring it here and it therefore becomes unhealthy and honestly weird. Instead of teaching invited, you preach uninvited: instead of seeing clearly, you project: instead of guide from the heart, you put yourself above him: and put him down in the process.

  • @Intrud0r
    @Intrud0r 2 місяці тому +39

    Young, too much disposible money, a nice island, some drugs and this is what you get. A person that is permanently revolving around himself in the name of "highest excitement". An idea that he got from a guy who scams people by telling them that he can channel an alien named bashar. It is a bit tragic but also funny.

    • @ElmoChaves
      @ElmoChaves 2 місяці тому +6

      True and On point.

  • @carinaandrea5799
    @carinaandrea5799 2 місяці тому +20

    Puh this is what you get from rich boys, unemployed for years, no need to work etc...a narcissist. Everything is about himself, rearranging the apartment is yet too much for him 😅 pls do a real 9-5 work, it is better for everyone, but first of all for you

    • @AlGarcia41
      @AlGarcia41 Місяць тому +1

      All very true, but at least it is his money and not the government’s. She (B) hasn’t worked for more than 4 years. Instead, she leaches off the (US) government via pandemic “relief” payments - and got further subsidized (unfortunately) by Ferdi. They were “two peas in a pod”. It will be very interesting to see what happens with this new musician of hers. He doesn’t have the money (like Ferdi does) that she desperately craves - and needs - to continue her high standard of living without working.

  • @hammeranna1968
    @hammeranna1968 2 місяці тому +20

    „We are in ceremony“ - aha, another word for a situationship. I think you can talk yourself out of evervy responsibility 🤡

  • @Skaleezay
    @Skaleezay 2 місяці тому +19

    I bet u watch Britnees video's b4 making ur video's. Its like ur replying back to her. Like why even do this!?

    • @vegains
      @vegains  2 місяці тому +7

      As I’ve said in the podi I watch her podis and I share how I’m feeling. I don’t get what you’re saying. Maybe you are on a different planet and got lost. It’s ok, happens to the best

    • @badeboyse
      @badeboyse 2 місяці тому +2

      @@vegains 🪣

    • @Daramda
      @Daramda 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@vegains it is because you have similar titles, content etc. ....

    • @Skaleezay
      @Skaleezay 2 місяці тому +9

      @@vegains no dude. U know what ur doing. Just like the other person commented on this thread...ur using similar titles & content. If ur the one that broke up with her as u claim, then just stop bothering Brittnee & copying her content. U have a new girlfriend as u say, right? So that's it. U moved on apparently. Stop copying Brittnee's content, etc.

    • @mbrat357
      @mbrat357 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Skaleezay As if she was not mentioning him in her podcasts all the time too. Many had the impression that this was an abusive and manipulative relationship from her side... when such a relationship ends there is still a lot of emotional processing for the abused to do even when he is already in a new relationship.. especially then... when he wants the new relationship to work out well. He doesn´t copy her podcasts but he seems to listen to it and thjs works sometimes as an inspiration and sometimes as a trigger and as long as he shares from the heart this will show in his podcasts.

  • @Jdkdbxbd6272
    @Jdkdbxbd6272 2 місяці тому +13

    hey did u tell faye about ur narcisstic disorder?

    • @vegains
      @vegains  2 місяці тому +5

      She diagnosed me ua-cam.com/video/Cz7CUO1lg8c/v-deo.htmlsi=uGoXkpbF-GPQJv17 but please don’t tell my mommy. I wanna be a good boy

  • @fearlesslivemore222
    @fearlesslivemore222 2 місяці тому +6

    Yo Bro, this one was my Favorite Podcast.. amazing!!❤❤
    This is creative power.. 💪🙌👌💫
    I'm so Happy for you ,for all this great progress you have made!!🍀
    You shared a lot of wisdom!🎉
    Love you Bro!❤🍀

    • @vegains
      @vegains  2 місяці тому +3

      thank youuuu for seeing me 😇

  • @pvelsda
    @pvelsda 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you.

    • @vegains
      @vegains  2 місяці тому +1

      You’re welcome ☺️