Her mother denies being a drug addict
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- Опубліковано 5 тра 2022
- Erica and Jean say they are very concerned for their 76-year-old mother, Blanche, and they are giving her an ultimatum: choose fentanyl or the family. The sisters claim they had an abusive upbringing with Blanche and hold a lot of resentment toward her. They also say Blanche has an addictive personality with prescription drugs, food, and shopping. Erica says their mother takes too many medications, and they say they are worried that she will hurt someone else, as she has been in several car accidents. Blanche insists she isn’t an addict but is dependent on her medications, which is different. Blanche claims she has always been the outcast of her family and hopes they will finally hear her perspective with the help of Dr. Phil. (20115)
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I’m sorrry?! “Yeah I chocked her, I wanted her to stop crying and she wouldn’t” bruv!!!!! This women is pure evil
*choked, not chocked
And then right after that she says they had a good childhood because she took them skiing.
Obviously she was a mean. Non affectionate and abusive mother. That has nothing to do with her medical conditions and her meds. So what exactly are these daughters trying to do? Embarrass her or get even THEN call her an addict and give her ultimatum to get help? Lol I don’t think their motives are all nice!
@@firstnamekaty8830 English isn’t my first language but pop off I guess 🙃
Is nobody else worried about what she has done to her patients while she was a nurse.
this woman should be in jail
Wait ..what?! She strangled her daughter because she was crying?!?
And she is just emotionless and like "yep, I did that"
That's just...I can't even...
Yeah thank God they don't let her babysit the grandkids.
Pain meds make her emotionless
My mother was a active addict til she overdosed
Nobody can tell them anything. You can’t give them Ultimatums they will not chose you ever!!!
So sad
I know, right? I was horrified at the way she said it like it was no big deal. They should just stop trying to help her.....she is beyond toxic.
@@Deadlyaunty that's heartbreaking 😢
@@amberlytheharpyqueen very heartbreaking 💔
Man this is sad, the mother needs help and I hope her kids can heal from the trauma. I'm glad Dr. phil is helping them! If anyone can do it he can!
At 15. He send my husband and I to Provo Canyon School. We relasped and went back to Psychedelic drugs and we're addicted for 6 years. He made us look bad. We got death threats from people and we got beaten up constantly. We tried killing ourselves 3 times. Because he humiliated us. I never want to do anything with him. Except shut down Provo Canyon School and get his show canceled.
@@Aaronholland2000 Sorry, when you say "he," are you referring to Phil?
So she’s not in pain when she goes somewhere but when she has to do house 🏡 chores she’s all of sudden in pain.
She is probably always in pain.
It is priorities.
It’s when they are okay to go out and do what they please..but need everyone’s help to do their grocery shopping/take care of basic needs that it feels manipulative
These are totally different activities! I can tell you from personal experience.
She's evil and conniving how can someone does that to their own children
And who knows what she did to her patients when she was a nurse
She's dependent upon opioid painkillers. It's obvious. There's a difference between Addiction and Dependency. I'm 27 months sober from opioid painkillers.
Means there's a doctor involved. That maybe should be investigated
I feel like if you're dependent, then you're addicted... The drugs will change your brain chemistry either way
God Bless . Stay strong. One day at a time B Dizzle.
congrats, keep it up.
@@zoekay8612 they’re different because - and I’ll share my personal experience - there’s no psychological piece to it. I was on high doses of pain medication for six months due to a legitimate medical issue (drs missed something, and it was like a domino effect of issues from that mistake). When I had a surgery that finally ended up finally being what “fixed” the issue, I was SO much better but 1. Your pain tolerance is so low and you’ve taken so much for a long time that you feel you need more medication than you actually do to ease the pain (in my case, it was more surgical pain at that point and some residual stuff). The pain is very real and you’re not taking it for a high though. You’re so used to the medication and not even getting enough to feel anything - the goal is not to take away ALL pain, just make it tolerable/manageable.
2. When I did get put on a taper, my dr did it way too fast and I was sooooo sick. I didn’t even realize it was withdrawal, I figured because I used my medication properly, I wouldn’t have withdrawal and didn’t realize dependency was a thing. I was so sick for three weeks and finally got put BACK on the pain meds for a slower taper.
The difference between addiction and your body just being dependent, is that my dr gave me a prescription for opiates to taper from at home, and I didn’t once take more than necessary and strictly followed the taper and then I was totally fine! An addict wouldn’t be able to do that, and why people say it’s different. I never used more than I ever needed, it’s just that over time you build a tolerance and then need more, and your body will become dependent on it regardless, which is hard!
Her daughter's seem like wonderful people despite growing up with such an aggressive mother
He's totally wrong with the Evel Kenival thing. If she's been wearing a fent patch for 12 years she'll be EXTREMELY tolerant to it and she'll not have any high from it whatsoever.
Exactly
They should just be concerned about her driving and having a license. Take that away and let her do what she's going to do I guess.
Just because she's a bad mother/terrible person, it doesn't mean she's an addict and not in pain
That's why I don't take care of my mother. She never tried to be a mother, she always made sure to make me suffer.
I just want to add that just because someone is on pain medication, it doesn’t mean they are an addict!!
I have a debilitating connective tissue disease and seizure disorder; both have disabled me and cause extreme pain.
I have been on narcotic pain relievers since I was 20 years old (I’m 39 now) and they have SAVED MY LIFE.
I honestly wouldn’t be here today otherwise, because I would’ve taken my life due to the pain.
I am on the same dosage I was when I began taking them, and I have never taken an extra pill for “more relief” in the 20 years I’ve been on them.
They do not “get me high” they allow me to function as a semi-normal human being; for me, it is no different than taking blood pressure meds or insulin for diabetes.
We desperately need to break the stigma, because I know for a fact there are MANY people just like me out there; we need pain meds to survive, but it does not define us!
I’m sick and tired of all those that abuse pain meds. Why? Because of people wanting to get stoned, life has been hellish for those with chronic pain or serious/terminal illnesses. If she’s got a patch on, she’s seeing a Pain Management specialist. The laws are STIFF. She has to have a condition. Plus one stops being high as the body adjusts. It just helps with the pain/illness.
This is the one thing I completely DISAGREE with that Dr Phil pushes. The laws are much stiffer than in the 90s.
I think judging her for going out to eat is disgusting. The meds help her so that she isn’t doubled over stuck in her house. They also have never experienced never ending chronic pain to understand what you learn to hide behind a smile or push through. The judgment is awful and this just adds more judgment to those who need pain meds.
I was in the hospital for 200 days in 2016. We finally tried pain meds. They are the only way I tolerate the pain enough to be able to eat and not starving in a hospital bed. I’m so sick of the judgment. the fear of judgment made me refuse pain meds for the first 4 years. I was 87 pounds and dying. Pain meds saved my life. But people will judge.
@@ashruz_3095 I’m so glad someone gets it! Unless a person finds themselves in that situation they’ve got no idea how they’d “handle” it. People LOVE to judge. I’m sick to death of all people being painted with one brush. What do people think those in chronic pain DO? Lay around immobile and cry? Lol when it’s 24/7 for years and nothing stops it…. You learn to deal. There’s a BIG DIFFERENCE in going out for dinner and doing HOUSEWORK lol! Thank you for replying,and understanding! 🌹
@@ashruz_3095 I’m so sorry you’re going through that. I’ve had 4 major spine surgeries, hundreds of procedures, need neck surgery and both knees replaced.
I’ll be under Drs care monthly for life! Thankfully I have a great Dr!
I also refused to take meds because of the fear and stigma. Till I couldn’t stand not having a life.Even with meds I’m still always in pain… but it helps. And I fake I’m not in pain well lol. It’s nobody’s business. I’d sneak away on break and cry…
I don’t know the full story with this woman, but this is the only topic I disagree with Dr Phil completely.
I get he’s trying to combat the opiate “epidemic”. I’m sick to death of people who’ve got zero clue what living in constant pain is like, lecturing others.
I wish you well! We’ve got spots reserved in heaven lol! 🌹
@@erust9465 yes exactly going out to dinner or a movie is totally different than housework. Does no one see that? There's no doubt the daughters were abused and mom doesn't seem to understand how abusive she was, nor know how to apologize.
This woman may not be a nice lady but chronic pain is totally legitimate.
That's called child abuse
If she was such a terrible mum then why would they try to save her.
SMH, Dr . Phil your needed here .......BIG TIME !!
Bad , bad, bad....
How cruel can you be to your mother I despise this Program today these 2 ungrateful women wait until their Mothers gone, I’d say they will regret the way they have treated her but they will probably dance with joy that’s she’s gone, how SAD 😔
Ily Dr phil
This is sadly most moms in America
shocking but really not that shocking. This is the behaviors of a lot of mothers today, we live in an opioid epidemic!
Oh yea the skiing and camping totally makes up for the STRANGULATION, definitely equates to a “good childhood”
Wtaf
🙏🏼
Granted, she's done terrible things to her children, but going to a movie or out to lunch and sitting and enjoying it is different than doing household chores or shopping. Even going a cruise she can sit, enjoy the meals, enjoy the view. She can just STOP taking the pain meds without going in to withdrawal, regardless of whether they are medically necessary or not. She would have to go through medicated withdrawal. Most people don't understand that.
I've lived in chronic debilitating pain for 13 years. Even with realistic expectations of a "healthy" level of pain relief from drugs, I became dependent pretty quickly. Most people want 100% pain relief but that's not realistic at all. Over the years I fluctuated in dosage and frequency to find a balance with varying degrees of success. Once I incorporated Cannabis into the equation I found that balance. The Cannabis doesn't so much directly relieve pain, but it expertly manages the anxiety that comes with it. I'm now able to deal with the steady constant level of pain without narcotics and allow myself a single 10mg dose of Oxycodone. That single dose gives me a 4 hour window of relief that allows me to do everyday chores. I still have to take breaks but at least I can almost keep up with cooking, cleaning and personal hygiene. The Best part is I can quit taking the narcotics with Zero repercussions at any time.
Hmm my kids started working with me in our home from when they were about 4 years. They better never say I abused them. They learned to do dishes and dust surfaces before I mop. Now they are all above 13 years and they can prepare at least 2 decent meals & each one can mop half our home if I am unable & we don't have a helper. Kids must learn to work. Work must motivator humans.
Wow
Did she get her animals taken off her????
My old head gone off them Perkys and xans I feel you grandma do ya thang sniff them they better if you seein this and drink two beers off half a xan great combo don’t let the daughters fool you you golden grandma !
so you would rather she was in constant pain?
She may be on more than she should be. BUT Judging someone’s pain bc they can go out to eat is ridiculous. Clearly they’ve never experienced true chronic pain. Or know what a smile can hide. The medication helps the pain so that she can live. You want her to be at home in the fetal position instead of our living. That’s what’s sad.
The daughters are angry that she asks them to bring in cat litter? Drugs, or not, I would never let my mom lift more that 10 pounds.
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Congrats.
These women need to stay out of the sun!
😂😂😂. I know!! That is her form of Child Abuse......Not telling her girls to use sunscreen.!!
I kept thinking that one was a "burn victim" her skin was so bad.
I have Metastatic Melanoma, so these ladies need to watch out.
I don’t trust nobody named Blanche 😂
My mom didn’t either I have Asian mom lol she never let us clean 🧼 because we never did it right lol
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Your in your 50’s get over it.
Wait....what? Get over this toxic woman as a “mother?”
I've seen your posts before.....ridic.
not receiving love from your mother is hard to get over at any age
I agree! I’m not saying chocking your child is ok, but at some point you need to forgive, and let go. Holding a grudge for 35 or more years is stupid.
@@Joy-ne8sj wow....these sisters are obviously troubled by what happened to them...maybe they never sought help for that until now. But it’s good to know that you aren’t ok with that toxic mother choking her own child to stop her from crying.....SMH.